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The science of falling in love - Shannon Odell 

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Travel into the brain to see what happens when you fall in love and explore how the brain responds to heartbreak.
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Love is often described as heartwarming, heart-wrenching, or even heartbreaking- and your brain is responsible for all these feelings. The journey from first spark to the last tear is guided by a symphony of neurochemicals and brain systems. Shannon Odell explores what happens in your brain when you fall in love, how it responds to a relationship, and how it reacts to a breakup.
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Комментарии : 1,7 тыс.   
@anonymousnation5235
@anonymousnation5235 Год назад
So getting over a breakup is just the brain's struggle in forgetting the old source of dopamine and finding new source of dopamine. Fascinating.
@BLET_55artem55
@BLET_55artem55 Год назад
It's like jumping from coke to weeb
@plsss476
@plsss476 Год назад
It's the brain's transition from loving someone else to loving yourself
@user-ru4uc1gf3g
@user-ru4uc1gf3g 2 месяца назад
Sounds good 😅
@Okari_Plays
@Okari_Plays Год назад
Ted-Ed really made us emotionally invested in this man’s life. 😩😩😩 Netflix series when? 😳
@sharonmoore3966
@sharonmoore3966 Год назад
I was over here hurt😢! Then happy and now feeling like how do we move on from here, geesh, I need chocolate now
@patrickjarvis631
@patrickjarvis631 Год назад
Pixar-level emotional rollercoaster. He even looks like me lmao
@tsukuyomirai5264
@tsukuyomirai5264 Год назад
@@patrickjarvis631 yes, I had to check it😂
@Aman-qr6wi
@Aman-qr6wi Год назад
@@patrickjarvis631 exactly, 😂
@goldengold8513
@goldengold8513 Год назад
Why those emojis tho-
@breadman2983
@breadman2983 Год назад
I hope having an understanding of how my brain functions can help me be more logical in future, and avoid toxic relationships.
@DanA-pm2hl
@DanA-pm2hl Год назад
pray to dream Bread Man.... pray to dream
@syedbasiljaved6201
@syedbasiljaved6201 Год назад
Unfortunately, it usually doesn’t. We often make the same mistakes, and also, learning about something only makes us a fractionally more logical. But maybe in a very very small way, you’ll have that clarity.
@DanA-pm2hl
@DanA-pm2hl Год назад
@@syedbasiljaved6201 All true. But now, thanks to this video, you'll know the life you have, is the one you have chosen for yourself...
@kobeleonard148
@kobeleonard148 Год назад
Well played agenda in animations lol love of two bulls and you just have to accept and admit the distorted morals 😂😂😂
@e-ben616
@e-ben616 Год назад
I have a friend (who is the most logical person I know) in a toxic relationship. It's not that he doesn't know he's being illogical. He knows but it's still a struggle to let go. I understand him because I've been in his shoes as well. It's one thing to know but at the end of the day humans are emotional beings and so Knowing and feeling are two different things.
@secretsri
@secretsri Год назад
This was an award-winning animated short on its own. TedEd, you always raise your own bar.
@ryanbrimson8238
@ryanbrimson8238 Год назад
No replies? But yes I definitely agree
@yashatwal5922
@yashatwal5922 Год назад
What's the name of the short film?
