My Girlfriend is Mad I Won't Help Pay Her Bills! 

As a woman, I'm telling you my good man, RUN FORREST RUN.

If he gets that girl pregnant, it's over for him.

The second she said Why haven’t u helped me pay my bills. I’d be so gone.

“She wants to do what she wants to do” Aight, imma head out.

Short answer: Run! Long answer: Ruuuuuuuuuuuuuunnnnnnn!!! 🏃🏃🏃🏃

The irony is that “helping” her financially would only hinder her as she needs to go through this and learn.

"She's more of the free thinker" no, she's more of the free LOADER 😂lazy girl just doesn't want to work...she needs a reality check. don't fund her laziness.

"People are not puzzles to be solved, they are people to be with" - This piece of advice is Golden and I'll remember it forever!

She’s showing him how things would be if they ever got married. RUN!!!

The title should be "My Ex-Girlfriend wanted me to help pay her bills" this relationship should be past-tense. Dump her

What she wants is a sugar daddy not a boyfriend, there's a difference.

A easy quitter with jobs is an easy quitter with a marriage

The biggest question is why is he still calling her his girlfriend

In 10 years she's gonna be wondering why you wont take a second job to pay off the $40,000 in credit card debt she's racked up from online shopping while acting as a stay at home Mom.

Don't do it! I did that and then even helped her family, now they always get mad when I don't want to support her family.

if the tables were turned the woman would've left the guy.

His girlfriend is quitting jobs, expecting him to pay her bills. She sounds crazy! She has access to jobs and chooses to quit them. It sounds like she thinks she is too good to work. If I were Dave I’d choose to leave! ✌️

Can't hold a job, wants you to pay. Why haven't YOU paid???? Pretty princess. Dude, RUN away like Forrest Gump!

If he pays her bills he's not supporting her, he's enabling her.

I was in a similar situation over 30 years ago. A woman who I dated for just three weeks and then wormed her way into my bedroom after that third date, wanted me to help her pay her bills shortly after that. She said, "that is the least I can do for her because we were sleeping together". I "kicked her to the curb" in an instant! I also vowed then to NEVER "sleep" with another woman until I knew everything there was to know about her, even if it took many months. That over the years has worked out a whole lot better for me.

OMG - wish I'd heard this call 20 years ago. Ex wife that I was dating had tons of bills. Asked me to help, I thought I was "helping". In reality, we spent the next 9 years struggling with money. She left, and eventually became homeless. :( I'm looking forward to a great retirement with the right lady the second time. My humble opinion, run like the wind.

RUN!!!! when someone cant hold down a job that is a HUGE redflag!

I was with a girl like this. she had alotta emotional issues and quit every job she had within months. to top it off she constantly disrespected me. glad I left bet

When you dump her and she turns out to be pregnant, because she WILL be pregnant, make sure to get a dna test.

Run like the gingerbread man 🤣

She made the bills, she has to pay for them. Don't enable bad behavior.

This guy needs to drop her. He obviously intends well, but is clearly capable of being exploited by others. He needs to be single.

The host is being polite. That male needs to leave his girlfriend.

Run my man, run hard and far. You don't need a woman like that.

She sounds like she has a huge sense of entitlement.

A lot of people have held jobs they didn’t like until they were prepared for better opportunities. Stay the course!

“Why didn’t you help me” his girl Your answer should have been “because I’m your boyfriend, not your husband and not your wallet.” Leave her. She wants to be a child, let her suffer until she grows up and let’s all pray she doesn’t get pregnant. Which is something this guy needs to watch out for.

How many red flags does this man need before he dumps her?

Child....this is a girlfriend, not a wife, and if she was a wife you are being shown how she views your partnership to be YOU taking all the responsibility for HER state of affairs. You only quit a job when you have a better-paid job lined up or your business is starting to make income better than your current job.....the girlfriend stage is the best you're going to get and if that is causing you problems already....sad. I think the best thing you can do is allowing her to find her self and grow up. Run. Don't waste time or know how much time your willing to waste to allow her to mentally grow, but a leopard doesn't change is stripes it just covers it with makeup, and when it rains you know the stripes become visible again. Good luck.

I got a buddy with a wife like this guy's GF, and nothing changed when they got married and had a kid. Their house is a catastrophe, and their finances are F****d. I'll try to be there with kind words when they inevitably implode.

