When Women Are Finally Honest With Themselves... 

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once a woman starts screaming I start leaving.

I have dated quite a few rich girls (I am a straight guy in the horse industry. It's nearly all women, many of them very wealthy. Met Bill Gates' daughter through horses) and it's a nightmare. I don't care about the money she makes but women who have a lot of money don't respect a man who doesn't and that attitude is the problem. Ladies, men aren't intimidated by your wealth, they are disgusted by your attitude towards him because of your wealth.

It's not just promiscuity, it's all the other bad character traits that come with being promiscuous. Most promiscuous people are very good Liars too, disloyal and lower empathy.

A famous female comedian once said, “A man never looked up a woman’s skirt searching for her degree.”

Men care about a woman's physique, more than they care about a woman's degree.

Managing to sleep with a woman on the first date requires SKILLS! All it takes to sleep with a man on the first date is to say YES.

A woman who wants to be a wife and a mother and have a family does not sleep around. Period!

Working hard in an "aggressive" career; regardless of the gender balance in that career typically means long hours, high levels of competency, competition and having to consistently perform for your employer. It doesn't leave much time for boyfriends, husbands and kids. So be careful what you want ladies.

So f'ing true! A male engineer will marry a cashier.... But almost never will a female lawyer marry a bag boy... So refreshing to see a woman like this be honest with herself.

Jack Nicholson when asked about why he understands women so well. "I remove reason and accountability".

Had to add this on the passport bros. My wife is Thai, however, I met her in the states. she was a nurse practitioner before we both retired at 50. We spend half the year in Thailand and I’ve seen both sides of the passport bro phenomenon. If you’re doing it for sex, that’s what you’ll get. If your doing it for a relationship, that’s what works. Despite being educated and making an equal income, my wife cooks, cleans, exercises and respects me. In return I fix what breaks, do an occasional home project, but for the most part my life is stress free. We take care of both sides of the family when needed. My point is, it’s the culture not the creature.

There is no double standard. A guy tells a women he's a virgin and his value goes down. A girl tells a guy she's a virgin and her value goes up. That's why it's acceptable for men to sleep around and not for women. If anything it's a double standard to mandate that men have the same values that women do.

That lady screaming is like a child getting angry over not getting a toy or candy they wanted. Men have to work our asses off to be able to get a woman's attention, women just need to shower, put on makeup, not eat much McDonald's, look somewhat decent, and just exist and then they instantly will have no problems getting a man's attention. Us men do not have that luxury.

Some of these women with sunk costs even sabotage younger women to go down their path.

The thing is, women KNOW how men feel about women who sleep around.We tell them ALL the time. They KNOW we have a plethora of negative words for women who do it. Like sl×t, sk×nk, and wh×re. There are no POSITIVE words for women who sleep around. Women just don't LISTEN to what men have to say, and when they do they think THEY get to control what men like by "normalizing" it. They do EVERYTHING they can to live in a reality that they KNOW doesn't exist.

*"A door that opens for any key is a broken good for nothing door. A Key that opens any door is a Master Key!"* - Gender differences

The most popular mating strategy for women nowadays is to engage in hookup culture. They do that because with the power of social media platforms , it’s easy to advertise themselves to get attention of a lot of men and get a major ego boost in the process. Now that they have all this male attention, they quickly learn that they can get higher calibre men with a hookup than if they try to get commitment up front. Once in situationship with someone they like, they try to transition into a committed relationship and this is usually where it fails because high value men do not commit to promiscuous women. And there’s no amount of manipulation and gaslighting that can change this situation. Now women know that but instead of changing their strategy, they play the victim and act as if they were tricked by those bad men and usually double down on hookups. After a while they become angrier and angrier until they reach their 40s and we see them whining about how hard it is to date in your 40s.

3:46 There is no double standard because men don't sleep with as many women as they WANT. We sleep with the ones that say YES.

As a woman, when I am not in my feminine nurturing and supporting the men in my life, I am not at peace. Men need to be able to be men and allowed to be their natural selves and women need to support them and the dance becomes beautiful. 🥰

Successful women don’t intimidate me. Masculine women don’t intimidate me. I am heterosexual and femininity from a female is what attracts me. I have had a few relationships with women with equal to higher income. Never works out long term. I have high standards too. I don’t degrade nor will I accept being degraded.

