Never-ending shit-tests, self-created drama, unresolved daddy issues, and the emotional roller coaster are enough to make a Man appreciate the single life.
It goes beyond this. Some females are manipulating , sometimes to extremes. They are not constantly testing. This video puts the girl in some 'angel' position, as if you should always do what's best to get them. Don't be afraid to dump a using boring annoying hot girl. You often pass the best test when you tell them to get lost
While I do think he was actually onto something with the test thing and I do believe it is a totally real concept, his failure to mention any possibility that they *might* go too far with it just pissed me off. I normally like his videos but his insight on this felt so ignorant and after watching like half the video girls and successful men as painted in the video are just really far removed from what life is actually like.
The answer to every test is to maintain masculine frame by not reacting emotionally or loud but by staying calm at all times. If you want to also " test " a woman you need to keep them in a scarcity mind set by showing them you're not afraid to let them go at any point in time of the relationship.
Well there's something to be said for that, but really they're no laughing matter. Laughing at girls is like laughing at cancer. They can hurt you even if you don't think you have given them an opportunity to do so.
Michael Weston a girl tried a congruency test on me she was all nice to me before but then she started threatening me and I just looked at her and laughed. After that she was real giggly when I would be by and act like she liked me. One of my buds came up to me and said “I feel like she would get on her knees for you and suck you off dude by the way she acts when she is near you”
After 17 years, I gave up an the constant 'testing', I no longer spend my life wondering wtf is going on. Happier than I have been for the past 20 years!
@@miroe1157 I got over it because I gave up, and chose a life of remaining single. They're all shameless selfish psycho drama queen manipulators that can't live without hearing the constant sound of their own voice so they can pretend that they have a TV talk show, and complain about everything else. A bad dog is a better companion.
I can’t speak for other ladies but I work 12 hours a day 6 days a week. I don’t have time to “test” my fiancé we just live life and see how we react to life situations.
Everybody!!! She's testing us right now by saying she doesn't have time to test us. This is the trickiest test of all. The "I don't care test" everyone knows this test! Basic female reverse psychology knowledge right here. If she says she doesn't have time then she wants you to make time. It's so clear.
Yeah sure LADY, I wonder if your fiance agrees with you, and if yes, I wonder if he'll still agree when you trap him and upgrade from fiance to wife to ball and chain.
I know that there are women who don't play games. I appreciate so deeply every one of you. It is half of the solution. The other half less with us men.
The solution to all of this? Start incentivizing people to marry by a certain age again and outlaw divorce and feminism and women will flock to men as providers and all these wastes of energy and disappointment will disappear overnight.
Not only that, but if the mothers start raising their daughters to be wives and mothers then they will have a stronger desire to stay with the good men.
Just as low value women are the ones who test men, low value men are the ones who test women. Gentlemen, just pay attention and VET (no games) the woman. A high value woman would walk away from a guy's tests, just as a high value man would walk away from a woman's tests. I was grateful to the few women who tried to run tests on me. Their actions showed very quickly that she was a low value tester, and gave me the only reason I needed to walk away.
What everybody needs to understand is that, these tests are NEVER EVER EVER only goes one way. NEVER. You see, when girls test guys subconsciously or not, the guys are ALSO testing the girls. A very likely outcome is that the girl will run these "tests" and the guy passed with flying colours. The girl becomes attracted to him and suddenly... BAM!!! The guy doesn't want to commit. He is not interested in her because she doesn't pass HIS tests. Human relationships are always like that. Whether it be friendships, work colleagues, boyfriend/girlfriend or whatever... Just remember that while you are analysing them, they are also analysing you. So my advice to people who run these "tests" is that, be careful when you test someone because you too will be tested by the other side. Even the "tests" you carry out on them can be very likely become a part of THEIR test on you.
Here's how I handle a female testing me: 'I walk away.' Tolerating or putting up with any of that crap, whether you approach it with a high learned level of understanding or not, is irrelevant. If you allow them to keep 'testing' you, the tests will get worse and more frequent, due to your neurotic woman's need for re assurance. Don't feed that monster. Don't play that game. The maker of this video, thinks knowledge will help you out with this. It doesn't. He's right about one thing 'be a man'. I'd say: grow some balls, then ignore it, or avoid these sorts of neurotic female behavior patters, whenever you can. Or you are doomed to marry some needy pest and have to deal with it the rest of your life.