Leave her she's not you're dependant

This is the type of woman that will take everything, including the kids, after the inevitable divorce. Protect your future young King.

Time to start saying "My ex girlfriend was mad I didn't pay her bills". This call is literally a forest of red flags. Run, my dude.

Ever heard of helping by not helping? If he helps her, she’s going to get used to it and not grow up.

“I’ll take Dave is gonna get baby trapped for $500 Alex.”

This guy needs to run as far as humanly possible.

She’s free to think about how broke she is.

He Basically has a daughter disguised 🥸 as a girlfriend

She not only wastes money, but wastes time. Leave her now!

She needs a sugar daddy and you need a different girlfriend.

She's your girlfriend and she feels entitled, just imagine as a wife.... You'll probably end up divorcing her and she'll leave you broke... run now that you can....

If he needed his bills paid, she’d call him a bum and leave him

What Anthony was thinking but couldn't say out loud ..."RUN AWAY NOW!!!" lol

Every time I listen to this show I'm amazed at the unending stream of entitled people in the world. 😬😬😬 I would never expect a boyfriend to pay my bills. 😳

He is trying to rationalize her situation instead of just removing his self from the equation. New flash buddy you are not her husband or father. Do not help her pay her bills.

He’s actually trying to give her valuable knowledge about finances and how to budget(which a lot of guys can’t and won’t do) but she’d rather be dependent on another person smh

I was in a situation like this a couple months ago. And I broke up with her. I'm not going to let a woman that I'm not married to bring me down right when I finally get a good financial footing. Like he said, save that for your spouse. Don't marry people who will be a financial burdon on you.

I was in this same situation for 6 years with a woman. She was a total disaster when it came to finances, would not hold a job simply because she didn’t like it all the while I’m working OT every week trying to save and invest for a future for us. But she constantly held me back by needing me to pay her bills and like an idiot I did because if I didn’t she would dump me and threatened to move away and i’d never see her again. Finally she did that anyway and now 2 years later she’s conning some new fool and my finances are better than ever now that she’s gone. I wish I’d left her so long ago would have save a lot of money and heart ache.

Sorry my bf wanted to help me pay my cc and I told him no. My debt, my problem (he wanted me to transfer mine to his) I told him I could walk away from him and it would be his debt. Haha he has been my silent cheerleader. Please run she wants a free ride. If she's the one not staying at a job and not doing anything to improve, run. You've offered to help and she's already said no. Walk away before it's too late. If you get married she will want you to support her.

It's clearly a typical girl set up. she gets her a boyfriend who is doing well for himself, then magically quits her jobs, magically forgets to pay her bills and expects the guy to support her. my sister basically did this exact kind of thing.

I am not a huge fan of working either. But to pay off our debt i worked as a maid and in a deli to help my husband pay off our debt. And hoorraayy... we are now debt free and I am back to staying home.

6:55 A man protects and waits until he is married to provide for their family. A boy tries to impress a girl. Almost like it’s straight out of Proverbs.

To the caller, I was really in the exact same situation but I acted stupidly different and I paid off her debts, then things got pretty well for her and she convinced me to get more loans to be able to afford our life together now she dumped me and I am drowning in debts and I was stupid not to see what kind of person she was, I learned my lesson the hard way, this is the first time sharing my story, but I feel you bro and please don't do the same mistake, she's using you as she's so selfish and won't stop until she drains you dry, get rid of her asap, good luck bro anyways

Best thing my parents taught all seven of us kids, was work ethic. That working any type of job is something to be proud of and to never quit a job until you have another one lined up. As a woman, I would tell this young man to run. She obviously does not share the same financial goals in life.

Dude. Caller: If you're reading this...dump her. I know it's sad but she's a bum. It's time for you to find someone you're more compatible with

I’ve had many times where I struggled financially and have NEVER asked someone why they didn’t help pay my bills

Must be nice to be able to find SEVEN jobs...

I wish I had learned this lesson sooner. My Ex was like this girl. Not as bad thankfully. She held down a job. It just wasn't enough to cover her spending habits. I left her a single bill - her car payment - which she had before we met. I DID bail her out of getting the car repossessed (red flag anyone?) when we first met. Back then I was debt free with a savings. I would have advised the guy to dump the girl - until she grows up and starts handling her own problems. He should absolutely NOT marry the girl or "sleep" with the girl until she does.

