1. Your biggest cheerleader 2. Nonverbal contact 3. Checks-in with you during the day 4. Partner in Shine- got your back. 5. Excited to meet your people. 6. He isn’t focused on physical intimacy as he is emotionally attached. 7. He can’t wait to share YOU with his world.
@@helensanderson7092 I agree with u Helen. I did have that, but he wasted my time and never proposed to me, tried to move-in together nothing. Just had me for 13 years and did nothing with me so I left.
My current husband hit all of these on the head. This is my best relationship ever and being married to him, I still get the same treatment as when we were dating and engaged. It's incredible to have this level of love.
@@britvica I went through a divorce that was horrible. The ex still stalks me online so it's a force of habit to say current when talking about my husband so the ex doesn't think it's him I love. Long, dark story but there's a method to my madness.
When I knew... I bought him engraved crystal whiskey glasses. Years later... Out of the blue he sent me a pic of himself totally relaxed, drinking from it. And he told me I was the best he has ever had and called me his Queen and said that I will always get the best of him. He is stoic. And does not blow smoke or give false hope. Some time later, I spent the weekend with him. Friday was lit, Saturday was wild. Sunday, we cuddled all day. Talked, laughed, non pyshical intimacy. Monday, we had coffee, he made breakfast. We chatted for hours. I knew then.
No matter what you going through don’t feel depressed and don’t let anyone or anything make you feel less of yourself because in every problem there’s a solution and in relationships you can also get the specific person you want to love you ! You can get help in everything you want, only if you ask for help.
Yep! Mine does all of the above! He texts me first thing in the morning, as soon as he wakes and calls me immediately after work. He’s been doing that everyday for 11 months.
@@stacey4051 Try not to worry about it. Some dudes just don't simp and prefer to wait until they can actually sit down and actually have a meaningful convo and actually spend time with you before they message etc. Thats how my bf is. He literally said he purposely gets all his ish done before contacting me so we can have the rest of the time together with minimal interruptions.
Looks like my best friend is really in love with me....i was confused about his behaviour....every signs matches clearly... .i think we are meant for each other..he treats me different than other girls....we have a beautiful connection Between us.....keep us in your prayer.....
I saw my love in a (dream) when I was 13 years old. I met him in person in 1973 when I was 31 years old. He and I looked at each other as if we had met before. We were married to other people at the time, but it didn't really matter. We had our time together (off and on) for 40 +years Every thing you said about his love for me is so true. I am 77 years old now and he passed away in 2016. I miss and love him so much 😢.
Sounds like a twin flame? You dream about them before you meet them, they feel like home, it feels like you've known them for decades, centuries even when you just met them..How magical and beautifully romantic to have a connection like that. Maybe you will be able to reconnect in another lifetime. 💕
@@saijanaswamy7210 this is a past life connection, not a “twin flame” one, which is BS. The only spiritual unions that exist are soul mate, past life, and positive or negative karmic connections. And all of this is pre-determined via peoples nakshatras in sidereal Vedic astrology (Jyotish), as some people are made to be perfect matches for one another, while some are made to be enemies, and others are neutral.
aw Mat. My intuition is totally telling me that you are absolutely besotted with this new lady in your life. I'm sooo happy for you. All that inner work is paying serious dividends for you now.
Aw, I hope so! He texts me every day, even while he’s at work (and vice versa), and he’s always so “proud” when I accomplish the most mundane things (like my daily workout!).
Great video, Mat. I remember very early on, my new bf took me to his boss's house to have Sunday dinner with his family. That struck me as quite a committed sign as we'd only been together quite a short time.
Love your videos, I’ve been single for over 13 years and appreciate the details of what to look for, personally in my culture, men are not afraid to show affection and let you know how much they are interested in learning everything about you, if he thinks about you , he doesn’t hide it!!!!
I felt happy and complete that all this sign matches while my heart already know. I am madly in love that my heart beats like a love songs everytime I think of him. Some point I dont need to question my emotions because you knew it that you both in the same page and honesty. when a man checks you in every hour and call you if you safely arrive on your way home.
He has even told me that he wished he had met me first. He would even leave the meeting he was in to see me. He even introduced me to his friends, and I would introduced him to my friends. 💗
Hello!! I have had a few guys that when they hug me, they actually take a whiff of MY HAIR! LOL! I don't know why guys like to sniff my hair but apparently they like it. I wonder if their is science behind why guys actually take in your scent in that way. This one guy was so obvious about it!😄😄 I was like what was that? He said idk your hair smells good! Is that weird?? Is this something that happens often? Is it just me??
I will wait. Someday, the truth will be revealed. Hopefully, this person gets the courage to speak his truth, time don't wait, and other things could happen. we're not going to be here in this world forever.
