7 Things to Know When You First Fall in Love 

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Hi

Right here boo

Hello!

Wow a great quote thanks

@@arria1276 youre welcome!

Agreed, words aren't always needed when it comes to portraying and presenting love

Ain't that the truth

It doesnt take that long usually it fades by then

Eh No

@@ju999X eh yes?

Felt that.

I can really relate this

bro it hurts how much I can relate

HELP- IM DEADDD 😭😭😭 also i hope you doing well :(, no hard feelings

Oh god- 😂 Seriously tho u ok?-

u ok?

Are you okay? If you need to talk i'm here!! ^>^

@@N0rtmiik3 said the random person on the internet. It’s a joke please 😭

*INHALE* Good soup

Well, romance does usually involve wild steamy sex, if that is what you talking about. =P

the same is with being addicted to helping people, trust me i have my own experience

@@J3ffik yee

pretty much

But that's with all things

More of a curse

@Muffin Tin lmao same

same

Ikr same, especially when you get sat next to her in class :')

Amazing pfp, the world is truly yours

I legit hate my falling in love feeling with this girl bruh, she doesn't even feel the same nor care about me at all. plus we're living in a hell long distance places, so there's just negative thoughts of me that she's just being with another guy and having a relationship with him, and we're not even in a relationship yet. I wish I've never met her, it's torturing me like all day, gave me anxiety. And i just couldn't focus on my classes which is just fricking sucks

Self-sabotage is very common! It comes about when we have low self-esteem and/or a fear of rejection (so we basically reject ourselves before the other person can reject us -- yeah, subconscious logic is weird like that). It's tricky but we can and do overcome self-sabotage. Wishing you luck and wisdom on your journey! :)

@@CFSworks Thanks 🙏❤

can u try a therapist for that?

BRO SAME

@@userm180 Probably but I don't really feel like discussing it with one at the moment since I don't trust them not to tell my parents I'm kinda dating someone

Very fair proposal.

So true. To love someone is to know them, to stick with them thick and thin, to always want to see their face when you wake up, to see their true selves, and to be willing to show them your true self, to be comfortable with them, to trust them. And all of that takes time.

Well, yes and no. Yes, true love stems from experience and trust, something that comes with time, but you can fall in love without being in a romantic relationship. I know, because I did. I actually have never had a crush before, at least not in my understanding of the word. Which is also why I identify as demiromantic. My current girlfriend however has been one of my closest friends for quite a few years before I ever started to develop romantic feelings for her. But by the time I did, I'd already got to know her on a very emotionally vulnerable level and we had already developed a mutual trust and understanding of each other. So I didn't "crush" on her. I simply realized that there was an additional feeling besides my platonic love for her. Yes, I do believe you need some form of relationship with a person to actually fall in love with them. However it does not need to be romantic in nature, as long as it's a close one.

I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other. I think humans should just ditch concepts like dating, marriage, and pair bonding. I feel like this world would be a much better place without romance than it is with it. In my opinion, romantic love should not be on the highest pedestal. In my opinion, parents and siblings' family love is the strongest. Family knows who you are. Romance is fake for lots of people, put on a false persona and romance on most parts gets ugly real fast. For the reality of romance is no Disney love story. Parents and siblings' family love is one of the strongest types of love there is. If romantic love is actually real, it would be one of the weakest types of love there is.

SAME. It's always at the exact time you need them lmao

@Not RickRoll 👇., Im rickroll proof cuz i listen to the song everyday lol

Algorithms...?

It's scaring me.

Same. Just when I think I'm not, Psych2Go makes me think it twice

I know, i really fell that way about a girl but every once in a while it makes me feel so sick like my stomach hurts, gives me a headache and makes me really wanna cry. Its actually really fuckin annoying when it does happen.

It’s actually quite a sick feeling

this describes it perfectly

And if its with a friend you wanna kill yourself cuz you love them but also want to keep them as your best friend without maybe ruining it if they dont like u back 😖

exactly :(

im so happy for you :DD

woo congrats! that’s so exciting, i wish the best for you two!!!

