5 Ways Narcissist Self-Destruct

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In this video, '5 Ways Narcissists Self-Destruct,' we take a deep dive into how narcissists self-sabotage and unravel. Whether you're dealing with a narcissist friend or a covert narcissist, understanding their behaviors can be enlightening. We explore the delicate balance of their ego and the things that hurt a narcissist, potentially leading to their self-destruction. Plus, we uncover the web of lies and smear campaigns that often accompany narcissism.
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@CommonEgo 9 месяцев назад

🔍 Suspecting someone you know might be a narcissist? Uncover the truth with this FREE checklist! It breaks down the phases of abuse, allowing you to assess your experiences. Download your checklist now: www.commonego.com/checklist

@mzneal9034 9 месяцев назад

There will NEVER be closure w/a narcissist. My final closure was when he passed away. He went mentally insane at the end when he knew he no longer had control over me. He still tried to destroy me but he failed. For my sanity and to move forward the best decision I made was/is therapy (going on 4 yrs now). Oh the gaslighting, lovebombing, trauma bonding, sexual exploitation but no physical sex (withheld as punishment) lied every time he opened his mouth and he was cheating on me for our entire marriage (10 yrs). You can not fight or argue with a narcissist, they will use anything/anyone against you (anything you ever trusted them with). No contact is really the best way to go and remove all mutual friends from social media, do not tell anyone where you live unless you want the narcissist and their family/friends to stalk you and report back. Take care of yourself, mentally and physically. It's not a 1 and done, moving forward is going to be difficult but you are stronger than you think. Be blessed and I'm so proud of you. You got this, 1 day, hour, minute, second at a time. You 1st everything else 2nd. Stay safe, strong and blessed

@percystreet 9 месяцев назад

My first clue was deflection tactics in arguments - I could never get my wife to resolve even the smallest issue because she’d deflect and after 3 hours of argument we’d be talking about something completely different

@johannbarker11 9 месяцев назад

Same here. It seems like 3 hours is a magical number for them. I already knew that it just didn't make any sense at all. We're laying out facts and/or trying to resolve the conflict with solutions, and here they are replaying their reality (which, in my case, I'd already validated) and shaming us the whole time...exhausting.

@Clevelandsteamer324 9 месяцев назад

That’s actually called “word salad “

@Hookhackle 8 месяцев назад

Sounds just like me and my CN wife!

@MielaMaze 8 месяцев назад

💯

@dolladollabillz 6 месяцев назад

Omfg. Yup.

@stuartr2764 8 месяцев назад

It was the realisation that it wasn’t personal that helped me get over it. I cried for the loss of the relationship, and accepting that the relationship had never even been real anyway was kind of a double blow. But I’ve accepted it and moved on. I’m ok now, and just have to deal with ‘normal’ life dramas and issues - it’s such a relief.

@grantaugustyniak6667 6 месяцев назад

If you’re unsure if a person is a true Narc or not - they move around a lot ! With their jobs, where they live, their furniture in their house, the people that float in & out of their lives … it’s a true blue sign of who you’re dealing with - in my observation of life so far . Very restless souls

@sailorPinata 2 месяца назад

Take this with a pinch of salt. The majorities of narcs I know and knew had a relatively steady routine, had the same enabling family & friends etc, almost or never moved, but as I'm the black sheep / scapegoat but didn't like people treating me as a doormat + had to move for my scholar studies, I was the one to move a lot and change my circle. People are more subtle than that.

@shaee0707 Месяц назад

@@sailorPinataRight !

@debbiecarter8687 9 месяцев назад

I was recently diagnosed with Kidney cancer. When I came home and told my husband, he said, "I've already accepted your death. Death is a part of life". I didn't know what to do. I needed a shoulder and some empathy, instead, he told me that I was "going to just use my diagnosis of cancer, for sympathy." He told me I was weak.

@mojomeme3116 9 месяцев назад

I’m sorry you had to deal with that. I had a similar situation with my Ex it opened up my eyes to see things differently. I never knew people are like that. Hopefully you have found a support system

@carolinanoriega3813 9 месяцев назад

I hope and pray you get better soon!

