When Women Suddenly Realize They Have Peaked 

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These women show that you can't build a kingdom with a Queen who seeks the attention of the whole village.

Being the town bicycle is not an achievement.

I was talking to a woman in her 60s. She was still upset that her husband came between her and the attention of a very good looking man when she was 30ish. To this day she desires that kind of attention but knows its gone. Imagine being the husband and living with her bitterness never knowing why

""A woman in her decline is a very ugly thing"" Truer words have never been spoken😂

The more I see things like this the more I think that arranged marriages benefit women more than men.

Women in their youth should be securing the loyalty of a man. Once she gets it, his loyalty will last long beyond her beauty . Playing the field and expecting a guy to make a life commitment is naive.

I think my wife was lucky. She was considered an ugly child. After 20 she turned in a real beauty and is still going strong at age 50. She never banked on her looks and it gained her a lot of respect from the neighborhood.

Women who have this unearned status and attention due to their looks when they’re young inevitably become Karens when they lose it. I’ve watched the transformation several times in women I know. Fortunately none of them are my wife.

I recently stopped communicating with a gal who was the most popular girl at my high school (we weren't dating) because I began to realize that even though we were friends, she was treating me like she was still the big popular girl (we're in our sixties) and she was deigning to do me this monumental favor by communicating with me and giving me the scraps off her abundant table...no time for that, duh.

A man in an elderly home said "No one here is bragging about the jobs they had, the number of employees they managed, the size of the house they owned, the horsepower of their car or how much money they have in the bank. The only currency or status symbol here are pictures of grandchildren and number of visits from family that you get."

I am in my mid 30s and I find women my age look much older than me...

Most of Men never had and never will have this kind of attention, women will never understand this.

With what I have been through with a covert narcissist, 11 years worth, I am done with women. 51 now and the rest of my time on Earth is dedicated to me and what I want.

As Rollo Tomassi says, the Wall is mental. It’s when she realizes that the 35 yr old version of her self cannot compete with the 25 yr old version of her self. And the Wall is undefeated.

Remember what the "experts" say: "women mature faster at a young age, compared to men." That's probably true, but the problem that this video points out is that this development stops completely in their twenties, while men develop slowly but surely throughout their lives. Most woman remains mentally in her twenties for life. There are exceptions, but they are few.

Maiden, Mother, Matriarch - Jordan Peterson's 3 stages. Women are being told to only value the maiden stage and to extend it into their 30s, 40s and even 50s. Without valuing or being taught how to transition to the other phases, disappointment is inevitable.

(M24) after two failed relationships totaling 3.5 years, I have woken up to the reality of female nature and I feel liberated not just because I now understand how it works but because I now have this knowledge I can stay clear of relationships all together. I am free

That new grandchild scene is so important. Nothing in life compared to when my kids were born, and I gave my mother the most joy when she met my kids.

Once upon a time, in a far away land, there lived a noble prince. One day, the prince thought he would do the right thing, and asked the beautiful princess to marry him. She said no. And so the prince always had lots of money, drove fast cars, drunk lots of beer, went out on the town to all hours, and went fishing with his mates whenever he liked. And the prince lived happily ever after. The End

Feminism didn't arise in response to oppression of women by men. It rose from the ashes of the broken high-school dreams of those gils, like from the Janis Ian song "At 17", who waited for Valentines that never came. It was an olive branch extended to the girls who couldn't compete for the most attractive boys. Life had played a cruel trick on them. They were going to be judged not for their achievements but rather for their physical attractiveness. Unfortunately for those girls and women, feminsim hasn't changed the dynamic. Men care far less, if at all, about how smart and financially successful a women might be, than how physically attractive they are. If anything, they become less attractive to men because they're less submissive, feminine and motherly.

I am 30+ working with people on daily bases and I know only 1 married pair but they are old school, in their 70s. All of my friends are single,divorced paying supports to them. All male friends,co workers dont want marriage or live with a woman. Many say that paying sex workers every weekend is cheaper,less stressful than having a girlfriend. 90% of stories I hear is about women cheating left and right expecting having more boyfriends at once. What have I learned? Dont chase women, if they spend more time on the phone than with you,leave. Be aware of the laws in your country about living arrangements with a women, in some countries even a toothbrush is a proof and you will pay her support, you dont have to married etc.anymore. so many traps for men to lose money,time,kids. Be carefull,peace out.

You're the first person I heard say that a woman wanting to have children is a massive green flag. All I heard in my younger years is that would be a red flag and men would be intimidated by it 😢

This is why young women used to be under so much social control. They carry the awesome responsibility of fertility, with the minds of teenagers.