The first woman sounds somewhat rational. When I hear women like this... I visited Austria, years ago, as part of a honeymoon [she went nuts, I had to divorce her for my own safety] We did the Sound of Music tour, which is nice. We saw the palace in the movie Amadeus. The von Trapp house in the movie had a front from one house, and a back from another house. Nice tour. At one point, the tour guide bemoaned the loss of Jewish merchants- who always had low prices, were great businessmen. There was a concentration camp not far from that area. Over half of SS troops were Austrian. All I could think of, was, well, it's not like your people made Jews feel very welcome, did you... I am so very amused, listening to women ask where all the good men went. Uhh, yeah. The good men go dark, they drop into brush, and vanish from view, as any prey animal would, when a predator is around. Years ago, I went to a martial arts class, in a college town. There were women 30-60 there. All poisonously feminist. And... and... all of them knew that Prince Charming was right around the corner, waiting for the right conjunction of Venus and Mars, to marry them, put them on a $5K/month allowance, buy the big house for them, the vacations in Europe, and to lavish attention on them, despite their constant disrespect for him. They based these on the documentaries they watched- you know, soap operas, Hallmark movies, romance novels, and so on, which are always precisely accurate depictions of real human daily life. And the only reason they didn't have that fairytale life was male oppression. I put on my cloak of invisibility- aka being a beta male- and just listened. I learned much. Of course they later decided that the instructor, a black man, was somehow sexually harassing them during the course. I have spent enough time on VisionQuests and other spiritual stuff that I can lavish love on people, just be turning on the flow. Around those women? Cloak of invisibility. If you need to get rid of a woman fast- just start crying. Works like a charm. Or otherwise act beta- you know, talk about your feelings, just like the feminists tell you. They're gone. I remember a woman about 55 in college- like this- she was desperately dating professors, to find Mr. RIghtWallet. They'd date her, but cut her off after one date. She had a little problem- nuclear waste grade resentment, plus a drinking problem. Oddly enough, Dr. RightWallet was doing his risk assessment. I had no status- just a student assistant- she invited me to dinner, I brought my girlfriend at the time- and Madame Battleaxe got sarcastic, and abusive, to the point we had to leave. THis was like 1981. Women wanted everything men have... now they have it, and they are upset... 1 in 3 women have had an abortion, has an STD... 80% of women consort with 20% of men. 10% of men are 6'1". Women find 80% of men ugly. My grandmother worked. AT HOME. Monday was wash day. No washing machines; it was done by hand. You had to scrub out stains- by hand. Tuesday was ironing day- with flatirons. It took a while. No mixes back then; you bought your flour and sugar in bulk. In 1944, it cost 8c/lb. Only after WW II did prepackaged mixes come out. Wednesday was mending day- clothes were expensive, they had to be repaired. Thursday was baking day, you baked bread for the week. My grandmother taught, before marrying. Her husband told her he made enough money so she didn't have to work. Which delighted her- this was luxury, not having to work at an outside job. I met them, in the 1960's. Yep, still in love... My gramma was a widow about 1940. She had to work. My father was still young; he had to work, got a dime an hour, to clean off old bricks to be reused- and he said he was glad to get it. My mother made 25c/hour, in a grocery store- she would get flour "from the bottom of the barrel", put it in a bag. My father made 25c/hour as a night watchman. He got into college, at the height of WW II... he wanted all the college he could get, before being drafted. He wasn't drafted. He finished high school in 3 years, and a 4 year degree in 2.5 years. Socialists want everything to be free. Great idea. Native americans had that system. But their tribal villages were deeply mutually supportive, and spiritual... Karl Marx and Friedrich Engels originated socialism... based on studies of the Iroquois... and they COMPLETELY MISSED the spiritual side of Native Americans. In a Dakota village, a prime cut of buffalo meat was put outside the tipi of a widow. Kind of like what happened in the small towns my parents grew up in- a widow known to not have much, would find groceries outside her door, from time to time, because that's just what you did, then. Women wanted to be equal to men. Cool. It's not so much fun, is it? Where are the female bricklayers, plumbers, roofers, etc? Even today's feminists have a plan, though- marry a top 5 percenter, because they are all 10's, even if they are 50 kilograms/110 lbs overweight. The "wage gap" exists- women are paid more than men, for the same work. In the military, women can do half what the men do, and get promoted timely. In Paul Revere's day, life expectancy was 43. First menstruation qualified a woman for marriage- you had to get moving, to have your kids early. VIsit a colonial house museum- we have some in my area- or even civil war era- people worked 6 days a week, often, at least 12 hrs/day. In the 1820's, they had DVD players- aka Shakespeare's plays. Alexis de Tocqueville noted this. American women in the 1950's had a life better than that of 70% of women worldwide. But they decided that women needed men like a fish needed a bicycle. No problem, get down to it, bicycles don't need the fish, either. I do not know any single men over say 35, who has any interest, at all, in a committed relationship with a woman. Single men over 40 that I know avoid women, as the massive risk they are. All that resentment, and false claims, and so on... Men are forced to assess risk. Relationships with women? "Achtung, minen" [Warning, active mine field]. Too many women seem to have completed their BSC degree. B*t Sh*t Crazy. I have never slept around. My first & second wife did play around... I cut them off. Not time for that BS, or for the MS- degree- More of the Same- or the PhD- Piled Higher and Deeper... Modern women are not making men walk away from dating, no no. They are making men RUN away from dating, at top speed, evading fire, and taking cover. Every now and then I speak w/teenagers, or young men in their 20's. They seem to have the idea that oh yes, prenuptial agreements stand up in court, they aren't the 50 meter target on the firing range- for women- the target nobody misses. When I was young, I got older guys, and even women, talking- to learn. I knew I was totally ignorant, and needed to learn. The veterans often had great wisdom, and were willing to share it, with someone who listened. The wedding stores in my area have all gone out of business... if that's not an indicator of issues, I don't know what is. There ARE no soulmates, any more than there is a Santa Claus, or Easter Bunny. There may be compatible ladies, guys, whose minds and hearts aren't totally toxic, but all relationships are imperfect. It's just the way our world is. We live in a world where: Body count is something to boast about. Milage on a car doesn't matter. Rain does not wet the ground. Fish fly a mile high over the ocean. Fast food is nutritious. Poisoning one's soul with hatred and resentment makes a woman far more attractive to the alpha male she wants. Adorning one's body with toxic cosmetics doesn't poison the liver and kidneys. Pouring out hatred and resentment on men makes them want women. Hallmark movies, Soap operas, romance movies, Disney heroines- are all documentaries of how the world works. Yes, Virginia, there really is a Santa Claus, and 20 years of throwing away your value absolutely gets you Mr. Big, just like it happened in Sex and the City, which is also a documentary. But let's make a comparison. Let's imagine a rabid Wolverine, so violent that it has to be caged in a cage made of logs. Would you risk your life, to be around such a creature? Maybe not. I don't play with poisonous snakes. When I was young, I was allowed to play with tiger kittens, but even then, I had no idea to be in the same space as adult tigers. Yes, lady, there are creepy people out there, and you are among them. The Romans used to line the Appian way with the bodies of crucified men, as an object lesson. Divorce courts perform the same function, in our society.