@hazardharvey
@hazardharvey Год назад
that's g*y 🤮🤬
@jackbean07
@jackbean07 8 месяцев назад
​@yashatwal5922 all. In mm no no job n . Mm JJ in j
@selenay502
@selenay502 7 месяцев назад
⁠@@yashatwal5922yea now I’m curious too
@paramgalib040
@paramgalib040 Год назад
Not a single ted-ed video is lesser than the other. They keep improving and teaching something new every time. ❤️
@i.shreyapandey
@i.shreyapandey Год назад
777 likes!! i don't wanna ruin it😩 but you’re definitely right!!❤
@cryodawn
@cryodawn 8 месяцев назад
But if they kept improving, wouldn't the old one be lesser than the new one? 😜
@meaning1780
@meaning1780 Год назад
as a 19 year old who just entered stage 1 for the first time, I just hatefully love this video for its honesty PS: hoping that it lasts though EDIT: Its been 3 months and while our love was on an exponential growth a few days ago the first tremors creeped into the relationship, something I was theoretically but not emotionally prepared for. I wonder what the future holds... EDIT2: its been a year together and we had a sweet little anniversary celebration. I don't think I've ever matured as much as I've matured in this year ever before in my life. Everytime, I feel I've reached the pinnacle of my love for her and boy does is just keep surging ahead faster. She's no longer a date, she's family
@Zuko-kn4ez
@Zuko-kn4ez Год назад
Good luck on your journey mate
@kishwar541
@kishwar541 Год назад
I hope so too 💗
@sharmeenkhan5911
@sharmeenkhan5911 Год назад
Just don't let the trust go between you both good luck for ur journey 🫶🏻
@novemberninth4392
@novemberninth4392 Год назад
I wish you luck!
@lordlistowell8054
@lordlistowell8054 Год назад
It won’t last. Reply when it ends.
@nabnuon
@nabnuon Год назад
I feel really terrible after my first heartbreak during adolescence, but I find it rewarding to learn all the faults I made... Still hurtful to think back about the memories, but they're all in the past. I should let them forever be the past...
@historyremembers7274
@historyremembers7274 Год назад
Well said my friend
@msnoodletv8607
@msnoodletv8607 Год назад
Learn from your faults and theirs we are humans don’t become a monster
@tranvu5655
@tranvu5655 Год назад
You are vietnamese, right :>>?
@elle7503
@elle7503 Год назад
It hurts, still does Especially when you have to ask "am i just that, that much in the end?"
@wolfthequarrelsome504
@wolfthequarrelsome504 10 месяцев назад
Why don't you, then?
@joelkirkpatrick5688
@joelkirkpatrick5688 Год назад
Love is like a rose; It's both happy and painful at the same time.
@Rowosehip
@Rowosehip Год назад
There's a Turkish saying: The one who loves a rose must also endure its thorns.
@white4346
@white4346 Год назад
@@Rowosehip wow!
@RosheenQuynh
@RosheenQuynh Год назад
Yup. There's a reason it represents romance
@alexng4
@alexng4 Год назад
every rose has a thorn
@mr_man_in_the_white_van
@mr_man_in_the_white_van Год назад
@@Rowosehip cool, but did i ask? jk im not toxic or bad or anything
@sumanrodrigues9807
@sumanrodrigues9807 Год назад
“But what is grief, if not love persevering?” -Vision Beautiful video Ted -ed! ❤️
@futuristic.handgun
@futuristic.handgun Год назад
Love that quote, thank you for sharing! 💓
@sanatanipandit1166
@sanatanipandit1166 6 месяцев назад
Meaning ?
@abubakr8824
@abubakr8824 2 месяца назад
@@sanatanipandit1166 The loss of the lover doesn't mean the loss of love
@nathanlee6654
@nathanlee6654 Год назад
Did I seriously have to find this video after going through infatuation, compassionate love, and heartbreak? This would have been really helpful back in February when we first confessed feelings for each other. But even though the heartbreak hurt so much, I would do it all over again.
@dayanamartinez1846
@dayanamartinez1846 Год назад
i would too
@carterstubel1902
@carterstubel1902 Год назад
Likewise. Always good to keep ur chin up and view every love as a learning experience (which seems like what you've done) and have fun along the way. It's heartbreaking 4 sure but as my mom always said "sometimes nothing heals but time always will."
@syedsidra3706
@syedsidra3706 Год назад
How would you have avoided it? Just asking
@bluaurax
@bluaurax 7 месяцев назад
I already confessed like two days ago to my lover and I am so happy she felt the same way. Since then, I’ve felt like a completely changed human being and my brain seems to have like altered in a way. I’m so glad that I found this video, so I know what is really going on with me.