@deawallace3584 9 месяцев назад

Similar happened to me. i called my now-ex overt narcissist spouse and told him my father (whom I had been caring for) died. His exact words were, " You think you are the only one who ever lost a father?" Find other people whi care for you, because a narciissist cannot and never will.

@Kat_878 9 месяцев назад

Debbie this was painful to read, you are not weak, because you must have endured so much over the years with that man. His response lacked empathy and compassion for his wife- the very least you deserve. I hope this isn't terminal, but you need to make yourself your priority- we only have one life, and these types cause so much darkness because they envy our inner light. Please feed your light x

@Hookhackle 8 месяцев назад

Be well, Debbie! The narcs have ZERO empathy … mine used to have a little towards me … last 2 years, zero empathy! I had to ask myself if I wanted to spend the last part of my life with a ‘mate’ who has no empathy and the answer was clear … we are starting the divorce proceedings.

@DeeEll86442 4 месяца назад

OMG you described my father exactly @3:41 😳He was always a charmer until he got older and no longer had his looks. You can only be so charming pushing around a walker with an oxygen tank 🫤

@Andronicus2007 4 месяца назад

My experience with Narcissists is that they are good at first impressions, however most people usually catch on to them sooner or later. I agree that Narcissists often self destruct, they have trouble learning or improving, as they think they're perfect already. It ain't pretty what can happen to these people, and also old age and death are a insult to their grandiose self image!

@raymondwilliams7638 9 месяцев назад

I stumbled across Rebecca Zung's videos on narcissism. The light came on, and I felt like I wasn't crazy after all when I heard another human being describe the behavior I had been dealing with. It was a beautiful realization! 😃❤🙏✌

@imalwaysme4332 9 месяцев назад

Oooook, advertising another channel 😂 knowledge on this subject is crucial, however, have some tact!

@xaviercarr3054 9 месяцев назад

She is racist and textboook to me

@cathie1234 9 месяцев назад

I stumbled upon narcissism when Chris Watts killed his family. They said he was a narcissist and his personality was just like my husband!!! I went to a therapist. She validated my suspicion. I’m not living with him but he still tricks me into contact. We have a house to sell together and as far as he’s concerned it’s my problem. he’s the most manipulative person on the planet. 30 years of hell.

@MENTALHEALTHWITHLUKE 2 месяца назад

It's like they deliberately self sabotage everytime they start believing they have something good in their life. The accusations are extremely hard to understand or deal with. The paranoia they throw at you is really sad to witness. The lack of accountability is also hard to fathom. The minute you think you've nailed it and found the "one" it goes to 💩such a shame cause I do believe there's beauty in there. They know it, we know it. They show it, realise and then press the self destruction button.

@jneubauer76 8 месяцев назад

It's important to realize they often become narcissists from trauma. They build their false self out of defense as children. Yes there are some who are that way from being placed on a pedestal but most often it's from trauma. That doesn't mean they can see themselves and change. It just may help people realize they are the way they are for a reason.

@emmarae4322 7 месяцев назад

Doesn’t excuse abuse.

@jneubauer76 7 месяцев назад

@@emmarae4322 never said it did.

@d00fybatz 9 месяцев назад

I discovered the narcissistic connection with my ex when I looked into "silent stalking". After the breakup, she kept creeping my social media, so I actually put out an olive branch saying if she wanted to talk I would hear her out. No reply. Yet, the stalking continued. That was odd, so in researching that I learned about covert narcissism and so many things -- past and present -- suddenly made sense.

@sailorPinata 2 месяца назад

That's not enough to qualify that someone is a narc.

@jainorr4915 9 месяцев назад

I googled “husband always criticizes me”

@andrewschyf3825 8 месяцев назад

I had to google "why does my wife complain about my 'tone'?" Then my eyes got opened.

