Тёмный

Alexander Grace Talks to Wheat Waffles 

Alexander Grace
Подписаться 341 тыс.
Просмотров 119 тыс.
50% 1

Access Exclusive Content: / alexandergrace
List of All Exclusive Videos: / all-my-patreon-37241320
Wheat Waffles: / @wheatwaffles
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
If you would like any advice or to ask me some questions and get a personalized video response, you can do so here: heyhero.com/influencer/alexan...
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
PayPal donations: www.paypal.me/RedPillInterviews
Bitcoin Address: 3Qa2VM9Anx1m3LRFLnnhiqXA4dH44HmFAN
Litecoin Address: MUmwMe9KLBupeU5VANXbG5fKQ1QsAqbrPdEthereum Address:0x676135BDa212Ee6d4eFe3AFB74fd3CFF7F185AdF
Ethereum Address:
0x676135BDa212Ee6d4eFe3AFB74fd3CFF7F185AdF
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Опубликовано:

 

3 июл 2021

Поделиться:

Ссылка:

Скачать:

Готовим ссылку...

Добавить в:

Мой плейлист
Посмотреть позже
Комментарии : 1,8 тыс.   
@alexandergrace5350
@alexandergrace5350 3 года назад
My thoughts about the interview: www.patreon.com/posts/53198568
@zackspicer3481
@zackspicer3481 3 года назад
@@skatetrooper5285 check out purefxrm on IG Then binge marathon this channel
@bbqnpcs5514
@bbqnpcs5514 3 года назад
@@zackspicer3481 IG = F**kerberg = data mining Marxists
@subzeroone5481
@subzeroone5481 3 года назад
Hi Alexander. In minute 29 you discuss the 3 tiers of men's looks. Those 3 tiers also counts for women. So theoretically all men and women should be able to find a partner, at least from same categorie based on looks. And reality proofs, that mostly couples match quit well in their appearance. Why is this not mentioned in the discussion? That should be in my opinion and it would encourage also sub 5 looking men in their dating live to keep going, but always keeping in mind to aim for equal looks of the other gender.
@TheZeroManifested
@TheZeroManifested 3 года назад
Can you do a video on “vibe” or how your attitude for men and women effects your dating life. If you have already I would love the link ☺️
@TheZeroManifested
@TheZeroManifested 3 года назад
@@skatetrooper5285 people love what they haven’t seen before 😉
@40mihirkulkarni44
@40mihirkulkarni44 3 года назад
Moral of the story: everyone is shallow and you will always get judged for your looks, whether it's in romance, job interviews and even daily interactions. Don't let that bring you down and focus on your life
@homelesskiller
@homelesskiller 3 года назад
Judging based on looks is not shallow. It's necessary and important for survival and social interaction.
@PabloDiaz-vg1in
@PabloDiaz-vg1in 3 года назад
@@homelesskiller yes. In fact is so dificult to be below“5” being in Shape and taking care of yourself
@generix886
@generix886 3 года назад
why focus on smth when you already lost so dumb
@Ghostrider-ul7xn
@Ghostrider-ul7xn 3 года назад
@@homelesskiller LOL judging someone by looks is the very definition of being shallow. And it has hardly anything to do with survival because it's a bias that says humans are nothing more than what's on the outside. Personality, talent etc all are way more significant than looks for survival
@saifmz4174
@saifmz4174 3 года назад
This is not true im a minimum 7.5 in looks ( 6'2 , black hair with decent hairline, nice jawline, thick eyebrows, athletic fit body(not gym body tho) and a thick black beard) but im an introvert who have problems with forming close relationships with people and trust me the blackpill is not always the truth girls love confident guys who are extroverts open and active. No girl is going to fall just for ur looks if u dont know the game. I have seen many girls throw themselves at guys who r nowhere near their league but they were confident outgoing and extroverts. But this isnt always the case there r some women who r the minority who would choose looks rather than anything but its very rare. We should improve ourselves socially or else it wud be difficult to date a girl even if u r a 9/10 Now blackpillers dont reply to this comment by saying im not as attractive as i think or im blue pilled. Ive always got compliments on my looks i know im good looking and no im not blue pilled either. I just accept the reality instead of watching the blackpill videos 24/7 depressed and saying "cope" to each other its better that u improve ur life socially and mentally so that u r doing something useful for ur life. And this doesnt mean looks arent important. It does but not as much as the blackpillers claim
@uagurasama4567
@uagurasama4567 3 года назад
Moral of the story: Being attractive alters the morality of your actions.
@ThePorschefan
@ThePorschefan 3 года назад
But we already knew that
@TheUnique69able
@TheUnique69able 3 года назад
Being attractive alters your reality
@uagurasama4567
@uagurasama4567 3 года назад
@@TheUnique69able high IQ
@mohandasjung
@mohandasjung 3 года назад
It altera the aparence, moral is not a subjetive thing.
@bbqnpcs5514
@bbqnpcs5514 3 года назад
@@uagurasama4567 Yes, the IQ does too, but in a very different way
@rajakghosh
@rajakghosh 3 года назад
The difference between "flirting" and "bring called a creep" depends on how handsome the guy is.
@gk7123
@gk7123 3 года назад
Exactly
@bbqnpcs5514
@bbqnpcs5514 3 года назад
There are body gestures that you had to ignore or not spot to get to the creep phase from just being a random sub-5 dude. As a culinary sidenote, I am familiar with lamb roganjosh, but what could an NPC roganjosh taste like?
@MrBladeSVK
@MrBladeSVK 3 года назад
The real dichotomy goes more like this. If your handsome and your game is shite you will be only called weird. Since women think there is a disconnect between the physical and mental, because how could a handsome guy be socially awkward and autistic. They think in completely deterministic "naturals" terms ( quite similar to the blackpill crowd). On the other hand if youre ugly and your game is not on point you will be called creepy.
@jameswolf2464
@jameswolf2464 3 года назад
This. A lot of guys think you have to be a PUA or an awesome conversationalist or something to flirt properly. It's the most basic thing. Cocky and funny is good enough. If it doesn't work out for you it is because your looks or status are not up to par, case in which all the charisma in the world wont get you out of the friendzone. I always tell guys if you have two extra hours spend them in the gym or working on a side hustle, not practicing "approaching". You will just waste two hours getting confirmation from the girls that you don't fit the bill lol.
@happyhappynuts
@happyhappynuts 3 года назад
@@jameswolf2464 this
@klichukb
@klichukb 3 года назад
It's a pleasant surprise to hear zero interruptions and a very constructive discussion. Very quality dialogue.
@bbqnpcs5514
@bbqnpcs5514 3 года назад
It's only a good dialogue cos Alex is a high quality audio host and interviewer. And the other bloke is respectful and has good points too.
@sylerknight7280
@sylerknight7280 3 года назад
Yes, completely agree. It's so refreshing to listen/watch this. As apposed to other videos I've seen with American women, that just yell and shout over eachother, it's like listening to fingernails grinding on a chalk board. Cringe!
@Koraxus
@Koraxus 3 года назад
good discipline on them I think the fact there were more misunderstandings than outright disagreements also helped
@JamezJN007
@JamezJN007 3 года назад
yeah, it wasnt that good againts hamza
@nickquik
@nickquik 3 года назад
Real men conducting themselves. Also admitting when they agree with the others arguments.....
@maxmuller6730
@maxmuller6730 3 года назад
women have different taste means that she might like one 8/10 over another 8/10, but some people mistake that and think a women might like a 3/10 guy over a 8/10, thats not happening.
@UnitedPacci
@UnitedPacci 3 года назад
no one prefers a 3 over a 10 men or women lol
@Hydrasword89
@Hydrasword89 3 года назад
@@UnitedPacci thats not true. There are many more men going for the women 3 than women going for the men 3. That is the main problem why 30 % of men under 30 years never had sex.
@UnitedPacci
@UnitedPacci 3 года назад
@@Hydrasword89 The men that choose for the 3 don't have standards and usually the 3 is the best they can get. This is not what the conversation is about. If a man have access to the 8 or 3 he will choose the 8.
@paccawacca4069
@paccawacca4069 3 года назад
different tastes is basically: some women like swedish nordic chad, some women like swarthy mediterranean spaniard chad. They all like chads tho
@paccawacca4069
@paccawacca4069 3 года назад
@@UnitedPacci the thing is, if men would keep standards and be ok being alone, we could take back the dating market. we have to be ok with being alone.
@_winston_smith_
@_winston_smith_ 3 года назад
As a man who has varied his weight significantly, I can tell you that women are just as shallow as men. I have zero game. I'm not funny. Lose weight and women pay a lot more attention and laugh at any joke you tell, no matter how lame. It is so easy when you look good. More concerning, I've also noticed that men take you more seriously when you lose weight.
