A Woman's Guide To Attracting Women | Kezia Noble | Modern Wisdom Podcast 206 

Men giving dating advice is not as good as women because its the women that men are trying to understand. Unfortunately too many man are using manipulations to pick up women which is not good long term.

I think, I could hear your voice go a bit lower, when she had said hello, and you replyed the same.. Men seem to do that automaticly, if a beautiful women greets them in a very open way.. Just saying - I might be wrong..

"A Woman's Guide To Attracting Women" Useful to lesbians - and guys who picked the right wife.

“We can get as crass as you want on this show.” …………………….

Chris, mathew hussey is your man for a ladies coach

Boys do this too, yes it just shows you they are ugly inside and have no confidence so have to put down others. As a fellow girl if any girl puts down my nephews ill be telling them go for the jugglier gloves are off. Not hitting but a good who the fuck do you think you are kinda slap.

Rule # 1 [in all of life, relationships, etc]: EVERYthing is information. When you look at things in that perspective, even the bad things help you avoid further misery. People will reject you then wonder why you don't come around anymore, and complain that you're "taking your toys and leaving the sandbox" or some other butthurt reaction, because they need people to reject in order to be the one's on top of the social game. Without an audience, how can they be popular? Without the unpopular people hanging around hoping for some respect, being popular loses it's meaning and fun. Women rely on the guys they reject to boost their egos and make them feel entitled to something better. And the more guys grovel and give them attention, the more they feel they deserve, and start rejecting the only opportunities they'll ever really have for something more than a 1 night stand. So these women who men use for sex, are telling themselves that just because a popular/desirable guy slept with them, then they must be good enough to have a chance to snag a guy like that into marriage. They're fooling themselves of course, because their ego is too easy to inflate with false, short lived attention.

@@emilyb5278 the world needs more women like you who call out other women on that kind of behaviour.

With age, women also become more mature, and I find that there is a lot less of this kind of cruelty. It is true that single women 30+, often are less self-confident. Being in a good marriage is better than having 2 plants and a cat!

I wonder how many attractive men have screwed them over by now, and whether they are changing their minds on what is important.

@@PBNIP Is that not exactly what he said?

And that's why Kezia locked down a man and had a kid before she hit the wall. she's approaching 40. She been doing this since the days of mystery method, the game and lovesystems early late 90s to early 2000s. not a fan of her pua advice, but still she gave her contribution to the community.

@@PBNIP this isn’t true, it depends on the man, some want a partner with similar lifestyle, meaning similar work, similar income so they can have a partnership versus man is sole bread winner, it all depends on the man.

@@PBNIP That's not true. Many professional men marry laterally . Both work during the marriage.

@@PBNIP I think if you go out with someone who is not financially stable your going to get used for stability. That's why both should be financially stable, the only time I'd say yes it's preferred to be with a man who can earn a sustainable living not a millionaire but can afford the basics is when you have a baby becausevits nice to be able to concentrate on being a mum while they are young but I think nobody normal cares if you are rich but more like normal things like own your own home or rent, own a car. I'd say men want that too but only when you get to a certain age.

Doesn't help when men flirting gets them slapped with sexual harassment claims and job losses...

Gillette is for betas. City cuckboys. Women are still women. And boy, are they thirsty. Almost more so than before because now there's all this repression of attraction and the game. And interests and so on. And all that shit is going to come exploding out. No matter the culture war. Women still want a highly ranked man. Socially I mean amongst her and his peers. The alpha. Lol thirst traps are a thing. Most women want to be approached. Politely and endeared. It's fun knowing your attractive in a playfully flirty way. Especially if your single just catch someone's eye band wave. Or blow a women a kiss and watch her blush . Even when you have absolutley no chance of ever seeing her again sometimes just letting someone know " hey I seen you" can make someone's days.

The ones with good advice are often the ones with a lot of problems themselfes.

^ Yes.

You need to change "progressives" with "women". Don't be scared, we will back you up. "Progressives" is a cop out. Most progressives just want billionaires to pay their taxes.

Remember the shit storm against Leonardo DiCaprio, because break up with girl until 25.