@saipoorsina8741 2 месяца назад

Roughly 15 years ago on my lunch break I started googling my husband’s behavior. I was at a loss and felt like I was losing my mind. The term narcissist popped up and eureka! It described his tendencies, my in-laws behaviors, and the effects of the gaslighting I’d been subjected to for years. It’s been a long road but I’m finally content and free of the control and self doubt that had been heaped upon me by my spouse. Protect your soul and listen to your gut. You’re stronger than you realize and when the chips are down the fight in you will keep you grounded in the truth and reality of your circumstances, it will move you forward to a healthier tomorrow. You have to know that you have been the stronger one all along.

@guardedcitadel5837 8 месяцев назад

Walking black hole. Excellent!

@LetMeBeLighter 9 месяцев назад

I don't see my ex-narc self-destructing. In fact, he's managed to make all my "friends" (they obviously weren't. It still hurt, though, a lot) leave me and become his friends. They gave him a raise so I had to step down because I didn't want to be in the same field as his. And all this after all this friends knew we ended things and I said he didn't treat me right, nothing else, only that statement. To me, I've lost it all and he's at the top of the world. I'm alone and he's surrounded by "my friends". So, yeah, at this point I think he wins at life. Not that I would ever want to be like him, I rather die, but the unfairness of it all makes me so sad I just want to crawl under my sheets and never leave again.

@johannbarker11 9 месяцев назад

I wish more of us had friends like mine. My friends cursed this individual out and called her out right away when she tried the whole triangulation angle. Prayers to you. No one deserves to be treated with unfairness and abuse.

@LetMeBeLighter 9 месяцев назад

@@johannbarker11 Thank you for being so kind and I'm glad that you have good friends that support you. Kudos to them for seeing the truth and being there for you. You've been through enough, you deserve that kind of friends 🤗

@johannbarker11 9 месяцев назад

@@LetMeBeLighter I'm lucky /blessed. I've been surrounded by these great people for a long time; well before I got involved with these "relationships." Still though, I appreciate your reply and wish for you better tomorrow's 😊😊

@Tongdee 9 месяцев назад

Unfortyunately... That is the chorus Line to a lot of Songs and lives. For those that believe in Karma I have a long list of people whom fool most of the people most of the time and threaten & or disable those that know the truth AND are brave enough to voice their facts only to be hit by the truthful "No-one will believe you" anyway and a ruined reputation. Stupid people in large groups follow charming Narcists instinctively.

@jhavajoe3792 9 месяцев назад

"It ain't over till it's over "- Casey Stengel. That he looks atop the world is an illusion. So he has the talent for conning the masses- so do dirty politicians. There might have not have been one rock solid, true friend in a bunch that could be easily swayed. "The loser now, will be later to win"- Bob Dylan Right now, that "you know" and will stand solid with yourself is the only thing that matters in the entire world. The best to you!

@juliocastillo6962 2 месяца назад

How I stumbled upon narcissism? Same way than you -and perhaps everyone: Noticing that something was fishy in my relationship and tried to figure out. After long hours of research from different sources, VOILA! everything fell into place...

@anthonyleveille1 9 месяцев назад

It started with me searching being stalked and harassed. Then I stumbled across targeted individuals, which then led me to finding narcissism and now I'm exposing and healing.

@sickofit5547 9 месяцев назад

Same thing happen to me plus scapegoat.

@NSEasternShoreChemist 9 месяцев назад

For me? It was Kati Morton's video, where I learned that for people who've suffered emotional abuse, the concept of someone being kind and loving may be foreign and scary. That was what sold me: ALL my relationships that failed were with people who treated me kindly, and the only reason for that was that I'd experienced emotional abuse. A bit more searching via the Narcissist Family Files and I found that I have a covert narcissistic father.

@vince1012 9 месяцев назад

I am doing no contact. I feel alittle badly for her but I'm mostly okay.

@lislis9134 9 месяцев назад

You feel a little badly?

@xavierbreath2227 9 месяцев назад

Ghost them with extreme prejudice. Never go back. No contact. Trust me. There has never been a narc who “go better” or “conquered their disorder”.

