8 Signs You're Falling For Your Best Friend

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Who is your BESTO-FRIENDO? Do you have a close friend? Someone you have confided in for months or years, someone in your life who you can truly trust? Perhaps you two have had a good run as friends, but what if you are starting to develop feelings for them? After all, being close friends can be the perfect foundation for a potential relationship in certain situations. Let’s take a look at a few tell-tale signs of whether your affection for this special person is actually… attraction.
Want to know if they like you back? Here is a video on the signs your best friend has a crush on you: • 7 Signs Your Best Frie...
Writer: Aditi Nambiar
Script Editor: Vanessa Tao
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Chantal Van Rensburg
RU-vid Manager: Cindy Cheong
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@Psych2go 2 года назад

Type out your BESTO-FRIENDS first and last name initial. Lets see if others have the same!

@raoufbensalem3417 2 года назад

Hi !

@AlerionRosa 2 года назад

K H

@mocho656 2 года назад

@jav_quit 2 года назад

hello

@vivizugc 2 года назад

I. Y.

@EDMS 2 года назад

First sign is: watching this video.

@alienfrograbbitchannelmove4229 2 года назад

Yep! WAIT OH NO-

@unt1tledjpeg 2 года назад

Whelp..... I think youre correct

@betches1671 2 года назад

LMFAO

@Zextranet 2 года назад

Accuracy 100

@vinc2116 2 года назад

SHHHH BE QUIET

@_aneggonacreek4925 2 года назад

Can we pretend that airplanes in the night sky are like shooting stars?

@lesbianinhaler 2 года назад

I apperciate the thumbnail-

@sondosnapil4160 2 года назад

I could really use a wish right now wish right now

@selsabotage 2 года назад

I could really use a wish rn wish rn wish rnnnn

@Kk-lt1hs 2 года назад

I could really use a wish right now, wish right now, wish right now~

@hi-ex2ns 2 года назад

i unironically like that song-

@k1ttyd03sstxff 2 года назад

"8 Signs You´re Falling For Your Best Friend" Every Fanfiction: well these are my basics

@krystalnotfound.3922 2 года назад

BAHAHAH

@lachimolalaandbonobonyaare5094 2 года назад

PURE TRUTH 😂😂

@samuraiboi2735 2 года назад

I really felt it

@sapphstial2859 2 года назад

Me, who came here so I could write fanfiction: 👁👄👁

@k1ttyd03sstxff 2 года назад

@@sapphstial2859 Okay, nice :D

@PxrpleShadow 2 года назад

1. You spend the majority of your time with them 2. You think about them often 3. You care about them deeply 4. You are comfortable being vulnerable around them 5. You care more about your appearance when you’re with them 6. You feel possessive over them 7. You dream about them 8. You’re very involved in their life :)

@sillygoobersupersilly 2 года назад

well- seems like i like my bff

@violetskiy854 2 года назад

These are also traits for a positive platonic relationship

@Potatoslice 2 года назад

@@violetskiy854 i love my homies more than anything in the world

@334...4 2 года назад

Oh, oh no

@sarints3147 2 года назад

Uh oh. This is bad. I think I have all these symptoms.

@jennyneon 2 года назад

Having a trustworthy best friend is one of the best things to have in life.

@idreamindarknessandsleepto1475 2 года назад

10. reasons why life is not worth living. 1. Being social now requires a keyboard. 2. Games require you to make choices rather then shoot things. 3. You're choices are dwindling. 4. The opposite sex will never understand you. 5. No one will ever understand you. 6. You are more deformed then you think you are. 7. Originality is a lie. 8. Following you're dreams will be a fruitless endeavor. 9. There is no reason to lough. 10. The idea of a true friend dose not exist any more you are alone.

@keiron.4612 2 года назад

Where do you find 1 of them most friends I have never stick around

@CleanSockQ 2 года назад

So true

@keeyust2457 2 года назад

Love your pfp

@nunujr5081 2 года назад

@@idreamindarknessandsleepto1475 edgy

@sapphia4612 2 года назад

I wanna ruin our friendship we should be lovers instead~ that song is perfect for this

@lmMentallyIll 2 года назад

Jenny darling, your my best friend

@neznamkakvoimedastavim2489 2 года назад

@@lmMentallyIll but there's a few things that you don't know of

@keiron.4612 2 года назад

Ok but we've only just met🤭

@natiangel 2 года назад

@@neznamkakvoimedastavim2489 why i borrow your lipstick so often...

@potatofairy4512 2 года назад

@@natiangel I'm using your shirt as a pillow case....

@DRMaui 2 года назад

The strict strict problem with falling in love with your best friend is that you're so deep in the "friendzone" that it kind of feels hopeless

@funfourstudios 2 года назад

I know

@334...4 2 года назад

Tru, especially if they're taken ;-;

@Jojo-qg8xg 2 года назад

Unfortunately Yes😒

@HoV326 2 года назад

And in some cases, you'll basically sabotage yourself by purposely keeping yourself in the friend zone.

