The Narcissist's Karma: Are You It? (With Real Life Examples) 

*Think you may have had a relationship with a narcissist?* Download the FREE checklist to see how your experience stacks up to the phases of narcissistic abuse: www.commonego.com/checklist

Their karma is driving genuine, loving and loyal people away. Their self-undoing make them unlikeable and disrespected.

The karma is being a narcissist. They may have hurt us but we know how special it is to love, feel love and care for someone. A narcissist will never know this. That's life long karna.

Narcissists are terrified of Karma coming to bite them.

They are literal demons walking this earth

Insignificance IS the narcissist's karma. Let them have it.

To tell the truth, after we broke up and I was in therapy, I recognized that my narcissist was a damaged, emotionally immature person. I did not wish harm on her. To move forward and heal, I had to let go of the hurt. You have to change. Your narcissist is not capable of owning their faults. If you're invested in their downfall, keeping tabs on their life, then you are not truly free from their orbit. Therapy is awesome. I highly recommend it. I'm actually in my first good relationship, for 8 years now. I'm 64. I wish I had gotten into therapy sooner. But I'm riding off into the sunset with someone loving and fabulous next year, could not be happier.

Karma never forgets an address.

She broke up saying “keep my stuff at your house.” We will keep doing everything we’re doing, just not the relationship.” I put her stuff on her front porch and she was engaged 4 months later.

Life is good. They hate that you walked away with no bad intentions. The peace of God is with us.🕊

I came to the realization just last week that my husband will never be happy or satisfied in his life and that is very sad. I don't want revenge, I don't wish bad karma on him, I just want to be able to be untangled from him. When that day comes I hope I can walk away and not ever look back.

I discarded him (I knew he was a Narcissist) but months later her made contact and I had forgiveness in my heart. He love bombed me then destroyed me. Pure revenge. No Contact FOREVER is the only way.

One of my exs, he wasn't a narcissist, but the relationship didn't end well. He started treating me poorly and I left. 18 years later, he contacted me when going through his divorce and she put him through everything he put me through, but on a more intense scale. Karma.

Only people capable of introspection worry about karma. Best thing we can do is worry about OURS, not the narc's. To each their own. Keep walking the high road!

My ex narc got engaged within 1 month of me leaving her because of her cheating again and married the guy 4 months later. Her new supply husband was still going through his divorce when he got engaged to my ex narc. They posted pictures all over social media (FB) of their wedding pictures. Funny thing...she was posing for the camera looking at it while the husband only showed the back of his head. Must have been a huge downgrade from me. This is proof that they will marry out of revenge. I left her after 11 years of this horrific roller coaster of a relationship.

Until now I didn't realize the level of Karma that I did. Once I called her out and caused a HUGE narcissist trigger, she completely showed her true colors. To a point of never wanting to speak with me again. After being friends for 9 yars and dating for 18 months that hurt. It was a blessing and I am grateful for the last karmic lesson and soul contract I will experience in this way again!

Narcissistic people are deeply insecure. That by itself is ver painful. Sadistic or malignant narcissists are probably a different game.

I know that my ex hurt me but I actually love him and instead of wanting revenge , I feel so sad for him . Its like he couldn't feel the deep love and loyalty I had for him 😢

By the time I broke up with her and right before she revealed her true toxic nature (via hoovering me later on), I told her I only wished the best for her in life. And even after the horrible things I've been subjected to after and discarding me horribly, maybe I still do. She has none of things she really wanted from the last 10 years since. I only know because she misses me and wanted me to reach out to her recently. I want nothing to do with her. That's what I believe is karma.

This is one of the best channels for narcissistic abuse and trauma bond. You really hit every single event. They are so predictable and hurtful. I’m currently in no contact after 9 months of separation and divorce. He cheated several times during our 12 year marriage and I had no idea. No I’m the reason he cheated. I don’t think so. Stay strong!!!

I'd suggest if you're going to wish anything for them, wish that they'll heal so they'll stop hurting those around them (they won't heal, but if you could have anything, them ceasing to abuse others would be the best outcome). Their karma is that they're narcs. They're unhappy, nasty, envious, contemptuous individuals. That can't be pleasant. Their targets don't need to get revenge: narcs are already suffering and will suffer until they pop off into their graves.

