Ikr same he left months ago. then text me today asking if I’m seeing someone!? Boy bye you rolled the dice 🎲 and walked away so you fucked around and found out.😂🎉🎉🎉 👍🏽.
My dad was so wise. He told me along time ago before he died. He said if u keep going back to your past. How will u ever find your future? What u say dad. He said daughter he’s a X for a reason.
Some come back just because they failed to find someone else. They wouldn't regret sh1t if they were successful. They'd be talking crap about you to another woman right now if they could.
No they wouldn’t. Yeah a little boy might do that.. if the relationship was short.. maybe.. but if the relationship was a real one.. The man will miss you. Don’t play “bigger person” If you want him TELL HIM. Men feel unwanted and low enough already in this world.. So letting him know that he means something is a great way to pour into him.
Only if he reaches out first, don't bring up nothing other than how he gon make it up to ya. Use ya imagination naming the consequences for his actions
u could and will spot it tho, if yall were young maybe he just was young and stupid and now he regrets it bc he found out u were his ideal girl and grew up, is it likely? no but it could be true trust ur instincts which i think u have but dont just mess it up for everyone saying simple things like this
absolutely, thats what happened to me just now, stuoid me i fell for it, wanted relationship so much i ignored ALL red flags which were very red. totally disappointed
@@raqueledwards6061how so? Just cuz you say something that sounds profound doesn’t make it true or even logical in the slightest. (Those words are literally synonymous)
@@richym3899 whatever okay LOL maybe so that's because I'm not the most logical person I'm more emotional I think with my heart and not my head but obviously you probably don't get that so it's irrelevant to the point but thanks for your comment have a nice day 😹🤣😂😜
@@raqueledwards6061 okay….? As cute as you thought your response was, I didn’t attack your character. I just made an observation that you two don’t know the meaning of those two words. Sorry if I ruined your day, it wasn’t my intention 🙏🏾
@@richym3899 it's okay LOL it would be an absolute shame if I have lived on this purple 37 years and don't know the difference between the two words I actually do but it's okay thank you for your apologies no harm done♥️👍🙏🫶
I DIDNT IT WAS MY FIRST RELATIONSHIP AND I MISS HER SO FUCKING MUCH I DIDNT UNDERSTAND THE TRUE VALUE OF HER SND I MESSED UP AND NOW SHE HAS TOLD ME FO MOVE ON SHE HAS ANOTHER MAN I I REALLY JUST WANT TO DIE
exactly they're done that too many times and I found somebody else that I care about and that I may be in love with that I see a future but I'm trying to take it slow
I love this! My sons birthday is Sunday so the narc I know is trying to “further the fake” by pretending to be a family that day. I’m staying the course… ignore, ignore, protect my peace, ignore.
Yep I got all three .. asked to be friends as well , I said I can’t go from romance to friendship. She said I want to see you , I said are you asking me on a date , she said I just want to see you , I said nah unless you ask me on a date . Friends catch up , I don’t want to be friends . She then said will you come on a date with me .. I said yes but I want to take things slow you broke up with me so my trust has been damaged. But I’m open to rebuild things slowly.. thanks coach your videos have been awesome .. yes I used the no contact rule and all the tips coach has given..
The ex moved on fast n dated someone else n took her on vacation. He was her sugar daddy. But, that rebound ain’t working out so well. He’s been coming around a lil more. We share a 22 months old but I still think he’s trying. Showing all the signs. Smh. I’m good tho… peace out homie
Never go back. Never take him back. He showed you how he feels about you and your child. Get the child support the baby deserves and walk. Don't you dare look back!
This is why when a relationship with an ex ends you cut off all communication, especially if you know they’re not the one you want to marry. The relationship ended for a reason. Narcissists do everything he’s describing & they don’t want you back because they miss you & etc they want you back just to mistreat you all over again. Walk away.
Run far from the narcassist.. Dont wait or hold ya breath for an apology or regrets. Dont feel sorry for them and stop sounding like you miss them excuses 24/7. Run mi seh🏃♂️🏃♀️🏃♂️🏃♀️🏃♂️🏃♀️🚫
I'm good 😂 FYI please don't take this short seriously. Narcassist and toxic people also do these things and it's not because they miss you or regret how they treated you. Some people are just comfortable with you and others just want you back, so they can have the upper hand. If you broke up with someone or they broke up with you, the best thing you can do for yourself is move forward and find someone you deserve.
Toxic sign they want u back -They talk crap about u to others -They appear pissed or sad on social media -The reach out to argue for emotional response. Dont go back its a trap.
You shouldn't be checking for ex boo. Block him and move on. Why do you need an apology? Would you believe it? His actions showed you who he really was. If you're done, then you shouldn't have any contact with him. YOU control that!
Try 16+ years. She left me for some acquaintance friend of a friend, came back, we had a son and now she went back to him. Still trying to finalize the divorce. The bum she went with is 30yrs old, still living with his parents and has no papers. Tsk tsk
If they treat you like you don't exist. Hurt you on a regular basis. Put you down all the time. Don't show the love that your giving them. Or anything else. Just let them go. They have no empathy for anyone but themselves. If they cant see or care about all the memories you have and how low and shite they made you feel. Get rid of them. You deserve better in your life.
@BeautyQueen2023XHer comment didn’t imply anything of that nature. Yet you’re reaching. It’s clear that you did somebody wrong and you strongly dislike this video that’s pin-pointing your Karma. Enjoy.