@codybell6882 9 месяцев назад

Same. My narc treated me so bad and cheated and discarded. But her life fell apart after that, she went off the rails doing drugs and self harming. Her family even turned their back on her after what she did to me, they all saw. I feel bad for her sometimes too and I wish I couldn't. I like that Karma got her but I'm still feeling that empathy on a human level.

@alicec.6195 9 месяцев назад

Your channel was the first answer I got for covert narcissism. You have no idea how much you helped me to get away from that situation! Thanks

@Cajanaki 4 месяца назад

My narcissistic mom lost all her life fighting her husband Now she lost me in her old age fighting with me

@TheDAMURDOC 5 месяцев назад

I have always felt as though I was being the victim of narcs in previous relationships. In retrospect it seems I was at fault and burnt many bridges. I relate to this video very well and hopefully will try and make future relationships more meaningful. Not for me but for everyone else. Trying not to make every relationships transactional will be my main focus as a start. Thank you for the content.

@izawaniek2568 9 месяцев назад

Spot on! Thank you Christina. ❤

@melanievanloon7299 9 месяцев назад

But I know narcissists that have the same group of friends and the same job for a long time and a relationship/marriage for a long time so they seem to get away with it

@davidmckay4423 9 месяцев назад

My experience with my narc ex was that she didn’t have any real friends. She had people she used for different things but no one that was just a friend. If they couldn’t provide her with whatever she wanted she would dump them.

@melanievanloon7299 9 месяцев назад

@@davidmckay4423 yes I had a friend like that. So I know this is real but some people seem to be dancing around getting caught. See that in church a lot also.

@ellie_j. 9 месяцев назад

I don't see them suffering any consequences because they simply don't care! None of these consequences bother them, they simply deflect and carry on with their evil deeds!

@melanievanloon7299 9 месяцев назад

@@ellie_j. yes exactly well said

@MJ-qb5ph 9 месяцев назад

@@davidmckay4423yeah and I used to feel sorry for their isolation for years!

@dinab7852 9 месяцев назад

Your extemely informative videos & soothing voice keep me sane. Thank you 🙏

@sailorPinata 2 месяца назад

I love the "walking black hole" analogy, spot on. Also they are leeches.

@allieeverett9017 9 месяцев назад

Grab your shovel...love that 💯

@franklamosa374 11 дней назад

With friends, they will scam them or take advantage of them.....They will also end up feeling conned in that they were played....

@DrTechMedRevolution 3 месяца назад

I remember her menu pathological lying and it was a long time ago but I remember cuz I thought wow that is interesting also since I’m a doctor so even so. Well safe to say one thing led to another and then I realised how it was all so pathological and then I came across narcissism and then everything made sense I read people very well now and all good

@helensophia2900 9 месяцев назад

Great content!

@Vanessa-xn1bk 9 месяцев назад

He left house saying that I was crazy and driving his life mad by jealousy. He went to his sister home and even said that to her and kept seeing his lover, thought. With freedom once he lied he was divorced.

@garykeating4964 8 месяцев назад

Thanks Christina spot on ❤

@taylorgrigsby2014 9 месяцев назад

I first learned my wife is narcissistic after I heard her tell her former best freind's mom that her former best freind (the daughter) is a narcissist. Later I heard my wife and her boyfreind talking when he says "we are both narcissists." It all has made sense since then.

@cristina7317 4 месяца назад

My mother 3 heart attacks, breast cancer and now liver cancer There is karma!

@Flips44 9 месяцев назад

This video word for word. AGAIN WORD FOR WORD IS TRUTH

@Keith_Mikell 8 месяцев назад

Great video. They will stop at nothing to draw the attention. The real thing is watching a RU-vid channel you know is a narcissist. My god some of the stuff. They just can’t help themselves. It’s almost like to be on RU-vid they need a screener. But they won’t listen to the screener anyway and still pay them lol. Your talks are great. Loving them.

