After trying to learn everything about the dating world it all came down to: "Just do whatever, if she is interested (in your looks), she will let you know and things are going to happen".
Looks get you in the door and do help but it doesn't guarantee you anything further. Once some attractive guys opens there mouth lots of females may get turned off or bored and leave. You have to know how to be assertive/ lead the interaction, be fun and be able to stimulate them emotionally for it too consistently go anywhere.
@@copemaxxing4306 true... One of the chads i know is a quite kind guy who loves anime , drawing etc... Guess what girls are unable to maintain friendship with him as they end up in love with him.. Then get depressed when he distances them.
If the average guy knew this at 16, it would fundamentally change how average non chads dealt with women leaving a HUGE hole in the dating market. We can now see that hole growing. More guys aren’t taxing themselves for post Chad bailout seeking chicks.
The Black Pill is the only truth. Everything else such as the Red Pill or Blue Pill are copes created for genetically inferior men so they keep working, don’t rope, and don’t go ER. The media has to push out the Red Pill and Blue Pill and suppress the Black Pill because if every normie/incel man in the world knew about the Black Pill (truth), then many men wouldn’t work and society would fall apart.
@@Chico_Lachowski that's because most men have been brainwashed to believe that their value comes from female validation. You could work to get money to fly to Thailand and have a better time than you'll ever have in the US
@@finesse3417 Your genetic quality is your value. The way women treat you is based upon your genetic quality. Therefor, your value is shown through women’s validation.
How would you know? You probably haven’t spoken to hardly any woman or tried to get them,In fact I know you haven’t because you came out with this garbage
I’m a woman. I like guys who are themselves but are working progress. (I apply that to myself too.) I would never date a guy who has no goals, sits around and plays video games all day. Believe it or not, I’m 35 and have only been with two guys, the only two I was intimidate with. They’re both normies and one of them is 5’2” and 100 lbs, 30 lbs lighter than me! Right before him, I was going on multiple dates with a 6’4” guy who was better looking. It seems, all his confidence came from his height. He had no dreams, very little skills, no motivation to finish his jr college degree.. when I was going out with him, he acted like he knew a lot of things like how to play golf and shoot guns… He was a fake and it turned me off, but I never told him that. My 5’2” ex was a very intelligent, very confident, a jack of all trades with big dreams. He was honest with what he knew and didn’t know. He was genuine and I loved that about him being able to acknowledge what he sucked at and worked on them. I believe his personality was why he was so skilled in so many things. This guy could sew and build houses! He was very, very impressive. Just be genuine but work on bettering yourself too. Not all women are shallow or hoes. It seems these videos target hoes and somehow all women got swept under that category. I know plenty of good normie women who date guys I would consider below them.
They say that to you so you can stop dragging them down in the conversation you’re having with them by talking about your dating problems. They know you won’t find someone given your current trajectory, but they won’t be there to hear you whine about it later, so that’s not going to be their problem.
Height is more powerful than face. Yesterday I was in a famous club in London for students and I was shocked again to see so many girls around 6.2+ guys even if there face was bad ! Don’t listen to wheat waffles he is still making many mistakes but he is sharing more truths than most dating coaches snake oil salesman 👌
Lie 20 is absolutely brutal. I've seen a lot of couple being together for years, when the man lost his look ( fat, bald, aging skin...) His wife turn out to be a fuking monster.
Being the ugly one in a relationship will result in severe emotional damage. If you lose your looks she will love you less or even stop loving you all together.
If that's how you look in real life, then I'd say don't give up hope, you should be a 5-6 out of 10, no problem. If going to the gym helped you look like this then keep pushing on. But either way,as long as you're happy now then there's no problem
@@kirilllucenko88 You have potential. Success breeds confidence and confidence breeds success! I remember there was this game called Punch out, it was a boxing game. They started you off with the weakest opponent and as you kept winning, the opponent would become progressively more difficult to beat! They did this so you could gain confidence. If they started you off with the hardest opponent in the game, you’d give up and stop playing. What I’m trying to say is, start off with the bottom of the barrel and work your way up. Even if she’s not attractive to you, the fact that you were able to bed her gives you some confidence that you can bed someone better looking. I won’t lie to you, this might be horrible advice but it makes sense to me! Lol.
I have accepted them just not internalized yet. I'm still hopeful whenever I go outside or am in a situation where I can meet girls, which then just destroys me even further. I really need to stop caring and just accept it
I am blackpilled even before I discovered blackpill it all started when I was 14 I remember all girls find me repulsive at one time teacher want one the girls sit near me and damn foid started crying like btch
Man, #9 is so on point! A friend of mine (male) told another friend of ours (female) how he felt about her. Completely destroyed their friendship (because of her)…and in the end…she ended up going from like a 7 or 8 to a solid 5 (gained a lot weight …went back with an ex and had kids)….it really does make you question some of the advice some folks provide. This channel is pure gold and doesn’t sugar coat anything…I love it!
