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A guy used this exact line and actually it annoyed me maybe bcs im not interested in him and just replying bcs i dont wanna feel bad and now he's asking for more! so exhausting. Make sure you only do this to a person you sure are interested in you otherwise you'll come off as bossy and annoying 😅
Ugggghh...DON’T call him first...DON’T keep texting (limit your texts to him to 2 or 3 day...Maintain some mystery, work on your own passions and believe me, he’ll want to talk to you. If you say “call me, I’d like to hear your voice” (nice tactic) and he doesn’t call, move on. So much time wasted via texting. A man who’s into you will chase but keep your dignity and set the pace.
I've called him first all the time. I've done all this. I have to realize he's just not into me. It is what it is. Tried to create my culture. Lesson learned.
I told that to the guy I like “call me tonight! I wanna hear your voice-“ it’s been two hours since he left me on read. Lol.. Edit: it’s been 3 months and when I called him out, he ghosted me 😬
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The phone call thing actually helps build a connection. You can have a proper conver and hear the nuances that texting leaves out. Hear them laugh. Hear the awkward too 😅. I've actually been doing this of late calling more than texting. Especially with my close friends.
I told the guy I like the hey call me, I miss your voice. He called me in like 30 seconds. He hadn't responded to my texts in like an hour. This works 🙌
After watching this...I sent a message that said ‘have a whisky and call me when you are tipsy’ to a guy I’ve never talked to in person before. It only bloody worked!! We talked for well over an hour. Thank you Matthew Hussey! 😊 xxx
OMG! this is so true, we don't pick the phone up anymore to speak to anyone unless we are at work. Yet shy away from having a real conversation with anyone. Thank you Matthew
I'm someone who is extremely awkward at phone/video calls😓 I struggle to keep the conversation going, especially with a man I'm attracted to. I dislike the awkward silence thar lingers in between call and video calls make me jittery Oh goddd...why am I like this🙈😵
@@poojapotdar2737 that's ok...everyone is different. The first girl who posted to my comment doesn't seem to understand that everyone is different. This video is about talking on the phone & I happen to agree. If it's awkward for some people, then that's them. Maybe something to work on & get better at? Idk but it is a good skill to have especially for a job. I answer phones all day long at my job but talking on the phone has always been easy for me. If it gets silent then it's time to hang up lol unless it's someone I'm very comfortable with & we can literally just sit in silence w/no awkwardness. Just getting to know a guy, yeah totally I get it. Text at first then work your way into a phone call & meeting😊
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I dumped someone who kept texting -- for more than a year. He's a grown, 50 year old man, and the head of his own company. I figured if he wasn't interested in speaking with me over the phone (and I did call him initially), then he wasn't interested in me...
I always, always tell men (not boys) that I do not like texting unless i'm at work or he is at work. I want to hear your voice, i do not play when it comes to this. Texting is annoying and you can not really feel how a person is thinking through words. Words can be misinterpreted, hearing someone speak is much better.
I laughed out loud at the conference call 🤣🤣🤣! This is so true. I was stuck texting (long distance)a guy a few years ago and bored out of my mind, I ended it. Recently we reconnected with the stipulation that we would ONLY talk on the phone or video chat (he's THE WORST texter) and it changed the whole dynamic.
People text wayyyyy too much and don't even meet up half of the time! Facetime is a good idea if you give each other the heads up first. Nothing like answering a call right out of the shower. If there is a good connection with someone, text each other a few times, then talk on the phone to set up a date to get to know them face to face. Anyone can hide behind a text! 💔
Its been 1 month he is not calling at all and 8 days without texting . I said it before call me i wanna hear your voice he said my parents are here i cannot do it . So at least send me a voice message and he says no i can not not .. so its not working with all guys. So i stopped talking to him doesnt deserve me ❤
That sucks! However it does show that he's not a man who's ready to take you seriously, so on the plus side at least you found this out now rather than later :)
Yes i showed him that im not an option to make if he wants a real thing he know how can reach me out.. im okey not i know my worth without him so i left without argue because its not worthy done. You said it known now better than later 😊
@@ej_8888 some think us like we are just an option to them if he gonna make u his priority we wont act like that its very clear and simple:) best luck to us
@@asyacilek7992 For sure, and you definitely handled it the best way as oppose to start getting clingy etc as a lot of girls fall into that! Props to you, no doubt you'll find a guy who sees making that effort with you is worth it :)
I have reverted back to what my Mom used to tell me. Girls don’t call boys it looks desperate. When asked for my # and I like them I give it to him. If he tries to give me his I say U have mine so feel free to call but I don’t care for txt. If he is really interested he will call, I never call first unless we have been dating for about a month.This seems to get him to pursue me more.
