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Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and 7 simple ways you can spot an online scammer
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@matboggs
@matboggs Год назад
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@Larryscelebrities
@Larryscelebrities 2 года назад
Number one rule is to 'never' send money to anyone you have never met physically before. No matter the reason.
@chanettaphilbert6217
@chanettaphilbert6217 2 года назад
I simply tell them upfront that I don’t believe in giving anyone money, I can talk to you through your problem and maybe give you some thought on who you could ask about getting some money? And if they asked me to go off the app I just tell them I don’t work like that, and they seem to disappear. if they don’t wanna meet right away I’m not interested. But in today’s world, you can meet a scammer at your local coffee shop. You just have to be diligent and protect yourself and have self-preservation because if they are really for you they’ll understand. Because I don’t show empathy until empathy is shown for me I don’t give respect until it’s earned. But I do like to mess with their heads it’s 😂
@eustaquiadancil3123
@eustaquiadancil3123 9 месяцев назад
Thank you i experienced all that you said ..having listened to all the signs of a scammer He cant get anything .from me ….the best he did was to blocked me and deleted me in facebook ,thank you for blocking me .. ibwasspared as a scammer victim ❤❤❤❤❤
@jasonrich4690
@jasonrich4690 3 года назад
I think it’s more like 99% scammers and 1% genuine people. It’s become so horrible it’s not worth even trying anymore.
@LadyBee1986
@LadyBee1986 3 года назад
Yup that's EXACTLY how I feel
@louiseowen8397
@louiseowen8397 3 года назад
I feel the same way . I was looking for an apartment in Berlin New Hampshire on the internet and I looked where it was in town ( the street) and it was on a deserted road no houses!! I don’t bother anymore! I’m going to go there and look ! No exchanging money over the phone ! God Bless and Merry Christmas. 🎄🎄🎄🎄
@ClissaT
@ClissaT 3 года назад
Yup, that's how I see it too after personal experience all through 2020. 99% of those I asked to do face to face video or ring on the phone refused to do that very thing. I told them up front I had been scammed and now I required this proof. But they refused telling me I had no trust. Well doesn't that just prove my theory?
@marywilson208
@marywilson208 3 года назад
Yes! Such a shame. I don't accept new people any more until I read their profile. No, pictures, no friends, divorce, dead wife, all lies.
@mattiejohnson7388
@mattiejohnson7388 3 года назад
@@marywilson208 what was his name?
@maureen-hippiemama5834
@maureen-hippiemama5834 3 года назад
I just let a scammer go TODAY!! I am in a very vulnerable spot right now and while not even looking for someone, I was approached on another social media sight. I hate to admit it, but I haven't been spoken to this kindly in many years. Easy to feel flattered. The photo's of this man were my type and he was even smarter, he supposedly has a son. Pictures of him and his son 7 years ago and now. His wife passed of cancer 4 years ago. Everything seemed beautiful. Then he needed money until he got paid from a job on an oil field he was on for 6 months in Australia. Hurts a lot to have felt cared for and you know it's a scam so have to say good bye. Do not judge anyone for falling for this, because at times in our lives when we feel so alone, it's easy to want to be loved!! Human nature!!
@Beautytrends77
@Beautytrends77 2 года назад
They always have children and a lot of them say their spouse passed away. I’ve had this happen to me multiple times. Their are a lot more out there than you think.
@samirchavi5121
@samirchavi5121 2 года назад
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@MzGumby02
@MzGumby02 2 года назад
or they'll say they lost both their parents.
@suecole5543
@suecole5543 2 года назад
Move on from it . You have a good heart and fell for a scammer Dont' blame or feel bad its' them not you. Horrible people in the world hun
@christianedalmeida2878
@christianedalmeida2878 2 года назад
@@Beautytrends77 I hope my experience help someone else not to fall victim. He said, he had a humble beginning, he is 65 years old, the dad and mum died when he was very young and ended up in orphanage and build he life up now he is an orthopaedic surgeon. he loss his 21 years old married wife. he is from North Carolina but working in Yemen. he had only 1 son 7 or 9 years , can't remember. now where i started filling uncomfortable is when he told me he liked telling stories to her daughter then i confronted him that, but you said you had only one son? he tried to ignore that part of the question. i gave him some time and i brought it back still ignoring, but i would not let go. finally he said he had a daughter but she died 3 months ago and she was 14 years. apparently, everybody around this monster of a man are all dead except him and the son. another red flag only 2 days speaking with him on a text message and he is talking about marriage. the final blow for him was when he made a video call, he was speaking and the voice on the video and the hand gesture was not the same. it was a recorded voice. also he insisted i download Hangout because the Facebook account was for his work and for official use only
@FrankkAlbert
@FrankkAlbert Месяц назад
I am in awe of *GLOBAL TRACE ASSETS* because of your constant dedication to exposing and exposing web scams. As we see your attempts from the bustling streets of Buenos Aires, Argentina, we find that they serve as a source of tremendous motivation for us. It's hard for me to comprehend how callous these people can be in their pursuit of rapid wealth.
@stevengreene9690
@stevengreene9690 Месяц назад
You're out-of-the-box thinking and distinct perspective transformed an otherwise mediocre presentation into an excellent one. You did an excellent job identifying errors and preventing us from squandering time and going down the incorrect path. Your attention to detail truly separates you from the competition. Excellent work *GlobaltraceAssets* , Your excellent labor has yielded tangible, beneficial outcomes for me. You are a formidable opponent.
@rosarycottage4616
@rosarycottage4616 4 года назад
Frankly I've never had one positive experience with meeting people online. You might say that the scammers are a very small minority but I beg to differ with you. In truth it's the other way around. Meeting people online is far too risky and I'd rather meet someone in the conventional way or stay alone than subject myself to more of the liars and con artists I've already encountered while experimenting with the online dating. Never again.
@graj22754
@graj22754 4 года назад
I think the reason we are here is because so many are out there
@silsavannah
@silsavannah 3 года назад
Sorry about your experience, Rose.
@GodzillaTim-1.
@GodzillaTim-1. 2 года назад
It's OK if your bored. You can make a game out of it. How long will it take them to say they love you and want to be with you. Or my personal favourite. How long until they give themselves away.
@caur6
@caur6 2 года назад
Play them along. Dont take the relationship to yr heart. Dont give money. I hv made GOD my friend. He will never betray.
@im2cuteferu
@im2cuteferu 2 года назад
I agree, there are more SCAMMERS than good guys on the dating apps/websites. The scammers can make so much money scamming people. I took the apps off my phone. I was really depressed when I was on those apps, now I’m happy with myself!
@sierrajade63
@sierrajade63 3 года назад
I was on a dating site,and I always told them "I'm a cross country semi driver" I can go to any part of this country and meet you in person. After that they would always stop talking with me.
