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@odetoclear
@odetoclear Год назад
questions are always good, if the person who you're asking is comfortable with it and you ask in a respectful manner. personally it makes me kinda happy that people are willing to learn about it
@e.alanis
@e.alanis Год назад
True, but always have those people who are very invasive, and makes people uncomfortable yk. Sorry for any grammar error
@odetoclear
@odetoclear Год назад
@@e.alanis yeah, as long as people ask it someone who's comfortable w talking about the topic and are respectful about it
@rachellenormand9603
@rachellenormand9603 Год назад
I agree as a disabled person, but the best is when I let kids ask questions. There's never any judgement, just genuine curiosity.
@waterwraith1189
@waterwraith1189 Год назад
got asked invasive questions abt lik periods by my dentist, she shat on other trans patients and how they didn't pass, bruh I'm on T
@FiveAlive95
@FiveAlive95 Год назад
Exactly this! I get questions from clients at work all the time, and most are respectful and tbh I've always lacked a filter anyways. So while I tell them the trans community is by no means a hive mind, I'm happy to share a bit if it makes life a little easier for another person who might not be so comfortable sharing
@katarinaantic1081
@katarinaantic1081 Год назад
I misread your name as Noah FINANCE, was really intrigued by what kind of financial questions cis people are too afraid to ask haha. Ended up binging your channel, I love your work!
@hazytrop
@hazytrop 10 месяцев назад
I CANT 😭 lol
@officalsharp
@officalsharp 8 месяцев назад
😂💀
@frystalcrire
@frystalcrire 2 месяца назад
i can not unsee that
@agay1867
@agay1867 Год назад
I like people who RESPECTFULLY ask questions
@DanielShortKing
@DanielShortKing Год назад
I love people who go don’t go like “bUt IrReVerSiblE DaMage To YouR bOdY 🤓🤓” Well said Einstein, MY body, if I want to throw myself off a bridge I CAN
@Sam-zu5mr
@Sam-zu5mr Год назад
Bet you really dont.
@Someone-dv7hw
@Someone-dv7hw Год назад
@@Sam-zu5mr what are you trying to do other than being an a**hole?
@Dutch3DMaster
@Dutch3DMaster Год назад
Honestly, I typically explain to people that I do not necessarily have problems with very personal questions, it's just that some people decide that the really personal type of questions are perfectly fine to ask as the absolutely first one.
@Dutch3DMaster
@Dutch3DMaster Год назад
@Ross With No Sauce I have at times responded back with the exact same question, or by going "Would you feel happy knowing people would ask your mom or sister such a question?" Sometimes, it works, but not always.
@ahyesbsoisosman2919
@ahyesbsoisosman2919 Год назад
The ✨hello underachievers✨ is so iconic and amazing
@lexi.brock15
@lexi.brock15 Год назад
Yes it is! ❤🤟🏼🌼🦋🏳️‍🌈
@ELIAHAVAH
@ELIAHAVAH Год назад
It's kind of taunting tho, because Noah is most DEFINITELY NOT an underachiever, lol. He is like literally touring the US and UK in a band. 😂
@ahyesbsoisosman2919
@ahyesbsoisosman2919 Год назад
@@ELIAHAVAH ikr, just sorta inspired me tho
@noahfinncesimp8500
@noahfinncesimp8500 Год назад
You are gay me too
@Sam-zu5mr
@Sam-zu5mr Год назад
Not really dude
@amehayami934
@amehayami934 Год назад
Trans girl here I'm 48. If this is a phase this is a really long phase lol and it doesn't seem like it's going to end anytime soon. And happier now then I ever was before.
@sand_eater101
@sand_eater101 10 месяцев назад
Same for me, except I’m pre-HRT (ftm), a minor, and only been out for 2 years. Usually my sexuality phases passed within a few days to a month (as a reference for how quick my identity phases came and went). Idk, but I’ve resolved my sexual trauma and my identity stayed, so I guess that’s a win
@Jax_4200
@Jax_4200 Год назад
Just explained to my mother how trans peeps and different terms for sexuality works, like for an example a cis man and a trans man would be a gay couple and such lol. She tries her best to understand everything lgbtq but sometimes when she gets it wrong it sounds really cute like she’s a little baby ally just learning everything 🥺 (I’m trans ftm btw, haven’t started t or anything yet but I often make jokes about how much my two lil chesticles bother me and she finds my jokes really funny , and it also helps my dysphoria to make fun of my own situation 😅👌🏳️‍⚧️ Edit: For all the transphobes under my comment I know what I want for my own life and you can shove your opinions up your a- No offence
@bianagranger3509
@bianagranger3509 Год назад
LOL🤣 Also I hope it goes well if/when you start T, and same for if you don't!
@hollyhell3772
@hollyhell3772 Год назад
Lol I feel you. I had to teach a coworker once the difference between transgender, transexual, and transvestite after she told us (privately) "wow, that client was super transvestite" and I was just like "wait... how can you... how even... what?". She doesn't know I'm trans, I'm in the closet and pre transition, she knows I'm lgbt tho. It was interesting to do, because she is not lgbt phobic just suuuper confused
@Jax_4200
@Jax_4200 Год назад
@@bianagranger3509 I’m turning 15 in October and I hope to start T when I’m 16 or 17 since the legal age for it in my country is 16. And thank you :)
@Jax_4200
@Jax_4200 Год назад
@@hollyhell3772 Lol, confused people can be really funny sometimes 😅😂
@cantagiousca5220
@cantagiousca5220 Год назад
@@hollyhell3772 and?
@summertimesadness1642
@summertimesadness1642 Год назад
"I am Trans, i have done it." You have done being Trans congratulations 👏
@imreals1mple
@imreals1mple Год назад
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@imreals1mple
@imreals1mple Год назад
you fr
@AHHHHHHHH.
@AHHHHHHHH. Год назад
Hi, genderfluid person here. I personally don't consider myself as trans because majority of the time I feel like my AGAB (Assigned Gender At Birth), but it's different for different people.
@bingbozo6969
@bingbozo6969 Год назад
Oh wow I'm like the total opposite of that XD but hello fellow genderfluid :)
@taiyouscandalous1175
@taiyouscandalous1175 Год назад
I'm genderfluid but originally thought that I was a trans-girl and I've transitioned slightly so far (but probably wanting to transition more in the future). Nowadays I only call myself trans when it feels relevant/correct.
@FrozEnbyWolf150
@FrozEnbyWolf150 Год назад
I'm agender genderflor, and I consider myself trans because my identity never really fluctuates towards my AGAB. Technically genderfluid is a subset of nonbinary, which falls under the trans umbrella, so you can call yourself trans if you so choose. I do because I relate to the experiences of other trans people, and face similar challenges.
@hxneyedbellsss
@hxneyedbellsss Год назад
hi, demigirl here, i also don’t consider myself trans as i don’t feel like the label describes me and i’m not really doing anything to change myself physically
@chuuchuuutrain
@chuuchuuutrain Год назад
What's agab? What are all these terms😭
@antumbraeclipse340
@antumbraeclipse340 Год назад
Even as a child when people called me a girl I'd snap and say "NO I'm not a girl! I'm a tomboy!" Like it was my own personal gender. Few years later on I get to discover I was born intersex (internal workings) and yeah. Makes far to much sense now.
