This actually just happened to me a few months ago. We were in a exclusive relationship which we both agreed on. We were dating for 7/8 months. After, spending a nice day together.. that weekend I heard nothing from him. I called him and he did not answer. He did not send a text or call. That night, I decided to move on and forward! ✌🏽
I would say what do you mean break up we was never a couple in the first place I just made you think I was your woman I been single all this time like nigga you ain't marry me so I never been yours 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I would make him feel very dumb and then laugh at him 😂😂😂
Exactly. I have lived in trauma bond so long. So we get professional help. Bottle up those feelings and put them into yourself. Learn to LOVE yourself to healing.
My partner of 5 years abandoned me the day I returned from my parent’s funeral - just disappeared out of my life without a word! 6 weeks later he returned for his stuff, expecting me to be crying and begging for him to come back - I did neither. I left it all on the front garden. Next!!
I came across this video, As I was looking for something for my friend, because to watch some one you love just waste away for a man that plays this cat and mouse game, is heartbreaking. At first I was thinking maybe I don’t know what I’m talking about when I say she should go, then I found this video, thank you universe 💕 best advice ever! Know your worth, it starts with you🥰
I've been taking my feelings out of everything since I've been following u. Let me tell u this THAT IS THE BEST THING I COULD HAVE EVER LEARN TO DO!!! I was leading my whole life by emotions! I have a 10yo son & I realized that he was leading by emotions as well. I'm teaching him to take his feelings out it. Ur wisdom is priceless & I personally, am grateful for u.
You gotta put it all on the table and give it an honest assessment without any emotions...also, ask yourself would u want ur child to date someone like this? If the answer is " No" then u really need to get going....Move on, there is better ahead....🤸🏽♀️🤸🏽♀️
Lol not the nipples falling off😂 I have taken your advice and moved the hell on because he was selfish and many other things. Now he is blowing up my phone
People do change, if all that person knew was selfishness, abuse, they will speak that language for a long time untill they learn a new one. If no one to hold them accountable or practice with to be better, they can't change... thats why we always look into the family they came from. The way a man treats his sister and mom is how he will treat you.
@WynetteWalker2811, if I was in your shoes I’d blocked him long ago and tell family members and friends “do not entertain him with any information of mine.”
@LdAmaro71 we can't just be hasty and give people advice on ghosting someone when they are being reminded of being ghosted someone. We reap what we sow. Un reinforced behavior becomes extinct, by blocking someone from phone ringing, they might start showing up or contacting through other people, forcing a restraining order, that will do nothing but make someone even more rebellious. Let them call, just never answer if they have crossed lines never to be crossed. That way they are aware the phone is ringing but the other party is making a conscious choice not to answer
Most people are not taught or modeled how to be a good person let alone be in a healthy relationship. When you work on yourself you attract better, it's simple science. Most people stay they stay single like it's special, it's just rooted in hurt and selfishness. We are not meant to be alone.
What? Just watched a video married men live longer than single counterparts however women direct opposite.😂 suit and speak for yourself @@ThePinkPantha21
Real Talk sometimes that does not lessen the pain my last relationship imprinted me, didn't know what that meant and then tell me he was a demon, a narcissist, a psychopath and got kicked out of the Marines for antisocial Behavior I laughed because I didn't believe him because nobody tells you up front. He wasn't kidding and he damn near killed me. And is still trying 4 years later. I walked away now I'm fixing to have to move away.
They ALWAYS tell the truth about themselves. Listen up when they do & take heed to it & get the he🏒🏒 out immediately🏃🏽♀️➡️🏃🏽♀️➡️🏃🏽♀️➡️🏃🏽♀️➡️🏃🏽♀️➡️
It’s easy said then done! 💯 You don’t know how it feels or how the struggle is for Women until you actually go through the pain & process yourself! Truth is Men & Women heal differently especially if you are going grieving! But of course we know we gotta move on and do what’s best for us!
Yep, best decision for all of those situations. So obvious! The song says it well, "I Can't Make You Love Me, If You Don't. You Can't Make Your Heart Feel, Something It Won't"
Listen...when I tell you that this is some great advice!!! You should charge for this advice, it's so good! A lot of people won't adhere to it because they are caught up in their emotions but they all would be doing themselves a favor if they listened!!!! I moved on because I finally loved myself more than it hurt❤❤❤
Every man is who he is because of a woman... his mom. If she failed because other things were more important and daycare raised him, thats what you got. And ladies, keep them knees closer together, dont bring kids into a world if you cant teach them love by 7 or 8, after that, its too late.
Some painfully true I here today in this video. Just I wish he never say I love You and took this to his grave. The hardest part to move on :( Thank You 🙏🏻
Nipples fallin off 🤣 Gotdam! But yes 100% agree with this msg. MOVE ON! Don't internalize 🙌 I have adult daughters 25, 26 no babies. I share your videos with them among others so they dont lose themselves tryna love someone elsw. Self Love is 1st ❣️
We can't be in denial. They leave you no choice but to move on, the world does not stop because they don't value the blessing. At 53, I will not keep opening & reopening my heart to foolish silly men. The first time they showed me they didn't want me, should be the last time we must protect our peace and heart.
Its worth pointing out that alot of the time we as people have our own unaddressed issues to work on that play out in relationships. Most people are a work in progress and instead of seeing that as a positive we resort to shame, thinking that if something is "wrong" with us, we are bad people and so it is easier to just blame others instead of seeing the big picture. The way my self esteem is set up I never sat around waiting for people to validate me and I have a strict code of treating others how I want to be treated. When I have had relationships end I analyzed my role and typically found there was something personal I needed to address to even attract said situation. Let the shame go so you build awareness about yourself.
I had a guy really liked. I gave him too much of myself broke it off. Two years later we connected again. Just talked for one day and nothing more. He said he admired me because I’m independent. I told him that person is gone. The new me still independent, but I’m not going to be in one sided relationships anymore, the man’s gonna have to give as well. I texted him and he ignored my text messages. Met someone later who gives more than I even give him. Ladies don’t block your blessings do not ever allow a man to use you. It’s worse than being alone.
@konsciouskirk where were you 30 years ago. I needed your advice then. I now tell this to the younger girls that complain to me about relationships. I live by your advice now, but I had to learn this on my own. I am wondering and laughing about "nipples falling off". I love your simple, basic advice. I am sending this video to a friend.
as a female that has been with the same man for 30 years until recently :( we make up in our heads what we think they are thinking or what we think they are doing... we make up situations and excuses for the pain and simply they just don't want us!! I wish I would of realized what I was doing years ago...give him the chance to either choose me or not. I would be over the pain years ago...now i've just turned mean and ugly.