@@nazywajmniev You need to start making decisions based upon evidence, as your last two assumptions are incorrect. But it wouldn't matter if your smear was correct, as it still doesn't disprove my previous post. It's an ad hominem attack on my person and irrelevant to my stated argument. If you disagree with someone's argument, you need to point out what parts of their assertions you believe to be incorrect and present your evidence for your conclusions. Personal insults in a forum such as this are a pointless waste of time.
@@martinherald6492 You're on the internet, and im a stranger you probably will never meet again. No need to make yourself look smart in front of me, or anyone else.I have some evidence gathered from how objective facts in corelation with your sentences from the first comment, but im too lazy to point it all out. Usually it's just simpler to sum up what i want to say, and make the person reading: 1. try to look where from did i get my assumptions, 2. be a complete egoistical douche and think that it's just a "hater". You obviously chose the second one. A pointless waste of time is, again, trying to look smart in front of random people on the internet.
@@nazywajmniev I can concur with the attitude of insulting some one in order to try and get them to reconsider their position, as I'm not perfect and do that sometimes myself. However, why should I be trying to research your assumptions? As I have already stated they are incorrect. Plus I'm pretty sure you didn't really think that I was blind. So dazzle me with your brilliance and tell me how that was supposed to get me thinking about anything useful? Your original comment was no more thought provoking than the standard cop out "You're wrong...How? Just google it".
@@martinherald6492 The reason to why do that is simple. A big think that differentiates intelligent people from dumb people is self consciousness. A dumb person has no idea it's dumb, because such person never had the mental capability to even think otherwise. An intelligent person on the other hand, has such a skill available, therefore such person usually uses it. I myself may be or may be not intelligent, i am not the one to judge, but i do think about what i do right and what i do wrong. When someone says -for example- that i am too egoistical, even tho i laugh it off and it doesn't offend me at all, i still do look into whether the person that said such a thing had any support to what it said. And it usually does. That's why i am using what other people say to me to perfect myself, even if it's a random person saying "hehe ur dumb". I suggest the same mentality to you, because it opens you up to becoming a better person. And yeah, what i am doing now is a complete waste of time, because you probably are going to shrug it off, but i hope you will reevaluate what i said atleast a little bit. Have a good one
Wtf in their right mind would want to get in a relationship with somebody that is testing or playing games which is basically the same thing. There's not a quicker way to push me out of your life because I don't freaking trust you when you can't keep it real.
I love the “evil” guy is just a man that acts like a woman by manipulation to get what he wants while not caring about her. Where as this entire video is making excuses for the same version of the “evil guy” but as a woman lol
We should all just be the "evil" guy and get what we want. Don't hurt, but NEVER go out of your way to please a woman or pass some idiotic test. Relationships with women are completely overblown in the minds of most men. Get money, then you have to find ways to REJECT women.
This is your red line and she passed it, how are you going to react? That's what she wants. It is not okay for nobody and she knows this.That's why she does this.
Youre tryin to make sense of the complex female mind. stop it and just learn how to spot the test. Showing it doesnt faze you is a sign of your strong mind. Getting all annoyed and twisted over it, or referring to it as bullying, is simply your true beta colors shining through.
"You can either ignore the truth, or embrace it." Yes. And when you ignore it, you can utterly and completely ignore it. You can give it the finger and walk away. Now, sometimes, this will mean that some women follow you and want you. Or it may mean you are utterly cut off from female company. If you do it because you want the former, then you're not really doing it. You have to really walk away and not look back to enjoy the benefits, the peace of mind! You can't just pretend to not give a fuck. You have to actually not give a fuck.
I refuse to believe that all these unnecessary, long, drawn-out, bulshit games that girls play are done on a "subconscious level". When a man does something he has to take pride and own up to what he has done. But when a woman does something then it's on this made-up "subconscious level". I dismiss that bullshit.
