Johnny Depp said it best- if you fall in love with 2 people choose the 2nd because if you truly loved the 1st person you would have never fallen in love with the 2nd.
You only have to look at how Chrissie looks at you to know she loves you. I’m very happy for you both. Really enjoy your content, no sugar coating just honesty.
Fit at age 80. I enjoy dating , supporting, and sharing happiness, joy and love with two single fit, svelte Medellin mothers ages 33 & 40 for the past 3 years. On a date with one , we share adventures exploring Colombia’s parks, museums, history, social cultural events, and nature.
Rob, your intent to be upfront and honest is so reassuring; and Chrissy, you are SUCH a charmer (and honest, too). I really enjoy hearing you both sharing your thoughts. Thank you.
Hello Rob and Chrissy ☀️ great video. Thank you for sharing the 36 questions. I might try to use that strategy. Thank you brother 🐸🙌 Have a great weekend 🕉️
Choose both. My uncle married 2 women at the same time. He's the only living happily married man I know. My grandfather had 2 wives. He was happy, too. Lol.
Earned a subscribe. I love you guys. Sounded like a very genuine couple. Im a Vietnamese-American retired vet and looking to retire either in Vietnam or Philippines
Your partner has a beautiful smile, I know it might be difficult to appear comfortable infront of the camera but her smile when she shows her teeth will definitely convey that impression, I enjoy your channel even though I have no intentions of going to the Phillipines or marrying anyone, encourage her shy smile and it will make your channel grow.
Talking about cameras and picture taking. It is as much the talent of the photographer as that of the model to create an atmosphere of confidence and mutual trust to be able to show not only her facts - but also open up to expose her soul.
Interesting topic. Apologizes for my absence, but my desktop decided to melt down when I asked it to edit video's for my channel, so of course I made a vlog about the disaster. HA! I am engaged to be married in May. My pinay, 33, lives in Hong Kong [she works there] and we will try to do a live stream of the wedding mostly for our families. I am the one wondering if I can still be a good lover at the age of 62. I am certain my baby doll won't disappoint me. HA! Interesting topic. 👍
Dear Chrissy and Rob - another lovely positive video. I am initially pleased that your papers have gone in order and I hope for both of you a long and happy life together. Best regards from Denmark😇
Very good . Wow! That was a putt with confidence. If that had mist it would have gone back to the Tee. 🤣 Lovely video again you two . Take care. Thanks for sharing. 🙏
My late wife and I went on our first cruise in the 1980's. I am a foodie and I love to eat. The first night in the dining room, everything on the menu looked so good, I had difficulty choosing. The waiter came to the table several times to take my order. After a few times, he suggested I have everything I wanted because I did not need to choose one or the other. We are sheep conditioned to conforming and thinking we must choose one. I learned how good it was to choose what I wanted instead of only choosing one appetizer, one salad, one vegetable, one entree, and one dessert. My wife and I were monogamous then but after 27 years of marriage we opened our marriage and found out how great it is to live outside the box of conformity. I will never go back to monogamy.
Pick the one who uses less make up and looks good and has clear skin or pick the one who is the clear beauty comparing her with her sisters or even her mom!
Never focus on the 'age gap' it is not relevant, focus on the common grounds and maturity. I have dated women much younger, a little younger, same age and older than me without the intent that age was a focus point. Within my group of friends is a wide range of age gaps, just like in my home country. Every relationship is unique within itself. If a potential partner is still attaining other partners, it is obvious that that person has to deal with internal issues. Being parents takes both partners working together in all decisions and aspects. I am a step dad and a natural dad, all my kids are equally loved.
Hi Guys You two make a great team covering in depth (more than most other channels) info on Philippine culture from a expat perspective and what expats need to know, You need to have to cover your topics quickly but give Chrissie a little more time to answer. I am in CDO , where are some of the expat hang outs you can recommend Thank You
Thanks for the tips Kieth. Check out Cagayan de Oro Expats on Facebook, KL Clubhouse uptown first and third Saturday night of every month barbecue in the evening Wednesdays afternoons 1 PM-ISH
Reminds me of a joke - *_A man had three girl friends - and he couldn't decide which one to settle down with. He devised a test to see which one had the best character. He gave each of them $5,000. The first girl spent the money on new clothes & shoes. The second girl - thinking ahead - spent the money on him - bought him a new watch. The third girl - realizing it was a test - invested the money for their future and soon turned the $5,000 into $15,000. The man thought long and hard over his decision - and chose girl #1 - because she had the biggest boobs._*
@@FlyMeToThePhilippinesI’ve been on a couple of dating sites and met numerous attractive women but they have all been scammers or liars so I’m discouraged; if I could find someone similar to Chrissy, I would start packing today; it seems to me that the best approach is to go there and meet someone in person, your thoughts???
