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Fly Me To The Philippines
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#expatlife #philippines #dating
‪@FlyMeToThePhilippines‬
Hold on, beware, don’t be so sure that your long distance relationship is based on love and mutual attraction. We are going to share 5 amazing stories - The Wedding / Best Man….. The First Meeting in Country…./ The Driver….. The Little girl and the Dog….. The secret Fiancé found on Mom’s Facebook page, and the amazing story of the International crime syndicate scamming expats out of their hard earned money.
We are going to reveal the 20 most common signs that you may be talking to a scammer.
20 signs.....
Thailand, Malaysia, Philippines, Vietnam, Asia .... give us Expats a break. What a life looking for love in Asia. You have a lot of obstacles to avoid, we share some good common sense about Expat Life.
Thanks to ‪@RaffyTulfoInAction‬ for screen shots for the International Crime syndicate targeting Expat Life.
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@coffeebotography
@coffeebotography 9 месяцев назад
What a great channel. You’re giving Filipina Pea a run for her money. 😊
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 месяцев назад
😊 thank you
@jamiestar3376
@jamiestar3376 2 месяца назад
Pea has nothing on you rob.. your information is very good.. seen all videos yours best...maybe because the ultimate goal is be you..
@ntech1507
@ntech1507 9 месяцев назад
I am addicted on your videos. It's unique in the editing I go back and watch older videos of yours
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 месяцев назад
That’s awesome to hear. Thanks
@ntech1507
@ntech1507 9 месяцев назад
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines yeah no problem. Wish I found your channel sooner
@johntilghman
@johntilghman 9 месяцев назад
So I have met on a dating site a young lady, she is 40. She has a job (Nursing), and she rents an apartment when she is working during the week as her home is a 6-hour drive. She owns 2 homes, 1 the old family home and then 1 that's newer. We video chat all the time, and I have seen her at work so I know she has a job. We seem to have some things in common, but she seems more than willing to try different things (EX: food, music, movies, and such. But I feel like until we meet in person I won't be able to know her, so she is working on her visa. She hasn't asked for any money from me and has actually told me that she makes her own money and doesn't want or need mine. With all the scams and such going on, I am confused as to how she seems very genuine caring and understanding, and very Western in some things. In the end, I am unsure how to feel.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 месяцев назад
Half of all these women or genuine, and a super find the other half not so much it sounds like you found someone who has a good job and that’s a real plus
@johntilghman
@johntilghman 9 месяцев назад
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Thank you for the reply, that is very reassuring to hear except for the visa part. Please keep up the good work with your videos. I am a sub now.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 месяцев назад
@@johntilghman THANK YOU
@Danno_A_Jyd
@Danno_A_Jyd 9 месяцев назад
At around the 15 minute mark you hit what might be my situation right on the head. My LDR pinay has ghosted me because a member of her family is sick, but what if in reality she is currently meeting another expat in Cebu and can not be bothered at this time? I am not a trusting person, so I did try to find her on social media with no success and the dating site, A Foreign Affair, has been less than helpful to me. Today I am in the position of waiting to see if she resumes contact and if she does she will have a few hoops she will have to hop through if she wants to keep me interested. FANTASTIC video, Rob and Chrissy. Thank you very much for sharing this.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 месяцев назад
Chrissy shares this… There is a saying that in the worst moment of your life that is when you need your loved one the person you’re in a romantic relationship with the most and if she was visiting a sick relative in a crisis she would not break off contact for more than half a day as long as she had access to Wi-Fi or just a little bit of load to send a simple text message. Sorry to hear you’re going through this. Thank you however, for the kind feedback and thanks for your support.
