7 Types of Love But Only One Lasts a Lifetime 

So, self hate also last a lifetime ? :D

This.

Yeah. Love yourself, speak yourself.

Well said friend, let’s go help the people who don’t have self love and give them some

What if I hate myself 🤠

Same

*Gotta start somewhere*

same lol

I been single for 4 months now at 56 and I’m going to say that way

yeah, same lol

Oooh I love this

I am with you on that

Yep 💞

Spiritual attraction? What does that mean?

@@AmPPuZ it's beyond the physical and more of traits and things that defines a soul

when you said 'the ultimate' i felt like some agent in val had their ult ready it's true tho, that kind of love is the greatest one amoungst them all

Ours was consumate but it still died.

Bruh thanks

Now... only if I could copy and paste

SOMEONE @ ME

Ikr

Thanks that's Amanda Silvera!

@@Psych2go are they related to Adam Silvera, I love his books, even if they’re not, she’s still an ethereal angel 🥰

true dat

@@Psych2go i love yr soothing voice😊

Been there too, things went really bad and I can never go back to what I had with these people (both shippers and the "love interest"). Not that I actually want to but you get the point 😂 Also matchmaking is a trap, a big bad one😵

*loads gun* I JUST WANNA TALK TO THEM, I SWEAR!

same. being shipped irl really sucks lol

Same thing happened to me but I was stuck in that shit for a very long time and everything went wrong. Now I really want to fall in love but that seems impossible. Shipping real people is the worst thing ....

Love should happen naturally .. being aware is important ..

Cool

LMAOOO

Blanket burrito is best :D

Yes! 😂😂😂

i agree

Meeeeeeee 😂

*Laughs in Introvert*

Yeah 😳

laughs in single

*Laughs in Shy*

Yes

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Yuh Yuh

😂😂😂😂😂 Same here.

lmao this got me laughing-

Which one lasts a lifetime?

@@jessicaa92215 --- Consumic Love.

I prefer companionic love.

@@jessicaa92215 A parent's love

@@1leadvocal i can from experience that is not true

Same, though I'm just ace and not aro but friendship is definitely better than being in a romantic relationship with someone

I’m with you there. I’m demi and up until I fell in love with my best friend (now my fiancée) I didn’t think I was capable of romantic and/or sexual attraction. I do find the very mono-amorous bias a bit annoying, because it assumes that people should just be happy in a single relationship when in reality some people need multiple relationships to satisfy their needs otherwise they just fall into that “empty love”. “Consummate love” isn’t the ultimate kind of love - every type of love is valid and there shouldn’t be this great shame about you being content in your current relationship but wanting to develop romantic/sexual relationships with other people. I’ve found a partner who I’m very passionate, intimate and committed to, but we don’t hold ourselves to the highly rigid standard that we should never think about also being with anyone else. The presentation of consummate love is stated to be obtainable, but honestly it isn’t for everyone and other types of love shouldn’t be invalidated just because they don’t fit society’s rigidly monogamous standards.

I’m with you there. I’m demi and up until I fell in love with my best friend (now my fiancée) I didn’t think I was capable of romantic and/or sexual attraction. I do find the very mono-amorous bias a bit annoying, because it assumes that people should just be happy in a single relationship when in reality some people need multiple relationships to satisfy their needs otherwise they just fall into that “empty love”. “Consummate love” isn’t the ultimate kind of love - every type of love is valid and there shouldn’t be this great shame about you being content in your current relationship but wanting to develop romantic/sexual relationships with other people. I’ve found a partner who I’m very passionate, intimate and committed to, but we don’t hold ourselves to the highly rigid standard that we should never think about also being with anyone else. The presentation of consummate love is stated to be obtainable, but honestly it isn’t for everyone and other types of love shouldn’t be invalidated just because they don’t fit society’s rigidly monogamous standards.