@totall3371 2 года назад

And also their your best friend

@puregaminghindi2190 2 года назад

Sad thing is when we fall in love with our friend but our friend doesn't feels the same way we feel.

@nirktheman-thingstab-cutter 2 года назад

Yep. That experience just destroyed me years ago. I can't really move on because I haven't found anyone as good as them but I can never be with my friend either. It's a really terrible position to be in. I hope you find someone out there that you can be close to who does care about you on a romantic level. :)

@puregaminghindi2190 2 года назад

@@nirktheman-thingstab-cutter thanks buddy, and I wish you also get someone who loves you the way you love the person, we have to move on afterall because people come and leave but life goes on 😊

@659dude 2 года назад

I'm paying with my life for this right now. It's too much.

@chuhuchu_blup7057 2 года назад

yes that’s so heartbreaking T^T

@longluuhoang8394 2 года назад

Same, I wish I wasn't in love with them. I have been rejected for over 5 times, each time I tell myself we just friend and I should stop loving them. And for now all my hope for this relationship to work out are gone and I want to stop loving them, be normal again around them.

@sam-ft5ks 2 года назад

this voice is so relaxing!

@thesaddestdude3575 2 года назад

I don't remember that episode of power puff

@Psych2go 2 года назад

Thank you! Amanda's voice is amazing 💕 - Cindy

@SpuddMacgyver 2 года назад

Seriously I would pay for bedtime stories narrated by her to help me sleep better at night.

@dxxgx6713 2 года назад

@@Psych2go How many admins are there?

@jesse6751 2 года назад

true

@typo-_ 2 года назад

The thing is: When you think you are but you aren’t but is still unsure if you are *then wanted to ask someone but then thinks it would be better off not telling someone-*

@funnyvideoguy3216 2 года назад

I had a stroke trying to read this

@Solesolecito 2 года назад

literally me rn😟

@typo-_ 2 года назад

@@funnyvideoguy3216 that’s the point

@Thesevibes 2 года назад

I can relate 😢

@funnyvideoguy3216 2 года назад

@@typo-_ oh wait...

@sevencolourdreams 2 года назад

Fun fact: if you have a huge crush on your friend, everyone in your friend circle will already know about it. Except for the person you like 😂

@totall3371 2 года назад

Damn imagine having a friend circle

2 года назад

My friend circle is him, haha

@sevencolourdreams 2 года назад

I also don't have a friend circle. They are my classmates that's all 😂

@blissfulvoid3824 2 года назад

@That_1_Star XD

@RennoGarvan 2 года назад

Always!!!

@alexanderespinosa3875 2 года назад

“Proximity is a significant factor in the development of relationships”- they said in the middle of a pandemic

@achel91 2 года назад

That's how my best friend became my love... we are together for 8 years now, and we are still best friends, and much more. I'm so lucky :)

2 года назад

Yes you are! That is so so so valuable.

@chetan1329 2 года назад

sheeesh

@Ash_the_crybaby 2 года назад

Aw that so cute im happy for you

@Psych2go 2 года назад

That's so sweet and wonderful! Congratulations on having a best friend and love all in one!

@wolf_is_awake Год назад

You are so lucky man

@ComicalRealm 2 года назад

"Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his wife" - Simba

@gregpilledd 2 года назад

Signs you're falling for your best friend: 1. You pretend that airplanes in the night sky are like shooting stars 2. You could really use a wish right now, wish right know, wish right now

@gomugomunoairhead8836 2 года назад

💜💙

@gomugomunoairhead8836 2 года назад

PLSSS

@Kittybellgamerr 2 года назад

8 signs you're falling in love with your best friend timestamp list 1. You spend the majority of your time with them 0:33 2. You think about them often 1:20 3. You care about them deeply 1:55 4. You are comfortable being vulnerable around them 2:30 5. You care more about your appearance when you're with them 3:22 6. You feel possessive over them 3:51 7. You dream about them 4:22 8. You are very involved in their life 5:04 - end of the video 5:42 I know there are usually many timestamp list comments, but i still hope this helps !! 💕 have a happy day !!

@rebeccawebb1204 2 года назад

???

@leviosaaa9005 2 года назад

Thx

@vixy2321 2 года назад

Me, who checks out all these: *Well fu-^

@taabishkhanself-improvemen7331 2 года назад

“Attachment leads to jealousy. The shadow of greed that is. Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose.” Love from a small channel💙

@HoV326 2 года назад

Honestly, when it comes to my appearance, I care about how I look just around everyone I know, be it close friend or family member, mainly out of courtesy and respect. The only people I don't care how I look around is my parents, but that mainly has to do with the fact I live around them all the time, so we don't really care.