It's a biological stimuli to be honest, and whether you accept it or not, it's there, but that should not serve as an excuse. We humans have a unique ability to surpass our biological stimuli and urges, we have the ability called "self-restraint" and "discipline" that can surpass and even stop our primitive ways. So saying all these things are subconscious sure it is, but it should not serve as an excuse, because one cam consciously take control of this "subconscious" actvities.
Because it's 50/50 in truth it's not like we're completely unaware of our nature or even our subconscious. It's just like admitting that you like to fuck. There's no reason behind it other than that you're biologically built to want it and you wouldn't deny that and it's the same with testing. You know you do it, they know they do it but what most guys don't get is that women get a kick out of it too because unlike most of us who see it as just an unnecessary obstacle they just accept it as part of the game and honestly....they're right. It is just another game and should he treated as such. And the rules are simple: don't take it seriously, don't take it personally and of course when your ass is being tested you better deliver and you deliver by not accepting any of the shit they're serving you. Double points if you give them a counter 10 times harder than whatever they did then going about your buisness while they take their time to recollect themselves. Not out of vengeance (because then you'd be breaking rule 2) but so they just back the fuck off when they start to bug you. And trust me few things are as gratifying as actually playing their game with them instead of just being their play thing. Just imagine life as a game where you can invite someone to play it in co-op mode and she's your player 2. And to make the game a little more fun for herself she decides to fuck with you whenever she gets the chance. Take the game too seriously and she's gonna piss you off playing like that. She'll notice that and either quit playing with you or make a sport out of it to get on your nuts because you happen to be the type to make your suffering at least look entertaining as fuck. Or you can accept what she's doing and start fuckin with her too just for shits ngiggles in which case her interest in the game skyrockets so immensely. And remember the more she gets invested in you the more she wants you to succeed the more she'll help you out when shit actually hits the fan.
Many women do it with awarness that she is positively testing, verifying This is soooo low game.. I think as you - man are treated as this with intention. Veeeery low, primitive, rude intention. And demeaning, humiliating as such. What to say to somebody who spits at you? O, hi, nice to meet you, I want to be your friend! I like you very much! You should be a nice lady! The "nice lady" presents herself as a low rider, low gamer. There is really nothing interesting there.. maybe except the packaging.
This isn't elementary school. They must truly have the minds of children if they feel the need to administer "tests". Here is an idea, how about be an adult, and administer an adult conversation. When the conversation mutates into a job interview, that's the time to get up and walk away without paying for her drink.
tailgunner2 exactly tailgunner2. I really have suspected this truly. I really do think women have minds of children. Who asks a lot of questions whether they know the answer or not?-children-Who looks for approval-children.who makes decision without reason or caring about consequences of others-children. Sounds like women do these things all the time according to this video. It sure seems like they act like children. I am glad that I am not the only one who observes this.
"She's a fucking cunt she's a fucking cunt every woman in the world is a fucking cunt" (the cunt song slightly rebooted by me) LOL have a good laugh at this people
We will not be tested by your mind games witch! The ape was chosen bc we are wild, strong,beautiful creatures. And unlike your sex that for some reason is obsessed with being strong,We just do. Stop trying to test me! Get out of my head!
J Wake well be yourself,just know how things work and be the best version of yourself. You can be a fat,ugly,awkward loser and be yourself,you can also be fit,stylish,trimmed,clean and successfull and still be yourself,its all about being the best you. Workout Dress nice Smell nice Have a good job Know how to talk to people,know how to not be clingy or creepy and youre good. Just do your own thing but do it good
Play it cool in every situation. You went to kiss a girl and she moved the face? Okay keep the conversation going like nothing happened. She all of a sudden blocks you? Don't try to figure out by sending her messages from another account. Just ignore it. Women like when men ignore their dramas because they are naturally drama queens and they don't want to be in a relationship or smash another drama queen. So for every shit test just play it cool and don't put emotions in it
What makes it even more challenging is that if you pass EVERY test, then you are too perfect and therefore too boring. You need to screw up and fail a test every once in a while to keep her invested Lol
Not true. I appreciate the comment was sarcastic. She wants a guy that is able to say no, and mean it. She does not want a puppy- she might, but she will never sleep with a puppy.
