adulting, early 20’s, loneliness, figuring out who you are, finances + more… // GIRL TALK 

I’m 26, and still changing myself and discovering who I am truly. I think there will always be room to grow and figure things out. Trying to figure it all out in your early 20’s is not realistic. Never rush growing up. Cause once you’re older, you’ll regret not letting yourself grow slowly in your younger years. 💕

11:40 ur so right, this is the reason why everyone always says YOU are their comfort youtuber. it’s so comforting seeing someone stick out the same way you do

The more you love your decisions, the less you need others to love your decisions. ♡

This is one of the reasons I love this girl, she is always so transparent and honest, but the thing I love about her, she is NATURAL in everything she said.

love this Lisa! the twenties is scary and I just turned 27 and my fave advice for life right now is to take it EASY we have so much life ahead and twenties is the time to make the mistakes and ASK FOR HELP for the love of God don't worry about pride and ego rn just get the resources and skills you need to build for your future

This is such a good talk for me to hear and I'm 29 years old. I know these things. I've been through a lot. Starting over now again as I just migrated to another country. Timing is everything. Thanks Lisa. 😘

i personally love your soft, quiet and chill vibe. you're my comfort person and make me feel safe. i personally don't always want to be entertained, sometimes i just want to vibe with someone and chill. thank you for being that person i love you lisa :)))

I feel like your 20s is all about growth, whether if its friendships, relationships, or in just in general an everyday routine.

I used to feel super pressured due to the fact that my peers were way ahead with their lives and I on the other side felt like my life’s stagnant but hey big ups to you for instilling that everyone has their time in life ❤️❤️❤️

Also I’m a quiet, shy person still. I’ve always had trouble making friends or talking to ppl. I’m in my early 20s and feel lost and my social life is really not interacting with ppl my age. It’s always been like that since my teens and childhood. I’ve always wanted friends or wanted more company to hang out and feel comfortable. But it’s hard and I’m not like that.

I just turned 21 and this video literally helped me hear what I needed to hear and the fact we have the same perception on how we see life was mind blowing. you're such a comfort person and i've been watching you since highschool and I appreciate your mind so much.

I am going to be 20 soon and I love the fact that I am growing and willing to learn. Becoming self aware, I just have me and I am my own responsibility. I lost a friendship almost 3 months ago and I am realizing that it’s good it happened ,we outgrow people anyway Love you Lisa❤️

I would like to give my advice concerning relationships. For the people who are in relationships, it's okay to feel like it is no longer adding anything to you, it is okay to want to break up without the person having done anything cruel to you. Also, if you are in a relationship and the person has disrepected you in some extreme way such as cheating, as much as you love them, you have to consider that this person truly disrepected you and whether you truly believe they won't do the same in the years to come.

I just wanna be friends with you. The way you see things and talk is so comforting to hear. I’m a 23 yo guy and and have not one single friend. People always take me for granted or treat me shitty and I’m a more introverted person as well so I don’t often come across people with your mindset.

I love insightful videos like this. Thank you so much for this, Lisa❤

this video was just so needed ❤️ im 20, living alone for uni and it for sure gets lonely. makes me feel so much better that i’m not going through it alone. would love to see that vid on things to do living solo 🥰

Yes to prioritizing yourself !!! Love videos like these 🫶🏼

I have watched you for a while and I’ve seen you go through different phases. The growth is tremendous and you made some valid points. Happy to see where you’re at ❤️

I've moved out by the age of 17. It was hard, i spent so much time crying and trying to understand what I wanted to study. After too many Kleenex I decided to wait to another year for starting university. Now I'm trying to focus on myself. If you are worried about moving out and what It will make you feel, don't be:/ Things get better after the mental breakdowns. Moving out with my best friend was my choice. And I LOVE how It went. The time and pleasure to do whatever you want un the moment is so pleasent. I Hope It helps to someone

forreall needed this girl talk!!! this year I am reallyyyy getting to know myself and prioritizing me. And always loved your chill aura💗

the advice you give is amazing and very truthful. thank you for reminding us to focus on ourselves appreciate and treat people with respect. Also not to compare ourselves to others

I really needed this cause I'm trying to navigate my life and this was just a needed video ❤️❤️

This was such a great video I’m turning 28 and this is the same thoughts I’ve learnt over the years It’s also lovely and comforting to see similar types of people in the space and comments here that can relate too Thank you for sending positive energy through this video

Loved this video so much, from the setup making it feel calm/casual to the great advice! 🤍

I really love how intimate this video was and the information you shared. Thank you! I love that you’re on a self care / self love journey. I’m in a space where I’m trying to figure out what my path and journey is and really practice self love for myself. Thank you, I always love your content and it always motivates me to reach my higher self.