@OneBoredCatbug 2 года назад

I don't know anyone who isn't like that, but then again I only know myself.

@Je11keng 2 года назад

Me too

@PlxsteredH34rt 5 месяцев назад

Me and my friend don’t even try to look decent at school LOL

@_astrxnxmy 2 года назад

I will say this for people reading, I had a crush on my best friend who was taken at the time so I had decided to not tell her, but then she told me she liked me too and broke up with her partner. She’s now my girlfriend and I couldn’t be happier so don’t give up :D (but do give up if they tell you they feel uncomfortable or don’t like you like that)

@334...4 2 года назад

Congrats bro, I wish ya'll happiness 💕✨

@Midnight_Ruby 2 года назад

Thank u for the motivation though she’ll prolly never like me back 🙏💯

@thethreegoodestboys4869 2 года назад

but at least you tried its one thing to look back and say i wish it would have worked but another to look back and say i wish i would've tried

@littlebaddie5491 2 года назад

@Sadist uhhhhhh.....

@IDKwhoIamEither 2 года назад

CAN WE PRETEND THAT AIRPLANES IN THE NIGHT SKY ARE LIKE SHOOTING STARS? 🐴💜🐦

@cloudinights6718 2 года назад

CUS I COULD REALLY USE A WISH RIGHT NOW WISH RIGHT NOW WISH RIGHT NOW 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

@mana....8143 2 года назад

WHAHAHAHAH

@voengi 2 года назад

ENOUGH HHRSVUEC😭

@Obs_cure 2 года назад

STOP

@TheActualRealDrPepper 2 года назад

I know for a fact that I don't have a best friend (therefore it is literally impossible for me to actually fall in love with one) but I'm still gonna watch a video about it and fantasise about being in love.

@cyberdemon6517 2 года назад

same fellow slayer i want a girfriend but i gotta rip and tear

@reetojakhan4777 2 года назад

Ha ha, same here...

@theguywhobashedhishead3times 2 года назад

Loner gang

@anonymousleapyear5616 2 года назад

#relatable

@snsjjshwhwuwus 2 года назад

bruh same

@daisy-we5ox 2 года назад

there's nothing better than falling for your bestfriend. even if it isn't mutual, the love you have for them will make you feel alive in ways you never imagined, and will surely overpower all the hurt that comes with it.

@hithere8789 2 года назад

RU-vid: "you're inlove with your bestfriend" Me: I know. I know okay, and I know that there's no chance. You don't have to shove it in my face

@FerasM10 2 года назад

I'm going through this too. May I ask how are you dealing with it ? Whatever I do, can't see her as just a friend and it's near to impossible that she sees me more than a friend.

@hithere8789 2 года назад

@@FerasM10 okay, he's been my bestfriend since 2018 and eversince covid hit I realized that I like him. At first I thought that I just miss. But when I saw gim again I realized that I wanted more. But I can't. We're only friends. So, how do I deal with it? I just ignore my feelings. Hoping it'll go away.

@valis3363 2 года назад

I dunno if I am the right person to reply to you but, just think about one thing if you feel the urge to make a move... would you wanna ruin your friendship just for the sake of a new tag to your relationship?

@emmy_dreams83 2 года назад

Ikr-😭

@Urmom-fu9xo 2 года назад

@@hithere8789 yeah ignore it because of that we’re not best friends anymore. Unless they like you back

@lesbianinhaler 2 года назад

Can we apperciate how the thumbnail is like: Can we pretend that the airplanes in the sky are shooting stars? 𝚎𝚍𝚒𝚝: I never knew my comment is gonna get popular from a meme- another edit: I realized i got more likes than Psych-

@-rainer 2 года назад

I WAS GONNA SAY THAT LMAO-

@iwontcommentmuchanymore 2 года назад

I'm not the olny one thinking about that.

@marianamoreno3179 2 года назад

Saw the thumbnail and my brain was already singing

@lunarazie. 2 года назад

lmao same

@JackCry.420 2 года назад

i could really use a wish right now wish right now wish right now

@rikudousennin3190 2 года назад

"You cant fall for your best friend if you dont have a friend"

@TheActualRealDrPepper 2 года назад

c o r r e c t

@mckinleymorvan114 2 года назад

🥲

@avery6536 2 года назад

There this is

@orchdork2248 2 года назад

very true

@orchdork2248 2 года назад

sadly i can relate

@Briarfang_64 2 года назад

Adrien Agreste watching this: Or She's probably just a really good friend

@Zara-bookallil 2 года назад

LMAO STOP :') HES SO BLIND BESTIE

@Briarfang_64 2 года назад

@@Zara-bookallil but am I wrong

@RennoGarvan 2 года назад

Omfg yes 😂

@allylambert8470 2 года назад

Oh painfully true😂

@mhw4955 2 года назад

Or maybe *gasp* a best friend

@byzanti-knithi8464 2 года назад

What a coincidence, my best friend just became my gf 2 days ago, GUYS THERE IS HOPE FOR EVERYONE