I call them stupid games. D'you know what I do? I replace her. My life isn't all about girls. I've alot to handle in my life other than attending to petty mind games.
Holy cow this video gave me the biggest epiphany yet!!! You are so completely right! Since I tend to be so honest and transparent, I never really thought about girls being concerned that guys would be fake/lie to them in little things, to determine if they are trustworthy/stable/secure/patient etc... with the real issues in life! Suddenly soooo much drama makes so much more sense!
I hope you realize that not all girls are manipulative. My girlfriend doesn't ever test me because our love is mutual. She knows that if she tried to manipulate me it would end our relationship and that's the last thing either of us want.
The more I watch your videos, the more I suspect whether I really want a relationship. Seems like not worth it. But thanks that you take us into the mindset of women and help us be shrewd against their manipulation.
if the only thing turning you off from finding love is this guy's videos, you should get other opinions too. notice how none of these videos have any scientific sources? no psychological studies backing up the claims. this guy is just a guy and doesn't know how women's brains work, only his interpretation of his own negative experiences. believing what this guy says is the true failure
My ex must have been testing me for years. After five years of passing all those, I must have slipped up and failed one. Oh, well. I feel less stressed now.
This so much. Unfortunately I keep clicking these videos because Im weak af for clickbait and way too curious. I always imagine that this guy sits in his basement all day, being obsessed with women and reading articles about that all the time. He feels he knows so much in theory so he made a few clickbait videos repeating the same thing over and over. It made him money and gives him the feeling of being successful and popular, further fueling his obsession with "being alpha and getting all the girls". And the worst thing is, millions of young men are taught here that women are all machines where you need to follow complex instructions for their ultimate goal, sex. These guys will focus so much on that that they will become nervous and be awkward instead of likeable.
You can be respectful, kind, and caring. Only to those who deserve it. You can be all of this without being a pushover. People who assume being respectful, kind and caring = weak are immature and small brained.
Listen ladies....... i am a simple man: if i say i love you it means i love you, if you ask too much for me to do i will tell you that, i will never change
By watching this video , you see why life is so hard? Cause women just simply play all these random testing games just to see what we're all bout and to get an idea of us ....... Like why can't they just get straight to the point? Why this complex random intricate step by step process just to get a girl to like us , or to get a girlfriend?? It's insane bruh .... That's why having a girlfriend is not only hard to find but hard to keep because women keep "testing" you and playing all these mind games and you have to be quick to catch on to them otherwise you fail ...... Hard knock life until we layin in the casket ⚰️
well i suppose it's the same with life, don't you think? Life just doesn't gives you what you want......life teaches you how to deal with different situations in different ways. So if you look at it that way......you meeting different girls and gaining new knowledge from them (or the mistakes you make), prepares you how to deal with that sorta stuff better. At some point, girls realize that you already have the experience to deal with all the "tests" that they throw at you.
Shayfer Lyrics They test you to get the real truth about you, not the fake representation of yourself that you present yourself as to get laid, since with girls once she gets pregnant she wants to know that you can protect and provide for her .
This is utter rubbish. There is no test. Women just have mental problems by the mile and love drama. The real test is whether or not you have the patience to withstand their constant running mouths.
You realize these tests are to indicate to a woman you are a potential sex interest, right? I guess being a rich virgin ain't so bad, you have money I guess
Yet, as you get better and better, you begin passing tests faster and faster and with less and less effort, and without really having to think about it. This is because girls test when they FEEL UNCERTAIN: but when WHO YOU ARE IN EVERY MOMENT PRE-QUALIFIES YOU AS PASSING UNSPOKEN and EVEN UN-THOUGHT OF TESTS... you will experience far less DIRECT or CONSCIOUS TESTING. In fact, women will start to pull back the amount of testing they do; because they ALREADY SENSE YOUR POWERFUL PRESENCE and PRECONCEIVE YOU TO BE A MASTER OF TESTS. When they FEEL this ENERGETICALLY; there is NO NEED FOR THE TEST. Testing comes about because of uncertainty; which stems from them noticing an IN-CONGRUENCY between what you say and even what she sees; and WHAT SHE FEELS. She is attempting to VERIFY OR DISCREDIT or GAIN THE TRUE INSIGHT AS TO WHO YOU TRULY ARE. Once she KNOWS... she stops testing. Once she feels something in-congruent with the APPEARANCE OF THINGS; she begins testing again. This goes to show that WHO YOU ARE is more important than who you PRETEND to be; though... who you PRETEND TO BE, if done LONG ENOUGH, CHANGES WHO YOU ARE. - Or she might just be a bitch who enjoys inflicting pain on people. IF you're into that... then that's fine; but if not; probably move on, eh? ;) As always, great stuff!
