If You're an Introvert - WATCH THIS | by Jay Shetty 

Basically I'm an introvert. But when I get true loving friends, I become an extrovert. Anyone like this?

*I’m an introvert, I wouldn’t even consider being at the party.*

Sitting alone is better than surrounded by fake people 👏

Being an introvert at workplace is hell, no matter how good you’re you’ll always feel left out coz you’re not the chatty one

Introverts report card be like: She/he is a smart student but needs to participate more in class.

Saying an introvert to speak up is as rude as to say an extrovert shut up.

You may think I'm small, but I have a universe inside my mind."

"THE BIGGEST MISTAKE AN INTROVERT CAN MAKE IS TRY TO BE AN EXTROVERT" this line 💥

I’m an introvert and would never bring a book to party.

One of the worst situations for an introvert is when you have to do a group activity with people you don't know.

Introvert can actually very social. Just with the right people ♥

Being an introvert doesn't mean that they are always sad or feeling lonely. We are so comfortable with ourselves ♥

When you’re both shy and introverted people take you as arrogant

Introvert squad✋

only introverts can understand the power of silence

Saying Introverts are so quiet and need to talk more to their face, is just as rude as telling an Extrovert to shut up. I love this video.

why does modern society still think bullying is “haha loser”

Extrovert: Quarantined is hell Introvert: *Finally, it's heaven*

When two introverts became friend its is amazing

I am 20 years old and I am an introvert. Growing up, I was really a shy guy. I used to think myself as an introvert when I was shy and sometimes try to pretend like an extrovert which was hard. These past couple of years, I have been trying to be aware of myself. All the things you have mentioned is true and I have experienced most of them. I have realized that it is very important to express our feelings and communicate whenever needed, no matter of our personality. Thank you, you have been really educating us.

*"You don’t need to be loud to have great ideas."* Susan Cain

I’m an introvert and I would never bring a book to a party I wouldn’t go to party

As an introvert, I have to deal with many difficulties on a daily basis. The worst of them are when someone forces me to talk

Being an introvert is far better than trying to rub elbows with everybody against your will

Mostly introverts are watching this whereas extroverts should watch this.

*“Don’t think of introversion as something that needs to be cured."* Susan Cain

It's really funny how my teacher said that "she's introvert, she's quiet, she doesn't speak often, she has to be an extrovert" Like now I feel so relieved that a video like this existed to give me such an important lesson! Thank you so much!! Btw HAPPY NEW YEAR;)

I love how for most or perhaps even all of us introverts is that as soon as we find someone in the group that's also introverted or even more introverted than you are we will immediately pull ourselves together to include them more and be kind because we know exactly how it feels to be left out or misunderstood. We got each others backs 💯

Every introvert was once or more than once called "shy and timid" by teachers and relatives.

"Don't think of introversion as something that needs to be cured" I wish more people understand that😪

being introvert is an art ❤❤

I literally teared up 😭💞 this is relatable af- people just give us a "quiet one" or "not so cool one" tag and they think it's funny it actually hurts a lot. To all the introverts, be who you are and don't let the words to people stop you ✨ 💛

What I hate about being an introvert, is that everyone would think that I’m sad or really lonely. But in reality I just wanna stay away from people and actually have a moment to be by myself.

Why the hell he is reading in a party? We introverts dont attend dump party

As an introvert i get depressed many times but this video gives me chill, thank you💛

I have seen 21 years of my life being and introvert, shy, staying away from people, not attending any parties. Hate parties. Hate gathering. Hate relatives . Hate to talk to anyone. Love being alone. But family and friends hate me because of this. Making fun of me.

You know what introvert means: You can't start speaking with someone that you're not close to.. You can't stop talking with someone that you are close with.. Am I right ?

Introverts love to work alone, but that doesn’t mean we can’t work in groups.

I'm actually an "outgoing introvert", which basically means i love interacting with people and making new friends, but at the end of the day social interaction will always drain me and i still prioritize alone time, and it's kind of hard for me to be social if i'm not already with a few close friends (for example, in a class where i have no friends i won't speak to anyone, but in one where i have a couple i'll be super chatty and outgoing)

Thank you for this episode from the bottom of my soul. I feel inward love and affection for myself and I know that being an introvert is beautiful.