@Iisho
@Iisho Год назад
Im one of those people who kept my birthname. I'm ftm and my name is gender neutral but is generally seen as more masculine. I actually quite like my name and it doesn't make me dysphoric, so I kept it.
@joshuanorman2
@joshuanorman2 Год назад
Actually so based + people can't use your deadname if you don't have one
@Iisho
@Iisho Год назад
@@joshuanorman2 Yea! It also makes things easier on my friends. We live in an area that is generally unsupportive of LGBTQ+ topics, so we often have to use our deadnames and birth pronouns. I always feel bad when I call them something that is incorrect. However, they dont have to worry about deadnaming me, so I hope that gives them some relief 👍
@joshuanorman2
@joshuanorman2 Год назад
​@@Iisho omg I hope they become more accepting eventually. My friend wasn't out to his dad so he told us to just call him "bitch" when he's around.
@Iisho
@Iisho Год назад
@@joshuanorman2 I hope so too. I noticed my mom *might* be coming around to they/them pronouns, which is the most I've seen from her ever. I likely wont be coming out to my parents anytime soon though. I'm planning to do so when I move out, which will likely be sometime after college. So, I have at least 3 more years ahead of me. The main thing is, most of my family is extremely Christian. I do care about my family, they're good people, just stuck in their ways and living in a republic, conservative area doesnt help. I dont want to lose my family but not coming out isnt an option for me, just waiting till it's safe
@joshuanorman2
@joshuanorman2 Год назад
@@Iisho Well good luck man, I hope you live your own life exactly how you want to
@Error-kv5lm
@Error-kv5lm Год назад
I like getting some out of pocket questions but some are so invasive and bizare.
@Otigyrum
@Otigyrum Год назад
There is the "egg prime directive", where you shouldn't ever tell someone that you think they're trans if they've not come to that conclusion themselves. Very rarely will that go well, whether you are right or wrong. Self actualization is incredibly important, the better route is to just let them see healthy trans perspective and if it resonates with them they will have the tools to figure themselves out. Also just being a good friend to those in your life, if they have a coming out it'll be good to make it so they have an environment where they feel safe/comfy for that! Egg is a good term itself, but yeah, never call someone an Egg. I favour the usage where someone who is out as trans retrospects like "yeah in my past life before I cracked my egg". Like its good vocabulary to have, just don't try and out someone who may not even be out to themselves.
@lostconstellationsband
@lostconstellationsband Год назад
This reminds me of the time I told my best friend I was considering making a second Discord account to pretend to be a boy and see what it was like, "not that I'm trans or anything", and both of us agreed that we couldn't imagine me being trans. Fast forward to a year later when I come out as trans on my original Discord. Both of us feel very silly.
@naluzoniro
@naluzoniro Год назад
Exactly ! I like the term for myself, because I had a looooooong egg phase (ha, it WAS a phase after all ! x) but just don't force it on people
@Considerthisplease
@Considerthisplease Год назад
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@elijahfeuerstein4710
@elijahfeuerstein4710 Год назад
One of my friends came out as trans to me, and always thought I might be trans. Couple years later I come upon NB... They weren't exactly right... though they weren't entirely wrong either...
@survivorfortyseveral
@survivorfortyseveral Год назад
I am nonbinary (afab) and I identify somewhat with womanhood, like a demigirl sort of thing, but I present mostly feminine. I use she/they pronouns but don’t rlly care if people only use she. I have no plans to transition medically. I don’t identify as trans but sometimes people categorize me as trans because I am nonbinary but I don’t really feel like it fits. But I do know other afab demigirls who ID as trans so it’s very individual I think
@chuuchuuutrain
@chuuchuuutrain Год назад
What's afab
@r0tten.4pple
@r0tten.4pple Год назад
@@chuuchuuutrain it's an acronym that means assigned female at birth
@suchendelokidottir5673
@suchendelokidottir5673 Год назад
I'm also demi femme. I know that technically I'm a type of trans, but I don't call myself that because it feels like I would be appropriating a struggle that really isn't mine.
@purplecloudzz7279
@purplecloudzz7279 Год назад
I'm the aforementioned afab demigirl that identifies as both enby and trans haha. For me, when I first came to terms with being non binary, I hesitated to call myself trans because I didn't experience a lot of body dysphoria(mostly social), I didn't want to medically transition at all, kept my birth name, etc. Basically, I didn't think I was trans enough and I was almost scared to call myself trans, which internalised transphobia definitely played a part in, as well as truscum mentalities that you have to experience dysphoria to be trans. But the discomfort with being called a girl and being seen as one was just too much, plus I definitely felt more neutral most of the time, so I got more and more comfortable with the label, knowing that it's about personal choice than how others see you, if that makes sense? Definitely not saying that's the case for other enby people who don't identify as trans, this is just my personal experience :)
@survivorfortyseveral
@survivorfortyseveral Год назад
@@purplecloudzz7279 that’s super valid, for me I don’t mind being called a girl/woman so I feel a bit different about it. overall I’m pretty ambivalent toward my gender
@GiantRatThatMakesAllOfTheRules
Im a trans guy and when i was younger, my mum made me dresses, i wore them. Now when my dad talks to me about how much he misses his daughter, he keeps saying , "well, you liked dresses as a kid, so youre my daughter." Dresses are pretty and i dont rememver owning any pants so i couldnt really wear them, what do i do? My dad wont call me his son, it is dreadfull
@coralovesnature
@coralovesnature Год назад
I’m not a parent, so I can’t say from experience, but what I’ve heard from others is that it can help to allow parents and others who knew you well as your previous gender a “mourning period” to mourn the loss of their “daughter”. But then they should also realize they are gaining a son. I know it’s probably annoying and frustrating to hear stuff like that from your dad, but it could help him to get over it faster if you tell him that’s okay and valid to experience missing his “little girl”, but just like everyone else (including cis people), you’ve grown up and are a different person now, it just so happens that part of your growing up is being trans. And while he may have fond memories where he perceived you as his “daughter”, it’s not that you want him to forget the fond memories, you just want to make new fond memories as his son going forward. Maybe it could help a little, but either way, good luck!
@GiantRatThatMakesAllOfTheRules
@@coralovesnature Thank you
@sand_eater101
@sand_eater101 10 месяцев назад
@@coralovesnatureYes, it is absolutely okay to mourn the “loss” of someone, as long as you move on.