Yes… NO CONTACT is the only way to get your life back and try hard not to ruminate which can be really difficult… what to do there is, if you find yourself thinking about your narc ex, think about ALL the bad times because there’ll be plenty….the good times? They weren’t! real.

We are it seriously if you are full of faith and love! Trust me YOU are IT!

great video Karma gets a bad rap with its mystical reincarnation nonsense, but if you really understand and trust the mechanics of karma you could never entertain the concept of revenge - it would be like punching yourself in the face. I include this poem called "If" by Rudyard Kipling and which is UK's favourite poem. I know it by heart and it seems to have something to say for all eventualities: If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies, Or being hated, don’t give way to hating, And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise: If you can dream-and not make dreams your master; If you can think-and not make thoughts your aim; If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster And treat those two impostors just the same; If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools, Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken, And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools: If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breathe a word about your loss; If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew To serve your turn long after they are gone, And so hold on when there is nothing in you Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’ If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, Or walk with Kings-nor lose the common touch, If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you, If all men count with you, but none too much; If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run, Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it, And-which is more-you’ll be a Man, my son! I hope it helps you

I am convinced that in their private moments alone when they have a moment of clarity when they think about all the chaos and destruction they caused, how they have no one left, they will realize they deserve all of the hopelessness they feel.

A friend of mine a couple years back brought to my attention that my high school bully made RU-vid video diaries about what's going on in his life. Turns out he now has three kids with three different women, two of which he isn't allowed to see, a major gambling addiction, can barely hold down a job, and has suicidal ideations. None of which of course is his fault in any way. It was definitely consoling to see that the character attributes that led him to abuse me and others led to his own misery and self-destruction. Unfortunately this is the only real instance I've seen of it. And there are other narc's I've known, especially the covert ones, that I didn't see suffer at all.

I knew a narcissist who knowingly helped a coworker cheat on his partner via carpooling to work with him. A couple years later, when she was in a completely separate committed relationship of her own, she began to insist that the coworker her partner was carpooling to work with was trying to seduce him or already had. Personally, I doubt he was cheating on her. I think the likelier scenario is that she was subconsciously projecting her own shame over her previous cheating behaviour onto another person who was an easy target due to similar surface circumstances (a male and a female coworker regularly sharing rides). She demonized this "other woman" and became highly jealous and distrustful within her relationship to the point of ruining it and driving her partner to break up with her. She was devastated by the loss and never managed to hoover him, though she did try. With the hell she put him through, I think she thoroughly proved to him that it wasn't worth having her in his life at all, even "as a friend".

I think they’re karma happened before their first evil deed. They were born without the ability to love (or care), without a conscience. There is hardly any greater Karma for a human.

When I was in high school, I was often talked down on and when I called them out on their disrespect, they told me that _I_ was being rude and made me apologize. People think they can talk down to me any which way and when I tell them how wrong they are, I'M the bad guy. Thx 4 sharing, Christina!

Never .why bc they will blame u for their karmas. Narcissists never do any wrong. So don't count on it they won't change. If u decide, you will be married well, don't cumplane bc they will never change

I was the karma for a narcissist. I was unfamiliar with their game at the time it was happening, but I was aware of red flags. There was one red after another, it didn't take long. The abuse, disrespect and indifference were to the point I felt I was being pushed away, and I took note. The absolute anger, shock and arrogance on her face was as surprising as it was satisfying. I could not understand at the time, after acting arrogant, and indifferent to me, WHY are you surprised I'm out. It makes sense now. Spread the gospel about these people.

The problem is the new supply are children. Speaking from a family narc standpoint. Makes my blood boil.

I remember after the breakup with one of my exes, she was the first to block me on social media. About a year later, I am sure she intentionally removed the block right after she got married to try to get me to see her wedding photos. Before their one year anniversary, the husband reached out to me. About 30 minutes later, I convinced the husband to end the relationship with my ex and begin the divorce process.

_Peace be with you._

Thank you for educating us ❤

You're talking about why it is right to be right.

Oh. So it is bad to say, " I hope karma gets them" or " well, karma might find them"??? It makes me feel better saying it though. I get to brush everything off and move on with life.

The opposite of love is not hate. It’s indifference. Everyone is interchangeable to a narcissist. They will never know true love, or have a soul mate. They will be constantly searching, never truly understanding, and will die lonely. That gives me no pleasure but it proves the existence of karma.

