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3 SIMPLE Tests to figure out if YOUR EX still has FEELINGS for you 

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3 definitive tests to see if your ex still has feelings for you
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@blacademic
@blacademic Год назад
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@free2bme604
@free2bme604 Год назад
Will be signing up soon
@keisha_Molina7
@keisha_Molina7 Год назад
How do you know if your ex still has feelings for you if you cannot do that no contact thing because they live with you and your Family because they say your Family is like Family to them and they say you are like a friend and a sister to them if anybody have any answers please feel free to leave a comment because this is my situation right now thank you
@Lia-ke8hc
@Lia-ke8hc Год назад
I have a situation
@cruzidora
@cruzidora Год назад
There's really a lot of people using someone elses name to hard to trust anyone specially fake people
@geoffcooper617
@geoffcooper617 5 месяцев назад
Im trying to buy your journal , where can i find it? The link says sold out
@markcruz5989
@markcruz5989 Год назад
If you didn't do anything wrong or cause any arguments and drama why would you want someone that was willing to walk away from you just like that. Most of the times it's because someone else is giving them the attention and you're the backup. Value yourself, the world has too many people in it to worry about one individual. I walked away and found someone so much better and actually treats me like a king and her my queen.
@spell-caster1h9o8r
@spell-caster1h9o8r Год назад
Message him👆👆👆 Don't just stand there doing nothing to get your ex back I am recommending you to a spell caster who can help you bring back your ex and clear every negative energy around you
@cruzidora
@cruzidora Год назад
I cannot trust anyone that have hurt my feelings specially those who love to lie,reason why I give my mind my heart to God than to believe every sweet words that coming out from any man voice and God knew that I'm not a lier. I will let God the one to judge them
@rrboss3721
@rrboss3721 Год назад
100% Mark.
@DT-kl7uf
@DT-kl7uf Год назад
No offense, but I bet they have a different opinion than you...3 sides to every story...theirs, yours,the truth.
@jaydrollins6875
@jaydrollins6875 Год назад
@@DT-kl7uf absolutely agree.
@Euphoryaaa
@Euphoryaaa Год назад
1. No Contact 2. Do they want to see you? 3. Do they get jealous?
@glendasantiago9253
@glendasantiago9253 Год назад
3 out of 3 😂
@vorbis4860
@vorbis4860 4 месяца назад
@@glendasantiago9253 Yep. Now she has to leave her abusive husband for "the love of her life."
@Liavx77
@Liavx77 Год назад
She broke up from me 3 months ago from no where after long relationship, im in no contect for month now , im feeling better now still think about her allot but its the best thing to do for myself, the first two months after the break up was the hardest time in my life... was in so much pain because we were still talking for a bit and she telling me how much she still love me and miss me but she cant be with me no more because she dont see future for some resson when was a time she was... man i gave her all and builld myself to be able to take care of us in the future and she just threw a good guy away for nothing... time will heal me, i guess she wasnt the right one for me :(
@dphat_media
@dphat_media Год назад
It definitely hurts
@Zzz3331
@Zzz3331 Год назад
Least she didn’t lead you on and waste your life away
@fiercemillionaireproject3824
Damn that is tough man
@Liavx77
@Liavx77 Год назад
Last week she likes some of my old photos on social media , i really trying not to break the no contact to show her that she cant play with me no more… that she see how life without me now, she cant tell me move on with my life but she keep saying i love you and like my photos , we met 2 times after the break up and she was all over me show affection and love idk what the problem with that girl she make it so hard to me
@Salinassss
@Salinassss Год назад
You most likely destroyed her emotional safety happens a lot and we don’t even know we have done it and your partner doesn’t know how to explain it
@elodinesoukou9184
@elodinesoukou9184 Год назад
Omg 😂😂 I love this guy. Just when I was expecting him to say break no contact or smth he just said the opposite. Thanks for encouraging us coach blac !