@sardonicrose
@sardonicrose Год назад
On the egg thing: I can actually tell a story from my own life that directly relates to this one. I have a friend who is a trans woman. She was about 15 when we met, well before she realized that she's trans. My best friend is also our mutual friend. I am about five years older than my trans woman friend (I'll call her "Aurora.") and my best friend ("Amelia") is nearly 10 years older than me, 15 years older than Aurora. I'm Agender, and at that point in time, still didn't come to that conclusion, but knew what struggling with knowing your gender looks like since I'd done it for so long. Amelia admits that she may be considered Nonbinary in some ways, but doesn't want to be known as that. Plus, she's just significantly older and has a ton of life experience on top of that. So, Amelia and I STRONGLY suspected Aurora was a trans woman well before she really got into experimenting with it. So! Did we confront her about it? Tell her directly that we know she's a trans girl? Constantly bring up trans topics when she was around? No!!!! Do NOT do that!!!! A journey of gender identity is something VERY personal, and takes time, reflection, introspection, and experimentation. So, how could we support then? What did we do? We gave her space to grow! When she said she wanted to try certain clothing, we didn't bring up gender. When she brought up femboy stuff, we kept our mouths shut. When she started experimenting with her online presence, we addressed her how she wanted and made no other comment. When the day came that she came out? We accepted her and started using the names and pronouns she wanted right away, and fended off anyone who tried to be fucking rude! After the dust had settled, THEN we casually remarked that we had known for some time, and had a good laugh about it. THAT is how you support someone through their questioning and experiments. Not pushing the topic on them all the time and insisting things, but instead, with openness and acceptance of the changes that come.
@TheoRae8289
@TheoRae8289 Год назад
thiiiissss
@nyandoesthings
@nyandoesthings Год назад
My little brother was the most obvious egg ever, I wouldn't be too surprised if he actually had known for some time and was testing the waters. My favorite was "I want to go on T, but not like...because I'm trans. I just want to confuse people about my gender." Anyway, yeah, I kept it to myself for the next year before he came out to me, besides switching to "my little sibling" and such online when talking about him. I once considered telling someone they might be an egg. Before you get alarmed, I didn't. But they're actually quite old and might have been trying to confide in me about gender stuff and for a brief period I considered talking to them because what if they die before realizing? Then I decided that death comes for us all and we don't know when. But I wonder about that person all the time and hope they're alright and that they might find what makes them happy.
@Considerthisplease
@Considerthisplease Год назад
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@imreals1mple
@imreals1mple Год назад
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@kieranshae
@kieranshae Год назад
omg thank you for saying that genital preference is okay. I think it's okay too. I'm a transguy, and I get called transphobic because I don't like pensis. I've been told my discomfort with penises doesn't matter and I should get over it.
@Doleryn
@Doleryn Год назад
I'm a non-binary Woman, I use They/Them pronouns, but I still live the same way as I was before physically. And I don't like using the Trans term in general, because I feel like it doesn't really fit me as much as other Trans people. But it depends with who I'm speaking, all depending on the context.
@kavitadeva
@kavitadeva Год назад
Hi this is a sincere question. If you're non-binary why would you call yourself a non-binary woman? To me non-binary means you don't feel neither like a woman nor a man your gender fluid. please explain to me what I do not understand here. Thanks.
@_dazai_soukoku
@_dazai_soukoku Год назад
@@kavitadeva to me I identify as genderfluid, non binary. most of the time I feel like they/them but sometimes the term man or woman feels more like me sometimes or she/they he/they etc
@territoryxdeath3614
@territoryxdeath3614 Год назад
@@kavitadeva I believe it’s a different way to say Non-binary femme! It means that, while you go by they/them and prefer to be referred to as gender neutral terms, you physically portray in a feminine/female way and are comfortable in a female body.
@kavitadeva
@kavitadeva Год назад
@@territoryxdeath3614 you portray in feminine/female ways. That statement was the only one I kind of had a problem with. Because to me I can only speak for my own experience I would say I am non-binary I don't use any terms about myself at all I don't give a crap if someone calls me she it's no big deal to me. but my clothing is not feminine nor do I portray myself as super female. I guess you would just say I'm androgynous. So when you said that part about they portray us feminine and female I don't know that that would be necessarily so if you're non-binary. but I was very interested in everything else you had to say well in everything you had to say I just didn't agree with that one little part. thank you so much for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate it.
@kavitadeva
@kavitadeva Год назад
@@_dazai_soukoku I feel very gender fluid and dress androgynously. I just can't get into using the word they or them. And I don't like it for myself. First of all it's not proper grammar and it sounds like somebody's an idiot. I didn't mean that to be rude to you but to me when I hear people saying they or them it's just really not proper use of the language. So for me I don't care if people say she it doesn't bother me at all because I am a she. thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate it very much
@gummirwl
@gummirwl Год назад
My mom thinking I'm a cissie:" there were no signs in your childhood" Me: * *Crying when leaving home bc i don't pass* *
@evan_is_evil
@evan_is_evil Год назад
fr tho
@chuuchuuutrain
@chuuchuuutrain Год назад
Wdym?
@flitefulwantssubs402
@flitefulwantssubs402 Год назад
@@chuuchuuutrain Their mom thought there was no sign of them being trans rather than cis, but there was a major sign- they cried when leaving the house because they did not "pass" as the gender they identify as (so other people will see them as the wrong gender, the one they were assigned at birth rather than what they identify as). Hope this helps!
@Sam-zu5mr
@Sam-zu5mr Год назад
Its sissy...not cissie. Your moms probably right thou. Moms are spot on like that. They know thier kids.
@evan_is_evil
@evan_is_evil Год назад
@@Sam-zu5mr they meant like cissie as in cis-y not sissy
@SnailTrailJay
@SnailTrailJay Год назад
We all know it’s gonna be a good day if Noah posts
@the_alien_1239
@the_alien_1239 Год назад
100%
@the_alien_1239
@the_alien_1239 Год назад
A better day anyways :)
@Considerthisplease
@Considerthisplease Год назад
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@imreals1mple
@imreals1mple Год назад
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@a.c.1839
@a.c.1839 Год назад
I'd say the deadname thing is also a privacy/doxxing hazard - especially if the trans person hasn't changed their legal name yet
@tobe3940
@tobe3940 Год назад
Doxxing? Do you mind if I ask how? As in if a toxic person or an abuser trying to blackmail the trans person with it or take advantage of their fear of their birth name being posted out there?
@Considerthisplease
@Considerthisplease Год назад
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@litheralySOcool
@litheralySOcool Год назад
@@tobe3940 its kinda goes like this Know name > know socials > know family > know country > know adress
@Leo-ct2ng
@Leo-ct2ng Год назад
The ONLY reason I’ll ask the bottom questions is because I want bottom surgery and I want to know the spicy parts because that’s important to me 😅
@the_alien_1239
@the_alien_1239 Год назад
That’s kl!! I don’t want bottom surgery I don’t think but I do want top surgery and i get wanting to have knowledge abt it!!
@sillykristy
@sillykristy Год назад
That's not a cis person asking though ;)
@thecorlorlesspig1993
@thecorlorlesspig1993 Год назад
@@sillykristy that was you?
@Sam-zu5mr
@Sam-zu5mr Год назад
Trust me you dont babes. This is coming from a Cis male.
@Leo-ct2ng
@Leo-ct2ng Год назад
@@Sam-zu5mr ???