My crush was like this: He always changed seats to sit next to me. He always found a reason to talk to me even though we weren't close. He always smiles around me. He always made me laugh. I always caught him looking at me. He always complimented me. He always greeted me with "Good morning," "Take Care," and "good luck." He always cheered for me in any activities we did in class. He always showed he cared for me; by asking "Are you okay" something like that, and he helped me with things even if I didn't ask him to or rejected his help, he still insisted. I also noticed that his friends were trying to hint something. When his friend asked him, "What do you like in a girl?" he totally described me🤦🏻♀️. When he saw my father outside the school, even if he was busy, he approached him, introduced himself, acted very politely, and talked to him. There were a lot of signs that he showed he liked me, but I didn't want to assume because that time I wasn't confident with my looks because I have a lot of pimples and he's so handsome and rich. I felt like he was too good for me to like me. But one time, our instructor asked us about our weaknesses. When it was his turn, he said, "A girl" while looking at me.
Please don't say that you are beautiful as you are in psychology we have something names attractive between souls it's not about physical shape but about behavior or about your personality is more attractive . So girl you are pretty ❤
I realized that the guy I'm talking to fancies me a bit more because he decided to mention that I made a change to myself and complimented it and even though I made a joke about putting me in his luggage next time he travels, he responded with "of course". If you knew our history you would be like, "Oh wait a minute"... He lives out of state, so I have to listen how he says things especially since he's an introvert.
*Perhaps we are in this world to search for love, find it and lose it, again and again. With each love, we are born anew, and with each love that ends, we collect a new wound. I am covered with proud scars.*
Lol, bless your heart. It's not called "catching feelings" because it is so elusive and you finally get it. It's called that because it's being likened to catching a disease.
VIDEO QUESTION - What are the biggest signs YOU'VE seen that a man is catching feelings? What did I miss? Would love to hear them in the comments below! 🤗
When I first met my man, he asked if he could keep a photograph he really liked of me so he could sent it to his parents back home in Australia. That made me feel he was pretty into me.
He's willing to offer his help whenever you need it even if it's not convenient for him to do so and you don't always have ask. Like helping with repairs or chores around your house or coming to aid if your car broke down. The love language acts of service
When he notices that you need something fixed and does it without you asking him or expecting him to. Mine noticed my tires were almost bald when I showed him a picture of my jeep. He called the Walmart in my town( he is in FL. I'm in Ca.) and paid for new tires . Totally blew me away. He said he wanted to know I was safe . This was before he flew out to visit me last week. By the time he got off the plane I knew he was a keeper ! P. S. Visit went fantastic ! He is moving here to be with me .
I loved to know that because I was married to a narcisist for about 17 years and a half, which changed me so badly that I almost lost myself. Now, 3 years after getting divorced, someone has appeared and now I am afraid and excited at the same time. Afraid because I was traumatized by the previous relationship, and excited because this man is so different. And guess what!!! He fits all this 7 signs. ! OMG! I am truly happy! Thanks for sharing it. ❤
I believe when a man wants to get to know me better he wants to talk to me about anything and everything, and I can laugh with him endlessly and be myself
Tbh, he is actually doing all these things... And idk if it's just me imagining too much or... But he actually Is doing all these... Thank you so muchN
Hi Mat. I just want to apologize for the women commenting in a rude, negative, or personal way. Ladies, Mat is trying to help you. You have a choice to watch or not. And please stop making thirsty comments about him when he has already stated he is in a relationship. That's disrespectful. Saying you don't like his hair a certain way is beyond ridiculous. Carrying on this way is indicative of who you are as a person and will prevent you from finding real, lasting love. You know you'd be upset if Mat was telling you to change yourself to please a man. So don't tell him how to act or look or talk. MAT.... keep doing you, dear. You are appreciated and supported 🙏
I think this is still true of platonic attachment. I have a number of platonic male friends I've loved for decades and we do these things for one another. My poly partners do these things after 17 years of successful life sharing at an even more profound level. This video made me feel really lucky
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Nobody likes me this way. I don't experience these things from others. Usually it's there's for a few weeks and then it was all words. Guys aren't with the right intensions anymore. They don't want 1 person.
there is a difference between what it should be and what it is, every man will have his individual language..just so you know..a lady's response and his experiences will shape how he shows it.
You're absolutely right. Building a healthy and meaningful relationship requires mutual understanding, respect, and effective communication between partners.🙏❤
Hello to whom it may concern I can recomend you to someone that helped me get my ex back and I believe he can also help you to attract back your lover and solve your relationship problems 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Mine doesn’t like to text & he’s also not a big talker. We really struggled in the beginning but after a few months (& arguments) he started trying. It was & still is small steps but at least he’s trying and I had to learn it wasn’t personal against me & need a bit less attention sometimes.