@bfcfan2739
@bfcfan2739 10 месяцев назад
Don’t waste time torturing yourself get on with your life nd focus on becoming the best version of you you can be. If you’re looking for happiness outside of yourself you’ve got a long search ahead
@pimpindistress101
@pimpindistress101 Год назад
I haven't spoke with my ex since August of 2022. Last week just for the hell of it I reached out with a basic message saying hey hope everything's been going good for you. The next morning I realized my message wasn't delivered meaning that she must have had me blocked from texting her. So I left her alone and let it be then from out of nowhere she sent me a meme I responded with a LOL and left it at that. Then the next morning she sent me another meme saying Saturday morning jokes and once again I responded with just lol and went about my day. Later that day she actually called me and we spoke for like an hour. And now a week later she invited me to go to a concert and she wants to come hang at my house all this came from her. I didn't push the conversation and try to meet up with her she came up with it all on her own. So no contact definitely can work cuz she's making little comments that she wants to get freaky and I don't have any problem with that... Lol. Thanks for all your advice it really helped.
@gege6883
@gege6883 Год назад
BUT, ARE YOU GOING TO MARRY HER OR JUS SIN FORNICATE, BABY OUT OF WEDLOCK
@Servietskigor
@Servietskigor Год назад
Where are you two now ? Are you together again ? What was the reasons that she broke up with you ?
@lucylights8065
@lucylights8065 Год назад
Update?
@sams517
@sams517 11 месяцев назад
Don’t leave us hanging. Give us an update
@pimpindistress101
@pimpindistress101 11 месяцев назад
@@sams517 were still in contact and she invited me to a few concerts and boogie boarding at a nice beach, but she doesn't reach out often so I'm just letting her be and come around at her own pace. So long story short we're still in contact but ilas of right now it's now what it used to be...
@evolvingscorpio5031
@evolvingscorpio5031 Год назад
This is interesting....if I go no contact on you I'm done ..if you go no contact on me I'm done ...never been the one to play games.. if you missed a opportunity with me .. then just deal with it ...I'm not coming up with a strategy to get you back 🤦‍♀️
@anthonyr7208
@anthonyr7208 Год назад
My ex reached out to me even though she’s in a new relationship and I completely went 👻….. No time for the nonsense
@scottmiller9374
@scottmiller9374 Год назад
Thanks. My ex just hit me up after 3 months of no contact. I will be using your recommendations.
@sams517
@sams517 11 месяцев назад
Asking to get back together? Just to meet up to catch up? Or what?
@talesis1
@talesis1 6 месяцев назад
She broke up with me and cheated and asked me to move out and I dI’d. 1 day removed and I’m getting bread crumbs. She’s send texts about things that don’t matter and day 2 sending me pictures of us together. Let’s see how far it goes. I’ll give an update in the near future.
@danasmith8390
@danasmith8390 Год назад
Soooo grateful for the work u are doing...saving us from ourselves
@adelante3938
@adelante3938 Год назад
For real
@cherryorchard5600
@cherryorchard5600 Год назад
Only problem with this is if you see them everyday or frequently because you work together or school together.
@shanicrystal8671
@shanicrystal8671 Год назад
I’ve deleted his number so I manage to do no contact without temptation of reaching out. I don’t think he will reach out though. He broke it off with me, then said can we stay intouch and be friends, I said ok then he was flirting and then he suddenly stopped texting me. It’s been almost two weeks now. It was only a short fling but the connection felt special I just wish he felt it too. Thanks for your videos and advice they really help ❤
@reddqueen9722
@reddqueen9722 Год назад
This is my exact situation wowwwwww
@shanicrystal8671
@shanicrystal8671 Год назад
@@reddqueen9722 I give up now three weeks radio silence!
@sams517
@sams517 11 месяцев назад
He started flirting with you after he said “let’s be friends” ?
@shanicrystal8671
@shanicrystal8671 11 месяцев назад
@@sams517 yes, and then he dropped off the face of the earth. Looking back now I’m glad he did lol.
@joshuagilchrist9520
@joshuagilchrist9520 Год назад
I did the no contact for 2 months. Hit her up asking for something that I thought I left at our apt. Her new dude answers the phone. Talking mad shit about me. After I went back to no contact then she text me to come over so we could talk only to be setup by her new dude. Put a gun to my face and started faking. I left only to realize in reality that she honestly set me up to get shot, scare me off, or just really trying to hurt me. I will never in life speak to her again. I'm not sure what I would do if I see her again. She manipulated the whole situation. 2years together. Broke up in January now she is in love and pregnant with the rebound guy. This shit has me going back to church.
@aS__Spencer
@aS__Spencer Год назад
What the actual fuck... now that is some next level fucked up shit right there...