@Alex-kz4tn
@Alex-kz4tn Год назад
My favorite moment as a trans man was when I gaslit 2 teenage boys into thinking I was a cis man with a hormone deficiency Simply because I didn't want to answer questions bc they were already asking questions abt my sexuality
@shaunclarke04
@shaunclarke04 7 месяцев назад
“If I was nonbinary I wouldn’t call myself trans, that’ll just confuse people” Exactly the point! I WANT to confuse cis people it’s hilarious 🤣
@tonytheparamorestan
@tonytheparamorestan Год назад
ok a question more for the people in the comments rather than Noah but has anyone else had this experience of being fine with your birth gender for the majority of your life but the more you are being directly referred to as THAT the more you are uncomfortable with it? I am a biological man and now at 21 having lived with a father who tries to make me into a self-centred hypermasc sexist trash I hate being referred to as a man/guy/boy. I also heard that not understanding gender as a concept is common for neurodivergent people - and I am one - so now I identify as agender and use all pronouns but idk. is distancing yourself from your birth gender after being beaten to death with it a common thing or do I just need therapy 💀
@mikealheit8116
@mikealheit8116 Год назад
I guess I have a similar sort of experience because I didn't really feel uncomfortable being gendered female even after coming out as agender for a while and then dysphoria suddenly hit me like a delayed freight train a while after when i was still hearing people call me 'she' (even though at the time I used all pronouns) like I was a girl, so maybe it's a thing of not feeling super uncomfortable with it just because people didn't overly highlight it so you ended up thinking of it as gender-neutral in your head? (I'm probably not explaining well but that was kinda my experience with it)
@oh_look_gay
@oh_look_gay Год назад
I'm a trans guy, and before puberty I didn't mind being seen as a girl, I just didn't think about my gender too deep, I was busy having fun as a kid lol and I didn't have any knowledge of trans people. In middle school after puberty started I began dressing more masculine, and began to hate feminine clothes. I also had a phase of hating pink stuff but I'm over it lol I didn't realize I was trans until I was like 16. I'm 18 now. I wish you well on your self discovery journey
@melissel5648
@melissel5648 Год назад
From my own experience as a trans guy, who struggled a lot (and still do) with being a guy because of all the hyper toxic masculinity I wouldn't say not liking being grouped with guys is necessarily a sign of not being one. But for me, I know that being considered one makes more sense than anything else, even when I hate it. If it doesn't for you, I would say it definitely is a sign and thinking you're trans when you're not is actually much rarer than the opposite :) But in the end, only you can tell who you are and thinking about what you need/would like gender-wise instead of how to identify could also be helpful. I'm sorry you had to go through it and wish you the best ^^
@catz537
@catz537 Год назад
It's interesting you say that cuz I'm autistic (AFAB) but I don't like being referred to as a "woman" - not necessarily because I associate negative things with the word, but I just don't feel like that word describes me. As I've gotten older, I like being called a "girl" less and less too, but that could just be an aversion to being infantilized. Idk, it's hard to tell the difference sometimes between not liking when people use certain pronouns/gendered words to describe you because you don't identify with that gender as a whole, or simply because you don't identify with something related to that specific word. Or maybe you just don't identify with *some* parts of what you were taught about what it means to be a "man" or a "woman." To my neurodivergent brain, gender just isn't real. It's a made up concept and all the ideas about gender and what it's supposed to mean is meaningless because everyone has different ideas for themselves about what it means, and about what their specific gendered identity means. One man could have a completely different idea of his gender than another man, even though they both identify as men. So it just seems really strange to me that we still try to categorize and cling to this abstract thing
@sillykristy
@sillykristy Год назад
Yes definitely. I always knew there was something different about me but I wasn't really able to identify it until I was almost 36, before which I would have said I was comfortable with my gender. Knowing changed that, and I couldn't ever be comfortable as a man ever again.
@1stoverthinker
@1stoverthinker Год назад
Honestly I hate being asked "Are you sure you feel like this?" because of stupid stuff like; - I graduated in graphic design and illustration (in my head, for some reason this = feminine? There were like 3 guys in my class if you exclude me and one other trans guy that I know of) - SOMETIMES I "baby talk" to my cat - I like to look at interesting fabric designs, EVEN IF IT'S A DRESS. (I hate to wear them but don't mind looking and can tell when a dress is nice.) - I have plants. Many plants. I love plants. Just like, haha, my mom. (Fuck haters because the air in my room is CRISPY!) - I don't necessarily like a lot of "traditionally manly stuff" (Like hard rock or whatever, never been into shooter games as much or like, vehicles.) - I wasn't very... boy-ish as a kid, more like, very disobedient. (I wore dresses, skirts, I played with dolls, etc.) I already doubt myself like every evening because of all this and whenever someone asks me if I'm sure I need to leave the same space and sit down somewhere and remind myself that the only thing that matters when it comes to my identity is that I feel more myself and comfortable when people perceive me as a guy. However I can't wait for people to tell me "Guys who like the things you do are usually gay though." because CHECK MATE, I'M HOMOSEXUAL. I LIKE GUYS. Little bonus little tiny thing: I have this nifty mental illness that is 99% of the time represented by female individuals in the media and it makes me so angry when people say "guys don't have this illness" like,,, are we really going to gender mental issues? Cool. (This is also a reason why I am obsessed with any media that has a male character with lot of my problems like this, even if consuming it might be unhealthy for me sometimes.)
@delaneyproctor3491
@delaneyproctor3491 Год назад
It's so silly because there are literally **thousands** of cis men who have the same likes/dislikes as you (of any and all sexualities, not just gay). I really don't understand why anyone would ever ask "are you sure" about something like this, like what do they expect you to say? "oh you know what? I **hadn't** considered literally every other possibility before deciding to tell you, thanks for pointing that out.." 🙄 Also, I really don't think it's inherently unhealthy to consume media that you strongly relate to in some way. It could very well be a life coping mechanism for you, because you know that the character was very likely inspired by someone/something very real. 🤗
@Charlie-fi5cv
@Charlie-fi5cv Год назад
Remember, gender is not equal to interests, likes, dislikes, or achievements. Just be whoever feels right, whether that's a man, woman, person or other:)
@ko-wl7vg
@ko-wl7vg Год назад
I have that mental illness too. i just got out of treatment for it and i hate that the media says its just girls because when i was there half the people were guys. like mental illness doesnt discriminate and i dont get why people think they do
@ghurcbghurcb
@ghurcbghurcb Год назад
@@ko-wl7vg Sorry if I'm being invasive, but... What mental illness are you talking about? I can't recall a single one that would be represented in media as "girls' mental illness".