@littlekingtrashmouth9219
@littlekingtrashmouth9219 3 года назад
Shame for OTR drivers
@reyginrempillo3071
@reyginrempillo3071 2 года назад
same here I'm always say I'm a minimum wage earner then they not talking to me anymore
@caur6
@caur6 2 года назад
This is too good.
@im2cuteferu
@im2cuteferu 2 года назад
One scammer told me he was in a city in Florida, I told him so was I and let's meet for dinner! Ha! He quit talking to me!
@jacquelineippolito3670
@jacquelineippolito3670 Год назад
Great Idea
@emilythompson3605
@emilythompson3605 2 года назад
I have had 67 different scammers contacts in less than a year. If I had it to do over I would never put my year of birth on Facebook as they see I’m 74 and think I’m ripe for the picking. My answer to them every time is “I’m old but I’m not stupid”. Once you learn the script, you can easily spot them.
@elenapowell6497
@elenapowell6497 3 года назад
Matthew, I agree with everything you say in your video & it is good advice. But I disagree with your statistics, for those of us in the 55+ age range the percentage of scammers is around 50%. I've tried multiple dating sites (Match, Silver singles, Mature dating, OK Cupid, POF, etc.) and unfortunately there are many scammers on each of those sites. Ladies beware, don't let your guard down
@shirlainewilliams152
@shirlainewilliams152 3 года назад
more people need to know this ..why do we fall for this ??? never give money to a stranger ,even if they are dying
@sarahjennings8732
@sarahjennings8732 Год назад
When a guy pretends he's your favourite celebrity, talks smooth And Says he loves you , Says he wants a vacation with you, Says he is sending you a gift of Jewelry and a nice dress, But! He says his agent is contacting you for a package and a Special code to remember when the delivery gets to you, But it's Contactless? Be careful because Contactless could be Dangerous you don't know what amount of money and you have No comeback No recipt! It's More than likely a big scam/Fraud!!
@janiceferguson344
@janiceferguson344 4 месяца назад
Yah, that's what they'll try to tell us, is that they are dying when they run out of options, like they are working on a job outside of their own country, and have no money to see a doctor, can't access a hospital, and the company they work for out of their home place , have no medical insurance to cover them. Their co-workers can't help and they are desperate due to pain. That's an angle they use and I'm a retired nurse so it left me in dilemna but I'd given enough money to recognize it wa nothing but a scam and there's no return on any amount of time or effort you give to these con guys. We fall for some of it because we're human and they are masters at manipulating the emotions. Some are women who get behind the screen to relate to our inner feelings.
@avgwhitegurl6646
@avgwhitegurl6646 5 лет назад
Don't give anyone money that's all!!
@JDOGFTW
@JDOGFTW 3 года назад
Don't ever give money at all?
@bryantlane8646
@bryantlane8646 3 года назад
O
@caur6
@caur6 2 года назад
Ya it will stop them in their tracks.
@janiceferguson344
@janiceferguson344 4 месяца назад
Good thinking. He can send the money to you instead ! Ha !
@corycox52
@corycox52 4 года назад
I agree with the comment posted below - they’re often “widowers” or in the military, or they’re doctors doing charitable works overseas. But almost always the first thing they want you to do is to go off-platform. I’ve learned if I tell them I’m not comfortable going off platform and they push back, then they’re either a scammer or they are someone who doesn’t respect boundaries which gets them blocked either way. I have also noted if you carefully read their profile and then read the exchanges they have with you, you’ll sometimes find that the later exchanges seem to come from a person who does not speak English as a first language, or they have significant difficulty with grammar and syntax. When the two comparative writing styles don’t align, I’m suspicious.
@makindedivine5309
@makindedivine5309 4 года назад
Hi there, i can tell you all you need to know about these people, so you don't fall victim of one
@LindaLinda80Linda
@LindaLinda80Linda 2 года назад
They are widowed with a child and work on an offshore oil rig. But they are retiring soon.
@cheriann
@cheriann 4 года назад
I was just catfished on a dating app. Glad it only took me four days to figure out. He said he was US Army, but the man in a picture he sent was wearing a British Naval uniform. I did an image search and found it was a stolen picture. I'll be doing image searches from now on.
@maszelianasalleh4197
@maszelianasalleh4197 4 года назад
How to do search image by Google?
@helenwilks4304
@helenwilks4304 3 года назад
@@maszelianasalleh4197 is like to know how to do google image search also
@midnighttrain7844
@midnighttrain7844 3 года назад
yeah how to do image search?
@cheriann
@cheriann 3 года назад
Try googling it. I know there is a way on Google, but I used an app to do it, I don't remember which one.
@janiceferguson344
@janiceferguson344 4 месяца назад
It's a good thing you were observant! They all have high profile jobs where they are travelling and live a life that is full of excitement, but once they make the pitch, it's because calamity hits and they give you all the drama til you feel the guilt. If they ask whether you love them or not at that point, just present the question of how much anyone can love someone sitting behind a screen with a phone that is on the blink. You don't get to see their face beyond photos and anyone can post a photo. So glad you were observant !
@antiquelady60
@antiquelady60 5 лет назад
Thank you, Mat. These things seem obvious when the heart isn't involved, but emotions sometimes cause temporary blindness so it's good to have these things spelled out ahead of time.
@donnahilton471
@donnahilton471 Год назад
If you never engage, you won't get sucked in. They are NEVER real. You can't love someone you never met.
@brendarobinson2154
@brendarobinson2154 10 месяцев назад
Poor grammar, misspelled words, poor punctuation and sometimes broken English.
@mindymaniego777
@mindymaniego777 3 года назад
Its good to put your guard up when someone message you online even if you have a mutual friend.
@tjlino2837
@tjlino2837 Год назад
Good morning May your day be filled with love and laughter
@laurabrookstone3867
@laurabrookstone3867 4 года назад
Dude...you have it backwards. It's 10% real people, 90% fakes
@edithlindner8833
@edithlindner8833 3 года назад
Yeah! I think the vlogger made a mistake here. I believe there are more scammers online like you said and a little percent real people. Most Nigerians are finding scamming a lucrative job that they’re like working an office job cashing out on their unsuspecting victims. There should be a Task Force in that country to track down these scalawags and be answered for their evil, heartless and insensitive way to earn money much more wealth on their unsuspecting victims...Here the signs were given so ladies beware!
@alonzosmith7795
@alonzosmith7795 3 года назад
This Girl Name Helen Katrina Patrick She Asking Me For A $20 Gift Card I asked send me a picture of my name but she is not sending me a picture
@ClissaT
@ClissaT 3 года назад
@Georgianna Degler There are others similar too. I don't understand why people continue to have social media accounts when they are so easy to hack. And when people know their photos are being stolen why do they continue to upload more for the scammers? Are they getting paid for using the photos or something?
@debbierandall6256
@debbierandall6256 3 года назад
That’s exactly what I was thinking.
@Siggi395
@Siggi395 2 года назад
These guys use board games such as Scrabble Go and Words with friends and then try to lure you to go on hangouts. The board games are free.
