6 Things Every Christian Girl Needs to Know Before Getting Married 

All adults should have accountability, not just men.

@@BalboaBaggins What is that supposed to mean?

@@BalboaBaggins All people do.

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@@BalboaBaggins pff Women have

AYE SAME🙌

Yo me too

I bet you agree with everything she says lol

@@Rolando_Cueva I am a muslim and no we don't :) stop hating Islam is equality!

Rolando Cueva | no our religion is about peace. Our goal in life isn’t to work for our husbands. Please educate yourself before you you comment something disrespectful. Have a wonderful day love ❤️

Good

Correct

I'm just replying so you can see how much likes you got. How did no one reply for 5 years?

@@afellowpotato 😅😅

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You are absolutely right! He has to contribute to your happiness, in many ways, and should be ONE of the main sources of your happiness, but nothing replaces God. I love Phil. 2, especially the first half describing Jesus selfless sacrifice, but my fav verse for relationships is Phil. 2: 3. I'm still single and I used it on my roommate, and he transformed from a very selfish self-centered person to being much more inclusive. Of course, all the time being prayerful as well.

I wish it was still there

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silvia magda Thanks for the warning/advice.

As a single woman I'm intrigued of you ladies saying the man you marry is not the "source of your happiness" wowwww....thanks for the heads up.

Yes, true!

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@@blessedbythebest1003 no one no matter your gender should be the sole course of your happiness. It’s an internal thing not something you can get externally

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Is it bad to have domestic skills? That's honestly something everyone should have!

Paige Mitchell no it’s great and a nice thing to have but you shouldn’t HAVE to do anything unless you want to

@@paigemitchell7066 yes but she’s acting like she’s her husbands slave

@@hadley20 how so being a house wife is a slave🤔

Both working parents will only create unloved children when you both did it starting from when they're still so young. One got to stay at home.

@@salsabilaf.372 that's your opinion

theshiputopia I agree

sawyerlovesfreckles I agree.

GREAT POINT

Yes,but when the woman comes into place to fulfill his so called loneliness,look what happens.

Love this!!

Loved this! Perfect explanation!

Gabrielle Angel-Valentine my ‘career’ aspirations are to be the best stay at home mum I can be ❤️

Just like not ALL woman have to dream of marriage, not ALL women have to dream of career aspirations. Some women want to be wives and mothers and there's nothing wrong with that. Take your own advice.

@Judihatemmoharram Judihatemmoharram of course I could have a daughter grow up to be a career woman.... I'm quite aware of the current year. Edit: i read that back and it reads quite sharp but I don't intend to come across as rude ❤️

@@toni5543 Lord bless you and your family! Much Respect and ❤️ in the SPIRIT!

@@user-ek2ms4om7p thank you! Hope you are well ❤️

Even in Israel we have more advanced gender roles than this, and we're in the Middle of the Holy land.

I'm from iran and believe me when i say She doesn't.

lol as an Egyptian I agree with Jasmine she wouldn't at ALL

Christianity still exists in America, contrary to popular belief Gina

nope. I'm Israeli, she does not belong here. she belongs to the 50s p.s., she's Christian, so maybe here in Israel she'll be safe, but in countries like Iran being Christian is a death wish.

I know right its completely wrong to love someone

amoral combat I think that where this person is coming from is that your partner is not a complete source of happiness, and you shouldn’t expect everything to be insanely happy. But I agree that when you marry someone, you should marry someone when the love you have is ...right? Like, you love them romantically but you are also friends, you know? Relationships do take work, and they take two sides of the coin to work.

@@andreabritton7415 no it's not wrong to love someone, people can make each other happy but don't let your happiness depend on that person alone. What if things aren't so well between you and them, would you go to someone else to be happy? I wouldn't, I took the time to find things that can make me laugh or smile.

Isabelle Mccauley thank you girl 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I love this sister and a lot of what she says hits home but when she talked about striving to serve your spouse and so on my fear is that we get in that mentality and forget to seek God first and let him lead us into those things which he will if we are surrendered to his will! ❤️

Loene May God help you. Thanks for sharing

Ana Vigil I'm pretty sure god doesn't care about how you type lol

Ana Vigil lol

Loene hi

Exactly! It's perfect!!! So informative for i'm still in my preparation season!!