@FearNvl
@FearNvl Год назад
😂 not back to church my guy! Man I feel you though. I’m heart broken too
@TChalla-yg8bl
@TChalla-yg8bl Год назад
Im sorry to hear that happened to you. that was no only cold but unjustified.Karma always comes back
@basicinfo2022
@basicinfo2022 5 месяцев назад
He tested me for sure. He messaged me lying that he was moving out of the country which made me emotional and break no contact.
@jakubchaniewski7480
@jakubchaniewski7480 Год назад
She came back to me and broke up with me again after being together for a month. She lost feelings again she said. We agreed that i should tell her what shes doing wrong or what she could do better, so i did and when i was saying for example that i wanted to talk about something and i wanted some love. She listened and got sad cause she couldnt live up to my expectations she loved me and wanted IT to work out... Always saying that shes not good enough for me and that i deserve better and that she cant change. I told her multiple times that i love her for WHO she is and i would never want her to change... I was in need for emotions. Question is should i continue no contact but she said that its really over and all that. Please make a video about MULTIPLE BREAKUPS.
@yodydaye1657
@yodydaye1657 Год назад
Im really sorry but i care because no one should go through this. Its really simple. You're a 2nd option.. If someone wants to be w you they will stay by your side even if you are not fully put together. Your ex thinks there is something better out there and thats why they broke up with u. They are putting themselves out there again so that they can actively or passively find that better option which is not you. Being friends(man/woman) with your ex😂😂 = 2nd option. Go better yourself for a new partner and never look back. F them. Even if yall do get back together it won't be the same. They lost a level of respect for you that is not recoverable. They know that they will be able to leave you again and come right back when ever they want to if they are manipulative. They may even cheat. It sucks but they will suck your mental health to into a nonexistence state. You should love yourself enough to not let that happen cause you will be the only one suffering. They are an ex for a reason move on forget them immediately. Get back on your feet. Improve yourself physically - finically - emotionally - socially and go out there and find someone new and learn people's behaviors to avoid getting hurt again. Tough love my friend. keep your head up. you will meet someone better ❤
@jakubchaniewski7480
@jakubchaniewski7480 Год назад
@@yodydaye1657 I really appreciate your effort that you have put in that comment... She cried man and didn't wanted it to happen she said. She's unstable and makes stupid decisions for no reason. Recent thing was that when we got back to contact she did a nipple piercing fact after she broke up with me for the first time she after a day got into a relationship that she regret and didn't even knew why she did that now she's single still and said that she feels bad that it happen like that but she made it happen... I just don't get it, she's a good girl trust me when we were together for the first time she was perfect like really feminine loves hugs and even quit playing games for me and all that. She went into college while the first break-up and them people changed her and I told her that and I could tell that she got downgraded and I'm like damn wth happened.
@yodydaye1657
@yodydaye1657 Год назад
@@jakubchaniewski7480 here me out man as crazy as it sounds sometimes they cry because they know that you are a good guy and sadly you are not what they want they cry because they know they are hurting you. She went out and moved on to another relationship bro..😢. think about that in all aspect? Sex, hugs, kisses, deep conversations etc to someelse She found interesting. You dont deserve that. You have to be STRONG and cut her off man work on yourself. She is not good for you. She allowed herself to be downgraded. Which should tell you that she is not a valuable person. Actions in hard times and behaviors is what you need to look at. You are blind by the moments and experience.. now its time for you to upgrade from this way of thinking and to upgrade to a new girl that is feminine, cute, attractive and that can provide warm hugs to you anyone can give you that. Stay away man there are so many beautiful women out there that are slient and that are looking at you from the corner of their eyes. Work on talk to women and not getting attached because they tend to behave like this when men are not stable in physical(gym/looks) financial(career/money) emotional(calm/chill) and social(outgoing personality) aspects. They start looking for something better. They are not loyal to you but they're only loyal to themselves they will not waste time being w you and neither should you bro. Stay up!
@UdayKumar-bi5fp
@UdayKumar-bi5fp Год назад
If she really wants you, she will do everything to be with you, if not she finds alot of excuse's.
@adaptercrash
@adaptercrash Год назад
Okay this real, avoidant - now borderline personality - with psychotic depression features and I just wanted to do it again. I just leave it on... you don't need that in your life constantly desiring while not wanting and we are moving on.
@MaesRemedy
@MaesRemedy Год назад
Not every mother and best friend genuinely love. But its the fact no 1 ever uses dad as an example for me.