Just found this contribution. Rob - you are ...............(not a nice word ....) if you don't start marketing your talent as a visual artist. Not just as a publisher - but as a teacher. I do have - among many other things - a commercial background in visual art. Your videos are among the absolute top - even in the category of photography - that are on RU-vid. The pictures at the beginning of this video are second to none. Congratulations - make your talents work for you. Share your talent in real life as an educator or organizer of such seminars. You might not be aware of what motivates Europe when it comes to vacations. Different than Americans. People in their 40th to 60th have a few weeks vacation and more income than Americans. Learning - is their motivation - it sounds better among peers to go and "learn" rather than go and be lazy. Your target areas should be the UK, Germany, and Switzerland. Good luck.
Im torn between two. One really is attatched to me and has expressed non interest in other men now and is asking me to not speak with others. The second is head over heels but trying not to fall. I wont be there til December but I know both have everything I'm looking for and are still qualifying for me. It's literally down to being with eachother in person. Only one knows about the other but the one who knows she is an option is meeting me off the plane and she has me for the first week or two. Then I go to see the other who for me is more like wife material and will probably be more loyal.
It is very easy to love more than one person. No one can meet all our needs so it makes sense to me that each person offers different things to different people. And relationships can be satisfying with different people at the same time. The modern concept of a love-based marriage does not usually last. I believe if two people have a relationship based on trust, respect, honesty, and the other person has good character, those relationships are the most satisfying over time. But to say we can only love one person goes against our nature as human beings.
@@BernhardSchwarz-xs8kp then there is the initial attraction. for men that usually entails looks. for a woman that usually entails security. after that, compatibility.
If you fall in love with two people, go for the 2nd person that you fell in love with... because if you were truly in love with the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the 2nd one.
If you can't handle your future step son alone you should hold off on marriage until you can. Just hire a nanny they would be easier to replace than the potential of causing an issue if it doesn't work out with Chrissy father and mother in law living under the same roof. Her extended family might get use to the living standards you provide and won't want to move out if you need privacy.
My take, my rule of thumb, 20 years younger is my safe zone. Case of two lovers, there is a feel of greed or hunger. There are games that we all play to convince/overcome our needs. There are video's by others of "the Filipina" games. The ex-pat is/will take her out of a negative financial situation, one must do their homework on their pending lover. Dating women 40 years younger, will not make you younger physically, mentally it might or lead you to believe you are😂😂 good luck on that one. Mind over matter, you don't mind, it don't matter.
I wonder if the guy with the two ladies is financially supporting them both, if he is it could possibly continue for some time, however if he is not the decision could be made for him in a shorter time, btw i am really enjoying your channel and good luck to you both, regards joe
Cute segment! Rob, I'm running out of time (80 in May), but I hope to make it to the Philippines to find what you have found! I have a 31-year-old Phillipeana that I'm chatting with, but I'm concerned about not having my boots on the ground to make sure I'm not getting scammed. I'm a trust but verify type of person! She is currently in Cebu for the weekend, buying items for her online business. I find it hard to believe she can spend 20,000 PHP in travel expenses and buy enough goods she carries home to make a profit! Do you think this is a red flag? Ask Chrissey for her opinion, also, please.
Chrissy says yes some Filipinos can afford that type of expenses when they do have an online selling business Chrissy did online selling during the pandemic so she has a good feel for it
Thank you for the information! She says she sells new high-end products like perfume, etc. I hope I'm not being blinded by her beauty. Another point of information is she has two children. She knew that I had to have money because I was stupid. I FaceTimed her at home, and she asked me to give her a video tour. I live in a 4000 sq ft house on a private gated golf course. That was a big mistake on my part. @@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@@billslaven28 I guess you have to get to the Philippines to see. Remember there are a lot of amazing (and many not) women in the Philippines. Even with boots on the ground, you can get scammed, but it's harder. Be thoughtful, be careful, and have fun.
That is not a bad idea, One set of parents to 'help out'. Similar thing in Thailand, but with a twist. There you want an Isaan 30-something single mom with a daughter in her upper-teens. One set of parents, etc. ... and patience.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines You talk about how you do not want folks to know where you live. But your mouth blabbers on to who you live by and descriptions of other items folks can narrow it down. My comment was advisory. No, I will not visit. You open the doors for others to find you.
