an unhinged recap of FRENEMIES 

ESPECIALLY the racism from the earlier years

im still extremely upset people ador her after all the fake mental disorder videos she did (such as saying she has D.I.D.) which affected so many people. they normalize her actions just because shes “iconic” in media.. (even comments on this video are trying to give her praise??)

The name is sending me even more

@@thatdrawingguydanny6590 u think her baby being raised by her and moses is somehow not gonna be okay with their weird behaviour lol im confused......

​@@thatdrawingguydanny6590and the video where she pretended to be JonBenet Ramsey

THIS. 👏

Ethan is an absolute role model of a human being. Papa Bless with ✌🏼&❤.

YEAH EXACTLY SEEING FUXKING VIDS SAYING ETHAN BULLIED TRISHA BOTHERS ME SO FKNG MUCH HE WAS SOOOOO GOD DAMN PATIENT HES SINGLE HANDEDLY.PROVEN WHY TO SET BOUNDARIES WITH TRISHA IMMEDIATELY ...... OR SHE MIGHT FUCKING MARRY YOUR GFS BROTHER TO THE POI T SHE BRAINWASHES HIM HE WONT TALK TO ANY OF HIS FAMILY ANYMORE 3:33 LMAO WHETHER THEY KNOOOOWWWWW I FORGOT THAT ONCE MATTERED YEAH HE DISOWNED THE FUXKING FAMILY AND HILA LOST HER BEST FUXKING FRIEND AND THEYRE KIDS NOW.HAVE A FUXKING ESTRANGED COUSIN THIS IS A WEIRD ASS SENTENCE BUT I PRAY FOR MAILBU BARB........ FUCKING PLZ GET ADOPTED HERS OR IDFK FUXCCCKKKKKKK 4:09 NO SHE 100 FETISHIZES OF COURSE SHE FUXKING DIDNT YOU KNOW HOW MUCH IT ACTUALLY TAKES NOT TO PAY A RABBI TO CONVERT and dude wtf.....Ethan doesn't know English he's bad at it.... Big deal Trisha thinks everyone 24 7....wants to be her or in her.....WHAT DOES SHE THINK OF HER KID WOW WHAT A WORLD

Oh come on sorry I totally went off there😅 haha swear I'm not unhinged😂lolol

I'm from h3fam not Trisha I honestly had a harredddd time it took me a long time to watch those eps cuz she just TALKS. TO GD FAST. LIKE PAUSE FOR A SECOND AND HAVE A THOUGHT DONT JUST SPRAY WORDS! haha sry againnnn❤😅pc and lv

Good for her

Thanks for that information!

Yeah and then she took it back, can't have anything in this goddamn country

@@luiza.limaneves ....oh

@@megshep Claire Danes is a completely different person from a different country and not the one from the math lady meme

Her talking about how milk comes from cows and Ethan asking her to explain what made her say that actually makes me laugh out loud every time

She even has "I'm Andy Kaufman" in her bio 🙄 The audacity to compare herself to him lmao. She's causing actual real world trauma for clout & money.

@@JaseekaRawr Idk anything about Andy Kaufman, can you explain why that's such a big deal?

@@psychedelicgazelle1588 He was a legendary irl troll/actor from back in the 70s(iirc). He seemed like a genuinely nice dude tho. So for her to compare herself to him is insulting lol.

WAIRT REALLY?

I highly recommend the channels "uncle herman" and "primink". The latter doesn't post anymore, but they both have fantastic content about RU-vid drama

Seconding the recommendation for uncle Herman

Fr lol

I’d recommend GEM reloaded/ formally known as frenemies reloaded. She’s really funny and goes over everything

Same! This was very insightful (and hilarious) as I just became obsessed with the Just Trish pod. Still love her. Some people are just so misunderstood!

hiii, big h3 fan here but never learned about moses' previous marriages or the "recording them in secret" part -- could you elaborate & possibly share some sources?? thanks :)

recording them in secret??

​@@jessicawynkoop7149see the comment above for context

​@@jessicawynkoop7149ethan covers it in his trisha clapback/mask off rant that i think was removed from the podcast. But you can probably find it on yt somewhere

@@georgiaoddieOn one episode of Off the Rails, Ethan shared that he invited Trisha to do one final episode after their big blowout, she agreed and they actually did do a episode, but Ethan said it did not go well and he had decided not to post it. After the episode, he found out that Moses/Trisha actually secretly recorded the episode without telling Ethan as their excuse was ‘just in case Ethan manipulated the footage, etc.’ Later, Trisha kept blackmailing through her videos I believe, saying to Ethan that she would release the footage and ‘expose’ them. I’m pretty sure that’s what happened, if I’m wrong sorry!!