Actually…5 seems high…maybe a 3 now. He’s likely around a 6, for the record. Above average height, good looks and great career. He ended up finding a wonderful wife and has done very well for himself.
Just be yourself is actually good advice. If you're handsome it will work, if you're ugly it won't work, because you're ugly. There is no point in trying to fake a personality, it's very tiresome, and it creates internal conflicts.. for very little results.
This channel must be taught to every man so that they don't feel suicidal in this day and age. This channel cured my mental depression, I accepted the fact that I am not a Chad and went ahead with lookdmaxing and getting a hair transplant. Getting hair back was an extreme booster.
@@loth4015 you don’t have to experience it to know. Just see how they treat chad irl vs you, how they treat chad on TikTok and all that while you never see average dudes shown off by women.
The Black Pill is the only truth. Everything else such as the Red Pill or Blue Pill are copes created for genetically inferior men so they keep working, don’t rope, and don’t go ER. The media has to push out the Red Pill and Blue Pill and suppress the Black Pill because if every normie/incel man in the world knew about the Black Pill (truth), then many men wouldn’t work and society would fall apart.
@@cmguitar1 well.. most girls and media will tell you to stick with a girl and she will eventually "fall in love with you" or PUAs will say you can game a girl and build attraction
I'm 50 years old and it never gets easier to accept black pill, just more inevitable. I knew it was over for me in my 30s, before I even knew what black pill was.
"Just be yourself" is actually true, if you're a Chad. It doesn't matter what you do as a Chad: you can double text her, pay for dates, send her flowers, be her friend and do other blue pilled stuff - she will perceive those actions as romantic and still be in love with you. The truth is that most Chads are not blue pilled s!mps by nature because they live in an abundance reality.
@@infinitewarr1or699 finally a sensible answer, half these idiots have never even bother dealing or speaking to women it’s pathetic and yet think they are experts on what women want.
"Just be yourself" ironically is excellent advice tho because if your sub5 it doesn't matter what you do or say. If your a chad it also doesn't matter what you do or say. It never began
@Censored Censored if women chose on the best genetics then how come most people are ugly lol. What can of rubbbish are you feeding yourself to justify your lack of success with women
@@James_36 cope. “Most” and “extremes don’t go well together. Most people are ALWAYS average. Therefore MOST men are AVERAGE looking . Most women, too, are average looking. It’s just that women are waaaaaay more picker than men are. Therefore normie men don’t get nearly as much attention as normie women. Not rocket science, boyo.
It is without question that WW is the number one black pill channel in the world! No one, not even Face&LMS has experienced this kind of subscriber power. Wheat Waffles now has over 50,000 subscribers and it doesn’t seem like it’s easing up. I can seriously see WW surpassing 100,000 subscribers… Easily. Wheat Waffles is taking the black pill main stream. I’m just waiting for the day when an A-list actor quotes one of his statements in a major film.
I love Wheat but he doesn't dive deep enough. Trust me when I tell you, I will be the one to take over the blackpill scene with the most eye popping raw and unfiltered content. I do so bad with women that the only way I get sex is through paying for prostitutes. NOBODY on youtube not even wheat is revealing the darkest sides of being unattractive. I WILL BE THE ONE TO CHANGE THAT. Hopefully RU-vid doesn't ban my content. I will be launching the channel very soon
Wheat is still wrong in many points lol , he is just discovering life. For Instance wheat does not understand that a tall guy doesn’t need good face to have success in dating....
The worst mistake I made was choosing not to be born white and tall. I worked in a hip coffee shop in the downtown of my city. 98% of the hetero dates consist of men who fall in the white tall demographic. These are the only men being selected for interaction with women. Everyone else is sitting at home “on their purpose” to be used for resources when it turns out Chad won’t commit and she needs a fallback.
Fkn brutal man. I see this everywhere. Being White = biggest advantage a guy can have. Being tall too? Like playing a videogame on God mode. I’m a POC and tall, but jeez it’s tough in Australia. You can be facially 4-5/10 as a tall white guy, and still pull chicks
I disagree. Look at all the tall Black Tyron's and Pookies that pull women from every race. I think "whiteness" is overrated because Latina's & Asian's also go for BM over WM.
You point in 47 really hits home, when I was younger I used to be ecstatic for my birthdays, like I'd wake up early in the morning and be so excited. Now it sometimes just feels like just another regular day
As an German engineer I really like those kind of videos. Straight to the point and based on facts/studies. From my experience I can say that all points are true. Even sometimes I dont like hearing some points, it is like it is and living a blue-pilled "everthing is magic" life will not help you at all to come forward. Knowing the facts/biology... and deal with it, is the way to bring your life to higher levels. Keep the good work up.