So true. It shows him that you're a woman not a girl and so he's definitely more likely to take you seriously :) Thanks Matthew, an inspiration for me and my channel as always 😁
@@emilyruggiero1465 Well it can also show you whether he's a boy or a man. A Man (not a boy) who's willing to take you seriously and has general interest would be open to a phone call 😉
So I was super frustrated and used your text list to get back to having the guy I’ve been talking to chase me and it WORKED! He literally asked me out for Wednesday .
Couldn't agree more. Also, this works for friendships too, but it looks like nowadays nobody can spare 2 min to sort things/catch up on a phonecall instead of texting endlessly :')
My favorite is when he texts you to call him when you're free. LOL - I don't take commands. You wanna talk to me? You call. Keep calling until I can answer
It’s quite sad that both men and women have to investigate and figure out ways how to approach this when it shouldn’t be this complicating. If the guy is really into you he will call you. Wake up people. It shouldn’t be this complicating. He’s just not that into you.
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So this morning I put the “Call me [today]. I want to hear your voice” advice to the test. We hadn’t spoken in over a week - only texted. He called EXACTLY 3 hours To. The. Minute. later and we talked for an hour and a half. 🙌🏼 Thanks, Matthew!
I honestly prefer texting. I can get so much more done that way than I can when I have to talk. Writing is more of my strength, too. I can organize my thoughts better than I can with speech. I wish I could be more old fashioned that way.
Inug4mi especially in dating, I like to think things through before I say them. And I’m much more talkative over text than the phone. But I think people find phone calls more intimate.
I agree! I suffer from anxiety, so phone calls and face to face interactions can get awkward. Texting gives me the right amount of time to get my thoughts in order - unless my adhd kicks in and I forget to respond =,D
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Aaaand I can already hear nearly all the women who follow Matthew saying "Call me. I want to hear your voice". 😂😂😂😂 The banana pun at the end was the best way to end the video. I was peeling out in laughter. 🙈😂 On a more serious note, I appreciated the concise and clear info about the whys and totally agree about texting not trumping the other more bonding forms of communication. The way I see it, if someone is thinking the other person could possibly end up being their spouse why not build a more realistic and bonded relationship from the start around the forms of communication you would be using 95% of the time? Anyway, another great video!
I had a guy cancel on a date twice. First time his cousin was in a car crash. Which...ok...happens...second time the train was delayed two hours. I was already at the place waiting. Ok. Fine. Life happens. Hussey taught me to let HIM do the work if he cares. I told him I'd like for him to commute to my area for the first date. The effort is on him. If he can't follow through. I'm done. Thanks Matt. I learned I did not need to give up on him, but I don't need to put in equal effort a THIRD time when the past two times were his cancellations, no matter how legit the reasons. If the situation were reversed I would prove my seriousness by also making a big commute.
I hate talking on the phone, it feels awkward because you can't see body language.I don't like Facetime either because I don't like seeing my face. I'm okay with texting, but when it becomes CONSTANT it gets on my nerves. I prefer in person. Also, I am always single, so don't take my advice xD
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I don't know why every man i dated didn't like to talk on the phone. I never understood if they were afraid to have nothing special to say or they were feeling trapped or something 🤷 So i only call my female friends...
I’m a woman and I hate talking on the phone so maybe I can give you a small explanation that maybe is true for guys as well idk: For me it’s because I’m always more focused on body language than anything else so phonecalls have always felt fake, but I’m not big on texting either, I just prefer to meet in person. Also definitely having to drag a conversation is not a great feeling, so if I don’t have anything special to say I don’t see why we should talk on the phone, I’ll just wait to see you in person next time.
because it's intrusive and annoying to just jump into someone's life if they are trying to do something else. Text is way better because you can fit it around the rest of your life. If you ask if the other person wants to book a phonecall then that's ok, but why not just hang out for real in that case?
@@Alistair of course i always ask if they are available before....And you can not always see your boyfriend in real person unfortunately (depending on their job etc)
Just started communicating with a guy and I'm already over texting. Thanks for the advice I might just going to call him even though I'm a little ambivalent about it.