Check it... i had a crush on this chick. Still somewhat do. She could be a bitch. Straight up. But thats only cause i beleive my mind is tryna label her 'trash' but something wont let me. Anyway. She reeeaally shit tested me one day as i approached her sitting a lone. Sweet talk and tryna just get things going. She pulled a shit test i wasnt ready for. Dont quote me... but she went along the lines of.. (first i said , "hey, i feel like you are scared to talk to me. Like why is that ? ) her response, on god man lol, "idk why you talk to me. Most men are out to get one thing & you are steering to getya feelings hurt ... etc... those words were def in there. Maybe not exactly as sequenced but boy. I backed away saying, take it easy catchya later. Pheeewww.... sucks man cause i could feel the attraction between us and still do somewhat(lukewarm) i already knew from jump she was a tough cookie. I know all about women like this. But to be so.... nasty was like...i .. was.. not. Ready
Huschibaba bro it's all confidence round women and sexual tension, I have super cars and money, learned to fight I still couldn't get girls, watched far above average and Dan Bacon i changed that fast, cars, money, muscles are good for the first 10min lol don't believe the political correctness and media it's all advertising to make you shy then get you to buy more fashion etc to "get the girl"
Mvd9 we all are to some extent. If you have navigated life in a modern society, you have probably developed a degree of complexity, and are not just the sum of generic character profiles.
weakbrainthrombosis, I agree. Reconizing it and improving yourself is key. Not for a girl, but for yourself. You can't have good morals if you're harmless, people disguise it in being moral. You should be dangerous but you should also only use force if it's necessary. Where do you draw the line between straight up insult and teasing tho? From a stoic perspective none of these should bother you maybe you sohuldn't put up with unecessary insults. Or maybe you should because it makes you sharper?
Devin Andres thatsyour experience my G... I don’t know what women you where actually dealing with . But on average I can guarantee man are more avid cheaters , none the less women do cheat as well , they do it for more intimate reasons
I guess if you want to look at it that way Bob men are just tools to help the process along. Women are the leaders of the purpose. At least women have a good purpose.
By biologically engineered he meant that because women have to be so selective with a partner because they bring life into the world they have to test that partner to make sure they are strong enough mentally and physically to help the process. No woman wants to mate with someone who can't pull their own much less help raise offspring. Therefore women do not want men of lower intelligence and skill. Braun is not as important as you think. O and you have to have something in common. She does have to enjoy your company after all.
So I'm guessing you're a girl and because you didn't answer the question, you're advice is based on no facts or experience. That's like a gold fish telling a shark how to hunt.
I have a female coworker that only comes in once every 2 weeks because of covid. The last few weeks she has been very cold when we first see each other. So I decided other than good morning I will not initiate conversation. Everytime after a couple of hours she will approach me and start a conversation
Great video! That way we can test them by acting like we don’t know we’re being tested to see if they treat us like pushovers. Secretly turning the tables around
No dude you are not giving them enough credit. They are social geniuses and that's why guys are so frustrated that they are unable to deal with their psychological tactics. You must learn these tools through logic because that's the tool nature gave us as opposed to the social prowess that it gave women.
My advise is dont waste time chasing or trying to please women around you. Question authority and everything you hear and filter it through your own principles and believes. Work on yourself, improve your status in any way you can: mentally, physically and financially! Women will come.
Agreed with everything except the last paragraph. Whether or not companions come isn’t the priority, it’s about being the best person you can possibly be. Always focus on that.