@@tankthepitbull520 Casual sex leads to spiritual ruin. Especially prostitution. It’s meaningless pleasure. It’s not only women that form subconscious spiritual/emotional bonds with people they have sex with, it’s men too. Sleeping with many women causes the same damage to a man that happens to women who sleep with many men - it’s just that for the man it’s slightly less damaging. The only true “success” with relationships happens when one gets married to a virtuous woman and lives with her for life.
I am so blackpilled that I can't help but over analyse every interaction for what it is; in part a response to looks. I am marred by this shit. I also can't tell if this community is defeatist or meant to be beneficial.
Just remember that this is just human nature, in my society (a conservative non-western culture) this is the reason why we don't encourage too much liberalism between the sexes because eventually it's gonna be more and more about looks, leading to eugenics which those same liberal women will advocate against. Also remember not to hate women when u discover the blkpill because men are more looks based in the first place.
It's meant to give you a balanced perspective. You should always looks max and try to take good care of yourself. If it turns out you don't like your options with women at this point consider moving somewhere else or just recalibrating and finding a purpose in life that doesn't involve women. The majority of men pay way too much for access to women today but mindful of the emotional and financial price you pay
It depends on how you act on it I suppose. The blackpill is definitely very real, but you can either give up or try to improve on your looks. For me, it's beneficial and not defeatist. It sometimes makes me sad that society is the way it is and that so many women care so much about looks, but it is what it is. We all have to live with that reality
Yeah, what people who say this don’t mention is that getting your foot in the door is the hardest part, and that nothing else matters unless you do, so even the dysfunctional autistic Chad who can’t keep a woman around after he gets them is still in a much better position than some guy with a stellar personality who can’t get a date because he’s ugly. It’s like telling someone that Harvard “only” gets your foot in the door for a six-figure job.
@@Trynottoblink i pratice celibacy never had a real girl friend, cuz i never approach them so if i tried and failed thats a different story so stop calling incels or celibates ugly. Stacy hates incels and incels hate both chad and stacy. We wish we can make an acid attack on both and ruin their lives forever haaaaaaaa 😂 haaaaaa .
Trunks vc foi um achado na manosfera do Brasil!! Um dos primeiros a falar do elefante cor de rosa na sala que é a aparência!! Muito sucesso para vc meu amigo!!
Wheat Waffles, thank you for all your videos. While having girlfriends for most of my adult life as a normie until now, I couldn't see how hard it was for a lot of men (and actually assumed it was easier for them). These videos make me have empathy and compassion towards other men, which I would never learn anywhere else. Society always try to tell us all men are doing fine and don't have mental issues, and if one isn't ok, it's probably their fault.
@@yahudi7253 most people dont use tinder to search for a serious relationship, but rather to entertain themselves when bored. So your argument is invalid.
Lie #46 is fucking insanely spot-on as well, when I was 21 no one believed me and even made of fun of me at work for being a male-virgin. Eventually, girls told me to just lie about my body count but they would never explain why.
There’s no reason to ever reveal your a virgin to anyone, men, women, gfs, close friends. It’s practically social suicide to admit it. Lie and stick with the lie at all costs.
@@deathwish_bigboss Thanks, but how would you prove it to your friends? You know, male friends always go like "show me a pic of her, if not, it's not true" I wouldn't know what to do there
I've hooked up with a lot of chick's who had many partners. 90% of them still just lay there. My Japanese virgin ex gf always tried the hardest in bed. 3 months into having sex. She started asking what I like etc. She always worked hard. Because it was something special to her.
@kingdoge69 Sorry for thr late reply. At the time I was living in Japan. But because of covid I had to move back to Canada... and Canada was on locked down for over a year. So the relationship became difficult for me. So I broke up with her. Iong distance is not something I can do
Lie 40 really got me. I'm 29 and I was lucky enough to have 2 relationships in my life. Both of my gfs had this "friend" that I was supposed to not worry about that ended up dating them within a couple weeks after me. One of them even got married. It's just funny to think about all the "don't worry about him, he's just a friend" conversations we had knowing the result now.
Good video. All these lies and “advice” that most people give you is ridiculous. Dating is not supposed to be this complicated. Most of the “advice” the average person gives you, just seems like a bunch of mental gymnastics, when it’s really simple. If she’s attracted to you, you will never have to question if she likes you, or question if you are doing something wrong. Usually the simpler solution is the right solution. It’s about your looks, everything else is second.
