Beautiful! Closing the gap by sharing details of your day! Something I really like thais mentioned in a webinar one time was "the joy of sharing with the person" I loved that and that is something I've always loved doing with a partner is sharing my day with them....I always think of it as "I GET to share my day with them" and not " I HAVE to share my day to them" such a big difference in mindset 🙌
Thais has a book on attachment styles. You can get it on Amazon. I forget the title, but if you type her name and the phrase "attachment style" it should come up.
Am 30 and I have never been in any relationship, I never felt like I want to nor have I ever imagined myself getting married. Now I do admit it might been because of my attachment style (FA), I remember very well at the age of 9 I promised to myself that I will never let myself be in a situation like the one my mum was in, or my other relatives. Problem is even after watching all these videos I still don't see myself becoming vulnerable, or trusting someone.. I have huge trust issues.. I don't trust anyone including my own parents and family. If anyone out there was able to over come that, will be helpful to share. I just want to know if any of it is worth it..
We have the same age and Extremely if not equal stories. I am going through it in a long distance possible relationship. I would definitely recommend it to you, as its a process which allows barriers to come down without any pressure. It’s like taking a leap without necessarily the pressure of a relationship forming instantly. I think there’s some hope for people like us. And i cannot believe I am even saying that. 😆
What if the needle keeps moving from power struggle to commitment, to bliss than to power struggle again 😪 we get to bliss when we meet up and everything is okay, than we start disconnecting when we are apart and all the problems start rising again. Fa dating a Da here
Hi! Is it possible for each person to be in their own phase of a relationship due to working on their wounds? Like a secure partner is a honey moon and am anxious being in the honey moon ?