When you are being asked to introduce yourself in front of the class : me: Ah shit, here we go again

Imagine being introvert, shy and have social anxiety. Let me tell you, it's a nightmare.

the first three scenes literally happened with me multiple times, only people who faced it will understand the feeling. almost crying

I'm an introvert and people think that I have attitude and ego but that's not true nobody even understand that what's going on my mind.. I study in class 9th and I don't speak a lot.. Nobody is my friend, nobody talks with me.. I just feel lonely 🙂.... I had told my secrets to the one whom I trusted, but she went and spread them here and there 💔.. I adore a didi in class 12th I mean she is my favourite even she knows abt that, ki mujhe woh achi lgti hai...but still I'm scared to talk with her idk why 😢.. when I start feeling comfortable with someone then mujhe aisa lgta hai ki woh insaan bore ho rhe hai mujhse isliye main baat nhi krti fir and then unhe bhi koi frk nhi padhta... Sometimes I hide my tears , and then people come and ask what happened then I say nothing I'm fine... Nobody even said a once that tell me what happen you can trust me.. nobody ever said this 💔 I don't even have my mom and dad 💔 Sometimes I be like please God take me to them.. then I just think abt my bro and sis 😢.... I can't even tell all this to someone but here I can b'coz nobody can judge me

"The biggest mistake an introvert can make is trying to be an extrovert." I felt that💔 . . . . . . Edit I somehow developed myself to being extrovert but the most thing that I'll ever advice u all, "You must accept who u really are bc that's the last thing that u'll be proud of." I realized that I don't need others' hate sayings to me just to pleased them. I learned that when u became true to yourself & to people around u, others would love you u. Not that I'm saying all would love you bc there's no such thing in world that all would be loving u, it's impossible but you'll be happier with yourself if u start giving yourself no care to what other's are saying about u.

Life of introverts is not easy at all 🥺

Why don't we learn something so important as that in school? It would have helped me a lot to not feel like an alien.. I hope this video helps kids today to understand that: You are okay, just the way you are. Thank you, Jay! 💙

As an introvert, I always apologize for not being able to work with others, not being able to just talk to someone whenever I'd like or being assertive and this really made me realize that I shouldn't view my introversion as a weakness but rather a perspective that some people won't experience which I'm happy with because after spending a year trying to be an extrovert, it kind of messed with me in a way and I will start getting across to people that I don't want my introversion/quietness to be "cured".

Teacher: "EVERYONE BE QUIET! CANT YOU ALL BE QUIET?!" Intervert kid at the back: *hold my words*

"There is a big difference between being shy and being an introvert." Yeah I'm both. 😒

When I use to be kid parents thought being quite is good things that what kid should be in front of elders. So I thought to be good kid and trying my best to be quite. Once I grew up I found out that I am an introvert. But then also I knew there is disadvantages being introvert and also advantages being introvert. So even being extrovert also have same benefit and problem. But the most important is that never stay silence when you need to speak. "Be who you are!"

After knowing that 3 million people are introverts like me I am feeling much better☺️☺️

"Don't think of introversion as something that needs to be cured". I love this

It's hard being an introvert in this extroverted world. 😔

I was always the one left out because of being so quiet in class but nobody understood what being an Introvert is all about so I thank you for this video!

I am an introvert that's why nobody wants to talk to me I am always alone in my class , I am an introvert and talk less that's not mean I don't want to talk but people will never understand introvert people 😒 I am always quite because I hate fake drama like when people are in group they will always shouting and laughing loudly etc... They are pretending like how they are happy in their life 😒

I just hate when someone say: *why are you not speaking much?*

Being Introverted doesn’t mean that they’re nerds who read books all day. Edit:A lot of people are replying that they're introverts and they read books and alot are saying they're introverts but they don't read books.What I meant with the og comment was that reading books all day doesn't make you introvert.You could read all the books you want but your personality type is a diffirent thing. Edit 2:You guys still don't get it

❣️😍 Its soo connecting soo relatable.. and the best thing is we all introverts came out and expressing our feelings and opinions through comments here

Most introverts got burned hard by pretending to be an extraverts, cause they thought there was something wrong with them and they wanted to "fit in" and be liked by others. Accept your true nature. Introverts are the coolest

I'm proud to be an introvert...

saying the words "speak up" to an introvert is the most worst feeling.

Actually I don't know what to say... I was just crying while watching the videos because the struggles of the guy at the video are actually similar to mine. I have always find it difficult to get inserted in a group of people in particular at school. But the struggle increases in University, when i have to find a group for the project work, the option were two: get inserted in a group of people where all the work is going to be done by me, or doing the project work alone. Even, when i tried to starting talking to people at my age, i don't know what to talk about, and they make me feel I'm weird, because of my interests, that differs from the majority of people at my same age. Even at the question of "what are you doing this weekend?", I usually invent something and lie, saying that i go out with some friend of mine, when actually I don't have friends! And actually i want a friend with which i could share my interests, my thoughts, my experiences, my time, share with him/her activities, but it might seem strange, but i don't know from where to start!