As Phillip DeFranco once said, Frenemies was "The Trisha Paytas Image Rehabilitation Show"

yeah she's literally on the bimbo to nazi apologist pipeline i didnt know even existed lol

@@greenm0nday760 She also beat Moses until he had a fat bruise on his arm and she definitely abuses him to this day but at the same time Moses is a fellow POS, he has stealthing allegations and talked shit behind Ethan and Hila’s back. I stg he’s also with Trish because he wants her money and to spite his family because he’s said as much but I still have empathy for anyone who has been / is being abused in such a way. He’s trash for supporting Trisha, a woman who dressed up as a murdered toddler and re-enacted her assault and murder.

She also is well known for trolling, and 95% of her problematic behavior was just that. She is far more intelligent and calculating that she gets credit for.

@@thesovgc Yeah I completely agree with you and I think she is very smart and is talented comedically. It’s just a shame that she doesn’t use it for good because I feel like she could if she actually wanted to, I think because of her upbringing and stuff she’s a bit lazy and self indulgent as well as having lots of emotional issues which leads her to abusing the people around her.

change is slow honestly. i’m not gonna use her mental health as an excuse but shes going to have to almost fully recover before she can truly offer any sort of meaningful amends. she seems to be doing better than she used to but it’ll take a long time. it might not even happen. but regardless of all that people are right to feel like she is untrustworthy and to not forgive her

Maybe yall should realize that the point of change isn't to make amends. Sometimes it's keep moving forward but in a different direction. You can't put the shit back in the horse. She has no obligation either to make amends. It's called radical acceptance. It will never be resolved and that's okay. Move on. That is literally what we are taught to do in recovery for that specific disorder. NOT go back and try to mend anything, because the rumination is a trigger. But to just let it all go and choose differently in the future. You all should get some therapy too if you think you are entitled to anything just because someone offended you

@@painoftheheart12 you kind of are twisting my words here. My issue with Trisha is that she repeatedly 'takes accountability' and apologises for things, but then she does something equally as horrid or venomous, proving that her apology was just words and not a commitment to change. If she was to change without apologising, that still wouldn't be great, but ultimately that's not my problem with her now. I've been through DBT. I know about radical acceptance. What you've defined as radical acceptance was not how I was taught about it in my course, it was more about accepting your whole self, negative parts included, and being able to move past the desire to procrastinate or shove down negative throughs and instead let them be a part of you. It's not about not apologising to people. I honestly don't know where you got that idea. Its also important to point out that influencer apologies are not like personal apologies in your relationships. They work in a different way.

@notlurking2128 I'm saying this at the front because your lack of being taught real radical acceptance just because you had a therapist who taught you their version of it needs to be addressed before everything else. DBT was made FOR BPD. Specifically. Which is why it is IMPERATIVE that radical acceptance extends BEYOND THE SELF. And COMPLETE radical acceptance has a focus on ACCEPTING A LACK OF CLOSURE congrats you identified the mental illness. That's what a personality disorder is. People are going to do awful things if they think it was a good idea. And you even pointed out, Trusha does something ELSE. So you can't claim that she doesn't mean her apologies. She tries not to make the same exact mistake twice. And that is the mental illness. And radical acceptance has many many layers to it in therapy. Accepting yourself and where you are, and accepting what's happened. Just move on. It is necessary to just leave the broom even though you haven't finished sweeping. That is the anecdote the creator of radical acceptance gave to the reasoning behind the creation of acceptance in DBT. Just stop what you are doing whether it is resolved or not. Radical acceptance in DBT IS NOT just some body positivity style self love. It's way way more than that. And if that wasn't how you were taught it, then you weren't taught the entirety of it. Nothing Trisha has done has ever been on par with people like James Charles, Shane Dawson or Colleen. She's said things that were not okay, or just blatantly ignorant and made herself look as stupid as possible with some shitty take. But never has anyone walked away being harmed by anything Trisha has done. No one's Trans journey was hindered because Trisha identified as a Chicken Nugget. No one was quoting Trisha on alt right RU-vid as some kind of authority on fascism when she word vomited about Obama. Okay? She hasn't done anything really at all that bad to the people of the internet. She has absolutely done some horrible things in her private life like hitting her husband in a fit of rage. But that's not anything RU-vid deserves an apology for. She's doing a good job in this video. You can actively see her talking herself through DBT lessons. Distancing from the situation, not letting herself get too overwhelmed with ruminating. She's doing good. You don't have to like her. She's not asking you to. But not letting someone be allowed to move on because you think they shouldn't be allowed to show change rather than claim change is an interesting one.

it’s sad since I believe they’re no contact and the family is split up

Easy, there are not

They don't talk to her or Moses.