This video is so amazing and real. Thank you so much for opening up and being so genuine and authentic. We need more videos like this from youtubers. ❤

Thank you for being authentic 🙏🏽💚 love you Lisa

Love you Lisa! I’m 30 but I can understand where you are coming. You’re so relatable and I’m comfortable w/ what you’re saying & have love for you after keep going

I love your calmness, especially cause there is not so much of it on youtube🤲🏻 be different and embrace it ✨it’s definitely worth it

such a great video, so much big sister energy, tysm for sharing lisa

Thank you Lisa for being you, for being real. I didn’t know how much i needed to see that video and hear you talk about these things. I have watched you for so long and i am so proud of how far you’ve come. Your videos always kind of make me feel motivated and at peace… so thank you 🥹💛

I just got SO excited! About to tune in but just wanted to say thanks for these vids as always. As someone that’s nineteen going on twenty I like the talks you give that are actually genuine and honest❤️

I needed this girl talk so much... you don't get it I love Lisa omw everything she said was exactly what I needed to hear.. 💗💗💗this was top tier comfort

This couldn‘t have come at a better time, your words are so soothing🥺 We’re basically the same age, so I honestly always feel like I‘m listening to a good friend whenever I‘m watching your videos!! Much love to you, hope you are holding up well🤍

so relatable, I needed to hear that. thank you for this

U r a comfortable person! I love that u r so open to us and talk about sensitive things other RU-vidrs wouldn’t, love u xoxo❤️❤️

I absolutely love hearing from another quiet introvert. I just watched 4 videos of your videos in a row 😍 I appreciate you

I loved this so much. It really calmed me down because a lot of the time, I feel so much pressure from all angles so this helped me a lot.

I enjoyed this video so much, you talk more about self love and mental health in your videos these days and it's so heartwarming. love it love it love it!❤️❤️

Love this talk, I’m in my early 20s, working on doing more self care, being a mama of two and a wife sometimes I forget to focus on my mental health. I’m definitely going through a phase of changing my style and finding a balance of all the roles I play, definitely not enough time in the day as you said. ✨❤️thanks for the realistic video!

absolutely loved this one 🥺 crazy growth man ❤️

Lisa, I really appreciate you making this video.

This video resonates with me so much, thank you for posting this 💜 quiet gang over here!

This..was exactly what I just needed..this video is honestly just a breath of fresh air 🫶

i was already on yt and when i saw you posted i clicked so fasttttt. I LOVE your videos, it always makes my day !!

love ur videos so much! u made my day again! ly Lisa

I’m 20, about to turn 21 in October, and wow i really needed to hear this. Such insightful videos keep me motivated about life. Thank you Lisa :)💗

I just discovered your channel and I am obsessed. Love your voice! Keep going girl

omg!!!! lisa i have not watched youtube in like 3 months which i hate because i missed your videos but i'm so glad to be back, love you queen!!!

definitely would love to hear more about spending time with yourself and things you could do on your alone time

Your videos bring me such peace...keep being you girl

i would love to see a video on spending time alone lisa! i think this has come at the right time in my life xx

so honest and unfiltered. love it and love you

I love your girl talk videos so much,you just keep it real and your videos have been so motivating lately. I love it keep it up gurl❤😍

I love you Lisa ❤️❤️ super proud of you 🥺

We’re the same age and I felt everything you said 100%. I’m in a similar place in my mental health journey. These are all the things I tell myself but somehow it always feels better when someone else says it. Thanks, we’re doing great!💕

Love your videos so much Lisa, you're such a beautiful and amazing girl❤ Love how relatable this was.

really enjoyed this .thanks lisa😘

Hey Lisa, I'm a newbie and I love your soothing voice and your therapeutic videos ❤️❤️❤️!! Thank you for making this video, it's definitely needed.