@KristinePaul22
@KristinePaul22 4 года назад
When they replied so quick and explained everything and plan future with you. Even you just spoke in few times 😂
@sebastiangutierrez4940
@sebastiangutierrez4940 2 года назад
Yup that's a scammer.
@janiceferguson344
@janiceferguson344 4 месяца назад
Yah, a lot of these guys tend to think that just because they formed a connection, that a woman is automaticallly desperate to be with someone. That in itself is a turn-off and insult.
@krizziefernando5937
@krizziefernando5937 5 лет назад
Exactly, they will attack your emotion. Tell you all that you wanted to hear till u give him your trust..
@frankborderieux3788
@frankborderieux3788 4 года назад
For me I use a good trick to show that I am real to someone online and you can ask them to do the same that is: to ask them to tell you a WORD OR WORDS then you write those words on anything and you take a fresh selfy picture of you with the words (they freshly told you to jot down right now) on say a piece of paper and then they can know it’s you and vice verse tell them to take a new fresh picture of themselves and to write down on a paper words you pick out of the blue. Then if you wanna go deeper tell them where to hold the paper with the words on it like over their forehead below their waist etc. that’s how I become less suspicious whether someone is real or is a fake trying to scam me
@ClissaT
@ClissaT 3 года назад
My method goes deeper than that because I got scammed by someone saying they were in my capital city about an hours drive from me. But turned out they were halfway around the world. SO I ask for a selfie with a landmark of that city in the background or standing by a statue or similar with 3 fingertips pressed into their cheek. They must send it to me immediately I ask for it. I don't tell them how I want their hand to be presented so they can't do a photoshop photo and send that when I ask. Another way is to ask them to go to the shops and when they are at the newsagent, for example, ask them to buy today's newspaper and hold it up and take a selfie so you can see the headlines or the front page photo. Many people won't do that sort of thing because they don't understand how deflating and debilitating it is to be scammed emotionally or love bombed.
@amynoe8173
@amynoe8173 3 года назад
Cool idea
@ClissaT
@ClissaT 3 года назад
But that doesn't tell you whether the person you are talking to is a scammer or not. That just tells you that they are human. Even nigerians can spell and write! And most even have a phone to take a selfie. But unless you specify that it should include their face, the selfie won't tell you whether they are black or white. You have to specify that you want to see their face and that it should be the same face as in the dating site account. And even then, I'm sure they can come up with an excuse or reason why they might not be able to take a photo of their face. Niether does it tell you where they are. You have to specify that you want the selfie taken infront of a certain landmark or object. Even then they will come up with an excuse why they can't do as you request. This I know from experience.
@armed-8057
@armed-8057 3 года назад
Clear pic of them holding a sign w/ the days date and year on it. Or a pic of their DL.
@caur6
@caur6 2 года назад
Amazing
@luciacaro6382
@luciacaro6382 5 лет назад
I got one! I knew it from the beginning cause he never would want to make a videocall. And never wanted to send me his location. Of course the same old story, a poor widow with a child in boarding school... but he/she was some stupid, wasn't coherent with what he said and... of course the day came when he asked me for the money... I asked for the bank account but he gave me a female name with a zip code. He said it would be enough. I told him that I did the deposit. He had to go and check. I laugh a lot after that... and told him I got you!!!
@timothywalker3299
@timothywalker3299 3 года назад
I have had alot of experience with scammers unfortunately over the past 4 years. 1 sign that hits me right away is that they call you dear alot. They ask about your health. And as mentioned in the video, they ask about your job.the it's your finances. I have had one ask what bank I used. Who my telephone and broadband provider is. They all seem to have had a partner or parents die in an accident .
@dianangoma4474
@dianangoma4474 3 года назад
Am looking for some to be friends with. Am from Zambia Lusaka
@caur6
@caur6 2 года назад
They say darling and my baby n my queen from 2and day.
@ceciliadecastro3764
@ceciliadecastro3764 2 года назад
I'm looking someone friend, I'm Philippines,
@caur6
@caur6 2 года назад
Exactly they asked what job o am doing Do I have a car. Where do I save my money.
@GodzillaTim-1.
@GodzillaTim-1. 2 года назад
I would not be surprised if more than a few aren't on this site.
@phajaiyang6791
@phajaiyang6791 2 года назад
Their conversation starts out very polite and formal with you then day by day they start to not make any sense anymore..it’s like these scammers are switching with each other to talk to you..and then they don’t understand common jokes so you have to explain it to them..if they’re urging you to get WhatsApp that’s a huge red flag!
@elaizasangabriel7177
@elaizasangabriel7177 Год назад
I have a chatmate from dating site..just only for few days he said he loves me and wanted to marry me? I have kind of doubt to him now...Then he decided to me here in the Philippines.He arrived and he said he has kind of business transactions in somewhere...My doubt started to grow when last night he asked me to reload here on her phone...Then he send to me the million pesos check that he won on his bidding...And now he said he is in the bank going to withraw his money but he's asking me some money because he can't withraw the in bank! I am getting to block him! And I check to your videos the signs of a scammer online!!! Maybe I won't go to meet him tomorrow....thank you Matt Biggs!
@graj22754
@graj22754 4 года назад
So this would be a great meeting place for people because everyone can be watchful for each other.
@caur6
@caur6 2 года назад
If only we can reach to each other like good friends.
@patmorgan5990
@patmorgan5990 4 года назад
Sounds like the 6 years I had with a scammer! Wild stories and will never show himself. They are very good at what they do! Easy to get hooked
@janettesimone4088
@janettesimone4088 3 года назад
Hi Pat - I have to ask, how did your situation go on for 6 years?
@debbierandall6256
@debbierandall6256 3 года назад
Me too.
@ordainedministerbaker1527
@ordainedministerbaker1527 2 года назад
@@debbierandall6256 that a long time now that scary
@caur6
@caur6 2 года назад
6 yrs? Really? They r impatient ppl. Dont like to waste more than 1 month.
@glennoropeza3545
@glennoropeza3545 2 года назад
If they act evasive, red flag‼️
@113caleb
@113caleb 3 года назад
I was dumb and gave an iTunes card to somebody online but didn’t realize It was a scam lesson learned
@aaronbrigham4743
@aaronbrigham4743 3 года назад
Ive Been scammed for $700 with a woman that I thought was a model but it turns out liar. You've made my day thank you very much.👍🏅⚜
@jurilynbasas7058
@jurilynbasas7058 Год назад
Scammer using other picture that is lots, that's why my post not in public. I know how to ride but am not stupid women. If I say vedeo meet up no reply or covering face😂 I chat but I don't get money from others because I know how hard to work.
@shel629
@shel629 2 года назад
Not only women but a lot of very educated men have been scammed. What he is saying is very true.
@janiceferguson344
@janiceferguson344 4 месяца назад
It can happen to anyone including the educated. If emotions get involved, then it is easier to overlook the red flags.