My precious Daddy woke me up for school by knocking on the wall flicking on and off the light and saying Rise And Shine Peewee time for school. I honor him in Heaven knowing he's crying for all unfree children that's all of humans being used up and not knowing it for 17 years. Daddy I saw Heaven but not before my x made me walk through his real devel and the secrets held are never outloud but you can feel it your gut and God will hang them where the sun won't shine on their crowns. My ex made critical recklessly and preplanned a new one in me I've never been so ashamed with human beings acting this out on any level it will be fixed but on Gods Time and justice is coming. Run angels run with me. Don't stay behind trust and believe the Holy Spirit came on me through the darkest days I spent closest to a real devil that's waiti g in him now.
This is 100% true. I left my home state 5 years ago. But before I left I thought I was dating a grown man. He asked me don't move to Georgia but I did but 18 months after I left he got married to another woman. But he told me that we were not officially hitched so I moved on to Georgia. Within the last 6 months he been trying to ask me to friend him on my Facebook I told him I'm glad he happy to be married and I hope him and his wife be together forever. But you need to move around on me 😁🎤
No contact is only something men should do. because a woman asking to come back is fine. The man may or may not want to reconcile but it will not make him see her any worse. because women are allowed to be vulnerable and needy. men don't mind that. if a man asks to get back the woman sees him as weak and needy thus lowering the attraction further. so as always it's in the woman's hands
How about a resounding NO to #1, #2 and #3. An EX is that for a reason and/or REASONS. NEVER forget WHY because, IF you do, you'll have some regrets to talk about; that is if you are still alive. 🤔
Totally I'm almost at body death prayers angels run don't touch em they will see. You must run with me every child needs Tus level of humanity taken to their rightfull place. Hell in earth is for the ones to be held and will be reaching zero elevation
I don’t even need sign number one. If they break up with me what they do and feel after the fact is not my business or concern. Should have thought twice
You should seek some therapy and I'm not saying that in a degrading way I'm saying it because you tell him how he made you feel and the 6 years you were together is not going to hurt him the way that you were hurt and I understand people tell people how they felt thinking that they'll be hurt in the same way it never goes that way that's just the truth
I agree, some do not even deserve a face-to-face. Voicemail, text, or a letter is good enough especially if you were disrespected and called them out over and over. It's not about being cold... We must value our self-worth, and take back our power.
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Once a breakup happens, I block and delete it immediately!!! The pain is real, and I definitely don't wanna be reminded of the bs!!! I also let them know NOT to contact me any futher, peacefulness shall be regained.
You are so good at what you do. This is so on point. I found out that I'm pregnant by my ex and when I told him, he wanted to step up and he's actually been treating me very well. He said he wanted to come see me so he picked me up and he actually took me on a proper date. He said he just wanted to do things like we did before. He wanted it to be like old times and it was. Of course we're not jumping right back into a relationship especially not because of our daughter but I just thought it was nice. I left him and first we were at each other's throats but it was nice to get to a good place with him. I hate feeling like I have any enemies but sometimes in this life people are not going to like you. I'm getting off track though. It was nice to catch up and to actually have it feel like old times again.
@@biancalord488, don't let him in. Make an appointment with the courts that he can only see him through supervision through the courts. Change your locks and when you get a chance save money and move to an unknown place tell your children don't give him the addressor new phone number. If he wants to talk it must be supervised because it is not ok you don't care what lies he tells them. This is for your safety and protection and find another job where he does not know where you work at. You have to let the beast in you come out. You have this take your time if you need to get counseling do that. Here are some pointers I've learned along the way. Some one suitable, reliable. Genius, supportive, good work ethics etc. There is more you can add your list too. You are going to need a car so get your driver's license ok. Make it work. It will be hard but guess what your child or children won't be little forever. You must work as a team. Peace and blessings.
They can ask or watch my stories all they want. I got ghosted after 4 years together and if she ever dares to try to contact me, she’s gonna be disappointed I’m not interested.
No marriage after 4 years....no wonder you got ghosted. She was probably gone after year 3 and decided not to wait any longer allowing you to waste her time. Men are slow asf!!!
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A man walks their is already one to replace them men are like buses one every 15 min but they haven't figured out that first date is their interview to the next date
These are also signs of a time wastimg, non committal guy reaching out for his dopamine hit. As long as they do not want to mend the mistakes and come up to your level in the relationship, it is going to be just another cycle of the same BS. Don't fall for it and please stop encouraging people to wait and settle for bread crumbs.
I got heart broken by a boy. Then we got back together like it never happened. Then I broke up with him. I regret it. I think I still have that ring he gave me. I might ask him if we can get back together.I think he’s dating though. That makes me sad. 2 likes and I might ask him
@@Pollys_world49 I know as young person, ur emotions can be rampent but relationships at this age(in my opinion) only create suffering and no concrete results (rarely), instead u should try focusing on building skills or hobbies at this age.... And relationships once u a proper adult. Coz if anything goes wrong u will be traumatized for that for a long time.... After its ur life do whatever u like
They don’t regret losing you. They’re breadcrumbing you as a way for them to keep you on the back burner while they explore other options, maintain a sense of control and stroke their ego.
That's right I experienced this 3yrs ago and just last year. Thanksgiving dinner at her mom's house, and Christmas with the dame woman for six years. Everything you saying is correct
Here: why would I want someone to be in regret? It's an uncomfortable feeling. I would rather them be happy, so he won't bring his neglectful a** back over here.
During an argument, I had a moment of weakness and spoke from a place of fear and anger. She took that and slept with another dude and month later engaged and moved in with the new guy. Yet I'm here being fool wanting back what Is gone 🤦
I may just be 13 and my ex was the only thing holding me to gether and when she left me i went through a mager depression stage and now that i have fownd this cuz she has been ackting like that 24/7 so thank you so much for posting this.