Pick up artist Tom Torero openly said he likes younger women and a Womanist writer for Newsweek wrote a hitpiece on him saying he ''lures'' women into his home when all he does is use attraction and seduction. Tom was an OG when it came to picking up girls in London in the 00's. He ended his life after that article because his social media, bank account etc were all blocked. RIP Tom

​@@ytano5782 yes, but what happened to him? And is he still dating ripe young lasses? Yes. I agree the backlash is stupid, but it didn't have any effects

@@ytano5782 He’s still dating 18 yr olds

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Fantastic insight. Thank you

@@ChrisWillx Thanks. I hope there is a female dating coach out there you can interview. I'd love to hear her experience. Especially how she incorporates developing personality and interests beyond ascetic appeal with her clients. Id love to hear how the coach would challenge women to become better person or to be more interesting. Because as this guest seemed to implied its all on the men to have great conversation, but i know far more boring women then I do men, unless you consider gossip and pop culture interesting. (Which I don't). So I think its just as much on women to meet men half way in conversation as it is for men. As the late great Patrice O'Neil said: "Men only wants sex from you ladies, if thats all you gave to offer." So ladies, have more to offer if you want to keep a quality man around. I often tell both men and women if you want someone to take interest in you BE interesting. Have hobbies, go on adventures, have stories to tell. An ideal match is someone you meet along the way with common interest, NOT someone that you hunt for or hunts for you. Aka, bars, clubs, and apps. Love the channel, I try to catch every podcast. Cheers.

Leave it with me brotha

yeah #3 , The 80/20 rule is true. 80% of women are chasing the top 20% of men. Eventually the lower 80% start getting frustrated and either start hating women or just give up.

Yep. Women consistently rate 80% of men as being below average in attractiveness. Their expectations in dating are not really based in reality. When I've said this to girls they usually either deny it's true or say that women having such high standards is a positive thing.

Fair point …”you try that yourself and let us know how it goes”…at Kezia’s expense. Fair point but slightly beside THE point. THE point might be something else. Question, does a male consultant surgeon obstetrician/ gynaecologist have any useful advice for women on the subject of pregnancy? I wanna say “yes”. Some of that advice might be “passing a human baby’s head through your birth canal is going to HURT badly.” THE point ( I suggest) is…Is Kezia’s observation/advice useful/informative? Another question…is it good or bad news? Is it news at all?

@@actionflower6706 That's kind of what I'm saying. I'm disagreeing that it's useful, because I've tried it and all it did was tank my self-esteem and what little confidence I had into oblivion. Going off of your example that'd be like the gynaecologist giving shitty advice (I can't think of a good one because my knowledge on the subject is very limited). Also, medical knowledge may not be as good of an example because it has many decades of reasearch behind it, this does not. Another point here is that your example is gender limited, my example is not: she can literelly test her own theory if she wanted to - but she didn't, which a gynaecologist cannot. I don't understand the last question, could you clarify please?

@@Vladimyrful Let’s see if I can indeed clarify the last question Vladimyr. Question was “ is this ( what Kezia’s saying) news?” . Rephrase that: - “You kinda know what she is saying is true already eh?” Here’s a list of things that we all know, but are too polite to say most of the time 1) Sxxxt stinks. 2) Root canal surgery fxxxxxg sucks ass 3) Talking to women is ( usually) like talking to children or a hostile captive audience ( name, rank, serial number, I am strong and independent, need men like fish bicycles, am a victim of patriarchal tyranny, the sun shines out my ass, etc etc etc please go ahead and eat this bucket load of sxxxt coming out my mouth). Does that ring any bells? You know this already. It is standard stuff. It is instinctive defensive posture stuff. It is NORMAL. It cannot be any other way. All women do that all the time because they have to. Get USED to it. Get NUMB to it. Get BORED of it. The halfway intelligent ones are bored of it too. The ones who really enjoy that stuff for its own sake vs the ones who want to move on to talking some sense? There is the difference to look for. Am I any good at it? Oh HELL no. I am just too old ( and married) enough not to have to deal with it as much as you. Do not fix your self esteem to this stuff. Fix your self esteem to ANYTHING you can get to work on that does not require permission from women.