@ko-wl7vg
@ko-wl7vg Год назад
@@ghurcbghurcb it's all good. im not 100% sure this is what OP was talking about, but eating disorders is what came to my mind
@gerf2346
@gerf2346 Год назад
Came out to my mum the other day, id planned it for months and made a book and everything and the first think she said when she saw the giant trans flag on the front was: oh trust me, I had an inkling. And that will forever live in my head rent free
@zeppar881
@zeppar881 Год назад
Why be trans
@buzz_bzuzz
@buzz_bzuzz Год назад
Hey, I’m agender but only use that label when I have to explain my gender to people. I don’t feel like genders suit me and feel no connection to any label regarding to gender. As an AMAB person, I don’t call myself trans but don’t call myself cis, because I’m neither, I’m nothing. On the contrary, I DO call myself gay because that label feels better and the gay male community is toxic enough so it makes life easier.
@buzz_bzuzz
@buzz_bzuzz Год назад
@@stephenholland4441 Two questions: 1. Why do you use God and the Bible to justify your bigotry when there are so many rules that we ALL break like: • Wearing gold (“Likewise, I want women to adorn themselves with proper clothing, modestly and discreetly, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly garments.”) • Getting round haircuts ( “You shall not round off the side-growth of your heads nor harm the edges of your beard.”) • No work on Sundays (“Six days shall work be done: but the seventh is the sabbath of rest a holy convocation; ye shall do no work therein: it is the sabbath of the Lord in all your dwellings) • Not buying houses (“The land must never be sold on a permanent basis, for the land belongs to me. You are only foreigners and tenant farmers working for me) • Lying (“Fo not deceive or cheat one other”) • No mixed fabrics (“Neither shall a garment mingled of linen and woollen come upon thee”) • No divorce (“What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate”) • Don’t eat fatty foods ("It shall be a perpetual statute for your generations throughout all your dwellings, that ye eat neither fat nor blood.") And with that, I’d like to ask how many of these rules you actively follow with your heart and soul. If you aren’t going to comply with God’s word, why use it to be a dickhead to other people? 2. When you boil down the idea of two genders male and female, you’re basically talking about one’s sex, whether that have a penis or vagina. Scientific studies have been conducted that have concluded that people who are trans, people who are non binary and people who fall into the labels of different identities (like gender fluid, neutrois, demigirl/boy, gender queer and more) all experience gender differently. Studies were taken from the brain activity of many non-cis individuals that found the brain functions of said individuals to be different from their cis counterparts. I acknowledge that there are more than two genders, you however clearly do not. Is it because you hold such vintage beliefs? Is it because you are scared of changes in society? Are you not willing to try to accept those of us who are different? I KNOW who I am and what my identity stands for. You can NEVER take that away from me. Not one person here can invalidate someone with a clear conscience, especially if you’re a fond follower of religious teachings. Religion isn’t a construct on which the belittling of minority groups was intended. Religion is supposed to enhance the communion of society. Don’t ever use that as an argument when there are many other religious followers who are perfectly able of conceiving non binary gender identities. Bonus question: Why are you on Noah’s channel when you’re clearly transphobic? What good does that bring? Any?
@stephenholland4441
@stephenholland4441 Год назад
@@buzz_bzuzz "Why do you use God and the Bible to justify your bigotry..." It's NOT "bigotry", or "transphobia" though, it's FACTS! 🙄 "And with that, I’d like to ask how many of these rules you actively follow..." You mean laws that were a part of the old covenant? Then none, because some of those were done away with some 2000s years ago after the death, burial and resurrection of Jesus Christ. None of us are going to fully comply with God's word, because of our sinful nature and rebellion against God. That's why we need a Saviour to be washed from the stains of sin. Faith is what saves, not works. "I acknowledge that there are more than two genders..." Let me tell you are harsh truth: Anything more than two genders, IS FICTION! "Are you not willing to try to accept those of us who are different?" They aren't "different", they are DELUDED, and should be treated as mentally unstable! "Is it because you are scared of changes in society?" Yeah. The changes are called CORRUPTION, INSANITY, IMMORALITY, and DEPRAVITY! "I KNOW who I am and what my identity stands for." So you, a male who calls himself "agender" (when there is no such thing as "agender"), "knows" who he is, while making up a false identity? Yeah that really sounds like you "know" who you are...NOT! "Not one person here can invalidate someone with a clear conscience..." Are you talking about yourself?! If so, then no, you DON'T have a "clear conscience" if you're calling yourself something as fictitious as "agender". Religion and Christianity are separate. EVERY form of religion is Satanic idolatry, and leads souls to Hell. Christianity is about repentance, salvation, and having a personal relationship with Christ. No other name but Jesus can save!
@elizatilsizoglou5946
@elizatilsizoglou5946 Год назад
@@stephenholland4441 God also commanded to not judge others. That's His job. But here you are being a bigot
@buzz_bzuzz
@buzz_bzuzz Год назад
@@elizatilsizoglou5946 he deleted his comment, he couldn’t own up to his own actions. Must’ve been my list of things God forbids
@Considerthisplease
@Considerthisplease Год назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dSh1EgozXBY.html
@marievice6208
@marievice6208 Год назад
Noah is a jewel in my dumpster-fire of an existence and has given me so much conference to be who I am. I’m not trans but genderfluid and some days my dysphoria really puts me in a bad place. Noah always cheers me up and really helped me through a bad time in my life.
@ShiftyApparition
@ShiftyApparition Год назад
Every once in a while I'm like "huh, I wonder if this would be supportive or intrusive". Then I think about it for a while and always end up deciding that I should just keep my mouth shut. If something comes up then maybe, but I have the internet for weird questions.
@finleydoesstuff5357
@finleydoesstuff5357 Год назад
it would be really cool if anthony padilla did a interview with noah. like noah loves answering questions in great details and anthony is such a respectful and fun interviewer
@greyforrest8986
@greyforrest8986 Год назад
oh my god i was on t for nearly 3 years and i only stopped getting periods for a few months in the last year and then i started getting them again and eventually decided to stop. i haven’t been able to find anyone who had periods far along as t as well. i’m so happy i clicked on this video and i’m not/wasn’t alone. i recently started taking meds to stop periods so hopefully that works :) i’m so happy to have someone with t effects similar to mine. proud of you noah, love you and keep it up !! love your content and thank you for sharing
@maria-sv7yc
@maria-sv7yc Год назад
9:05 gender fluid person here, I am AFAB and I present very feminine so I don't call myself trans, firstly to protect myself, like a bigot wouldn't know by looking at me so why would I put myself in that situation, and secondly because I feel that the word carries such a deep meaning for trans people and I feel like I'm appropriating of that word when I don't have to face most of the struggles that many trans people do. I don't mind if other people call me trans tho, especially queer people, but I don't identify with the term cis also, I feel like non binary is the best one for me.
@coralovesnature
@coralovesnature Год назад
My experience is super similar, except that I present more androgynous rather than feminine typically (although to most people, they’d still most likely assume I’m a woman). And I feel pretty much the exact same way you do.
@Considerthisplease
@Considerthisplease Год назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dSh1EgozXBY.html
@mcherry3333
@mcherry3333 Год назад
i’m really glad you’re brave enough to do this, especially for the closeted trans men who can’t ask about this stuff (like me). thank you, noah!! 💓💓
@mariecat1806
@mariecat1806 Год назад
I may be in the hospital throwing up blood, but when Noah posts a video none of that matters, you drop everything and watch it 😂💕
@beanery8743
@beanery8743 Год назад
I came back from an MRI, and same. But I really hope you get better!