Run Dave Run! She needs a life coach and career counseling. There is no way a boyfriend can do that for her because she'll resent and ignore everything he advises.

How is it his responsibility to help her get out debt? I’m so confused! I mean, he can do it voluntarily but for her to have that expectation is just nuts!

Good advice. All he should do is show her the way of doing things. Everyone deserves the right to improve but if she's not listening then you better run.

My dear Lord, these two men gave GREAT advice for anyone, in any stage of life, in any relationship--the essence of responsible manhood.

As someone who has been married for nearly 10 years to a lady who has never grown up and whose marriage is now falling apart, I have one tip. Run away, run far, run fast, DO NOT stay with this woman.

He needs to ghost her before she becomes pregnant and names him the father.

She sounds immature. I can be a free spirit but I’m sure as heck going to pay my bills and keep my job.

If you're not married, don't pay her bills!

Sitting here dealing with a break up for this same reason, finally feeling at peace, thanks for reassuring my decisions

Love these guys. As a single lady, would love to find guys like this with integrity, chivalry and common sense. As far as the caller goes, sorry guy cut her loose and move on. She's dead weight. Don't think she's changing.

"That's fine, give her the door that she can exit." XD LOLLLLLL YES

Some ladies have been raised to be taken care of, others live in the real world. Some don't have an allure to attract guys to cater to such,some do! He's been given many red flags on her pattern and remain attracted.

I had no idea it was a 'preference' to not have a job when you have bills to pay. Amazing! This girl needs to take care of herself. Dissolve this relationship. Not compatible and his life will only get worse. Trying to teach her through this- NO, she is an adult acting like a child.

She’s looking for someone to take care of her. She’s a princess 👸 that will make you go broke. Go find another that is on the same level as you.

I lost my software sales job at Nvoicepay making good money 💵. I took a week then decided to get a job at domino’s pizza 🍕 delivery 🚚. Still trying to get into the technology business

Her bills are not his responsibility 🤦🏾‍♀️

When I was going to a rough time, my boyfriend paid for certain things. Granted, I'm not like this lady who doesn't want to work. He's my fiance now and we are looking at a bright future together.

That's a deal breaker! That's not his responsibility. RUN!

Sounds like it’s time to find someone else!

Dave needs to work out why he would tolerate having such a woman in his life.

RUNNN!!!!!

Can’t help someone who doesn’t want to help themselves 🤷‍♀️

This girlfriend sounds like my ex husband. Run, man. Run.

She gave you the best warning ever. What you do with this info is important for decades to come.

Honestly it'd admirable and certainly above and beyond what his responsibilities are, that he chooses to try and help her "become an adult". Indeed that should've been the job of her parents, but it's nice of him to even try.

Before I even watched the video I was thinking she's not on the same maturity level as this young man. Dump her and find someone on your level because you can't make her grow up

Dude, get out of there! A real woman takes responsibility for her own finances and knows how to hold down a job. She sounds like a child. Run!

RUN LIKE THE WIND AWAY FROM HER AND NEVER LOOK BACK!

My goddaughter is the same way. She told me i was not a good person bc i wouldn't give her money. People like this want an easy life and don't want to grow up.

Answer: break up

Sign of huge immaturity to leave a perfectly decent job when you have bills to pay because "you just weren't feeling it".

Amazing video, A friend of mine referred me to a financial adviser sometime ago and we got to talking about investment and money. I started investing with $150k and in the first 2 months, my portfolio was reading $274,800. Crazy right!, I decided to reinvest my profit and get more interesting. For over a year we have been working together making consistent profit just bought my second home 2 weeks ago and care for my family.

I mistakenly married one of these types when i was young and dumb. DUDE, SHE WILL NOT CHANGE! Run like the wind my friend!

How do some people have the guts to ask and use someone else's hard earned money? Even as a woman, there is pride in me to be self supportive.

Marry her. Everything will be just fine. Best regards, Dr. Hor Rib Leadvice

As Tom Leykis says, dump that ditch.

That’s right Anthony O’Neal! Do not pay her bill. Pray that you find a grown woman that is responsible and wants to work together with you. SHe just basically want someone to take care of her and she does not want to work. She may not even be a good house wife or stay at home mom. Who knows but I agree do not pay her bills!!!