@betches1671 2 года назад

DID SHE SAY UR LIKE A BROTHER TO HER BEFORE YALL DATED THO 😭😭

@Je11keng 2 года назад

I'm not too sure about that honestly 😕

@theturnipification 2 года назад

Just admitted my feelings and was told it wasn't mutual. ):

@lisawellmann313 2 года назад

Im proud of you that you tried,but if they said no it probably wasnt meant to be and the right person is still waiting for you❤😊

@NoInsurance 2 года назад

sorry to know that. It happened to me last week too... well, I asked her to not get posted about her romantic stuff unless she needs help. She respected it and we're actually getting closer. However, I've promissed to myself to not stopping looking around and don't forget about things that matter to me.

@cesartorres6951 2 года назад

Same i told her how I feel about her and that her kids like me and want me to be their dad but she told me no that we can be best friends and that I shouldn’t fall in love with her but how can I not cause the way she is her personality the way she talks and treats me and always invites to her place and to take her places

@Psych2go 2 года назад

Hey that's okay. At least you told them. Some people don't and they wonder what would happen if they did. Now you're free to look elsewhere for someone who will return your feelings.

@toganium4175 2 года назад

I never thought that Psych2Go would make a video with a MordeTwi meme in it, but here we are.

@Psych2go 2 года назад

Many more surprises coming your way :)

@gomugomunoairhead8836 2 года назад

Imagine them making a video with the title "8 signs a psychopath is falling for you" and putting hisoka and gon in the thumbnail 💀💀💀

@justelvlog 2 года назад

pls I needed this, I think I'm actually having feelings for her 🗿 And I need to stop it so I don't ruin anything

@avpaavcomics1299 2 года назад

The voice of the narrator is so good. Its relaxing.

@kqzu 2 года назад

Me, who’s aromantic and only is in strict platonic relationships: Time to get friends!

@kqzu 2 года назад

@@samdash9112 hi 👽✋

@sluttyMapleSyrup 2 года назад

Me, who's been dating my best friend for nearly a decade: Let's see how many of these are applicable...

@wabbitseason8187 2 года назад

"Dreams reflect your real-life experience" My dreams: Ironman saved me from a giant meteor about to annihilate the earth.

@mistedpawtheblogclanner9653 2 года назад

Yes just, yes

@Tegres1 2 года назад

My dreams: My younger brother tries to use a cellphone charging cord to garot an evil CIA agent keeping us prisoner in his yard. Me: "No real experience, please."

@sirhozg6134 2 года назад

@@isiajahhhahahababblvjylvjy1034 how do you know that?

@MufflesTheGerbil 2 года назад

After watching this video and realizing that this is matching exactly towards everything you and your homie do together. 😎 We'll be gay for each other.

@ace_of_blades5046 2 года назад

Yea

@mort13 2 года назад

ur first! congrats

@Vigdis93772 2 года назад

I fell for my bestie but I never had time to confess bc... She confessed to me first!!i was litreally shocked and ye if u dont support lgbt i dont support u.

@burfeeburf 2 года назад

Congratulations 🎉 happy for you!

@Vigdis93772 2 года назад

@@burfeeburf tysm! 😁😃😀

@kirbyhasappeared 2 года назад

@@user-hu5bf2ib1v its fine if you dont support lgbtq but if you go out of your way to harass people who are then thats just being an arse, thats my opinion though

@kirbyhasappeared 2 года назад

@@user-hu5bf2ib1v i wasnt saying you were harassing people by the way, just what i think

@Ash_the_crybaby 2 года назад

Im happy for you im bi and have a crush on my best friend but i think she's straight...

@jahnavirai9443 2 года назад

I just love how their animation is getting amazing with every video 😍

@Psych2go 2 года назад

Thank you so much! Is this your favorite animation so far? :)

@fettbub92 2 года назад

My wife and I experienced many of these feelings, and still do before we got married. It can happen, we are lucky to have it happen, but it can.

@Andrew_-nr7zt 2 года назад

My best friend told me how she felt and so did I and we ended up crying for one another because of the distance that separates us. It’s been 6 months since I’ve heard from her and I honest to god miss her so much. There’s been so many nights where I stayed up and cried for her. I just hope that we can talk again because there’s still so much I need to tell her and it just hurts because I truly love and care about her. Hopefully someday we can give the ldr a chance despite the distance that separates us because she knows that I’ll go to the end of earth just to be with her and her family in Germany but I’m going to continue to fight for her because I just don’t see myself with anyone else but her and plus she’s just amazing in every imaginable way possible

@mistedpawtheblogclanner9653 2 года назад

Your hurting muy hurt man! Also, I am very sorry about that I'm sure you will talk again someday!