@Danno_A_Jyd
@Danno_A_Jyd 9 месяцев назад
Thank you Chrissy and Rob @@FlyMeToThePhilippines . I just finished a chat with an AFA tool and since she refuses to answer my simple questions I gave her a piece of my mind. Maybe I'll drop a note off to @RaffyTulfoInAction and see if he is interested in investigating this company.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 месяцев назад
The process requires patience, so don’t take any sudden action give it time keep knocking on doors, and your time will come
@Danno_A_Jyd
@Danno_A_Jyd 9 месяцев назад
I'm not a doctor @@FlyMeToThePhilippines so I have no patience and ever since her refusal to do a live vid chat with me I have been smelling a rat. Do you know what a NAMBLA is? AFinA [dating site] requires her to sign one after charging me $500.00 to produce it before they will give me her phone number, e-mail address, etc. and she always had an excuse to refuse to sign that, so these problems did not just happen. I've been $tuck paying for her mails through their site and now I get nothing? Yeah, my patience is worn threadbare thin. Thank you for the replies.
@David_in_Michigan
@David_in_Michigan 9 месяцев назад
Don’t ever chase a woman.. ANY woman, that ghosts you, period. You are looking past red flags.. don’t be desperate, there are plenty of better filipinas who will never do that to you.
@faisan902
@faisan902 6 месяцев назад
Good video 😅👍👍 thanks
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 6 месяцев назад
Thank you too
@etfremd
@etfremd 9 месяцев назад
Excellent video! So true! I am on Pinay Love and I think almost all scammers…keep the money small so it has been entertaining and educational. Lots of lady boys pretending to be girls. Now I just start out saying I’ve been scammed a lot I will need video call and picture of ID…almost all are asking for support. What else can you do to weed through them?
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 месяцев назад
Video chat them at work go through their Facebook accounts with a fine tooth comb
@dennisgonya4500
@dennisgonya4500 3 месяца назад
Rob, you have a fantastic Lollong.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 3 месяца назад
I’m not sure what that means
@dennisgonya4500
@dennisgonya4500 3 месяца назад
​@@FlyMeToThePhilippinesDarling sometimes lolling
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 3 месяца назад
👍
@ShiroiTora2EChild
@ShiroiTora2EChild 9 месяцев назад
And so, the plot lines of a true horror story for so many men…and some women…😮. The only way to ensure the story has a happy ending, to any degree of certainty, is to do your due diligence in the investigation of your potential partner ahead of any degree of commitment. With any uncertainty, not only will you expose yourself to a scam, but you will naturally hold back in your affections or commitments, which could doom what could have been a deeply happy relationship had you done so. And so, in assuring the characters of the story are good, you not only do yourself a favor, but you do your possible mate a great favor. In this manner, instead of hoping a horror story will end with your survival, you may write your own great love story from the beginning. Yes, another great video. This will help innocent, but gullible, people in their search of love.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 месяцев назад
As always, thank you for the feedback and what a wonderful written evaluation and for sharing your philosophy. Feel free to suggest a video that we might make in the future I’d be interested in your thoughts, and the outline you might think of as always with appreciation, Rob and Chrissy.
@ShiroiTora2EChild
@ShiroiTora2EChild 9 месяцев назад
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines You have hit upon some very important points in your past videos, and especially with this one, as I received information I had no idea as to the depth of deception in play there. As always, I think Chrissy’s point of view on various topics will always be popular. But, for me, what is especially valuable are the non verbal cues received when people express themselves. I am, as I would assume most going there are also, a romantic. And as such, I would love to see candid photos of you two from when you had first met, and a detailed story of each of your feelings, both of love, as well as doubts, in each particular circumstance. Everyone loves a good love story. I think most people have more faith in those who had done things right in their relationships, and so, will not only become more interested, but will learn more. I know you have described such instances, but this will be a more detailed, blow by blow insiders description, and so, be more thoroughly engaging. It will be especially so with Chrissy’s feelings on the matter, as most men will want to know the inside story of the type of women they will hope to meet. Just one look of love as expressed in your eyes, and other non verbal cues, tells so much of the story. And as it will have been in the past, it will carry more weight, as it won’t be seen as something contrived. Of