Yeah penthouse level models (go look at her lingerie photoshoot pics) really don't have a hard time with rejection. The most rejection they'll get is from men saying "I shouldn't be talking to someone like you, my wife will kill me". This is a general trend with women and it's not limited to dating. They espouse a bunch of social niceties or "good ideas" without understanding the cost of what was required to come to those results. You see it in dating, social policies, sporting rules, immigration, etc. Any set of rules bounded in reality where someone else is paying the cost of what is required for the nice desired outcome. I'd go so far as to say it's the main defining principle for modern feminism. FEELS BEFORE REALS

Lol I am comfortably numb. Rejection is like a body check to get you back into the game. The less you care. The more you win It is a fact. Just overcoming rejection psychologically positions you in the top 20% of Chad's. The elites. I always had success. And failure. And every failure I literally replayed the conversation in mind with my wingman. Word for word. What went wrong. How to we overcome this. What would've worked better. Why did she say that. How was she positioned. Etc etc etc. Alot if initial rejection is just a test. Girls do want to be chased. In a sense. Work harder. I used to always take down the biggest bitch of the group. Have her eating out of my hand. And my boys would come in and swoop up the hens. Lol disarm her. My own wife rejected me. I gave her my number, told her to call me sometime. She never did! I had to pursue her. Now we're happily married 12 years. This idea that any rejection is a challenge just means she wants you to work harder. This is all within reason obviously. But once you start to understand women and how they operate you can rationally come to those conclusions in real time. Rejection on the terms of certain context is obviously legit rejection. Sometimes though it's an invitation.

Luck 🧬 environment too complicated, the only obvious thing in this conversation was the make up and weapons!

Not really true in my experience. I've hooked up with women when I was unemployed and going nowhere in life. To be honest I probably had more sex during those times because I didn't have a job lol.

@@jimbosavage Honest question, where you more or less happy when you were unemployed, going nowhere in life but having more sex?

It's not a question of whether or not it's possible for unemployed "losers" to get with women. @nickblood7080 is just saying it's EASIER when your life has more going for it.

@@Chris-ki2dx Jimbo has it bang on tbh, for all this hypergamy rubbish that I really do not think exists as if its a law. I met my current woman when had no job and was loving my freedom. I had a cheque from a company and spent 3 months enjoying my new found freedom, it was like a life reset from the turmoil that I was going through. Those 3 months of being a nobody so to speak, made my life I have now. I remember the sense of freedom I had... only problem was the money slowly diminishing. I am working hard to get that feeling euphoria of freedom back and who knows where that takes me

Dating coaches, not relationship coaches. For a reason. On a more serious note, relationship "coach" would be divorce lawyers, most likely. (coupled with therapy; solo or couple)

Would you really want dating advice from someone who's been married for 20 years and hasn't dated since before smartphones existed?

Rollo is married .

He can't give dating advice he's married. He can't give dating advice he's single.

Good point. There are happily married men with excellent dating/flirting skills. You see, you should never stop dating your wife and always be ready for dating (staying in shape, maintain attractiveness, etc. ).

​@John Branoc No worries man, it was a nice read. Even as a 35 year old I don't have much experience to share besides the fact being 5"6 sucks when it comes to dating (that's if you're only focused on appearances)...but you know what? plenty of women don't care about that(I mean reasonable women not the ones you find on tinder), also all the women that rejected me throughout my life have encountered their own issues so I'm totally cool with it now! XD All jokes aside stay strong buddy and never give up, no retreat, no surrender! ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dQ4XHW5Q4gU.html

Never give up.

I've been on both sides of the coin. Awkward and weird when younger and then became a super fit womanizer in my 20s, right around the time Tinder came into popularity. I've seen how women both operate and taught to behave regarding sex and relationships and it eventually became so off putting for me that I abandoned the dating scene entirely and became hyper selective about the types of women I would talk to. Young men are now not only having to deal with the issues of the risks of approach but also have to compete with the fact that women have endless options and constant male validation 24/7 in their pocket through dating app. If a guy doesn't fit the bill of "perfect bf material" or "sexy chad I'm gonna have fun with", then he's essentially invisible. That means all the personal quality, skillsets and other non looks/money based qualities get immediately diminished. Masculinity is essentially shit on by modern society but is conversely rewarded sexually by women, which of course is a contradiction most young men pick up on immediately once they start dating. All of the primary attraction characteristics listed by women are high testosterone signals in terms of behavior and morphology. So having society and these useless dating gurus teach men a whole series of counter productive behaviors both in terms of attraction and relationship management is a goddamn travesty. There's a reason women only swipe right on 4.5% of men on dating apps based on the data, marriage rates are around 6% (30 couples per 1000 people) and the rates of male virginity are continuing to climb.