Wheat Waffles, your black pill knowledge is elite. There is however one hole I noticed in a different video. You seemed to imply that one can be "too tall." As a basketball manager who has spoken with and followed dozens of Division 1 and high school athletes, I can assure you that 6'8" and heights like that are not less attractive than say heights like 6'1" for example. Some ladies don't believe 6'1" or 6'2" are tall enough. I saw a tik tok video with hundreds of thousands of likes where the lady said her bf was 6'8" and all the girls in the comments were saying, "where can i find one?"
There is no such thing as being too ripped either. Wheat says the ideal bf% is 10-12 in reality your six-pack becomes more defined in single-digit body fat and women will find it more attractive.
I think 6'2-6'4 is optimal, but for some men who are 6'5+ they can build attraction based on height alone. But a 6'2 man with a good face will be better than a normie who is 6'9 for example.
I wish I had known this facts when I was 20, now that I'm 32 I feel I have been played by the women over the years I wished to marry but rejected me politely. Now I'm armed with information, thank you very much Mr waffles. I hope I'm not very late to adjust myself to the reality.
Trust me nearly everything he said was wrong. I can tell you what is true: You can get any woman you want You can eat any woman you want You can plough any woman you want Rahhhhhhhhhh
Started out bluepilled. Took the red pill. Went black pulled for a while and now I'm just conscious. Try not to sabotage my relationships as I did under the red and black pills. That's something more men need to be aware of. I enjoy my relationships more now. Not ignorance as bliss. But actual joy to be with someone.
Now I understand why boomer and Xers generation Men married before 30 , a contrary to the fact that some millennials find it fashionable to push it to Mid 30s or 40s . It is clear that Men also depreciate in physical attractiveness as age rises and our looks matter to women in that regard
We all were blue pulled into oblivion in our early days of life. The Red Pill helped us break out of that conditioning and the Black Pill fully liberated us! Wheat Waffles made The Black Pill, fun and educational!
@WomenHateShortMen I love Face but he’s been MIA for a minute and he stopped making short videos and focused on doing live streams. I’m not a Noob in this community.
@@EdwinBetancourtJr bro I kinda miss the days of ignorance... I felt like I had a reason to live... now it's like "why the fuck bother?" I'm done. I just want to move away now and be alone with my ugly broke ass
@@kitesupreme8907 yes, but maybe it's because you haven't accepted being alone, deep inside, and still feel sorry for yourself because of it. I get it, it's obviously not as good as being in a good relationship and having a good life, but what can you do, right? I'm also working on just accepting that fact. I don't wanna keep feeling hopeful whenever I go outside, because there's no use and it just makes me feel disappointed beyond belief whenever the inevitable truth happens. Recently a girl at school came to say hi when she just passed me by, she is really attractive and I was confused for a moment because I didn't think that would ever happen. About one or two days later I was with her and another girl in a group with 3 more guys, and the girls were so focused on this one dude, just because he was attractive. Like, ok, I get it, I'm not so unattractive that I'll put them off but I will also never be enough to actually have a girlfriend that I'm attracted to. The only girl that ever gave me all the signs and the "chad treatment" was this girl with a severely deformed jaw, like, super weak chin, nose came forward, you know, all that stereotypical mouth-breathing face formation thing. I think she did it because she thought she had a chance with me. I'm by no means a chad, but I'd say I'm a normal dude, I'd like to get a normal girl, just that, doesn't even need to be that stacy that came to say hi to me, but i can only really attract mouth breathers? The world is fucked for men.
Lie #10 is spot on, I wasn't popular on date apps but the few times it happened I noticed they would reply back sometimes a month later asking if I was still available- I never was, proudly enough I wasn't lying either.
I don't think it's that unreasonable. If you were busy dating other women would you reply to all matches; as soon as you can, or would you reply after you are done with others?
@@odyseebetterthanyoutubeglo1767 ; yeah I get that, it's just I never wanted to feel like the option they settled on after going through like 20 guys in a month- gotta have some dignity, even though ironically anyone in dating apps is truly desperate. We don't have the same options chicks do, so there's not point in debating hypothetical situations where I would have this magical rotation of women to prove that I am somehow a hypocrite in this fictional setting.
@@deathwish_bigboss But how do you know that you are what she is settling for, compared to that she is just trying everyone she liked in order? You are never first and never last. Doesn't seem like a logical decision.
@@odyseebetterthanyoutubeglo1767 ; I guess that's just my personal experience making me biased, if a chick is really into you it's super obvious and they will always be hitting you up- they don't take weeks or over a month to decide you're the guy they want to talk to.