@MarylandGuy-ey3st
@MarylandGuy-ey3st 3 года назад
@Bm how tall are you?
@gamingnews8834
@gamingnews8834 3 года назад
@@wenh099 Makeup amplifies women's looks, so in reality women aren't attractive.
@_winston_smith_
@_winston_smith_ 3 года назад
@Bm I know your pain. I'm 5'6" so the pool is small but it is possible. One of my brother's has been a religious gym junkie his whole life and has a high paying job. He's never had a girlfriend. He's 5'4" -- nearly impossible.
@brianlong2334
@brianlong2334 3 года назад
@Bm I got the "Your to confident and you shouldn't be", "you have a great body but your to white for me".... lol! "Your a 7 or 8 but I don't like guys who are prettier then me"... I've heard it all, woman will find anyway to disqualify you men do the opposite. I normaly like to watch FressandFit on youtube, they discuss it with woman sometime they have to kick out the craziness that can't be helped...
@TheZeroManifested
@TheZeroManifested 3 года назад
It’s probably because you’re showing you care about yourself
@Peter_Parker69
@Peter_Parker69 3 года назад
Finally a high IQ black piller who can explain this to anyone simply and respectful. Alexander, you should try creating a tinder account with a male model and use your absolute worst game as an experiment.
@Mixan761
@Mixan761 3 года назад
wow, top 1% of human beings can get away with any behavior. This is some rocket science going on right here.
@scotchwhisky6094
@scotchwhisky6094 3 года назад
Likely because most black pillers are American. The citizens in the UK are far more educated.
@Peter_Parker69
@Peter_Parker69 3 года назад
@@Mixan761 Not the point Isaac Newton. Most men apparently belive "game" is more important than looks to women.
@weight3820
@weight3820 3 года назад
Don't even need to use male model. Someone who is 8/10 would do the trick.
@user-sl5ws7vm3b
@user-sl5ws7vm3b 3 года назад
someone already did that. The good looking guy got away with everthing, including being an actual creep
@jpw2184
@jpw2184 3 года назад
If beauty were subjective, there wouldn't be a Pareto distribution in the dating market. There is a reason why 90% of women only go for 10% of men.
@ultrafeel-tv
@ultrafeel-tv 3 года назад
These 10% men are confident and successful in their field - that makes them 'beautiful' for women. Outer 'model-like beauty' in men is nearly useless.
@Peter_Parker69
@Peter_Parker69 3 года назад
If beauty were subjective, babies would't stare 80% more at attractive faces. Way before environmental influences
@Ghostrider-ul7xn
@Ghostrider-ul7xn 3 года назад
Correction - beauty is intersubjective.
@ultrafeel-tv
@ultrafeel-tv 3 года назад
@@Peter_Parker69 Looking at 'beautiful faces' have nothing to do with women indeed choosing these guys. They very well say: "This guy looks hot" - but still only have sex with confident, successful and dominant men.
@GangstNi99a
@GangstNi99a 3 года назад
@@ultrafeel-tv do you have any facts behind this ? I highly doubt it
@user-ly1ml6ue9n
@user-ly1ml6ue9n 3 года назад
This is the thing, women dont Usually go around rating dudes from 1 to 10 they usually have the good looking dudes in one group, average dudes and ugly dudes in different groups
@bogusshmogus1670
@bogusshmogus1670 3 года назад
Yeah the rating system is so men know how to get into the good looking group (ie: 7-9) you are correct in saying women don’t care about these things. The same way women don’t know what game is but having or not having game having game (ie: confidence) will drastically impact your results with women. Whether or not women are aware of what drives their sexual behavior is irrelevant to the fact that a mans results with women are dependent on the degree to which he reflects these qualities, consciously or not.
@bbqnpcs5514
@bbqnpcs5514 3 года назад
They put all the average looking dudes in the "ugly" group, and all the ugly dudes in the invisible group.
@leonblack7637
@leonblack7637 3 года назад
What if they are rich and ugly? I'm assuming they put them in a good looking group right?
@Exxeron-ob3tv
@Exxeron-ob3tv 3 года назад
@@leonblack7637 Rich and ugly gets you into the "useful" group. Which is to say they will avail themselves to any resources they can get and then your "useful"ness is over and they will move on.
@Exxeron-ob3tv
@Exxeron-ob3tv 3 года назад
@@bestgtor22 lol... what? I have encountered perhaps 3-4 women who actually like working. To the rest it is just "one more injustice" heaped onto their plate.
@TheEldarie
@TheEldarie 3 года назад
One thing that is worth to notice - Alex said that he gained a lot from redpill/pua 15 years ago. Wheat Waffles is 20 years old. Their perspective differs since conditions in the sexual market clearly have changed since 00's. Nowadays women have unlimited options due to dating apps. The focus on the look is bigger then ever, hypergamy increased and so on. Thats why people in 30's or older may misunderstood the younger ones and discard blackpill.
@noflexzone2.055
@noflexzone2.055 3 года назад
This is probably one of the invisible pillars of blackpill theory. Until around 2010 or so, the number of virgin men stayed relatively consistent at 10% or less men. But since then, that rate has skyrocketed.
@technoloverish
@technoloverish 3 года назад
@@noflexzone2.055 Is that really much of a problem though, particularly if you're seeing this from a Christian perspective? For instance, if you're a traditional Christian, virginity is the expectation for both women and men until marriage.
@noflexzone2.055
@noflexzone2.055 3 года назад
@@technoloverish it definitely is a problem for the mainstream Christian worldview - the number of Virgin women is still between the 10%-20% mark - meaning that, according to basic old testament (I come from a Christian background) interpretation, a vastly growing number of women are unmarriageable. This proposes huge threats for Western Christianity: Less and less men are attending church (search it up). Since men are the ones that control relationships and still by far are the ones to contribute to tithes BY FAR, many churches in America have shut down due to a prevalence of washed up single mothers and no educated men to tithe. This has only been accelerated by the coronavirus.
@technoloverish
@technoloverish 3 года назад
@@noflexzone2.055 Perhaps, though aren't Christian men also supposed to remain virgins before they're married? It's my understanding that chastity is commanded both for everyone, regardless of gender, in the context of Christianity.
@bbqnpcs5514
@bbqnpcs5514 3 года назад
@@noflexzone2.055 go watch Yuri Bezmenov and weep. Western Christianity has far bigger problems than the lack of chaste women. Not denying the problem - it's among the top 500
@markmooroolbark252
@markmooroolbark252 2 года назад
I write for a men's rights website and I get branded a misogynist for doing nothing more than pointing out the lack of compassion and empathy for men and boys in our society. That word has lost all meaning much like the word racist. Yet as I wrote before there is blatant hatred and denigration of men and boys in our education system, judiciary and media.
@YainVieyra
@YainVieyra 2 года назад
This is unbelievably true. I see it every day everywhere.
@debanikgoswami4834
@debanikgoswami4834 Год назад
@@YainVieyra Looks are very important . One of my friend who is a chad get's asked out by girls . He is very awkward and has stammering problem LOL .
@zeppkfw
@zeppkfw Год назад
@@debanikgoswami4834 I wouldn't say I'm that attractive im not even that tall but I've been told I should be a model a few times. I definitely see that I get more opportunities than my friends and it's gotten to a point where they don't bring their girl (friends) near me because I catch their attention. Start mewwing, get to the gym, go to pinterest and get some drip, lose the bodyfat and experiment on hairstyles. It took me years of maximizing my looks.
@zeppkfw
@zeppkfw Год назад
@@debanikgoswami4834 And yes I still got attention even when I had zero social skills and was borderline creepy. I just never got the girl I liked because I was too scared before. Social skills is still important.
@ats4670
@ats4670 3 года назад
I never forget what this girl one time at work said. I work in a facility that easily has over 200 men working at it. She said that she found nobody that worked there attractive. Let that sink in.
@bartdegryse9345
@bartdegryse9345 3 года назад
What age was she,? And what was the average age from men there?
@ats4670
@ats4670 3 года назад
@@bartdegryse9345 she was early to mid 20s, and men of various ages most somewhere between 20 to 50. Plenty of young guys around to be clear. She wasn’t even much to look at either. Just goes to show how overly inflated women’s opinions are of themselves that they think they all deserve a 10 so to speak.
@bbqnpcs5514
@bbqnpcs5514 3 года назад
Perhaps she looked down on her place of employment, and in turn, on anyone who'd work there especially though a lack of better opportunity. As Groucho Marx once said, "I wouldn't want to be in any club that would want somebody like me as a member"
@ats4670
@ats4670 3 года назад
@@bbqnpcs5514 nope, it’s all part of the career field she wants to take part in
@purpessenceentertainment9759
@purpessenceentertainment9759 3 года назад
What was the context of the discussion, and what was your response to her statement?