@nicholecornes1915 5 месяцев назад

Im in the stage of wow....i step back and watch 😂geez

@safeeffective385 9 месяцев назад

Hey ladies, before you throw that ex under the bus here (which seems to be the trend)... keep in mind: Narcissists always deny any responsibility for their dysfunctional behavior. To achieve this they use inherently use denial, delusion, gaslighting, minimization, deflection, blaming the victim, and playing the victim. Exaggerated victimhood is a textbook feature of narcissistic grandiosity. Narcissists play the victim to garner sympathy and avoid responsibility for their abusive behavior. Recent studies show that many female narcissists dress in sexually provocative ways-revealing clothing and/or wearing a lot of makeup. Many use sexual seduction to manipulate or financially exploit others.

@pvrkvxxw 9 месяцев назад

Spot on

@clintonnagy1662 2 месяца назад

I dated a few overt narcs and I knew what to look for The covert narcs have a more subtle way of slithering into your life. When I first met my EX gf she talked about sex with her past lovers like normal conversation. Little did I know she was enticing me to get in between her legs. At first I ignored the talk but later thought how it was odd behavior especially when I barely knew her. Later I saw how she used the same tactic around other men she didn't know as well. It makes me mad knowing that conversation is meant for couples who are sleeping with each other, and any other sexual talk with a stranger is unexceptable.

@merin797 4 месяца назад

Ok. Buckle up for this story. My narcs mom died. He had been estranged from her for many years. One he got a call from the corner in California. He lives in Belgium so we had to fly to California to give a DNA test to identify her body. She had died inside her trailer along with 15 or 20 cats. No one discover her body for two months, so there was nothing left. they rescued those 20 animals. And here’s the very disgusting part. Her cats were trapped inside the trailer with her for two months. And they began to eat her. I know this is rough. So he didn’t want anything to do with the financial responsibility so he got a lawyer. Her landlord tried to sue for damages and clean up of her trailer. He told me during a discussion with the coroner, he actually had a laugh, siting that it was much like a Monty Python sketch. SUCH horrific detachment!!! Bizarre beyond belief. He buried where I went back to his life as normal. He said to me “yeah I miss her but it’s all over now.”. Today, this is the worst thing I have ever heard in my entire life and hope to never hear anything like this ever again.

@olganunez5965 9 месяцев назад

Great information

@annastone5624 9 месяцев назад

What about the narcissists that manage to keep long term connections and have successful careers? I feel I’m the one who has jumped from job to job and place to place.. but always trying to escape one narcissist or another.. yet people might see that as suspicious..

@dawnkikong637 9 месяцев назад

Society rewards narcissists (think politicians and celebs) and C-PTSD resulting from narc abuse can cause problems with work and other relationships. If you had a narc parent you might have a fear and distrust of authority figures and might end up fleeing conflict or fawning to placate them, etc.

@dawnkikong637 9 месяцев назад

I realize you were probably asking the question to Christina but I have some experience with that as well so thought I'd offer what I've learned. There are some behaviours that overlap/are common with narcs and narc victims.

@dawnkikong637 9 месяцев назад

One more thing! I've noticed that I will often leave a workplace because I think life is too short to deal with a narc every day and they are more tenacious so they tend to stick around. They are bullies so why would they feel they have to leave? And employers are often clueless about what's going on. Narc victims need coaching on how to handle these creeps, which is why these videos are so helpful. Best of luck to you on your path of healing! 💚

@cc1k435 9 месяцев назад

A business relationship is not the same as a romantic or family relationship. We reward lots of behavior in business that doesn't work in other areas of life. Narcissists can close the deal, obviously, in multiple areas, but they expend little energy in maintenance. Once the deal in business has been made, how much does it really take to keep it going? It's not like at home, where you are expected to interact with the same people IRL on a daily basis. 🤔

@annastone5624 9 месяцев назад

@dawnkikong637 Thank you for your replies! Definitely interested in your experience. I’ve done both - stuck it out.. massively detrimental to my health, but proved to myself I’m not ‘weak’.. I’ve also left, because life is too short. Now I would recommend the latter every time. For me the REAL problem was that I bought into what is in fact narcissistic narratives - where they define every healthy normal reaction to their type of behaviours as weakness. Essentially invalidation and gaslighting. Now I realise how much abuse I’ve experienced - I no longer buy into all that BS, it kept me in many toxic work positions, as I was primed to see myself as the problem not them and the toxic workplace environments they create.

