It's nice to see that Dixie and her husband still admire each other after being married a long time! I hope to have that with my husband still after years of marriage.
Such a kind compliment - a lot of feminine women are ashamed or embarrassed to share our videos (and I understand why) so it hinders our growth. What we need to do is influence society to help feminine women feel safe to speak up.
It could be when the conversation ends, views may log off straight away. So the video doesn't finish ( even though we have just watched most of the video), the number doesn't show up.
🌻🌻 I LOVE that Mr. Bob loves to "show off" Mrs. Dixie! I Pray my future spouse will feel the same. I am ALWAYS aware that I represent him whenever we are in public.🌻🌻 Great video!
Oooh good point about some men not wanting their woman to look too good because either it makes them feel less than or because they are worried other men will notice her too much 😆
This really helps me !!I love how you guys put everything into words that make it easy to comprehend and easy to do ,exciting to work on. Tonight hubby is getting an extra special dinner and when he walks into our house he’s going to feel like he’s the king! Thanks again guys!🌹🥰❤️❤️
1.Admiration -make him feel like he is your hero in the everyday little things 2. Physical Intimacy - more important for men -be assertive too, not necessarily sex 3. Life partner -having someone to do things with, being together and having fun together. Having a strong friendship. Someone you trust and be together with always, Support System. -Give him time and attention 4. Be Accepted by Her - do not change him -accept him for who he is and what he is. It motivates and you feel i wanna do better and become more -everyone wants to be accepted 5. Someone to build a life with -someone to share dreams with, hopes, life 6. A peaceful home -Having the home in a state of order -they want a refuge, a place that can be different from out there -regular talking, communication with one another -care -welcoming 7. Being proud of your partner -expressing that you are happy that you are married to your husband -take care of yourself; your appearance -compliment one another
Being 24 in this day in age I have been a Tom boy my entire life. Growing up the feminine wasn’t valued at all by myself, stemming from my observations as a child. It wasn’t until recent years that I started tapping into feminity, I am a carpenter by trade I’ve always tried to be like a man in a lot of ways because I believed that they were more successful and of higher value in society. I do not think that anymore!!! But I still gotta work and make a living. So, I started my now job in September 2021 with a more aligning to my values, contacting company. I wore my pink tool pouch to the first day and proudly every day since. Which was a huge step for me and I’m grateful to be brave enough to change perspectives and express that. Another note about my job, bare with me… i work with a man who I admire so very much because not only is he a talented carpenter and teaches me many things, but what really stood out to me and continues to impress me is the way he speaks of his wife. He’s VERY proud of her and never says anything negative about her. (Which is rare in construction, ((another reason I’ve been afraid of marriage and womanhood)) I’ve always said I never wanted children because I didn’t have a mother myself growing up. I’m blessed by so many beautiful lessons coming from where I come from, but now that I’m coming into 25 and really choosing my own path and taking responsibility, I feel a deep sense of the old me falling away and a more grounded and feminine woman is coming to the surface. These videos have helped me so much. I don’t want to be in competition with my (future) partner. And this is such a good reminder to always show admiration and let them be my hero, even though I can build a house. I am taking notes!!!
Thank you for taking the time to share this story. These types of stories help us know what to write and present to the audience so thank you so much. I love that you have been so brave as you have matured. Please be kind to yourself and take it bit by bit because it's a journey!
This was wonderful! Thank you for enlightening me on this topic. I grew up in a family where the women made all the decisions and were in authority but now that I've been married 9 years and had 5 kids in 7 years and am a content homemaker, this is excellent advice for keeping my relationship with my husband happy and healthy. Keep the videos coming!!