@jamesdotson1080
@jamesdotson1080 3 года назад
Courtney Ryan made a video recently which touched on the subject of Game. This was what I posted on the subject. "She is talking about having Game. The amount of Game a guy needs to have when dealing with women is inversely proportional to how attractive he is."
@alb12345672
@alb12345672 3 года назад
Maybe to make the initial meeting. Then you have to explain how some of the hottest men are dumped after they are in relationships and married. Maybe they cheat because of the way they are treated?
3 года назад
@@alb12345672 Or maybe they're just trying to reach even higher all the time. So given anything that might be a better opportunity in any department... then she just adds that checkbox to her list.
@user-nq5hy7vn9k
@user-nq5hy7vn9k 3 года назад
@@ronnie5329 all it takes is some better looking guy, with all the boxes ticked, to give some attention to that female, for her to breakup/monkey-branch/cheat on her partner
@ronnie5329
@ronnie5329 3 года назад
@@user-nq5hy7vn9k so are there women that Will monkey branch, yes, very few women can do it succesfully as they dont know if the guy just want to have sex and nothing more. Also we need more data on this, its a bit autistic to think this is just how women are. Women are also on average more neurotic and value safety. But attraktive and non neurotic women, yes there is probably a higher chance they will do this. But we need data
@jamesdotson1080
@jamesdotson1080 3 года назад
@@alb12345672 I think you are making a perfect example of why what I said is true. Game encompasses a lot of the social skills that lead to greater attraction to a person outside of the purely physical attraction. The perfect 10 guy in the looks department will get a lot of women based on looks alone, therefore he needs zero game to actually hook up.
@Patrick.Basedman
@Patrick.Basedman 3 года назад
He said he's 20, girls his age are even more focused on looks. After 30 status/money matter more as they need money to feed kids and most of the time they can't attract the "chads" they were hooking up with in their 20's anymore.
@frodoro7108
@frodoro7108 2 года назад
a good recipe for a sexless marriage
@ShopRat295
@ShopRat295 2 года назад
@@frodoro7108 you summed up the blue pill my friend.
@thethinkingmansgame5050
@thethinkingmansgame5050 Год назад
Looks still matter in the 30s.. women want a hot guy with money and not dr.ug use.. I would say women want an even more attractive guy
@AnvAnv-zm8wx
@AnvAnv-zm8wx Месяц назад
Статус и деньги не могут привлечь сексуально
@geckobrah4201
@geckobrah4201 3 года назад
I went to a large Christmas gala a few years ago (pre Covid) with hundreds of people including lots of single women. I teamed up with a guy was extremely good looking, straight out of GQ. I am average at best. I was amazed how the girls just flocked to this guy even though he was kind of a jerk. It taught me I could never compete even though I am a successful professional and have all of the “Boy Scout“ qualities women say they desire, including social ability, gregariousness and humor. I even own a condo in Hawaii! It does not matter if you are not good looking. It’s just reality.
@Cameron_David_
@Cameron_David_ 3 года назад
Money only matters if it can be used to generate clout.
@beaglemit
@beaglemit 3 года назад
What was his height?
@axiomic
@axiomic 2 года назад
keep your standards high, aim for a high quality woman who has some sort of value standard beyond appearances. It will also mean you have to maintain the same standards for yourself.
@AltruisticWarrior
@AltruisticWarrior 2 года назад
I'm average at my very best and I do ok offline. It's hard when they're mindlessly swiping but in person while out shopping or at work, easy. I'm relatively indifferent and mysterious from what I've been told and I think that piques their interest; very attractive women. Lol in reality I'm just smart enough to know not to open my mouth too often, gotta be careful what you say these days. Better to say nothing and be left with lack of judgment.
@PifchoBG
@PifchoBG Год назад
do u want to be with a girl who cares about your condo in hawaii?
@voyello
@voyello 3 года назад
Voice is a factor of physical attractiveness
@mikelisteral7863
@mikelisteral7863 3 года назад
fear makes a mans voice higher and a woman's voice lower. when fear is lower a mans voice goes lower and a womans higher
@bbqnpcs5514
@bbqnpcs5514 3 года назад
it directly projects confidence and, less directly, a level of testosterone, so yep, you're right. As not as you are too ugly to get heard in the first place
@guest3858
@guest3858 3 года назад
keep telling yourself that
@TheZeroManifested
@TheZeroManifested 3 года назад
And smell…😍😍 for me mans natural scent especially when they have been sweating…. It gross like 2 days w/o a shower but going to the gym and coming home sweaty 🤪🤪🤪 I will literally lick the sweat off my bae & I have lol ☺️☺️ I think it has smth to do with testosterone
@nolongersleepy963
@nolongersleepy963 3 года назад
@@TheZeroManifested All the more power to you, haha
@BudoReflex
@BudoReflex 2 года назад
I am a 25 year veteran of committed relationships. Looks are not an important thing , but the most important thing. Much of the anger people feel is to do with how unattractive they are, and/or how unattractive their partner is. It's actually hugely freeing to have this simple understanding. It was never my fault what genetics i have. It is now my choice whether i was the rest of my life lamenting it. The truth can set you free, but you have to want to be free fir that to be true. Otherwise it's just more needless suffering. Suffering will not change genetics. I can sit and watch the birds fly and feel bad because i can't fly, it's silly, but possible. It's equally silly to spend any more time than needed to suffer over not being attractive enough. Sure, cry it out. That's healthy. But move on. The sun will shine on you you without caring what you look like. The food, and whatever is still enjoyable. And maybe, there will be someone as ugly as you who also wants to be free. Two ugly people, free of illusion, are far better off than anyone trapped in a lie.
@larion2336
@larion2336 2 года назад
It's less like watching birds fly, and more like being a bird born with crippled wings and watching all the _other_ birds fly happily in the sky, oblivious and uncaring to their crippled brethren. Except it's even worse than that because it's only a handful of birds who get to fly, the rest of them are screwed and have to work 1000x harder to have a _chance_ at the same results. Maybe the best they can manage is a really sh*tty glide to the ground when it's windy.
@s.v.discussion8665
@s.v.discussion8665 Год назад
LOL!
@ronnie5329
@ronnie5329 3 года назад
Completely agree on women wearing lot of makeup, and surgeries etc. I steer clear
@Archonsx
@Archonsx 3 года назад
so pretty much all of them
@amirprog
@amirprog 3 года назад
Yes, a light makeup is fine, nothing more. Afaic? If a woman is slim and health conscious that is a real woman beauty. Zero fakeness. Real beauty is health inside that shines out as well (healthy diet, keep in shape, etc.).
@jones848
@jones848 3 года назад
Surgery isn't a bad thing as long as it's not completely obviously fake. If someone wants to spend money making themselves look better who can blame them. And as for the makeup, some take it way too far but it's makes them look better and why steer clear of something like 99% of women do
@nattypatty3667
@nattypatty3667 3 года назад
@@jones848 Because it's FAKE. It's not their real genetics. That's like saying why would women avoid men that wear shoe inserts that make them 5'9" instead of 5'6". It's ARTIFICIAL.
@bbqnpcs5514
@bbqnpcs5514 3 года назад
@@jones848 putting silicon in one's body permanently sounds pretty darn unhealthy to me. Unwise, too
@frankbush333
@frankbush333 3 года назад
The blackpilled reality is to accept that not pursuing relationships with women is the best path, pursuing their own happiness without them. Seeing the fertility rates plummet due to the increase in female hypergamy leading to societal collapse seen as justice served. The abandonment of character for the vanity of looks causing the collapse seen as so unjust blackpillers warmly embrace the fall. The fertility rates are expected to cause societal collapse in dozens of countries over the next 2 generations, as an example South Korea is expected to move into an extreme depression in the next 20 years because of lack of child births. To blackpillers they see women's own actions leading to their own demise and embrace their coming hardships as they walk away and don't look back. Many blackpilled people believe female hypergamy will create an extinction level event risk as this channel is starting to allud to in videos like "This graph should scare every women" the key difference blackpillers embrace the coming calamity rather then believe women will ever change their nature.
@Baulx138
@Baulx138 3 года назад
Never seen a better description. I honestly can't blame them for choosing that path either
@frankbush333
@frankbush333 3 года назад
When 30 percent of the male population is seen as unworthy by default bad things happen. Sadly the same men that are preparing for the inevitable coming collapse will show little sympathy or compassion for the starving women that need aid in the coming days. Women stating "they don't need no man" will be given the opportunity to prove it as they will be seen as nothing more than competition for sparse resources. Female entitlement has consequences and no amount of virtue signaling or justification will change the price to be paid that is coming.
