6 Signs of a Real Christian Man: How to Get a Christian Girl to Like You (Dating Tips) 

Whoever reads this please pray that I become more mighty for GOD and HE sharpens my masculinity in HIS image

1.Be responsible 2. Know who you are 3. Have direction in life 4. Take initiative in relations 5. Be a good provider 6. Be mature

There are 2 things that stand out to me in a man.. 1. Integrity/reliability: being able to deliver when you promise, consistence brings reliability and security. 2. Stability: having a vision, being able to work hard, providing, physically fit, spiritually mature, and emotionally stable.

True validation as a man comes when you know you are a son of GOD. Amen

AMEN! This video explains my list to the Lord. Lol! 💪 but ladies, we have to be a woman of God to be blessed with a man of God. ❤❤❤❤❤

I’m not a very physically attractive man. I may not have a high paying job. But I know God will help me find someone who will be attracted to me anyways, even though I don’t think I am. And I trust that He will provide for both of us.

A man who loves Christ with all of himself, a man of integrity and pursues after righteousness and with the right sense of leadership is 😍🙌🙏

This is amazing! Every man who is striving to be a godly man and wants a good women should understand all the points you made here. Also man with a good work ethic is extremely important not because women are concerned with money but because a man knows how to save spend and be responsible for his finances so he can be responsible for others in his life like a wife and children.

Really shows that we (men) have to work on ourselves, we can’t make excuses or be defensive when we want to grow.. also communicate and being transparent is admirable and manly.. I want to grow, I want to step into my calling.... praying that I do

Thank you for this video. As a Christian man looking for Christian woman, I've been struggling to validate myself as a man because I had no male figure around when I was younger. I want to pursue a woman with the confidence that I am the man that God created me to be.

As a Christian girl I can confirm this. Like one consistency I've notice with how and when I am attracted to guys compared to just plain turned off always comes down to spiritual maturity. Like some guys will try to hit on me and I am completely turned off by their immaturity and or gloating. Like once a guy who I had never even talked to saw me at a christian event and decided he liked me. So he started obsessively messaging me on Facebook. Complimenting me and saying how much he liked me and then he would go and just brag about himself and everything he could do for paragraphs on paragraphs. All he did was talk about himself and when I would try to talk about God, he could never hold a conversation with me which turned me off even more because I want someone serious about God not serious about getting a girlfriend. And he just reeked of desperation to me and it from the get go turned me off. Like a mature Christian man isn't desperate for a girl to like him. There is a difference between wanting a relationship and being desperate for one. So when I told the guy I didn't like him that way, he freaked out and just started insulting me and it got so bad to the point I had to block him. By that point I pretty much wanted to never see or hear from him again. By some miracle his family moved to another state shortly after that but, geez. He was so childish. While in contrast guys I have been attracted too, are guys who are typically really mature and that lives don't revolve around getting a girlfriend but serving God and having personal responsibility like you mentioned. Like typically I won't be attractive if they don't do well in school. Because even getting your school work done and done well(getting good grades) shows a level of responsibility. And being able to converse with me about something other than yourself is important as well. I want to date and eventually marry someone who I believe can lead me. If they aren't even at my level or above it spiritually. Why would I be interested? On another note. Once I had a conversation with a guy and we talked for over an hour about God alone. The guy was my age but very spiritually mature and did really well in school (Honors and AP). I was attracted to him the first time I talked to him, even though I didn't know he was a christian at the time. But I ended up really liking him. Like yeah spiritual maturity plays a big factor in attracting a christian girl. Because we can just feel it if they are or aren't. We just know.

I couldn't agree more. Responsibility and reliability. Honesty and integrity. Kind and strong. Not money but just be a good manager of your income and it's all good 👌

I’m so glad this video exists. Guys really need to watch this, because this is the exact problem I see in guys nowadays. Thanks for this video.

Brother you hit the nail on the head. Guys, this is golden. Your girlfriend will love you for it. And don't make her the adventure, invite her into the adventure!

Thank you for this video Mark! It really gave me a reminder to stay equipped on the mans responsibility and the wisdom given, I was reading proverbs 13:20 yesterday and I believe God was speaking to me to continue walking wisely with other brothers and sisters that bring assurance to be grateful for. It’s an honor to have you speak into my life brother. 🤝❤️

Amen, preach it Mark. I hope more guys and women get to watch this video 😊💯🙏

Bullseye! Love that this is straight from the word of God Mark! Good job!!! God bless!

Oh, man ... yes. Just YES to ALL of this.

Amen! Excellent points! Ty for sharing, brother.

Awsome video this guy knows what he's talking about! #5 well said, that's exactly right!! I like the whole video & agree!!

Thank you Mark! This so true!

This is spot on! Thank you Mark for this and other amazing videos you create.

This is 100% spot on! ALL OF IT.

Agree at 100% thank you Mark for your videos, blessings

God bless you for guiding me and many of us🙏

Thank you for this video. It's nice to watch to you as you are radiating the honesty of your own words.

100% Absolutely right. Thank you for this great info

Thank you Mark. I needed this. I feel like I'm pretty close to being that kind of man. I'm striving toward it! :D

Amazingly said, well done. Hats off to you. As a woman, this is right on!!