We fell in love in october (Ik it could be a straight relationship but that was my first thought sorry)

@@thew0ffan267 thats clever i love that

Yo what a story book love story 😭💗 /pos

Respect for the OGs!

🙌🏻💪🏼🤍

Lol I love air too 🤍

I-i like air... *I could go for some air you guys* , over here! Right here! I need it... *I need iTtttt*

fr like damnnnn air lookin kinda cute rn 😍

@@shtfuu9771 😭😭 IM

Me an aroace: *choking*

That's very True

Not aura, just behavior and body language.

Having a romantic connection with someone is a unique experience, but you can definitely learn a lot from platonic relationships too!

@Duckies_playz non romantic or sexual relationship is platonic, basically just friends

Same thing happened to me! We’re not necessarily good friends but we have small talk now and then and there’s no hard feelings

awwwww

I used to feel pretty much like that once. But I ignored my brain saying “just a friend bruh-“ and then he eventually stopped talking to me.

Help... This is what I'm experiencing but I feel like I'm still confused

@@dianyllusaj2905 ngl me too lol but I think about my girl almost all the time and wonders how she is, she makes me smile with anything

@@rion6206 experiencing that thing too...😭 I feel tortured and not at the same time, if u get what I mean

Nah u just confident, try asking him out

It could be that your not so much crushing on him, but more genuinely in love :) im no expert tho lol

What you have right now is the foundation for a lasting friendship. For love, really, the end goal is to be comfortable being completely yourselves around each other, so you're doing pretty good. And, I don't have true experience with romance, personally, but I think you should give it a try, at least, and see where that goes. It could be that you've found the right person, but it could also very well be that you two would be better off as good friends.

No, it’s not weird! I felt like that too and I thought I was just weird or something, but for me the physical stuff came after me and my boyfriend got together. I still feel super comfortable and confident around him, with just an added bonus of my heart skipping. So I say go for it! Ask him out and you could end up being really happy with him- the worst that could happen is that he says no and you move on, but at least you know you tried

@@sydneyb2023 Exactly right.

Thank you hero😌 i will do this

Tipp: Throwing the other person in the hole works aswell

I feel this so much :,)

*laughs in has a crush on someone but they are like a tiny tiny bit homophobic and your a non binary bisexual*

@@kaydensalcedo5503 PLS IM ALSO NON-BINARY BUT PAN

@@jackinthebox7950 OMFG- AYEEEE

@@jackinthebox7950 YOU KNOW WHAT- YOUR MY FRIEND NOW- WE GOT ALMOST THE SAME PROBLEMS-

So happy for you

S A M E and it's absolutely awesome, right?

DAMN

Both of you are blessed!

👍

It feels like it was forever ago, in a time that is unknown to me now

F

@@evem6890 I think about this often as well, been three years now and crazy to think how different everything was back then.

I haven't been in love for 6 years now and I don't mean not being in a relationship, i mean not having someone to look up to and look forward to seeing, like a crush. To be honest, I miss the feeling but also it feels like I'm somewhat free, I'm not thinking "Damn i hope she likes me" or "I'm never going to be on her level" or things like that; i can just do my own thing, be myself in a way.

Being inlove Feels so nice but it really Hurts so bad

Im so happy for you!!! Wishing you the best in your relationship :)

i wish yall the best

Trust me this is just a part of falling in love, it may be the worst part but I guess thats how you know that youre really falling in love.

That's a big mood swing, try fixing up yourself. And by that i meant dont be dependent on your partner/crush most of the time. It will cause a not so favorable outcome after some time. Hope you get well soon :)

Have you considered talking to a therapist or professional? It may help to speak with a professional about this and discover why you feel this way (and whether or not it's the state of your mental health in general). I agree that love doesn't "shut off" negative emotions. I also still feel the negative emotions but, when Im with him, it eases the symptoms. But, also, my mental health do be lacking.

