Testimony: listen to this man. A year ago I was brokenhearted because I was holding to a man that was not my husband. I watched Tony Gaskin videos for A month 5 videos per day and healed by the grace of God. Go about you business and other advices. A year later I met my future husband we are getting married this summer, buying a house and today I will go shopping wedding dresses with his family and mine. I did not want to testify online but it's too big for me to not share. To God be the glory!
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING STRONG POWERFUL POSITIVE WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! SMILE ALWAYS!( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU!) HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! NOV2021
To me, if a man doesn't change his ways for his children, he doesnt change his ways for anyone! Men who dont want to work or change for their kids are a whole red flag factory to me.
He will not change for his kids. But for the woman he wants he will change. A man will change only if he wants to but never force bc it will back fire.
@@ARS-fn6px no God comes first then you and the whole family if not then nothing. When a man does not put God first, he is not there yet. If he sees you as his wife, he will marry you and he will become a changed man but only if he chooses you. I have made two mistakes in my life, i have always chose so it does not come out well. They do not change for us when we choose this i have learned in my past two relationship. Love cannot be force then its not love.
A God fearing man is the most attractive to me. I want my King to serve The King of Kings. A man can't fully lead well if he's not first led by God. His spirit has to be right with God. Be discerning of who you date. Pray for discernment. 🙏🏼👑💗
Same! It’s not enough black men who are spiritually rooted for me. Because if your not coming with the spiritual strength of THE MOST HIGH, ion know what you doing 🥴🥴
GOD fearing is attractive and there are many who will use GOD as a cover up of their masked sins. I met one and i admired him but he was a narcissist and used GOD to control a woman. I had to walk away before it got too serious. He felt he could sin and get away with it because of being a minister of GOD and if i fell short with not matching up to what he expect was not ever good enough. The fear of GOD must be instilled in all his actions.
Some men never change. My dad never changed with each woman he was with tbh. A woman can influence change but he has to also want to change. And it takes a lot of healing work when you’ve experienced trauma
Same here, my father never changed. Continued to cheat on my mother even after 60 years of age. Accountability is always the first step which he never bothered to take.
Some men may not feel the need to change, because the women in their lives are coddling them and tolerating their foolishness. If more women stop accepting men at their lowest/the bare minimum, it may prompt them to change and wanting to be better men. They also should want to change for themselves.
Guy asked me on a date for Friday night. Tell me why this fool said he was out drinking and got drunk the night before. He’s 36, I’m 31. He didn’t even apologize or reschedule. All he said was that he had a hangover and was sleepy 😂 like how are u that old and still out drinking like that. Damn near 40 and still immature
Look to the first husband Jesus Christ. And he gonna lead you to a Godly man that he created for you. Relationship with the Lord and being able to hear him and know his will and heart for you.
Leave him in the dust to get drunk for the rest of his days. I had a guy do that too, when days before he was promising me a home cooked birthday meal.
@Joyful n Blessed that’s what I’m thinking. I met him at the gym so I will keep it cool but he can not take me out ever! He texted me yesterday like if everything is cool. I didn’t even mention it.
Please keep my Family in prayer. One our younger/ little girl cousin(s) was shot 3x's & killed over the weekend by her boyfriend. So saddened by this loss in her twenties leaves behind a little girl. Our family tried speaking with her several times about aggressive abuser bad behavior and now she's no longer with us. Thank you.
My God . You also have my condolences ❣️and prayer's this has to find a better way to communicate with each other in love be we are being deceived by love blinded by love seem only love in God 👌 true 😘 love don't hurt even in the midst of the lesson🫂
Sadly, I think most men will never fully mature. There are guys still behaving like 20 somethings and they're near 40. Unfortunate, but definitely a reality that will never change.
A person can only change themselves when one sees the necessity to… See them for who it is that they are and keep it moving to meet the a person who is real and know who they are… Grown, accountable… a person changes because of themselves…
@@bonethugs6650 You're absolutely right you CAN say that about women and guess what? I wouldn't be rude about it. Everyone has an opinion like I do. There's no need to be an ass about what someone else thinks. If it doesn't apply to you just move on🙄
In Nigeria, there’s a popular saying that goes like this; A fool at 40 is a fool forever…! Better believe it that if a grown ass man hasn’t changed by the time he hits 40 years old, he’s most definitely going to be a FOOL FOREVER…!!! Run..!!