Alex, I like that you don't have an axe to grind, you're just plain observant and honest.

"My best years" ...have morphed from being an Airborne Ranger, Bronze Star, etc. and college professor to being the best dad I can be :)

Most girls/women that I asked this question to tell me that their best year is the one when they were 16. As a man, It never made sense to me. For me teenhood is the worst period for a man.

She literally just explained how she became a narcissist. The whole journey on tictoc for the world to see. That was depressing to watch.

Instead of peaking at 24, now she's looking backwards

Very physically attractive women who lack humility don't do a thing for me. I prefer a woman of average looks who's very intelligent and has a kind heart and very good morals. I would consider myself very fortunate to meet a woman like that.

My wife and I married in our early 20s. We had our first two children young in our mid 20s, a third came later. We were young as our kids grew up, still reasonably young as they entered adulthood. We were able to do things with them all along. My wife has had a happy life not because I bought things for her, but because she's built a home and a family that she's proud of. One that continues to grow through our kids, that we are very close to. Alexander is right, she's loving that she now has a granddaughter, which our Son and DIL want her very much involved with. She's literally left in the past hour to stay with them for a couple of days. She got all of that because she didn't bail out after 6 years seeking attention and validation. Me? I provided the means for her to do it and in return I have a home I'm happy and at peace in and a family that is a cause of constant happiness for me. We're still looking forward, we still have plenty of future. Put a price tag on that, girl boss.

I’m 29 and in the best shape I’ve ever been. Been bodybuilding for 6 years now and women make it easy but I used to be a fat kid growing up telling me looks don’t matter only personality so I never gained experience and it’s night and day how women treat me now but now women my age are fat or single moms

CHILDREN then grands are how a woman's beauty becomes immortal... its literally THE WHOLE POINT of her beauty and each generation RENEWS her beauty in the most meaningful way

Both of my grandmothers stayed true to my grandfathers, even after they died, and I really think that that is true because of the generation that they were brought up in. My mother on the other hand divorced my dad after 30+ years of marriage, because she suddenly got a lot of praise for her professional work while he was 11 years older and just retired. She started spending 10, 12, 14 hours away from home, while he was home alone and started drinking. She used that drinking as an excuse to leave him, but she started cheating on him emotionally long before, which lead to the drinking. That basically broke me to women, I don't trust them, 33+ years of marriage and that's how they treat you?

It's like Al Bundy reliving his high school football days.

“The coolest group of friends” I bet they were fair weather friends.

Now stop and think, would you want that cop who was enabling the married woman's cheating to testify on the witness stand? If he's this comfortable with dishonesty here, he certainly would have zero problems lying in court.

In summary, don't put all your ego eggs in the one life basket.

I have no desire to enslave myself to the green paper called money. Spending myself in the pursuit of trivial thing that I'll one day have no use for anyway.

A pretty girl can't be desired forever; but a lovable girl can be loved forever.

Hello, I've been reflecting on the incredible journey we've been on with Alexander's content, especially after the latest video, "When Women Suddenly Realize They Have Peaked." It's been an enlightening ride, and it got me thinking about how we can play a part in scaling the heights of this channel even further. Here’s a breakdown of what stood out to me: 1. The High School Glow-Up: Alexander's dive into the transformative years of high school and the fleeting nature of early popularity really puts into perspective the temporary highs of social status. 2. The Realization of Peaking Early: The sad truth about peaking in high school opens up a crucial conversation about valuing long-term growth over short-lived achievements. 3. The Consequences of Surface-Level Achievements: This point hits hard on the importance of building a life's worth on solid, character-driven foundations rather than superficial accolades. 4. The Decline After the Peak: Alexander’s insights into the challenges of facing life after your supposed "prime" are both sobering and thought-provoking. 5. The Pursuit of Meaning Beyond Youth: The call to focus on meaningful, long-lasting pursuits like family and personal development offers a refreshing perspective on what truly matters. As we look forward to more eye-opening content from Alexander, I'm curious to hear your thoughts on how we can collectively help increase the listenership for this channel. What strategies do you think could be effective in growing the show? Are there specific topics or formats you believe could attract more viewers? Let's rally together to support Alexander Grace in creating more content that challenges us, educates us, and brings us together as a community. Share your ideas and let’s brainstorm ways to elevate this platform to new heights! Looking forward to your creative and insightful suggestions. Together, we can make a difference! Regards, Dave

High school and college is where most women do. And the wall 🧱 will hit them all.

Excellent presentation, plenty of food for thought. Well dome, Sir.