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Ha, I always suspect the guys who call of being axe murderers. It’s like when someone comes to your front door and you go into stealth mode. I mean, it’s bad enough when they knock or ring the doorbell, but when they start “hallooing” as if they know you’re hiding, it’s like, “Which mob hired you???” 😱
I'm an introvert....and I don't like phone calls. Calling someone or being called by someone is kinda a horrible situation for me. So ain't there any other way/s which would be as effective as the phone call? Love your videos....☺️
I would suggest.... Growing up. Be a grown woman. Life isn't all about comfort. Sometimes you have to get out of your comfort zone if you want something meaningful to happen to you
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@@abigailleithtrini3327 so I texted him “Hey, can you call me when you have some time today?” I wanted to just ask him where was this going... & he let me know that he didn’t see a relationship bc of our career paths. He wanted a stay at home wife to homeschool his kids while he worked as a doctor (I’m a business owner) He definitely came off as misogynistic because he said he couldn’t handle a woman making more money than him. The sad part about this whole story is that I was never physically attracted to him. I gave him a shot and let so many red flags go because of what he did for a living, or was going to do (he’s in medical school) and just other things about him... but he definitely had a lot of traits that I didn’t like and normally wouldn’t tolerate
I sent him a text yesterday (we’re in different timezones) “I’m free for the next 3 hours! Call me if you get a chance.” He didn’t, it’s Easter and he was doing stuff, but I said “oh well, worth a shot!” I suggested he’s worth a shot. Next time, I’ll wait for him to tell me when he wants to chat. I’m not worried. If this turns out to be nothing, that’s okay. But for the moment, let’s just see where it goes :)
When a women call their "boy" and it's just be silence on the phone. That's why I be like "babe in going to bed" because what's the point of being in the phone. You say you be "busy" but have time for texting.
Can’t remember the last time my phone rang. 😞 🍌 1. Law and order 2. Call him up on his shit 3. Pin him down 4. Better off speaking to a bunch of bananas 🍌
NUMBER 3😕... ARE YOU KIDDING ME, Matthew? I was taught at a younger age not to call guys first, unless he's a friend. Some guys will not call back if she does that. He will ghost. It should be the traditional way. The guy should ask for her number and call her whenever he's ready. Oh and the bananas were hilarious.
Before mobiles phones, we would go days without any contact and we survived and had healthy relationships. Why is everyone so hung up on 'needing' so much contact be it texting or calling?
Before mobile phones I talked with my man on the phone way more. Landlines! Without the ability to text, landlines were the only way to connect, and it worked!
@@sunshinedayz7032 it's because we took effort to be home at the same time to have that conversation, and without it we won't know how the other is doing. Now with social media, u see them all the time, their stories, their posts, pictures, u know what's happening with them so u don't really miss them to take effort to call
Some of us really do not like talking on the phone for anything (Making doctor appointments, ordering pizza, etc) and so setting up a time and place to speak in person might be an alternative (if distance isn't an issue).
Nope. Nope and nope. I’m way too assertive so I have to wait for them 100%. If a man wants you then there is absolutely nothing thst will get in his way. I cant Be with a shy guy.x
Haven't spoken on the phone with him in months. Everytime he said he was going to call he never did, so I stopped expecting it. Whenever I did try to call first which was more than once he never answered ☹️. Everything is always through text and it's annoying because he doesn't reply till hours later.
If he is a shy guy it can take forever. The one I'm in communication with can not pick up the phone knowing I'm calling. I tried that just the one time and his voice mail was full and he texted back he wasn't ready to talk yet and that he has to move super slow. Then he was going to call but chickened out. I know he is a real person. I used to go to high school with him a long time ago. He was shy then and had a crush on me then too and never approached me. He really likes me and we talk on a deep level but I don't know about this if he can't eventually step up beyond texting. I think I'd be wasting my time. I'm thinking of limiting my time available for texting and seeing what happens.
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Lol, I just saw the video all the way through. Too funny. I'm thinking the problem is not texting itself. Its texting the middleman or multiple middlemen, when you think you're texting the actual guy. Or even better, the one that thinks there in a relationship with you in there own imagination.
People didn't have phones 150 years ago and they just sent letters - I think texts are fine as long as you put in a little effort! Not that calling is bad if you like it, but it's not like critical to relationship health or anything.
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What if he’s just too bad at taking initiative? I’m always the one to call. I asked him to call me. I told him i don’t like to be always the one to call. He still doesn’t. I want him to want to call me. Too much to ask?
But... I hate phonecalls, I’ve always hated them, from anyone as well. Why do you all want to call? Just meet in person, texting is better for arranging plans to meet (writing down where and when is much more clear) and whatever conversation you want to have is for when we meet, it’s not like you have to talk all the time, it becomes boring pretty quickly as well especially in the beginning when you still don’t know much about the other person. I don’t like talking with no body language involved, always seemed fake and awkward to me, may be because I’m always picking up more clues from body language than anything else, words can be pretty deceptive and empty. Moral of the story: I call if I have something to say and I never drag the conversation on, usually this will make it anything but boring and in my experience it will also make the guy understand that we are on the same page about calls, that he can call me to say something and hung the phone 3 minutes later because I won’t “trap” him in a meaningless conversation (and he hopefully will return the favor). For plans texting is perfect and the goal is always to meet up. It worked pretty good for me till now.