I didn’t think my boyfriend would change and I left him. He has changed and hasn’t reverted back since. He’s listening to me and respects me. He’s open and honest and I feel like we are new again. This is better than when we first started dating. He has really changed for me and my friends say he realizes what he has now
I hope that each day of the week is special to you. Enjoy every day as it comes to you. Don't force love or friendship on people who aren't interested in it. Just take your days as they come to you, and enjoy them.. I LOVE YOU ALL
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING STRONG POWERFUL POSITIVE WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! SMILE ALWAYS!( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU!) HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! NOV2021
I can relate to this. A guy at my church gave me the perception he was single and liked me. I signed him up for church event. Needless to say, I saw him run to his car with the girl he tried to avoid being seen. 🙏🏽😂😂😂😂
Even some 40 or 50 yr old men won't change. I heard that from a 51 yr old man , he told me he won't change for anyone not even me. Some men never mature n grow up. I'm 58 n it's extremely hard n I gave up. I'm so tired of grown boys. So mentally tired. Most men I see smoke weed. I am sick of that. I'm my experience men r men n will never change...
I know men in their 50s, 60s, & 70s who still haven't changed...My own daddy got married for the very first time at age 73 & his wife age 49...He just passed in August of this year at age 76💕💕RIP Daddy💕💕💕
My husband married me at 21 and i waa 31 and hes was the best husband then and now. He was a pisces. We did nt have sex before marriage. 30 yrs married. Hes awesome.
Tony…this is nothing but TRUTH!! But seriously some men don’t change Til they’re 70! 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ I see my dad and I’m like smh……literally. Still can’t believe my mom stayed. Sigh..
Unfortunately some men never get it together. My ex fiance of 48 years old still acting like he 20(drinking and smoking excessively), and cheated on me with a 25 year old he met at work and is in a relationship with now. He tried to convince me to stay saying it's just sex, she doesn't mean anything to me. Funny thing they still together. I pray he treating her better than he treated me, because noone deserves to be treated the way he treated me. Stay blessed 💜.
I appreciate your honesty, some of the best teachers are those who use their own experience to ensure what is said is understood because the messenger is not only accountable for their actions but is a visual testimony to change, to God's grace 💪🏾🙏🏽
AMEN please turn and pray to God. We as women need to learn to love ourselves and each other. Some women are desperate and jealous because they just want a man so badly. Also Iived in an dysfunctional environment where most don't know how it looks to be in a healthy relationship. I am one of those women that is all messed because of this I now have a second failed marriage. I pray we find love peace and happiness.
Whew that Bonus was exactly right on time. Im learning that what I have learned to get my blessing and try to pass on. People can not receive everything just bc I did
I think 2 many don't know what having a standard is. The examples set b4 them didn't help bc the average female only cares about getting a man & once they get a man they feel accomplished. They got that standard from the women of old; mom, aunts, sisters, cousins etc.... made women feel like they ain't nobody if they don't have a man & then taught them how to get one (begging, borrowing and stealing, etc...) the wrong way just 2 make themselves look good. The standard was all wrong from the top on down & still struggling 2 get it right to this day. Even if bw standards did change are there plenty of QUALITY bm to meet those standards. Then why are they watching these type videos looking 4 answers. There's alot of boys out there who were raised by these women with low standards, boys in a grown man's body l might add. There needs be 2 change all across the board & it starts from the top. So while u wish bw would be the 1's to raise their standards, frankly l wish bm would raise theirs too.
I just read about what Tony said in the bible that it was his wife coupled with his fear that made him change. 👇🏽 Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word, they, without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives, when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear. I Peter 1-2 NKJV
Yes, but please don’t take this out of context. Don’t submit to sin, abuse, etc… The Word of God constantly speaks that this brings great destruction, particularly in Proverbs, the book of wisdom. His wife coupled with fear of God. Don’t mean that she stayed quiet or submitted to his misbehavior. He actually teaches not to stand by, enable sin, and expect change.. He just said don’t get comfortable and complacent. See yourself the way God sees you, daughter and walk accordingly.
Hello sir hope I was with you and the family be blessed peace and blessings and abundance and overflowing the God's grace and mercy and I'll call you my big bro every time I see your video and I just want to thank you for your time for your anointing the effort/passion , wisdom and the love that you shared not only to myself but others.. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
He's a great God! Thank you for the message Tony & thank God you and your friend are okay! Like you said material things are material things. Lives are priceless!
Some Men never change, I just got rid of a grown 58 years old boy. Who I caught cheating twice and I am done. I know the Almighty God has a Kingman for me.