@sebastiangutierrez4940
@sebastiangutierrez4940 2 года назад
Thank you so much for opening up my eyes with this video. I'm a new subscriber to your channel. I just got rid of this scammer from New York. I met her on a hookup site called one night, long story short she told me she loved me and that she wanted to come to me and get married already, because to her I was the one. I'm in Texas how was she going to come, well she wanted me to pay for her flight. And she was going to be with me for ever. I thank you for helping me spot this scammer cuz she was already asking me for gift cards as well. Keep up the good work, open more eyes. My friend.
@janiceferguson344
@janiceferguson344 4 месяца назад
Amazing to think that anyone could move so fast. Whatever happened to the good ol' days when you needed time to get to know someone. I've heard it happens to men too. Hope you got rid of her fast.
@carmenpereira8452
@carmenpereira8452 5 лет назад
Thank you Mathew, I have been scammed once and I was online and all I attracted was scammers and blocked them. I only met one genuine person in a period of 3months. I already know how they operate. They either widows with a child or the wife dies of cancer or in an accident. They never call you and they want you to be exclusive without going on a date or meet in person. I learned a lot from that, now I'm a bit weary of dating online. Great advise for woman and men to.
@lorenlili5671
@lorenlili5671 3 года назад
I am currently on POF dating site and i have met with so much Scammers and big fat belly white men haven't seem to find the right one yet for me i am only 44 yrs old hoping to find my partner soon.
@JDOGFTW
@JDOGFTW 3 года назад
they never been on video cam with me. after 2 years.
@caur6
@caur6 2 года назад
Sure they r widower with a little child.
@caur6
@caur6 2 года назад
It is better to be alone having peace of mind.
@caur6
@caur6 2 года назад
I was unlucky in the matter of sincere friends from my childhood. Been hurt so many times. But being scammed online was too much for me.
@gamegeekx
@gamegeekx 3 года назад
I'm a guy and I already spotted more than 3 scammers asking for my money. Always 50 or 25 dollars. This is getting really annoying. Thanks for the video.
@janiceferguson344
@janiceferguson344 4 месяца назад
You have to really watch it on line, as that's how it starts off. They want these Apple or Steam gift cards, or whatever you're able to afford, and then you are told how much you are appreciated. The amount they want later increases, along with the drama of why it's needed so much. They don't love you. They love money.
@sandravenable1413
@sandravenable1413 5 лет назад
They live in the U.S. and then go to another country for a 3 week job and run into a problem.
@leerees1171
@leerees1171 5 лет назад
This man in Grace wants me to open an account and put in 200 thousand dollars in the account because his ex wife has access to his bank account because his daughter lives with the Mother. Is this a scam also?
@arlenecatalan7580
@arlenecatalan7580 4 года назад
I got scammed with this kind of scenario. Stupid of me☹️
@Astro-tb8sw
@Astro-tb8sw 4 года назад
@@arlenecatalan7580 I did to😭🤦🏻‍♀️. So Stupid I didn't trust my gut feeling.
@arlenecatalan7580
@arlenecatalan7580 4 года назад
@@Astro-tb8sw yeah that's true.
@cameron5397
@cameron5397 3 года назад
Same story I got.
@timelessmusicfamilymusic9175
@timelessmusicfamilymusic9175 2 года назад
It's easy to spot, when they ask you for money or want you to invest in some bogus business. Or they ask for personal information or want you to send them nude photos of yourself so they can blackmail you later on.
@LonjeMarie7
@LonjeMarie7 3 года назад
I will be embarrassed for someone else’s benefit , you’re not alone. I too was scammed on a dating website for 700 dollars, that was a HARD lesson!
@Kfreitasgamer
@Kfreitasgamer Год назад
Is a lesson to learn. To got been scammed by a person not claim to be! 400 dollars down the toilet all for STEAM CARDS!! DAMN, we need advance bots to know what's fake or real!!
@gamsheyasarah6444
@gamsheyasarah6444 Год назад
That is a lesson I was scam to but I was lucky I was saved by my sister do not listen to there sweet words
@JosephACruz-by5dx
@JosephACruz-by5dx 3 года назад
A part of me wants just to give up on online dating because there are to many scammers out there
@1mydesertrose
@1mydesertrose 3 года назад
What you said has all happened. The guy started out like a fairytales. I felt really special. The dynamics change slowly. He played on my giving nature. 2.5 years later, 25,000 in debt, my heart torn 💔. On line was no different then face to face. That is the big reality. I fell for the scammer due to my own need to be loved. I ignored my gut.
@spicysunshine2700
@spicysunshine2700 5 лет назад
Have never given money to any strangers, but I have experienced all 7 of those examples for scammers. On thing I would add is that they often pretend to have a job that takes them out of the country (Military, oil rig, engineering).
@janettesimone4088
@janettesimone4088 3 года назад
You can add gemologist to the list also. I’m speaking from experience.
@bokeetomusic187
@bokeetomusic187 Год назад
@@janettesimone4088 hi Janette
@zac_masters4547
@zac_masters4547 3 года назад
Im really having a panic attack watching this. Im going through this right now and its hard for me to get through this video
@ClissaT
@ClissaT 3 года назад
I had my heart broken 3 times in 2020 by scammers. Its so hard to break off the communication but you have to just cry it out for as long as it takes then try to find someone else. Good luck.
@vivianmartinez1213
@vivianmartinez1213 3 года назад
Break it off!
@huangjinwei3755
@huangjinwei3755 3 года назад
Me too
@GoldenAngel-
@GoldenAngel- 3 года назад
@@ClissaT Yea it very hard ...,
@pandamoon8067
@pandamoon8067 3 года назад
One thing keep ur wall up ask certain questions that’s needed plus can be casual bout it
@roxanctalin7024
@roxanctalin7024 4 года назад
One of scammer techniques is he will fell u inlove with him then after a long exchanging messages with him, he will suddenly dissapeared and after a few weeks he will message u again and tell u more dramas then the bottom line he ask u to help him because he in dangered that time.. My God!
@user-kb3if7uk2h
@user-kb3if7uk2h 4 года назад
Wow..
@annievieestranero1913
@annievieestranero1913 4 года назад
omg, I was too late to read all of this @warrior princess 🥺
@gamegeekx
@gamegeekx 3 года назад
Happened to me too. I'm a guy and this was a girl scammer.
@nannetteabad824
@nannetteabad824 3 года назад
Thank you Matt for discussing scammer
@beautytyc7
@beautytyc7 2 года назад
That happened to me 😒
@marilynurban4116
@marilynurban4116 3 года назад
Repeated use of lower case i, small towns, civil engineer, geologists, gems, widowed, one place says they don’t smoke another says they do, only 2 photos, extremely handsome, conversation leads nowhere etc
@laniconsalamorin9325
@laniconsalamorin9325 2 года назад
Yes I have experience this .. Thank your tips sir
@suichoi8442
@suichoi8442 2 года назад
@@laniconsalamorin9325 have u tried or were u on fb?