@ashlyjane
@ashlyjane Год назад
Judo is the best metaphor for everything in life lol, love this... first time I've ever subscribed to a channel in less than two minutes, good work! 🤟👏
@morpheus3190
@morpheus3190 9 месяцев назад
No leverage, no contact for a year and she never reached out. She has no feelings after 5 years of me giving her nothing but love. We were going to be together forever, or so she said. She is a DA, so I think she is ok never hearing from me again. She is gone I am afraid… no effort on her part, does not want to ever see or talk to me. She is seriously a cold, uncaring person.
@akshatsharma9803
@akshatsharma9803 Год назад
Why my ex girlfriend blocked me yesterday after 2 months of breakup??
@annajamjam1383
@annajamjam1383 Год назад
He broke up with me but said we should stay “friends” cause we have a good connection with each other maybe just not intimately.. we talk everyday but the conversations are as dry as a dessert and he doesn’t ask to hangout ever. I’m wasting my time. But as soon as I ignored his message for a day he messaged me. I can’t tell if there’s still feelings or not
@lottiebowdenbowden238
@lottiebowdenbowden238 Год назад
Mine done this, basically they just want to have their cake and eat it, go off to do wat they want and still want you there to help and fall back on, just stopping you from moving on. if they wanted you in there life they’d still be with you friendship is just to try make them feel better. there not a priority anymore.
@shidou2380
@shidou2380 Год назад
Same like mine tho, but i feel like they contact us just to killl their time, either they have no one to chat with or bored or got nothing to do, i dont really get it either, she keep mentioning just see me as friend but deep down i know she loves me just she still not move on from her past ex, why it always take so much for someone to overcome their toxic relationship 😞 i want her to know deserves better and have value, but now she make me like no value and reach me just to fill her time
@aBLA910
@aBLA910 Месяц назад
This is exactly what has been happening to me right now. It’s so frustrating
@ScrarNation
@ScrarNation Год назад
She called me after 3 months of our breakup i did not entertain her for a couple of weeks, then i set a meet up she refused to come meet me saying she's trying to be strong "confused " does she need strength to meet me? Its been 2months now of no contact again and i don't know what the outcome may be like.
@keithingram761
@keithingram761 6 месяцев назад
My ex did all that then said she wants to be with another dude so I immediately cut ties don’t care if she returns bro life is to short
@darkphoenixaresryu
@darkphoenixaresryu Год назад
All great tests! Thank you for sharing.
@romanbukharevich9841
@romanbukharevich9841 Год назад
Great video love it very helpful
@SevenClips__
@SevenClips__ Год назад
Broke up with my girl since January, begged and pleaded which she obviously said NO, we haven't spoken for 3 weeks now, she said she's not interested in a relationship. What's next for us?
@roothelegend182
@roothelegend182 Год назад
Leave it behind and begin a new journey for yourself
@Trueblue03
@Trueblue03 Год назад
It depends how long your relationship was … if it was a few months most likely she moved on if it’s been years give her the space she wants and you do you 👍🏾
@sidearmsgameing2124
@sidearmsgameing2124 Год назад
Same breakup in end of January and haven't talk for 20 days , she want to be friends but i refuse we had relationship over 5 years
@bellahernandez544
@bellahernandez544 Год назад
Sorry to break it to you but but you have to move on sorry
@SevenClips__
@SevenClips__ Год назад
@@bellahernandez544 just like that as if we meant nothing to each other. We didn't even break up cuz of a conflict, it was just a misunderstanding
@user-vk7zw4vw2o
@user-vk7zw4vw2o Месяц назад
Well we only talk to one another wen it's bout your child together but its hard for me because i was inlove with this man not to reach out through but i been going it for 8 months now
@rophnaicadesruisseaux8950
@rophnaicadesruisseaux8950 Год назад
He’s gone he left me I’m dead to him so he is it hurts so much for move on some point
@suzannedouglas1068
@suzannedouglas1068 Год назад
Were in diff countries. He's possessive.. gets upset if I don't pick up the phone.
@dreamwizards4358
@dreamwizards4358 Год назад
I had to cut things with my he’s so toxic in communication. Today he tried contacting me on three different apps. It’s like you haven’t intentionally called me in a month to work on things and now you trying to see how I am. SMH don’t understand narcissist
@marko1401
@marko1401 Год назад
Sve broke up with me. I never reached out again and removed her from all socials. Was she a stepping point im My journey to become better. Apsolutely.