That's the issue. There is no family events where they're all together. Ethan recently came out and said that they have to plan family events around seeing each other because Trisha and Moses refuse to be in the same room as Ethan and Hila. It sounds really difficult and heartbreaking.

@@shutup5258 it's because hila and ethan constantly acted like moses was only dating trisha as a joke and tried to push her away and they got cut off. moses had been fighting with their dad years before this and felt like hila always sided with their traditional family.

it's the way she just counted badly 😭😭😭

i was gonna say… i can’t speak korean either but i have working ears and it did not sound like any korean i’ve heard before

I always suspected, but never knew.

Are we actually sure tho?? I'm not convinced

one of the people of all time

Are you sure? I thought Trisha was A chicken nugget

100% she just doesn't rlly break character so it looks somewhat convincing

Thing is if you never see her break character then it's hard what is a joke and what is just her being dumb, like with nikocado, if I never saw him break character during an interview I would've continued believing he was genuinely a moron, like he's still stupid but now I'm sure that his every action had actual thought put into it

She's occasionally air-headed, but 90% of the time she's playing it up

This podcast was wild😂

It's still good. Fun to watch.

Just a lil sad to know the friendship broke down

i would give anything to be able to watch this podcast again for the first time it’s just so funny

Tbh the podcast was hilarious and a great time until everything broke down.

She’s iconic in the worst possible way

i’ve been a fan of h3 since 2016 and been watching the podcast since it’s inception and it’s been so wonderful seeing all the new fans! welcome to the family!

yeah i only found out abt frenemies a year ago and that’s when i started watching h3. i don’t really like zach but ethan, hila and the crew are very entertaining 😭

Stayed for Ethan, doubled down for Olivia

Its an act

i had to stop watching the podcast bc everything that came out of her mouth made me so uncomfortable lmao like it’s impossible for me to understand not only her complete inability to give a fuck about how she comes across

It's literally the oldest routine in comedy. Eccentric person and the straight man

​@@potatoes422 The thing is though, why would someone act like this? You have to have some sort of issues to actively behave this anti-social for clout/attention. Who in the right mind genuinely wants to pretend like they had no idea what the holocaust was whilst being over 30 years of age? Anyways at the end of the day it doesn't really matter whether it's an act or not. The only thing that is factual here is that she is detached from reality. The problem with stating it's 'just an act' is that it allows for someone to disregard responsibility for actions, in the same vein as "it's just a prank bro".

I just hear the little birthday song they play during the 42 bit in my head reading this lmaoo

I was about to comment this, it is imperative that all fans know about the classic age debacle

Yes he's 42 it's a conspiracy that he's 38

He’s actually 43 now🥳

Trisha was a huge fangirl of Jacksfilms, people in H3 subreddit find several comments of her on Jack's tweets. Then Jack do impressions of youtubers, there 2 videos, and in one of them was Trisha's impression, but it's unknown what was her reaction on that. But for sure her hatred to him started after some award, where Jack win yutuber of the year. He didn't talk with everyone, including her, and it offended Trisha. That's what I understand, but I agree, this is so funny 😅

Majority of people were not

They're all on r/frenemies3 now - 'tis a scary place

@@captain_britain had to mute it because every time it got recommended for me I felt I got dumber.

Of course - everything is an echo chamber for you 13 year olds.

I'm sure they're like 10-13

Agreed. Trisha Paytas is genuinely smart. She has gamed the internet and is rich because of it. She's playing a character and has been for 15+ years. I remember her from 2011-12 still on youtube where she had a popular video claiming she was voting for Mitt Romney because he is hot or something. She knows how to get clicks!

i agree and when they would call someone out everyone knew and they would basically take them down they kinda ruled youtube

The whole podcast was an act. I mean come on, they kept making “jokes” about how it would end.

i was just realising it's because of her adam Sandler obsession but ohmygod we were blind to the signs

Can you explain

@@user-ge7ok3cf5h Bernard the elf is considered widely to be a jew-coded character, also the actor who played him, David Krumholtz, is Jewish

I can’t imagine what content you had to be consuming back then to be more aware of Trisha than Ethan