course, heart to heart talks on each of your views on love and life would be invaluable…the good, as well as the difficulties encountered on a day to day basis, and of how you navigate the bad times…hopefully, successfully, which could provide a schematic for others to follow. We can see Chrissy’s happiness in her bubbly and optimistic nature. This tells we men that you, as a man, are doing things right. And, of course, we see how happy you are with Chrissy. So, a more in depth view of your basic principles which each of you follow to ensure happiness in your partner would prove to be invaluable to many men. I can already see that both of you understand the very basics of the value of reciprocity in a relationship, otherwise, resentment would show its telltale signs in your body language. I am sure the other principles you live by will be considered of special value. And, of course, what you consider to be virtues, and from which your principles of behavior are derived, will be the thought patterns from which others may generalize and apply to their lives. I am sure, you as a couple, are seen as a fairytale couple. Everything so many see in your videos is what, I am sure, so many desire to have in their lives. And so, in order for many to have a hope of the deep happiness they see in your relationship, they will need each of your basic morals, virtues, and principles which you, not only believe in, but that which you live by, as those are what had led each of your behaviors and guided your major decisions in life. As I see a level of basic happiness in each of you, it tells me of your basic level of inner happiness, of a certain level of inner peace and serenity. I personally think that you know how to make yourselves happy, and so, are not reliant upon your partner to make you happy. And so, instead of demanding the other make you happy, you can share your inner happiness with each other. It is this that sets the stage for a great love. Let me explain my personal thoughts on the matter…the very first stage of happiness, that which provides the fertile ground, without which is a soil devoid of the nutrients which allows things to grow, is that of inner serenity. We each have a personal responsibility to know what makes us most happy, and to pursue that each day. For many, that is vigorous exercise, or a creative passion, such as music or any other art form. Time spent in solitude and in a creative outlet, fills the psychological need of self love. It is, what I think to be, what many mean to have a centered self (but not to mean self centered). You are right with the world, and through the eyes of a child, you look at everything as being filled with wonderment and hope. This inner happiness is what is the first, and most basic level, and progenitor, of love. End of part 1
@ShiroiTora2EChild
@ShiroiTora2EChild 9 месяцев назад
Part 2 I think that it is only through purity of the heart and mind of a child that one can love with wild abandonment, and so, can only someone then experience true love with another. And so, I consider true love to be the second stage of love, and which is only possible once the first stage is secured (a love of self). To fall deeply in love with another, however beautiful and life changing it is, there is one more stage above it, as so often, true love of another may be one sided. The third, and highest form of romantic love, is a great love. It only happens when two of like heart and minds meet, and acknowledge their true love for each other, that a great love can exist. This is what most so fervently aspire to, but can never reach, due to their inability to secure the first level…and of the rarity of two people truly falling in love with one another. This is why I think what you two have is so rare, and why I think it would be so valuable for you to describe the path each of you took to your inner happiness. Without this, the great love so many seek, can never be found. And so, in a future video, actually seeing each of you engaging in your creative passion individually, or that which makes you feel so serenely happy, and then on a closing shot, for example, of you two engaged in a touching moment of a socially acceptable form of public affection…just to be extra romantic…not of merely a kiss…but of you two slow dancing to “your song” on a sunset beach (with the song playing in the background). This would be just an example, of course. Of course, the actual mechanics involved, and plans of action, contingencies and built in redundancies in dealing with hypothetical situations which often occur there…such as family strife, whether in your household or with other family members, neighbors, or even strangers would prove to be interesting. Or, the actual navigation of their means of transportation, from trikes and jeepneys, to ferries and other mass means of transportation. How the system works, the expected costs, and how to avoid being scammed…etc…would be of importance to potential travelers to the Philippines. Other videos could be of possible areas of concern I am ignorant of. But, interviews of other expats who had