@Andrew_-nr7zt 2 года назад

@@mistedpawtheblogclanner9653 yeah I know but even then I’m still gonna fight for her because she truly means the world to me and I loved that she loves me for who I am, she understands me, I can talk to her about anything, we made each other happy, I love spending time with her even with the distance we’re separated by, I just like that I can be myself around her as well as she can too, and we both brought the best out of one another

@mistedpawtheblogclanner9653 2 года назад

@@Andrew_-nr7zt she is lucky to have you, and ur lucky to have her🙃 also, STOP KILLING MY HEART WITH YOUR KINDNESS AND DETERMINATION ITS TOO MUCH!!!!!

@Andrew_-nr7zt 2 года назад

@@mistedpawtheblogclanner9653 Thanks and my determination and drive to be with her is the only thing that is keeping me sane and motivated to be a step closer to her and her family

@mistedpawtheblogclanner9653 2 года назад

So beautiful😢😢😢

@artcatdraws4203 2 года назад

Congratulations, you’ve just described the 8 things I crave the most and are most deprived of

@KH-fv3vq 2 года назад

You mean a lot to me, my best friend. Eventhough you don't feel the same way.

@himanshuhero 2 года назад

Finally You Got My Request!!Love You Psych2Go!! Platonic Love is the best thing that can happen to you in life!!I told my best friend and she said she feels the same!!We are just happy together!!

@Psych2go 2 года назад

Glad your topic request came true! We do read comments :) What an amazing story! So happy for you :) - Cindy

@Pepepe318 2 года назад

I clicked so fast it makes me worry-

@yadom5189 2 года назад

I don't need signs I know I'm whipped for my best friend

@bonnieyu6622 2 года назад

The art is stunning! Your voice is so soothing!

@joblessstan 2 года назад

I have to agree Having atleast just one Friend who u can trust ur life on is truly a blessing I know this because my best friend was my first ever friend in my whole life we've been together for the past 11 years and only have 21 days apart in birth I love my best friend and will always try to keep her with me and make the friendship last till death♥️

@Lucid_PZPL 2 года назад

The thumbnail…. If you get it, you get it

@Psych2go 2 года назад

100%

@oriode2783 2 года назад

I don't even have a best friend and yet I can relate ☺️

@nomaybe9945 2 года назад

Already know I’m deeply in love with my best friend. I love her ❤️ she feels the same but we know it wouldn’t work out so we are just best friends and both of us are okay with that thankfully. It’s hard to explain but I truly love her❤️ love you Estelle.

@skeletor_118 2 года назад

I'm actually very glad this video was posted. I recently have had a bit of a hard time figuring out my feelings due to many factors, and I've been trying to figure out if I am interested in a friend. Now, I can pretty safely say that I'm not into them, as I relate to basically no points in this video in regards to them. I was able to figure this out without risking ruining anything between us

@science_girl7435 2 года назад

Honestly though, if you’re watching this video, it means you’re falling for them.

@Checkersss 2 года назад

It’s not worth losing a good friend. They’re lifelong. Most romantic relationships aren’t. i don’t want to lose him as a lifelong friend 😭

@gengarvenom1180 10 месяцев назад

Most friendships aren't lifelong, either. Shoot your shot. If your friendship ends because you did, they couldn't have been that great of a friend in the first place.

@xo_akiko2755 8 месяцев назад

Same..

@PlxsteredH34rt 5 месяцев назад

@@gengarvenom1180 true if they don’t stay with you cause of that then it shows they don’t really care that much

@lesliedaflowie1706 2 года назад

Im so depressed. My best friend but also my lover, decided to leave. They felt they are an issue, they have things wrong with them, that no one understands them. I tried begging and pleading them to stay, that I would be here for them through it all. We always did everything together, talked every day, laughed and had fun all the time. They were also a little annoying and made me upset at times but they were a package deal. I miss them so much, I hope and pray that they come back. They didn't want to leave, in fact they were unsure about if they should leave and if it's even the right choice. My heart hurts so bad. I cant take this anymore. I hate living if they aren't in my life. They mean the world to me.