@butchcooper2622
@butchcooper2622 Год назад
Hi , my ex broke up with me a few weeks ago. I went no contact even though she kept on telling me how and what her day was like. She has now asked me to pop in, which I did. She was very friendly and loving. Today she has contacted me again a few times. Which I gave short responses to. No she has said she feels guilty for using my good nature... what advice do you have?
@elenacampos9610
@elenacampos9610 Год назад
Even if he thinks I won’t forgive him would they still try if the care enough?
@shivatecs
@shivatecs Год назад
Thanks coach, great vid.
@hjot483
@hjot483 Год назад
I have 3 more unscheduled GOLD sessions left, but I can't schedule unless I pay for them again. You said you'd check in with me. . .Thanks AM
@blacademic
@blacademic Год назад
Not at all, no need to pay. I will coordinate follow ups with you.
@slantz9
@slantz9 Год назад
How can you tell if they are jealous & missing you when you are in no contact? & breaking no contact is the only way to find out. I’m 8 weeks into NC, it’s 3 months since breakup. She still watches all my instagram stories & likes the occasional picture post. It’s really confusing. Even though she’s on tinder (I’m not).
@Usernameblankslate
@Usernameblankslate Год назад
You don’t need to break contact to find that out. If she is still watching your stories then she still cares what you are doing. If she was really over you …she would have blocked you so she wouldn’t have to think about you or see you. I don’t watch the stories of my ex 🤷🏽‍♀️ but that’s solely because I don’t want him to know I think about him. If I could do it in secret, I would probably do it. 😂
@Usernameblankslate
@Usernameblankslate Год назад
Also get your butt on tinder! You don’t actually have to use it if you are not ready. However, you should create a profile because if she’s on tinder, she will see your profile. And if she’s still in love with you, seeing that profile will have her questioning everything. It may speed up the process of her reaching out to you.
@unluckydreamer1156
@unluckydreamer1156 2 месяца назад
@@Usernameblankslatemy ex never stopped watching my stories she just doesn’t like them anymore do you think she it’s because she cares or doesn’t
@blessingosifo6357
@blessingosifo6357 Год назад
What if your ex views your storys but still silence 8 months of Nc? Is that breadcrumbing or ego? A way to get my attention? I’m so tempted sometimes to reach out but some people say a story view means nothing. But personally if I broke up with someone on bad terms I wouldn’t view their stories
@lexciaanthony6838
@lexciaanthony6838 Год назад
I got a situation at work with an ex we been on and off for two years now he will try locking eyes with me or say some smart remarks to grab my attention I did not contact on him now this what he does to get a response outta me but you broke it off so I give in gave him some space then he explained to me he in a better place now (ok) good so I back off completely but i believe I gave him my best foot in did everything he asked and he dropped me like a bad habit
@spell-caster1h9o8r
@spell-caster1h9o8r Год назад
Message him👆👆👆 Don't just stand there doing nothing to get your ex back I am recommending you to a spell caster who can help you bring back your ex and clear every negative energy around you
@dreammsongs8338
@dreammsongs8338 Год назад
What if you go no contact and you work with them in the same place which they see you always how will it go
@spell-caster1h9o8r
@spell-caster1h9o8r Год назад
Message him👆👆👆 Don't just stand there doing nothing to get your ex back I am recommending you to a spell caster who can help you bring back your ex and clear every negative energy around you
@ariellethomas-be1qz
@ariellethomas-be1qz Год назад
Great stuff as always. I’ve been in no contact for a couple of weeks. We both have a mutual friends wedding coming up I just received the details and I’m not sure if I should break no contact to send her the info..??
@RoseannaCosta-ff6wd
@RoseannaCosta-ff6wd Год назад
I enjoy your video hopeing that u can help me out with my ex😢
@rhyn070
@rhyn070 Год назад
How long after the break up does no contact work tho me n my ex have been broken up 3-4 years now
@Smokeytalkstv
@Smokeytalkstv Год назад
My ex left me but won’t leave me alone hasn’t blocked me and still calls me crying
@Smokeytalkstv
@Smokeytalkstv Год назад
How should I read into that
@francisjatta1575
@francisjatta1575 Год назад
I met with my Ex I was on my bike I dint even see her, I was about packed then u called me. Ones I turn around I saw her I was like hey how are you doing we shakes hands from there we started talking but I was a bit slow with our conversation yet still she was standing there whiles I was sitting on my bike then I packed and move to her direction we chatted a bit then I told her I think those people are waiting for u, then she replied yes they are my sisters then I told her why not go with them as they are waiting for you. She look at me hug me then she left but yet still we are on no contact. What do you think I should do?