done things right would always prove to be interesting. As always, videos of certain travel spots, including delicious food, and of how to get there is always of interest to people. Of course, depending on Chrissy’s level of comfort, a more in depth look into her life, and especially of her performing a song or two would definitely enchant many men, and give hope to them finding someone like her there. And, you can have a whole series of Chrissy (not that your experiences aren’t valuable) talking of her many experiences growing up, of her fears, of the various challenges she faced…etc. This would provide so much insight into the mind of a Filipina, and so, would attract so many more subscribers…I would think. Anything which could provide insight, any differences of thoughts due to culture, or even of any similarities of thought which could allay concern of possible future expats of being able to connect with Filipinas, would be of tremendous interest. Another twist on the mind of a Filipina would be for Chrissy to talk, and to expound upon, an area of importance to her, either concerning something she feels deeply about that had not been done, or had been done, from her experience in life, whether directly or indirectly experienced. Men, knowing of what is of importance in the mind of a Filipina, of her day to day concerns, or of any deep thoughts she may have, would be of extreme value to your target audience. Of course, your take on the subject matter, of your deep thoughts, especially from a western man’s point of view, which would either see it from a contrasting or complimentary point of view, and how you would apply it to resolve hypothetical arising problems, would be subject matter rarely touched upon by other channels. Personally, the more in-depth the subject matter is, and the wider it may be applied (and so, the more generalized), the more the appeal to the audience. Of course, presenting both sides of real topics of concern to potential expats, the good and the bad, along with human interest stories, of problems and successful resolutions, is a tried and true formula of olden days news casts. To make truly interesting videos, I would think that, that which truly interests you…which truly feeds your creative and emotional drives…and especially stirs your heart…will do the same for others. I would say to research and remember videos that really connected with you, dissect and analyze their order and method of presentation, and apply it to yours. A method of spontaneity and liveliness, and which involves audience participation, is of course, live feeds in which you invite questions of all sorts (skipping, of course, inappropriate ones). Especially interesting is a dynamic of contrasting views between you two…each with your own resolution to potential problems. Always remember to keep it real. The more deeply the subject matter affects you, the more deeply it will affect others. I am sorry I couldn’t give you more suggestions. I am not a typical viewer. I am naturally drawn to human behavior and thought processes. What sets you two apart from other couples, in my mind, is both of your ability to see and think rationally and objectively, and yet, to be so balanced emotionally. You have not allowed your inner child to die. In your true happiness with one another, lies a path for others to take. You have what so many others want. It will be in how skillfully you unfold your story that your appeal to others will reflect (space it out... release it slowly). As with everything in life…it is in the proper build up of anticipation, and then the masterful release of that tension that makes the ride or journey so enjoyable. And, once again, everyone loves a great love story.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 месяцев назад
@@ShiroiTora2EChild wow, so much good information to absorb. Thanks
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 8 месяцев назад
We Dedicated our last video to you! It’s our love story but we had to change the thumbnail because of poor click rate.. its called love her or leave her.. we hope you get to see it. Rob and Chrissy
@ReadySetGo113
@ReadySetGo113 9 месяцев назад
Enjoy your videos. But let Chrissie run with the story when you pass it over to her. I just felt you kept cutting in.
@ReadySetGo113
@ReadySetGo113 9 месяцев назад
"Everyone" talks about meeting girls on FB groups. HOW??????????????????? I have joined (and left) over 20 FB groups. Why?? Because they yare just flooded with Indian and Arab guys showing their wares and telling girls to hit them up if they want to chat. I find very few women on these sites. Those that are tend to be admin. Maybe you should do a Vlog on possible FB groups that actual do consist of male and female with equal, or at least close to it, content.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 месяцев назад
Interesting idea
@perry8498
@perry8498 5 месяцев назад
See you soon , just watch out for whose eye brows
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 5 месяцев назад
😆
@dickyhoey
@dickyhoey 9 месяцев назад
Or a bald guy with hair on his back.
