What is Respect to a good man? 

Thank you so much!!

Oh wow! So happy I could cry! It's so true that a man's gift maketh room for him. What u give, you give from ur heart. You deserve nothing but the best *Congrats 👍*

Tony Gaskins hHi Tony just subscribed. After giving birth to my second baby via C section last week. Baby still at the hospital for an extra three weeks. My husband cared for one for a full one day when we came home. Next day we argued badly and I ended up disrespecting him with words. I was wrong. He also disrespected me saying what kind of mother are you. He left the house because I asked him to leave. He never came back knowing no body will care for me since my family werre in other city for vacay. Now when I went to the hospital to go see the baby he doesn’t even talk to me. Is that a real man? I understand I insulted him with words but to leave me after a C section. If A man gets disrespected by his wife. No matter what the circumstances that is. Is it ok for them to leave? Is that a real man character?

assignment B If you disrespected him then asked him to leave you can’t expect him to act like it didn’t happen just because you are married. That probably broke his heart. If he’s a good man you have to work hard to get his respect and trust back. He probably doesn’t feel safe there anymore. If you don’t want to loose him for good you should probably seek some counsel together.

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I I understand

To be dignified and sophisticated feels so good!

Salute Queen! Exactly

True 🤫

@@aneshrathomas AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT!YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JUNE2021

Very true

Queens walk away.

Feels good too👸

Amen, Queens are just soft and subtle. That's why you have to be careful being chosen. Everything that chooses you is not from GOD. Dont settle for peanuts.

A Queen will keep her crown, femininity, and will click her red bottoms and walk away and not argue.

If a man disrespect himself by cheating and all of that he deserves to be yelled at.

This one's going on my profile picture!👍

... and he probably said, he loved you. This is a very, very common constellation.

Wow that was beautifully said👏👏👏

AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH! THAT'S IT! JUNE2021

Never thought of it this way

Absolutely! On point

Very insightful. Thank you

Samantha Adkins me too.

@@potajonapotaje9158 it's a long road to travel, so hard and emotionally kills you!

Same here, mine was a boy...over 30 years. I filed for divorce. I look young for my age and he can pass for my father, but he is just an old "boy." LOL 😂

@@MyJubilation there's so many "grown boys" now!

Checked and walked away.

You got it

Cheeks Cheeks so very true. Whatever a guys done to make you feel that way, disrespecting you, cheating on you etc - they’re not worth it. It’s best just to leave.....turn your back and take a long slow walk without ever looking back.🤷🏼‍♀️👍🏽

Amen!!!! 🙌🙌🙌

Cheeks Cheeks I say the same thing. What would I look like fighting over a man? A man that cares about the person their with wouldn’t put a woman in that position in the first place🙄

LaVette you’re so right with that comment. When I was young - mid to late teenager young - my friends would be speaking to me about their guy cheating with x, y & z and how they were gonna kick their ass....and even at 14yrs old I would ask them why! WHY fight with a female over a guy and they would say “but they new he wasn’t single, they knew he was with me”, and my response even at such a young age was “but your guy also knew he was with you, the only difference is that ‘your guy’ is the only one out of the two of them that knew how he ‘allegedly’ felt about you. It was him who would tell you he loved you and how much he claimed to loved you and it was him who felt it, not her - the other female be it x, y or z....they didn’t feel his feelings for you and even if they were told or were around and saw him cuddling you, showing you & telling you he loved you etc....they didn’t feel any of those deep feelings that he claimed he felt for you’, so in being the one person who knows how much they love you because they’re in the relationship with you, it’s him who’s ass you should be kicking if you’re even considering doing anything other than taking a long slow casual walk so he gets a good chance to watch the best thing he ever had walk right out of his life, then it should be his ass....not hers! He knew his feelings for you and yours for him.....she didn’t so ultimately, as wrong, badly and disrespectfully they have both treated you....he’s the one who knows how much it will effect you and if he had any love for you he would never want to make a fool out of you, disrespect you or hurt you in the way he has. That’s my ‘truth’, my ‘belief’ and my ‘understanding’ of what it means to be in a relationship, so no matter how hurt I’ve been, I’ve simply just very calmly held my head high walked away and never listened or looked back, because I know my worth....I know the person I am and what I bring to the table in a relationship and although I don’t brag about it I do make sure that when going in to a relationship there are some fundamental ground rules before I will even think of getting seriously involved and the first is Equality of Respect - ‘ as much respect as I have for myself I will always give him and there is a clear expectation that it will be returned. I also need to know within my own mind that the guy has a high level of respect and love for himself because if he doesn’t then how can he possibly give those things to me. Also communication is key, without communication, be it deep and meaningful or simply letting me know what time he’ll be home or me calling to let him know I’m running late as I got held up at work - that’s basic respect so without that most basic level of communication what do we have 🤷🏼‍♀️ Nothing and therefore he is not worth any of my time or effort.💛🙏💛

Jess Pera Exactly

Yes like a two year old

But he gets to act like a child? Why?