@suichoi8442
@suichoi8442 2 года назад
I've tried fb,and I've seen an extremely handsome Chinese guy and he kept sending pictures of him but never wanted video chat as he mentioned to me that a friend of him almost ruined his life by doing video recording or to be on video chat.suspicious
@suichoi8442
@suichoi8442 2 года назад
what a red flag that he's given to me!
@FauziahSamadzee591106
@FauziahSamadzee591106 2 года назад
I experienced it myself. Oh my god
@martaarroyo106
@martaarroyo106 5 лет назад
What I encounter a lot of is when men say they are in the military. They say they are coming home soon and really want to settle down with someone special but then they don’t want to give you any information about themselves. And immediately tell you they love you and want to marry you.
@maureenkam9212
@maureenkam9212 5 лет назад
Yes, they also want you to be their trustee for their luggage fee. They said it's a secret and they needed yout email to send you the details.
@negamistica2253
@negamistica2253 3 года назад
I ain’t sending money to no man. It is not easy to wake up at 5 in the morning to go to work. Once he asked me for money, bye bye.
@annalissamanlupig5967
@annalissamanlupig5967 3 года назад
Same here
@johnballard6725
@johnballard6725 3 года назад
Well done Sis!
@chemnrd4404
@chemnrd4404 5 лет назад
I had a guy tell me he got mugged and everything was stolen. My reply was, “That’s too bad. And how do you expect to protect me as your woman if you can’t fend off a mugger?” He tried to convince me he could still protect me. Luckily I knew he was a scammer long before he asked for money; I just decided to continue playing along to waste his time. It’s not the first time I wasted a scammers time by pretending to not know they were scammers. It was definitely fun!
@hdp8889
@hdp8889 4 года назад
Lol perfect
@britannia5370
@britannia5370 4 года назад
Nice one, those Bastards deserve it!
@graj22754
@graj22754 4 года назад
@@hdp8889 i did the same thing. I learned a lot from playing their game.
@raadgirl5804
@raadgirl5804 2 года назад
TOUCHE`. I love this! ROFL
@rdsieben
@rdsieben 5 лет назад
Watch out for these signs... If they agree to a video chat the quality will be very poor. If this is the case ask them to do hand gestures. Also if they call you, they will likely use a satellite phone and their numbers are not traceable. Their area code will likely match the area code you live in. When you call the number you will not be able to reach them
@kimmcmillan4654
@kimmcmillan4654 3 года назад
Sometimes they'll video chat with you but the only thing that you'll see will be a photo with them talking in the background so make sure that your video conversation lasts more than 10 minutes and that you see them moving and doing hand gestures and actually responding correctly to your questions because if you look on RU-vid there's videos on how you can make fake video conversations
@adela-adrianamoscu9170
@adela-adrianamoscu9170 3 года назад
Great video explained in such an effective way! THANKS A LOT ! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@harrylynch198
@harrylynch198 2 года назад
for more information
@loralynart3
@loralynart3 5 лет назад
i agree with what he says but he's clueless as to just how many scammers are out there. In my experience the vast majority of online guys I meet online are scammers..and a small sliver of em are actually real. Just been my experience
@graj22754
@graj22754 4 года назад
so far i found one who was not a scam. I would like to say Facebook dating (although to real) was a bit refreshing. But what I find with that is people are only looking for hookups. I am not into that.
@ClissaT
@ClissaT 3 года назад
And the few who are genuine are very plain characters, not what a person might be looking for. And also have no income or not financially independent. Actually several of the real men I found were actually looking for a sugar mummy! They were no-hopers looking for someone to mother them. YUK!!! All the good looking ones were scammers.
@gamingchannel7696
@gamingchannel7696 3 года назад
I’m a 20 year old man, and I experience the same thing. I just want to find the woman for me... I hope I’ll find her soon.
@donnafletcher5386
@donnafletcher5386 3 года назад
Totally agree.
@saycog1084
@saycog1084 5 лет назад
He’s always from the military, widower, lives with his mom and cares for her and he is an only child. He always wants to use emails or Skype as soon as possible. And his computer never has microphone or camera. His messages don’t sound like they were written just to you. He keeps putting you on a pedestal all the time. He’s available to write in unexpected times of the day or night. It feels off from the beginning. When you catch him, or they go completely silence or they tell you off for wasting their time. He usually has just one picture on his profile. Unless you’re looking for someone in France, their introduction is in French or they write first message in French. Once they go on Skype with you he tends to erase his profile on the dating site.
@midnighttrain7844
@midnighttrain7844 3 года назад
I think skype is good, cos you could do video chat with him to see whether he is the person in picture or not
@marywilson208
@marywilson208 3 года назад
They have pictures of dogs, I hate dogs, has one child, my kids are grown, what I look like being bother with someone else.
@asamanyworlds3772
@asamanyworlds3772 3 года назад
Yup yup yup
@caur6
@caur6 2 года назад
Exactly. If they are posing as doctors? Which doctor is so free to chat so much?
@guynellerandle
@guynellerandle 2 года назад
I just want to make a comment. The thing I want to share is that they come in and fill a void in your life. They make you feel special, unique and cared about. The feelings you develop are real. The person they are impersonating don’t really know. The person you develop feelings for is unaware of the ongoing relationship/scam. I believe there’s a grieving process once this is over. The pain is real. Be kind . These people are good people.
@christianedalmeida2878
@christianedalmeida2878 2 года назад
it emotionally disturbing and i am very upset with myself for putting me in that situation, especially that I wasn't on a dating site. I commented on a post and he pop up and complimented me and that was it.
@mmer7061
@mmer7061 4 года назад
Just got someone trying to know me thru my email he says he got through my profile on a dating site I never registered on...BLOCKED!
@izgh4551
@izgh4551 3 года назад
Great video! Wow, all the comments, geez! Everything everyone says is right on point. I was scammed out of Google play card for $25. He said he was in the Army, wife passed, and son in U.S while he was deployed. After a while, things didn't make sense. He said he would video chat and didn't. Luckily, it was only for two weeks and $25. I finally used an app to locate his image and I found his pic on Russian dating site. So, I sent him a 'laters' message in Russian.
@jaszi33
@jaszi33 5 лет назад
Finally someone talking about this Matthew ! Thank you, scam scummers are far to prevalent praying on the vulnerable & foolhardy- I speak from experience. But now my spidey senses pick them up straight away. Listen to your instincts not your heart sisters, you deserve better. Namaste xx
@caur6
@caur6 2 года назад
I hv become more experienced and wise after two incidents. Now I will never allow anyone to play with my emotions. God is my soulmate now.
@magnuya1756
@magnuya1756 5 лет назад
Thank you for sharing this video with us.
@elenis.3817
@elenis.3817 2 года назад
One more thing is when you have not seen him but when you first talk to him on the phone, his voice sounds much younger than the voice he should have according to his age!