@austins9742
@austins9742 Год назад
Imagine being a research participant for this and the doc just says "Alright, so now we're going to look at some pictures of your ex."
@remiidr3660
@remiidr3660 Год назад
I love how you guys are not only focusing on the scientific side of everything, but now also exploring the complexity of human emotions, nature, and how we navigate through life. It is important to gain knowledge about the physical world. At the same time, shining some light onto human behaviors, what make us who we are and our ways of thinking is, from my point of view, at equal significance. Really hope to see more videos like this. Keep up the good work guys. Regards.
@VOXHUNTING
@VOXHUNTING Год назад
I'm doing this because I'm confused why I feel this way I can't stop smiling and at random points I cry happy tears
@icysnow57cold64
@icysnow57cold64 7 месяцев назад
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death. I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse. Also, you are more likely to be much more closer to someone who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a romantic partner or spouse.
@ankit_s
@ankit_s Год назад
Being a 20 year old and feeling the emotional pain of heartbreak is agonizing. It's the hardest truth of life "you may love a person but the other person doesn't share the same emotion" accept it and find the one who loves you and accept you the way you are .
@shubhmishra66
@shubhmishra66 Год назад
Love with family is true... Love with opposite gender is false... It's only lust... Only this you must know, and you are set free!
@fat9457
@fat9457 Год назад
This is true i feel you i've been there
@fetusman2248
@fetusman2248 Год назад
@@happyandhappyonly yeah bro great idea lol
@franciscochiappero2164
@franciscochiappero2164 Год назад
​@@shubhmishra66 wtf
@Recoome_Kick
@Recoome_Kick Год назад
@@shubhmishra66love for family isn’t true either it’s obligation to them because they are consider blood. There is no true love imo.
@stereophonic_
@stereophonic_ Год назад
Absolutely adore the changes in animation style through the video and color palette, along with the story used to educate ^ ^ Very informational and beautifully made
@catdogmousecheese
@catdogmousecheese Год назад
What I want to know is how does this animation look 2-D and 3-D at the same time?! Doesn't that defy physics?! Are these animators gods?!
@brandonnguyen6718
@brandonnguyen6718 Год назад
@@catdogmousecheese I'm pretty sure that during the "planner moments", the people are 3D which some 2D effects over top, and the setting around them is 2D.
@abdelabdu3721
@abdelabdu3721 Год назад
WHY IS THIS SO CUTE? this love story NEEDS to become a book series or something
@cherryblossom1339
@cherryblossom1339 Год назад
heartstopper exists :)
@adannayoutube4243
@adannayoutube4243 Год назад
@@cherryblossom1339 omg i just realized all the parallels this has to heartstopper
@rayjustslay
@rayjustslay Год назад
​@@adannayoutube4243omg ikrr
@danielm.4346
@danielm.4346 Год назад
"CUTE"???
@Scorpionic_bish
@Scorpionic_bish 11 месяцев назад
Frfr
@uffu2490
@uffu2490 Год назад
Oh my god, the feeling of falling in love is wow - it’s one of the best feelings. Never give up.
@Scorpionic_bish
@Scorpionic_bish 11 месяцев назад
It is the best feeling in the world..love is everything
@rehanpoonawalla7406
@rehanpoonawalla7406 Год назад
Why was I actually invested in their story
@gggg3690
@gggg3690 Год назад
I understand the video wanted to explain the brain activity of a heartbroken person but their break up made me so sad 😭😭😭
@almaraimilk7805
@almaraimilk7805 Год назад
Noone cares noone loved u
@schokoloko2092
@schokoloko2092 Год назад
@@almaraimilk7805 aww, we still love you, sweetie! even if you rather be mad and hateful.