Why can't he be the mature one?

@@vanaphill2454 acting like a child is not the prize preserving ur dignity and self respect as the queen that u are is the prize

TARLEASE02 maybe you don’t know what their husbands do you them behind closed doors

@@foreverolly8864 I do. They don't do anything like what I think you're implying. My sisters are very transparent with me and have genuinely nice husbands. So it's not that, rather it's their personality.

They’re with insecure men, thats all. A respectable man that loves himself won’t allow anyone to disrespect him in private or public, especially the women they’re with.

True

Cheating is his fault not urs. No matter how u treat someone you dont cheat! You leave! Dont take that guilt only take fault for rhe things you've done !

AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JUNE2021

AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JUNE2021

"Look here," and "You here me?" I love it!

Hi tiff👋❤

loveinautumn 39 heyyyy

A word

@ Stacey- 2-edge sword really. Every one is quick to say this about Queen Vashti. Research shows it was against ancient customs for a Queen to perform a dance act. King was drunk & wanted to show off. But it was for God's glory in the end 😔

The Queen is not a dog to be called in front of his friends when he feels like it. She could be busy.

She said that to say to men have fragile egos not what y’all are talking about

I thought only ladies watch TGs videos :)

@Alicia Hope Alexander Amen Queen🙏👑

I cursed my boyfriend last night for the first time in 3 years. He told me to leave, was in disbelieve and he left. Today we spoke and he said he only asks for respect and clear communication. This is the reason I am here

@@simnikiwemajiki8265 That's great you two were able to come back together and work through this issue. When a man feels disrespected his wall of defense goes up, and many times doesn't come down.

Right

It took me a long time to realize that goes for all relationships. I will come out of my boots on behalf of children if I have to. But then I found that I can find another way 99.99 x out of 100!

Blessed Brown Beautiful 𝚈𝚘𝚞 𝚊𝚛𝚎 𝚜𝚘 𝚛𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝! 𝙸 𝚜𝚑𝚊𝚛𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚢 𝚎𝚡𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚢𝚘𝚞. 𝙸𝚟𝚎 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚗𝚎𝚜𝚜𝚎𝚍 𝙷𝙾𝚁𝚁𝙸𝙱𝙻𝙴 𝚎𝚡𝚊𝚖𝚙𝚕𝚎𝚜 𝚘𝚏 𝚛𝚎𝚕𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜𝚑𝚒𝚙𝚜 𝚊𝚕𝚕 𝚘𝚏 𝚖𝚢 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚖𝚊𝚍𝚎 𝚖𝚎 𝚏𝚎𝚎𝚕 𝚕𝚒𝚔𝚎 𝚘𝚝 𝚠𝚊𝚜 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚗𝚘𝚛𝚖. 𝙽𝚘𝚠 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝙸 𝚔𝚗𝚘𝚠 𝚋𝚎𝚝𝚝𝚎𝚛, 𝙸𝚖 𝚜𝚝𝚛𝚒𝚟𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚘 𝚍𝚘/𝚋𝚎 𝚋𝚎𝚝𝚝𝚎𝚛! 𝙱𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚌𝚢𝚌𝚕𝚎 𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚛𝚝𝚜 𝚑𝚎𝚛𝚎!

I realized that about myself too!! It's hard work to change those toxic habits that I grew seeing the women in my life have.

Nicole Smith Exactly but it is up to us to break the cycle. We got this. Step one acknowledgment. May GOD Bless and I wish you the best❤️🙏🏾

I know and the sad thing is they say how much they love us but just using us, cause love would not want to hurt us.

Yes!! I love his saying that character is your currency! ❤️

Lol this video makes me laugh....the way you impersonate the woman on the fone...lol have seen this kinda of woman on fone ha ha but I wonder if the guy had done something gueniually untrustworthy...? How could you build up the trust...I mean what if you guy had been chatting to an ex. Would you class this as cheating...?

Caramel Kissez I want to commend you for what you do on the lives streams. May God’s blessings continue to overtake you.

@@motherp5291 Thanks 🧡 I appreciate you as well for supporting the Gaskins family being in the tribe. God bless you🙏🏽🙏🏽

Happy Wednesday to u also

You know what baffles me. When these women fight over these men they say with the man. While he stays with the other women.

Right