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A Live Conversation with Esther Perel and Trevor Noah: Where Should We Begin? | SXSW 2024 

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Not all conversations with Esther have to happen behind closed doors. Last week, Esther sat down with Trevor Noah, live at SXSW in Austin on the Vox Media stage, for a candid look at the state of comedy in the world we live in. The two of them uncovered some surprising similarities between being a comic and being a therapist. Esther showed Trevor a few ways to become a better listener and Trevor in return helped Esther prep for her new live tour.
If you want to be part of that show too- Esther invites you to an evening unlike any other. Join her as she shines a light on the cultural shifts transforming relationships and helps us rethink how we connect, how we desire - and even how we love. To find a city near you, go to www.estherperel.com/tour2024
For Trevor Noah's Off the Record tour visit www.trevornoah.com/shows
This conversation is also available on Esther's podcast, "Where Should We Begin?" Listen through the link below and stay tuned for the Audience Q+A, exclusively on Apple Podcasts subscriptions later this week.
link.chtbl.com/WSWByt

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@verb0ze
@verb0ze Месяц назад
Trevor is low-key a therapist and Esther, low-key a comedian. Amazing dynamic between this duo! More please!
@cdarma74
@cdarma74 Месяц назад
Beautifully interpretation of these two.
@melodylaila
@melodylaila Месяц назад
Perfectly said!
@alexandrasanson9138
@alexandrasanson9138 Месяц назад
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@alexandrasanson9138
@alexandrasanson9138 Месяц назад
😊😊😊o😊
@alisaarmstrong9375
@alisaarmstrong9375 Месяц назад
😊 Yes, more please!! Two of my favorites! So brilliant 🎉
@AliBPBG
@AliBPBG Месяц назад
This makes me wanna walk through life with a tiny Esther on one shoulder and a tiny Trevor on the other, giving me advice and commenting on my decisions. 😅
@VivianneRoseLee-hz8oo
@VivianneRoseLee-hz8oo Месяц назад
😂😂😂 same!
@user-gs8jx9oc6p
@user-gs8jx9oc6p Месяц назад
0:26
@janisrose6131
@janisrose6131 Месяц назад
Humor is our ultimate freedom! Both of those people are free! Great video!!
@olgaboldina5584
@olgaboldina5584 Месяц назад
Exactly!
@sayusayme7729
@sayusayme7729 Месяц назад
Agree 😂, wouldn’t that be amazing? All the years of people saying humour is the best quality in a partner. Being able to laugh at oneself is integral 🤍💫✨🫶✌️
@healinspaces4u
@healinspaces4u Месяц назад
Trevor's comedy is healing. Each time I've gone to his show I leave feeling some healing as a woman. It is a tremendous gift as a woman to be left feeling healed by a man. He's brilliant and I'm glad he was born.
@Pixeleen77
@Pixeleen77 Месяц назад
I'm so with you on this point!🙌🏾
@malannacareyhenderson8974
@malannacareyhenderson8974 Месяц назад
Thats why he sjould have children, to pass on his genius genes. Amen?
@lauramendoza5938
@lauramendoza5938 Месяц назад
❤❤ agreed
@JulieGlass-kf3rq
@JulieGlass-kf3rq Месяц назад
100% !!!
@angelagladstone8863
@angelagladstone8863 26 дней назад
He was raised by strong women ❤
@healthstartshere
@healthstartshere Месяц назад
So many brilliant quotes in this conversation: One of Trevor’s: “Laughter is one of the few emotions that robs your pain of its power.” One of Esther’s: “Humor is the closest you can get to someone without touching them.”
@cynnia
@cynnia 8 дней назад
I agree with your quote choices.
@nannielson7790
@nannielson7790 7 дней назад
Perfect summaries of these 2 brilliant people!
@laurelsfaves2665
@laurelsfaves2665 Месяц назад
I don’t think there’s a Trevor’s interview that I haven’t watched yet and every time I watch one it amazes me how wise , thoughtful and intelligent this man is !!!!
@pausekatrine3975
@pausekatrine3975 Месяц назад
what a treat!! Two of my favourite people in the world.
@estefif879
@estefif879 Месяц назад
Who thought about putting these two people in a room? Genius!
@ChirpyChat
@ChirpyChat Месяц назад
Watching from Singapore! I never imagined seeing Esther Perel and Trevor Noah together.