That's an easy rationalization to put the blame on women instead of yourself, giving you an easy way out not to work on yourself.

@@SebastiaanVaz I'm not against self improvement; at least when done for one's own sake. I'm against women reaping the rewards of that self improvement when they never gave any support to or interest in improving themselves alongside the guy and his personal journey.

Women do deserve to reap the rewards of that. That's the point. If a Women can convince you to work harder. Be better. Get smarter. That is wife material. This is caveman lizard brain shit. We're not equal in these terms. The risk is all in her court. There's no equality in dating and it shouldn't be.

@@mrmorhouse for a person accusing me of lizard brain intellect you don't seem to pay any attention to my actual comments. I'm not against supportive housewives or partners; I'm against golddiggers abusing a man's efforts in gaining self improvement or wealth without contributing any actual support.

" It seems like women today have this visceral reaction of disgust to a man making the effort to talk with them let alone date them." The Tinder stat was dropped in the very video you are commenting on. The vast majority of women find the minority of men attractive. 80/20 rule, where 80% of women are attracted to 20% of men. This is what happens when there is no social pressure on men and women to couple up. MTGOW and decentralised, cryptographically secure and anonymous currency are the way out I think.

That is not true, just improve your looks to increase odds, thats simple. Everyone is nice and educated but not everyone is sexualy attractive.

I don't think that's an equivalent Something like women mirroring mens behaviour to become "one of the bros" seems on par with that kind of manipulation, just because in my experience that sort of thing co-insides with personality issues, disorders and polygamy

"women tend to be more socially sophisticated than men" Women demand men treat women in specific ways. Women are critical of men who don't master the plethora of rules and expectations of women. The reverse is not true. Men don't demand that women conform their behavior to men's desires and expectations. In the end, women do not have to learn what men desire. But men who want to be with a woman must study and master what women expect of men. This does not mean women are more sophisticated than men. It just means women are selfish, entitled, demanding, primadonnas.

@@GuidetteExpert blue pill

That's because it is an ideological attack on womens' psychology. Gender warfare targets women victims and feminists in order to weaponize them against their own country and its birth rates.

Beauty doesn’t guarantee marriage…. So being attractive doesn’t guarantee a man is going to fall in love with you and marry you. Which means a women requires more than beauty to live a happily ever after. Beauty requires time, effort, maintenance and money to a certain extent. And in addition to that a women has to play it right to get what she wants. So women have it much harder than men, only if they understood. An attractive man is just for one thing …. He’s just good to look at, but a man with good character and is financially responsible, easy on the eyes are the ones women desire as a partner.

@@nour1949 Beauty is certainly a big plus for a woman. If she is simply beautiful and cooperative, she can get a high value male to commit to her. It's not rocket science. Men need to show results, women just need to show up.

@@saurabhm383 yes but how do you maintain the relationship to the duration where you can benefit from the results….

@@nour1949 The only benefit a man can seek from a woman is she bares his children. If he has no interest in fatherhood, a wife is of no use to him. Sex is easily available and there is no need to commit to a woman.

I think it's about compromise I had a nice relationship with a man but he'd been married and told me he'd do what he wanted as I think he was a bit mothered by his ex. I was fine as I have my own interests but it got to be just what he wanted. We'd do only things he wanted and unfortunately I found it to be selfish so it ended which is a shame as if he'd been more compromising it would be still going

It's a good strategy if you have hobbies that have a fair percentage of women. I've always been more into video games, tabletop games, CCGs and the like and, while it's not like there are zero women that are into that stuff, there are few enough of them that every one is constantly surrounded by simps catering to their every whim, which makes it difficult to approach them.

@@chriswhinery925 yeah gamer girls are a no unfortuneatly since it would be awesome

@Hugh Mongous I think some of her advise is OK. But I honestly laugh at anyone calling themselves a relationship expert its like a fake job like a life coach. She made good points but she also dates 18yrold so I think she may have some control issues. As a older woman I want a older man my age because its very easy to manipulate a young person and I'm not sure I'd go to a so called relationship expert who says she exclusively dates nieve boys.