@dharapurohit3083
@dharapurohit3083 Год назад
Hey Coach Ive been watching your videos lately it motivates me. He suddenly dumped me was rude and then he friend zoned me. He lied about stuffs Now he says he will come back to me still has feelings but he doesnt invests in me. I still love him but how do I know that he really has feelings. I want to make him regret and get back
@jakubchaniewski7480
@jakubchaniewski7480 Год назад
Dont get back easily he wants to get back, i know that you love him but you need to not lose your cool.
@jakubchaniewski7480
@jakubchaniewski7480 Год назад
If he wants you he will try and do anything to get back with you
@jakubchaniewski7480
@jakubchaniewski7480 Год назад
If i wanted to get back with my ex for example i would send a text with a real appology and wanted to meet up in person. Dont tell him that you really missed him or what you felt or feeling. You can go to a channel called TheArtOfLove shes a Smart woman and knows what she is talking about
@dharapurohit3083
@dharapurohit3083 Год назад
@@jakubchaniewski7480 tysm
@gabrielsandoval2544
@gabrielsandoval2544 Год назад
Is no contact good in long-term relationships??
@stantheman7234
@stantheman7234 Год назад
My girl broke up with me back in late December. I spent a month begging and pleading but of course she wasn’t having it. I went into no contact about a month ago and yesterday she messaged me and asked could she use my STARZ login. Is this just bread crumbs and should I remain in no contact with her?
@daveyber3564
@daveyber3564 Год назад
It's more likely an excuse to start conversation with you to test your response so if its negative she will be like sorry I only asked and saves face..... But if you say hi how you doing, of course you can etc then she will be like I'm good how you been etc......... Its not bread crumbs, its reaching out as that request is not what I'd do to someone I don't want to know...... Would you ask that if the roles were reversed?....... Its testing the water with an excuse if it don't go the way they want....... People watch and rely to much on these videos....... Its not a game so be you...... No contact is good so you don't be needy and desperate but the main thing is its for you to focus on yourself instead of going in the wrong direction and more so for you to get used to and prepared for when they don't come back...... That's why no contact works but these video channels don't say that as they know that's what people don't want to hear...... When people come to these videos they are desperate and vulnerable and would do anything to get their partners back...... If the channel said that and more so that 95% chance you won't get back together and even if you do things won't be the same or better then no one would click and give them the veiws they want...... Non of these channels are here because they care about strangers love life...... Its for them....... But no contact is for for you to so win win....... This person 100% at that moment is reaching out but why?...... They had no issue leaving you and didn't care if they lost you for what ever their reasons and only crawl back when it didn't work out for them and if it worked out you would never hear from them again...... Big point is that if they did it once they will again and I garuntee they have done this to someone before..... You won't know as people only tell and show you what they want to
@daveyber3564
@daveyber3564 Год назад
BTW Stan after 5 yrs no contact my ex said she loved me and always has and wasn't thinking straight and regrets everything and never wants to lose me again and wants to get married and if we did part again she won't make the same mistakes and wants to get on as we have a son together etc........ That was may/June 2022...... October 2022 she wants space...... Now she digs at me for everything and is always angry tho she split from me and says she wants to get on but shows she hates me....... I remind her of what she said last year and she said "that's honestly how I felt then but I can change my mind you know"...... Leopards never change their spots my friend
@ayeshamohamed1702
@ayeshamohamed1702 Год назад
Hey Blacademic, I love your content it is so useful and it has helped me very much. Even thought I also have messed up alot when it comes to breaking no contact. I feel very confused why me ex calls me randomly but does not commit. Should I stop answering his calls?
@jodieobrien5698
@jodieobrien5698 Год назад
We broke up 7 months ago.. Been in no contact for 7.5 weeks . He just got into a rebound relationship.. but always in the past he has come in and out of life every few weeks. Is it completely over or still have chance to reunite?