An alternate view. If you're coming from a sexless marriage or a long drought, forget about finding "the one". For the first while, do the 'bar girl' scene. Be respectful and considerate, but rack up numbers. Rediscover that part of yourself. Feed that hunger till that hunger rules yoju no more... and after the head between your legs no longer rules, the one between your ears can come into play... and if you have paid attention, you'll know what you like and don't like. Looks count, and - because so many of us have been in sexless marriages for so long - so does hotness in the sack... but you'll find that beyonda certain level, there are other things that count for more. Only then will you be level-headed enough to choose. - Voice of experience
Love and lust are two different things… most humans will easily develop lust on many other people due to a bunch of hormones that will flow crazily throughout their total body blocking rational thoughts as they will turn into emotional persons…. That normally is with only one person BUT there are plenty of persons that had not rationalized yet the term “commitment”. You have to first define who you are. A Hunter or a Seeker. If your interest is just to seduce as many others, then you are just exploring, playing the field and hard to satisfice. They will always want to try more and more… those are Hunters. Full of lust for everyone that could cross their eyes field of vision leaving so many broken hearts in their paths. Seekers are those that know exactly what they want and what kind of person they want into their lives, and yes, questions like this help a lot to determine this. Rationality will be on top of emotions as they will have to control the animal instinct we all have. That lust will always diminish with the time and then love will start to develop as the commitment it is, as it is a decision, not an emotion.
Hello Rob and Chrissy, I like your opinion (an others if you are willing to share) about single mothers. First of all, I think single moms are probably the easiest to get a loyal girlfriend? As she probably won't find that many man that will accept her and her kids (she can't monkey branch). And I've seen many beautiful elegant single moms. However, I feel that I can never be a good father to her child (and be bad father to my own children at the same time). Let me explain. All the money I make is not mine (really it is truth) All the money that I make is really for my children and grandchildren. Small amount of money I don't think there is a problem, but if this amount is say 3 millions or 10 millions?. So the fact that if I share that money evenly to my 3 children and her child. Do you think it is fair for my 3 children (now getting 25% less)? NO. Now if I don't share that money and her child get nothing in the inheritance when I die, is that fair to her child? NO... so this is a Lose-Lose situation. Whichever path I do I am viewed as a bad father by all the children (mine and hers). Then being a step father to her child, I can never discipline them the same way as a biological father. So what is my benefits for raising some other man's kid, yet get no satisfaction, no benefites, no appreciation? I mean if her child is a girl? They only need a false accusation to say, I peeked at them taking a shower and my reputaion could be tarnished. So do you think it is fair? And in this case her son he could harm my daughters to get even for treating him not the same as my other children. Do you see it from my point of view? So a man can have many wives, many children from all his wives, but it must be all his children. Another man's children is a whole different game that I am not wanting to participate. Am I wrong? Please let me know your thoughts.
I videos call my flance and I talk to my daughter 4 or 5 time aday i am in England at the moment sorting things out so I can go to the Philippines for good i will keep on going back to England maybe once a year a eventually selling all of my 50 houses i rent out
I'm surprised you didn't pay the 100K, or a negotiated amount, to the ex-husband. For under $2K, in your position, I would have gone for it. You're one heck of a negotiator. Lots of experience from when you were selling high value, high price B-B.
Online relationships are not real. I simply cannot develop true feelings for someone via online chat and video chat. It’s not how I my brain operates. Filipinas too quickly throw out the “I love you.”
You can lust for multiple people at once but I don’t think that you can genuinely love two people at once because if you do genuinely love someone there’s no room in your heart for someone else.
I dont think that it would be hard to be stuck between 2 Filipinas or 2 of any woman in South East Asia or Central and South America... How you would handle that situation is another whole discussion... lol
Dude you are getting ready to purchase a package deal . You need to look at the worse case scenario and that is exactly what is going to happen. Once your woman gets that ring you will find out that her kid is going to be sharing the bed with you and the kid will never fully acknowledge you as his father. A couple of years from now he will probably hate you and when he becomes a teenager he will challenge your authority nonstop. He is now 6 years old and is well aware that he has a biological father elsewhere. I understand that this sounds very harsh but it is what it is.
Douglas, I appreciate that you were willing to share your opinion and that you watch our video. My parents were divorced when I was young and I was fortunate to have a step parent who cared for me and I gave her a terrible time but she God bless, her soul, earned some good karma.
This Q&A might would be OK for a phone call. But seriously, who is going to remember all these questions?? So would become a bit embarrassing to be seen reading these questions off your computer or phone. I would also question the sincerity of a person who needs to read predefined questions to me as opposed to asking questions out of genuine interest and/or from the heart. So pass!!!! I'll go the good out fashion way were genuine love takes time and spontinaety.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines but seriously, how genuine do you think it is. Come on!!!!!None of it is from you or from your heart. As I said, I will stick to the more genuine way. If it takes longer to find true love then so be it. As genuine questions and feelings will give a higher chance of genuine, LONG TERM love overall. Let's revisit this 5-10 years from now.