Nobody wants to be wrong about their choices. Especially low toned opportunistic women

I used to be a nice guy. From childhood up until 38 years old. At some point I decided to change, but the difficulty was not related to the sunken cost fallacy. The difficulty was to shift my moral values. Because I had very high standards of what constitutes an acceptable behavior in interactions with women (or with people in general). And bringing my behavior back to what is the ideal standard was like forcing myself to act in a way that I personally deemed subpar morally. It's one of the hardest things I've done in my life. But looking back, it was one of the most life-changing (for the best) things I've done. Considering the big-five/OCEAN model of psychology, I think it helped me pull back from an excessive self-sabotaging agreeability.

Men will always adapt to the dating market. If most women actually cared about purity in men. Men would stop sleeping around.

i had a taste of being a passport bro on a solo vacation to Sri Lanka last year. I haven't had any kind of substantial success with American women in years especially while living in Seattle as a lower middle class man in my 40's. I felt invisible and I went 2 years without a single date or girlfriend. On my vacation to Sri Lanka I met multiple women from eastern Europe and Russia who were amazing and fun to be around. I had multiple date nights and adventures with these women as I traveled around Sri Lanka. It wasn't hard at all to meet women for a change. I felt attractive for the first time in years. I realized that women still find me attractive just not hyper liberal American women.

One Night Stand, Side Chick, Girlfriend, Long Term Relationship, Fiancée, Wife… A triple digit body count doesn’t qualify a woman very high on this list… The Filipina Pea is quite insightful and been on the defense and offense for quite a while now. My wife is Japanese. I gave up on American women decades ago. Too many were angry feminists, single mothers, or had personality disorders.

Honesty out of a woman is a sign of desperation that woman is in her epiphany stage post wall

We'd love a video about women's body language, it would be interesting

Accountability is their Kryptonite.

Most girls on that podcast are sex workers, so 300 isn't that crazy for a sex workers. It's The normies with 50 + body count that really still shock me. They look under 25, it's so messed up

Men who get laid and women who are chase, are both valued for the same reason: they are hard to accomplish. To the women who have a lot of partners, why don't you value and respect the boy who can't talk to you, has accomplished nothing, still living in his parents basement, playing video games? Same reason most men don't value women who give it up to everyone.