@sebastianheuwagen9318
@sebastianheuwagen9318 9 месяцев назад
crazy
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 месяцев назад
Thanks
@Adrian-md8ng
@Adrian-md8ng 2 месяца назад
Hey Rob, I love your channel, I've been learning a lot about the Philippines and I'm thinking about coming over to check it out. I'm soon to retire and I"m excited for the next chapter of my life. Question for you, I am currently communicating with a Thai girl. I met her about 1.5 years ago while she was working at a coffee shop in Jomtien. She's about 45 and has three kids. I met her again last January and plan on going over again. We video chat every day. On occasion, she's asked for some money and I've helped out but not a lot. I've done some checking on her Facebook and IG and I haven't seen anything that has raised too many Red Flags. However, I was wondering about something? Occasionally, she'll write me and it will come through in a different language. For instance, sometimes, Indian, Serbian or Vietnamese. But it's rare. She claims her phone is arbitrarily changing languages in Google Translate. Typically, I have to change the language manually, it doesn't change randomly. Any thoughts on this from anybody? Thanks
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 2 месяца назад
Hi Adrian, sounds like she is sharing her message with other men and it’s hard to keep straight. Email me at flymetothephilippines@ gmail.com if interested in a private consultation
@Adrian-md8ng
@Adrian-md8ng 2 месяца назад
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Yes, that's my suspicion too.
@Galavantin
@Galavantin 9 месяцев назад
Why travel 20 hours to meet a Filipina when there are Plenty of them already here in USA to date. Some devorced and some still Married well rehearsed at deception. 😅
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 месяцев назад
Too funny
@michaeltoia9095
@michaeltoia9095 4 месяца назад
I have a couple of stories for you guys out there I'm on Christian Filipina dating app or get to know someone app whenever you want to call it So I messaged this one lady she message me back and tells me I don't date foreigners that live in the Philippines and then she blocked me😂 There's one more for you guys there's another lady she told me that she pawned her phone so she can help pay her sister's tuition And she needs 9K to get her phone back out upon Check it out I told her borrow a phone she doesn't want to do that so every option I gave her she didn't want to do what do you think about that Hey guys be careful out there
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 4 месяца назад
Thanks Michael we could start a string of stories. Here it would be never-ending. Those were good ones though.
@michaeltoia9095
@michaeltoia9095 4 месяца назад
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines yeah thanks you just got to be lucky guys just got to be looking good luck
@stevec7712
@stevec7712 9 месяцев назад
What happened ? - YOU or RU-vid removed my Filipina dating story - I quess there is NO more FREE SPEACH in the WORLD ?
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 месяцев назад
?
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 месяцев назад
It was not me… try posting again.
@Sunmoon-gj9gy
@Sunmoon-gj9gy 9 месяцев назад
I'm the same age as you and am living here a year with my younger fillipina girlfriend, so I was happy to discover your Channel and growing up in the East Coast I found your personality very relatable and familiar and your content was intelligent and insightful so I'm disappointed and sad to see you are choosing to use Chrissy as click bait , I was hoping you wouldn't go down the same road as Paul and Baby Mae, so like I did with his Channel I'm regretfully unsubscribing from your Channel and encouring my friends here to do the same , exploitation is exploitation no matter how you rationalize it 😢
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 месяцев назад
So sad to hear this feedback. We discussed your feedback each time you mentioned previously and you should know Chrissy and I are equal partners in the channel. I did not purchase the bathing suit, I did not suggest she wear it or appear in it. She edits the videos and creates the thumbnails. I had a different thumbnail prepared and she created and suggested this one. A girlfriend brought the bathing suit to the pool and I was surprised she wore a bikini top. We will miss your support and hope you reconsider.
@steveharris7116
@steveharris7116 9 месяцев назад
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines This is ridiculous, he is basically saying I don't like something you did so I refuse to continue getting relevant information.. I may not like the style of something a youtuber does, but information is still information, process it how you will.
@rapturerecon
@rapturerecon 9 месяцев назад
There is nothing exploitive at all about this video or the thumbnail. On the contrary, very wholesome and innocent. Now, you "@Sunmoon-gj9gy" making accusations like that to a man regarding his wife...that is way out of line. Rob, don't even give people like this any mind. There are always going to be people trying to push your button, to make themselves sound more virtuous maybe? Keep up the good work guys!
@Sunmoon-gj9gy
@Sunmoon-gj9gy 9 месяцев назад
@@rapturerecon screw you and mind your own business, putting your girlfriend on the thumbnail in certain clothes and poeses to attract subscribers is EXPLOITIVE
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 месяцев назад
@@rapturerecon Thank You
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