@gurnoor3326
@gurnoor3326 17 дней назад
EXACTLY i was rooting for them : (((
@kurtjohnpalomaria342
@kurtjohnpalomaria342 Год назад
I had a whirlwind relationship with a girl. It was as passionate as humanly possible. We shunned the rest of the world as we loved and quarreled. Family included. We broke up after 2 years. it was excruciating to be without her, but a blanket of toxic selfishness coated our once loving relationship. 5 years later. I met her on a chance encounter and it was an absolute whirlwind like before.Because of the sins of the past, It was more challenging this time around, but we managed to pull through. Our time apart made me realize that I have always loved her. Even when we were apart, i still loved her. Selfishness just got in the way. I just Hope that everyone gets the same chance as we did.
@ritamatos5871
@ritamatos5871 Год назад
How long have you been together now?
@gyeomibear
@gyeomibear Год назад
Thats good for you, man
@ooky4986
@ooky4986 Год назад
What a chance
@meapyboy12345
@meapyboy12345 Год назад
Damn good for you man
@Doogalebot12
@Doogalebot12 Год назад
Bro when update??
@amisharai8699
@amisharai8699 Год назад
The animation and story board were so cool! I loved his journal entries tho it made me sad when they broke up :'(
@someonethatexists46
@someonethatexists46 Год назад
I really love how Ted Ed used a timeline in the video. Makes it more investing.
@hendrasutika
@hendrasutika Год назад
stages of falling in love: 1. infatuation/passionate love (excessively daydreaming about someone and wanting to spend more time with them - and last for a few months) 2. attachment/ compassionate love (start to observe and know the downfalls of our partner and cope with them or against them)
@khangphan1245
@khangphan1245 Год назад
When I watched this video, I saw hope and the brighter future for anybody who belongs to my community
@emilyharkness9685
@emilyharkness9685 Год назад
I can’t thank you guys enough for this beautiful animation. It’s helping me figure myself out and how I love the people around me by explaining things in a rational way. It’s a thousand times better than someone saying, “oh, you’ll know when you’re in love”, because I don’t know if it’s that or not.
@munyee618
@munyee618 Год назад
i love this animation so much. And i love that at the end of rollercoaster ride, which represents his experience and journey of love, his partner wasn’t there anymore on the ride, instead of looking very depressed, he looks back and smile. As if he has learned and move on. Knowing he’ll be okay
@spookyplaguedoctor5714
@spookyplaguedoctor5714 Год назад
I remember when my girlfriend and I first broke up, it was especially painful because it wasn't out of an argument but rather because she was afraid her parents would disapprove of it. At least now I'm glad it happened, like developing immunity to an illness.
@zarifmoonwar6949
@zarifmoonwar6949 10 месяцев назад
Mine was also not out of an argument , We broke up happily , but afterwards it had hurt me so much
@saraluisa3261
@saraluisa3261 Год назад
Last year I went not through my first, but my worst heartbreak so far. Now this video was recommended as I am falling for someone new again. I hope that I have learned from my past experiences and that this time it won't devastate me as much, but whatever comes, I will be enjoying my infatuation for as long as it lasts.
@FM-oc7ol
@FM-oc7ol Год назад
I love how beautifully this is put, social and visual media really makes love a confusing thing where ur not sure whether what u have is love or not, in the end i feel, its the intensity of the heartbreak that tells.
@uyenhuynhlephuong5612
@uyenhuynhlephuong5612 Год назад
Omg, I love the way you build up this video's characters. The animation is so cute!
@moroccanblossom9612
@moroccanblossom9612 Год назад
I watched this video when everything just started and now I'm watching it again with tears in my eyes
@CatherineChu7994
@CatherineChu7994 Год назад
Love is something that tored up my heart into pieces 2 years ago . But I gradually accepted it as a heart-wreching is inenvitable when you had a connection with a careless man.