Mark my words: you'll see more and more of these thirty-some-year-old angels telling men exactly what they want to hear. They're well aware of the manosphere and the talking points that tickle a man's fancy. It's not a miracle, it's a calculated move!

I followed Fiipina Pea here on youtube, but I wandered off. I don't even remember why, but she does a lot of videos on how to meet, interact with, and ultimately marry Filipino women. When she says "submissive means agreeable," that really resonates with me. I spent time in the Philippines when I was in the Navy; probably a year, altogether, and I dated a Filipina here in the States. Even in my 20s, I was no Robert Redford, even overhauled - which is a cultural reference to a song, and effectively dates me. On a good day, with the wind at my back and the sun in her eyes, I'm a 5. Even disguised as a mere mortal woman, Remy was way out of my league in terms of looks, physique, education (she was a nurse), class, style, and every other way. Women my own age didn't have time for me, though I had no idea why. I mean, I did and said every thing my parents had raised me - inculcated me - to believe that women should be treated. Yet, I couldn't figure out why I was constantly friend-zoned. I was like every other guy alive; I just wanted to get laid. But with Remy, I was able take it slow, treat her like a lady; treat her like a friend, and she responded to that. And it was awesome. But "submissive," with the negative connotations it carries today, she was not. I've honestly never met a doormat type woman from anywhere in Asia, either there, or here, who was a doormat. 99 percent of them will let you know when you've crossed a line with them, and if you're stupid enough to keep pushing, or to do it again, brother, you better have packed your sea bag, because life is about to become unbearable. She's liable to slice off a hunk and leave you bleeding.

The Filipina Pea is a genuine and intelligent force against a lot of modern cultural bullshit.

Listening to the extreme manosphere, I thought every masculine thing a girl does would damage their femininity. Found your channel and changed my opinion, a woman doing some cool manly things like drive a truck can still be an amazing feminine woman in other parts of life and be a whole lot more interesting! Like you said both man and woman need to have both masculinity and femininity, it's all about the balance. For now I am focusing on myself because I'm just 20, of course studying and working but also finding more friends. Maybe a girl appears in my social circle, but I have never used and will never use any dating app.

Your past is locked and cannot be changed. Reforming does not return your worth. You act like a man, you get to be rejected like men.

Feminism: Twiddling its thumbs Barbie: hold my beer, ladies!

Can’t make a wife out of a ho3 oh

Before sleeping around women should ask themselves a question: do I want to have a high body count with all the consequences like being rejected for it or lying about it?

There is no coming back from a 50+ body count.... all value is gone.

So, that second girl...I get REALLY tired of women asking the same damn questions they've asked years, DECADES ago. It's already been answered a million times. Asking this again means you don't want to know the answer or you don't like the answer, and just wanna b*tch about it. Stop whining about being damaged goods; you chose that life. Oh, and you KNOW she's totally cool with double standards that disadvantage men. They all are. Women just shrug about those and say "that's just the way it is".

Going to clear this concept up for everyone. A woman who sleeps around does devalue herself far more than a man who sleeps around. But a man who sleeps around also devalues himself, period. A man's ability to sleep around speaks to his value, yes. But it's still lower value women he'd be sleeping around with because genuinely higher value women with good fathers would not easily be pulled into situations like that. When he can sleep around and does it reveals his character is low value. High value men with high character do not treat others men's daughters in ways they don't want their future daughters to be treated. A man who can sleep around and does is a Chad. A man who has fought to become high value and well respected, can sleep around, but exercises self control and choses not to is basically a god. That's god level energy and it's the type of thing that can actually command respect. As long as men keep trying to convince women they can do what they despise in women they will never be seen as leaders, because true leadership leads by example and isn't selfish.

I personally disagree that men don't like women who value their careers. It is attractive and respectful. However, there is no equal partnership between men and women. No matter how successful women can be, they must feel they can financially rely on their male partners (even when they're financially independent) - not the other way around! Women may make their own money and be completely able to provide for themselves and not touch a dime of their husbands' resources. However, they'll leave if they feel men cannot provide for both at any given time. It's linked to a sense of admiration and respect. When women feel their men are weak, they lose respect. Once respect is lost, it can never be regained. Therefore, the relationship is over.

I am 70. I married my high school sweetheart. I am a successful lawyer and my ex-wife (after over 30 years) is a business executive. We have 3 adult daughters. I think my core values are aligned with most men. I would never seriously engage with or marry a woman who slept with 50 men or more. These women are sleeping with the same 10% of men who are just using them. I have too much respect for myself to be with a woman who doesn’t respect herself. Too many Women bought a load of BS when they lost their core feminine values and tried to compete with men for notches on the belt or other male values. Men know when a woman has good values and when she doesn’t. Most men aren’t players. I don’t think it’s likely that a tigress can successfully change her stripes later in life either.

