Why do you have to protect this woman, and how would you do that. She doesn't need that she can stand on her own feet. That many subscribers and that smart. She will be able to help herself very well. We should help ourselves by showing this to other women.
Miss jessica GM here in jamaica we say miss as a matter of respect ,u such a motivational speaker I'm so impressed by z things u r saying it's confirming my policy ,women having that crave for money u give to 99 times nd z one for z is not met she will find some else r several others to get it i'm assuming ur speaking is gift ,r u studied at z university ,all z best for ur channel love u nd God richest blessing 's which includes health ,wealth nd long life
Dated a woman just recently that would constantly ask for help with something and was always wanted to go out to eat, needed a phone bill and gas etc. Even wanted me to buy her a wig and she has hair that comes down to her butt. I would try to give her financial advice and she would tell me that I'm not get daddy like an elementary student would say. I dated her for a about two years and just ended it because i got tired of helping her and when i told her that I'm tired of helping you because you're an adult that should learn how to handle your money and do these things on your own without me. I don't blame her though because its my money and i could have just said no but i thought it was love and that I'm supposed to do these things for her but it was just overwhelming because she doesn't have a drive to get in a better situation for herself. I have advice and i was shot down or told that I'm wrong about my opinion. I told her that i felt used and she for mad and blocked me but it was definitely a blessing because it showed me her true colors after two years. I was the simp and i paid the price and it's definitely a lesson learned.
This sister deserves a standing ovation for being an advocate for many of us men. Sis, you are highly appreciated for all your knowledge. Information is power! Cheers! Rich Fofana
Why do you have to prtect this woman, and how would you do that. She doesn't need that she can stnad on her own feet. That many subscribers and that smart. She will be able to help herself very well. We should help ourselves by showing this to women.
At one point my ex said to me, "Send me money like all the boyfriends do." 😂😂😂 It was hilarious. I responded to her with a text, "Go tell those boyfriends to send you money." 😂 And I loved it. MONEY IS NOT LOVE, Thanks be Jess
This is so true. Word for word. Especially that part when the well runs dry, the damage control at this point is irreversible. Am totally loving this truth 💟
It’s crazy how the pressure has been extended to teenage boys by girls of their same age to have enough money to take care of them 🤷🏾♀️ This speaks volumes 🙌🏾❤️
Teenage or adult, no male should be obligated to provide a woman. To do that under any guise, marriage, relationship, etc, is a euphemism for prostitution. Quid pro quo arrangement. No worthy woman expects a recompense for being in a relationship
@@owenekechukwu8887 only an irresponsible man won't support his wife. I do not agree with you when it comes to the aspect of "wife" I agree with you if it's a girlfriend or whatever
I don't know what is wrong with this our generation, a teenager will have a girlfriend of the same age and the girl will be expecting the boy to buy her an iPhone. It surprises me alot
I hope there is more South Africans watching your channel. There is plague running rampant among our “new money” brothers, it’s sad. Thank you Jessica 🤑
😂😂Bro we are living in SA where unemployment is too high,you meet someone she has no means of making money are you just gonna watch her struggling,i agree with the facts but are living in reality.
@@Modikana I hear you. Jess is not saying don’t help those in need, she is saying let’s empower those women to make their own money. Issue with giving money is, people who are used to receiving never learn how to generate their own, so they will always be broke. And when you go broke, you have no one to go to.
Jessica this video is insightful and gives that picture of how to build and sustain a good relationships. I already shared your thought even before I watched this video. I realized the way I make money and the way and manner some ladies demand from me, if I yield constantly to such demands I will run dry. And this has actually happened in previous relationship, talking from experience. So I decided to set up a plan where I teach her how to fish then tell her to spend on her numerous needs, I realized that she couldn't and was scared that the business could crash. Your videos believe me are transforming. Thank you Jessica
These are factual errors in a relationship we do that leads to regret, thanks Jessica, your are too good and blessed with your countless advises 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻❤️
In my own contribution, excessive spending on dating brings strong pressure on the giving end. The giver stands a greater chance of breaking down quickly at every slightest misunderstanding. The receiver got nothing to lose.