False dichotomy is everywhere . You can accept that girls test you and not embrace it. Yes this channel will help you get girls, but that is seeking validation. Acting like you don't care about validation, validates you. It's simple reverse psychology, but being a man is about being able to stand alone, not acting in the way that gets you the most women. Players are men but, not all men are players. I mean sure you can just kind of tell yourself that shit... It's conforming.
You don't play by the rules, you break them and create your own (listen to Arnold Schwarzenegger's speech on this, just type his name and breaking the rules). All successful people gained success from breaking the rules; ever heard of the idiom "behind every great fortune there's a great crime." This is true, research any successful person (new money not spoon-fed) and this rule breaking will be found. But if rule breaking is too much or scares you, at least find loopholes that work in you favor. Like Desmond Stephen said, don't embrace that shit, otherwise you are enabling their ignorant behavior...good luck
If as a guy you'd do those tests on her, it'd be called mental abuse. Also notice how toddlers have the same behaviour, testing boundaries, being disrespectful and depending on the parents reaction either losing respect for them or gaining respect? The tamper tantrums look similar as well.
My own observation: its a fine line between explaining yourself and defining boundaries .... One is said one time clearly with conviction, because you feel the need to say it. The other is closer to supplication.
if you really want to know..most test (from what I want and what my family wants) is hard work, best way to test that from a first sight perspective is abs. If you got muscles you already have some potential since most guys are so lazy. hmmm damn if you got abs man most girls would already want you ;) I know some guys would get triggered by this since they're too lazy to get abs or just dont want to, then dont! obviously some girls would not care but this is if you want to be the alpha male instead of the beta/omega males
Everyone pushes everyone's boundaries sometimes, to see what is acceptable. Its how humans communicate. It isn't specific to a gender; that guy at work that brings up cars or football to you, and craps on your opinions about both? It isn't just small talk. It is a test to see if you're relate-able. That project you've worked on at school, and that teacher forces you to defend it? That's a test to see if you stand up for what you believe or double down on your mistakes. Every moment is a data point that people collect. I don't think leading/loving has anything to do with this, and it seems like very bad advice to just generically be assertive. You shouldn't lead in area's where you know you are deficient, and you should expect to be lead around in areas where you know the person leading is deficient. It has nothing to do with roles. This isn't great advise. There are no solve all answers, or always a specific response to a person testing your boundaries. It's a case to case situation that should be judged in the moment, not by any outlying factors like if that person is a girl or not. My point is, you shouldn't be assertive if you aren't correct; you can't solve the world's problems or even your own by being blandly assertive.
The congruence test tests for integrity (acting on one's values/principles consistently). The compliance test tests for independence (orienting yourself to reality and your mind's view of it, not to other people and their views).
Wow lots of these comments are from people who failed the tests! LOL...seriously tho they didnt hear you when u said they do it subconsciously. Not mind games at all. They do it to make sure they can be safe with us. Great video bro! I just found your channel today. You got yourself a new subscriber.
This is what I like about you, you give knowledge and the truth no matter how harsh or bad it is that why some people will hate because they are basic but the 200k of smart people are here because we know you talk the truth
Ben S Lot of women are not getting anything but the cold hand too. Divorce lawyers having job over their heads. It's pure comedy seing poor ass feminist bitches all over invest in a dog or a cat.
I walked along the beach with my new date only yesterday. We talked, flirted and laughed but at one point she gave me a question which came across like an insult. She said. "So you just think of all your relationships as "experiences" huh?" I recognized what is was, laughed, pulled her close, squeezed her tight and said, "You could say, I'm very experienced." And we both laughed together. Well thanks to this video I just barely remembered from my high school days. Thanks FarFromAverage.
@@kayleighhooper7021 No, she packed my bags when I got home from work one night after 8 months of living together some of which was in lockdown. No warning or anything when it came... Her reason for breaking up with me was that she was “still young and wanted to try new horizons.” She... Not ready to settle down Apparently. Unfortunately something I hear way too often from Modern women. Hopefully, she'll find greener grass, it does allow me to continue working on myself and also find someone better who is committed and serious.
you are right but there is a girls who are different they actually have different point of view they come from family who raise there daughters through old traditions who will accept you for who you are and never leave you and respect you For better or worse, for rich or poor, in sickness and in health ... till death do us part but not girls you talking about here modern girls