@MelisJoy 9 месяцев назад

Great vid as always. I didn't find the link to closure video in description & had to watch vid again to find it. Not sure if I'm missing something.

@CommonEgo 9 месяцев назад

Thanks! RU-vid puts the links from the video cards (that pop up during the video) at the bottom of the description now, so I haven't been adding them to the description manually. It's actually below the written description and below my channel name, so maybe down a bit further than you might expect.

@johannbarker11 9 месяцев назад

In case it isn't apparent, exposing the narcissist could be you simply asking the question "why?..." Why are we fighting right now?... Why did you see fit to think that I am feeling sad when I have already told you I'm ok?... I know from my own experience that I sincerely did not see the sense in fighting someone that I'm in love with and sincerely wanted to know where their feelings were coming from in order to resolve the senseless conflict. Apparently, these seemingly harmless questions may have exposed a deeper truth that would hurt them more; asking resulted in an exacerbation of the already existing conflict.

@Hookhackle 8 месяцев назад

I said/did something similar. My CN just doesn’t talk when my feelings come up …

@johannbarker11 8 месяцев назад

@@Hookhackle yeah I've heard about this aspect of the also. In my case they raged out or did more things to continue the argument (word salad being a particular feature). At the end of the day they think taking accountability is harder than deflecting/avoiding 🤣🤣

@ilovegodandjesusjohn316 21 день назад

Psalms 136:18 And slew famous kings: for his mercy endureth for ever:

@BigPete44 9 месяцев назад

Hello beautiful Christina! 🙏😉😍♥️

@enigmavibess 9 месяцев назад

After years of marriage i notice my wife is Narcissistic, after heart atack she didn't call ambulance, and when confronted here she was raging at me, that i dear to talk abut it with my parents coz i Puting her in bad position, i was spechless zero sympaty, intold here you basically left me to die, i aoke up with my bed with my sons with out her in bed, i tottaly start ignoring here, and now she started going for girls night out, im loughing

@mariojanaf5474 9 месяцев назад

I knew that something was wrong with her at first glance. She was too perfect. Carefully watching her I deduced that she was too nervous around me. Not talking too much, not revealing any additional information. Blocking me with "I have a boyfriend". But still, she went out to party and sleep around. After a while, she asked me, and we went out, but I couldn't understand what she wanted. Started to blame me for unknown reasons. So, I ended it on the spot. It was easy and controlled. Coz I solve this happening before I get involved with her. In my head, like many solutions. Later I wondered why she acted like that, almost like my father and sister, and now mum. They have got a problem with me. So, reading a lot I came to the conclusion Im INFJ, and they are pissed off at me. With narcissistic tendencies, my dad and her got NPD. I'm afraid for my sister, Mum just adapted to my dad's conduct. God gave me the option to dial down empathy as I like it, so I just observe them. I will fight back with all knowledge about NPD, and strike where it hurts. Like better NPD than them. I just feel stressed to do my acting right. To give that 110%. They are not getting better, only worse. There is no help.

@olganunez5965 9 месяцев назад

I got rid of my narcissistic

@Anonymous-kp3jf 9 месяцев назад

Could it be that a narcissist can also think more in the long run sense? Would that make them more psychopathic than anything?

@titaniumaura 9 месяцев назад

_Wishing you well (O_0)_

@ambertini6475 5 месяцев назад

I found out when I googled silent treatment.

@jhavajoe3792 9 месяцев назад

Wow! Your ex sure chose the wrong person to lie to. The Narcs? It's that "off-ness" that they cannot answer the simple question: "Do you think it's OK and admirable if someone treated you like dirt, conned you, etc.?" Their depth of reply would be: "Nah, it'll never happen to me." Let them truck on in their robotic world. It needn't be Karma, it will be when it all comes crashing down in many other ways.