@mariecat1806
@mariecat1806 Год назад
@@beanery8743 I hope you do too! I’m going to be having an upper endoscopy to look in my stomach tomorrow so hopefully they’ll be able to start treatment after that!
@beanery8743
@beanery8743 Год назад
@@mariecat1806 good luck on that, hopefully nothing is wrong with your stomach :]
@Sam-zu5mr
@Sam-zu5mr Год назад
REALLY?! He isnt that fascinating.
@beanery8743
@beanery8743 Год назад
@@Sam-zu5mr he doesn't have to be, for me he is a role model and he's honestly pretty funny
@tinker651
@tinker651 Год назад
In all honesty, as a cis person, ill Google my question if I feel it would be weird or disrespectful to ask directly. I'm also a morbidly curious person so I get into details lol. But I really appreciate episode's like this ❤️❤️
@seventhcompactor1505
@seventhcompactor1505 Год назад
You're a person, not a 'cis person'
@dogenjoyer2480
@dogenjoyer2480 11 месяцев назад
​@@seventhcompactor1505._.
@Randomratz240
@Randomratz240 3 месяца назад
​@@seventhcompactor1505 cis people are people who still identify with what they were assigned at birth, a valid term
@seventhcompactor1505
@seventhcompactor1505 3 месяца назад
@@Randomratz240 wrong
@cloudymay5600
@cloudymay5600 Год назад
I’m non-binary and afab, I want to use any/all pronouns, but since I’m not out to many people I feel insecure abt saying that. I can’t say what it looks like from the outside, but strangers are constantly gendering me in different ways (calling me “sir” or “miss”) so I think I present pretty androgynously. Recently, especially, I’ve been presenting more masc and I really like it. I don’t know about the trans label until I’m further along in my gender discovery.
@coralovesnature
@coralovesnature Год назад
I’m also cool with any/ all pronouns. I think it tends to be harder for some people to grasp than being binary trans, so I also often feel insecure/ unsafe about telling people this irl sometimes. But alas, at least we have each other!
@scribblesketch
@scribblesketch Год назад
My general rule for asking trans related questions are definitely would you ask a cis person this? Or, is this a personal question?
@existenze69
@existenze69 Год назад
You’re amazing Noah…as usual; an inspiration for today’s youth 🤗😊
@giuliaficuccio1373
@giuliaficuccio1373 Год назад
it makes me so happy and emotional to know that there's someone out here doing proper education on the trans community and the lgbtq community in general
@seventhcompactor1505
@seventhcompactor1505 Год назад
There is no 'trans community'.
@dogenjoyer2480
@dogenjoyer2480 11 месяцев назад
​@@seventhcompactor1505saying that something doesnt exist aint gonna make it stop existing chief
@user-hx8eb7yv7p
@user-hx8eb7yv7p 5 месяцев назад
@@dogenjoyer2480 Yeah, that's the weakest argument you can use against something. "it doesn't exist" is easily disproven.
@marinegd7834
@marinegd7834 Год назад
I love how sweet and understanding you are in answering these questions, while still educating people and having clear boundaries 👏 There are no dumb questions but I still don't understand why people would ask you about anyone's deadname 🙄
@cameurysm
@cameurysm Год назад
7:32 my deadname is gender neutral and i changed my name to another gender neutral name 😎 my brain is huge 10:13 i think its funny if its like a hind sight thing, like if theyve already come out and theyre referencing things they did before they realized they were trans and them and their friends joke about them being an egg back then. but i agree with noah on the fact that calling somebody an egg before theyve come out isnt right. you dont actually know until someone comes out
@myra0224
@myra0224 Год назад
People should stop assuming things about other people, why do they care so much about all that. Just let people be who they are and figure themselves out on their own pace and if they're a feminine guy, identifying as a man, then let them be a feminine guy ffs 😭 (sorry, I can get really annoyed by these things... I just don't understand ://)
@cameurysm
@cameurysm Год назад
@@myra0224 i agree with you. if they come to you and ask for your input and theyre questioning their identity then sure, it might help to talk about being trans. but if theyre just gender non conforming then people really shouldnt say anything to them about it
@cameurysm
@cameurysm Год назад
@@sanaslay4326 felt like it lol. my other name just doesnt suit me anymore. i also associate it with femininity. at first i wasnt gonna change it but then i realized i wanted to
@Considerthisplease
@Considerthisplease Год назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dSh1EgozXBY.html
@liamfrederic5203
@liamfrederic5203 Год назад
I think with calling people egg, I think it’s okay if the person does it themself like hahaha it was so obvious looking back but I agree, it’s rude to call other people that who might not be ready to deal with that question or just aren’t trans since you can never really know unless the person tells you!
@chloe-fy4wc
@chloe-fy4wc Год назад
agrred, it’s so invasive
@Considerthisplease
@Considerthisplease Год назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dSh1EgozXBY.html
@Salem_oconnor
@Salem_oconnor Год назад
I love u so muchhhhh ever time I’m sad or mad or whatever I put ur Chanel on and it instantly makes my day better
@nicokelly6453
@nicokelly6453 Год назад
I'm nonbinary and absolutely call myself trans, which has a fun story with it because I came out to my dad saying I'm trans and he got very confused so I had to explain that binary and nonbinary trans people both existed. I call myself trans because I feel I fit under the definition and because I align myself with trans community and history.
@salamanda11
@salamanda11 Год назад
These questions were surprisingly well-intentioned! Unless you just ended up picking the nice ones. Lol. I loved the poop question.
@milestherealalpha
@milestherealalpha Год назад
7:27 YES YES YES IN MY CASE, this is coming from a trans guy that was born with a gender-neutral name. i still felt the name to change it because it made me feel feminine since i was also born female. it's always different for others though !!!
@lizzienoll02
@lizzienoll02 Год назад
i haven’t seen you in 4 years… i’m SO GLAD YOURE THRIVING
@SarahCupit
@SarahCupit Год назад
An answer for the gender neutral name changing: My dead name was gender neutral but I still changed it because it was more popular in females and people would assume I was a girl, and I talked to my friends and they said when they first met me they didn’t know my deadname was gender neutral and thought it was just a female name.
@shelbymasters
@shelbymasters Год назад
most gender neutral names were originally associated with one sex, or had different variations for each sex. alex was an abbreviation for alexander/alexis and eventually just became a popular name itself. my boyfriend is ci, and his birth name is skylAr, but spells it as skylEr because he prefers that spelling even though skylar with an a was originally a boys name and skyler with an e was a girl name. i do understand though, my name was strictly a boys name for a very long time, but now 98% of people with the name are girls. i also went to school with cis girls names michael and hunter! if i have another daughter i plan to name her tyler, but ironically enough i hate that name in regards to guys lol
@Considerthisplease
@Considerthisplease Год назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dSh1EgozXBY.html
@wooitsesme
@wooitsesme Год назад
Hi Noah, thank you so much. Your videos have been so helpful and I was able to come out to my parents as omni last week
@shadesofcallum
@shadesofcallum Год назад
you know it's gonna be a good day when noah posts 👑✨
@chuni47
@chuni47 Год назад
Hello again
@shadesofcallum
@shadesofcallum Год назад
@@chuni47 hi!