@@emilyb5278 well can it be only kinky? Does it have to say something about her character that she dates younger men? Genuinely asking. Also I like what the guy before you said. When learning the truth we have to see the truth of things. This is a fish teaching you how to fish lmao. You know it’s true. Her points are valid about demonstrating high value traits but if you’re caught dead actually ‘doing’ that like on purpose you look like a bitch.

@@danfontaine8179 I think if you say you only date very young men or women and your alot older there is a reason your dating only very young and I don't care what you do, some people do better having someone older but i still think if they are very young there maybe a control element you like. At 40 what would you have in common with an 18year old apart from sex but it's upto to the person but I'm not going to listen to a self appointed life coach who dates that young .

I feel you my man. I don´t mean to sound preachy but go hit the gym. As soon as you meet one of your friends (or even just a person you know) after a while and he/she says "you have been lifting right?" you will start to see the light at the end of the tunnel. It will asure your that your actions DO matter and CAN change how people view you and behave towards you. Just that one comment makes it worthwhile and fuels you for years to come. At least it did for me. Cheers

That IS the definition of insanity which is why you're supposed to change the variables. Either with yourself or with the women you are choosing. Change where you meet them, talk about different topics. Stop repeating the same approach. Experiment with different ideas until you find that something improves.

@@sr7893 I did change I stopped trying all together

@@jindrichstercl2389 This is really the only solution. You gotta work out, eat right, sleep well. First for yourself before anyone else.

​@gordonbecker1456 "I CANT BREED" lmao, probably for the better. History is written by the bold and not the cowards who quit.

Couldn’t agree more, it’s like a game of minesweeper. Being both funny and charming come from walking on the edge of being inappropriate. It’s an art to feel out where that edge is - and where changes for each woman. Safest bet is to feel it out slowly and gauge her response; a controversial joke or something not aimed directly at her. If she’s going to knowingly and unjustifiably play the harassment card then she’s psychologically unfit to even be around. It’s all eggshells and melodrama. Just pray you can catch on to it early and then let her drown in the vanilla of her life.

Because you are being logical. Woman imagine this ultimate fantasy with no consequences for a bad outcome. When men do that they become sex offenders.

I thought Shawshank was a good movie lol

I would not shame anyone for naming The Shawshank Redemption as their favorite film, but I might question their sincerity if they can't explain coherently why it is their favorite film.

We are all the same. I found that in my mid 30s, there was still plenty of single women. At that the women are more mature as well, and the "game" becomes less harsh. Very often single women are much less self-confident in their 30s, as men are more interested in the younger competition. My advice is to look for a woman who wants to marry and start a family. Life becomes suddenly very meaningful and real 🙂

@@vickingvicbubble8042 some good advice there

I imagine them as gay guys stuck in women’s bodies. Absolute turn off. Helps alleviate the desire!

Only problem is now you're not attracted to them 😂

Yes, women are human lol 🤦🏾‍♀️🤣

I didn’t understand what you just said.

I did the same in business meetings. I imagined everybody as a chimp 🐒🐵

Couldn’t disagree more. Confidence in yourself, holding meaningful conversation while keeping it light, funny and genuine… after 8 years of marriage, my wife and I continue to work on these things with each other… especially as stakes get higher and problems get tougher. I’d argue it’s even more common to start putting on a filter with the person you’ve been in a relationship with for a long time. These skills and practices never lose their importance in a relationship.

Bro, it sounds like you need some deliberate exposure

I can only be me. I believe this is called being your own mental point if origin. If someone does not like it or does not like me I have no problem with that.

@Lewis Wood I actually been "contemplating" on "why not just be evil?" If you're "evil" , you could easily get money and power, and therefore get sex. But the only answer other ppl reply with is "plz don't be evil, me and my family exist" , which means people care more about themselves than their fellow man "failing" in some extent. Just a bad penny for thought. Yes I'll always choose to do good. "Do good for goodness sake", but if most men's "motivation" is "for their family" , and a lot of men aren't having families, what purpose or drive do most men have if they don't have a family? We are slowly increasing the odds of "bad things happening" with this social predicament in our society not being looked or cared for seriously enough.

I you are living in the UK and your social status isnt very high, do not approach English women, they will immediately be able to sniff your value and social status in the hierachy, even if they do it unconsciously, they dont care about connection, love or romance, just your social status, your height, whether you look like a male fitness model and your bank balance, thats it.