Love the analogy🎯 Tony G has done it Again. Dear Bro I truly Thank God 4 U, Ur Family, Ur humility & the Wisdom U've acquired through Ur experiences & more importantly what God has bestowed 2 U. Keep imparting & sharing the Light of Jesus Christ in this dark world...🎯💯🙏🏾
Gn A Great man of God. Please Sir keep on doing what the great work the creator called you to do. I like the honesty which is very lacking today. God blessing to you and your family
I'm at the end of my rope w my husband and one step from filing.... We have 2 kids together Idk what to do.... I believe in a monogamous and abuse free marriage and nothing less
I'm in my early 30s and it's not easy to just pick up another husband esp if you have kids I just want my life to be easier not harder but dont want to settle for his flip the script behavior from my husband I think I'll just separate for now
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING STRONG POWERFUL POSITIVE WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! GOD BLESS! GOD LOVES! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! SMILE ALWAYS!( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU!) HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U!
Hi Tony, so appreciate all your videos. Not sure if you've already done a video on this but can you do a video on the different stages of a man, from boyhood to manhood. I think for many of us women, understanding the levels of a man would be helpful when getting to know a man. Just a suggestion and thanks for another enlightening video.
It will take something drastic for a man to change sorry to say. But if the heart isn’t right it doesn’t matter. I had to learn the hard way but all this knowledge with TG I won’t make that mistake again .
Did your now wife meet you at a time when you weren’t changed? Like where were you at in life when you guys met? Did she influence you to change in some way or was it rocky for you guys in the beginning bc of your old ways? This would be a great video to talk about!
God changes the person if they want a relationship with him. My dad had issues with his mother and everyone woman he was with he disrespect them. And his daughters. So, they have to see different to want different.
He is 100% accurate about men. The sad part is, why does it take God to put people on their face. Strip them of everything, place them in Egypt for 40 years for them to change. We are born morally so just do the right thing to avoid wrath. Make your life simple by doing what God requires.
Say that, shit is terrible the things you are playing Russian roulette with.. a man and his growth is just as stressful as raising children by yourself :(
At what age is it a wrap for a man to change? My age range for men is late 40s to mid 50s and I keep hearing women say they don't change until they're over 60 (when they're forced to slow down a bit).
@Lisa Michelle. Do not date potential date current reality. Don't date someone hoping they will change because many times they DON'T change and you end up with heartache and a whole lot of time wasted. It just isn't worth it.
Personally, after 35 i think its very difficult for anyone to change. The ways and habits are deep set by then. It's not impossible to change but extremely difficult. That's why children need to be taught moral ways from young so it stays with them for life.
Well Tony the 1 I was dating he's 38 yrs old still staying home🏡wit his mama. His mama been out of wrk sense 2008 waiting on a lawyer on getting her approve 4 disability no income sense 2008 at age 64.🤦 So she's depending on her son $8:25 hr lil paycheck. He's a Narcissist! And will never change, its not built inside of him 2 change. A lot of red flags I've seen👀in the beginning when I first met him. He's not ambitious at all. Dnt like listening 2 motivational channels it turns him off, he gets upset! Hearing 👂about other ppl success!🤔🤦 Tony I had 2 leave frm around this family👪 His mom is wicket and dnt acknowledge God at all. He doesn't have a 🙏 praying mother so that turnt me off immediately! But he knows God, but dnt 🚶 walk in the steps God wnts him 2 walk🚶Having him around me was like dead weight. Smh🤦
Hello! ❤️ I need some advice when it comes to making a guy notice you on instagram, there this guy I saw on RU-vid video “ ASKING CHRISTIAN GUYS” And I saw a guy that capture my eye, I want to follow me him I don’t know how do I make this guy notice me because doesn’t know me at all, what should I do? ❤️
There r “ men” who NEVER matures!!!! If you go to Streep clubs …. Then u should NOT MARRY! The most important thing is if a “man” who goes from one “muffin “ to the next it’s NOT a MAN in my book . There is no double standards ….
Hi Tony, I would like you to have a topic on men so-called men calling their girlfriend a Bitch. Either he's lost respect for her or he has a poor outlook on women or it's the way he was raised. Please let's talk about this.
Well at least u got friends and associates that take responsibility when they damage yo stuff this guy that I was on a date with leaned in to kiss me on the cheek broke my consol in my car he stated he couldn’t pay for it haven’t heard for um glad I bought that problem out my life for less than 300 bucks sure God gone help me fix it but he can’t possible think I think he ever liked me wow
