Not married yet. Honestly all I want is to be submissive and respectful. I'm learning new things and trying to unlearn my old habits. My goodness I feel like this video was/is made for me.
I love your desire and with God nothing is impossible ❤️ Watch this video as it will help you lots too ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-QDUtzIoKlzY.html
My husband is my Head! ❤ I didnt know what this meant , didnt know how to accept this i was guilty of rebellion , Not meekness. & so to go from this into submission its not easy overnight - its a cry out to God to change you , its a Oh wait im suppose to listen to my own husband. I was In sin for years , No one taught me submission, No one taught me Authority , i was deep in lust to care😢😢😢 But i saught God In A Humble way , Seeking Change , Seeking How do i pluck out my eye ? 🙈 God Bless You ❤❤
I am a newlywed and this video has blessed me tremendously. Thank you for allowing the Holy Spirit to speak through you to bless others. May God bless your marriage and your family!
This is good!!! I was guilty of being bossy and letting him lead. I had to let him lead and respect his authority even when I didn't agree. I also had to extend grace and support him when he messes up. He's not perfect and neither am I which is why God gives us grace too. I love that you included your kids because that's real.
I appreciate your comment ❤️🙏🏾 And I am so happy that you are of the same stance , as it is biblical! You might find this video helpful toru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-QDUtzIoKlzY.html
I’m not married just had one failed relationship and my current one is hanging on a strings and he’s upset about the same things my ex was so at this point I have to take accountability and try a different route . I’ve never respected , honored or served any man . I just didn’t know this was important . Loving him just isn’t enough . I have no idea what I’m doing so appreciate this video .
This is just the advice I need at this moment. I think am same like you before. I know how to talk very well. In fact, I talk to the point that I don't allow my partner to over shadow me with my own point. I won't even know and he will start feeling offended with so many words I use. My guy loves me so much and we are planning to get married. I really pray I change how I talk and learn to keep quite. Now I understand men doesn't like it when a woman talks to over shadow them and making so much arguments
thank you so much for this video. it is golden! you are a blessing! my husband is very patient and loving with me. I have started fights because I wanted to be heard. I’m a work in progress and I’m starting to listen to my husband and without reacting
I hear you and I can definitely relate to your reason of starting fights with your husband. I am happy you have realized this sooner, meaning there is more then enough room to fix this with the help of God. Watch the next video, it will help you tooru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-QDUtzIoKlzY.html
Prayed this morning 🙏🏾 asking for guidance in my interaction with my fiance and I come across your video. Thank you for sharing...as a strong babe myself who thought I knew girllll I did not know how underdeveloped I was in some areas that I just knew I had together ☺️
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-QDUtzIoKlzY.html 👈🏾you are most welcome. Take a look at this video, trust me it will help a whole lot too
Thank you so much for your advice, I am already doing a lot of those things and I definitely notice that there's more peace in our home and our relationship but I am trying to get better. God bless you, greetings from Germany 🇩🇪
You are most welcome ☺️ Please, take a look at this video, I know you will love and find ur helpful too ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-QDUtzIoKlzY.html
Awww… you are most welcome, with God all things are possible…. Please just hand those issues over to God and be intentional I know you will love this video too ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-QDUtzIoKlzY.html
Praise God. Please, take a look at this video, I know you will love and find ur helpful too ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-QDUtzIoKlzY.html
I’m not yet married But I’m finding it difficult or at times I will get angry and talk to him rudely but after which it has caused issues that’s when I will realize that I talk to him rudely and not the way I was supposed to talk, but I found this video so helpful and I believe if I followed all what she said I will be a better person to my man, and I’m happy she talks about God and the Holy Spirit will always help and teach me 😊❤
Thank you so much for this video. I’ve been struggling with communication in my relationship and this video has opened my eyes to things I didn’t really think about. Much love!
There is always room for change. Just be intentional in wanting to do all you can to save your marriage and depend on God to do the rest☺️ You will love this video too ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-QDUtzIoKlzY.html
If a man is truly the head, and the wife is truly submitted as unto the Lord, she doesn't have the authority to allow or disallow. We shouldn't use the word allow. It implies the woman is still in control of the man.
My husband does not have dominion over me. So he can't make me submit to him, and this is due to the free will God gave to all of us as his children. Him being the head of my home will not automatically place me in a submission character/ position. For submission to be visible in the home, i will need to make the decision to intentionally honor my husband with the help of the Holy spirit and thats how i allow my husband have his right place as the head of the home successfully and peacefully.
@Estherk 1. Yes, a husband does have dominion. Read your scripture. 2. Correct, he can't make you submit, but the unrighteous use of your free will to not submit is called rebellion. 3. Him being the head of your home should cause you to automatically subject your character and position to his God-given authority. 3. You are absolutely correct, you will need to intentionally decide to honor your husband. It's good to see women waking up to that truth. 4. However, that isn't you allowing him anything, that is you submitting righteously. To allow implies you have authority, but that is the dominion, the responsibility, God gave man. What a righteous woman does is to control herself to be the help meet God intended her to be because He knew the man would need such a wonderful gift to fulfill the mission He has for him.