These are all what I've been trying to say to them..you just validated me..

Thanks for your sharing, I learned a lots. May you be blessed by the Lord!

This is so on point! Bless you brother Mark❣

Mark, For a man of the millennial generation you are wise beyond your years.

Thanks for the great video!!! I would love to see a comparison video between dating and courting. 🙏🏼🤙🏼

I am glad you are here humble teacher.

Great video. Thanks Mark!

God Bless Bro! thank you for your Time.

It was so interesting that i forgot i boiled water for my tea. Now it's cold lol. Point 2 was VERY interesting, i absolutely wasn't aware that men who always brag with words or a certain type of behavior, or always do (stupid) stuff to be seen/heard are more or less conciously asking "am i a man/a real man (to you) ?" I just found it stupid, boring or useless. I'll be less judging knowing that, and be more careful concerning my relationships. Thank you !! And thanks for explaining so well, with details, and chosen words. Must be difficult, especially in these topics :D. You're always very clear and straight to the point.

Christian woman here: and YES to all these points!

I would love to hear about advice for single Christians with children or single Christians 40+. Enjoy your videos. God bless you!

I do agree with you, Mark! Thanks for having this video! A must-watch video not only for men but also for women. 🙂

Amen!!!! Great video.

This channel is extremely helpful to me as a Christian woman. Thank you!

Thanks for your videos ,always glad to hear from you !

AMEN! Wow! Mark you are On Point! I have a feeling that even women in the secular world would appreciate if this teaching were passed on to secular men! However, as a Christian woman, I really hope this is being taught in church to Christian men of all ages. God bless!

Thank you! I have learned a lot on this video :)

Really good video... I would like to see you do a video on dating after divorce. Thanks

Wow! This is really great!

Love your videos! Always spot on.

Thank you mark for this video.

I enjoyed this!

Powerful..Amen ..Amen..Praise God..Just affirms my standards for a real CHristian man...

Wow . I hope more guys get this insight

Love this video

Well put!!!

That final point hit me right in the heart. I'm a single dad and a carpenter by trade with my youngest son living with me doing my best to raise him as a man of God. Currently laid-off of work, Christmas season so jobs are slow, and still dealing with this terrible pain in my foot (plantar fasciitis caused by a heel spur) that started on my last job. We have an extremely high cost of living, but thankfully our wages set by union contact can still allow us to live where I am and have a little extra to save. I guess that leads me to add something to the list, if I may: He is also patient and disciplined enough to exercise self-control.

That was encouraging Mark. Thanks for listening to God’s wisdom for us and sharing!

Thanks. I have about 6-7 qualities in general that I need to work on becoming a better man and husband

That is so true about women already thinking of the kids she will have! I'm just 16 and not in a relationship but I do think about my future children amd household, it made me laugh when I heard him say that because I wasnt sure if I was the only one who thought of things like that Lol. God bless you all! :)

So good ❤

Responsiblity for his choices, words aren't just words

Very good do you coach at all

Thank you Mark for setting the biblical standards. I now can see my faults and work on them God bless you brother

Please pray for me,I need godly spouse

Thank you Mark, this really helped me.

I dont show my body off for validation. I do it because I look amazing and im beautiful. However, I agree to everything else in the video. Thank you for your guidance and insight.

Omg, wow lots of people should hear this message.These are the problems some churches are having. That happens to man for different kinds reason. Parents didn't speak to them about it or didn't know how too. They were not raise with a man figure wich was like a father to them or was around people that where bad influence for them. Yes I heard a brother in christ say that about women as well as you mentioned.That's happens for alot of reasons as well. I thank God for this message cause that's my ways of being as a women of christ. I agree about what you spoke of a real man. You are so right and us women we do see it. Then when you speak to them like you just did in this message wich is pretty much what comes out of my mouth. They take it and see it the wrong way. I thank God that I am not wrong. Thank you for an amazing message. Many blessings to you as well. God bless you📙📙📙

Thnks for this sharing..As a Christian woman, I'm praying about to lead me to a right true man..A man who truly deeply in love with me but truly love God more..

amen brooo. just found this. i got out of a relationship with an athiest girl

Oh my PREACH, PREACH, PREACH! I posted this on one of your other videos, but there is such a difference between a true Christian and one that is attempting to say anything to draw you in. Recently, when spending time (friendship) with a man that was professing the Lord. The intent was to determine if we should actually date. I discovered he was attempting to morph into whatever he thought I was looking for. I saw his TRUE self. He had no fellowship with the Lord, he lacked accountability and responsibility for his own actions. He is unwilling to do the things necessary to take care of himself and blames others for everything going wrong in his life. He couldn't make a decision about ANYTHING. I am a spiritual woman that loves Jesus and I live my life accordingly. The more I got to know him, the less I liked interacting with him. Low self esteem is SO unattractive. I even began to dislike how I felt after every conversation because he is just going through life flailing. I could not and would not continue to subject myself to his toxicity after the Lord has set me free.