@soacker25
@soacker25 3 года назад
@@frankbush333 AMEN🔥🔥🔥
@nattypatty3667
@nattypatty3667 3 года назад
@@frankbush333 Just look at Honduras where there is no Government protection. The women there are highly vulnerable and obviously more so without the provisioning and security of men.
@frankbush333
@frankbush333 3 года назад
@Natty Patty I believe women are in for very difficult times coming, such as the example you mentioned, unfortunately I believe that kind of reality will become widespread in countries that see significant population contractions acting as a self strengthening feed back loop until something changes or we will collapse into tribalism with men dominating over and exploiting women and using them as their sexual property. If something does not change in the near term in these relationship dynamics I fear women will face a bleak future and if government collapse due to rapid population contractions occur as has happened many times historically there will be little to stop what I am stating from becoming a reality. Do not get me wrong I do not embrace this mentality but I have grave concerns it is coming.
@ixco4732
@ixco4732 2 года назад
Great interview. I'm super impressed with the maturity and thinking process of 20 yr old wheat. Imagine what kind of content he will come out with at 28+
@angmori172
@angmori172 Год назад
My evolution (30M, 6'2, decent face, pretty muscular but working on losing the excess fat) in the online dating game: Day 1, nervous about talking to girls: *feels proud to just open with 'hi, how are you?' Day 50, not having much success and started to look into game: *makes a personalized opener that's interesting and/or funny depending based on the girl's pics and bio* Day 100, realising if she finds me hot, it doesn't matter how bad my game is, if she doesn't, it doesn't matter how good my game is: 'hey'
@s.v.discussion8665
@s.v.discussion8665 Год назад
GOOD!
@Just_a_Lad
@Just_a_Lad 3 года назад
Almost everyone is going to judge you by your looks, not just women. Starting from your parents, siblings, friends, colleagues, boss, women, neighbour, everyone. And not only that but you too judge people by their look, you just don't realize it. You can work on yourself, but you can't change your genes, so you're stuck with them for the rest of your life. Just try to make the best out of it and remember, women are not essential, so there's no need to waste your life and efforts that much on them.
@BazHakken
@BazHakken 3 года назад
not tryna be that guy... but you know well you do can ''change your genes'' right?😂... I mean talk about hair transplant, nose job, liposuction, jaw transplant surgery, eye-colour change surgery, eyebrow lift, botox, epicanthic fold surgery (asian eyes surgery reversal and viceversa) skin bleaching procedures, skin lightening pills like glutathione, permanent tan (melanogenesis) through injections(Melanotan II), Growth hormone therapy altogether with aromatase inhibitors for height gain (in puberty), weightloss drugs as thyroid medicine, anabolic androgenic steroids for muscle, vascularity and weight gain, and many many more. You can completely change the way you look into another person if you wanted with enough wealth
@SUNND0GG
@SUNND0GG 3 года назад
@@BazHakken FACTS 😭😭
@Juttjuttjuttjutt4
@Juttjuttjuttjutt4 2 года назад
@@BazHakken but it cant always do good, like for example if somenone has a terrible eyearea then what can you do
@Drew_64
@Drew_64 2 года назад
“Women aren’t essential” The goal of humanity is to reproduce
@chobo9724
@chobo9724 3 года назад
I'm glad he brought up the point about going to places with a lower average height. That's been my experience in Korea. My face has masculine features, but I'm 5'7" (170 cm). I have a much more successful dating life out here, but 100% of my rejections have come from women either the same height or taller than me. I've been dating someone who's 165 cm for the past few weeks. When we spoke about past relationships, she said she rejects a lot of guys because of their height. I appreciate her honesty.
@alexandergrace5350
@alexandergrace5350 3 года назад
Geo maxxing, learning lots of new terms :)
@alexandergrace5350
@alexandergrace5350 3 года назад
Could you check your conversion rates? I'm doing research on height for an upcoming video and I have found 5.7 to convert to 174cm but I want to double check
@chobo9724
@chobo9724 3 года назад
@@alexandergrace5350 I just checked with an online converter, and 5.7 (67 inches) converts to 170.
@alexandergrace5350
@alexandergrace5350 3 года назад
Could you please link your converter? Sorry to be a hassle, I just want to make sure I get this right before I put it into a video but I tried a different converter and I get 5.7 to be 68.4 inches: feet-to-inches.appspot.com/5.7-feet-to-inches.html I swear I'm not arguing - I have ZERO idea what the right answer is, I just want to double check everything before I put it into a video and if you have an online converter that gives you a different answer, I need to check it out
@alexandergrace5350
@alexandergrace5350 3 года назад
Thank you so much!! *Grumble grumble everyone should be metric grumble*
@theteenageexperiment1356
@theteenageexperiment1356 3 года назад
Thank you for doing the interview and giving him a chance, I have great respect that you did this.
@soacker25
@soacker25 3 года назад
Absolutely❤️
@cooliest2267
@cooliest2267 3 года назад
Lesson: it's over
@youtubesucks2755
@youtubesucks2755 3 года назад
It's not over it never began
@dacawone
@dacawone 3 года назад
Correction...never began.
@ronnykazadi352
@ronnykazadi352 3 года назад
@@dacawone Begin, began, begun, begunen
@Ash-so2sr
@Ash-so2sr 3 года назад
19:50 is not what women say, is not what men think, is about what women do, don't fall into arguing about "but some people say I'm way more handsome and others don't" unless these women are dating you it doesn't matter what they say.
@patrickfransiskus1996
@patrickfransiskus1996 3 года назад
I agree more with "Chad fs, Normie bs," as opposed to "Alpha fs, Beta bs." Most self claimed red pillers I know can't even define what Alpha or Beta really is. But another important thing that I know from experience that many people don't talk about, is the socioeconomic status and the IQ of the women play a huge role as well.
@alvarosilva523
@alvarosilva523 3 года назад
Beta = emocional men, lack of carisma thus determination. Alpha= rather selfish(not necesarely irresponsable) , high self steem, determination plus goals.
@Darkness-ie2yl
@Darkness-ie2yl 3 года назад
is this topic even complicated? they go bananas when they see brad pitt and henry cavill. waterfalls below. just like when we see a 10. danny devito on the other hand has to pay.
@patrickfransiskus1996
@patrickfransiskus1996 3 года назад
@@Darkness-ie2yl exactly what I am getting at. As a person who minored in psychology, I know what "being an alpha" means, although the term "beta, gamma, etc" as personality traits are more debatable. But let us say that we go with the red pillers' definition of alpha and beta. I know many alpha males in important positions (managers, CEOs, politicians, leaders of organizations, etc) who are charismatic, charming, willing to do what needs to be done without conforming to what other people say, etc, who still struggle to get laid if they "look like Danny Devito" as you put it. On the other hand, my dogs' caretaker (who looks like DiCaprio but shorter) always get the women around me wet when they see him, although he is a complete "beta."
@francescodalo8828
@francescodalo8828 3 года назад
@@Darkness-ie2yl Undeniably Right. Anybody in their right mind must agree with your statement. Well said👌
@patrickfransiskus1996
@patrickfransiskus1996 3 года назад
@@francescodalo8828 Many men are still delusional into thinking that no matter how ugly they are, they can still get women genuinely falling for who they are if they are alpha enough. The truth is that they need to compensate what they are lacking (looks), with something else. Some men are not even destined to procreate, that is what sx workers are for.
@disteveful6368
@disteveful6368 3 года назад
Being blackpilled means you accept that there is no solution.
@kevinbrown4420
@kevinbrown4420 3 года назад
And, with enough whiskey, anything is possible.
@thedonofm-town1856
@thedonofm-town1856 3 года назад
Amen.
@lordhightower6124
@lordhightower6124 3 года назад
Only if you are below 5 in looks.
@kevinbrown4420
@kevinbrown4420 3 года назад
I think even a 10/10 would agree it lowers the difficulty level lol. There's no such thing as a situation with no solution.
@disteveful6368
@disteveful6368 3 года назад
@@lordhightower6124 No, the definition doesn’t change depending on who is using it.
@gigabasedpilled5824
@gigabasedpilled5824 3 года назад
You can't find the blackpill, the blackpill finds you
@cantoprak7428
@cantoprak7428 3 года назад
The next video: Alexander gets blacked.