@Kimm134Saya
@Kimm134Saya Год назад
I realized a month ago that the reason why I couldn't establish any romantic relationship since I broke up with my first and last relationship in 2015 was because I have already fallen for a good friend back in 2014. However, due to a lot of personal reasons, I could not confess my feelings. Fast forward to 2023, after an unexpected incident, I finally realized and accepted that the reason I could not seem to find the one for me is because I have already found her, but the realization came too late. She has been in a healthy relationship for almost 4 years. I'm experiencing all 3 stages, but mainly the 1st and 3rd, at the same time. It's heartbreaking to live through regret.
@yolojb7812
@yolojb7812 7 месяцев назад
This is not enough I need a whole series with these two OCs!!
@sreevidhyasuresh3069
@sreevidhyasuresh3069 Год назад
i dont know which phase i m in but am still having the same strong feelings for him during our first weeks even now although its been 10 months together❤ it feels like the very first day
@thePapermino
@thePapermino Год назад
The animation was absolutely calming. Loved everything about the video
@sysohil6132
@sysohil6132 Год назад
There are all kinds of love in this world but never the same love twice ~ F.Scott Fitzgerald
@santonen359
@santonen359 Год назад
I CAN RELATE SO MUCH TO THIS. Almost the same story in this video. He is a soccer player and yes I supported him on those times. We usually had chat before on a daily basis sending goodnight messages
@RickrollFoot
@RickrollFoot Год назад
ted ed is stalking you
@NRDM02
@NRDM02 Год назад
@@RickrollFoot 😂
@OnMyWayToAsakura
@OnMyWayToAsakura 23 дня назад
As a straight dude, it's really hard to watch this and relate
@bolajiagbelusi8430
@bolajiagbelusi8430 14 дней назад
Me, either.
@smookyee
@smookyee 18 часов назад
Real
@ddesai2249
@ddesai2249 Год назад
I ❤️how every ted-ed video is soo different in terms of animation style and colour pallets ..it's like channel is collection of animation types..
@anotheran0n
@anotheran0n Год назад
Worthy to mention, though, that falling in love is all that chemical activity right before the attachment level of a relationship, and that the attachment level, if successfully passed, is the indication of true love (not just falling in love). This has a lot to do with how the definition of love has been getting ambiguated, specially through the western culture.
@ohbruhwhat
@ohbruhwhat Год назад
i honestly agree. the infatuation stage is really just your brain in need of that dopamine(not saying that it is 100% of the time) However, once you get into that stage and you learn about their strengths, weaknesses, and what they truly are and STILL accepting them, you truly are in love.
@auun2101
@auun2101 Год назад
What's anon mean ?
@anotheran0n
@anotheran0n Год назад
@@auun2101 anonymous :)
@ldxstormeaglex2194
@ldxstormeaglex2194 7 дней назад
I really agree with this. It's frustrating that culturally we aren't more specific about distinguishing falling in love VS true love/compassionate love. Especially for young kids who are just starting to experience these emotions, we aren't giving them a good framework to interpret how they are feeling. To them a swashbuckling romance is true love despite the fact it could be (and often is) toxic.
@gloriousgearhead5367
@gloriousgearhead5367 Год назад
The journey from first spark to last tear… damn that was deep!
@tsukuyomirai5264
@tsukuyomirai5264 Год назад
The music and the explanation makes me think that I had gone through all these experiences.
@bachvutuyetvoi3789
@bachvutuyetvoi3789 Год назад
Fantastic video. I watch when I was a bit drunk, just made my girl sad and felt really terrible, but I still can feel it. Thanks for making it. And if my girl can read this cmt, I just wanna say I just think for her, all the time. I love her so much.
@MartinKuras
@MartinKuras Год назад
Don't tell us - tell her!
@AkaneTendo
@AkaneTendo Год назад
You should tell her. Please don't build some hopes up that your girl will read this comment. Say it to her instead. She will appreciate that more than reading this comment on RU-vid.