"do you see me????" 😂😂😂😂

I watched it late but I Wil share this to my single Brethrens

THAT'S AWESOME!! I wish I had used that in my first book! THE 2nd in the 3 book series, I'll use it and give you credit Pastor! "A Christian woman wants a man with relational initiative" RIGHT! That goes with what I said about submission. I WANT THAT! ALL Christian (all women period) women should want a STRONG man that takes initiative! WE BOTH cannot drive!

Excellent job! You also did a superb job in capturing a woman's point of view. It was spot on!

Brother Mark please, review some video, ads in your video.. It encourages singles towards a worldly perspective how to date

Wild at Heart is a really good book

These are brilliant points..! 💥🔥💥 The job one though, what about when the guy is entrepreneurial & builds businesses, rather than fitting into the traditional "job" template..? 👀 - @Acharich

As a Christian woman I agree with everything on this list. Blessings . 🙏❤️🌹

Yes ur so right ..o

Amen!

Thank you for creating these videos. I’d like to know if you could possibly make a video on the question: “how do you deal with guilt when you were in a relationship where you both caused pain & hurt on each other” I’m going through a break up with someone I thought I was going marry. We are both believers but always struggled with keeping the relationship godly for many different reasons. I know my heart wasn’t where it was supposed to be with the Lord. Neither was his. I’d easily get angry & lash out on him. I feel very guilty for having hurt him because I know how awful it feels I’m no stranger to that. I’m beating myself up because it’s hard to realize you hurt someone you love. & vice versa. He hurt me in the ways of lying a lot throughout the relationship & often finding excuses to take part in things that God would not approve of. It eventually led to a break up & the pain I feel is pretty overwhelming. We fought to stay together & rely on God to save our relationship because we really did love eachother. But after a while, we’d fall off spiritually again. I apologize for the TMI on your comments, I wanted to get this across to you but wasn’t sure what other way to reach out. Thanks & God bless!

Agree! 👍👍👍

Finally someone said it!! We want to join the adventure

Can you make a video on if/how Christian women should pursue a S.O. or when to know it is the right time to seek a future spouse? God bless! :) I really appreciate & am blessed by all of your videos btw!

Wow!

Would wanting to homestead be part of providing? In this economy providing becomes a challenge.

I would like to date a REAL Christian man!!!

Great video! How do I know? See number of 'controversial' comments below...

All this does seem REALLY hard though as an 18 year old male. I feel I am under a lot of pressure to find a career a wife and be a good church man. Such high standards can seem like a difficult challenge even if I take responsibility that only I can do those things in my life. What concerns me the most is that I need a direction and that I have always found REALLY hard to figure out. I may not understand now but GOD is working in invisible ways to help his followers 😀

Amen ❣

Hi Mark, can we talk about a Godly man that has trouble committing to marriage in this world today? Thank you, your sister in Christ ☺️

I could literally watch this everyday! Are you and your wife looking for more friends? Our prayer warrior group would love 💕 to have you lead us…… just kidding. You rock and I’m praying 🙏 blessings over you y your wife!

I love that part he goes to the woman to offer his strength that is such an attractive masculine trait. Strong and compassionate to me is a real, attractive and lovely man.

This may help those struggling with these things like myself. Do them all for her ... not you. This should motivate you enough that by the time you meet, you'll be ready.

I've watched alot of your videos. About the right guy etc. And the thing is.. there's some that match the man I'm dating. Then there's some that don't. So how would I know whether his a good Christian man for me or not? I also used the video on how the holy spirit speak to you and bunch of others. Please help. Thanks ♡♡♡

A guy that uses his family as a weapon against you for a disagreement that was only supposed to be resolved between the two of you. Is a man to avoid. Responsibility is to be taken on yourself to resolve problems and not every third party ammunition you can find. I was so disappointed because he really is quite a good christian except in this area. But I will never go back - Trust in his ability to solve problems destroyed. So I continue to trust the Lord to bring along better. Good video.

Do.you have a video about what boy hood is? What love too check that out

Amen

I think when men begin to understand their biblical authority/placement, the understanding of their responsibility will come with it.

A Godly man- Sacrifices for others Good listener doesn’t interrupt Unguarded no secrets Walks the talk...actions follow words Nothing to be quilty about, openly vulnerable Stable disposition Not afraid of answering questions Interest in others Has healthy long term relationships Eph 5:25-27 loves his woman Resolved conflicts, childhood wounds Takes responsibility/accountable Does not hate woman Covers his woman Puts u/others first Good provider, not lazy Makes a commitment, follows thru. * has empathy, feels when they have hurt u. Remorse. Cannot look after themselves Do not appreciate Is able to express themselves Doesn’t defend u. Throws u under the bus Fearful of judgement/ nothing to be fearful of Doesn’t get defensive, easy to talk too Asks for help Doesn’t seek external praise/sexual gratification Doesn’t need to be seen Admits faults Is not easily offended Is not easily suspicious Highly hypocritical, what’s ok for them is not ok for u. Should feel u r discomfort/ in tune with u Defends his girl Doesnt dismiss their sin/wrongdoing Focused on Gods truth and scripture Loves God R not lovers of themselves