A little thing my bf did that warmed my heart was I was making a recipe I had never done before and I mixed up the measurements for two of the ingredients. He ate it and told me it was good even though it wasn't. Lol
Mine is been doing all of this (and more) for a whole year, he's my new neighbor and long engaged with another girl. I think he is just starting to realize he has feelings enough to break up
Does this really pertain to us older damaged people too? 🤔😂 If a man has 2 failed marriages I hardly think he's going to rush to introduce any woman to his friends and family even if he does have feelings for her. Right or wrong?
Certainly! Given two failed marriages, it's natural for someone to be cautious about introducing a new partner to friends and family. Past experiences influence the pace of new relationships, and taking it slow is a sensible approach. Thanks for sharing!
Yeah, that’s the thing I’m unsure I’ve experienced. A guy I used to work for didn’t notice me for years. When he did start to notice me and not just see me as another employee, it was was through stares and, finally, some pretty obvious sexual innuendo. I’d long found him attractive but, I really didn’t know where he was going, in his mind. Was he looking for reciprocity? What did he think would happen, if I did reciprocate. He was my boss AND married. Was he actually doing it to get me fired? Was he just more bored with his daily life, than interested? Of course, the question was - was it just sexual or did he actually have real feelings? I knew I couldn’t disrespect his wife and I didn’t want to become the company slut so, I didn’t really reciprocate. But, it SURELY wasn’t because I didn’t have a very hard crush on him.
@@TheSharronW yeah, I’ve never been involved with a married man but, I know it can all “seem” rather innocent, organic and genuine but, bottom line, is that I already knew I’d find myself both angry and in a lot of trouble, with a tarnished name.
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Hello to whom it may concern I can recomend you to someone that helped me get my ex back and I believe he can also help you to attract back your lover and solve your relationship problems 💎🙏🙏🙏🙏
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Hi Matt this popped up in my feed and I want to say thank you for making a concise yet well presented video👍🏻and for recapping at the end👏🏻the signs are so simple yet sometimes we forget what we should be looking for in a guy😅 It's sad that alot of women don't get this kind of talk from their fathers when they hit the dating age
Mine did this. Was there to support me during incredibly difficult times. Texted me nearly every morning when he woke up. We had such compatible hobbies, we were always trying new things together and planning the next thing. I met all of his friends, he met mine. Even during his busiest weeks he always made the time to see me. If I needed help he would be there. We became an integrated part of each other's lives and the intimacy was never rushed into. But he just broke up with me, out of the blue. I'm so lost.
I'm really sorry you're going through this. It must be incredibly confusing and painful. Take your time to process, and if you need support, reach out to friends. You're not alone.
OMG, I see the signs alredy-- I can NVR be so wrong w/ this I know deep dwn he's my BIGGEST cheerleader; he's sooooo consistent n he has his way of checkin in w/ me; oh he REALLY, REALLY isn't rushing into having physical intimacy w/ me...oh so my Mr.Rigght, my SOULMATE nga alright.....that's so intriguing yet scaryyyyy!!!!
@@mackjarodo4209 Ha! You are ON it. Thanks for looking out for my best dating interests. Should I provide a slate of potential prospects and their profiles, too?
This is the first clip that I've watched from this channel. Well...I like the way you present these contents, it's attractive and make me focus on your content in every bit of word. Actually, I've some issue with my boyfriend now, but when I finished listening this VDO, I just...hmm...he has all these 7 tips...Maybe, I should give him a chance and proof himself...Thank you so much for this VDO.
Thanks Mat, you just answered a lot of questions that I had . Still not quite sure as I have only been talking on the phone and texting back and forth for a few months now as he is on a work assignment in the UK. He was in SF to start.
Someone I know hid his now wife from me and his friends and family for over a year because he wanted to make sure it was going to work out. I would want to introduce whoever I'm dating to people in my life
My best friend is in love eith me. He has my back and i have his. He has his partner in shine and I have my partner in shine. He working like crazy this week cause he is coming over here to get me. He has bought us a house and I am moving in with him. He's not pushy on the sex thing. He only talks about hugging, kissing, wants to hold hands everywhere we go. Neither of us have done the family or friends yet.
The last couple of days there has been no good morning messages. I wonder if he is suddenly hesitant. The other day he said to me love you and I said nothing back. 😆 I hope he's not upset about that. I am just not ready to say I love you even if I do love him. As far as sharing me with his world, I'm not sure he has done that. I know his friend knows about me but I don't know if anyone else in his life knows. But the rest is something he does.
i cant believe a CEO is actually falling for me. coz i am in doubt coz he keeps me updated and volunteering to help me. i mean he is a CEO. like what??? he even said sorry. like i never see him accept any defeat. but he said sorry? like wow... woww.. he keeps saying im here, dont forget that im here. i promise to share my harvest with you. hmmm wow
Has it been known for anyone at anytime that it came to your attention that you were being scammed by someone on line but seems like this person has really fallen in love with you is it at all possible for a scammer to change because he's fallen in love with you