@bachvutuyetvoi3789
@bachvutuyetvoi3789 Год назад
@@AkaneTendo yah I did tell her. Fortunately, we just misunderstood each other a little bit. We're okay now. Thanks guys for caring about me - really don't think sbd will reply to my cmt
@strawberrykun6136
@strawberrykun6136 7 месяцев назад
I was really down these couple of days and this video made me cheer up. That quote by Maya Angelou at the start is gold 💕
@futuristic.handgun
@futuristic.handgun Год назад
My last heartbreak broke me from ever wanting to fall in love again. There really isn't true moving on for me. I'm on good terms with my ex and he's still a friend, so it's not because I didn't get closure. But because I don't ever want to go through that pain again. I'd rather be dead.
@vojislavS8652
@vojislavS8652 Год назад
This is an amazing video that gives a rational explanation to irrational process of falling in or out of love that most people don't get. It's natural and it needs to happen, i love how your channel is able to explain many things in under 10 min. Nice job and keep being awsome
@kd_ss
@kd_ss Месяц назад
Almost shed a tear for when the guy was longing for his man after the breakup 😢♥️
@MohitSaini-jy9hd
@MohitSaini-jy9hd Год назад
I improve my English everyday because Ted-ed makes beautiful and animation videos and it doesn't see bore. It helps me to increase best vocabulary.
@everythingaboutbcs1060
@everythingaboutbcs1060 Месяц назад
Listen to metal
@sagarikarajbanshi5907
@sagarikarajbanshi5907 Год назад
Now, i can successfully call those things I love - You're my Dopamine. Also thanks Ted-Ed for voicing and bringing out the issue. Lots of people die because of rejection and unable to accept the situation. It may help them to reconsider it and giving life another chance, accepting life as it is.
@dev_esh01
@dev_esh01 Год назад
I want to fall in love. I'm tired of spending all my time being sad and alone, being desperate and lonely. Things are hard right now but yeah let's hope for the best. Everyone deserves the love that they give back don't they?
@timeme5460
@timeme5460 Год назад
well I think its important to make a distinction between deserving love and deserving the love you give back everyone deserves to be loved, but you shouldn't love with the expectation to receive something in return
@Cthaegon
@Cthaegon Год назад
@@timeme5460 Absolutely.
@bellezavudd
@bellezavudd Год назад
Falling in love is no guarantee that a person wont be sad and alone.
@rosecoloredbby
@rosecoloredbby Год назад
@@bellezavudd that's definitely true, but I think OP means they want that kind of companionship in which they WONT feel sad and alone. As in, specifically.
@emmaogunjimi1579
@emmaogunjimi1579 Год назад
Jesus ❤
@victoriacastillo6610
@victoriacastillo6610 Месяц назад
thank you for this, going thru a breakup ain’t easy at all 🥺😭
@Mobashsherah_
@Mobashsherah_ Год назад
Can we also appreciate how good the animation is !!!
@Sch0lar4h1re
@Sch0lar4h1re Год назад
The research is beautifully animated and expertly summarized. Also, Good Luck to anyone looking for love nearing the end of 2022 and into 2023.
@heartsbreaktwice872
@heartsbreaktwice872 Год назад
I dated a girl and obviously didn't go well. Soon after, she found a new boy, my friend, who was infinitely better than me I basically just listened to a band I liked (Keane) because most of their songs are breakup songs. Then one day, I woke up, heard a song titled 'Watch How You Go', and it made me open my eyes that at least I wish her well in her life with her new boyfriend, and I don't care anymore, I moved on. I sent the song to her, and said thank you. I don't think she understands what I meant though.
@dem3127
@dem3127 Год назад
The animations, the presentation, the transition is undeniably amazing
@salaisyabalqis3776
@salaisyabalqis3776 2 месяца назад
Last two years was my first heartbreak of my first wlw relationship. And all the stages this video showed was literally what exactly I've been through as long as I'm healed. See this, I just open my mind that yeah, not only me feel this kind of way, and trust myself that I will find another one someday.