@Xanaphia
@Xanaphia Год назад
My mom got scammed after only being on Facebook for a short few months. She NEVER told me anything but that he's a traveling doctor and she didn't believe me that he's a scammer. Not until he asked for money, then she finally believed all of us who told her to stop talking to this guy. Then she refused to stop talking to another guy who asked for money but still believed he works for Johnny Depp! Claimed he was a friend until I finally got through to her and she's not using Facebook anymore. She believes every page she was joining was real and not fan made after actors and actresses. She was believing everyone she was talking to was a friend or knew the actors and actresses. I can't trust her to go back on Facebook to stick with people she knows and family members after all this.
@maealegado9351
@maealegado9351 2 года назад
I am currently been a victim of scammer, and thanks for this info. I know now what does this thing all about.
@cathyallison2377
@cathyallison2377 2 года назад
Good morning! I look forward to your videos, i am talking with a scammer, my life must be boring. I have been blocked by 2 scammers 😆 im very much aware of the mind games they play. They refuse to send me money. Ive been divorced 28 years and can't seem to find real love so i play the mind games with the scammers. Look forward to more of your videos. Thank you for sharing them. You have a great and wonderful day. Cathy Fort Worth, Texas
@carlabarkley3286
@carlabarkley3286 3 года назад
I’ve had the guy who worked in the North Sea and immediately sent me love poems (which I called him on). I had a guy in person who was a scammer. Similarly though he owned his own company and he had an accident and lost his wallet, then his sister and niece were all killed in Australia. I knew it was all garbage but I kept him around because I couldn’t figure out why he was lying. Then it dawned on me that it didn’t matter why and I kicked him to the curb.
@misslanapford9169
@misslanapford9169 5 лет назад
Love your messages and love your videos as always...❤❤❤❤❤❤
@ethelfarewell9777
@ethelfarewell9777 4 года назад
Thank you, this has been helpful.
@aymanyounes2196
@aymanyounes2196 3 года назад
Thank you. That helped me so much with a recent situation I had with a scammer girl on email.
@florevangelista2247
@florevangelista2247 2 года назад
That's very true I have experienced that but I was not victimized. Thanks for the info.
@missulu
@missulu Год назад
Always assume they are ALL scammers! Thanks for all the advice! We allow people to contact and talk all they want with other people. It's free, not 'internet free', but really free! We don't use cookies and we don't upsell at a price. we're just getting started, give it a try! Best of luck to everyone, be safe online!
@marionhitalia8762
@marionhitalia8762 3 года назад
I guess I experienced all these signs,and Im aware now,thanks Mat.
@MicheleHerrmann
@MicheleHerrmann 5 лет назад
Any prospective suitor that asks you for money, don't give anything.
@MariaHernandez-dx7ou
@MariaHernandez-dx7ou 3 года назад
Love your videos thank you!! Any recommendations of good dating sites? I am Very tired to meet a bunch of guys that they only want to play
@Heavenbound571
@Heavenbound571 5 лет назад
Very helpful and informative videos I appreciate your non-critical (think Simon Cowell in a sour mood ripping into vulnerable singing contestant) teaching style!!!! That's the kind of person that I can learn from and I'm open to listening to so Thank you!!!!
@karentranter7806
@karentranter7806 2 года назад
Hi Matt, Great advice. I will sure look out for these signs. Thank you Matt xxx 💝
@tjlino2837
@tjlino2837 Год назад
Good morning May your day be filled with love and laughter
@TheMargaperez1
@TheMargaperez1 5 лет назад
I am so glad that you made this video. It is so informative. Thank you.
@sisterinchrist9785
@sisterinchrist9785 3 года назад
I wished that you had provided this information long ago because I learned the hard way by getting Scammed and it last over a 2 year time .they will work on your emotions first before they go for-the jiggler . I’m still trying to recoup this from my bank and reported it asa fraud case . I really want them arrested . It really was a nightmare during that entire time . It was horrible
@kaydoerflinger49
@kaydoerflinger49 Год назад
This is so neat for people that are still young & want to meet someone.....keep up helping the innocents like this!
@annabelledelacerna1884
@annabelledelacerna1884 3 года назад
Thanks for the information. I got on your statement that says something about asking him to answer some of my inquiries but just ignore it... Now I’m beginning to feel that this person I am into is somewhat a scammer. Thanks
@PK5237
@PK5237 2 года назад
Whatever they started asking for money just back off and stay away from it! I usually report them depending on their country. Check their name and work addresses, phone numbers and so on. But I think most of the online dating things are kinda scary these days.
@smashthings4fun
@smashthings4fun 4 года назад
I enjoy busting scammers and when they try so hard to get me to believe they’re and then they get mad and block me 😅😂😂
@hermanrogers1325
@hermanrogers1325 3 года назад
I like jamming up the game of money with them because I know i will not send them a dime
@caur6
@caur6 2 года назад
Now I am also becoming a pro.
@mikebrown1906
@mikebrown1906 2 года назад
I've done this and it do much fun!
@caur6
@caur6 2 года назад
Now I am past all this. And am very happy living my life.
@ileanahope466
@ileanahope466 2 года назад
I would like to waste their time and play along if this happens to me.
@mariasaravia8702
@mariasaravia8702 5 лет назад
Thank you for this video.
@rachaelbourne4540
@rachaelbourne4540 2 года назад
Thank you for your advice. Thumbs up
@nisachantong
@nisachantong 5 лет назад
most of the scammer wont turn on camera when you are chatting or face time with them .They always give some excuse their camera broken or something wrong with their phone .I heard sometime they use a fake video call for scam too so be careful ladies .
@lindamcdermott2205
@lindamcdermott2205 3 года назад
The online sites are paying these liars to string you along and charge you for time on the site. This happened to me. So they do not always ask for money...they are getting chat commissions!!! Also that story about getting mugged and lost their cellphone...that is a cut and paste out there! It is worse than ever. Never again online dating!
@agotacsaszar43
@agotacsaszar43 3 года назад
Absolutely agree.... it’s easy to find out the intention and then they vanish off anyway
@tjlino2837
@tjlino2837 Год назад
Good morning May your day be filled with love and laughter
@emmagarcia4753
@emmagarcia4753 2 года назад
The sad thing is I send my pictures as well as my family already, before I realized that he’s a scammer. . And I realized that the pictures he send me of him , are most possible pictures of someone else, who is not aware that his pictures are being use by scammers. Then he may use my pictures too, to scam others too. How do we report these scammers?
@TB-yx5of
@TB-yx5of 5 лет назад
I was scammed by an "engineer" working on off shore oil rigs who wanted me to invest in his company. I have a construction background and it was very clear the scammer knew nothing about engineering. His written skills varied from day to day..turns out this particular scam is actually run by a group of men based in Africa so you are often communicating with several different people. The difference in writing style became more obvious over time. They became very nasty when I refused to send money. I requested contract details and business registrations...none of which they could supply of course...and couldn't even tell me which oil rig they were working on...these were all things easily searched on the Internet...make sure you do your homework ladies!