“The central tenet of the human drama is: The Whole World Must Change So That I Can Stay The Same.” --Eckhardt Tolle. Change is risky and painful. So most people refuse to do it until the pain of change becomes less than the pain of staying the same. Change requires determination and discipline. Not only do you have to admit error. You have to stop your momentum going in the wrong direction. Reverse course. Go back to where to took the wrong fork in the road the START down that better path. A lot of people don’t have that within them. They have not developed the resilience or the endurance because their world has never required it of them. They got used to just expressing their distress…and then when it got loud enough and annoying enough… their world bent to their wishes and made whatever was frustrating them go away. Women in particular have been conditioned to this paradigm (hence the commonality of the screaming woman, throwing a tantrum about why she can’t sleep around like the top percent of men…and the rarity of the first one. One who calmly accepts that it is not the worlds responsibility to meet her needs.)

Ladies for the millionth time 95% of women all they have to do is show up say yes and take their clothes off and get sex. Men on the other hand have to be well established, hot, tall, have money and talk a good game maybe just maybe you’ll get sex on the first date.

I actually DO care about the woman’s career and it’s not about the money for me primarily speaking. It’s more about if their career is centered on making the world a better place.

I had a woman I thought would work with me to achieve the goals I had in mind that would benefit both of us, in the end all she did was battle me in everything I tried to do, no cooperation out of her and that just caused more and more problems until things just couldn't be resolved. Complained about everything but never offered any solutions so I finally left.

Dear woman. Of course you can do whatever you want, but not everything you do will benefit you...

Responsibility and Accountability are kryptonite to women.

Being overly emotional is code for instant gratification. Ladies are chasing a drug and as any drug addict they make bad decisions. This is why thinking, delaying gratification and logic rules the world

Hey she may have a point. A 1% SMV man has opportunity like a woman. So she uses that to argue the double standard, unaware of the other 99% of men.

Simply astounding. After having the same reality thrown in their faces over and over again, one of them is finally getting it.

The most attractive thing in women of their 30's and 40's that would make them wife material, is when they realize the mistakes of their past and accept it and own it. When I was suddenly single at the end of my 1st marriage, I looked at all age groups. What I saw in the 20-somethings was not appealing at all. The 30's also had a lot to be desired... even women my own age. 1st, I had to accept that low bodycount was a rarity in all ages I would have considered. But, I had to look at their attitudes. The ones that owned their past mistakes and didn't have unrealistic standards - not low standards, but realistic... I swiped left on far more women than I swiped right on. I find a woman that I eventually married, but that was because I was fortunate enough to see she wasn't like the rest. She had standards for how she was treated, not for how rich I was. Looks mattered, but she again was not overly shallow either. If there is no physical attraction, the relationship will not work. She was down to earth. Most women out there now are either delusional or garden tools. I found someone who was real.

Beyonce... fk id rather be taylor swifts next bad song reference. Least she gonna leave in a week.

Being able to appreciate and be grateful is important for people to be successful in their relationships. Other than sexual attraction men seek validation, intimacy and femininity mostly.

She is absolutely dead on. My wife and I have been married 31 years, now. The ONLY thing I care about from her is that she keeps herself as pretty as possible....and she's kind to me. That's it. I take care of everything else. She is genuinely nice to me about 99.9% of the time and she exercises and keeps herself pretty and I can't realistically imagine having a better wife than her. Every guy I talk about this with when I say "She's stayed pretty and she's kind to me" say "That's all I want. Man, that's all I want."

Why would women EVER be honest when LYING has worked SO WELL for SO LONG?

If she is actually loyal and have my back the minimal amount needed, this is one high value male who wants to meet her. Dang, unicorn's may exist 😮

Personally I refused to date men I knew had a high body count and it has worked out well for me. A lot of it is based on the values both parties cherish.

3:46 I don’t think the answer is that men and women are different. The real answer is women find it more desirable if a man has had many partners. Men actually get shamed for not being promiscuous oddly enough.

2:02 At 23, I was a single chemical engineer with no children and I started a new job. I was not beautiful, but I was decent looking, tall, athletic body. My single male engineer co-workers really wanted to date/marry a female engineer! So, my experience is very different for what you are saying. I was told over and over by married male engineers how lucky my husband is that I am an engineer because their wives cut them off and were bored by “work talk.” Thirty-five years later, having married one of those nice single men, we still enjoy nerdy conversations! Must have happened a lot because all three children are engineers, too. 😂

Alex has some of the best informative content about dating.

4:25 It doesn´t matter tho if she changes her strategy. The past is still there and that body count too.