I seriously wanna be your friend. 🥲And yes I agree that being different in your own way, being GENUINE, and being an all around good person is what's most important. Not many people are in tune with their actual selves anymore because they're so busy molding into what they think everyone would appreciate more. Thank you Lisa ❤️

Your transparency ❤>>>>>>>>>>

Im still a teen but this was very insightful and informative. Sending love ❤️❤️

You're so beautiful and you're energy radiates positivity! Newly subscribed and looking forward to the rest of your videos💕

as always, sooo inspiring, calming and close. i personally have felt really identificated with you in this video, and let me thank you your help to normalize all that thoughts... pd: i can ensure you have evolve with the years since ivee been watching you 3 tears now, happy for you btw

I really needed this, Thank you Lisa❤️

all Lisa has to do is open her mouth & I’m sold. Love it ❤️

Yes for the video on alone time! would love to see it ; The girl talk was really helpful and I think you answered my question so thank you

once again perfect way to end my long night😍 love you all the way from south africa Lisa

yay im happy you’ve been posting more 😊

The quality of the video is so nice clear and beautiful ❤️

getting my iced coffee and avocado toast ready to watch your video

Enjoyed every bit of this video. Thank you for this 💕

i just love the way that you think. thanks for these great advices💖💖

omg please do a notion tour video i'm already intrigued

super love your adulting life vlog Lisa! 💖

Lisa is like the bestfriend I have but will never physically have. I Love your chill and calm personality. ❤🤗

Definitely enjoyed this video. 🤍🤍🤍

I just want to say thank you for your time of day and all of the effort it took to film this video i love your vibe and have noticed that from last yr your body and voice does seem lighter I’m currently losing my best friend were in our 20s now and met when we were in middle school thank you for speaking up ab her best friend I’d love and genuinely appreciate if you could talk more about it , you seem like my older sister again thank you . One more thing if you could make the next girl talk while doing your makeup a little long just so i can watch too as I’m doing my makeup too. Thank your soul Lisa and i hope whoever is reading this gets through what they don’t talk about m Uc love from my soul to yours♥️🙏🏼

Queen is back💕💕💕💞💞

I love that your introverted like me😄 makes us feel connected. We're friends basically, I've been following your channel for a long time 💞

What I’ve learned the most is you don’t have to allow toxic family and friends to keep you back. You’re allowed to make decisions for yourself and what’s best for you without feeling guilty about it. I’m living for me and it feels great! Just moved into my first home, in a better space mentally and no longer feel emotionally drained.

im a new subbie and I love your personality, channel, style and vibe. its a good video and im 27 yo. Life is for living and we gotta take it one day at a time 💕

Let me get my snacks ready while I watch this♥️♥️

I enjoyed this video a lot. I'm only 22 so hearing your perspective on things was very nice 😊

Turning 20 soon, and i relate to you so much Lisa!🙊 Specially the ¨friends¨ part. I dont really get to see ¨my¨ small group anymore, cus i recently just moved to a big city to study (im a countryside girl). So now i need to find some new ones, aaand it kinda scares me cus I've always been a shy girl. Its like starting over again, but it feels good when you're been stuck to your hometown forever, it exciting! I really enjoyed watching your video Lisa! Thank you for the tips and talk, it helped 💕💕

I just turned 21 in May and I feel like I’m 25😩 Love your videos babe!

Needed this. Literally felt like a much needed talk with a good sis🤍

I loved this video! really helped.

12:14 omg you have no idea how much i needed to here that right now 😭 honestly love u

I’m 21 and confused Thanks Lisa for this 🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️🧘‍♀️

Such pure energy 😻❤️

enjoyed watching this video i can so relate to most of the topic you spoke about i would really like for you to do another girl talk on SADNESS and Thinking of Moving Out in your 40's

Love you and blu...an inspiration..really look up to and ur personality❤..

I really needed this

Can we please get another girl talk soon, loved this

All I can say is you are right comparison is the thief of joy. Guys if you want to be blessed with more learn to be thankful for what you have now. That's what I learnt turning 25 .

needed this, thanks love

i'm 20, my ex and i have just broken up he always said to me that i didn't have enough friends and that's why he wouldn't make any effort on the weekend with me, i tried telling him i have a small circle and i like it that way bcos that's who i am and he told me that wasn't good enough. watching your video has really helped to see that it is okay and that its his problem not mine. thank you for keeping it real xxx

Defo want to see a video on things to do while living alone plsss❤️

id love to see a video on things you can do when you’re alone 🥺 - i love being alone- but i be bored