@@rock2946 I am actually seeing someone professional. We've talked about it and are currently working on it

@@falcox5064 You got this, my friend 💕🎊 May you continue to have a wonderful day and life

me : *literally aromantic and cant physically feel romantic love* me : *clicks video*

idk why I am here too 😅

@@noctarin1516 Haha! I clicked thinking it was an explanation of what falling in love felt like. Guess my aro self will never know. 😂

Suck to be single 🤣🤣‼️

Haha same

@@stevesnxbxb872 shut it. 🙄

its ok man, it'll all be ok pwomise mwuah

@@stevesnxbxb872 if you will act like that towards another person you better gtfo here. you are not welcome, honored, liked, admired here. it is best if you shut up if you will say that to another person that is serious. I don’t care how funny you think you are, i will literally come to your house and take a HUGE dump in your toilet. and maybe the floor. yes I wrote an entire essay that’s how bored I am right now.

You a noob then XD

@@noluck2k583 don't worry I reported his comment

How is know, a year in

How's it going?

We broke up

It has been almost a year since we broke up and he has been in two different relationships since

​@allieparent4001 damn hope u feel better

It's not the same..

Unless they die

Yeah but I don't wanna have to go through the heartbreak of seeing them die 😔

@@rikudousennin3190 your crush dies too i think

Agreed. Love with people is complicated and draining, so I’ll just start a life with my cat. /j

tell us how it goes m8. Wish you luck 🙏

You can do this! I'm rooting for you!

You can do it :3

Let us know how it goes!

Good luck and gambare >:D

You'll get there :))

Self love is crucial to our long term mental health. It's great that you've identified this; now you're on your way to self-improvement and will find it easier to, if you want, love someone else!

YES! LOVE YOURSELF. The love you have for yourself will always be important ❤️🤍❤️🤍💕

Sorry if asking this is rude in any way but what does aromantic means?

@@sarahs775 by my understanding it means you don’t feel romantic attraction to people, but you can feel sexual/platonic attraction!!

@@sarahs775 aromantic means that you don’t feel romantic attraction to other people. In other words, we don’t have crushes or fall in love.

Well, do double check with them. While they may seem understanding and alright in the outside try make sure they're really okay. Sometimes, a breakup like that can break people even if they are understanding. Emotions are vast and extremely unpredictable, especially in love.

@@sarahs775 it's not rude and people on the aromantic can feel little to no attraction it pretty much depends on everyone personally

That’s good 👍🏼

:D

you cant rlly say it's always their loss because sometimes ppl just arent meant to be together. maybe they're actually a great person but just doesnt see the other as more than a friend for example, and there's nothing wrong with that. they shouldnt feel forced to date them.

Awww

@@rebeccawebb1204 yeah it makes it hard to make friends

Hey don't worry man. You look young, so you've got more than enough time. I've only started to REALLY understand myself around my 23rd mark, after looking for answers since my 13th...

For sure. Like I have a crush on Karl Jacobs and I am kind of in love with him. But it's not like that

Definitely. I thought have been in love before but hearing others describe how intense and big of a deal it is, it makes me realize iv never experienced it :(

I never had a crush on a fictional character so idk what that's like

@@Z5Z5Z5 I had a LOT. I have 3 male fictional crushes and 2 female. It's just basically crushing on people of your type but they dont exist sadly :'>

That’s awesome

Yesssss!

❤️💕

Amen 😌🙏

A Bible quote, how beautiful.

I thought the same happened to me. I thought i went from intp to an infp, but it turns out that i was always an infp who values logic but falling in love for the first time just made me the "dreamer".

I am so sorry for your loss, your love sounded beautiful

Terrible pfp

Damn dude I'm so sorry you had to go through that

I’m so sorry about the loss of your fiancé. As an INTP, I’m going through something similar. I was in love with my friend who was an INTJ. Sadly, he died three weeks ago in an accident. The grief and heartbreak one experiences when a true love dies is unimaginable. I’ll be praying for you, as I’m sure it’s still really painful. 🙏

That’s awesome

you sound like my second best friend, she never fell in love and it's kinda sad :(

omg meee

Welp thats kind of like me When my frineds asked me when i will get a gf ( since every friends of mine have a one ) I say " just u wait i will get one very soon " But deep down ik very well i am not really interested in love...

deprosd

You’ll feel that way again 💕💕💕

tru.....