As I see my family and friends start getting into relationships the past couple of years, its honestly made me a more bitter person and I could care less at this point. My feelings don't seem to matter, slowly slipping into the part of the black pill that supposedly makes you not come back to a redpill or dating game. I could care less still lol. Stay strong out there kings 👑
I've always said that Being good looking is like having a degree, game is like your work experience & dating is like a job interview. In a job interview, having a degree doesn't guarantee you the job opportunity. But without a degree, you won't be able to even go to the interview. Simply because that's the first thing you get asked about in a job interview.
Mostly lies, yes, but a few aren’t. “Be a gentleman on dates” is good advice. People watch very closely at first encounters, and manners say a lot. “Be someone you’d want to date” is actually fantastic advice, as it accomplishes many things. It inspires self-development, it reality-checks unrealistic expectations, and sends the point home that getting a relationship and keeping a relationship are really the same thing - stay on your game and she probably won’t leave. Most relationships that I’ve seen end are usually ended by one of the two (or both) partners losing the willingness to keep growing. Also, early on you pointed out contradictions. But two things contradicting doesn’t make them both lies. It just means that at least one of them is
Very true, although there are neurons in the the heart (also in ur gut), but it's very primitive basic stuff. The majority of complex computation is done in the brain.
When women say they like good boys they mean they like tall, handsome chad with qualities of a Supreme Gentleman. When women say they like bad boys, again they mean they like tall, handsome chad, who looks like that tattoed Gucci model who was sentenced for robbery.
2:24 YES! When I taught at a community college, one of the female students would write me notes on the test papers. Something like "oh, this question was a stumper" or something like that. And I'm thinking "who does that?" Then at the end of the semester she sends me an e-mail saying what a great teacher I was. Next thing you know, she asks me to see a movie with her. Gentlemen, if you have the green light, you will know it. If you don't get it don't bother.
Numbers 30 and 31 hit hard. How many times have I heard it'll happen when you least expect it, don't go looking for it then it's bound to happen.... such BS. I've been single now more than 6 years and have gone through phases of where I've been looking and then not looking. There is no magic formula.
That's advice for women. She can live in her parents basement and if she's attractive she can still get hit on and say yes to a date. She can imagine this as some kind of Disney or Hollywood romance if she wants. Guys have to be attractive enough, have their shit together, and have to have the balls to make a move. They can't afford to keep their belief in fairytales (unless they're Ashton Kutcher or something).
What a video and fully true. Looks are your confidence, being funny helps but not if you're a sub5 and it won't greatly help. You can play the number game but you need to have a strong ego because the amount of rejection will ruin most people
I feel like there could be roughly 2 kinds of Sub-fives: 1. A guy who is good looking and in shape, just not tall. You still get looks but no one will date you. 2. A guy who is ugly (fat, poor jawline, unkept etc.). He can be any height but it will not make any difference. I am the 1st type. It does not bother me since I decided that romance is a big lie and that relationships are just biological exchanges. I have hobbies.
@@Beupeu I thought this for the longest time but it’s not true. Height is more important. I have seen guys take models away from me that are 3-4 points below my level of mathematical attractiveness because they are taller
@@hopefullyanonymous3466 Then you are not actually 3-4 points above them, you only think you are. I'm 5'10 and I got called "short" only once in my lifetime by a woman and she is also 5'10, and even her was into me, she called me only to tease and play with me, but I didn't want her.
@@Beupeu I am. I refuse to be gaslit anymore. Based on the concept of the blackpill, I should have women begging to be with me. But the actual hot woman get with normies nonstop. “MAyBe YoUrE nOt As GooD loOkInG aS yOu tHiNk” if I had a fucking penny for every time I heard this I would be incredibly rich. People just don’t want to admit that what women go for cannot and will never be pin pointed. I’ve be told I could model, I’ve been met with shock when people realize I’ve never had a gf, I’ve been told people compliment me non stop behind my back on just my appearance. You don’t have to believe me. But believe me I actually have come to terms with the fact that the chads are not living this hyper sexual love life that black pillers would have you believe.
I saw the thumbnail and just laughed my ass off. You had me in tears. It made me remember some of the times that I've asked what people do just to get 'be yourself. just be confident. plenty o' fish.' and later on in life, I'd think back and notice that nobody ever really said anything when they answered. It was like I was getting gatekept on. I'm actually still a virgin and I've only had 1 long distance girlfriend but these days I've been more focused on popping off. I've got places to see. But yeah anyway, scrolling through youtube and seeing this just had me on the floor 10/10 thanks for the good laugh. It's true btw. There is so precious little good advice out there and I think it's really just because people are too nice to call you ugly and if you ain't got much else going for you, they'll deflect with 'be confident, blah blah' 100% of the time. Be attractive, if not, have a few compelling tethers for her to latch on to. Just owning a crypto bumps your edating odds by up to 30%. Buy a cheap etherium or some dogecoin. There's your dating advice.