@Hijabi_girl1234
@Hijabi_girl1234 11 месяцев назад
No contact coach
@daisysen642
@daisysen642 Год назад
Hi Coacy😊
@blacademic
@blacademic Год назад
Hey Daisy! Hope you’re well
@daisysen642
@daisysen642 Год назад
@@blacademic yeah coach ur advice save me😃
@keisha_Molina7
@keisha_Molina7 Год назад
How do you know if your ex still has feelings for you if you cannot do that no contact thing because they live with you and your Family because they say your Family is like Family to them and they say you are like a friend and a sister to them if anybody have any answers please feel free to leave a comment because this is my situation right now thank you
@brianbureau405
@brianbureau405 Год назад
This guys definitely read Corey Wayne’s material lol
@aparnachauhan7216
@aparnachauhan7216 Год назад
Hi COACH , I am confused:- i am in complete no contact from last 2.5 months. But where i upload whatsapp status he blockes me and a day after unblock me . Please revert what dis means .
@ND-vh7iv
@ND-vh7iv Год назад
he thinks that’s the way to watch it undercover 🤣 instead of changing the settings He is dumb
@nidhiwankhade2210
@nidhiwankhade2210 Год назад
Hey coach , my lil brother had a serious health problem and my ex got to know about this and we are in no contact over 2 months , he reached out and asked continuously for 2 days that how my brother is and even called and asked me to take care . I don’t understand what part of behaviour is this ? I am not taking this as a token of love yet I feel he dumped me so needed a reason to start the conversation, bcz his feelings were true but ego was powerful than that .
@mindfulnessndrelaxation3344
I need you your advice coach....My ex actually passed all the 3tests indicating she still likes more 5months after we broke up... recently i invited her for a date nd she came... I've just invited her to my place to chill nd she is still willing to come....am confused if i should let her into my life fully or its just not yet the right time
@rachelvk777
@rachelvk777 Год назад
I broke up with my ex. I tried to get her back for months. Then I tried to sabotage her once I realized she left state for a travel job. We have not talked in over 3 weeks. & she changed her number. I thought of driving to the state she’s in. But am hesitant. Is it over???
@bighomiejerz1123
@bighomiejerz1123 Год назад
It's over don't be a stalker
@aS__Spencer
@aS__Spencer Год назад
Definitely over. You are way out of line with your behaviour and stalking
@elliotttappin6
@elliotttappin6 Год назад
me and my ex were an online relationship ONLY, we never met. she broke up with me 5 months ago bcs i hurt her bad. a month or two ago she said she gets really jealous if i joke about a girl, and she said before that she didn’t have these jealous feelings and now she does. she also said she’s gonna fly to me and meet up with me, but now she doesn’t want to anymore. she says i’m her best friend too. i’m filled with guilt about what i did, and i’m not ready for a relationship yet, i need to do a lot of work on myself, i want her to wait for me. she said she’s completely moved on tho and we’re friends only. but idk if it’s 100% true. i need some help in this situation lmao i’ve been at the lowest point in my life for the past 5 months and i’m completely dependent on her. i’m gonna try no contact soon, but i wanna improve myself a little first to show her i’m improving. any advice?
@kingsleymax-fw1uv
@kingsleymax-fw1uv Год назад
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@kingsleymax-fw1uv Год назад
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@AnnaMubita-vo3um
@AnnaMubita-vo3um Год назад
What if he blocked you
@jeaneengant6771
@jeaneengant6771 Год назад
I'm sorry he said he don't need to be connected to anyone at this time.. I'm focusing me..
@RoseannaCosta-ff6wd
@RoseannaCosta-ff6wd Год назад
My ex contacts me now and then what should i do?😢
@stefanantonic8687
@stefanantonic8687 Год назад
Coach, after no contact if she asked to be friends how do I know if she’s asking to be friends to reconcile or just friend zoning me
@markcruz5989
@markcruz5989 Год назад
Never be friends with an ex it will make you weak in their mind and will only back fire on you later on.