@i.tarunxp
@i.tarunxp Год назад
5:30 undoubtedly one of the toughest post-breakup moment
@krokodyl1927
@krokodyl1927 Год назад
‘The loss of love is the most abject pain’, Frankl. 😢
@alienum77
@alienum77 Год назад
Thank you, this is just the video I needed. It's been 3 weeks since the most amazing love I've ever known came to an end because my partner wanted to break up. I don't think she doesn't love me anymore, I think adulthood is hard and past trauma is difficult to overcome. But understanding it doesn't make it painless. I think about her often, and passionately. I wish everyone in the same situation a lot of strength. I know you need it, friend.
@DJ-cc7dq
@DJ-cc7dq Год назад
This video is truly beautiful... The animation is on a level of its own for sure✨
@user-ro9pc2vv5o
@user-ro9pc2vv5o 6 месяцев назад
this will never not break my heart every time i watch it
@aashishbhongade8042
@aashishbhongade8042 Год назад
TedEd just knew their assignment and nailed it to perfection. The subject, the narration and the animation is all just 💯💯
@DimitrisTypaldos
@DimitrisTypaldos Год назад
I have so many questions about life, so TED-Ed is here for all of us, Thank you TED-Ed!
@user-xy8qk9gz7g
@user-xy8qk9gz7g 2 месяца назад
Romantic love is two persons who are willing to be together and love each other no matter what kind of hardship is ahead.❤
@tekken4granted913
@tekken4granted913 Год назад
This video sums up the recent happening in my romantic life. I am glad to know I am now crossing the part where I am still scathing but diverting my focus to my career and to my feel-good songs. Incredible video again 😊❤
@Sabrinasvids
@Sabrinasvids 10 месяцев назад
I felt that sprained ankle
@namelesscare7982
@namelesscare7982 Год назад
They called "love at first sight" in literature :) I also think that eye contact for the first time is vastly effective to falling in love with somebody :)
@_paula_860
@_paula_860 Год назад
I agree, eye contact can be so powerful. I saw a guy at work a few months ago and thought he was cute but didn’t think much else of him. It wasn’t until we made eye contact for the first time that I fell in love, and to this day every time we make eye contact I feel the same, but I’m too nervous to ask him out 😅
@megapp114
@megapp114 Год назад
Lucky are those who experienced love ❤️
@maryaby525
@maryaby525 Год назад
Love will be unexpectedly waiting for you during Your Path of life
@catdogmousecheese
@catdogmousecheese Год назад
Love, unlike matter or energy, is of an infinite supply in the universe.
@HunterHogan
@HunterHogan Год назад
A story telling masterpiece.
@Ebola-Jones
@Ebola-Jones Год назад
Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
@ihappydawnz
@ihappydawnz Год назад
the animation is so awesome!! they killed it fr
@ihappydawnz
@ihappydawnz Год назад
i also love how the colors in the guy’s bedroom is rainbow :)
@marvsgonz55055
@marvsgonz55055 2 месяца назад
For someone who's never fallen in love, I totally love this video ❤
@JanG-nx2jf
@JanG-nx2jf 10 месяцев назад
This animation style FUCKS. Like for real, I fell in love. Simply incredible
@artemisphobos3814
@artemisphobos3814 Год назад
Nooo I was so invested I forgot it's a Ted Ed video 😭 I thought their relationship will keep getting wholesome..I feel sad
@Khanhh00
@Khanhh00 Год назад
The animation in this video is top-tiered. ❤
@Kalaxian80animations
@Kalaxian80animations Год назад
I agree
@ArsiekDHOL
@ArsiekDHOL Год назад
LOVE this video TED talk !!!! wonderful explanation and love the animation! sometime I have the feeling that I daydream waaaaaaaaaaaaaay to much 😂
@CYBER_-
@CYBER_- Год назад
Hello, TED-Ed I want to make a request, can you make a video about the maladaptive daydreaming disorder? I have been very fond of it and I want to learn more about it, about its symptoms, how it is caused, and much more, it would be great if you can do it. Thanks a lot if you see this!!!