@bbqnpcs5514
@bbqnpcs5514 3 года назад
@@cantoprak7428 ouch. Lol
@brotatochip7790
@brotatochip7790 3 года назад
@Bm based
@drjekyll5300
@drjekyll5300 3 года назад
Blackpill is for loosers, it must be a transitory phase, one you first discover the redpill, also trim your Ego, don't let it control you = life struggle (you can't fu.. all the women out their) take life as it is, eat a redpill every day and go on with your life, gym++++ learn how to make money, know how to be cool with people in general, emparhy listen, connect, with some girls (strictely friendship) and fu.. their Friends, Go out and stop video games this is for looser teenagers, watch CRP videos about wheat wafflz
@jkshallinheritearth3883
@jkshallinheritearth3883 3 года назад
@@drjekyll5300 Agree, with CRP on going out & try PUA, but he also claims men of 50 yrs age are top on SMV & banging teenagers?
@farmerbrown84
@farmerbrown84 3 года назад
I know a couple of good looking guys (one has women go dreamy-eyed when I mention his name). They don't have to have ANY game. I've seen him surrounded by chicks when he's that pissed he cannot stand up - even when sober he can barely string a sentence together. But he's always got a string of beautiful women around him - they just lose their minds when he's around.
@_Pyroon_
@_Pyroon_ 3 года назад
I always find it strange when people say men are more selective than women regarding physical traits. While men place major emphasis on it, women seem to do equal if not more. The big difference is that they have a myriad of additional requirements as well that may override (ie wealth, status). But if you only allowed both sexes to select based on physical attributes, women would be far more selective.
@nhbruh9166
@nhbruh9166 2 года назад
Perfectly said , this sums it up ,
@edwardr9130
@edwardr9130 2 года назад
Basicly wahmen only need to not eat like a pig. But for the man there is a shopping list of ridicilous requirements. Sinps partialy to blame. Let wahmen face consecuences of collapsed west
@zeppkfw
@zeppkfw Год назад
Of course they have to be. That's what hypergamy is and they're the more vulnerable sex. If I was a woman I'd certainly do the same.
@20thcentury_toy
@20thcentury_toy Год назад
@@zeppkfw The problem is women don't need man anymore for the most part (tey secretly do but that's anothe story) so we became like accessories for them and as such their requirements changed, we buy something we need on a basis of how good it is but if it is something superficial we judge on how it looks most likely
@zeppkfw
@zeppkfw Год назад
@@20thcentury_toy Men shouldn't need women too. Men should be focused in their purpose, their passion. Men that focus on that have more value to share and since they're also focused on that they're less needy, in fact probably not even needy at all and that demonstrates even higher value in society which is attractive not just to women but other men as well which will respect you. Sexually undisciplined men are in my personal opinion, weak. Besides, I choose women depending on what value they bring to my life too. If they don't fit it I don't form deeper relationships with them.
@custardavenger
@custardavenger 3 года назад
Totally with you on women prioritising their looks over more substantial development. Tattoos, surgery, fake tan, hair extensions and un-natural dye, heavy make up etc, all a massive turn off.
@technoloverish
@technoloverish 3 года назад
Why do those things turn you off, if you don’t mind saying? Is it fir religious reasons?
@cecilrhodes2153
@cecilrhodes2153 3 года назад
@@technoloverish why wouldn’t they turn you off?
@technoloverish
@technoloverish 3 года назад
@@cecilrhodes2153 I mean, they certainly can turn me off when used excessively, but in general, they don't turn me off in moderation. I'm not a religious person, so I don't really see alterations to the body as a sin, but perhaps you do, so that might be why we see this differently.
@custardavenger
@custardavenger 3 года назад
Not religious at all. Tattoos are slightly different issue for me, they make my skin crawl as well as remind me of old men I did my apprenticeship with, not sexy. For the rest it shows an insecurity, need for attention, compensation for personality. When someone puts all their value in people finding them attractive it often really messes them up for having normal relationships.
@Alejandro-go5lj
@Alejandro-go5lj 3 года назад
Lmao you said it in moderation it’s cool. But let get things straight… woman don’t use moderation especially if they’re busted
@arashghanbari5907
@arashghanbari5907 3 года назад
This interview was truly amazing guys. Alexander hope you do more collabs and interviews with other creators.
@serban8298
@serban8298 3 года назад
You should talk to Face and LMS!
@uagurasama4567
@uagurasama4567 3 года назад
YESSSS!!!!
@ronnie5329
@ronnie5329 3 года назад
Yes, he is pretty reasonable and Alexander shouldnt be scared to talk to him, quite nice and usually funny too
@RyuMasterEX
@RyuMasterEX 3 года назад
Would be an amazing talk
@delusionfrag1
@delusionfrag1 3 года назад
please dont, LMS has some good ideas but he cant hold a conversation, hes just gonna get steamrolled by Alexander
@uagurasama4567
@uagurasama4567 3 года назад
@@delusionfrag1 JFL
@disteveful6368
@disteveful6368 3 года назад
The better looking blokes don't need to learn from you, that's kinda the point.
@heikorudi6105
@heikorudi6105 3 года назад
and the ugly want don't have anything to learn, because they need to get surgery etc.
@alexmuenster2102
@alexmuenster2102 2 года назад
@Eustass D. CAPTAIN Kidd >>What if my race is just unattractive? I'm Pakistani
@lightbringer9940
@lightbringer9940 3 года назад
I have never understood why some RP content (F&F) would say women always look at female lens of dating but yet refuse to see female lens of male attraction to looks. I'm not a black piller but I do think they are more realistic than RP these days and should not be dismissed offhand.
@1gregmoreira
@1gregmoreira 3 года назад
@Pat Brewer you’re extremely over generalizing. Having things like money and status and getting yourself physically fit .... is real, tangible proof that you have the proper attributes to survive and thrive. If Leonardo DiCaprio drove a garbage truck and hung out at the local bar on Friday nights.... let’s not even try and pretend that he would have the same level of access and success with women His physical appearance is a very small piece of why he has the access that he has. His status and resources are the reason
@uagurasama4567
@uagurasama4567 3 года назад
@Pat Brewer SUB8 IS LAW.
@ghostridersinthesky21
@ghostridersinthesky21 3 года назад
@Pat Brewer Such bs, the guy with the money always wins in the end. A handsome man without money is no use to them, and they want someone who can support children and a family. So they definitely prefer men with an education and wealth as opposed to a man without those things. Not saying a successful man ever has to commit to a woman, just that they can have great access to them
@bbqnpcs5514
@bbqnpcs5514 3 года назад
@@ghostridersinthesky21 so many of those religious black pillers are little kids barely out of their teens who have zero personal knowledge of grown up life, it's not funny
@ghostridersinthesky21
@ghostridersinthesky21 3 года назад
@@bbqnpcs5514 The guy being interviewed is only 20!😂 Clearly he needs to be around much longer to form such strong opinions about women. Notice how Alexander seems to know a lot more because of his experiences of being older
@xjasonxbx1
@xjasonxbx1 3 года назад
I am glad you posted this. This is education , fellas. This is how we learn: bouncing ideas off of our peers.
@Dan-uf2vh
@Dan-uf2vh 3 года назад
moral of the story: bodybuilding is your greatest option for improvement, followed by fake-it-till-you make it confidence and feigning optimism / displaying a "things are going this way" (trick people/women into your outcome expectations) attitude
@user-nq5hy7vn9k
@user-nq5hy7vn9k 3 года назад
I have tried this before many times, and everyone can see through this facade really clearly. Only thing that is legitimate is bodybuilding/gymmaxxing, which is also only helpful after a certain height (a short guy who is jacked is seen as over-compensating for lack of height and is many a times even treated/viewed as a clown. You "might" get some respect from men, especially in the bodybuilding circles, but won't help in getting any women)
@ronnie5329
@ronnie5329 3 года назад
And learn more about social interaktion, and if you have some anxiety you should deal with that is keeping you back.
@uagurasama4567
@uagurasama4567 3 года назад
No that’s not the moral of the story at all….did you watch the video at all? JFL
@MasterGhostf
@MasterGhostf 3 года назад
@@user-nq5hy7vn9k You have to fake it till you make until its true. Its a strategy and doesn't always work, we can only do with what we have.
@user-nq5hy7vn9k
@user-nq5hy7vn9k 3 года назад
@@MasterGhostf Then I guess the only thing left for me is to give up on dating
@jakeflynn1302
@jakeflynn1302 3 года назад
Very good discussion of some tough truths/topics. Top work guys, thank you!
@jepsipepsi5692
@jepsipepsi5692 3 года назад
Great video!! one of my top best here on youtube when it comes to relationship psychology! just so much to learn and speculate. cant get enough : )
@darrenrausch5876
@darrenrausch5876 2 года назад
Women are absolutely obsessed with looks. They're constantly looking in the mirror, applying makeup, and doing clothing changes. They constantly dispense tips on how to dress and present yourself and are talking about how others look.