Thank you for this

Their karma is a lack of sound financial advice, a lack of counseling and a lack of long-term friendships. This is destroying their lives.

Thank you for this great video Christina❤ God bless you❤

Oh i gave him all injury's + unmasking 😂

Karma has better aim===============the best way to look at it, because it's true. We just think it takes too long and (damned) we may not get to see karma in action.

Your wisdom and experience , Christina is extremely comforting , Thank You 💖 you know your stuff 💓

How many times in years has this video been shown across the globe on different phones....how open they change the year this video was actually made . ..ms common ego

Everything in this video happened to me. I was with a narcissist for 23 yrs. This past two years have been hell. Now i’m close to finally divorcing her, it’s just now that i’m starting to see some kind of relief. I hope when it’s finalized I can finally heal.

Thank you for sharing..Helpful words..Have a wonderful day. 💕🙏

Love your RU-vid page. Thank you for the insight. I currently live with a narcissist. It is my husband’s daughter who we gave a second chance and ever since it has been pure hell! She just turned 18 and moving out soon, I have been promised. Then I’m hoping the recovery can begin for my husband. He truly has been beaten down by first, his ex (practice wife), and now the daughter she spawned. They both have tried to put us in jail and we forgave! Second time around the kid has gotten so much worse. I’m the main target but dad endures too. So sad. I’m currently the only one working with a therapist to get through these last few months as well as spending time away with my family. This poor man is still in denial and riddled with guilt I’m not sure he will ever is the truth.

Karma takes its time but for sure, it does have better aim. You don't even have to do anything - just go on and live your life, be happy and successful in whatever you choose to do. My son went no contact with his father (my ex and his current wife) about four years ago because they attempted to turn his sibs against him. That failed miserably and in fact, backfired on them. Now, nobody has much to do with them and they are wondering 'why' they are second hand news and why people rarely stop by to see them. (Hmmmm, maybe because everyone had enough of their behavior and chose happiness instead),

Thank you so much ❤

Self destruction is there karma

Excellent video. Well put together and the examples of Justice at the end were a perfect touch to give the audience hope and reassurance that they do eventually pay for their actions. It is true- you get what you give bc it comes back. That's true for us all, not just narcissists.

He will never know what a father and son bond feels like or to be loved unconditionally by a small human person. All I could do is feel sorry for my son father and have zero empathy towards him. The narc always really what they sow in old age because they push even their own children and grandchildren away and end up alone

For me the karma was double when I left because I was the second husband to have divorced her. She had always painted him out to be a monster to the point where I thought he was the most evil person ever. Once I left she had a hard time hiding from her own role in her marital problems. When I did it at the marriage counselor’s office, the narcissistic injury and abandonment melange could be heard thru the entire building. Sobbing and screaming no. It was unlike anything I’d ever seen and I’ll never forget it.

Thanks so much, and looking gorgeous 🙂

How funny it is that they are called emotionally immature and are so damaged. How are they so good at knowing how to to use emotions that they don’t have against people for whatever serves them.

There is no ultimate Karma, I dont think. Their burdens and difficulties are a constant background, white noise Karma that will never leave them.

Just got to know my situationship ex is getting engaged to a girl he knew for a month and a year later, he is going to get engaged. Absolutely devastated at how happy he is after destroying me. Seems so unfair but oh well :(

Get out of the way and let God be God!

The karmic debt is out there, the best way to get it happening is to forget all about them..worry about yourself getting better the rest will take care of itself...become indifferent..

The narcissist does get their karma. He walked away first. I found out he is a narc,so I shut him out and walked away. He lost his house car truck all his money and he married someone 100x worse than he is, she gave him incurable STD'S. She is going into a mental institution and he is going to prisonfor life! God avenged me as He Promises in His Word!!!

Even when the narcissist gets their karma, they will blame it on someone else

I agree with you 100%%

I just found out my ex was out publicly obviously being more than a friend with a new woman. We’ve been broken up for 5 weeks. It’s very painful to realize this. 💔

I'm not angry, but I am very hurt now living in the aftermath for a very long time. I just want it to stop now. I need to breath again. No revenge.. just wanting others to see the amount of damage caused & for them to stop. I definitely feel numb & don't know how to react or behave "normally " anymore as everything is a danger, so I push people away now. Very sad & I can't wish this on my worst enemy

I think they get it every day when they open up their eyes.👈🏻

Phone call accidentally sent to me revealed I was surrounded by narcs at my last job.