Y e s I'm demiromantic and it's r e a l l y hard for me to fall in love with someone, I can have a really good time with friends without wanting to expand it into a relationship, but because I'm demiro, my relationships will always be like an expansion of my friendship with them, I would not say like "the next step" because that makes it sound like the friendship was inferior, it's the same but with more things, like more physical contact and all the stuff you do with your partner lmao

Yes

😁

Alternate type: Fortnite hate will always last forever

XD

Thank you for being smart ortho I hate minecraft sometimes

My grandparents, too. Married 77 years. He just passed away at 101. I think she cannot fully comprehend the world without him anymore but we still feel his love. It is my dream too. I have someone in mind :')

Personally I found my love when I was 8 and 13 years later we’re still together I feel like I got lucky in my search for love

@Will Francesco F my grandparents were the same way they both lived with eachother for there whole live since high school and they were always together happy

@@Spiteeee_ I wonder what I am missing.. or what they were missing.. either way, their happiness and legacy lives on and it seems a good role model for my life

@@willfrancescofini there legacy’s good to model off of but remember to create your own in the process your love won’t always be what you pictured but if it the right person it doesn’t have to be perfect

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Thank you!!! Is this your favorite one so far?

@@Psych2go I LOVE every animation style you guys do🥰💕❤️ But something about this style brings out my happy emotions idk why🤔🤨☺️😊 but ahhhhhh, finally I have been noticed, because almost every video with this animation style, I comment about how I love it hahahahha 😅😂 HAPPY NEW YEAR🤩🥳💕😍🥰😘❤️

@@Psych2go It is mine!!! I really hope you guys stay with this one!!

Your animations are always lovely though this one is just so adorable

I don’t know how to love myself, or even what it means...

@@imhung8472 it means taking care of yourself mentally, physically, spiritually and emotionally, understanding who you are and the things you like, enjoy and have passion for and then using such to find what your purpose in this life is.

😭 I'm so sorry, but I'm happy that both of you had the best of times together

This made me tear up.

Sad :(

Kinda overreaction

Love between a parent and child should be in there (without the sex)

@@recoveringsoul755 its fatous love or empty love(unconditional love). I don't know why people always say love has to have sex... did people really think that love only applies to Intercourse. if people don't understand this applies to friends too ((Intimacy= likes spending doing things with them) (commitment= dedicating time to them or for them) Intimacy+commitment= friends)), this whole thing can be applied to any Relationship *face palm*. Relationship: 1: the state of being related or connected 3 : the state of interaction between two or more people, groups, or countries I got rid of 2 because it was Redundant 2 : connection by common ancestry or marriage

@@apackman1822 this video makes it seem like they are talking about "lets grow old together" kind of love

Ok

yeah same :/

I hate platonic love, it's the same with Friendzone

Ikr

@@LimeLivesMatter bro platonic is pretty much just extra intimate friendship. Ya hate friendship?

Yeah! I believe Platonic love is much more linked to unconditional love. I want to experience this kind of love from friends. But it seems the people around me are not that the people I seem to have this kind of love with. They are good but sometimes I can't feel that we have the same values so I cannot connect with them deeply on a soul to soul basis. 😢 My twin, soulmate, not necessarily a lover, I hope to find you someday.

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♥️

Encompasses all of the above throughout time.

Honesty (truth) can create a wonderful bond .. some who are romantic and tender are doing that to control the other later .. in other words they have an ulterior motive .. the hard part os working that out .. who is genuine? ..see my vid

Soulmate goals ♥

♥️

Lets call him noodels

He's sometimes referred to as Psi.

Noodles is always a good choice

His name is Psi!

true dat

I agree with that full heart :)

Yes (◡ ω ◡)

Yep

Love is the purest feeling that stems from the soul 💜 learn to love yourself, your soulmate will come.