@theempire00
@theempire00 Месяц назад
Why not
@0921AV
@0921AV Месяц назад
@@theempire00 I think it's because he's a comedian - finds humor on anything - and she is a therapist - finds seriousness on anything. For that reason, and many others, it was a great match!!!
@tammyjohnson1927
@tammyjohnson1927 Месяц назад
I think it's because a lot of people cannot find humor in pain. Therapy is supposed to be a meaningful insight to your problems and most people don't find that funny.
@jayanthirangan-uc9oo
@jayanthirangan-uc9oo Месяц назад
My God. This duo is spontaneous, witty and constantly growing. For me the best part is how they used each other's words - they were listening to each other - with eyes, heart and hands. Yes, humor is a touch.
@IEVAKambarovaite
@IEVAKambarovaite Месяц назад
I desperately didn't want this to end. What a beautiful dance you both created ❤️
@cpmkw
@cpmkw Месяц назад
"They created a dance!" 🦄🌈🦠🤡
@DJ_Dutchess
@DJ_Dutchess Месяц назад
For the record, I'm glad this one wasn't off the record! 🙏 Two brillant people learning from one another and sharing it with the world. What a gift and privilege to have witnessed this 💫
@saniyyahhollingsworth7064
@saniyyahhollingsworth7064 Месяц назад
Thank you for all that you do.
@gemmadidit4118
@gemmadidit4118 Месяц назад
The wonderful thing about this kind of content is the elevated souls that gather in the comments. Wish we could be in the same room 😃!
@privateperson4842
@privateperson4842 Месяц назад
gemmadidit sounds like a writer💞
@gemmadidit4118
@gemmadidit4118 Месяц назад
Nah😒. I'm still two thirds potential and it's late in the day🙄. But I choose to be HAPPY😜🤪😁.
@kekica11
@kekica11 Месяц назад
Or on the same airplane :)
@pdias8469
@pdias8469 Месяц назад
Listening to Esther Perel and Trevor Noah it was the best time I spent this evening.
@pdias8469
@pdias8469 Месяц назад
Ambiguous loss! Yes yes yes. Absolutely right.
@NenaToya
@NenaToya Месяц назад
The duo we didn't know we needed! Absolutely ❤every second of this. Did not feel like a podcast or a "talk". I was eves dropping on an in-depth, intimate, hilarious, emotional talk between two amazing humans. Absolutely fed my soul
@1XclusiveFBA
@1XclusiveFBA Месяц назад
whoever thought to bring this two together is a genius
@zizinnnn
@zizinnnn Месяц назад
Trevor making Esther laugh is a delight ❤
@_-JB-_
@_-JB-_ Месяц назад
Mr. Noah is a dangerous man. I didn't plan to sit and listen to a conversation for almost an hour. Yet I did it. Again.
@leonorejanson5140
@leonorejanson5140 Месяц назад
I love that Esther openly 'confesses' herr stage fright.
@YassamanN
@YassamanN Месяц назад
Can the two of you please make a series of podcasts together? I learned so much just from this one session. Thank you both!
@nbjansen8255
@nbjansen8255 Месяц назад
Esther just demonstrated her incredible ability to listen to and to engage with her client/interviewee/audience. Trevor was an incredible vehicle for her to do that. Two utterly charming individuals interacting about a range of riveting topics. Surely he had every opportunity here to learn about developing his curiosity and to further develop his true listening ability ...which is what he hoped to get from Esther at this interview.
@ann3700
@ann3700 Месяц назад
I always click play..when Trevor is doing an appearance somewhere...this was fulfilling
@user-mz8ek1sn4f
@user-mz8ek1sn4f Месяц назад
Why not someday do a tour together where we can learn from through therapy and laughter at the same time. Great duo dynamic!
@calewis55
@calewis55 Месяц назад
What a great idea!!! I hope they take this and run with it. This conversation was si wonderful. Deep and true. ❤
@estherkim2425
@estherkim2425 Месяц назад
Did I manifest this?? Literally two of my favorite people coming together from two of my favorite worlds!!! More of this please!! amazing amazing amazing
@iccotom
@iccotom Месяц назад
Yes you did. And were all very thankful to you for it 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@nannielson7790
@nannielson7790 7 дней назад
Trevor is so much more than a comedian. The wisdom that comes from his brain, passing through curated decisions to speak to the topic literally and/or with an edge of comedy. Oftentimes, both. Love him!
