How to make your EX WANT to Chase YOU AGGRESSIVELY 

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The real reason why you keep chasing your ex is because your ANXIETY LEVELS ARE HIGH! Anxiety causes you to become selfish and lose empathy. Control your anxiety and you will feel so much better. ❤ Stay strong everyone!

The irony is that when you finally get over that ex, you don’t even care if they chase you 😂😂

Let’s just hope my ex isn’t another person watching your videos, if we both follow your advice, we’ll never be in contact!

In other words what I did, after trying to work things out, giving them space, and no contact. Just walk away and never look back, chances are they already have someone else. If they come back then it’s destiny, if not it was never meant to be.

This coach and no contact are RIGHT ON THE MONEY! I have been married for 5 years, separated for 6 months. Guilty of it all… pleading, anger, emotional instability. All I got was “I’m not in love with you, I’ve moved on.” After 3 days of NC, and telling I’m going to focus on my “manhood”… she text saying “You know, I’ve thought about us working things out, but you always try to control things.” BLOWN. AWAY. Knock off the neediness, BE ATTRACTIVE. Let them come to you. Real truth. Thank you for the video!

The analogy with the agent blowing up your phone and becoming annoying was spot on! Thank you for sharing this

Insurance guy here...I’ll call/Text 3 times, after that I move on. I’d rather talk to people who want to talk to me and who have the time to talk. Anyways, great video bro thanks

Coach Blac you have Great Energy. Thanks for all you do

That is such good advice. Thank you. Currently going through it right now

Yes sir coach black this video was on the money bro I'm going through something you just scried it was very helpful and inlightmemt

Great video! I agree 100%! People naturally get turned off when someone acts thirsty.

Coach what an awesome delivery. You should be a public speaking teacher. Another great video.

Thank you for the good advice, I love it when I see your video’s come up I get so excited I know it’s going be good!! 🤣🤣

This guy is spot on, need to schedule a private call. I've followed everything he has said.

Best video yet 🙌

Excellent examples. Your examples help us see and understand THEIR feeling, THEIR thought, on the situation. Thank you.

This was great advice, thank you

I appreciate your channel bro, you always calm me with your delivery and the way you break down each point, much appreciated, btw does this work on an avoidant also?

Thank you coach black

Hey Coach! Hope you’re having an awesome Saturday!

U so right about this one

This video was key for me at this moment as I'm reconnecting with my ex and we are about to meet up for a first, real date after 2 months being broken up (3-4 weeks no contact). I resonated with the part about FREEDOM and not focusing on labels/titles and that I must wait for HER to ask me for commitment.

Good advice, much thanks

I am remaining silent and minding my business because when you go, I disappear too. I'm an a-hole like that. Lol! My phone is now being blown up about what I will tell other people if they ask about us. Chile, I have no time for these type of childish communications. This video has confirmed my mindset. Thanks!

PERFECT timing for this video. This is exactly the stage I’m at right now! Last night she msgd me saying “let’s do something fun soon”

Really needed to here this ty! You been getting me through a hard time. I may of missed it as I am newer to your videos but what if your ex sends you a video/pic of you all together? What is the best response with out ignoring or breaking down asking her to come back.

I’m learning about attachment styles. Please do yourself a favor and learn yours ❤ I just finished the book “attached”. Extremely helpful

Broke up a year ago tomorrow, been 2 months no contact after we met up a few times in January and she said she needed to be alone and be on her own. Her birthday was a week ago, obviously I stuck NC, 4 days later she’s blocked me off every social media app (we haven’t followed each other on anything since we broke up) and also locked her Facebook profile so anyone on the outside can only see her profile picture. Lol

Thanks again mate

From India. I'm moving on ..trusting your words.

Thanks!dope video Coach

Sometimes a person leaves a relationship because. Their needs were not being met they leave because they care and if the person they leave Ignores. them even after leaving sometimes this. Confirms to the leaver they do. The. Right thing

Ty!💜🙏

Always great content but damn those mouth noises from that mic don't have trigger my misophonia 😂

Hello from Greece

What if the ex is trying to see you then tries to make things sexual…I’m not giving away anything for free, but saying that you don’t feel like intimacy is appropriate that’s a fast way to kiss someone off or to make it seem like you are trying to implement a power play

Someone owes me some money and don't want to pay up...