“Why can’t I make $20k a year and get a fit, feminine, and submissive woman to have my 3 kids?”

Some women have decided to treat themselves like trashcans... yet demand you ignore the stench. Good luck with that😂

Becoming succesful - means developing a cutthroat mentality. Very damaging to women. You really don't want to be anywhere near such women -trust me! Been there done that - never again! People (women especially!) can NOT separate job mentality and private mentality. Once a ki11er - always a ki11er! And when you expect a tiger to turn into a kitten in her spare time after work - I have bad news for you!

She is right, a man will respect her degree (if it’s not a useless low hanging fruit degree) but that has nothing to do with how she will treat him and the relationship between them.

The more "Important" her job is, the more turned off I get on the Date.... Doctors, Lawyers, Stewardess, Pilots, etc.. Is a instant *No!*

A woman with a 300 body count makes me physically I’ll. I don’t care how beautiful, successful she is I’m saying no.

Just as I've told my daughters that a battered woman at the end of the day bears some responsibility in staying while being abused so do men bear some responsibility in this dating culture. How many of us would pass a hot chick by that wanted to bang even if we had no intention of a long relationship. Or any relationship at all. We did help create this. Next time you are out and some chick is hitting you up keep that in mind.

Get a sailboat and go sailing and fishing for the rest of your life. That's what I did and I'm leaving next year and I'm sailing to the Philippines first and starting my Asia exploration there, 7600 islands to check out. 😎🎶🎵🍺🍺🍺

This sounds like she needs to be providing since she makes more money but we all know things always go one way, ONLY men share. This needs to stop, NEVER give them your time, attention, or money, treat them INVISIBLE. Only those that treat us good should get ANY attentions, never any money. They need to pay for themselves FOREVER, just like they wanted.

When will the scientists show that female reproduction strategy can be programmed via media content. This sex is very conforming amongst themselves, so the collective opinions can easily be shaped and transformed when enough of them are exposed to a cultural trend.

300 body count? Don’t believe it unless she is professional. That would take 1 per week for 5 years consistently. Doubtful.

Most women have the belief we're attracted to what they are... But I have yet to meet a guy who bragged about what kinda car a woman drives or how much she makes or what an aggressively shrewd career lady she is. It's actually somewhat of a turn off.. cuz we know it will just make her want a more successful male.

Passport bros is the way to change it, its not all asian women by the way, i got me a blue eyed blonde hairvl frisian farm girl who saved herself for marriage with me, she wants to be a stay at home mother and homeschool, and became best friends with my mom who homeschooled me growing up Its the solution because its the wake up call American women need, they need to see we will literally pay thousands in travel amd migration fees to avoid a career ho who could get bored after a few years then cheat, divorce grape, and leave us homeless Even American divorce laws make marrying a seemingly "good" American woman too much of a risk. My mom is also proud of me for bringing this woman home, she hated my ex who was modern American feminist woman.

I grew up in a traditional Mexican house hold and and saw the relationship dynamic between my mother and father. My father worked and my mom tended to the home. She took pride and joy in her home and family and never felt imprisoned by it. I was taught certains things 1. Being in your femininity doesn't mean you're weak. In fact its healthy and attractive 2. Investing in your partner with honestly and integrity matters 3. Men are different than women so clear honest communication is key to deeper understanding 4. Its not your partners job to emotionally fulfill you You need to find healthy ways to do that yourself as well 5. There is power in being in your feminine nature and allowing your man to be in his masculine nature. Its like a lock and key that just works. Brings a balance and healthy dynamic to the relationship. No power struggle No need to compete with your man Let the hate comments begin lol 😅

Intelligent men don't brag to others, especially to women as to how many women they have slept with. Unlike these stupid women who do brag about how many men that they have of slept with. Maybe one day, they might just, smarten up.

Most men don't value a well educated woman? Have fun trying to have interesting conversations over dinner the rest of your life with the person you will be with most hours of the day - but hey, at least your ego wasn't ever threatened by her intelligence...