Mat & Est I am 22 and hope I am not old when I walk down the aisle

Amber Dennis It's better than being married to the wrong person. That is the worst thing in the world.

Amber Dennis when I turned 21 I thought I was never going to find happiness but little did I know God had a plan. He knew the desire in my heart to share my life with someone and within 3 months I was found by an amazing man who has been my husband now for over 3 years. He has made me so happy and to top it we just found out were expecting our first child. I advice you to tell your Father God your desire for marriage and prepare yourself mentally, spiritually, etc. Focusing on finding a husband will never bring him about God wants your focus first. He already knows your desire and when he sees you're ready he will surprise you. God bless you and I wish you the best

Yeah, you just gotta get down on your knees and please jeesus. You gotta make him fulfilled, then he'll fill you ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Russell Hamlet amen amen amen so true! This is def a vital great important key to know and remember!!! I had this problem too and I unfortunately learned the hard way , but we serve an Awesome God and I'm so blessed. He's so faithful to His promises and I'm so grateful that He's still keeping me and most importantly keeping me from my(inner wicked self lol) Praises Go all To Him and my wonderful amazing husband!

Thanks for the encouragement and confirmation Jamie! You are 100% correct, we do serve an awesome God, one that knows us intimately, even our deepest darkest struggles, and he loves us anyway - Jesus is proof of that! All glory to him, He is worthy to be praised!

Russell Hamlet amen to the fullest!!! I thank God for His merciful And unconditional Love daily❤️🙏🏽

annabelle7123 yes exactly what i believe :)

YES

The point I'm trying to make is, most women don't check this out in a man before they say YES, I Do. So u expect ur guy who have always believed he only needs to provide for the house to now automatically understands he needs to do house chores too. If you want that in him, you should make that your criteria for choosing a husband in the first place.

So are you going to fix the roof or faucet? Hook up a light fixture? Fix lawnmower? Fix the car to save $$$ Do repairs? Do any renovations? What about tools ? Do you know how to use any? Most men do and are expected to in "holy matrimony".

lol bible is product of 1st century what do u expect

Love your channel! C

YES! i agree.

Kate davies in the Bible you were single until you were married, so your life before marriage is your single life. Then after you get married you aren't single, so you should do the same things up until your married.

yes thats my request too :D

Girl Defined I LOVE YOU !!!!

I am only a first born so I can not offer much advice

YES ME TOO

WHOLE CRAPPY YOU TOO???????????????

PREACH THE اله

العقبة

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Cheyenne Akins yep! You can never be too young to get ready for marriage.

Cheyenne Akins sameeee

Liza David I disagree. Saying what you've said above only brings peer pressure for teenagers who are still getting to know God and that are still developing their relationships with God. To the teenagers out there who think I need to find my husband or wife now don't rush. I'm nearly 28, and I have been engaged to my future husband for nearly 3 years. You have so much ahead of you. God has a plan for you. Trust in Him. Don't rush into big decisions now, just enjoy God's purposes for you.

Lily, let me tell you something just because you're 28 and engaged now doesn't mean young girls can't start thinking of marriage and preparing for it. I know when I was 15, I was totally in love with my now fiance. Never did I think I would marry him but even then I still thought of myself as a girl who wanted to be ready to know what to look for in a husband for when the time came. It does not mean you're rushing into something. Because in life we prepare for a lot of things. School, jobs, when you buy a house, get a car, get your first salary, etc but NEVER especially in this generation...we prepare for marriage. We let everyone dictate our lives with what they say about not rushing and instead study, get a job, get money then you get married. Turns out that day will never come because a job, and money aren't permanent. You can quit, get fired, lose and gain money, buy a new house, sell it, get evicted, etc. But a marriage. That's forever. That's why you see girls crying over boys even at your age. They never really knew what to expect, how to prepare for the things are more important in life. And btw. even after marriage there's a lot of people (20+, 30+, 40+) that are still getting to know God. Some don't even know their purpose in life yet and the age don't matter. Because 2 is better than 1 and 3 is even better. The third person would be Jesus, that guides them. I'm getting married at 19 and I'm PROUD to tell the world. I know that's what God intended my life to be. Young marriage is awesome. I encourage all girls of ANY age to prepare yourselves. Because money, a job, or school don't make up a wife. That's Jesus. Only Him.

stanzygarcia I agree 100%! thanks for sharing your story it really encouraged me:) congratulations I am so happy for you! God bless you, your fiance and your marriage♥can you tell me your "love story"? ;) ♥

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@@airqx2808 yes

@@rachelnkemokoro2004_ well actually, no

Well... maybe study the ministry of Jesus? He was selfless, gentle, and nonviolent, and definitely not a pushover

You can be selfless and still have self respect. Your love and compassion doesn't go away because you stand up for yourself.