@676bun
@676bun 3 года назад
The insights we gain change how we see things. A guy might see a pretty girl be attracted, but after getting to know her decide she isn't worth his time,.. he became this way because of educating himself with material like this channel. A girl I may have chased when I was younger would probably be the one I'd walk away from now.
@dacawone
@dacawone 3 года назад
I just looked up James Tusk. He doesn't need game or Pick-up. He can simply walk into a room and get any woman. His dating advice wouldn't work for 98% of men.
@alexmuenster2102
@alexmuenster2102 2 года назад
>>His dating advice wouldn't work for 98% of men.
@DavidBaronStevensPersonal
@DavidBaronStevensPersonal 3 года назад
Wow, I've learned so much about the beliefs of my younger brothers in the world today. I see that we all come to that place in our maturity where we realise that we've had it wrong the WHOLE TIME. whether we call it Red or Black or Blue or Purple... Don't matter. It just represents that moment in every boy's life when he realizes he no longer must chase. We all handle it differently, but if we use that process for growth, it will end up in the right place.
@JonathanCarterSchall
@JonathanCarterSchall 3 года назад
At 20 years old he’s dealing with high schoolers not women.
@bbqnpcs5514
@bbqnpcs5514 3 года назад
True, but they won't get much smarter in any kind of hurry
@hymieoblimey2253
@hymieoblimey2253 3 года назад
Alex is not a 5. At least a 6 pushing 7. His face is relatively balanced without major detracting features.
@rg8071
@rg8071 3 года назад
Alexander Grace ---- intelligencemaxed to the hilt! Great interview Alexander, now please invite Face and LMS to an interview!
@QwartzyG
@QwartzyG 3 года назад
No, great RU-vid but too black pilled for alexander
@general_electrics
@general_electrics 3 года назад
He's quite basic, but well-spoken and knows how to engage ideas.
@in5364
@in5364 3 года назад
He's gonna go out of business soon if he keeps doing this
@bbqnpcs5514
@bbqnpcs5514 3 года назад
@@general_electrics suggest a less basic supplement, then?
@cultofpersonaliity69
@cultofpersonaliity69 3 года назад
Dating is like a game in 3 modes. The handsome is easy mode, the average is in normal and the ugly is in extreme. The handsome dude does not need to do anything to attract women. He just needs to arrive. The average dude needs some game but is still will attract a few women to look his way. Now the ugly man needs some serious game. It's like having a 50 meter handicap on 100m race. The odds are stacked against him. Women won't even see him there. He has to have high communication skill and be very smooth to pull women.
@user-nq5hy7vn9k
@user-nq5hy7vn9k 3 года назад
In 2021, average is hard mode, and ugly is extreme/nightmare difficulty. And no amount of smooth talking will help ugly dudes. The type of effort you are talking about, required for ugly dudes is actually the type of effort required by average guys to put in, to get the most minimal results
@RealHarambe
@RealHarambe 3 года назад
@@user-nq5hy7vn9k If a guy has an ugly face but is rich I wouldn't say it's nightmare mode. There's more to it
@user-nq5hy7vn9k
@user-nq5hy7vn9k 3 года назад
@@RealHarambe if you consider being a betabux and a being financial bailout option for aged used up women, or geomaxxing(probably the most legit) then yes there is more to it
@RealHarambe
@RealHarambe 3 года назад
@@user-nq5hy7vn9k I agree
@CybrZone
@CybrZone 3 года назад
​@@RealHarambe the woman won't actually love the rich ugly dude tho that's the difference, she would actually love the handsome one.
@ParleLeVu
@ParleLeVu 3 года назад
Women do not list "looks" as an imporant aspect of a man, because the market is so skewed towards them that they don't have to. A 5,5/10 girl and above will go for the 7,5/10 guys and above automatically. Anything below it, and it's seen as a "con" for that man. Then they have to evaluate his other qualities to make up for it. They take looks as a given. If he's just a normal dude with a normal job, and a normal life, then he MUST be good looking, and not only a little, but often noticably above average. And that is the thought pattern of a 5/10 girl. She thinks she deserves more than she can offer up herself. That's how ridicolous the sexual marketplace is.
@user-nq5hy7vn9k
@user-nq5hy7vn9k 3 года назад
Also, even if other things the average guy offers is upto the mark/way above-average, she would always feel she had to settle for that dude, and will leave/cheat on that dude in a heartbeat when some better looking dude gives her attention
@ytbasketball101
@ytbasketball101 3 года назад
💯
@ghostridersinthesky21
@ghostridersinthesky21 3 года назад
if there were more women, or less h’rniness in men, then the market would be much more balanced and even. Quite frankly, I blame the F boys
@ghostridersinthesky21
@ghostridersinthesky21 3 года назад
@Pat Brewer Male Silver back gorillas will get the females often by having resources such as food and land, so you are wrong. In more intelligent species, the male with the resources gets the females. And this couldnt be more true with how people work
@bbqnpcs5514
@bbqnpcs5514 3 года назад
@@ghostridersinthesky21 I agree. The latest male looks craze is a consequence of Kardashification/Instagramisation. This is what Idiocracy looks like in real time. The average IQs are dropping
@Jake-Truth-Snake
@Jake-Truth-Snake 3 года назад
54:44 VVomen do not care about a man's struggles. They wait at the finish line, and pick the winners. And vvomen don't care how the man won, or rose to the top.
@terraflow__bryanburdo4547
@terraflow__bryanburdo4547 3 года назад
Excellent summary.."Wait at the finish line" lol
@uagurasama4567
@uagurasama4567 3 года назад
“No matter how it happens winning is what’s important” - Danzo
@bbqnpcs5514
@bbqnpcs5514 3 года назад
@Bm vee dub to bypass the Gool4g Marksists. Vvomen it is, from here on
@antonboldsword3770
@antonboldsword3770 3 года назад
Yes, in high school. my ex that left me got a new 6' boyfriend and after a couple weeks he hunted me down and forced us to get into a fight. I'm 5'8" and ended up holding him above my head and beating him into a wall. After I beat the living crap out of him, my ex came running to ME immediately and hugging me and wanting to get back together, crazily all into me... hell no.
@Hydrasword89
@Hydrasword89 3 года назад
thank you very much that you discuss with someone from the blackpill. I really loved this video.
@beaglemit
@beaglemit 3 года назад
Height, height, height! Then looks. Yes it’s a part of it. But really check it out.
@HiCenjoyer
@HiCenjoyer 3 года назад
If alexander grace is only average its over for most men lmao.
@stevemichael652
@stevemichael652 10 месяцев назад
I wonder if women would tolerate an abusive relationship if their partner is below average. Oh wait, they’ll never have to worry about even getting to that stage because the below average partner gets denied at “hello”
@nickem6556
@nickem6556 9 месяцев назад
They get denied after 0.302 seconds. This is the number that neurobiologists found, that's how many time needed to get to brain a signal if you like someone or not.
@JohnLannholm
@JohnLannholm 3 года назад
This was such a good conversation! I really enjoyed watching this
@thescoon1
@thescoon1 3 года назад
I think it's a pretty simple concept: If you are attractive physically, you don't have to work as hard on your social skills in order to attract women generally. If you are less attractive, you have to find other ways of attracting women. The argument isn't that looks are or aren't important, it's just how important they are overall, which can't really be measured, as multi-variate analysis of this kind is too difficult to replicate. All that can be said is that there *are* multiple variables to attracting women into your life, and there is enough difference between people for those variables to be weighted differently.
@znoxYO
@znoxYO 3 года назад
Nnñbbnnm 0
@alexmuenster2102
@alexmuenster2102 2 года назад
>>If you are less attractive, you have to find other ways of attracting women.
@HansTheGreatestApocPlayer
@HansTheGreatestApocPlayer 2 года назад
@@alexmuenster2102 Let's say it's a negative correlation. The better you look, the less you have to do. If youre ugly, you need to do more, for example become a millionaire
@chrisw2930
@chrisw2930 2 года назад
@@alexmuenster2102 so you’ve never seen a sub 5 guy with a girlfriend or sleep with a girl?
@filmreader
@filmreader 2 года назад
@@chrisw2930...Can you say "Sugar Daddy"?
@bokai5829
@bokai5829 2 года назад
This guy's ideas are so well thought out and arguments well constructed. And he is only 20 years old! This guy is definitely going places in life.
@MykolaPetrovych
@MykolaPetrovych 3 года назад
Guys, I think you just built a full picture together. You both did such an important job, thank you!