@DockClock-rp2ro 9 месяцев назад

Pepople with cPTSD also switch off emotionallyp. Also DA's. My ex had botph. These videpos neepd to account for outlieprs.

@siestahall1497 9 месяцев назад

My mother my whole life was a pathological klepto liar who couldn't stop cheating on my dad. He died. She didn't change her ways. I left. Years later the term gaslight came across my screen. I then started searching for what a human parasite is, a real life vampire..... one who SUCKS THE LIFE OUT OF ANYONE AND ANYTHING..... enter narcissist 😂

@karenKristal 9 месяцев назад

the 15 years of close friendship was an interesting comment. Can a narcissist be a close friend for so long?? or is this only to doormats?

@annastone5624 9 месяцев назад

Wow - translate their actions into words!!! What a brilliant idea. Definitely going to watch that video..

@annastone5624 9 месяцев назад

Oh sorry just looking for it, which video is that?

@carrotstick1970 5 месяцев назад

@@annastone5624This point is at the 4:00 mark in this video.

@annastone5624 5 месяцев назад

@@carrotstick1970 yes she refers to the video at that point, but doesn't say where the video is. So I'm looking for a link to the video if I can get it 😀

@rebeccaspence2091 9 месяцев назад

Hi Christina can you please do a video for me. Me and my narc are going through a divorce. I had to move to another city because he was so aggressive. He's a malignant narcissist. Very very abusive to me but not our kids.when I left i couldn't bring them because I was homeless. Now that it's been years of no contact mode and him holding our kids from me, im strong enough to face him and save my kids! Please help

@rebeccaspence2091 9 месяцев назад

Also, when I went no contact, it hurt because I missed my kids, but I REALLY WENT NO CONTACT! it was the hardest thing I've ever done, still doing..how do you move forward?

@irise.8607 5 месяцев назад

One is driving by myself. I know he's not going to hurt me but do I need to pretend to like them to make the drive-bys stop?

@jrhelton6217 9 месяцев назад

Just recently got out of a relationship. And just recently opened all my eyes to all of this stuff. Just need some help making sure that all of this stuff is true. She wanted me to change everything about me. And when I didn't change something. She nagged me about it, and then she put more stuff on top of it, She never took fault in anything. She always put the blame back on me just trying to figure out if all of this stuff is narcissist and I know she was gas lighting. Me was in this relationship for 4 years. She ended it when I decided that I was going to move out and be on my own. We have a little girl together. And now she's trying to take her from me and control the whole situation. So if someone can help me determine if she was a narcissist. Thanks

@clintonnagy1662 2 месяца назад

My EX was the same way. She slowly criticised the clothes I wore and the music I listened to. She would degrade my hobbies and interests when I chose NOT to marry her. She went so far to criticise how I grew up as a child and how my parents shouldn't had 4 children because that's too many to disperse attention and care.

@DeeEll86442 4 месяца назад

You talk about how narcissist lie. Well, my son is a narcissist, and yet he claims he never lives, but I always catch him in lies. I’d really like to know if there’s anything that anyone else can do to help a narcissist change? Or is there anything in their lives that has to happen to make them want to change? Or are these people doomed to follow the same patterns, and eventually drive everyone away, and self destruct? My father was a narcissist, and he did exactly that. What I mean is he drove everyone away with his actions, and then he ended his life alone in a convalescent hospital dying of alcoholism. He ended up dying alone. The shame about it is just before he died I was taking care of him and I loved him so much but he did everything to drive me away until I could take it no more. I don’t want to see the same thing happened to my son. Is there any bit of advice you can offer me to help My Son?