Same ! 🤣

I’m assuming what you know is grim and dark and negative. Why would you want to confirm and enhance such beliefs?

I’m 33, my advice. Don’t rush. Get to know yourself and what you want. Travel and invest in yourself. Become the best version of yourself mentally, physically and financially. Put the odds in your favour. All the best pal

So... good advice?

Well, it's not wrong...

Well done Sherlock.

From millennia ago: 1 My son, pay attention to my wisdom; listen carefully to my wise counsel. 2 Then you will show discernment, and your lips will express what you've learned. 3 For the lips of an immoral woman are as sweet as honey, and her mouth is smoother than oil. 4 But in the end she is as bitter as poison, as dangerous as a double-edged sword. 5 Her feet go down to death; her steps lead straight to the grave.

News just in. Bingo

Agreed, but that's not what she's doing. If we think this way then every type of coach should educate people on every aspect of life - PTs, dating coaches, confidence coaches, etc. It's all interconnected. And to a degree caches should be able to identify those areas that are most lacking, but it's not their job to coach and educate on all these aspects, it's pretty much impossible to do (properly) for one person or a "system".

Man i felt this.

Thats what a therapist/psychologist is for my guy. If you have health insurance you need to find one asap

Let me take a guess........it comes at a price?

@@beaterbikechannel2538 It comes with practice. Spoken of another way: exposure therapy.

Pre-selection

Nah. You just say, "I know."

And she says things like "blind leading the blind"...

It's also the prospect of being rejected by a girl and knowing you aren't able to pass on your genetics.

What's ironic is that's exactly what is taught to men in the manosphere and pick up artists alike. Outcome independence is the term they like to use and it's actually a very useful skillset to develop. I've actually had women change their minds after the fact because I'd ask them out, they'd shoot me down but I'd just keep on talking or go about my business at the party. It would throw them off, especially once you start getting positive feedback from other women. Dating for men is kind of like calculating a batting average in baseball. Even if you're only hit 25% of the swings, over time that produces impressive results. I used to get asked all the time "How the hell do you always have women around, gfs, friends with benefits,...". They only see the women with me, they didn't see the other 30 times I got shot down that month, got stood up, ghosted, etc.

She is from the wrong Era and wouldn't want to discuss online dating. The world has changed and since I have moved a lot I spend my time online with friends rather than on physical locations (saves massive money and time). I am one of those people who are very shy at first and get wild once I'm comfortable. This is I don't become comfortable with everyone. To me, a women has to give me a hint she's intrested and I will approach, mindlessly approaching and asking every women isn't right. The thing most women don't get is the guy who is upfront, especially at a bar or a club, does not want a lasting relationship.

@@BOZ_11 Complete dogshit. If you are a man, you're only speaking for yourself

women too proud to admit when they are wrong. 40+ year old women and 50% of them single is a disgusting stat to think about when half of them have kids and need a father.

@@viralt487 What you wrote is true. Feminism fought for women's rights. Great stuff in the 70s, but today more and more rights come at the expense of children, and increasingly men as well. Feminism did not know when to stop and many countries in the North of Europe are best described as Matriarchal today, and not egalitarian and it's a shame really...

@@vickingvicbubble8042exactly

Women are more tolerant of cheating than men are. Women rather take that risk and share a high value man than settle for a lower value man. I think this tolerance of cheating and sharing also is why it seems women have more bisexual tendencies than men do. They had to sexually share their man with other women throughout history

Such fear is not carved in stone! Just think about what could possibly be the worst case scenario. Learn to minimize emotional costs. Like: You don't freak out about spam and delete your email account altogether, you just delete the spam with no hard feelings and go on.

That sounds wonderful & pleasurable if you’re more into getting laid than getting married nor having a long-term relationship.

That is legit psychopathy and cruelty. She enjoys crushing young men, and somehow thinks she should be praised for her cruelty. And then "legit" first wave feminists don't understand why more and more people believe that Feminism is a crass, selfish, entitled and hateful movement.

@@vickingvicbubble8042 honestly that’s no different than physically abusive men who preys on weaker women.

Maby because you have had too many? If you only had one lets say, it would be more special. pair bonding issues in these situations are common in people. Not a fact, but something I heard.