@maureenkam9212
@maureenkam9212 5 лет назад
There was an engineer who gleefully told me I had brought him.luck as he had won a contract in Turkey. He even texted me a fake document and I knew what would come next as I noticed the words in the contract that said he had to pay value added tax. The next day, he told me he ran into trouble and asked me to be his trustee. Without waiting for his reply, I blocked him. He even tried to call me.
@britannia5370
@britannia5370 4 года назад
NEVER SEND MONEY OR PHOTOS
@user-dp3up9xq4s
@user-dp3up9xq4s 3 года назад
Oh, i just knew a guy for 9 months, who said he is an oil rig engineer, fr Jan to Jun we did video call and telephone call every day for an hour and he said he was in Singapore, but since Jun he work in an oil rig in Italy but has explosion and indeed of 30,000, of course i dont have that money, i only gave him little, but until today is Sept 23, he still keep in touch with me either by whatsapp or phone. So i guess i will blocked him. As i was cheated
@user-dp3up9xq4s
@user-dp3up9xq4s 3 года назад
@@maureenkam9212 oh i have the same experience with u
@kimmcmillan4654
@kimmcmillan4654 3 года назад
I had someone contact me on Instagram who was a offshore oil rig engineer I knew right away he was lying when he told me he worked off the GOLF of Alabama 😆
@sagamary6651
@sagamary6651 5 лет назад
I'm from malaysia, and there are many scammers here. Scammers heaven. All their stories are, always similar. It's either they are divorced, widowed with teenage kids, their job requires traveling. I chat allot online a lot, I've had experienced too. He said he is coming to see me and when he arrived at the airport he, was held back by our local customs officers. That's when they ask for money. So what I did was, I called our local customs and checked if such incidence is really happening there. That said no and adviced me not to pay. Well thank God I escaped. Since than its like a hobby to me. I chat online learning to find out how identify a scammer. I'm pretty good at that too. Hahaha. Just like in the movie catch me if you can.
@victoriarandazzo2462
@victoriarandazzo2462 5 лет назад
Saga Mary b
@krizziefernando5937
@krizziefernando5937 5 лет назад
Saga Mary we have same experience, he said he has a dollar that’s why he was caught by the immigration. He didn’t declare his gold and his asking for money since he’s card is also not available. He doesn’t have any relatives who can help him to give money that’s why he needs my help. Unfortunately I thought he’s real but he’s not. I wish for his karma. He’s from Amsterdam (Jason Adams) he said he’s a businessman but a complete scammer. Beware with him..
@annenashipae5952
@annenashipae5952 5 лет назад
I have there a man I at online dating app asked for a number. I gave him thinking he's a serious person. He told me that he is a single father and showed me some photos of him and his son. I believed him at first. He told me that he wants to be his wife and the mother of his son. In pretentious I agreed. Afterwards he told me he had sent a parcel with a fake courier company and it's blocked with the immigration. He used contacts of fake people to act as immigration officer and they claim I have to pay money so I could get the parcel. I have a friend working at the immigration office told me that no parcel was sent to. I confronted the man later he blocked me. I have seen him using another fake user name. After 2 days I another man who I found in Facebook telling me that he loves me and has a daughter. He told me that he loves me for like 30 min after I accepted his friendly request. He is in another online dating app with another user name. I have not told him anything but I'm playing mind game with him so I teach him a lesson. Saga Mary they to learn a lesson
@bwilliams4266
@bwilliams4266 4 года назад
I was a victim of this but thank God I met someone, Mike a private investigator/hacker who helped me hack this person and I knew I've been sending money to someone that does not exist. If you need any help you should contact him, he would help he is totally reliable and affordable. Text/Whatsapp +15182175945 or on Instagram @mikeswilfred
@riphylladiengdoh8994
@riphylladiengdoh8994 4 года назад
The same happened to me on December last year. Same story . I had been already scammed by the imposter. He ruined my life . Left me with huge debts
@smliesmile4061
@smliesmile4061 5 лет назад
Luckily I never have seen a scammer, but this is good for me to avoid them someday.
@ladylucchionio
@ladylucchionio 5 лет назад
Thank you, Mathew this information is needed big time. I've come across a few scammers lately, but I haven't given up on having someone who is real in my life.
@joysinner3415
@joysinner3415 5 лет назад
There are many types of scammers online. The percentage of any type of scammers is much higher than 1%. I would say about 50% are not authentic in some way or another.
@bethmabee
@bethmabee 5 лет назад
Yes, I'll never forget meeting a guy whose online profile said he was a non-smoking social drinker, and he turned out to be a chain-smoking alcoholic. Others have lied about their height, weight, age, marital status - why do they think they can get away with this stuff??
@TheCelinehoran
@TheCelinehoran 5 лет назад
I would totally agree with you there. I was bombarded it was so traumatic. One after the other, after the other.
@tracyschiff3669
@tracyschiff3669 3 года назад
Beth Mabee That's a different issue. I've had dates show up and be 30 years older than they claim. But you can sort that out on the first date.....At least they're local humans.
@meeshaevans4224
@meeshaevans4224 4 года назад
I've noticed a pattern of them asking what I'm looking for jn a relationship/man. In one of their first messages. Seems to be a screenef to see how long they can message with you without meeting up. Be wary of any links you get sent. Especially if they are asking you to log in to something like FB etc.
@heatherhampton8967
@heatherhampton8967 2 года назад
I’ve had people ask, right away, how I’m enjoying the dating site. As soon as I say, “it’s not really for me and I like meeting people for real better”, they disappear. (I’m a gen Xer, not used to dating on line)
@siafu87
@siafu87 2 года назад
I noticed in the past when I encountered a scammer their pictures on their profile were not consistent. You can something is fishy when the other pictures of the scammer’s profile are slightly different from the other ones. So watch out for that and it’s okay to ask the person to talk to them over the phone or do a FaceTime call with you. If they hesitant about it then they are most likely a scammer.
@peaceofmindofpeace1650
@peaceofmindofpeace1650 7 месяцев назад
In my case he called me and when I told him he sounded African and I was vigilant if he was the owner of his pictures , he suggested to video call next day but I was so distrustful that I said no bc videocall can be fake too. He said he wabted to meet in person soon but atm busy. That's when I said no im not putting up with bs anymore. He said "I don't have bad intentions" Them he hung up and dissapeared plus unmatched me on the dating app. Very confusing..what if he was real but the love bombing on WhatsApp was to obvious. I wonder how they do suggest to videocall though if they are fake.
@joanfischer2806
@joanfischer2806 4 года назад
they ask me if i have a good heart to help someone that needs help once in a while for your soulmate
@MicheleHerrmann
@MicheleHerrmann 4 года назад
Mine kept calling me baby. And nothing on him came up in Google searches.