@Emy53
@Emy53 Месяц назад
I know that for 7 years, I was not present with my adult children. I was stuck in a relationship that didn't exist. It was very painful for them to watch me so absorbed in my cellphone with an individual that couldn't be present for me. I am so over it now, and I am so thankful to my daughter for trying to get me to understand and see how stuck I was. I am better now, and was still working on grieving something I could never have. She has helped me by making me aware how I dodged a bullet. I totally agree, and I have moved on. Took me a while, but I am so much better now.
@joshuaesquivel5721
@joshuaesquivel5721 Месяц назад
This woman is incredibly smart. People that become fluent in multiple languages blow my mind!
@MliDube
@MliDube Месяц назад
True. I'm equally fascinated by people who learn a new language as adults. My daughter is ten years old and fluent in three languages. It's the norm growing up in a multicultural country like South Africa, but learning a new language as an adult is very rare.
@Pixeleen77
@Pixeleen77 Месяц назад
I dated a guy who spoke 7 languages fluently. He was a total tool. It's irrelevant how many languages people speak. Dick heads are dick heads:)
@privateperson4842
@privateperson4842 Месяц назад
He's multi-lingual, also.. and his voices of multiple peple are amazing 😂
@maryjeanthomas-johnson2043
@maryjeanthomas-johnson2043 Месяц назад
In the Struggle in South Africa we used humour to survive. Judge Albie Sacks used it to survive in 90 days solitary confinement. He sang "Always". ". .I will be loving you always, ...not for 90 days ..but akways.." I will be
@RichardDawson-sz4bz
@RichardDawson-sz4bz Месяц назад
I'm tuning in for a second time. These two people are brilliant conversational models.
@kimberlysauber5601
@kimberlysauber5601 Месяц назад
I can’t decide whose accent and speech patterns I love more!!! I could listen to you both speak every day. Also because of WHAT you both speak about. Love you BOTH so much. Thank you for your time and conversation. ❤
@muoean8219
@muoean8219 Месяц назад
Trevor doesn’t realize how well he actually listens! Using the words deridere and entendre correctly… He’s so mindful of those little details🙏🏼
@safochristian
@safochristian Месяц назад
Yh, that was great
@cathypreston1095
@cathypreston1095 Месяц назад
This is like watching a great movie in a theatre or in a group where we laugh and cry together. Thank you everyone.
@zanaleezee
@zanaleezee Месяц назад
Love their points about listening, the quality of listening and how it can shape the way the person we listen to expresses themselves. It's an underrated skill and very very useful and important.
@shay-doran
@shay-doran Месяц назад
Esther I loved this notion of the Whole Body Listening, that's certainly how active listening feels - all senses are engaged!
@boothvrstudio
@boothvrstudio Месяц назад
Thank you so much. I miss you Trevor!! I wish you all the best! You are the best!
@Nettiaz
@Nettiaz Месяц назад
"Tragic optimism" = "You get to decide your reactions to the events which you can not control" ❤️👍
@kimberlysauber5601
@kimberlysauber5601 Месяц назад
11:14 - I LOVE that. Humor is the closest you can get without touching someone. So profoundly correct. Love having new thoughts. Thank you.
@georgeferguson2197
@georgeferguson2197 Месяц назад
If I were to think what the perfect conversation could be like, it is THIS. Absolutely riveted to these two exchange thoughts.
@megancarroll
@megancarroll Месяц назад
Omggggg two people who’s work I adore and this match up makes the most amount of sense ever
@denisemacedopsico
@denisemacedopsico Месяц назад
Trevor is the best ever 👏🏼👏🏼 I found many psychological concepts and strategies in his speech. He always makes me learn, think and laugh ❣️
@elizabethrodrigues2100
@elizabethrodrigues2100 Месяц назад
Beautiful conversation between two of you is something nobody can miss .I am looking forward to hear you two
@carolinehardware9982
@carolinehardware9982 Месяц назад
Trevor's laugh heals the soul😅
@BaKellaC47
@BaKellaC47 Месяц назад
I also see how Trevor is confident in himself that he is not uncomfortable speaking to a psychologist/ therapist. He is so sure of himself , and he has quickly taken the lead as if he is the host .
@kasandimulaa9999
@kasandimulaa9999 Месяц назад
IM SO GRATEFUL FOR THIS INTERSECTION
@jovicrada8102
@jovicrada8102 Месяц назад
Thank you, thank you, thank you. That dream interaction between two great people make my day and I will remember for loooong time.