Hey you’ve been really helping me with these videos 💯 I can help you with the life insurance let me know💯👍🏽🙌🏽 I will make sure you have the best

Thanks

I was a little harsh because he’s out playing the field … I told him I didn’t want to be friends and to stop texting me unless he wanted to have a real conversation with me. He didn’t handle the breakup well at all, so he needs to make amends. Did I ruin everything with my harshness?

Coach do u open up late afternoon spots?

That's great advice thank you I have one question though my accident trying to text me but she's only regret doesn't talk anything about getting together just saying she regrets everything she did I feel like she's just looking for my validation I responded but I feel like nothing changed it's the same thing should I even be responding to her messages like that at all

Coach does this apply to the dumper ?

I have a question. Are these same rules effective to save a marriage? Situations such as separation, or a divorce in process?

If they’re your ex why would you want them to chase you???? 🤔🤔 They’re your ex for a reason. I’m trying to get mine to leave me alone!!!

How about trying to reconnect during a divorce and while my wife has a new boyfriend. He's the same guy she broke up with when we started dating?

Do you think you can make video for Married couples who are going threw separation and divorce ?Thank you

Hey coach wish I can talk too you

I work with my ex from time to time now I work with my ex & her 2nd rebound WTH. I'm still hurt & lil confused on how to feel & what to say

I need this advice however I’m currently pregnant with our 2nd child, I thought we were ok until 2-3 months ago

After 3 months NC I reached out. But it wasn’t to say hi or to reconcile. I got a spam email that i didn’t know was spam at the time. It was for an invoice for a $700 passport with her name and address on it. I texted her a screen shot and asked, why did I get this email? She said it must be a scam and the conversation was over in three texts. Did I just undo all of the work I built up in the previous 3 months of NC?

I ended the relationship because he did not treat me the way I deserve took advantage of my full on investment in him and was selfish. I broke up and am no contact. There was so much potential there. I will see if he reaches out but I know he knows he had a great thing

I hit my ex up after 3 years We were very toxic and I took my time to really try and change as much as I can We talk here and there on the phone But she says she found someone else I do notice we talk weekdays and she’s gone weekend We spent 7 years off an on Sadly she broke the trust and did majority of things I def think about what we had and feel sick and paranoid more Then times I feel really lonely and want what we had Hopefully we just stay friends and get along

I’m giving space. I have no expectations. And loose weight look good seems like I would be trying to hard. Plus it’s been 7months no contact only HIM thru fake accounts

My ex came back and gave him chance but I found out he still with the girl ..I hope you notice me thanks for your advice

My ex can’t deiced what he wants we went on a couple days and he told me how he felt and it did hurt to hear he said he misses me and thinks about me a lot and that I am an amazing partner but needs to figure out what he wants I said my peaceful goodbye and have no contact him sense It hurts and he is someone that I really fell in love with but it is best for me to walk away

What if she told me that she’s in a relationship? And she doesn’t want me in her life, after 20 years together and 2 kids.

I won't chase that he always comes back He needs help hurting comes easy that's a problem he has to realize. Leave me alone and live your f up life

Ive been 8 weks breakup. Been 45 days no contact. Not heard anything.

Hey coach my ex came back after some time of no contact. We were together 5+ years and she left me. Since then I met others, improved myself, lost 70lbs. I’m sure she has met others too but she reached out and said she missed me but as a friend. How should I approach this. I’ve done my healing but when she reached out those old memories came back for that moment.

It’s been 4 months NC. Will she ever come back?

I need your help

I feel like I’m being too late since I agreed on a friendship and it’s been like almost 3months and at first he didn’t reach out to me but now it’s just reels

i had a question.....with the women hypergamy society....she just took another man from the line, than chase you and "fight gor her love".....what you think about it ?

I am in a break up with DA gf. You say here that I should wait till she comes to me asking for commitment? Seriously? DA is Running away from it each time commitment is being mentioned.

She told me that she has no longer investment in this the relationship because she told me that she will never ever come back and she has no desire to come home and she feels like there is nothing to save but I have to go to church and there is where she will see me

man, I’m not needy, I’m not pursuing, we write maybe once every week or two, she says she wants to meet up, we meet up and all I get is „I’m open for a second try but I’m free atm to do what I want“ and then back to writing. This is going for about 2 months now. What shall I do?