Fantasy

Palikawii I hope you don't take what I'm about to say as something as negative but I would like to add my two cents if you would be so kind to listen. While I appreciate what you have tried to do here, like so many other comments where I have seen the same. I do not believe it to be highly effective in the long term. I am not going to say you are wrong for trying to be kind and loving to strangers on the internet but, I certainly don't feel loved by a comment that anyone can read. I have a message for those who think the same as me. This message is more something I tell others; but in fact is something I need to keep telling myself. Try to find validation in yourself in whatever way you can. You might think you hate yourself, but if that's the case; you can certainly make a list on the things you hate about yourself that you want to improve/change. Be realistic, you can't change everything so easily. What you can improve? Make a list and work on them overtime. I will be honest and tell you that I jump back into the loop sometimes and I have been riddled with guilt and regret in the past. Don't get your all of validation from RU-vid comments guys, support each other of course and try to give each other something to aspire to. Find in yourself what you want to find in others, and others shall follow.

@@joshy2joshy Wow. Just wow.

@@joshy2joshy yes, i understand what you mean and I’m sorry i didn’t think of this sooner, I hope you have a good day 😊

@@joshy2joshy you are totally right- about sharing with us how valuing our situation and making change within us and around us to improve ourselves as the best way to make things better 😗👌. I still like the encouraging messages from random people though! They remind me I have value even for a stranger. It's a unique feeling I get, however stupid it may sound. So I'm thankful for both of your comments 😊

@@Palikawii You too! I hope I didn't come across too negative there. Thank you for reading!

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WNAHAHAH

SAME

My waifu is imaginary; we are in a long term relationship, we have no problem with that. We just use whatever is available to us, which happens to be my brain's ability to emulate her.

@@redemptivememelord6283 depressing but i understand, man

I just want a friend that's better than family for me, (my family relationship isn't really deep) Just a partner in crime, where it feels like we are on the same wavelength and we actually understand another. And don't got to pull teeth just to text, or hangout. The ones who know everything but keep it just between us two. But that is rare as hell. At least with romantic relationships you got that first month where everything is nice and happy. Most friendships feel like a missed target where you just motivate yourself to react with them.

I definetly think that friendships are too overlooked in today's age

@@lullabysorrow5746 I have found a person like this in my life. We're more platonic than romantic but we have a lot of intimacy

Thank you

❤

nah

ok first u say stop scrolling then u make us scroll to read ur message gurl ur so indecisive 😤 this kind of behaviour is unacceptable!

"Being special isn't always good." That quote affects me, and that's getting me nowhere, so if that quote is in your mind, remind yourself that being special is *often* good.

And a little schlatt and fundy at 3:47 Dream smp GOOO!😂

Thank you so much! Glad you found it interesting! Did you relate to any of these types mentioned?

OH MY GOD I DO

THIS IS SUCH A POV

Yes, but It should never feel forced , if it’s real 😊

Nope it's 12:22 pm in my timezone

don't say you are Arabian

I'm not

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Mine is chocolate ... chocolate is faithful 😳

Love is the purest feeling that stems from the soul 💜 learn to love yourself, your soulmate will come.

Lol

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Nah, sometimes things just fade. Just depends, could of been situational love (or friends) . Or just you two don't have enough in common anymore. Or one of you just changed or both. At one point you're just forcing it because either you don't want to be alone or because they didn't do anything wrong so just leaving them would just feel weird.

Love is the purest feeling that stems from the soul 💜 learn to love yourself, your soulmate will come.

Self love is the most beautiful thing I discovered. You can love yourself with no boundaries and as much as humanly possible without it being toxic.

Got this video after playing SPM, Perfection :') Since the game a big theme around love.

I’m sure you’ll find somebody! Unless you’re aro, in which case i hope you find someone/people you love platonically!

@@biggaylol5438 same goes for you mate. ♥️

@@biggaylol5438 what means aro lol

@@haajto aromantic, like asexual but for romance (I think)

Unfortunately, same man.Cheers

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TRU

(Y) Same

Same but I've a crush (╥﹏╥)

T^T .. i don’t understand this

lol same (i like ur killua pfp :D)

Do you wanna talk about it man?

PLEASE TELL USSS

*Paul Rudd* "What the hell happened here?"