Great video, I heard advice like this all the time growing up and it was so contradictive and counterproductive whenever I would do one set of advice I would get told I did the wrong thing even though I did exactly what I was told. Everyone around me thought I was mentally insane for this advice not working but once I realized it was BS I was very much mentally relieved.
As an 23 little boy got 4 relationship before, this is most real thing ever. I got irrigate blue pill in 3 of my relationship and get dumped. I was so angry at those moment because i did what they "want" me to do and it end up getting dumped. the only relationship that was great to me, was the one im doing redpill without knowing it.
I understand you. I had several bluepill relationships. Later I had a redpill one, but she was so submissive that I got bored :D later I had again a bluepill relationship because 'i wanted to give love a chance again'... Hahaha fail
Lie 5 is some Redpill nonsense. Her interest in you isn't reliant on how quickly you text her back. If she is interested it doesn't matter what your text game is like. If anything there is a risk in waiting too long because some other guy will slide into her DM's while you are busy psyching yourself out.
I'm 27, balding heavily, bad teeth and my beard is half white half red. I think I never had a real chance despite I considered myself average or slightly abolve average in the past. But I'm glad I could get a girlfriend when I was younger. It was the best (but short) period of my life: I was motivated and believed in a promising future. Now? It's just fucked up on every level and I don't care anymore. No motivation no hopes no dreams. Just live and die. Nothing is important anymore... The worst thing about the deterioration in looks is that this effects every aspects of your life: your career, your family, how people treat you how they think about you. So if you are ugly or became ugly your life is technically over: you will be successful in nothing, no matter how hard you try or struggle.
And when a girl gets the question 'do you find bald guys attractive' she thinks of someone who suits being bald, the reality for 9/10 guys is they will look much better with hair.
All of this is true as a matter of a fact every video you’ve ever made is the truth all women care about more than anything is your looks there are wins ths have approached my mother about me without ever talking to me in person all because they’ve seen me somewhere and they tell my mother to tell me that they want to talk to me so looks are first when it comes to getting females an that’s the truth the black pill is real I’ve heard friend girls of mines not wanna date a man because of his looks
@Ladarius Cool, but looks like you didn't get the notification that the internet stopped charging for periods at the end of sentences and capital letters.
About the haircut meme. While a good haircut wont make you significant more attractive most of the time, a bad haircut can be devestating to your smv. Just look chads like prince william who lost their hair (bad haircut if you will) and went from a 8 to a 4. So getting a haircut may help some out there. It all boils down to actually having good hair in the first place of course.
The biggest lie for me as a 5’4 and Asian and 37 is, “There’s a someone for everyone.” Not really. You get dates. But, the numbers of an attractive girl for me would be at best a 4-5 out of 10. And, usually I just look for good partner. But, most are taken. So, that leaves me with single moms….
Sorry to hear that. I will say though, that if you live in the USA, Asian dudes are becoming the next thing for women. Asian cinema is huge right now and it seems like that might influence society a bit.
Wrong my guy. If you are ripped, hygienic , nice hair cut (or bald) and got some lil game you will 100 percent find someone doesnt matter how tall you r. Look up Demetrious Johnson, an 160cm bald mma fighter. He got a beautiful wive and 3 children. It is possible for you.
Many of these lies in church as well. “Trust in the Lord,” “pray about it,” “consider others more important than yourself,” (nice guy.) “heart and character are more important,” “bodily exercise profits little,” and on and on, and on we can go.
About the point on "focusing on my exams" There is some nuance there, bc if you're a normie and interact with people and atleast 2 girls show interest, then the "excuse" can work here, bc when you're studying and interacting with fewer people, this can reduce your chances.
Yeah, I feel like that one doesn't really have anything to do with attractiveness. The "lie" is false only on the condition you're subfive and haven't realized it, which you may not if you haven't tried to date yet and still have an idealized viewpoint that personality matters more than looks.
There's something of utility to the idea of building a thick skin with respect to rejection, but where the cope comes in is when you regard being rejected as a virtue.
Most important advice: STOP befriending girls and STOP wasting your time. It's that simple. I have said this a million times and still stick to this. If you hangout with a girl who is not interested in you / you're not interested in her and /or she already has a boyfriend, means that you're wasting your time. I have never understood, why some guys keep hanging out with those kind of girls in their mid 20's even though they are Single and should watch out for a partner. Dude, it's so much harder to find a girl once you hit 23 because every decent girl in your age already has a partner. What's the point in befriending those? I never had a female "buddy" because I am not interested in friendship and I rather spend my time in dating a girl
Honestly, dating after 23 is pretty much over, especially for guys who left their High School and moved to another city in order to study there. You're fucked guys because once you start studying, you will mostly meet girls in your age. If you're 22, then she is also probably 22 or even older and she has already a boyfriend. Your whole friend circle consists of guys who are also 22 or older and who only have connections to girls of that age span. It's just a fact.