@muffim_tv
@muffim_tv Год назад
just found your music on spotify and lo and behold you’re on my youtube page!
@mabelberger1485
@mabelberger1485 Год назад
Yess I can already tell this is going to be a great vid
@danielreher1987
@danielreher1987 Год назад
Have you been checked for Endometriosis and PCOS with the heavy bleeding or is that just your normal. I know it varies from person to person. I'm only asking because I have a friend who has the conditions and has a lot of pain because of the cysts. If it's too personal a question you don't have to answer. I'm just trying to get more educated.
@NOAHFINNCE
@NOAHFINNCE Год назад
nahh i haven’t n sometimes wonder if i have it but i’m starting blockers soon so it shouldn’t be as much of an issue
@tankgirluk3515
@tankgirluk3515 Год назад
I was about to make this comment too. I had periods exactly as you described, it meant a day or two in bed every month, even had a massive ovarian cyst that I had to have removed in an emergency surgery, until I had a Mirena coil fitted. Which as a Genderqueer person, afab but feeling more masc, just felt like my body was launching a personal attack! Hope they can find something to help you Noah xx
@Considerthisplease
@Considerthisplease Год назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dSh1EgozXBY.html
@Ash_6614
@Ash_6614 Год назад
i'm genderfluid and i definitely consider myself trans
@adamant5419
@adamant5419 Год назад
as long as your gender fluid never actually sees the light of day, we'll be safe.
@Sam-zu5mr
@Sam-zu5mr Год назад
If you say so. Who are we to disagree.
@Insane_IK
@Insane_IK Год назад
Your video quality is amazing, the cuts are great!
@josephcassar1340
@josephcassar1340 Год назад
Such a great video! It had me sniggering at some of the spicy questions. Thanks for all that you do, Noah 😊
@idk1782
@idk1782 Год назад
this isn’t relevant to the video at all but i love your vids and i’m also trans, i have a boyfriend (he’s cis) and i was his ‘girlfriend’ for about a month until he realised he was gay and we broke up but stayed as friends then like a year later i came out as trans and we got back together a couple of months ago and every time i get my period he’s so cute, he tells me a lot that having a period doesn’t make me any less of a boy and he wears a pad too even though he doesn’t have to obviously but he does it bc he’s supportive and he always says boys get periods too and if anyones reading this, he’s right you’re not less of a boy bc you have a period and you will find someone who makes you happy and treats you well bc i always was worried i wouldn’t bc im trans but i have, have a good day
@TheOnlyRiceDemon
@TheOnlyRiceDemon Год назад
This is the cutest thing I've heard today.
@noahe.2861
@noahe.2861 Год назад
This is actually so cute. Also the beginning of your comment, and I don’t mean to sound insensitive, would make a great Young Adult RomCom??
@queerstudbroalex
@queerstudbroalex Год назад
So sweet!
@OohTarquin
@OohTarquin Год назад
Only girls and women have periods , btw
@stuff2802
@stuff2802 Год назад
Gross and weird heterosexual couple
@gingercore69
@gingercore69 Год назад
About the dead name question, it wouldnt bother me in particular, but i would always answer something random
@tombrooks5933
@tombrooks5933 Год назад
you are an exceptionally bright person and i wish there were more of you in this world.
@veryunnormal
@veryunnormal Год назад
your videos make me feel more comfortable with who i am, i am a "half closeted" trans-masc and you just make me feel like i can express myself. thank you
@phoenixfoster7891
@phoenixfoster7891 Год назад
Great video! Thx for making such great content
@CloverPawzDrxgonz
@CloverPawzDrxgonz 3 дня назад
I look up to u sm. Ty for making these vids. As a transmasc who’s a minor who hasn’t gotten anything but blockers, these videos rlly help! Ty!
@AlixHallow
@AlixHallow Год назад
I really need to say how impressive and lovely your wording is. You explain different things in the best, most respectful but realistic way. Anytime you started to say something and I assumed it would follow with something really icky or negative, you surprised me. You even got me thinking about a few things that could be considered harmful to trans people that I didn't realize. I'm 29 and I gotta say you're incredibly mature for your age, and people will learn a lot from you! Good luck on your journey, from a fellow trans man.
@cassieopea
@cassieopea Год назад
Hey Noah! Thank you! Ask someone who is cis, i have questions im not sure if are offensive, you help answer them and its great!
@prageruwu69
@prageruwu69 Год назад
i like the word egg bc its almost always used for people referring to themselves. when i was an egg i was really dumb and clueless about my gender and i like making fun of that.
@XOR..
@XOR.. Год назад
Another day, a new noahfinnce video to binge!
@tylerphuoc2653
@tylerphuoc2653 Год назад
Gawd, these sound effects are lovely
@spicyramen3546
@spicyramen3546 Год назад
Recently I came out to my mom as Trans, FTM. I’m twelve, I’ve known since I was really little. I told her that it was just how I’ve always felt and she told me it was bullshit and I’m going through a dumb phase, a phase that will end with the help of god. It felt terrible but I’m trying to stay strong! Thanks Noah for the awesome video and stay strong everyone in the comment section.
@Sam-zu5mr
@Sam-zu5mr Год назад
Your mums right. Your too young to know for sure. However you do wat makes you feel happy. As long as when you go into your 20's after having transitioning....you dont regret it, detransition and blame the professionals for convincing them you were trans, when you weren't. Because too many FTM detransitioners are now doing this and it's just plain wrong.
@nilladrawsstuff
@nilladrawsstuff Год назад
Stay strong! I've had a similar experience coming out as pan. Imo, you need to just wait until you can move out and live comfortably on your own, that's what I'm doing. You could also explain to them how it works, because with super religious people they usually don't have any other experience with LGBTQ+ people but the things they were taught as kids (they're from the devil, they're just confused, etc.). But definitely make sure you have friends you can talk to and a good support system at school for when the transphobia gets to be too much.
@atlas3611
@atlas3611 Год назад
My mom and dad (and basically my entire family) are the same. I'm a thirteen year old. I think your mom should support you whether it's a phase or not. Remember to stay strong! (as Nilla draws stuff said)
@Sam-zu5mr
@Sam-zu5mr Год назад
@@atlas3611 parents try to protect thier young from making huge mistakes in life. What you feel at the moment is real....but as we age we change mindset, opinions. The teen years are the most turbulent years of any persons life. As I said.....sometimes parents know you better than you know yourself. We have been through the teen years, it's a time of questioning who you are, finding your identity and it starts at puberty. So dont hold it against yr parents for trying to bring you up without harm. The fact they question your judgement, should tell you how much they love you and want you to grow into a strong, secure, happy independent individual. Parents get it more than you will ever believe or understand. You will one day, especially if you have children yourself. The pitfalls of teen years a very very confused self discovery maze to navigate through. This is not invalidating how you feel...its about supporting you to making sure your not creating a mistake that you could all regret in time. Your sure now....but that might just change as you grow. Then again it might not. But parents have to protect, if that seems they are denying you...they aren't. In fact by questioning your mindset, their actually testing you, making you question yr decisions, so the decisions you make are true to your inner self. Parents parent. Its thier job.