@frankpaquet295
@frankpaquet295 Месяц назад
This was excellent, thank you to Esther Perel and Trevor Noah. It's given me a lot to think about. You two are great!! Thank you. (from Sandi)
@kimberlysauber5601
@kimberlysauber5601 Месяц назад
38:24 - when I make small talk in a city, people look at me like I’m crazy more than if I’m in a small town. I like small talk because I’ve crossed paths with some REALLY AMAZING people and I wouldn’t have known without small talk. 💯
@bw13579_
@bw13579_ Месяц назад
TWO BRILLIANT PEOPLE HAVING A VERY INSPIRING CONVERSATION ❤
@ellenbruckermarshall4179
@ellenbruckermarshall4179 Месяц назад
The way we share content with each other- best explanation ever Trevor. Thanks!
@b.t.734
@b.t.734 Месяц назад
How inspiring and touching to see Esther with Trevor. It may sound as minor but I love seeing the body-appereance of the two of them together. Trevor is soo tall or may be esther is petite. :-) After so much face timing it is great to see corpo-reality.
@privateperson4842
@privateperson4842 Месяц назад
Thanks for teaching me a new word corporeality. And french terms, though my brain might not retain it, it's interesting.
@b.t.734
@b.t.734 Месяц назад
@@privateperson4842🌺🌟🌟
@gemmausiku
@gemmausiku 28 дней назад
I learnt to listen watching this. You do not need a degree to be a teacher. These two have taught me so much. Thank you!
@dianacirilo
@dianacirilo Месяц назад
More of this please!!!❤
@Bri.Katungi
@Bri.Katungi Месяц назад
The treat I never knew I needed!Thank you❤
@trishm3002
@trishm3002 Месяц назад
I love how Esther said we listen with our whole body: eyes, ears, smiles, nods, body posture. Amazing insight.
@renatakrasovskaja5824
@renatakrasovskaja5824 Месяц назад
this duo is the cutest!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@MaithiliKulkarni
@MaithiliKulkarni Месяц назад
45 min of Insights from two of the brightest/ wisest minds of our times! Than k you!
@caz119
@caz119 Месяц назад
Both a great way at looking at relationships and comedy and the relationship comedy has with each person. Indeed laughter is a therapeutic medicine.
@a_secret_tho
@a_secret_tho Месяц назад
I absolutely love this. Listening to Esther’s podcast before going to bed is my favorite hobby. I get to reflect on myself, learn and explore new ways, and feel positive and warm and hopeful energy of imagining how I can do better next time. Thank you! And all the luck and support for all of you who watches this video! We deserve love.
@tandilemakuluma7582
@tandilemakuluma7582 Месяц назад
Two of my faces who have amazing insight on how to relate! So many gems...thank you for an insightful, intelligent, funny conversation. So much respect for both of you and the work you do.
@1991Depa
@1991Depa Месяц назад
Admire both of them from Singapore
@esfuturestrading
@esfuturestrading Месяц назад
This is something I never expected. What a treat!
@megv6467
@megv6467 Месяц назад
I wish Esther did a tour in the UK. I really enjoyed the conversation between the these two greats in their own right.
@artistmaureensharkey5321
@artistmaureensharkey5321 Месяц назад
This may become one of the best all time talks!
@Julieglam3
@Julieglam3 Месяц назад
I adore Trevor. I could listen to him speak all day, every day. I have only recently discovered Esther but so glad I have. So refreshing to listen to two people who are so intelligent, insightful, funny and engaging. With so much discord and insanity going on right now, THIS was so needed...💕
@maribelsandoval4405
@maribelsandoval4405 Месяц назад
This was such a delightful and real conversation- thank you both 🙏🏼
@Kixperience
@Kixperience Месяц назад
Lovely surprise and what a good listening.
@Julzableful
@Julzableful Месяц назад
Beautiful conversation with a beautiful soul. I love comedy and the art of it. I have always used it to connect to people even in times when I've felt unsafe to help gain some footing in the social dynamic.. really enjoyed this reflective, insightful discussion on why it's so important in our lives. Thank you so much for bringing this to us, Esther!
@privateperson4842
@privateperson4842 Месяц назад
Just yesterday someone I know and respect said I need to get out with people more. So this was good timing on that path.💙🌎❤️
@lollettealipe9363
@lollettealipe9363 Месяц назад
An interesting conversation between two equally intelligent and witty people.
@thescowlingschnauzer
@thescowlingschnauzer Месяц назад
Stage fright: I don't know how to do this. Nerves: I know how to do this. I don't know what's on the other side of me doing it.