@cosmicprison9819
@cosmicprison9819 3 года назад
One major term when it comes to people staying in abusive relationships is the so-called "double bind": A slap in the face together with an "I love you". This is not exclusive to romantic relationships, it also works between parents and children. And indeed, it's often done by people with personality disorders, such as narcissists and borderliners. (In fact, men tend to get diagnosed with narcissism more frequently, whereas a women who shows similar symptoms might be diagnosed with borderline instead.) So I do think Alex is right about his suspicion of a correlation between personality disorders and what he calls "low quality"... just keep in mind that it's not the fault of those people for having those disorders. Doesn't change the consequence that it's usually in your own best interest to avoid them.
@peterg76yt
@peterg76yt 3 года назад
Also a lot of workplaces have abusive relationships that work the same way.
@bogusshmogus1670
@bogusshmogus1670 3 года назад
Men get diagnosed with narcissism because narcissism positively correlates to dominance. The idea that narcissism is bad is blue pill BS it can of course become detrimental to the individual but that is less common, for the most part this negative view of narcissism comes from individuals who can’t experience the same level of psychological dominance or who are frequently dominated by such personalities
@cosmicprison9819
@cosmicprison9819 3 года назад
@@bogusshmogus1670 Narcissists may appear dominant to the outside, but their self-esteem internally is actually very weak. That’s why they constantly need proof to reaffirm to themselves that they’re the best and most important. In that sense, narcissists are actually pretty needy. The dark triad traits correlate with external markers of success, but narcissists might actually suffer the most from their own condition. In contrast, psychopaths are overrepresented in positions of power. And here on RU-vid (Ask a Psychopath), you can find a female lawyer acknowledging that her psychopathy probably made a lot of things easier for her in terms of status and success. Because they genuinely don’t care what others feel or think, they often don’t even understand it, they have an any-means-necessary mentality.
@bbqnpcs5514
@bbqnpcs5514 3 года назад
Narcs and their codependents. The bread and butter of all dysfunctional relationships since Adam and Eve
@big-gloom
@big-gloom 3 года назад
@@bogusshmogus1670 What's the value in embracing narcissism? As if we weren't egoistical enough already.
@RPMentorTokyoChannel
@RPMentorTokyoChannel 3 года назад
Good interview, and with regard to the subject of women going back and forth between a jerk (not necessarily abusive) and a "nice guy", this is a subject I've found interesting, and I believe it may come down to women's shifting in attraction in accordance with ovulatory shift. There was a study showing that during women's fertile phase, there is a shift in attraction towards male traits such as social dominance, being masculine, and in particular, less faithful men. The latter of these I would hypothesize comes down to women's inclination to mate copying (think 3 women swoon over a guy, and so the 4th defaults to this), and especially in social settings which they are more prone towards attending during a fertile phase. This shift which results in her attending settings such as potentially bars or clubs sets her up to engage in a one night stand and/or end up in a short-term relationship with a male that has options, and may behave as a lot differently than the "nice guy". Once this fertile phase comes to an end, and her attraction shifts to traits more beneficial for a familial setting, it would make sense that at this time she would be inclined to interact with the "nice guy" who serves as her shoulder to cry on.
@youtubesucks2755
@youtubesucks2755 3 года назад
It's true for any gender. Men who have options also go through this. Basically when your experiences are bad (breakup with an ex or rejection), you tend to look for niceness. If you do it at the cost of looks (go for less good looking but nice woman ...aka rebound), you eventually realize it and go back to the start of the cycle and repeat. But yeah there can be more to it if there is a correlation with ovulatory shift
@Godvoker
@Godvoker 3 года назад
Very high quality conversation and hats off to wheat waffels having a high level of maturity and wits at his age.
@dacawone
@dacawone 3 года назад
Leg-lengthening veteran here. Proportions are unnoticeable, actually look better in proportion now. Did it for myself, not dating. Best decision I've ever made.
@Durmomo0
@Durmomo0 3 года назад
Some people have different proportions anyway. If you have a long torso and shorter limbs it might even make your proportions look better. If you have balanced proportions I dont know how much 2-3 inches will matter to how your proportions look anyway? You are a braver man than I am to go through that surgery and I hope its worked out well for you. The thing I think Alexander gets possibly wrong in this video is I dont think women care at all if a man has surgery especially if he doesnt say it and especially if you are already filtered out for being too short without it. It may be a negative to have surgery (which I doubt since women have cosmetic surgery all the time and its fine most people dont care) but at least you have the foot in the door.
@alexmuenster2102
@alexmuenster2102 2 года назад
>>Leg-lengthening veteran here.
@dacawone
@dacawone 2 года назад
@@alexmuenster2102 not really. But I will attribute that to covid and lockdowns mostly.
@alexmuenster2102
@alexmuenster2102 2 года назад
@@dacawone What WAS your height? What is your CURRENT height?
@SD-he3pp
@SD-he3pp 3 года назад
Could you talk about body shaming from female nature? Like yeah, they can humilite you to the ground, because why not they're having a bad day. But like I have a personal example that I would like to tell you. You told us about why women don't want to be with a shorter guy, because they don't want their children to be unable to get a female later because of the kid's genetics. Like during an argument between my dad, my mom, and I, we were discussing gym training and how it's going to make me stop growing, so the point was I gotta take back a little bit. And my mom just said like "He's just too short". I was thinking: "Yeah, this is just another women." Iam 5'9 btw.
@erickvelazquez6726
@erickvelazquez6726 3 года назад
Start lifting and prove to them that stunted growth from weights is a myth Women can make harsh judgments where they could never relate
@threethrushes
@threethrushes 3 года назад
One of the first steps of self-actualisation is when you are no longer affected by the words of others.
@jakesuper6447
@jakesuper6447 3 года назад
@@threethrushes Cope
@givenkavari1943
@givenkavari1943 3 года назад
Bruhh!! am 5'9 as well but everyone says am tall.
@ytbasketball101
@ytbasketball101 3 года назад
Yeah my mom keeps telling me I'm still growing at 20 years old because she thinks I'm shorter but I'm 5'9 as well.
@brandon-toddhutchinson3798
@brandon-toddhutchinson3798 3 года назад
Claps 👏 👏 👏 _Young men (young content creators) having important conversations respectfully and effectively_ *I'm here for it* lol 💛
@ponternal
@ponternal 3 года назад
My boy Alex damn near about to get taken out by the Norwood reaper
@Patrick.Basedman
@Patrick.Basedman 3 года назад
First thing we balding bros notice is another guy's hairline, brutal.
@dudu47321007
@dudu47321007 3 года назад
Thank you for this Alexander. Another great video. The interview was good to hear
@The-Man-On-The-Mountain
@The-Man-On-The-Mountain 3 года назад
We should be careful with what we call "misogyny", because I have been called a misogynist for saying the same exact things like Paul Elam, or even women like Janice Fiamengo, Diana Davison, or Karen Straughan. I have been called a misogynist for that, by people who claim to agree 100% with them 🤷🏻‍♂️. Lets don't forget that criticizing the bad behaviours in women, is not misogyny. I am just saying, just in case. Awesome conversation. Definitely he has got great points, but better than that, is his politeness. I especially liked his tier 3 thing. I'd say that addressing something, doesn't mean necessarily that has to bring solutions. To me, is enough if something opens your eyes to an issue, that till that moment you never saw. That said, again, wonderful video.
@erebos7093
@erebos7093 3 года назад
Love it! These good faith discussions are exactly what we need. The truth probably lies somewhere in between.
@shockmarkets7384
@shockmarkets7384 3 года назад
Wheat Waffles addresses where you sit on the Bell Curve in terms of looks, in a fairly objective way. That's the first filter he talked about. There's definitely a place for it as it provides a baseline to delve more deeply into, and for developing lonely guy strategies based on, the complex, filter two, areas that Alex looks at. I enjoyed the discussion. I thought Wheat brought some great insights with him. And you Alex have such an agile mind. I could see your head just about explode when you thought about the massive amount of work ahead of you towards the end there. A life's work.
@omarj5534
@omarj5534 3 года назад
Great conversation, thanks for doing this
@kingdoge69
@kingdoge69 3 года назад
Alexander Grace and Wheat Waffles interview: “A surprise to be sure, but a welcome one”
@cubeincubes
@cubeincubes 3 года назад
The idea that 2 people can disagree and still have a conversation is alien in 2021
@s3any1977
@s3any1977 3 года назад
This is anecdotal. 12 years ago. I was flabby and out of shape. Pathetic. No confidence. Blue Pill. Now I am in physical great shape. Confident. Sure of myself. I get no more female attention now than I did 12 years ago. OK I'm older but I personally think I look better. I'm indifferent to women. Maybe I don't notice female attention but I see no difference from 12 years ago. It is anecdotal but that is how I see it.
@doppelhelixes
@doppelhelixes 3 года назад
thanks to tinder the bar has risen in the last 12 years....
