NOTICE THE SIGNS AND LEAVE SILENTLY. Don’t announce it. Leave when he’s away. No dear John letter. Just leave!!! Let it hurt, it’ll be ok . They hurt you on purpose so that you can leave. Go! And don’t go back
Mine ghosted me. He stop calling me and he stopped coming by. Yes it hurt but I blocked him and got my peace back. Listen ladies he’s telling the truth
1. He distances himself; no more bond, no more connection, you know Nothing about him anymore, tells you Nothing (100% private) 2. He gets sloppy to get caught cheating 3. He pushes you to the limits (harsh/hateful/easily annoyed) 4. Stop doing activities with you (too perspnal/plus then the other(s) will see you) 5. Doesn't call or text, super short text or call if he does 6. He no longer cares about your feelings; quick to leave when you talk about your feelings, or dismisses you! Ouch! "Behavior is the real, Not words!"
My husband started acting like this, and he asked me to leave now that I have filed for divorce. He can't take it, but I'm done with this relationship.
When i started noticing the signs I gave myself an extra month jus to be sure I was correct in what I was feeling and seeing then I treated him the same way he had me and moved forward in my life what's good for the goose is certainly good for the gander stay woke!
Most narcs won't leave you or want you to leave, until they have their new and better and easier to manipulate supply already hooked and lined up. They can't stand being alone without an adoring audience.
and mostly it is just a man is not into you/us so he acts all nasty to make us leave him first.....Not every man who dislikes you or doesn't like you enough, is a narc...
This is why its so important that we women have a means and a way to walk away from these low crawling men... They never satisfied, no matter what you do and sacrifice for them. Have your own money ladies...independence is everything!
I believe deep down we do know the truth but we'd rather believe the picture we painted of them instead of what they are showing us, Just like you said. Thanks for sharing 😊
This is true when ai found out ahe was cheating I turned off all feelings and told her she needs to leave my house. Go be with the man you cheated with see hiw that works for you. Once the love is gone it's gone.
I pray the younger ladies hear this, no one is above being no longer wanted. After giving so much of myself to someone, I had to pull myself self back gradually like that bandaid before completely removing myself and the mark was still there from the bandaid, the wound still had to heal. But I washed it off and started my healing process anyway. Thank you for sharing such nuggets of wisdom teacher🎉❤
We had a good connection then suddenly he started ghosting me?? Confused by this I asked him to let me know where I stand so I can bow out gracefully.. he came back with excuses and went back to ghosting me again... Three weeks on?? I'm done!! 😞
Hello, you are giving the game away on lots of these men. I love it. 🙂 My mom used to say Love is an action if a person doesn't act like they Love you they don't. I find this true when a man doesn't want you he shows it in his actions.
Every word he said he did I left this man was not gonna go but didn’t want me or didn’t believe I had the strength to say ok bye ✌️ F….. you Well I did I love me It took me a while 😢😢😢 😂😂😂 😂😂😂 Make it make sense I stop 🛑 wanting him as well Channel He speaks truth Love his content From the beginning I saw it 😢😢😢 Thank you ❤❤❤
THIS IS ANOTHA GREAT ONE KIRK, MOST IM SURE ALOT OF US KNEW AND SOME OF IT WAS NEW LEARNING EITHER WAYS ITS ALWAYS A NEEDED REFRESHER AND NEVER WILL B A NO NEED TO LEARN.. ALSO N YES ... THE SOONER A WOMAN 👠👠 CAN EXIT FROM A LOVE U NO MORE LOVEUNION THE BETTER ....BECAUSE ITS A DETRIMENT TO HER HEALTH AND THE LIKE THE SAYN GOES YOUR BEST HEALTH IS WEALTH 🤑🤑💰💰 #FACTSALLDAY ..BLESSINGS 2 U KIRK N KEEP BUILDING WOMEN 🙏🙏🙏
Accept it and reciprocate. Don't personalize the silence. It ain't about you. You also don't need any closure because the silence is the closure. Move on and let the dead rest in peace. When he resurrects and give you excuses,don't accept back the dead/ghosts. You deserve better.
What if he does everything you listed calls alllll the time try to be in your presence shows up unannounced but is abusive acts aggravated and annoyed. Basically it’s mixture of these signs.
I did see the signs. A lot of us could not leave so called marriage due to many reasons kids, finances etc But hey by grace and mercy of God and years later it finally ended, God made a way and saved me. He discarded me. played a shady game and left. My Ex was a narcissist to the core!!! He did attempt to manipulatively Hoover and come back so he can use me in the worst way possible, to financially scam me etc. Glad it’s finally over 10 yrs later. I could see right through his BS. Never again!!!🎉
I know the sign dressing and looking and smelling better never at home Phone ring he walk away outside or the the car or garage hood about to make a run working late just to name some going to the gym now I’m going to listen to see if I’m right I. Know I am