@@Enrij the only thing I would say to a young version of myself is concentrate on establishing yourself in terms of career, home and self esteem develop into what you are interested my early 20s I spent with vapid vain people in clubs who didn't really care about me, I found out by pursuing my interests that I was far more deeper and intellectual and made new friends and started my own path but it took me a long time to stop worrying about what others thought. In terms of relationships I'd say don't waste your time with one night stands and focus on building healthy relationships to learn more and be able to have long term relationship rather than being selfish and running away from them because you have to learn how to be in one it doesn't come naturally. I'd have less sexual partners as it often leads to feeling empty even tho I don't regret exploring my bi side tho I would not want another relationship with a woman it taught me how to priorities my pleasure when being intimate. Also ditch the porn as it ruins intimacy.

@BPJ I don't think I was privileged no I think its about going out and enjoying life without needing a gf. I'm not saying back when I dated women I was not attractive but I was never like really hot but I had alot of personality and I could make people laugh and I was fun and prob faked being more confident than I actually was but I still got the odd dirty look off a girl and things like that. I think anyone can convince themselves that it's too hard to attract someone and you have to be really good looking but I don't think that's the case , obviously no one wants someone who down on themselves and negative.

@BPJ and I never pulled everyone I liked I just got involved in conversation and usually you'd get someone who liked you but certainly not everyone. I got rejected but I always thought they don't know me I don't know them so it's not a big deal. But I also think things like reading having something to engage someone with is important. I can talk about alot of subjects and I'm not super intelligent but I can add to a conversation and that's important too. It's really not about looks for most women , it's about sex appeal but you don't have to be a Chad or whatever unless you want someone who looks like a model then you might have to be more Chad like but most women even good looking women prefer good banter and humour and someone who has interests.

@BPJ if you really are struggling getting a girlfriend I know women love authority figures like police or fireman or army, if you really struggle join something like this and put the uniform on and you'll have no trouble meeting a girl. Or be in a band lol or box all these type of jobs attract women because we like authority and men with power and status. I don't mean being a millionaire I mean doing jobs like a mechanic plumber ,all these are hot to most women.

Kezia is great. I bet many women do not like what she is saying lol

That’s who I’m trying to contact!

You can do it! Just look at how your subscribernumber has grown since this spring@@ChrisWillx

1. What women say they want is never what they respond to. 2. Women don’t know what they want that’s why men have to lead lol!

His a grifter. Blaming men to 99% female sub base for easy cash

Yup, I enjoy Matthew Hussey’s content! He’s always spot on with his insight. I hope to see him and Chris have a chat soon!

Women would claim that they make the bigger effort because they have to do more to be good looking.

@@0MoTheG a few hours to look good temporarily, while men have to work physically and/or mentally hard their entire lives to get/keep her.

@@SoloRenegade By the age of 40 few women have much to offer. She can't leave for another man by then.

@@0MoTheG few women have much to offer by 25 these days. Women leave men after age 40 all the time.

Yeah she was not on his level. At all.

When she said men love to chase and a girl to play hard to get she lost all credibility. It went into negative when she talked about picking up men under 18 because "they love it"

Only men who make money selling dating advice say that, lol. Women are typical better communicators. Plus, doesn't it make sense to find out what women want so you can deliver it? Like doing market research in business Plus, you don't need to appeal to all women, we each have unique needs and tastes. Just befriend and ask the women you like and learn to meet her emotional needs.

@@ethan4879 Only simps chase women, men pursue them

@@melindawolfUS Women don't know what they want. As usual your advice is garbage and will lead to failure. And 'befriending' a women to get sex/form a relationship is also somehow considered creepy by feminists - not the reason I disagree with it. It's just a wuss method to come through.

@@ethan4879 Plenty of young men would happily spend a few nights with an older woman like Kezia Noble (if she's attractive), but she's definitely wrong about men enjoying the chase.

You're really only attracting a certain "kind" of person from these places, and I would say if you're looking for a long and committed relationship you're not going to find it there.

You are putting “meaningful conversations” on a pedestal as if its the end all be all, and clearly superior to all other forms of interactions. Don’t get me wrong, there is a time and place for it, bit its not at a club or bar when people are trying to enjoy themselves. Don’t use it as an excuse to not develop the skills of playfulness and increasing social energy.