@ercolearmani6186
@ercolearmani6186 3 года назад
Your face is probably subpar. Sorry bro.
@honkytonk4465
@honkytonk4465 3 года назад
I don't wanna hurt your feelings but what's wrong with your face?
@s3any1977
@s3any1977 3 года назад
@@honkytonk4465 LOL. Nothing. I ain't got a big mole etc, or no chin. My nose is a bit bent because it was broken and set that way. I'm quite handsome from certain angles. Ooooh, the mask. Yeh, I currently work a 9 - 5. So, in this woke culture, me commenting in threads like this and The Daily Wire would be frowned upon.
@bbqnpcs5514
@bbqnpcs5514 3 года назад
Maybe you are in Scandinavia. Nowhere on Earth are the average IQs shrinking as fast as there. It's a moving target. And it aint moving upward
@stephenw4720
@stephenw4720 3 года назад
Love your genuine contents. As usual.
@nomdeplume4543
@nomdeplume4543 2 года назад
Great point on the stratification of advice.
@h2t26
@h2t26 2 года назад
Before I had seen Wheat Waffles videos' I had seen a stat that most women find most men unattractive. I was shocked by this. You would think average people are averagely attractive and so on. I also assume most guys find most women attractive. So women underestimate the attractiveness of men while men, I believe, overestimate the attractiveness of women. Anyway, thanks to that I wasn't as shocked by his assessment and would say he has his finger on the pule at least in terms of online dating. Which is pretty much all looks.
@debanikgoswami4834
@debanikgoswami4834 Год назад
I only get attention from average looking girls . I think I should be satisfied with that .
@judge831
@judge831 3 года назад
I feel the same way about cosmetics on women, Alex. If they are wearing a mask all the time, I can't even tell what they really look like. It's like a venomous bug that is pretty and colorful until you get too close.
@ghostridersinthesky21
@ghostridersinthesky21 3 года назад
Lol that was funny to read
@bbqnpcs5514
@bbqnpcs5514 3 года назад
Amen
@Patrick.Basedman
@Patrick.Basedman 3 года назад
Some of them are very good at tricking men though. Many women who claim to wear no make-up still wear light "natural" make-up and 99% of men won't be able to tell.
@Bobby_101
@Bobby_101 3 года назад
Was waiting for this.
@jonthomas9708
@jonthomas9708 3 года назад
Hey Alexander! Enjoying your discussion. I totally agree re floss women vs artificial. Going a bit deeper re subjectivity of attraction. I have actually loved women whose looks were not so very much on the prevailing beauty standard. I could talk with them and their personalities were key. Having said, I got to know them socially in the old fashioned way. No idea if that works from the female perspective and in the modern disconnected swipe world it's irrelevant anyway. Maybe the advanced tech we live with is steering us back to basic natural law. How ironic :)
@chrism4008
@chrism4008 3 года назад
That was a really interesting conversation! held my attention remarkably well through the duration, which is often difficult to do
@georgechristoforou991
@georgechristoforou991 2 года назад
The basis of attractiveness for men alters with age. At 18 it is very much looks, but at age 30 onwards it becomes more in social/economic achievement.
@leonblack7637
@leonblack7637 3 года назад
High quality content here. I appreciate this one.
@sebi7778
@sebi7778 3 года назад
Wow Really interesting discussion! Would like too see more of that
@redpillreloaded369
@redpillreloaded369 3 года назад
basically looks trumps everything else; the graph showing that women perceive good looking guys as having better personalities was brutool, lol
@ChrissyboyH44
@ChrissyboyH44 3 года назад
Great discussion Alex, I would have plenty to say on this subject too. I agree more with yourself than the person you were interviewing, but he did make some good valid points too.
@everydayischestday4720
@everydayischestday4720 3 года назад
Very nuanced, very well done. Awesome conversation
@misterabsurd
@misterabsurd 3 года назад
Wow, 90 minutes! I'll need to set some time aside for this.
@csselement
@csselement 3 года назад
"In the province of the mind, what one believes to be true is true or becomes true, within certain limits to be found experientially and experimentally." - John Lilly
@kobab4270
@kobab4270 3 года назад
Great discussions!
@user-ly1ml6ue9n
@user-ly1ml6ue9n 3 года назад
Thanks to the patreon guys :)
@JOBRAIL1
@JOBRAIL1 3 года назад
I have 5 sisters who all married someone taller than them.
@filmreader
@filmreader 2 года назад
Uhhh - that is not surprising at all. Based on the distribution of heights, only about one out of five women would marry a man who was shorter than they were, if women did not care about the height of their husbands. However, the actual ratio is about 1 out of 33 women marry a man who is shorter than they are.
@heikorudi6105
@heikorudi6105 3 года назад
It's not about being good-looking, it's about *not* being ugly. It's not about being rich, it's about *not* being poor. It's not about being tall, it's about *not* being short.
@Midnight_Metro
@Midnight_Metro 3 года назад
If this were true, average looking men with average incomes at average height wouldn't struggle tremendously acquiring the attention of women. I think your view is a bit off, as a man you simply have to be superior in one of those categories to get an iota of attention from women.
@themarathoncontinues4211
@themarathoncontinues4211 2 года назад
@@Midnight_Metro average men don’t struggle for an iota of attention from women . Cope by below average men.
@Midnight_Metro
@Midnight_Metro 2 года назад
@@themarathoncontinues4211 Wanna bet? Are you a person who can read and interpret data?
@themarathoncontinues4211
@themarathoncontinues4211 2 года назад
@@Midnight_Metro Bring the data on g. I can guarantee you the average man is not a virgin who struggles to get anything. Majority of men in western society are having sex, it’s just that the egotistical bottom 30% thinks they are in the 50th percentile
@abelsietecuatro9249
@abelsietecuatro9249 2 года назад
@@themarathoncontinues4211 man... average men are in real trouble these days. Women HATE average men more than ugly guys. Because average dudes try so hard to get a girl. Ugly dudes don't even try it
@kopflos7423
@kopflos7423 3 года назад
Great interview
@soacker25
@soacker25 3 года назад
AMAZING CONTENT GUYS! ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️ Shouts from germany!
@Peter_Wang
@Peter_Wang 3 года назад
I can't be the only one that thinks Alexander and Wheat Waffles voice's sound super similar.
@alexmuenster2102
@alexmuenster2102 2 года назад
They're both British. They sound similar only to people from, e.g., Alabama or Oklahoma. To people from the British Isles, their accents are easily distinguishable.
@shanelevens2072
@shanelevens2072 3 года назад
Liked before I even started watching. This should be good.
@emptyblank099a
@emptyblank099a 3 года назад
NPC
@bbqnpcs5514
@bbqnpcs5514 3 года назад
@@emptyblank099a it was good though, and I can tell the real npcs as they are a source of animal keto friendly protein. Teriyaki npcs and NPCs in spicy marinades are yum
@decipheringthematrix56
@decipheringthematrix56 3 года назад
Man, love your openness to new ideas, looks are very important, it's a fact. Sexual selection is an unfair game, but you're better off knowing the truth.
@symphony1966
@symphony1966 3 года назад
I really liked the way it was a respectful conversation, interesting thoughts:) im also 22, so i can def feel where whaffels comes from
@RandomInternetDog
@RandomInternetDog 3 года назад
The blackpill is truth. I went the other way during development, I went from okay looking, to very unattractive, from later teens to 20s. Looks are the only thing that matter.
@longjohnny
@longjohnny Год назад
RIP.
Далее
BEWARE! There's 3 Sides To Every Woman
20:43
Просмотров 129 тыс.
Live Discussion With Chris Williamson
1:34:26
Просмотров 54 тыс.
Редакция. News: 128-я неделя
57:33
Просмотров 2 млн
Это реально работает?!
00:33
Просмотров 3,6 млн
The Quickest Way To Destroy This ILLUSION
14:38
Просмотров 134 тыс.
These Women Still Have NO CLUE Why Men Don't Want Them!
17:17
I Found A Woman Who Speaks Fluent WOMANESE!!!
13:23
Просмотров 427 тыс.
Most Men Can't Swallow This Truth
23:39
Просмотров 179 тыс.
The REAL REASON Women Can't Admit They're Wrong
16:00
Просмотров 168 тыс.
When Women Suddenly Realize They Have Peaked
13:47
Просмотров 145 тыс.
How Do Women REALLY Feel About Male Introverts?
19:50
Просмотров 147 тыс.
Online Dating: Chad's Dream, Normie's Nightmare
21:35
Просмотров 194 тыс.
When Women Are Finally Honest With Themselves...
16:13
Просмотров 202 тыс.
Редакция. News: 128-я неделя
57:33
Просмотров 2 млн