For a very long time even after my wife and me were getting serious in our relationship. She had full access to my bank account and wouldn't use a dime of my money for herself even when I would tell her too. She would always say it's my money meaning me.
Thank you very much Jessica !! This is the video I was asking you for, to hear from a professional perspective on what we should do when we are in a relationship with someone who wants money from you all the time !! This video explains it all !! Thank you so much Jessica !! God bless you my dear friend !!
Thanks so much Jessica. I have learned a great lesson today. I have been giving her money with the intention of showing her love but little did I know that I was ruining my relationship.
IF SHE CAN'T GIVE YOU HER BEST, WHY SHOULD YOU GIVE HER YOUR BEST? 1. Ignore her words focus on her actions 2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue 3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman 4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man 5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger 6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge 7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP 8. Stay away from single mothers 9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s 10. Never fully commit 11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut 12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you 13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment 14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust 15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf🚀👀💯✅✅✅
This is so true, you just said it all Jessi. As soon as the money is gone, her love is gone as well because you're literally buying her love and commitment with the money.
This topic is the main solution to a problem I began to have since my first date in 1971, just after I graduated from high school. Your facts complement each other, like Bible verses in the Old Testament complement the New Testament. Your lesson makes ultimate sense. I think this show was produced with me in mind.
This is one area l got a weakness in...my girl tells her friends that l am a 'source!'. I broke the relationship since it took a horrible turn. The current one received some US $500⁰⁰ from me. She asked for some more, l didn't say no but now she is not talking to me. I'm thinking of getting rid of her as well. Thank you for your vlog this time.
@James maina I can sympathize with you bro. I definitely know how you feel. You're supporting this woman, that means you care for her. I can offer up some advice. Confront her, Tell her that you think that Shes only after your money. A relationship is a give and take. You cant be only giving and this girl isn't putting in any effort. Also she is ungrateful and unappreciative. Confront her. Let her know this is wrong. You have certain needs from this relationship, correct ? I asked for time spent together and a sign of commitment. She's been demanding, its time for you to get your needs met. See If she will agree to met your needs. If she makes a fuss or doesnt agree then cut her off !! You are helping and doing your best. So you deserve a woman who sees and appreciates that !!!
After watching this video I decided to test my woman and said I won't give her money and I gave an excuse that it is because she's not my wife yet and she dumped me that same day 😂😂😂 and I have let her go, thanks Jessica for saving me. You're an eye opener
Thanks a lot l,ve learnt a lot from this coz l have fought with my boyfriend on this issue and after some silence his answers have been just like you...always teaching me ways to improve my business☺️☺️thank you now l understand
Most men go for women who do not earn,yet love extravagance. It depends on why you shouldn't give a woman you are dating money....if it's to help fine, but to waste dierr. Great video Jessica 👏❤️
I agree with your comments. Women say they want a man who will be a good provider in the future but then say he must prove it now. If he gives too much now, he will have less in the future.
This is where it gets tricky, it is all depends. 9 times out of ten women across the world even develop countries are not as financially sets, or doesn’t have access to cash flow in order to support themselves. Even if she is just a sex body she’ll expect some kind of hand out from times to times. As men we need to be very selective of whom or what we getting ourselves to according to the levels of our financial reach or pockets. I’ll say if she appears to be a wife materials or possibly she could the mother of my kids and needs assistance with her needs not wants then go for it fellas “according to your pockets”. I’m not buying anybody cars or lui Vuitton bags but I’ll out with foods. I’ll say young men don’t date until y’all get your life situated because relationships usually comes with cost. Thanks for sharing the good info Jess and this was my point of view as man on his late 30’s.