Knew a girl in school who was like that. Was popular for a bit and it went to her head. Had relations with a lot of guys and got a reputation for it. After that, most guys steered clear of her.

I'm peaking at 29... Was always the one to get left in the dust in highschool... I'm so happy that I'm altruistic and becoming more beautiful inside and out as time goes on. Motherhood and being a wife is a beautiful thing

I wonder if the old timey "you don't dare hang around with single boys, you loose woman!" attitude might actually have been protecting women from their own bad choices.

It's incredible, over the years I always went for women in my own age group, and I can't even list the pain that I went through; personally, emotionally, and financially. Recently I met a woman overseas who is literally half my age. We get along like the proverbial house on fire. She's young, attractive, focused, and is just about to receive her law degree. I guess some of the women who would come to this page would insult me. But my GF, and ALL of her family would put these people in their place. It's taken a long time, but I've found my happiness.

I'm so mad I found this guy so late... Awesome content I'll be going on a binge shortly

I'm lucky really. Highschool was the worst period of my life. The only time worse that highschool was school before highschool.

Came for the first half, stayed for (and loved) the second half.

As a new grandfather, I can confirm Alexander's statement about just how gratifying it is to see and be a part of my continuation into the future. I love and cherish my new granddaughter as if she was my own daughter. I am now committed to improving the lives of two generations. I feel sad for those who will never know the joys (and heartaches) of being a parent and then a grand parent.

Single women saying "i can have any men I want"

I think that is great that people can feel like they are on top of the world in high school, however I remember girls like this in high school and it usually isn't the rosy picture that they paint of themselves. One problem is that they are not the only beautiful girl, so there is competition, not only for acceptance among other groups they consider popular but also for who they believe is the hottest guy. As a result, there was often a lot of drama. This also isn't a girl thing, it happens with the guys as well where most are living in a fantasy world in high school and leave with an enthusiasm that they are going to set the world on fire. During the 5 year class reunion, there is still hope, by the 10 year reunion, reality has pretty much sunk in. Very few have a plan that is everything they expected upon completion of the plan.

"Then I considered all that my hands had done and the toil I had expended in doing it, and behold, all was vanity and a striving after wind, and there was nothing to be gained under the sun." Ecclesiastes 2:11

This remember me to the hot girl of my classmate in high school. Few years ago, at 42, she became a mistress of her boss, destroy her boss marriage and now is his wife. Sadly, her boss is my ex subordinate when I am still pursuing my career. I'd like to help them by giving an advice, but then who am I in the eyes of people blinded by 'so-called-love'.

Great perspective Alexander thank you for sharing

Great insights Alex. This cuts to the very heart of women's unhappiness.

Alex always looks like he's on the verge of crying

I peaked the other day when i rolled 257 out on the lanes. I look forward to re-peaking sometime soon.

Definitely one of your best videos yet. Women need to binge watch your content to face the truth.

Great pointing to the natural way out of initially depressing situation

This is so interesting since men tend to live as if their peak is still to be reached, regardless of how old they are. Great for their mental health.

Shouldn't "give up the cat" too early? The things people say in order to avoid getting banned or demonetized.

That advertisement 😂😂😂 make that money💰Brotha✊🏾

Looking back on it, my wife wasn’t popular in high school and dressed modestly. She seemed average to me when we met at 20 years old. I was her first relationship and (on our wedding day) her first kiss. 😮She became more beautiful (objectively) as our courtship progressed and even more so when she became a mother. I earn the money, she homeschools our kids and manages the home. Last week she was teaching our 17 year old daughter how to manage a budget and her checking account. Her value and worth increases with each passing year. I can only imagine how much her value will increase when grandchildren arrive. She hasn’t peaked yet.

This is like the high school quarterback that was popular who now works at the gas station 😂

“[Your popularity] is not about your intelligence or achievements.” (2:30) True, but intelligence is also highly heritable and beauty is both uncommon and - sadly - probably more desired in a female partner than intelligence.

Don't let this distract you from the the fact that in 1966, Al Bundy scored four touchdowns in a single game while playing for the Polk High School Panthers in the 1966 city championship game versus Andrew Johnson High School, including the game-winning touchdown in the final seconds against his old nemesis, Bubba "Spare Tire" Dixon.

being a grand parent is a great goal since it means you kept your children safe and it's what every other living thing on earth wants to do.

With the first female there is something very sad when she is wearing a Christian cross on a necklace when she pushes her vanity angle.