@SunraeSkatimunggr
@SunraeSkatimunggr Месяц назад
This was a wonderful conversation!!! I have always loved Trevor Noah, but Ester Perel is great as well. They are both philosophers, psychologists and comedians...as well as many other things.
@0921AV
@0921AV Месяц назад
Excellent!!! Love them both, great match for an interview. Thanks.
@kunwaranujsingh9980
@kunwaranujsingh9980 Месяц назад
❤ Esther
@nuriap3278
@nuriap3278 Месяц назад
I haven't seen it yet but my like 🎉is for bringing these two together, to start with...
@jessicakuilan670
@jessicakuilan670 Месяц назад
Absolutely love this. As a fellow therapist, these two dynamics are sooooooooo on point. Love them both!
@marikaoconnor5058
@marikaoconnor5058 Месяц назад
Both of them so thoughtful and genuine. Impressive.
@JG-cq6ud
@JG-cq6ud Месяц назад
Esther ❤
@makeoneonly
@makeoneonly Месяц назад
Esther great teacher ❤
@rosemariekimball5787
@rosemariekimball5787 Месяц назад
Love and appreciate those two people.
@steffanhegeman6351
@steffanhegeman6351 Месяц назад
Absolutely fantastic, both of them!
@cfatv-gp4ye
@cfatv-gp4ye Месяц назад
What a combo 💯✨
@ochiengodhiambo
@ochiengodhiambo Месяц назад
Two legends .....they are intelligent n I can listen to them without getting bored.
@PureJoyJoyPure
@PureJoyJoyPure Месяц назад
WONDERFUL MINDS! Thankyou for posting. The volume was excellent as well.
@cch255
@cch255 Месяц назад
This was wonderful! I stumbled upon it by accident and thoroughly enjoyed it.
@kidistgetachew7565
@kidistgetachew7565 Месяц назад
I love love love me some Trevor
@asmahamidullah9571
@asmahamidullah9571 Месяц назад
Thank you both so much! God bless you! ❤🇹🇹
@TamarChante
@TamarChante Месяц назад
Great conversation! Loved it!
@teenafrench7236
@teenafrench7236 Месяц назад
Two GOATS🎉🎉🎉
@Sara-321
@Sara-321 Месяц назад
My two favorite people! I’m excited to give this a listen.
@MICHAEL-xr9yx
@MICHAEL-xr9yx Месяц назад
I love Esther Perel
@ZuzanaBzonkova
@ZuzanaBzonkova Месяц назад
Oh! My ♥always jumps with joy when the insightful people I have followed for years join to create sth together! This interview is,unsurprisingly wonderful! So mesmerizing that I've listened to it 5x in one evening! Thank you, Esther and Trevor, for all the content here on RU-vid and also for this deep and witty interview, both enriching and funny!
@erikserum9519
@erikserum9519 Месяц назад
Trevor noah and Esther perel have really good connection ❤❤😊. Trevor is amazing
@persephone_GreekMyth
@persephone_GreekMyth Месяц назад
My two favorite people! This was so good!!! These voices together- just magical!!!
@jujustyles1D
@jujustyles1D 26 дней назад
This was so good ❤
@kamalnijhawan9592
@kamalnijhawan9592 Месяц назад
Fabulous
@thescowlingschnauzer
@thescowlingschnauzer Месяц назад
To be a good listener, you have to know what to listen for. You have to not project, meaning not listen selectively.
@anagarciadiaz8549
@anagarciadiaz8549 Месяц назад
Such an enriching listening. Thankful for the people who being proffesional in their fields dare to expose themselves on the internet and share themselves with the world meaningfully❤
@desidimceva8907
@desidimceva8907 Месяц назад
I am a fan of both of you for years. I was expecting a fun conversation but you both outlived my expectations in the very first minutes and kept doing so until the end. I want to thank you for sheding fresh inteligemt ideas and profound thruths as you go. Keep up ! You are amazing
@Camilaalvesyoga
@Camilaalvesyoga Месяц назад
I loved it ❤
@akara2137
@akara2137 Месяц назад
This conversation is very touching and intimate! I learned so much. ❤ I love you and your vulnerability, Esther!
@mankadimemokone1771
@mankadimemokone1771 Месяц назад
I am smiling. Beautiful conversation. Who would of thought a therapist and a comedian ❤
@cutemanager244
@cutemanager244 Месяц назад
What a combo!!!!!I am so thrilled👌🏾🤛🏾🙌🏾💃🏾💃🏾
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