That’s a very culture influenced idea. If you’ve ever read proverbs 31 you’ll see that the wife is both a care take of her family and a business women. She is multifaceted. But the church lets culture influence them too much sometimes

Because the man is out working to support the family financially. So the women takes care of the home. That's the partnership. You're welcome for explaining.

@wnc817 what if you never want kids and your partner's okay with being childless and doesn't mind doing chores so I can work?

So sorry that happened to you.

THANK YOU 👏👏

AMEN.

Yes sir!

Valerie Linares preach!

..but,,, they are actually saying it

Kayli K hey I completely understand what you're going through about the guy situtation. There have been days where's I felt terrible about myself. How I dealt with it was just focusing on the relationships that God has already blessed me with such as family and friends. Another major thing that has helped is just looking in the mirror saying nice things about myself. Remember God made us all beautiful and he wants us to love ourselves just as much as he loves us.

Everything is in the Lord's time and in His way and according to His will. For now, just follow God and seek the kingdom and a boy will come along when you least expect it. God should have the first place in our hearts always and just pray for your future husband from a young age.

I've encountered the same thing. I honestly think that this is our Father protecting us. Hopefully this makes sense but it's almost like He's "blinded" people to me because I'm looking to them for satisfaction and purpose. Its actually another way of showing His goodness and grace because it drives us to Him. No man or woman will ever fulfill us or always be there. Earthly relationships are fleeting. Only our union with the Lord will last. Now I'm thankful for this protection because now that I'm growing in the Lord I'm encountering more men that are sold out for God, and a godly character is the most attractive thing ever. I honestly think that if someone after God's heart were to notice me and pursue me, I'd fall head over heels straight away, because the flesh is flaky and doesn't think straight LOL. God has created a mate specifically for you that He will reveal in His time. We don't want to settle for the first guy that gives us attention, but we want God's BEST right? He has a best for you. I hope this made sense. It's late and I'm sleepy, so this may be an incoherent jumble LOL

I know that can be really hard...when I was in high school I was never the girl that got asked out all the time. But now I'm married and so happy and I'm so glad that I didn't just date a lot of people when I was in school. God has such a great plan for you!! He will lead your life perfectly! 💗 - Est X

I think it's a natural desire to want a man to love you. After all God did design for man to have a wife.. But then again, we should be completely satisfied with just God's love, but trust me I've struggled with this too and it makes me feel better that someone else has felt that way as well.

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Michelle Ross well she talks A LOT about God from a Christian perspective so it's Juan Luis directed at other Christians

Michelle Ross I'm Jewish and it applies to me too :)

Esther Neissany Of course it does! We have the same Holy Scriptures!

Michelle Ross no it’s not for all women. Not all women want to be second class citizens in their own home.

yeah :)

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Same here, i am glad i found this blog. Our values are so similar.

Sweet :)

I dissagree I'm Christian but I think you should not live for someone else.

I must say this video was extremely eye opening especially the first point. Thank you. 💜

You should save your pity for someone who needs it. She doesn't need your pity.

You're sorry that her "belief makes her happy?" Okay then. 😕

Why are you sorry that she finds happiness in ways differently from you? Better for her because depending on human beings will only disappoint if you cant find joy within yourself first. You cant depend on ppl to be happy. Them making you happy isn't the same as them being the source of happiness.

Hannah Evans yeah she kinda does she basically below re she's not allowed to feel love for someone

Do not say that because it will happen.

No shame in that! I’m staying single forever as well. Remember, you don’t need a partner to be happy, or for your life to have importance!

Following the ideas of a single book demonstrates the opposite of wisdom especially a book that is so deeply flawed.

I admire your wisdom and intelligence but you really need to fix yourself up because you're so much more beautiful.

no

I am sure you are married now , hope your marriage is going great dear

renata bliss How so? I’m still not understanding that.