What do you do when a narcissist mother try to poison you and turn your whole family against you

I have never been so happy and free from my X BS. I stay in touch with her godmother who loves me. I tell her that things are great. Sooner or later, my X will find out. Only to undue my happiness. If my X is heartless. I will discard her biggly

Narcissists aim so high in life that they end up losing everything. They are self destructive creatures.

My narcissistic abuser karma was the way he reacted wen I told his other women truth wat his really like . Showed them pics of injuries I'd suffered n police letters I received before he got arrested n jailed 5 yrs . . Even sweet talked one woman to try hit me in car n she had cheek learn out window n shout ill get u nxt time .

There was period when I wished revenge, now I wish God save her soul.

My X left me for a rebound guy after a few years together. Its only a matter of time before he founds out about her insecurities as a law man. LOL

Karma is not really described that way in my cultural background and religion, neither is vengeance or justice. You can absolutely seek karmic justice and even an aggressive defense, which may seem like an offense spiritually. Narcissists are suffering a deep wound either as a child or a deep one to their egos and to their souls. Their way of protecting themselves cannot be fixed by anyone but themselves healing child and soul selves. I pray for my ex to see, genuinely feel and remember, and heal.

I'm not a narcissist 😂 😭

I want justice not revenge. Restitution

He left me for a a female friend and was also the ex of his best friend te look really happy together they moved together and are also creating business he is really mean and i have to co parent with hem. He is aslo a lair to his parent but they support him any way.

6 months after I discarded her, she was already with someone else! Her facebook page was full of posts about her wonderful new life and her awesome new boyfriend whom God sent him to rescue her from the bad days she had with me! 😂

I want to be the karma. The one is my family has done so much damage. But he’s not been able to drag me down with it yet. I’m willing to go down with the ship 😊

But if someone insults you in front of others, do you retaliate?

After I discarded a narc they got married like a month after… I think it was cuz of me Edit: I wrote this before you mentioned the marriage thing. WOW haha

My husbands house got struck with lightning 😂😂😂 Gods like no!

Is it wrong for me to want to move on fast ?

Hi, My Ex said she moved on just in 2 months after breakup also she didnt try to connect to me after breakup.......... she used all the manipulative techniques...bread crumbing......silent treatment...........triangulating...........devaluating..............all of it

I am not convinced that a narcissist karma is they are never satisfied. Is that sufficient enough punishment. If you compare this logic then even burglars and thiefs are running continuously fearing when law will catch them but you would be satisfied only when they are arrested by law. Is that not true? Then the same must apply to the narcissist karma as well. This is my opinion on this topic Thanks Santhosh Bangalore India.

He’s giving me the longest silent treatment to date, but in doing so, is pushing me to discard him. Wrong move. He needs to realize, it was a privelage to have someone as high value as I am, in his life. And I do not believe there will be more women. There will only be his work. (CEO). Oh well…

Let them sabotage themselves! This is their karma.

If you and the narcissist been split up for 2 years and they've not post the new supply? Just curious because I am done.

So why God choose me to be their karma I think some times it happens like first they take advantage of my innocense and I don't let things go just by chance that's my bad habit I've delt with four different types of narcissist and give their game back as long as they can tolerate to the point they leave me on their own ,I'm self sufficient anyways 😄

My ex will face legal action from me very soon. Currently on discussion with my lawyer.

God. Mathew 7.

Yeah girl but i DONT want her to be around my child

She got married 90 days because she was already cheating 🙄

These "poor devils".

What will happen when the divorced narsc new supply is a married man? Will she try to destroy his marriage?

Your narc is reporting below

I KDON'T AGREE. When you seek justice with the narcissist, you are their karma. Forgiveness takes away your anger and with it the chance to know what is justice to you. And don't call justice "revenge". I have to defend myself against what gets past my boundaries and the boundaries of all others in my situation.

I don’t think karma exists at all. These evil narcissists will get away from it after they destroy beautiful people

I got it ... narccist never get their karma... I am a victim of narcissists...she discard me and having sex with someone else tonight...i hate this ..there is no justice...for me... I should also be narcissists..so I wouldn't feel a thing...

Your just a number, that’s what he said…