@charleshall9629 9 месяцев назад

💯💗

@MassageMagick1111 7 месяцев назад

I knew something was wrong with my best friends mom. She was mean and not a a loving mom. One day a video popped up titled, “5 signs your mother is a narcissist” so I clicked it on and the first sign I thought hmm that seems like my boy friend then the second sign! Then I realized he had every sign. So I learned how to get away! The funny thing was grey rocking, I was already doing that without even knowing it was a thing. It took me a whole year no contact to finally get my physical health back because he sucked every nano of energy out of me! Fucking vampires!

@Kevin-gg1bp 9 месяцев назад

Why is this mainly men. My ex is a woman and I think she might have aspd. She is making my children's and my life hell

@JacquelineOuma 6 месяцев назад

During conflicts they would run away from problems

@clintonnagy1662 2 месяца назад

So true. They RUN, and blame everyone else. Childish. Usually the one closest to them gets the blame.

@Jess-wk5jo 9 месяцев назад

My questions for you over affairs. 1 is it turth that Not every affair involves sex. ARE still affair or do people need sex for affair or cheating to happen ur not. 2 are you really sure it affair without having no no sex 3 What another ways to have affair or cheat on someone without having no sex .x. 4 is it turth that Cheating doesn't always have to involve sex or even talking about sex 5.I have question can i have affair without having no sex

@williampadin537 9 месяцев назад

The drugs the Pills and the achool

@amyj.4992 7 месяцев назад

This gives me a different kind of view on Dexter

@user-ny6ly7sw2z 23 дня назад

My ex wife I caught her cheating on me and also told people I beat her and she used her little brother to take her from place to place I was under her control but my gut told me she was lying I admit what I did was wrong I recorded conversations she had with her little brother and found out that way they were literally talking about it in the living room as I was in our room and the walls are so thin I can hear things from the outside LOL the funny thing is she still can't admit to it even though I have the evidence LOL

@tarawhite4419 9 месяцев назад

You can't get in trouble if you can't get started

@patriot1182 9 месяцев назад

I searched Jeckle and Hyde behavior! Bang narcissism! Good riddance!

@PeterShaw-ne1yq 9 месяцев назад

Narcs are a no win entity😉

@jamesruscheinski8602 9 месяцев назад

develop substantive choice republic

@BAHDK 9 месяцев назад

You volume is quite low. Some channels are like that.

@georgehorning9000 3 месяца назад

Technically that dude was not wrong. It actually is beneath him. Haha. Seriously though. That’s pretty bad.

@chigooner7433 8 месяцев назад

This describes my now to be EX Wife!

@anthonyreed2229 5 месяцев назад

I don't think these comments are real comments. Like the vids but I think you should find real comments from ppl in your comment sectiond instead of these comments that sound like they come out of narcissism textbook

@tfkdandsvkc 9 месяцев назад

Can we talk about how Narcissism relates to patriarchy

@mrsherwood2599 9 месяцев назад

Don't let us stop you.

@tfkdandsvkc 9 месяцев назад

@@mrsherwood2599 are you triggered coz you know patraichy causes Narcissism and psychopathy

@gailremp8389 9 месяцев назад

Good points. True. 23 years to get away from my ‘Donald Trump’. Not easy.

@lazaruschrist6575 9 месяцев назад

Best president in history of USA

@lazaruschrist6575 9 месяцев назад

Your talking about BIDEN unless your a f in fool

@hawkverity835 9 месяцев назад

You mean your joe Biden

@SuperChicagoDude 7 месяцев назад

@@lazaruschrist6575anybody who loves narcissist trump is exposing themselves as a narcissist worshiper. Congrats on outing yourselves on a narcissist exposure RU-vid channel. You think you won but you really lost. Trump is laughing at you for being his fools. Buy yourselves a trophy, losers

@TheNostalgiaNest 6 месяцев назад

Trump has excellent relationships with his children and staff

@bigdhell9303 9 месяцев назад

And your profession is? A plumber’s arguments and insights on the subject are untrustworthy, because he/she lacks a proper education and practical knowledge regardless of their life experience. Personality disorders are much harder to analyze and understand than most people think. I think it’s important to state your profession at the beginning of your videos so that people can decide if you’re trustworthy and reliable to watch or not.