@@gokublack7904 your saying trying to find a attractive single women is almost impossible after the age of 23 But if your a chad or a really good looking desirable man It won’t matter if a lot of women have a boyfriend They will eventually leave when a betters man comes along
This video is a punch in the mouth. Whenever I'm weakening or thinking about doing something stupid to convince a woman to like me, I'll come back to this video.
I wish I've seen this video earlier lol. I've been soft lately and wasted my time dressing up and walking around the mall. I feel awkward, eating and playing arcade alone. Never even had a chance, all the girls are with their BF's or in a hurry to get something done. Also saw a lonely well dressed, well groomed, tall Korean guy doing the same thing lol. It's over for us ricecels.
@@SB-nh7uv Betabuxx and Greencardmaxx like what most Asian men are doing lol. Our foids will not like us if we're poor. Our foids will never love us unless we're a rich Chang and has the cultural compatibility leverage. White normie, damn they will go crazy over you. White poor Chad, they'll simp over you and be the beta provider fem. breadwinner. Rich Chad, they treat you like a god.
This video should be a documentary and I would show it in school to boys, this way I hope we could help to demolish the toxic bule pill mindest in highschools and universities.
One thing that is important to notice is that 99% of guys dont even know what is "game" and "pills". Even so, some are having a great dating life and could not care less about such kind of bs. Dont try to act like a clown, if she is not attracted at first, her genes wont recombine to feel attraction because you are trying your best to make her laugh or "maintain frame".
The one that cracks me up the most is "put yourself out there." My friends always say that to me, and like, no, it doesn't work like that. It's not like women flock to me when I go out, that doesn't happen and never will.
There is a saying, "Don't strike out looking." It means swing the bat at life, if you strike out fine. But don't fail to act because failure is likely. I'm a 28 year monk so I am not saying go out there & date. If you would rather have Peace then Sex, then stop swinging the bat of dating. But don't be the guy who wants to date but doesn't swing at the plate.
There are some generalizations that may confuse less enlightned guys. 10-12% body fat...In my picture I am about 10%, and there aren't many people in the "real world" walking around like this. People really underestimate their BF. For me to be at a real 10%, all the machines I use say I'm 4%. So it's quite unnatainable for most and you really don't need to be that lean to have an attractive physique. If you're around 15% with a decent amount of muscle, you'll have a good body. Then, everything is a downfall past 28 is just ridiculous. A man who starts to degrade when he is 28 must have the worst genetics and or life habits ever. I dont know about balding after that age, but greying at 28? lol I believe a man can easily maintain his best looks till midthirties. But this OBVIOUSLY will happen only if you take good care of yourself.
@@Ergeniz In my country and in other southern european countries I am white. For US citizens, maybe not. I tan easily and have dark brown hair and eyes like most people here. If you know Cristiano Ronaldo, he is my fellow countryman.
I'm crying, I'm crying aloud. My life is quite miserable. Walking alone, wandering the streets with no purpose. One thing that always impressed me is the fact that, each time I go out, I barely see young (between 20 and 35 years) couples, yet I spend so much time walking and I'm living in a big, really big city. It could be possible that this is a proof that there are no so many chads and, therefore, there are not so many girls willing to have a relationship? If that's true, is this my end? No purpose in life, no meaning, not a single person, not a beloved girl with which I could share some moments of my life. The pain is real.
Here is one more lie (which is grotesque): "If you fell in love with her, you will also fall in love with her child as well." PS: It is about a single mother, thus the child isn't from you.
Wheat needs to add about 10 more lies on the single mothers. What happens if her ex is jealous, felon, mentally unstable due to drug/alcohol abuse, violent and/or is trained in fighting, is a police officer or someone else with authority? What if he has violent friends or family? A single mother can drag you into very dangerous situations.
49 is absolutely relative, especially when the relationship lasts for many years - speaking from experience. If I wasn't with my fiancee, I'd likely not search or be interested in a relationship, though I would probably not be militantly against it either.
#20 has some truth to it. You need the looks to start the relationship. But you need to have the full package for the relationship to last. So looks, money, status, and you have to constantly act like some stoic alpha male with absolutely zero hint of weakness or genuine human quality. If any of these falter, even a little bit, she's gone, and she's taking the house, the car, the kids, your lifes savings, and half your income for the rest of your life.