Supporting your partner financially is not a bad thing. I will only tag it bad when they become too demanding and depending. I will rather teach my woman how to fish than fish for her 😋 and if my woman isn't ready to learn how to fish then she does not deserve to eat a fish
@@sxc642 and what if we're married and with kids too?? I don't necessarily have to say wife or girlfriend or whatever A partner is a partner and perhaps I only said my own thoughts
Jessica you're so full of wisdom. Can't wait to jump at having you if given the opportunity. I love you so so much. Marrying a woman like you would be my greatest desire and Joy.
My gambian girlfriend is like that. So now I ignore her. That said, when I am in Gambia I do spoil her a bit, because she provides good company. But when I am back in the UK I had to stop sending her money. She didn't like it, but I knew that she had other sugar daddies out there. Yes, I am at fault. I am 62 and she is 24, so everything was based on money in the first place. I think many older men like me use money to manipulate younger women. Especially in third world countries. It's not right, I admit it, but men will be men, my bad!!
Greetings Jessica, as always very good videos and advice.. This one is very true to the core.. Continue to shine like a diamond 💎 with your positive words about relationships. Have blessed, safe & uplifting day ahead my beautiful 🌹 sister 🙏🏾 🖤❤️💯 ✨
This is so true. I see so many work friends get hounded for money all the time. When I found out is was for stuff like hair, makeup, and nails, basically just upkeep I told them to run for the hills. Find a woman that values your time not your money.
Jessica this is by far the latest and most brilliant dating piece I have heard! May I ask, do you have a PhD in Woman Psychology? I am sharing your channel to all my broken male comrades! Thank you for your works.
Jesse... You have been a blessing to many ... with your great and educational counseling, many have built a Glorious relationship and even marriage WE THANK YOU
Do everything you do for her and your best interest to the best of your ability. She may not like it all the time and you will not get it right all the time but in my experience, for a woman who truly loves you, that would be enough. And u guys will be golden nonetheless.
Money is not the answer all the time. If you're totally in tune with each other then you'll last for the long haul most of the time. You're correct again in your take on this video.
All women like money, however, you have to be smart to differentiate between need and want for the woman, that you love. Give her money only when it's very imperative she need it, not want.. There are different. So in that case it will not come regularly.
@@thyeocroft205 Even though your woman has a job, you will still be providing for her. That's why I said need, not want. However, it will not be compared to when she doesn't have a job.
Met this lady i wanted to marry. We got talking more after meeting her parents. Next thing was her request that I buy her a phone-that she want to change her phone. I declined on the premise that I can't buy her the phone at the time but at a time when our relationship would have be n sure way to marriage. We ended it there. She got married to another guy ,and now she regretted missing a blunt one like me ,so i learnt from her friend.
Everything you said is correct. A relationship built strictly on money is as unstable relationship. Human beings have the desire to always want a little bit more; and if she gets used to the level of financial security being provided her, she would want a little bit more; and there always someone who has a little bit more that she can run to. Money is good. It makes thing easier in a relationship, but It’s better to be with a woman who loves you because of the content of your character, values and vision; unfortunately, we live in a society where money is worshipped
Lol I love money unfortunately it's going to take me a long to even take a man who doesn't give me money seriously. None the less I agree with what you are saying. Love you Jess
No, take any man that will help you set up a business more serious than the one who just gives u cash for spending, so u keep coming to him more and more which will make u a lazy parasite, but that's not who u are dear. RECONCILIATION
It's even a bad sign to dole out money to a girlfriend. It's not in Genesis 2:18. It's her dad's responsibility to cater for her needs till he hands her over to the husband on the engagement day. It's incumbent on guys to always quote Job 2:10 to girls who ask them for money.
Some women thinks that all guys have some kind of magic to get money and you always constantly give her money she becomes even more lazy no matter who she's with
Jessica, you definitely have a way with words, I'm a long time watcher and my first time commenting.You make so much sense that's why I tune in. You bring topics home when you flash quick videos and pictures relating to topic. Keep putting your great content out there , we are watching and learning. Thanks.