@Midnight_Ruby 2 года назад

What do u mean by annoying tho? I can understand but if u see them in that light then that could be why they felt like they’re an issue. Hope u ok tho

@lesliedaflowie1706 2 года назад

@@Midnight_Ruby its just the random times we would have on disagreements, arguments, whatever. at the end of the day i always was sorry for it and apologized. they always knew i didn't mean it. they never really liked apologies though because they said it doesnt fix what happened. which is true. but its all about being sorry for what we did or said. i wish i could take back everything negative i have said to them. i dont wish them to ever think i dont like them so they should leave. i asked them before they left if it was anything i ever did wrong but they said no. they kept saying its all about them being the issue. that no one understands them, they're "insane", they said to me "what you don't know is me, and me is a very problematic person", they also said they thought themselves possibly narcissistic but they weren't fully sure if thats the right term. i miss them so much. i wish i could help be there for them through it all.... they said i was the only person who genuinely cared about them, so why cant i be there to help them? 🥺

@Midnight_Ruby 2 года назад

@@lesliedaflowie1706 I understand I’m so sorry. Also I didn’t mean to make any assumptions I was just giving any input I can to maybe try and help. I think you both should have a long conversation in person if you can, and if either one of you doesn’t have the same feeling then don’t hold it against one another. That happens, and sometimes moving on is the best option

@lesliedaflowie1706 2 года назад

@@Midnight_Ruby yeah.... i actually know where they live and im so tempted to go visit them. everyday has been pain, nothing but lying in bed crying all day, doing nothing but waiting for them to come back. i had dreamed today that they texted me back but... of course its a dream.... 😭 i find that the only thing that makes me happy is being around them. and so i want to go see them. they were the light of my life, without them its as dark as not being able to see at night. its harder and harder every day. late last night i was staring at the moon through the window crying, because i felt thats the only way we're still connected. we both see the same moon at night. i just hope they're watching too. reminds me of one of my favorite songs "talking to the moon" from bruno mars.... ugh im so fucking sad still. sorry if im giving tmi. i just dont have anyone to talk to about this. they were my best friend who i talked with every day and now i feel i have no one anymore. everyone else is just old long time friends but we aren't as close knit as we used to be but they're still trying to be there for me and help in any way they can. but this person that i love.... i swear i can talk to a thousand people but i would still choose them at the end of the day. i love everything about them, from the good to the bad. they aren't perfect but neither am i..... i love them so much 🥺

@dxxgx6713 2 года назад

I fell for my BF three years ago, she knows now, but never would see me in the same way. Still my favorite person🥰❤

@Adri-kn1mv 2 года назад

It's basically the story of my life if you replace "she" by "he"^^ Damn, the path we chose is sometimes not near from easy

@sOmEoNe-qh5cu 2 года назад

Are they trans??

@AyeeeItsAlii 2 года назад

I'm so happy for y'all!

@nutellatae 2 года назад

"8 signs you're falling for your best friend" Bestie? Oh , I don't have any

@SushiYT 2 года назад

wow you read my mind thx and keep the amazing work up :>

@amethystmilk8623 2 года назад

I love your videos!! They’re so calming and helpful, thank you so much! 💕

@Psych2go 2 года назад

Thank you! Glad you find it helpful. Did you relate to this video?

@janekim922 2 года назад

Signs your falling for your best friend 1. Majority of time spent with them 2. You think about them often 3. You care about them deeply 4. You're comfortable being vulnerable around them 5.You care more about your appearance when your with them 6. You feel possessive over them 7. You dream about them 8.You are very involved in their life

@ProtoPurity 2 года назад

Thank you for cheering me up every day, Psych2Go!

@Psych2go 2 года назад

bwhaha. Glad you noticed the thumbnail :D - Cindy

@adrien4851 2 года назад

i was just thinking about my best friend then this notification popped up. guess that's a sign in itself lmao

@luckykpopfan7930 2 года назад

Thank you for making this. It helped me❤️

@duckyducky2000 Год назад

1. 0:30 You spend the majority of your time with them 2. 1:18 You think about them often 3. 1:54 You care about them deeply 4. 2:30 You are comfortable being vulnerable around them 5. 3:20 You care more about your appearance when you’re with them 6. 3:50 You feel possessive over them 7. 4:21 You dream about them 8. 5:04 You’re very involved in their life And personal 9. You were thinking about them right from the title and throughout the video And yes I'm calling myself out, we're all doomed.

@Annesha_Sarkar 2 года назад

I actually wanna confess coz I know I'll never be able to say this in front of anyone so it's better to let all of it out in a platform where no one knows me.... I know I am attracted towards my bff but not any other girl (this makes me question my sexuality), as if we two are the most important person in each other's lives, she asks me before taking any decision in her life, anything good happens we share it with each other first, we know how the other is feeling at a particular time..... But things changed after she got a boy bestfriend, he flirts with her, and I being a protective and possessive bff tell her to ask him to stop all these... But my bff seems to be comfortable with all these... Her boy bestfriend cracks dirty jokes that make me uncomfortable but she seems to be okay with all of it... I've asked her many times about her feelings towards him, she says that she's confused due to which she shares all her conversations with him to me, it makes my condition worse, I know I consider her more than a bff but she would never feel the way I do.. she not stopping her boy bestfriend makes me angry due to which I end up fighting with her... Now we barely talk except for discussing assignments... There's an invisible barrier between us... And I feel like even if we try, things won't be like before!!!🙂 Sorry for writing my weird story here...😔😔

@emmalily3816 2 года назад

I've had a crazy story too but: May I suggest that you tell your bff what you feel? Like really directly and clear? I know that this might be difficult, but since you are already drifting apart... If you confront her, it may turn out perfectly for you! And I am sorry, if it doesn’t, however, you would then know for sure, that she doesn’t like you that way and you can make a neat cut with this whole situation. I don't know if you also think like this: I hate uncertainities - not knowing something for sure and already giving up just because it might turn out bad. I think your situation is like "Nothing to lose but everything to gain".