That sounds horrible, not like a relationship but like living with an enemy in disguise (e.g. an assassin from a hostile country) that just waits for the moment to close in for the kill. Even more horrible is that it's actually not too much off the mark. The moment a man's visor comes up he's got an arrow stuck in his eye, shot by the one he used to love & trust the most. We've all seen it or even experienced it ourselves. No wonder more and more men unlearn to love & trust anyone female other that their mother, and avoid any serious commitment.
That's only true if she doesn't also lose points with age. After a certain age many people stop fancying their chances in monkey branching up so they really do settle for being with their partner for life
Thank you for telling the truth. I have been going through these lies a lot in the dating stage. Dating is so much more about manipulation than anything else…
lets change "be yourself" to "be a self improvement of yourself", meaning to fix what you yourself deem to be a negative about yourself. we all have those and we want to fix them
I’ve been rejected by every ideal girl I’ve liked. Even the decent girls. Not anything crazy like ig models. I’m 5’4, Asian, 165 pounds and Have already accepted my fate in the hierarchy.
@@richardlyman2961 buff. My bench is 325, 550 deadlift(I don’t deadlift much due to back issues) and 415 squat(complicated knee issues so I’m limited) and I do MMA and BJJ lmao. It’s over bro bro. 😂
Lie 6. If you are chad, you can reply anytime you want. You reply immediately - the lady may be happy as you are simply interested, that is cute and nice. If you reply with delays - she is ok, you are simply busy with your everyday routine, and that is ok and acceptable.
@@u9477 yeap, absolutely. BTW ladies love blue-pilled chads as well, chad can gift flowers, be a nice guy, and she will tell her female friends how lucky she is to be with such a supreme gentleman.
I'm lucky I have a 6' height and a fairly 'good' face. My current problem is being overweight. As I improved my looks I proportionally got more attention (mostly grooming, dress, and a bit of body improvement). The car helps I guess, for BS status/money signaling or whatever among young peers, I just like to drive so I don't care. People said I was smarter more, thought of me as a leader more often, etc when I looked better. I fully expect more women to pop out of the woodwork (oh, now you're interested) if I continue building up to my goals and continue to improve myself. Personality matters, yeah, for people to want to be around you, but it won't make them attracted to you. Overall, I have a pessimistic view of humans as 'special', virtuous beings; I see us as very intelligent animals, and my expectations follow that. Just look at how men and women choose their mates (not too dissimilar from other animals) go to war over silly matter, etc.
I agree with most of this if not all, a few are a bit out of context. Being yourself isn't really a dating advice thing it's more so that putting up a face or act just isn't sustainable, and if being yourself is just unattractive to people then you'll just have to accept that. It is what it is.
What if women laugh at your misogynist jokes, a guy in my class who was 6'2 feet tall and good looking, i used to see that girls of my class even laughed at his misogynist jokes. Lmao
I don't believe in chasing, but I do believe in trying. If a girl ever says you will have to try harder, move on. I will try harder to keep you, not get you in the first place.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Real meaning = we're attracted to those who look like us. Fascinating how even on good tv shows they get this one wrong.
When I was trying to date in high school I was told "if you just be yourself, you'll attract the type of girl you want." When I moved onto college, I wasn't attracting the types of women I wanted, so I was told, "be the kind of person you want to date," and that was different than who I was, because I don't want someone exactly like me. Who would?
In the pursuit of women, deciding to make it as fun for me as possible was a game changer. The only successful interaction I had with a woman came as a result of my decision to have fun, and I’ve been dating that girl for 9 months in counting. Also, Hinge is by far my favorite modern dating app
This video has shown me how hopeless life is. There is really nothing to live for. Why bother continuing to live? I will subscribe to this channel because I am glad it teaches me to stop hoping to live.
I'm crying, I'm crying aloud. My life is quite miserable. Walking alone, wandering the streets with no purpose. One thing that always impressed me is the fact that, each time I go out, I barely see young (between 20 and 35 years) couples, yet I spend so much time walking and I'm living in a big, really big city. It could be possible that this is a proof that there are no so many chads and, therefore, there are not so many girls willing to have a relationship? If that's true, is this my end? No purpose in life, no meaning, not a single person, not a beloved girl with which I could share some moments of my life. The pain is real.
Grieve it, release it, understand love is always within you, and you create all meaning in life. I personally believe we're not looking for meaning but the feeling of aliveness. When you can be authentic, and let yourself feel whatever it is you feel (instead of coping, deflecting, or compensating), you'll find the elixir of life.
Find a purpose and focus on you. Hit the gym aswell. Build urself first, women come later as bonus. If u have some cash around, just invite hookers to ur house, atleast something :)
The opposite for me. Here in California i see So many Chads and Tyrones stealing all the women so i may see a few sub 5s like me alone. I cant even do the basic things like go the market and or the movies because i carry so much shame
