ABUSIVE FATHER IN LAW!! 

JesuisHani lol

Ikr 😂

Oh my, you're right 😂😂 I was trying to describe it and you did it perfectly

She looks cross-eyed in the thumbnail. Strange.

Nas Ass Saturday I do the exact same thing LOL

Pattydole70 they shouldn't even bring up the religious card as the women should be protected from vile pieces of shits. I would never let that happen.

ambeaux goddess I would suggest that!!

Now that shes married shes not a kid anymore, and adding her parents to mix will create more chaos and problems. So she has to handle it on her own with her husbands help and take a stand.

that will make it such a big deal and cause conflict

ambeaux goddess I think from the point the lady in the email said 'my family have fulfilled all of the boys families wishes', it's clear the boys family have the upper hand between the two families. The girls family were most probably trying to please the boys side from the point marriage talks started. Even if she tells her dad, her father in law would most probably make it seem as though the girl is at fault and her father would then have nothing to say to back her.

She should go to her husband first, cause if the dad comes in not only would he pissed at her father in law, he'd be furious that her husband did nothing.

i know right

Because that is close to the mail's title and that he's overprotective of his son not of his daughter in law

nams I was thinking the same thing 🤔

they use the title they were sent

nams yes my thoughts exactly

A X agreed

Najma M i love you. Your videos give me life.

Najma M najma ♡ may you have a great day everyday ameen c: and ramadan mubarak c: youre amazing

Modesty Prevails lol smh. Chill.

Peaceful Vibez im chilled don't worry 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

Modesty Prevails nearly dropped my phone when I saw another Q&A? Okay

Sofia Khan I hope you give the same privileges to your son and daughter in law

***** Guess there's 2 sides to everything but it also depends if your lucky enough to have good in laws

UmarH27 If there are benefits to living with the in laws why is it always the man's parents? If it is so great and awesome living with your in laws than if men love it so much why don't they live with their in laws? Why is it the man promoting it but the woman having to do it. The men love it so much then they can do it. But of course no Asian man would ever do that because they force their women to. They are sexist and selfish...so easy to say how great and wonderful living with in laws is...but funny how men would never do it themselves.

Aza Deen okay first, stop being racist. You know it's traditional to do it that way - from the very start.

The2012hungergames - some Traditions are oppressive this is one of them, check the definitive of racism ... In Islam its a womens right to have her own space and not to have to live with in laws, so these stupid traditions should remain with the hindus

Its funny how its only asain girls or girls with asain guys develop an interest in living with laws, she didn't want to be alone? where were you living? fact of the matter is, one a women reaches a certain age, she wants and needs her own space, the need or want may dissipate due to cultural brainwashing or expectations, you can try and convince us otherwise, but living with in laws is seldom rarely a good idea, in islam we are advised to live apart, its one of the rights of a woman, for a good reason, even if she is convinced the latter is better for her, or that she doesn't actually want her own space, Allah has written it in the Quran for a reason, and that should be respected look after your own parents its your responsibility not hers.... she has her own parents, her duty is to them..... as a husband you should give your wife her own space so your family don't annoy her, which is what will happen when your all living under each others noses, religion comes before cultural preference no woman on earth who is not brainwashed wants to live with her in laws, if she has a choice, when you passively oppress your wife by not giving her what Allah ordained expect to be judged negatively she wants to live with my parents she wants to cook for everyone she wants to look after my parents, yeah yeah yeah, she wants to, because your culture dictates to her that is what she should do in order to be considered a 'good wife' yes i know i can't spell asain sue me..............

Asians...

Elena Casablancas he wasn't Asian and neither am I

LOOL

Arya A Same privacy our parents have with us guys around 😂, I do get your point though.

AichaBlueSky you should only forgive him for yourself not for him. So sorry that happened. The man should be ashamed of himself. Maybe in the future, he shouldn't be at events. Good luck

ur husband didnt deserve u x

MultiCupcake111 😢 I'm really sorry. May God give you a solution. He's watching!

New parents lol

MultiCupcake111 I don't think that's what they were saying at all… But I understand you must be frustrated with your situation, have you tried to explain to your parents how you feel? I hope things get better for you soon :-( XX

MultiCupcake111 hopefully your husband (one day) will be more of what you want, and will be happy to move out.

MultiCupcake111 8:29 they say you shouldn't even do that to your own daughter please be careful. before commenting...

alpha fish you can still look after your parents when they get older without living with them the majority of people do?

Iman London I know that but how do they fulfill it when they live seperately

Amyl_ yeah I know but I grew up in Asian household so mostly I have seen joint families but how do they take care of their parents when they live separately?

alpha fish you don't need to live together to look after someone my grandma lives around the corner from me and I still see her all the time when she had a hysterectomy my mum and dad and my uncles and aunties went round every day to help her you don't need to live with someone to be able to help them also I personally wouldn't want to live with my parents for the rest of my life but I will always look after them if they become ill and even when they're not Ill

basically when you marry a woman you have to fulfill her rights too which includes getting her own personal space. your parents have rights on you not her. so you give her, her space and take care of your parents. As people said you don't have to live with them to look after them you can visit them bring them over for some time. you could get them dinner/lunch. help in cleaning on weekends. well you can find many ways to help them if you really want. But living with them is just putting responsibility on your wives shoulder.

Shonagh Eldering everything happens for a reason. Hang in there 😊

ASSASSIN SKILLZ he is over protective of his son, wich leads to him making his son's wife feel like she's not good enough for him. It was an arranged marriage though, but I guess sometimes things can kinda be contradicting... who actually knows what his "reasons" may be