2:15 : this is exactly what my mom and my sister needs to hear . I don't really engage with people unless its necessary so my mom and my sister will always be like ''you'll be ok once you grow up" . Like dude , just because i don't talk unnecessarily doesn't mean that something's wrong with me , i am ok !!!

I feel different from my family because I'm the only one "introvert" in my family.

Extroverts bullying introverts is the neverending story

Being an introvert is one thing Being shy is another. Find which one you are

This hits me so hard as this is how i feel so much whenever i go out. I despise large groups but absolutely love seeing others i love have such a good time. I ❤️ YOU fellow introvers and extroverts. You all make this an extraordinary place.

"Be alone that's the secret of invention, that's where the ideas are born" - Nikola Tesla

Introvert things: i personally hate short talks. random idiot: hey , how are u? me: fine. *now what?*

Most introverts doesn't take avoiding that seriously but it makes a deep mark in heart for a long time

I am discovering that being an introvert is my super power. It really is a struggle now that things are returning to what it once was. The lock down and isolation was a dream.

"The quietest person in the room, is actually the loudest."

"Extroverts change the world, but introverts makes worlds" (citation not from me ;-;')

wow.this is so real and true.....thanks for sharing this...now i feel happily being an introvert

100% relatable, people labeled me as a "Quite person" & i have 0 friends ... Literally "0" 🙂

I’m an introvert but if I get bullied someone is going to get a punch in the face from me

"Loneliness is not necessarily when you are alone". Some people need space. Just give it to them.

Wow This Is What I Needed To Hear 🫂 Thanks Mr.Jay Shetty

I was an introvert and still growing.... Making others proud and being unavoidable important person in my circle. I am happy with that.

Introverts don’t read books while everyone else plays games.

Life is hard when you are both shy and introvert beleive me this is the truth

Best message for those who always say to us he/ she doesn't speak alot, she /he is a shy person. They don't know that Silent is Golden 💛. Thanks you for golden messages 🙏🙏🙏

Be yourself, everybody is already taken-oscar wilde... These words comfort me and makes me accept myself who i am

"The biggest mistake an introvert can make is try to be an extrovert" I felt that My parents always tell go out and play with them (somewhat forcing me to become an extrovert) I will be very happy if they understand me

if you're a quite person, just own it. Be comfortable with yourself and know that you have your fair share of strengths that are unique to you.

I am a great example for this video I used to be introvert until my college life but when things started to change in my life i am proud to say “I too loved being extrovert” :) I like your speech a lot

Thank you for your true words. In the end of the video I realised that I, as an introvert, often try to act like an extrovert, just to fit better into society. It's just sad that those thoughts are so common

I literally never say a word unless I absolutely have to.

I think this fits more with nonsocial people, rather than introverts

Literally one of the best videos, I've ever came across Thanks Jay Love from an INTROVERT ❣️

Yes absolutely perfect I loosed all opportunity... Now I'm sick with my silence

Our family thinks we're depressed but the truth is that we're more comfortable with ourselves

being an introvert, the only problem i have is when i am left with a group of strangers..i feel awkward and nervous when i am thrown into a new environment but when i get comfortable then i don't have any issue in socializing.. its just that i need time to get comfortable with new people and new situations.. another thing is that i need some alone time to recharge myself ..i can't be with people for a long time because i get drained out... i don't like small talks and i don't enjoy talking just for the sake of talking... i like expressing myself to people who really listens... when someone does not listen or don't pay attention, i don't speak at all

I love to be an introvert in this fake world ❤️

Awesome content for great motivation to build myself as an introvert!

I'm an introvet but I don't let others bully me...sheesh

"Quiet people have the loudest minds"

I watched Susan Cain video just before this . . It’s so overwhelming to watch these videos . . I read so many comments, realised one thing that there are so many introverts like me that have been bullied and made fun of . . It’s very emotional to and a roller coaster to experience the brutality of the world, yet being so sensitive and kind to not hurt anyone back cause you already know what it feels like to feel that void of not being understood for the way you are . . The surprise is that an introvert will rarely do the same with anyone what he or she went through because of the fact we have the gift of intuition and the understanding and being the big person . . But then it feels really heavy also sometimes . . !! 🥺 This is probably the first time I’m expressing myself like this . . But the fact is I have been through situations like these and I felt so emotionally overloaded . . Thank you so much for this video Jay . . Keep rising ✨✨

This made me cry when he said it's not something cure