@_.Max.i.mus._
@_.Max.i.mus._ Год назад
yessss
@go0d_soup
@go0d_soup Год назад
okay ted-ed definitely left us hanging, crying for ep 2
@bluaurax
@bluaurax 7 месяцев назад
I already confessed like two days ago to my lover and I am so happy she felt the same way. Since then, I’ve felt like a completely changed human being and my brain seems to have like altered in a way. I’m so glad that I found this video, so I know what is really going on with me.
@izsrvn
@izsrvn Год назад
Quality of this narration with science mechanism is awesome, Man.
@julialondon9770
@julialondon9770 Год назад
Do one about those of us who don't feel infatuation as acutely as others!
@willie629
@willie629 Год назад
Yes, ace spectrum representation is much needed as we're basically invisible nowadays
@sugaudacity
@sugaudacity Год назад
the guy ending the rollercoaster on his own 🥲
@erikmarquez1951
@erikmarquez1951 Год назад
I was hoping they would get together again at the end 😭
@harlow743
@harlow743 4 месяца назад
it changes it from sane to insane
@debbyvergoossen7610
@debbyvergoossen7610 3 месяца назад
In the infactuation stage now.. I always HATE the fact that this ends. It just feels soooo good!!!!
@andrewarson7853
@andrewarson7853 Год назад
I love the way ted just make this video animation to be a love between to man. That makes it more special to me
@RE_24yo
@RE_24yo 2 месяца назад
Nope it makes it worse
@amarillo1525
@amarillo1525 6 дней назад
You suck​@@RE_24yo
@sibrahim3463
@sibrahim3463 Год назад
I feel like the main reason why people can only have relationships that last only a few months is that they crave that addictive feeling of being in love and when that feeling fades, they feel like they lost interest in their partner. This causes people to have problems maintaining long-term relationships because they need to feel "high off of love"
@PinkYellowGreen2023
@PinkYellowGreen2023 Год назад
To feel love and the feeling of being loved promotes healing! It's perfectly healthy!
@sushmabagla5927
@sushmabagla5927 Год назад
Smallest details and explanation are commendable. Could feel each line and it was interesting to know the science behind the scenes 😇😇
@lakshmimohan6467
@lakshmimohan6467 Год назад
The animation and narration and background music is just awesome 😍
@dutchy1904
@dutchy1904 10 месяцев назад
I’m right now in a relationship and I find it very hard to find out how all of this works but this video really helps me sometimes.
@hamtoriz1084
@hamtoriz1084 Год назад
Love the animation so much!!! it's super sweet and makes me so invested in the character's life i need a series! 😆
@Tr-kx7hb
@Tr-kx7hb Год назад
This video also shows me how addictive we are to phones. Just even a message ping can cause us to stop everything else to check that message.
@gargilohia7586
@gargilohia7586 Год назад
Ted-Ed just keeps getting better. The colours, the music, the animation... Love this
@sristibarai5916
@sristibarai5916 6 месяцев назад
Dude! While everyone is on about the content of the video, I'm like, THE FRIGGING ANIMATION!!!!!!! Another level man!
@leoaidoneus7957
@leoaidoneus7957 8 месяцев назад
Experiencing my first heartbreak rn, it’s so crazy to see what’s actually happening in my brain 😮😅
@nielsderyst
@nielsderyst Год назад
Even before I've started watching, I knew it wasn't going to be a normal straight couple shown.
@veeinanutshell
@veeinanutshell 4 месяца назад
the representative couple made me cry
@dischorddynne
@dischorddynne 2 месяца назад
I love the representation. It makes me feel so much better about life.
@heiluk2334
@heiluk2334 7 месяцев назад
beautifully illustrated and animated
@ruchaabhyankar
@ruchaabhyankar Месяц назад
"Given time and the support, most can heal and learn from even the most devastating heartbreak." 👏
@kul.vedant
@kul.vedant Месяц назад
Attraction is temporary, so it breaks, mends, breaks :)
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