Sorry that happened😔

I liked another girl, she kinda helped me with that, but the other girl rejected me. Then after a while, I realized that she was really keen on helping me like, she really like tried to like tell me that "she ain't worth it". Then after a while, I confessed to her, she said that ,she really appreciate it, but she just didn't want to be in a relationship. We are still really close friend, but it gets at awkward sometimes

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Your probably thinking of platonic love vs romantic love

Ikr, people can understand that there is sex without love, but can't understand that there is love without sex, everyone expects and pressures couples to be sexual. Or people think that because they have sexual chemistry, it's love

Shame it did not work out for you

@@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265 we are talking about things we both did wrong and what we could do to fix things if we try to get back together. Maybe our story isn't over yet....

@@wysteriaherr8306 wow .. that is encouraging .. i wish you both well .. and even if you are not back together .. you will have a great friendship

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I've been searching for a heart Searching everyone. They say Love conquers all You can't start it like a car You can't stop it with a gun. (Warren Zevon)

Yes!

Yea, definitely

Unfortunately

Update?

@@tren6893 she texted me back a month later and we hit it off. Started just sending memes but in a short period of time she would end up calling me 3-4 times a day. Spending hours on the phone daily just confirmed it all in my mind. It made me all realize that I don’t have chemistry like that with anybody else I’ve ever met and I never wanted it to end. At the end of the day though we lived 6 hours away from each other and she was still living with her boyfriend. I could deal with it all because it meant that I still got to talk to her. She started sending me racy photos over snapchat and complaining about her boyfriend to me after 9 months of talking every day. I finally said we had to establish boundaries. That led to a 4 hour conversation about all the reasons it can’t work and that she felt betrayed that I loved her and kept up a facade of friendship. She said she was happy with where she was but then would justify all the shady stuff she was sending me (which I would ignore and never bring up that it made me uncomfortable) and her boyfriend being shitty to her. I told her that she was using me as a crutch to hold up her own relationship because their is no reason for her to be talking to an ex for 3 hours a day on average. She went from maybe we can talk once a day to once a week to once a month and I told her I don’t have any friends where I have to put limits on how much I can talk to them. We decided to not talk anymore. She snapped me the next week and I got upset. She got upset at me. We haven’t spoken in 6 months now. I think about her every day. I’ve dated someone since I stopped talking to her and it didn’t work. She said that her boyfriend proposed and she said no but they stayed together. That was extremely telling to me. Idk what happens now.

Your being real with that ..

Will u share updates about this?

@@anushkavm3335 yeah

@@nicopapaya Ohk.. I'll be waiting for updates then..

Love is the purest feeling that stems from the soul 💜 learn to love yourself, your soulmate will come.

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The other person can like different things .. love lifts the other up ..

@@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265 İ mean like, a friend would be nice but love?? İ really don't want to waste my time on that

Love is the purest feeling that stems from the soul 💜 learn to love yourself, your soulmate will come.

Don't forget, passion is more than just physical intimacy and sex. Passion is also the excitement you get around the person- sex is just the most common way of explaining it. But blushing in excitement, giving little gifts, and going out to do things together can keep the passionate area of love alive and healthy.

A problem area

Same! That's exactly how I felt!

Everyone forgetting that not everyone wants to have sex with their partners smh Or that we ace people don't experience sexual attraction, we can have a libido, but that doesn't mean we look at someone and want to fuck or be fucked by them 😭 Relationships without sex are as valid as relationships with sex

Lol

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Don’t worry you will.😃

Oh grow up brat

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Because you still respect and value them as a person, and even though it's not as intense as when it first started, you enjoy life with them anyways and you want to keep on living each day with them. Helping another both grow into even stronger versions of themselves, and life without them would defiantly be a more dull experience. Pretty much just think of this, that classic disney couple's love story where it's all nice and magical and then once that's over they just live happily ever after. I think the only one you really get to see that with is the Cinderella movies, the first one where she falls for the prince, and the 3rd one "A twist in time" where you can see how they live together, which is just a normal happy pair.