Alright! I found this channel through the David Hoffman channel. As a man that was raised by my father in traditional values this is great. My mother however was raised in traditional values but embraced being a modern woman and is oppressive to anyone she thinks she can control. They could have been way more successful if they cooperated together. Meaning they reluctantly found progress just by staying together but could have been a true power couple if not for the fighting. My father had vision and my mother had know how in financial situations. My mother had dreams and my father could build them with his hands. If my mother found it hard to lead him then she would belittle him. Now that he is gone, everything he advised was proven correct. She has managed her personal finances well but anything left as the family holdings has been greatly mismanaged. As the only male offspring everything I had predicted came true, but I am looked down upon like my father was. My sister has run into the struggles of the modern woman. She is affluent, career woman, world traveling, can afford anything, and thinks every man is beneath her. Yet, she is has hit the biological wall, desperate for a loving traditional relationship, and may never realize her dream of having biological children. She has everything Feminism promised and is extremely lonely. I stuck to tradition and diligence, but lonely too. I have been told that tradition is boring, weak, and me not being rich is not enough. Traditional men are in demand but do not sell. Nowadays women measure a man by the wallet and a man measures a woman by the curves. Your teaching is needed greatly in society today. Each gender teaches toxicity wins. The division is widening and the gender war is brutal. Both men and women can benefit from your instructions. You should be at a million subscribers, the playboys and prostitutes have big channels. On all these misguided channels there are multitudes of folks hungry for this knowledge. The viewership of the manosphere and sisterhood are multilayered, but the leadership is not. The leading voices of both teach hook up culture and exploitation. They masquerade as either progressive or traditional, but are neither. Only a few voices spoke to the training of men, example Kevin Samuels or training of women, example Crimson Cure. The others just want to party in lifestyle and don't want to serve their mate. Many folks are terrified of marriage and commitment. The statistics prove their concern and avoidance. Your teaching is actually in line with the psychological research that I studied over a decade ago and apparently what you all knew even further back. I meet women that have benefited from these traditional practices and others that long for instruction. I have always encouraged them to just speak freely, start a channel of their own, or a movement to spread these values. I was thrilled to find out you already exist from a video describing your movement from David Hoffman. No need to reinvent the wheel, just need to get this message bigger. To be around so long this needs to be the prominent voice for women in the modern relationship scene, not E girls and internet hoes. Is there a male equivalent to your movement? I will direct as much traffic here from those other channels as possible. We need authenticity and correctness very badly. Everything is tense now, there is much freedom in structure, and it helps us grow. Thanks and much respect for holding us all accountable to a potential mate and keeping foundational principles alive. Peace and power.
Thanks for sharing. So happy to have more men finding us. We are speaking to both men and women but specialize in helping women. We have men on our team that assist with writing so there is always a male perspective underneath our message. That’s important to us. Perhaps doing more content for males is something we could explore. Thanks again!
Not being nosey, but it helped me to see what people identified as the issue in their marriage and how they are responding to it? I hope that makes sense.
Guys you are AMAZING !!!!! Thank you soooo much 🙏❤️🙏 you are a BEAUTIFUL FAMALY 🙏❤️🙏 . I learn from you a lot for a long time ! And is help me a lot !!!!! Thank you again 🙏❤️🙏 .MORE BLESSING TO YOU 🙏❤️🎊🎉🎊❤️🙏❤️🎊🎉❤️❤️🙏
I think Bob's name should have been credited as well since he gives the male perspective! Thank you for a really interesting video though! I learned a lot.
Husbands deserve more of you. This can mean intimacy, it can mean your devotion and time...whatever it may be for you, it's important to take away that your boyfriend knows fully that marrying you will mean he gets all of you. It doesn't mean you become his doormat or slave, it doesn't mean you do not lose your boundaries. It means that marriage makes the two of you a team. Dating should be more of a time where you are trying to learn if you will be the right team mates.
I suggest looking into courting vs dating defining these terms and seeing the varying differences can be very helpful. Modern day dating is really very much like marriage without the legal documentation, security and death benefits. 🤷🏽♀️ Dating with the understanding that you both desire marriage and aren’t going to cross any boundaries that are reserved for marriage is very helpful.
With the recent news of the Bill & Melinda Gates' divorce, we're reminded of the importance of cultivating the marital relationship at each phase and passage of life!
Thank you for sharing these. I do have a question. If my husband comes home around 1:30 A.M. how can I make him comfortable? I am usually asleep; I get up with our baby between 4-5. Should I be getting up to greet him when he comes home or?
It depends...if you and your husband rarely get time together and are going through a tough time as a couple, it would be an incredible gesture. I wouldn't recommend it otherwise only because you sound like you are working hard with babies and need some rest. If it were me, I might leave a note and something he likes by the door when he walks in. Even just a bottle of water with a "missed you today" type of note would be nice. 💕
How do we get a man to remember us on special occasions but who is a great guy otherwise. He'll bring me wood for my fire pit but no flowers even when I ask sweetly...makes me sad.