I didn't get it, can you explain it?

@@anna-uo2ug bad things can happen while you are in love

@@anna-uo2ug Watch naruto u will understand properly

@@itzkakashi2531 it will take too long. Too much filler episodes but good anime👌

Hey Queens Game, thanks for noticing! But no worries - Mithrilda is one of our VOs! :)

The likes are my Angel number

Same

Ur full of it js

Omg same bestie

Have*

Lol same, i knew I wouldn’t see him again and it’s usually easy for me to stop, but I can’t stop obsessing over it because I think he knew 😰

Your not going through this alone ehe..

SAME, I- EVERYTHING YOU JUST DESCRIBED APART FROM THE CRYING PART IS HAPPENING TO ME 😭😭

Finally something I can relate to. I'm in a similar situation. I am so desperate to confess my feelings but I want to wait till we meet irl.

me and my boy best friend too! we almost meet while he came to my country surprise me but unluckily we canceled the plan while we were busy..

You broke up?

@@thecreaturescorner539 This person is saying that they don't love themselves, and never had the courage to ask out their crush. The person had fantasies about time together, but always stayed hurt in the shadows thinking that they would be rejected because they aren't good enough. Those fantasies are fun to think about but falling in love like that is painful, an eventually you do get better and stop thinking about them.

@@enigmafiresup4658 “It looks fun now, you eventually recover” is what gave me the impression of breaking up

@professor coco it may be safer to keep silent and hidden, but that safety brings a nothing but a fragile sense of security and regret for what could have been. Don’t watch opportunities fly by, better to have lived, loved and lossed then to have never loved at all. See forward, and leap. Just one act, don’t let life wave at you as passes. There is a difference between simply being alive, and living. There’s life in love. See forward, and leap. Just one act

Well, I love my dogs. People don't love someone like me. Even if they like me or obsess over me, they don't love me. I'm just something they use, so they can experience love for themselves. In a way, people use the person they "love" to fulfill and satisfy their own fantasy. You are a cardboard cutout for them. And vice versa. I don't like it when people just tell others that they should just love too. It is insensitive. If they were in your shoes, with your fears, they may not even have the courage you have. The Creature Corner or whatever their name is isn't wrong though. But they are not talking to you. They are talking to themselves. To satisfy their own emotional need as they react to you. Maybe I'm the same. And perhaps you are too. ... If you choose not to love someone or something that means that your emotions will remain isolated. You will not really learn what it means to have your emotions connect with another living thing. I've struggled with love... but my dogs have taught me more about what it means to love and be loved than any other human has. Love isn't perfect. Or great. But I would die for love. Their life is my life. Their pain is my pain. You also don't need love in only a romantic context. Finding out how to love people might teach you the way to eventually seriously considering potential romantic partners. "Leap of faith"... I've had all of those fail. I feel broken from it. But you don't need to do a leap to find love. Sometimes, all you have to do is a crawl. And, during that crawl, you can learn how to love yourself. And you can share the love that you have strengthened with others. Sorry. Was this too preachy? Maybe it was worse than the "leap of faith" speech by The Creature Corner. Love may mean accepting and supporting others for who they are. But that means you will also have to be able to accept and support yourself too in that process. ... Long, long rant. It was selfish. Indulgent. Sorry. I hope it helps.

Same! I havent seen my first love for years, this year I may have the chance to see him. I hope I do 😭😭

It's a bittersweet moment.

Finally someone I can relate to. I totally understand man! The only chance I have is summer camp… let’s wait a year 😭

@@futurefreefliers5861 almost the same story 😭

oh god that happened to me in LITERALLY 1ST GRADE

hope ur heart heals. Heartbreak is ROUGH.

Happy to hear that!

@@Psych2go 😊

Fact!

Really, helps me sleep

ASMR arrousel . Right ?

Omg congrats! Update :o?

I am being humble when I am telling you that I am the most powerful strongest coolest smartest most famous greatest funniest Y*uTub3r of all time! That's the reason I have multiple girlfriends and I show them off on my ch*nnel all the time! Bye bye dab

The shit I saw you in the comments of Colleens videos now the Balingers now here

@@AxxLAfriku yikes…

Yep

Aww

What a weird name for a girl

Change the "oo" in your name to "ea".