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Wow as a man my self I never put man hands on a women, a lot of times when you are that type and you respect your mother, some women will take advantage and vice versa. For anyone who is miss-interpret what this woman is saying.....The key to the lasting relationship starts with respect and trust first. She is not saying tip toe around a disrespectful man, on the contrary she is saying to respect his position in the house hold. IF you don't...then you should not be with him. A lot of tragedies starts with disrespect and untrustworthy people whom were hurt in the past. This happens on both the male and female side. You men should not take advantage of your position either! God bless this women that don't make them like this any more.
Wowwww This video was amazing for me thank youuu!!! Now i need to put this in practice. Our biggest issues happened because of my trust issues any advices on that ??
Trusting someone is a decision you intentionally take no matter how the status of your reality looks like, bearing in mind that whatever results you get out of that decision, will completely be on you. Trusting someone starts in the mind. It is in the mind where the decision of how your reality will look like is made from. Your trust issues might have been caused by past experiences you have with someone but even when the situation might have changed for the better. The possibility of your trust issues disappearing might be impossible , preventing you from enjoying the changed version of the situation because of the status of your mind. Hope that helps
Peaccce sister. I wanted to ask for advice on not always bringing up issues, like hair in the comb or clothes everywhere? Do I sometimes take care of it for him or just tell him in a nicer way? I want him to get better habits without it seeming like I’m nagging.
Firstly ask your self what you will loose for picking up after him. Picking up after him can be frustrating if you subconsciously tell your self that it is. Find a good time where you and him are in a good Place emotionally and use kind and respectful words to let him know how him leaving his clothes laying around /the comb with hair on it makes you feel. Tell him ones and avoid constantly nagging about it, trust me he Heard- you the first time you told him and the processing time might just be taking longer. Tips that can make you enjoy picking after him without making a big issue about it… is to constantly remind yourself on why you love him and are still with him. Those reason can help make it easy as LOVE is known to cover a multitude of sin(imperfections). Trust me there are bigger problems that can cause the absence of peace in your home and I am not saying that you should suppress your emotions…I am just advising you pick your battles wisely. Some things aren’t worth your peace and energy. Hope this helps
This was very nice I may have to listen to this every day until it sinks in. Is Ego a good word if you are a Christian? Prov8:13 God hates pride. I am not a heavy Bible thumper but there are some things and words that should not be used when talking about the Christian man. I have only heard this from women I think men knows that Egos get them nowhere with their wife.
Yes, I approve. God advises we cultivate a life of submission to him and to our husbands. When you learn to submit God's way, you have learned a good and wise thing😊
How do you deal with a Narcissistic Husband? I am thinking about Divorce. Not a good feeling to be in the position I am. I thought that there should some equality for a Working Wan like myself and he works too. I believe in 50/50. What about you?
I believe in 100/100 But I am also aware of the reality that my partner will have days were he won’t have the whole 100 to give but maybe 30 and I 170 and vice versa. One of the dangers in a marriage, is keeping scores of each other, don’t do that. In your marriage, love , care and give because you love doing it but also know that times will come where all I just mentioned must be done sacrificially (meaning doing it because you love the other person) Exhaust all options before you decide to divorce. No one or no situation is beyond change. With this said, GOS IS THE ONE WHO CHANGES PEOPLE AND THINGS NOT HUMANS. Make time for God concerning your case and God will make time for your case. Praying for you 💕
I agree to submit to your husband except if he wants you to sin or he wants you to enable his sin (ex:by your silence, or in any way enabling his sin)! Follow Mathew 10:15-17 kjv! First submissively appeal to your husband and respectfully show him the scriptures for what Gods word says and how you and he must follow God if you want things to go well for your marriage and your lives, and children’s lives and everyone’s lives! Pray before and after and if he won’t submit to Gods will, then you still must, out of love and honor towards your God and husband! Bible says to always obey the higher powers and the highest power is God, not your husband! Abigail did the right thing and did not submit to her husband but submitted herself to God and obeyed him, and went to honor her husband by going to David for help! Nabsl still would not submit to God so God took him off the face of the earth and David married Abigail and I believe Abigail is a great grandmother of Jesus! Eve in the garden new that her husband would want to take the fruit, and instead of following God, she put her trust in the serpent and wanted to please herself and her husband and so she offered Adam the fruit! Then when God confronted Adam for following his wife, he blamed his wife for his own choice to sin, and next, God confronted Eve for her sin, and she blamed the serpent for her sin. This great sin is mainly know as “Adams sin” in the Bible, even though Eve was first to sin. God doesn’t blame us for other peoples sins, only for our own sins. But God will hold wives and husbands and children and everyone responsible for the sin of silence if they see their loved one is in unrepentant sin and then they don’t biblically warn them (don’t follow Mathew 18:16-17). Most wives arent obeying God because they are afraid their unrepentant husbands will be mad at them. And most Churches and Christians arent obeying God because they are afraid tne unrepentant abusive person will be mad at them, or they are often afraid that their own wives or others will hold them biblically accountable for their unrepentant sins in their marriage/families!! These are false witnesses and must repent snd speak the truth in love to purge the little bit of leaven out of their relationships and Churches before the sin grows and destroys the entire family and Church! We must (even wives), always have faith and suffer persecution that will often come, when we follow Christ only. Those who follow Christ until the end will have great blessings on the end of not before them! There is many scriptures that teach these truths!