@Kuramarosewhip
@Kuramarosewhip Год назад
Hey Coach Question Ex has returned to texting and calling me after a bad breakup with a narc of 5 months this month (our breakup was exactly one year ago on the first pretty much. I broke no contact and reached out only because she was feeling like she was worthless after everything and was going to... Herself over old dude/rebound and I intervened and now we have been talking over the phone and texting alot since then. I been trying to video with her but our old app to video has been oof and she refused to video in the app in the area where her ex maybe and i understand
@Kuramarosewhip
@Kuramarosewhip Год назад
Fully Understand that because that's where the ex is and that's a no go. And I don't want to be on the phone with her all the time without being seen because as of now she has been chatting and been in contact with other guys that she is talking too and they want to avenge her over dude and even been pushy pushy and not giving her space to heal even though she is like grateful because it keeps her busy from reinstalling apps to check in on old dude and feel pain again. But only in text form I been the only one she has been call and I'm trying to find a way for her to somehow video me and things like that. Sadly also she thinks of me as like a friend even though I refused and even told her that recently and she was upset with me and wanted space because she was saying we talked about it already and even thought I wanted to force her back into something with me when it wasn't the case at all and even keep telling me that I'm a good person as well and during our talks even mentioned she has still kept a folder with all our pictures in it after she brought up good and happy memories of us and even one that was about "that subject" and was talking about it and so on like we have been vulnerable with one another since she still has been dealing with her breakup. Is there anything I need to do other than trying to video and take things slow since we are long distance coach?
@uu5637
@uu5637 Год назад
I need personal help
@Katy.98
@Katy.98 Год назад
If you know that youre the ohne responsible for the break up so that your ex might have done it to protect herself only, would it be sensible to write a letter reflecting on what you did wrong and how you are currently going about it? I fear to lose her during no contact when she thinks that I am still a little toxic and time’s “better” without me… If there’s no answer I would still initiate no contact. I just want to put some things aside.
@TheEthanCouch
@TheEthanCouch Год назад
Thinking the same thing
@Katy.98
@Katy.98 Год назад
@@TheEthanCouch You mean that reaching out with a letter could be the right decision?
@Katy.98
@Katy.98 Год назад
@@TheEthanCouch I gave it to her. No contact is now that the excuse is told reinitiated.
@TheEthanCouch
@TheEthanCouch Год назад
@@Katy.98 let me know how it goes
@Katy.98
@Katy.98 Год назад
@@TheEthanCouch I will for sure. Hoping for the best!
@QuinOfficial_
@QuinOfficial_ Год назад
No contact - Blocking ?
@rommelopa2354
@rommelopa2354 Год назад
In no/limeted contact for 3 years now. Ex in new relationship. We have a young child together.... So,there is no way I can 100% cut my ex off. She knows I will be around to pick up my kid. She seems to love to talk at the pick-up moment. Sometimes probing me if there's a new girlfriend in the picture. I never give her any info.... She becomes jealous if other women talk te me or flirt with me. What do you think coach? Do I got all the bases covered?🤣😂🤣 Her initialising contact with me is minimal though....
@Egoistiskketchup
@Egoistiskketchup Год назад
From my perspective as a woman, and as a woman who know many women with children together with ex, I think she wants you back, fine she will try to have some small talk to have a good relationship for the kid and wanting to know about girls seeing your kid, but she wouldn’t act jealous because of it
@rommelopa2354
@rommelopa2354 Год назад
@@Egoistiskketchup thank you....
@jeaneengant6771
@jeaneengant6771 Год назад
He told me he don't want to be attaches to anyone now
@hjot483
@hjot483 Год назад
Hi coach, still confused~ in no contact meaning I don't reach out to him but if he contacts me do I respond? How long do I wait to respond
@blacademic
@blacademic Год назад
If he reaches out to you it’s fine to respond
@danasmith8390
@danasmith8390 Год назад
​@@blacademic is it best to only respond when they sat something substantial because when you respond to erroneous comments they disappear again
@johncheco8610
@johncheco8610 Год назад
It’s a whole different ball game when kids are involved we have four together and no contact is difficult when we are basically almost talking every day. In the beginning of my no contact, she was basically doing all the reaching out and seemed liken she was regretting the break up. she took a girls trip to Florida and came back a different person….very cold and I feel like she’s doing a no contact on me now, so how do I go about this situation?
@Cjpro934
@Cjpro934 Год назад
3 months she gone it is what it is
@faithfulhandz
@faithfulhandz Год назад
He always come back but this time I'm not sure because he block me.Which I been blocked him on our Androids.🤷‍♀️
@suzannedouglas1068
@suzannedouglas1068 Год назад
He's just selfish
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