You legitimately had me til you said ps4 😂😂😂

Good choice

Dude I was getting quite annoyed when you said that she will accept you when you've money. But in the end, I got ya. You're right. She definitely wants your money.

Agreed

It depends. Some people make it work, others don't. And sometimes people that leave were just lessons, so you find the right person later. And some people find true unconditional love with their friends, or even family. Love exists in all aspects of life. :)

@@flamevix Yup but temporary its always the same lol

This is false, it's the good feelings that we miscategorize as love that doesn't last forever. Real authentic love does linger forever, but it's tough

@@noodle5283 big brain ok..

Congrats dude hope for positive vibes for this one

@@BigChill-oz2zg thanks for the support ^^

Hey I’m gonna ask out my crush soon any advice?

Congratulations on finding someone else who was a lot better for you! Best of luck!

@@Zckl.64 try to be yourself, but don't go overboard. Somethings are better said later on then up front, when trust is established. I fell for her when we both shared interests and wrote each other love letters. Just showing interest in what they say can make someone fall in love with you. Good luck!

Aww that's so sweet!

gaming is

ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-xb2hqzs6VGE.html A video by wong fu productuon “I love you” isn’t enough

Same here

one day you will finde the right one ;)

@Darth The Wise thanks. I hope you're right. I'm just in such a dark place right now and my friends and family are just tired of it so I'm hiding and it's making everything worse.

Wtf how did you do that

Hello timetraveler!

Hello!

@@Psych2go hi psych

@@nathansalem2979 with money bro of course

I did exactly that and i need help on how to fix her heart, any advice?

@@neoncentix it sounds cheesy and cliché, but time. it took me about a year to “get over” him and take interest in other guys. i still thought about him everyday for a while after and i still think about him occasionally now but i don’t feel pain from it anymore. i think i’m as healed as i’ll ever be, but i don’t ever want to fully forget him or what happened because of the way it affected me. it’s been five years.

@@elizabethrose644 I actually really needed to hear this, I’m going through something very similar right now. Thank you so so much, I’m glad you are doing well

It's crazy how love can appear out of nowhere and immediately have lasting affects

@@Psych2go facts

maybe you have to wait a lil more :) everythings worth it at the end when its the right person

Positive psychology sounds like such a cool course. What other topics are covered?

@@Psych2go various topics in anxiety like how the psychology of anxiety is impacted by various factors. One such factor being the integration of adrenaline (norepinephrine) into the induction of the fear response. Also topics in mental illness as anxiety can (and in it's most potent form) is social by nature. I'm the perfect example. I had my Amygdala surgically removed (the Amygdala deals with the fear response, fear thus anxiety). That was now three years ago. For a while now I've felt like I lacked the same level of concern as other people did and that itself is its own form of social anxiety. I am my own living social experiment in a way, which I think is cool, and gives me a unique perspective. I should also add: the surgery was to remove my Amygdala, and right hippocampus as I had epilepsy (overactivity if you're unfamiliar, though I know you probably are) affecting my Amygdala, and right hippocampus. Therefore, I've essentially experienced both extremes of the anxiety dichotomy.

You will eventually heal. I feel your feeligns.

Same

Yeah same

Welcome to the club buddy

Thank you!!

Awwww. You were featured as a thumbnail on one of our video Zenitsu! :)

Same 😓

@@eminem5261 It's ok Eminem

let me know how it goes im curious

Good luck

Btw guys I don’t know if I mentioned this but I’m not trying to be her boyfriend 😅 because it’s not allowed in my religion but I’m not gonna talk about it, I just wanna be friends but who knows🤔

@@604dinoboy4 you a muslim?

@@604dinoboy4 it is ok friends are cool

Are you getting over it tho?

We love you!!

@@neoncentix yes taking things day by day.

@@brandihaynes1589 same, good luck.

You got it! Just go for it

i literally got so sick those days while in a relationship with my crush Owo