Forgot to mention that I have been married 20 years and have 3 children with my husband. We are all struggling because it has to be what he says almost all the time.
@@danielaugustine5537 your sarcasm shows that you do not have anything to say, no arguments. so you are left only with mocking. but all i am saying is based on the Truth of the Word of God. the Bible says in eph 5;21 "Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God." - that was said in the context of marriage. so it is clear that the husband is supposed to submit to his wife just as much as she should to him. also, in mark 10;44 "And whosoever of you will be the chiefest, shall be servant of all." - so this is the place of the husband. the role of the servant. even more! because the word translated as SERVANT actually in greek means SLAVE. the husband is told many times to love his wife... no, not the way it suits him...no, no, no,. the Bible clearly says what it means to love... 1 cor 13:4-8 "Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things." in eph 5;25 we read about how the husband is supposed to love his wife "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;" - he shoudl DIE for her as Christ Lord died for the Church. so he should always put her in front of his own needs, desires, her calling, welfare, happiness, health and every other aspect of her life should be always more important to him than his own...he should die to himself in order to serve her... also in phil 2;3 we read "Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves." - so the husband is supposed to esteem his wife better than himself. that of course goes both ways since there is no male no female in the Christ and we all are one..."There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for ye are all one in Christ Jesus." there is plenty of deception and wrong teaching taught in churches and many follow it and teach others - sometimes because of ignorance, sometimes it is because of false humility... but the Truth is in the Word. and many do not like it...
Pray to God to change his heart so he can be more gracious, nurturing and open hearted towards you. God is the only one who changes hearts and not us humans! What I advise in this video DOES/SHOULD NOT give men the right of way not to play their part which is to LOVE their wife. From a Christian woman , I will share this scripture from our Bible: PROVERBS 21:1-2 “The Lord can change the king's mind. The Lord does what he wants to do. The Lord can change the direction of a stream. In the same way, the Lord can change the thoughts of a king. Everybody thinks that he always does right things. But it is the Lord who knows your thoughts.” You see, God can change your husbands heart/ character to exactly the way that will be pleasing to God and enjoyable for your marriage.
What do I do when my wife doesn't want to have sex with me? I have been married for 5 years and I have struggled with this topic. I feel like I am a good husband and a provider but I feel like I'm getting angry and frustrated. Sexually frustrated! Do you have any advice for me?
Thankyou for watching. I am so sorry for what you are going through in your marriage☹️. Unfortunately when a marriage is experiencing a lack of balance in the area’s of Communication , prayer, Sex and finances. The home will not be conducive for anything good🤷🏽♀️. All I can advise is, if talking to her hasn’t helped thus far. Start praying more for her instead and get to hear what God has to say concerning the situation. There is definitely a spiritual attack on your marriage in the area of intimacy, which needs to leave your home and the life of your wife. I pray for restoration in the areas where the enemy has robbed you of in your marriage in Jesus name. So that you enjoy your marriage like how God has intended marriage to be enjoyed!
So you never bring up an issue that you have with your husband to him? What im hearing is just let it go and tell God, because you cant expect him to care or listen. That doesnt sound right to me
Hi Nina. Kindly take time to watch the video again. I am not encouraging wives to not have the freedom in expressing concerns they have with their husbands to them. what I am encouraging is doing it with wisdom and sometimes wisdom says to not do it right now or to not do it at all. God created us and knows best how we function as individuals and therefore he is the best person to talk to about concerning and issues you have with your husband that can potentially go south if brought up prematurely with him because of timing or because of his character . So yes certain issues I highly encourage you talk to directly talk to God, for peace to rein in your home. You telling God is you asking him to talk on your behalf just for the mere fact that when God speaks one’s he is heard twice. But for example if you do it, it might have to be repetitive depending on the nature of the issue and the nature of your husband and that is enough to strain you & the marriage. But when you talk to God about it. He will talk to your husband better then you would have done it. He will talk one’s and your husband will hear him twice😊… isn’t that better?
as a man, this video is kind of fucked up. the best relationship is held together by a mutual understanding and equal say. this ain't the early fuckin 1900s anymore
@@andreflores4486 Of course not. I'm talking about the relationship between men and women in a christian marriage. If you don't believe and God and a feminist you don't know nothing about life.
@@Nimbereth i believe in god- and that he made everyone equal. if u think you're above anyone, ESPECIALLY because of their gender, then u know nothing about life.
@@andreflores4486 being equal in VALUE and WORTH as a person doesn't mean y'all have the same role! All people are equal in the eyes of God but not everyone has the same role.
Thank you Esther , this has really gotten at a point of need ,is it possible to connect with you on watsapp I really need to have a deep chat with you thanks