​@@dominicvaldes5890there is nearly no room for that in a bar or club. People just go there to bang

Boom

You do :) She has insights no man can have

Not a good analogy unless you want to trick and harm a woman.

Amen

If you learned the skill and actually got good with women, you'd know she's spitting truth. Who cares whose mouth it comes out of, as long as it's true.

Most everything she promotes is in line with the top male PUAs, so you can be pretty confident it's solid info. She's actually pretty red pilled for a woman when it comes to dating, but a lot of guys reflexively shit on her because she's a woman and shows off her tits, even though the advice is generally solid for 95% of men.

Agreed, a lot of women act affronted if a man approaches them that isn't up to their 2 second superficial scan of "worthiness". Act like they are being stalked and shit lol

That's not just North American, trust me.

Only if he is not attractive

If he's hot it's flirting, if he's not it's harassment.

This comes back to the Casually Explained principle, "One of the best ways to ensure you're being romantic instead of creepy is to be above a 7."

It doesn't work like that in the 21st century 😂😂😂

@@tesla5297 Social mores may change, but gender dynamics will never change. It's hardwired into our DNA. Buying into 21st century PC mentality is a fool's errand.

Sometimes but not 100% of the time lol

@@ericdoolin6808 Nope, if she wants your interest she will make it known to you. First by subtle hints like body language and subconscious things like curling her hair with her finger, leaning in when you speak, watching your mouth, bumping into you, etc. Then if you're slow on the uptake she will make it more and more obvious until you can't miss it. Some women don't waste time. But, if they're interested you will know it 100% of the time. That's biology, bruh.

Lmaoo

BF be crazy these days. Just for approaching a hot girl with a crazy BF u are fked!

@ponds andlakes now I'm triggered 😂

@GUMMRUCHK Men are willing to pay all kinds of 'dating gurus' for advice

She seems really out of touch. My social interaction is mainly online as I have moved states quite a bit in my teens and early 20s. My job doesn't have me meeting many new people, its like a negative feedback. I hang out online with the bros from all over which saves time and money and still have a good time.

Agreeing with you about working on foundations instead of memorizing lines. I'd rather spend my "study time" on self-growth that happens to enhance my dating prospects AND other parts of my life. Where can I find your book? I don't see it on Amazon.

Absolutely.

Yeah, she definitely gets validation from "seducing" men. Sad.

Coach Corey Wayne IS FANTASTIC ... HE'S UP FRONT & ON THE MONEY ... I LEARNT HEAPS MORE FROM HIM THAN ANY OTHER COACH EXCEPT FOR JOHN ANTHONY LIFESTYLE!

Ditto. Kezia is interesting to listen to... But I think Corey has a tighter handle on the core concepts and can verbalize them concisely.

It’s been a long time since that happened to me.

I get constantly stared at by women I don't even know, unfortunately never got asked out. I am very tall and a very intimidating person in my general demeanor, so that's probably the reason. I can't really help it though I have social anxiety and while I can navigate most social situations, I tend to be very curt and my face always looks like I would tear your head off if you talked to me because being in social situations is just a painful experience lol. I am the complete opposite when actually in conversation, but for that I would have to initiate conversations myself which is hard. :/

@@Broniath Ya had the same problem. They said if looks could kill I’d be in prison. Haha. I’m not tall so maybe I was more approachable. After those relationships broke down I carved out my own life without them.

​@@alelectric2767Yeah, that's what I will have to do, I hope I will get more sociable once I am out of Uni, having the freedom to just sit in my room alone and study has not been kind to me.

I could've written this. I've never approached a woman, any relationship i've had started with her asking.

Just come back in another 10. And bring your beer goggles!

How did she look before?

Exactly! At first, I thought this was a video of her from YEARS ago!

@john Smith She's a woman, bro. They're ALL like that

Yes she looks less tartish

simp

*This* look is "less"? 🤨

3 months later, what do you think about it ?

@@kingofvirtual the book I ordered was called the Noble Art of Seducing women. I'm halfway through the book and I recommend it. Some good insights on conversing with women and asking them out. It's from 2012 so you won't find much about dating apps or online dating inside, but my frustration with those is what persuaded me to try the book so that wasn't much of a negative in my opinion.