She moved away 2 months now on now She are texting me good morning and asking me for phone credit

It’s been 2 month of back and fourth and I’ve done way too much txting… begging pleading but it’s been a cycle because we see each other hang out for few days then goes back to acting like I don’t exist… which triggers this cycle of me going crazy I’ve done everything you said not to do :( what do I do now ?

The breakup is 1 1/2 years back, we have now good contact, we see each other once a week for almost 2 months.. i’ve done a lot of mistakes everytime we had contact after the breakup like pushing him to answer me what we are etc, but i have learned ✋ My Question: i would like to now with how many women he has slept in that time, but i don’t know if my answer would push him away orrrrrr make him jealous in a good way. I don’t want him to think that i was sitting on my ass an waited for him. What would you suggest?

My fiance broke up with me after 7 years, she said it's over and she is not coming back, has been 6 weeks already and Im starting to believe that she is not coming back at all 🥺😪

Okay but the thing is i’m ‘the ex’, i was the one who broke up cause i was in a bad place & was immature to handle stuff & it’s been more than 1.5 year since we broke up but i miss my ex a lot now & i want to go back but i don’t know if i should cause they’re with someone new now

One of the reasons why salesperson is aggressively pushing because they may need to meet their boss weekly, even they know chasing frequently is not the best for sales process, but their boss will ask how many times he called the prospect. If the salesperson said just one time, then the boss will blame its his fault for low frequency of reaching out when the deal cannot be closed at the end😂. Its off topic, but just wanna say I could understand their pressure 😅

I broke a two weeks no contact...He said he needed a month more to think about it. What does it mean?

He left me as he said his mom is not agreeing for our marriage. It’s his birthday today. Should I wish him?

Will he rlly come back? Even if he’s the one that broke up with me and I ruined things?

Does he answer his comments

Six months so far. I've only got the rest of my life to go.

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T.y.

does this really work when you have a kid together? we have a 7 week old daughter, break up was 2 weeks ago, she said there was no hope of us getting back together, we have just been in this low contact for 3 days but she texts me everyday asking how our daughter is doing i give her a short reply and sometimes shell follow up asking for photos which ill send but nothing more than that. she tried breadcrumbing me once with a tiktok video saying "i had to send this to you" as it reminded her of me. i didnt reply to it. any advice?

What about when your married and have kids together

Letting your ex feeling great after dates w/o commitment ? Really? If you have avoidant ex you can keep entertaining them till the hell freezes and getting zero commitment in return. I am fed up with being animator for her for free…

How do I stop being mad that she is toxicly happy she is partying out clubbing and her toxic best friend is the one bringing her it pisses me off it’s not fair, she is sleeping around and it hurts what do I do someone please help me feel better

I'm blocked on social media and her phones

She won't chase if she is back with her X..I'm F÷÷+ed 😊

He left me but I was stupid saying to him to leave her .. I was hurting in shock that he cheated but … after I stoped msging him …I realised I deserved better I will never take him back but he don’t know that how do I let him know that I don’t want him ?

She wanted to met me she is in a rebound but 1 day before we should met she blocked me and she suggest that meeting what does that mean😂

How to make the chase aggressively? Start dating other women.

Please show some energy, and expression while you talk, it is slow and depressing , otherwise your content is good.

I went no contact for 2 months. 1. He text asking about his mail, next text could he come get his mail( yes). He came got his mail and ssid Thank you. A week and a halk later. I'm sitting on the porch, ( him) do I have any mail I forgot to change my address for the bank( me) No, and he said he'll be back and drove off. Three days later, I'm sitting on the porch ( him) do I any mail (me) yes. So, he comes in and open his mail looking around. We talked a little, small talk. He left and come back, he's sitting on the porch, , I didn't bother him gave him his peace. I made a cake, asked if he wanted some, he said yes and ice cream. Next, I said do you want some watermelon?" He said yes. So, I made him a small bowl of watermelon. He still sitting outside on the porch. I didn't bother him. So, next thing I asked, are you hungry ( him) yes. So, i made him a sandwich on toasted wheat bread, lettuce, tomato, mustard. He's a** was hungry. Next thing he said Thank you for feeding me and left. I'm not mad or anything of that nature. I'm good, I don't text ever or call, nor am I sitting around waiting on him. I love my peace. I know that he misses me making sure he was good. One thing he forgot about was making sure I was good. Sometimes a woman can be to good for a man. I know what I bring to the table. Thank you for the message

I think you can help me.can you direct me to an email please