@helenwilks4304
@helenwilks4304 3 года назад
That’s the problem I have had also. Anytime I try to find out more info on him. It’s like he doesn’t exist
@janettesimone4088
@janettesimone4088 3 года назад
my scammer called me ‘little fish’. 😳🤣 Also nothing came up about him on all my searches.
@tjlino2837
@tjlino2837 Год назад
@@janettesimone4088 Good morning May your day be filled with love and laughter
@tedmuffinnutts2232
@tedmuffinnutts2232 4 года назад
omg everything you have said is spot on in my situation. having the worst Christmas and new years in my whole life ever thanks to this scammer. she is exactly how you explain she claims to live in a city near me but is away on business trip and all the sudden she says she card isn't working cause of legal. she's looks to be this really pretty girl, says her parents died in an accident and get card isn't working and needs help and every time she seems to get the money I sent her and about to come something tragic happens that requires money again and again cause I wanted to believe. I feel so stupid and angry with myself. I am embarrassed to say I got scammed for near 7 thousand dollars in which at this point i feel like i deserved it for not seeing this scam coming. also ending up pulling a loan to try pay off the family members I owe of course they don't know the real reason. it is prob too late to investigate her at this point but I started asking her things like show me proof she actually is talking to her "close" relative other then me, even called her a scammer and she went berserk on me saying that I was mad and crazy and never in my life call her a scam again. ignores her and she starts acting cute with me again. which brought me to this video, I wished I had seen this video months back. she is actually still messaging me telling me to she needs my money. I'm done with his or her games or who ever behind that phone.
@jennieha1710
@jennieha1710 4 года назад
Good tips. Thank you
@lisaj3639
@lisaj3639 5 лет назад
Good one Matt. I had that happen to me last year. I wish I had heard this before.
@loshneenaidoo8537
@loshneenaidoo8537 3 года назад
I also was was scammed 🙈
@Jojo-mt1yt
@Jojo-mt1yt 3 года назад
This was about to be happened..im soo glad i watched this..
@debbierandall6256
@debbierandall6256 3 года назад
Yes, me too. 🤦‍♀️
@paulahershoff5313
@paulahershoff5313 3 года назад
I was scammed and was naive and sent money. The man at first emailed me and sounded like a nice man. A week later he told me he was going to the US. 2 days later he said he was arrested for tax evasion and if I didn't send money he would go to jail l fell for it and sent money. Then he kept saying he needed more money . I sent until my bank stopped me .. So look out for TAX EVASION SCAMS. I reported it to the police but who knows. I was very naive. Now I am very depressed .
@paulahershoff5313
@paulahershoff5313 3 года назад
@@loshneenaidoo8537 read about my scam
@HayleyRoseWinters
@HayleyRoseWinters 5 лет назад
I got scammed in 2010 unfortunately, from an aupair site. I lost €600 to an alleged "travel agent" who was supposed to make the travel arrangements. He always said "Thank you for your Trust" (with a capital). I sent the money to England to a "lady" but I talked on the phone with someone in America, whose family I would be aupairing. I trusted these guys because a friend of mine found real work from that website; I should've realised that they can't control the users' profiles. I was pretty young and naive back then..!
@lang_lang884
@lang_lang884 Год назад
That is very very true..all if that signs are all true!thank you for sharing🙂
@terrigrunder6717
@terrigrunder6717 5 лет назад
Everything u said about scammers is right on! I've had this situation several times while dating. But please warn others about the scam posing as American soilders and wanting to come home and ask for funds to come home. UNCLE SAM WILL FLY OUR TROOPS HOME FOR FREE! When in doubt they can call their local recruiting office with any questions.
@maureenkam9212
@maureenkam9212 5 лет назад
This is the story if the situation at the war-torn zobe gets too tough. They want to quit early and need to pay some funds for early release to the general and since they are no longer in the military, they have no transport back to US. Therefore, they need a return airticket.
@maryroudebush5240
@maryroudebush5240 2 года назад
I’ve been there, I also know that the military will bring our soldiers home. I had one tried to get me to send money so he could get back home early due his problems there. He said that military would not bring him back home early. Since I was in the military , I knew better, told him to go to Command officer, or his officer in charge and they would get him the paperwork and way home. He didn’t like what I told him and he started cussing and calling me all kinds of names. My gut felt weird so I had feelings he was a scammer.
@joannfazzalorearnold5976
@joannfazzalorearnold5976 4 года назад
WOW... I have been scammed 3 times and when it gets to the money part....I delete... I wish I had seen your video sooner...
@makindedivine5309
@makindedivine5309 4 года назад
sorry about that ma'am
@moemoe299
@moemoe299 3 года назад
I know it just doesn’t happen to women it happens to men too
@elyrosetan3368
@elyrosetan3368 3 года назад
Me too 2 times , the last just recently . What a bad experienced like hell.
@angolaracheal615
@angolaracheal615 3 года назад
@@elyrosetan3368 Reach out to mileyfunds on Instagram or Whatsapp@+1347-357-5221 To help you get back your money from scammers , he helped me get my 5000$ from scammers recently , You can message him ,I'm sure he will help you
@Jojo-mt1yt
@Jojo-mt1yt 3 года назад
im experiencing this right now but i just cant figure out whether its real or fake..
@cindyvestal9900
@cindyvestal9900 2 года назад
Thank you for this video, I had one scammer that wanted me to get him an I tune gift card and he told me it was his birthday he always had an excuse not to meet me but I knew he was a scammer right away but I played along for a day or two just to see what he really wanted. The day of his birthday he told me he wants to see the gift card and I told him no not until I get to meet him in person he got mad at me and didn't communicate with me anymore. I thought it was funny, then I went back on the dating site and he was back on there using another name and city where he lived but the same picture. I thought to myself how stupid to go back on there and use the same picture and use a different name.
@tjlino2837
@tjlino2837 Год назад
Really.. Good times
@killerqueendominique
@killerqueendominique 4 года назад
I met my scammer on Instagram after he slid into my dm's. He was a 35 year old single father, who's wife cheated on him. He served in the "police corps" and works as a "special squad agent" in California but his job required him to travel a lot and that he had multiple houses in different states. At first, his grammar was good but then slowly, it started to become atrocious even though he said he had an college education and was born in the US. I began to have suspicions, especially after he didn't call me when i gave him my number(i only gave it to "him" just to see if he would take the bait) and his pictures seemed off to me, sending me the same photos that were on his profile. He also wanted to be in a commited relationship with me after talking to me for a day. The BIGGEST red flag was when he asked me to send him a $50 steam card. After i told him no numerous amount of times and told him that i thought he was catfishing me, he began to get angry, defensive and tried to guilt me because i "made him feel bad". I blocked him. I didn't fall for his game, i just wanted the amusement of watching the scammer basically expose themselves and play themselves. It was quite funny.
@reshmamemon2045
@reshmamemon2045 Год назад
Thank you so much allot God bless you I'm being through scaming. It's really helpful. You save me
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