Wow, look how women handle their power

"What are you looking forward to in life?" is actually an amazing question to ask prospects

That vocal flair though, and the way she pronounced school 😂

Yes alot of girls specially abit above average peak so early in life. While when we were young teens feel totally worthless in same age and have to always do extreme type of things and put alot of energy on things to be abit appreciated. While girls same age already start to meet guys who own car, house etc. What do you have same age? Absolutely nothing.

If external validation is so important to you. Then, you got issues. The ultimate in life is when you accept yourself.

Beautiful message😊

*Usually people that peak in highschool are usually a wreck as a 30+yr old from what i have seen.* 😂🎉😂🎉😂🎉😂

I am new subscriber 😊 from Morocco What I noticed is that women are the same... there's no difference between them if they are Americans or Moroccans or from other countries...they have the same thoughts and the same behaviors...so thank you for your analysis it helps me a lot 😊 Can you guys recommend more amazing cultivated channels like this one please ❤ I want to know more about American women and the law in America and the dating market there because I am soon moving there 😅 Help to not be beta male 😂😂😂

I remember there is influencer Rachel David came to the realization. When she hit 30 her options were narrowed. She had the great job and bf then she had a realization that her bf broke up with her and now single. He found great success and married with children. She realized she was with the opinion why could I not find that. The thing she realized it was her ego that got in her way.

A rare moment was speaking to my Mum just after she became a Great-great grandmother. It made me feel good never mind her. I know not many women have peaked that high. A wonderful moment.

All the men want only the one, most beautiful woman in the village. Its a shame if her father wont allow her to get married that year, because she's only in 10th grade. By the time shes old enough to get married, she wont be the very prettiest one in the village, therefore she'll be an old maid like all the reat of us. How disapointing for her. She got her hopes up when she was 15. Such a true video!

Interesting. I am a 55 yo male and I’ve never been more popular. I feel like I’m tansforming into Sean Connery…😁

Man, what a great video. You just got a new sub sir😎✌️

Great video

As a dude, my best years were ages 18-21, peaking at 19 or 20. The only thing I hate more than how short of a stint that was, is how naively stupid I was thinking it would actually last and so I did not seize the rare opportunities when they came about. The "morals & values" cult of society had me brainwashed and I pissed away what few opportunities I had offered to me. So many regrets for not taking them cos of some "moral values respect" crap.

Men age like wine, women age like milk.

The ad in the middle 😂

Loved this

Let's be real, though. The only thing more pathetic than a woman who peaked in high school is a man who peaked in high school and never shuts up about making the big basket/goal/homerun/touchdown. Always strive for more in life rather than sit back and reminisce.

Chasing feelings comes with chasing destruction

I love picking up on little differences between RU-vid videos that I watch. Like for instance, the product that Alexander advertised. Gives a little insight into the demographic of viewers.

When I was in my twenties, women in their forties were target practice. And now I'm in my forties, women in their forties are target practice.

GOAL! BEAUTIFUL! TRUTH.

Same energy as Al Bundy reminiscing about being a football player in high school

To take your dating life more seriously when you are your most powerful version of yourself was a great advice and I haven't heard it being expressed in that concise way. Definitely something every parent should teach his or her child, no matter if it's a boy or a girl. When a boy/man or girl/woman is the most powerful is very different though. To get her degree or high payed job is making a woman more powerful as an individual, but what matters long term is how powerful she and her lifetime male partner will be together. For a man on the other hand being strong as an individual make him more powerful on the sexual market place, so he should reasonably wait until he has the most to show for himself. Another factor is that a woman should've accumulated the wisdom to make a good mate-choice, so it's not necessarily that she is the most powerful precisely when she is in her most fertile or desirable version of herself. Getting knocked up by the coolest thug in school when you're 15 is not the best idea for example. Rather than having a society supporting her to do things on the same timeline as men historically have been doing things the society should support her to do those things later in life if she so desires and to acquire the wisdom to make wise relationship choices.

Bro, that advertisement. 🤣🤣

I know physically from a health standpoint they say we peak around 20. But if you take good care of yourself, stay out of the sun, keep yourself trim and tone at the gym, eat clean, no smoking, very minimal alcohol… You can look fantastic for 30 or 40 years! I’m 58 and I date women in their 40s who still look fantastic and look young to me. It’s all in your perspective.

11:50 that’s the only perfect thing in this world. New born baby and her mother recovering from her most dangerous job. Great Job mommas out there. And to this young ladies family and baby, may God bless you all every single day. 🙏🏽

There are women that are not pretty when teens but get really pretty at early 20's and those are the ones that really know both sides

I've known girls/women who reach the peak of their lives in junior high. By graduation, they have that 'used' look.