@Annesha_Sarkar 2 года назад

@@emmalily3816 Thank you so much for ur suggestion!!❤️... I'll try to talk to her but the problem is that she has said me clearly "Annesha u r not just a bff for me, u r my sister, may be more than that.. U r like my parent who guides me through my life " she also said "If u were a boy, I would date u" so I don't think anything will work but still we're working on it, she's also understanding the tension between us and trying to solve it... Actually there was a time when I gave all my efforts to keep this friendship intact but she never seemed to care so I got tired but now as I am slowly going away from her, she's trying to make things better...🙂... Once again Thank You dear❤️❤️

@Adri-kn1mv 2 года назад

Hey, I've experienced quite the same experience except the fact that my best friend and I are male, and that he knew about my feelings ( I had confessed my feelings to him and he told me we would be in a relationship if I were a girl: Ouch). He fell in love with a girl who tried her best to drive me crazy because she knew I was in love with him and I was very possessive and she kind of succeeded in doing it as my bff and I were always quarrelling because of her until we stopped talking to each other because he just couldn't bare me anymore. Needless to say I was desperate. I haven't spoken a word to him for 6 whole months and then, one day, he came back to tell me he missed me O_O. And we've found back the bond we had before all of this. Actually, I would even say that our bond is stronger than ever now. What I'm trying to say is: It may take a lot of time for your bff to realise it but if you truly are important to her, everything is going to get better and your bond will be reinforced in the end. I know it's no easy task but you should just let her live and try her chance with this guy and I'm sure this won't last long

@Annesha_Sarkar 2 года назад

@@Adri-kn1mv Good to hear that someone else has also gone through such a situation... N that's what I've decided to do, I let her be herself, whenever she asks me to listen to the moments she n her best friend had, I just listen and don't react coz at the end of the day I'll be the one hurt n I think she has started realising my worth n I hope everything will be fine one day... Thank You dear❤️

@emmalily3816 2 года назад

@@Annesha_Sarkar Ohh! That's great if she also wants to keep your friendship going despite your situation lately. I think that she won't just toss you aside when you confess your feelings directly. She might be overwhelmed at first but from what you wrote I would say that she will keep being close to you and maybe she will try to make things easier for you even if she doesn’t feel the same. Because she clearly cares a lot for you!!

@yronalvarez9853 2 года назад

i am really crying because i remember the time we have spent together she's the best friend i eber got she's always there for me.

@unknownnick2777 2 года назад

This is the best cuttest animation I have watched 🥺

@krishna5175 2 года назад

I love the animation... Getting better and better day by day Amazing ❤️❤️💜

@isa-of7ve 2 года назад

HELP THE NOTIFICATION CAME RIGHT WHEN I WAS WONDERING IF I WAS FALLING FOR MY FRIEND😭

@shaunnixon8873 2 года назад

RU-vid is listening

@AngieStaysHome 2 года назад

The thumbnail really got me ... *✨CAN WE PRETEND THAT AIRPLANES IN THE NIGHT SKY ARE LIKE SHOOTING STARS✨*

@SadGirlCoven 2 года назад

*S H O U T I N G S T A R S*

@AngieStaysHome 2 года назад

@@SadGirlCoven I just noticed my mistake- I- Thanks for the correction

@lesbianinhaler 2 года назад

Realized that too.

@jiminslostjams9364 2 года назад

Thankyou so much....this video helped me a lot....

@r5cco0n 2 года назад

I LITERALLY NEEDED THIS AAAA

@anxelarxtz2243 2 года назад

YAy a new video! I love these videos even though i don't need quite a few of them, theyre just calming.

@Psych2go 2 года назад

Glad you like them!

@anxelarxtz2243 2 года назад

@@Psych2go yes, i hope you guys enjoy making them as much as your fans do.