A big body count on either sex is sad !!! Both are worn out and not dating or marriage material !!!! They are just prime examples of what society has come to !!! Sorry !!!! It's the truth

When I hear women like this... I can only wish them well... I visited Austria, years ago, as part of a honeymoon [she went nuts, I had to divorce her for my own safety] We did the Sound of Music tour, which is nice. We saw the palace in the movie Amadeus. The von Trapp house in the movie had a front from one house, and a back from another house. Nice tour. At one point, the tour guide bemoaned the loss of Jewish merchants- who always had low prices, were great businessmen. There was a concentration camp not far from that area. Over half of SS troops were Austrian. All I could think of, was, well, it's not like your people made Jews feel very welcome, did you... I am so very amused, listening to women ask where all the good men went. Uhh, yeah. The good men go dark, they drop into brush, and vanish from view, as any prey animal would, when a predator is around. Years ago, I went to a martial arts class, in a college town. There were women 30-60 there. All poisonously feminist. And... and... all of them knew that Prince Charming was right around the corner, waiting for the right conjunction of Venus and Mars, to marry them, put them on a $5K/month allowance, buy the big house for them, the vacations in Europe, and to lavish attention on them, despite their constant disrespect for him. They based these on the documentaries they watched- you know, soap operas, Hallmark movies, romance novels, and so on, which are always precisely accurate depictions of real human daily life. And the only reason they didn't have that fairytale life was male oppression. I put on my cloak of invisibility- aka being a beta male- and just listened. I learned much. Of course they later decided that the instructor, a black man, was somehow sexually harassing them during the course. I have spent enough time on VisionQuests and other spiritual stuff that I can lavish love on people, just be turning on the flow. Around those women? Cloak of invisibility. If you need to get rid of a woman fast- just start crying. Works like a charm. Or otherwise act beta- you know, talk about your feelings, just like the feminists tell you. They're gone. I remember a woman about 55 in college- like this- she was desperately dating professors, to find Mr. RIghtWallet. They'd date her, but cut her off after one date. She had a little problem- nuclear waste grade resentment, plus a drinking problem. Oddly enough, Dr. RightWallet was doing his risk assessment. I had no status- just a student assistant- she invited me to dinner, I brought my girlfriend at the time- and Madame Battleaxe got sarcastic, and abusive, to the point we had to leave. THis was like 1981. Women wanted everything men have... now they have it, and they are upset... 1 in 3 women have had an abortion, has an STD... 80% of women consort with 20% of men. 10% of men are 6'1". Women find 80% of men ugly. My grandmother worked. AT HOME. Monday was wash day. No washing machines; it was done by hand. You had to scrub out stains- by hand. Tuesday was ironing day- with flatirons. It took a while. No mixes back then; you bought your flour and sugar in bulk. In 1944, it cost 8c/lb. Only after WW II did prepackaged mixes come out. Wednesday was mending day- clothes were expensive, they had to be repaired. Thursday was baking day, you baked bread for the week. My grandmother taught, before marrying. Her husband told her he made enough money so she didn't have to work. Which delighted her- this was luxury, not having to work at an outside job. I met them, in the 1960's. Yep, still in love... My gramma was a widow about 1940. She had to work. My father was still young; he had to work, got a dime an hour, to clean off old bricks to be reused- and he said he was glad to get it. My mother made 25c/hour, in a grocery store- she would get flour "from the bottom of the barrel", put it in a bag. My father made 25c/hour as a night watchman. He got into college, at the height of WW II... he wanted all the college he could get, before being drafted. He wasn't drafted. He finished high school in 3 years, and a 4 year degree in 2.5 years. Socialists want everything to be free. Great idea. Native americans had that system. But their tribal villages were deeply mutually supportive, and spiritual... Karl Marx and Friedrich Engels originated socialism... based on studies of the Iroquois... and they COMPLETELY MISSED the spiritual side of Native Americans. In a Dakota village, a prime cut of buffalo meat was put outside the tipi of a widow. Kind of like what happened in the small towns my parents grew up in- a widow known to not have much, would find groceries outside her door, from time to time, because that's just what you did, then. Women wanted to be equal to men. Cool. It's not so much fun, is it? Where are the female bricklayers, plumbers, roofers, etc? Even today's feminists have a plan, though- marry a top 5 percenter, because they are all 10's, even if they are 50 kilograms/110 lbs overweight. The "wage gap" exists- women are paid more than men, for the same work. In the military, women can do half what the men do, and get promoted timely. In Paul Revere's day, life expectancy was 43. First menstruation qualified a woman for marriage- you had to get moving, to have your kids early. VIsit a colonial house museum- we have some in my area- or even civil war era- people worked 6 days a week, often, at least 12 hrs/day. In the 1820's, they had DVD players- aka Shakespeare's plays. Alexis de Tocqueville noted this. American women in the 1950's had a life better than that of 70% of women worldwide. But they decided that women needed men like a fish needed a bicycle. No problem, get down to it, bicycles don't need the fish, either. I do not know any single men over say 35, who has any interest, at all, in a committed relationship with a woman. Single men over 40 that I know avoid women, as the massive risk they are. All that resentment, and false claims, and so on... Men are forced to assess risk. Relationships with women? "Achtung, minen" [Warning, active mine field]. Too many women seem to have completed their BSC degree. B*t Sh*t Crazy. I have never slept around. My first & second wife did play around... I cut them off. Not time for that BS, or for the MS- degree- More of the Same- or the PhD- Piled Higher and Deeper... Modern women are not making men walk away from dating, no no. They are making men RUN away from dating, at top speed, evading fire, and taking cover. Every now and then I speak w/teenagers, or young men in their 20's. They seem to have the idea that oh yes, prenuptial agreements stand up in court, they aren't the 50 meter target on the firing range- for women- the target nobody misses. When I was young, I got older guys, and even women, talking- to learn. I knew I was totally ignorant, and needed to learn. The veterans often had great wisdom, and were willing to share it, with someone who listened. The wedding stores in my area have all gone out of business... if that's not an indicator of issues, I don't know what is. There ARE no soulmates, any more than there is a Santa Claus, or Easter Bunny. There may be compatible ladies, guys, whose minds and hearts aren't totally toxic, but all relationships are imperfect. It's just the way our world is. We live in a world where: Body count is something to boast about. Milage on a car doesn't matter. Rain does not wet the ground. Fish fly a mile high over the ocean. Fast food is nutritious. Poisoning one's soul with hatred and resentment makes a woman far more attractive to the alpha male she wants. Adorning one's body with toxic cosmetics doesn't poison the liver and kidneys. Pouring out hatred and resentment on men makes them want women. Hallmark movies, Soap operas, romance movies, Disney heroines- are all documentaries of how the world works. Yes, Virginia, there really is a Santa Claus, and 20 years of throwing away your value absolutely gets you Mr. Big, just like it happened in Sex and the City, which is also a documentary. But let's make a comparison. Let's imagine a rabid Wolverine, so violent that it has to be caged in a cage made of logs. Would you risk your life, to be around such a creature? Maybe not. I don't play with poisonous snakes. When I was young, I was allowed to play with tiger kittens, but even then, I had no idea to be in the same space as adult tigers. Yes, lady, there are creepy people out there, and you are among them. The Romans used to line the Appian way with the bodies of crucified men, as an object lesson. Divorce courts perform the same function, in our society.

Beyonce pretty? UGH! I would pass a million times over

There's just not enough Chad's to go round. Men who can balance her social and sexual needs masterfully. We tend to get snagged up rather quick.

i thought having a career though was so a woman wouldnt feel trapped in a relationship financially. like i think i partially agree, if a woman is trying to get rich to impress men she's waisting her time, but if she just wants a guaranteed middleclass lifestyle with or without a man, that might be a safer strategy than going full trad wife 🤔. Also like if she just wants to be rich intrinsically, and not to attract men then spending all your time on your career would be the best strategy in that case too.

She is the elusive woman

Don't care what people will say about it. The truth is that this entire conversation should serve as a teachable moment and a cautionary tale. Dismissing and denegrating traditional values around sex and relationships and the differences between men and women has done nothing but introduce *absolute chaos* into society. So glad I'm married to a classy lady.

Should've also point out that nobody, neither men & women should sleep around...

Me nobody should sleep around, women are valuable for purity and loyalty, men it's about providing protect so on mostly.

In my 20’s and 30’s I was proud when dating a female doctor, biologist, chemist, CPA, business owner, etc. I married a woman at 40 because our FICO’s and net worth aligned. That worked for 18 years. Now at 62, the last thing I want is a girl that’s been run-through, brainwashed and tatted-up in college. I appreciate the love, attention, LOYALTY and cooking 😃of my South American girlfriend.

Why women prize their "career" its a job stop glorifying it. You wont find meaning in work. Its a part of you not your entire identity.

In reality, passport bros work because of the difference in economies, so that they are higher value in the other country because they have more money

Thank you dear lady !!! You are a true diamond 💎 you are real !!!! Thank you for sharing this !!!!

Omg! This woman doesnt say her carier was a mistake or she took a wrong path. She just ackowledes men do not care as much! Thats a large difference. Second, woman dont have cariers to make impression on men. They do it for their financial safety. Third, I believe most men would chose a caring, beautiful, classy and educated woman that can be still soft (means not overly argumentative) over nice cashier😂.

A woman having a career benefits them in having some sense of their own personal accomplishment, but doesn't make them more desirable to men.

Therapists have loads of women who cannot figure it out....loads

That women seems like an actualy mature person, wich is why she is like that.

The truth is that it doesn't matter to them. They see a man who gets a lot of women as more attractive. They can't understand why it isn't the same for men. Because we don't think and feel the same way and to us it is a negative thing for a potential mate.

Could we speak about a complementary concept of high standard men and women alongside high value men and women