@lzy5905 2 года назад

I was feeling lonely already. I guess just to add insult to injury

@laloomartinez9997 2 года назад

Same I'm sad bc i remember when I was in this specific situation and things didn't end well, sometimes I will i would have done things differently :/

@MarkMillerOrSomethin 2 года назад

Me seeing the thumbnail: CAN WE PRETEND THAT AIRPLANES IN THE NIGHT SKY ARE LI-

@chaaaaii 2 года назад

this is so relatable!!😭

@Chesxp24 2 года назад

THE THUMBNAIL- 😭

@SproutSprite_ 2 года назад

*CAN WE PRETEND THAT AIRPLANES-*

@Crusader-1096 2 года назад

I told my best friend recently that I liked her and i got…rejected i play everything of as if im fine on the outside but i am really hurting on the inside. Most of these i can relate to. I even sometimes have dreams about her.

@Ash_the_crybaby 2 года назад

Aw that really sad.. I hope you get better and that one day you'll fall for someone else that like you back

@seedbarrett6853 2 года назад

JEZUS CHRIST THE TIMING ON THIS ONE :O

@novelistandpsycopath 2 года назад

This was so helpful thank you

@Psych2go 2 года назад

You're so welcome!

@maryndjafranchette1002 2 года назад

I met my guy best friend beginning 2019. We were always seen together and all the people who knew us always thought we were dating. Fast forward to now, him and I are together and have been dating for more than 2 years and we are in a happy and healthy relationship

@PokidotGamer898 2 года назад

I have done almost all of these things, I told my best friend that I was falling for him, unfortunately and fortunately at the same time, he’s gay so I can’t really be with him, plus he is a country away from me. I know that I have definitely dreamed about him a couple of times!

@odessawales 2 года назад

For me my bsf is straight or bi and we both figured out we love eachother (we are both guys). He's my best friend for years now. I moved on from my abuser and my abuser was stopping me from bonding w my best friend and other loved ones.

@PokidotGamer898 2 года назад

@@odessawales well that’s good, that’s awesome that you moved on from your abuser

@odessawales 2 года назад

@@PokidotGamer898 ye idc ab that thing no more

@PokidotGamer898 2 года назад

@@odessawales I agree

@Scribble_Rodent 2 года назад

I’m not comfortable with how accurate this is I refuse to accept it

@thinuracooray8883 2 года назад

Love the video 🙂

@dumbasskai593 2 года назад

"Everywhere I go, I see his face." *[Insert picture of a kid's drawing of Mordecai and Twilight singing Airplanes]* Can we pretend that airplanes in the night sky are like shooting stars 💜💙 🌠

@corebelle 2 года назад

My BFF had a crush on me and asked me out but I said no. we’re still friends though so that’s good.

@lycheethegamer 2 года назад

I love you for the thumbnail

@easonmanimaran1438 2 года назад

this reminded me of an event that happened quite some time ago I was in love with my best friend and she was the sweetest person i ever knew unfortunately her expectations for guys was too high so i was way out of her league i always admired her she was a one of a kind woman i really wish it wouldve worked out i wouldnt be such a depressed person rn (shes not the cause i have other personal issues) but i guess she was never meant for me she has a crush now i hope she succeeds and always has that beautiful smile of hers :)

@highliving-animatedvideos5831 2 года назад

❤️❤️❤️ to all of us going to be friendzoned by our best friend

@Ch3eSy_Cheesecake 2 года назад

I chose to annoy a friend who considers me their best friend by sending them this video and telling them that this might help them to understand what their going through XD

@raissavage 2 года назад

I though about it then I said no... but since u had the idea too I'll consider it. Ik udc but u kinda inspired me and I wanted to share lol

@Ch3eSy_Cheesecake 2 года назад

@@raissavage well, I’m glad I did Im telling you it’s the best way to annoy your friends so just go for it :D

@frootloops5525 2 года назад

This. This is just what I needed

@dyland8737 2 года назад

Very fun! Could you do a video now about how to get over your close friend that you’ve fallen for, after they’ve fallen for a different close friend and started dating them? :’(

@mrfluffybeehive 2 года назад

Introverts: “You think I’m a fool”

@Nathan_p68 2 года назад

I have a really good friend but we are just friends and here are some of the things on this list that may not apply to love (I am judging this based off of my friend) 1:With any friend especially really good ones you should spend time with them, in my case I spent quite a lot of time with him 3: Of course I care about him, I love him, he is one of the best friends I have ever had 4:With almost any good friend you should feel comfortable being vulnerable around if you don't then they may not be a real friend 7:I dream about him but this ties into spending lots of time together, your brain dreaming is a way of processing random stimuli gathered throughout the day, i.e. the longer you spend with someone the larger chance you have of dreaming about them. Though dream's can be about intimacy and love and feelings, the dreams I have are quite random with him, usually normal things we do or just some random fever dream stuff 8: I am very involved in his life because he is my friend and I go to every party and even just go to his house alone and just play PlayStation and eat chips and stuff like that and he is always very open with me so I do know what he is going through at the time it is happening These can all be just some things that can happen without being in love with your friends or at least my list, these can apply to just being friends thanks for your time