@lucas_8514
@lucas_8514 Год назад
@@Sam-zu5mr it's perfectly okay for parents to question a major thing such as identity, but it still should be done tactfully. saying things like that still comes of as invalidating, and that will only make the child distance themselves. also, if they're being downright dismissive (as op's mom seems to be) then it's definitely not only about protecting them from making a mistake, and there's some hate for the group the child could be part of if i's not a phase involved.
@bdyvynls
@bdyvynls Год назад
when noah says "hello underachievers" it makes me so welcomed istg
@potterlover96
@potterlover96 Год назад
Love videos like this, I'm a pan cis man dating a trans man, and when I first met them I didn't completely understand it all having never been through it myself, but they were so lovely about explaining it all to me if I ever had questions :D thanks for the video!!
@p1aydumb280
@p1aydumb280 Год назад
Agree, early into HRT and transition is all consuming. Trans woman who loves your work Noah.
@scheiegal2266
@scheiegal2266 Год назад
I'm trans femme The weirdest question i have ever been asked is: do you start having a period now? I'm pre (and will ever be) op and if there is blood down there.... I'm rushing to the doc instant
@skittlesrambles1264
@skittlesrambles1264 Год назад
AFAB here... trust me, you don't want any of that XD
@Sam-zu5mr
@Sam-zu5mr Год назад
Respect lady. Easy for girls to transition to males...not so easy the other way around- much more phobia out there aimed at MTF. It's also much harder to transition physically....so yes, as a Cis guy...you really do have my respect girl👍💙
@shelbymasters
@shelbymasters Год назад
i've never actually seen this question, but i think they just haven't realized that you need a uterus to have a period. surprisingly even most biological women don't know that all a period is, is when the lining of your uterus sheds as the result of an unfertilized egg. when pregnant your uterus doesn't shed because it is what forms the placenta, which is why pregnant women don't have periods. (so if a woman eats the placenta after giving birth, she is eating 8-10 months of menstrual blood.) so it definitely would be a medical concern😅
@scheiegal2266
@scheiegal2266 Год назад
@@Sam-zu5mr I wouldn't say it's harder to transition mtf or ftm either way. It's different. I guess there is more hate against trans femme people cause deep down every transphobe knows we are women and they are mysgonists.
@Sam-zu5mr
@Sam-zu5mr Год назад
@@shelbymasters chicken, I'm male and even I know this. Wat school did you attend. Who doesn't know this. But ur missing the point. The question was after having hormone treatment I.r. testosterone, does the menstrual cycle still continue?.....the only people to answer this question is trans men and doctors. Hense why I'd imagine people ask this question in the first place. Personally I really dont care to know.
@anarcho_enby_
@anarcho_enby_ Год назад
it's an interesting point about non-binary people calling themselves trans. I'm agender, but often say non-binary because it's an umbrella term and it's easier to explain, but I do not say that I'm trans. By definition, trans means that you identify with a gender that you were not assigned at birth, but as an agender person I do not identify with a gender so by definition it does not fit me. I still consider myself to be trans-allinged because I still experience the same transphobia and exclusion that all trans people face, by I am not by definition a trans person. When I explain this to cis people it blows their mind that I can be non-binary and not be trans. If we lived in a world where trans people were completely free and equal - a utopia - then I would not consider myself trans aligned because I would face no prejudice on the behalf of my identity and I would just exist as an agender person.
@solarpixiejournals
@solarpixiejournals Год назад
You have such charisma....I just love your videos.
@Human_Being584
@Human_Being584 Год назад
I love Noah’s videos
@Rorygloryhole
@Rorygloryhole Год назад
Honestly the only interesting name question would be where they picked their name from, seeing as they’re mostly teenagers/adults, sometimes the names will have a lot of meaning, or they’ll just been something iconic
@bingbozo6969
@bingbozo6969 Год назад
Top surgery question: How much does it hurt while recovering and for how long? (I'm thinking about getting top surgery and I'd like to know)
@10stxar
@10stxar Год назад
It hurts a shit ton
@ezrabennett7793
@ezrabennett7793 Год назад
Depends on the person.
@evan_j
@evan_j Год назад
For a few days mine was just tender to lie on or when it got bumped. But I know of people who had pain for weeks.
@passionate_possum_pal
@passionate_possum_pal Год назад
Depends.
@chuuchuuutrain
@chuuchuuutrain Год назад
@@passionate_possum_pal I see u on Summer's channel lol
@sincerelybonnie
@sincerelybonnie Год назад
Being apart of the LGBTQ+ community but not being trans myself, I love videos like these that help me understand the experiences of other people in our community!
@nathanswifey23
@nathanswifey23 Год назад
Respect you so much for this!
@Dealivedpool
@Dealivedpool Год назад
When you chose your "new name" did you feel euphoric when you hear other people say it? (I am non-binary and wanna know what if I should feel euphoric or not) can you like so Noah sees it?
@myra0224
@myra0224 Год назад
Honestly, it 100% depends on you. I do feel like a lot of people would feel relieved and happy when people use their real name instead of their deadname, but euphoric is a big word 😅 But you don't HAVE to feel a certain way just because someone else did. You'll figure it out yourself if you want people to call you by a different name and they use it 💖 Personally, I do feel a bit more happy when someone uses a nickname they made for me (I'm not sure about my gender identity yet as I honestly don't identify with any of them) instead of my birthname
@n3g4tive_cr33p
@n3g4tive_cr33p Год назад
When I told my friends to use a new name on me, it did make me feel euphoric when they said it, because it just felt right. But it depends on you as a person, to some it can feel weird for a bit because that’s not what your used to, and that’s perfectly fine!!
@usermcskull4713
@usermcskull4713 Год назад
Trans girl here, yes! My name's Sarah btw
@mangosmooothie4826
@mangosmooothie4826 Год назад
For me, it depends on who says it, and sometimes (when I’ve felt like I wanted to have a different name again) it has felt kind of off but everyone has different experiences and I’m sure I’ll find the name for me eventually :)
@evan_j
@evan_j Год назад
I haven't fully transitioned yet. Some people use my preferred name and it gives me a sense of relief and it's more comfortable than my real name. Like breathing after holding my breath.
@victorjason2558
@victorjason2558 Год назад
That was awesome.
@friendlywiki4863
@friendlywiki4863 Год назад
I'm proud of u that u reply this questions when if they annoy u x
@AceWinkeler
@AceWinkeler Год назад
came on youtube for the shorts and went “*GASP* NOAH UPLOADED!!” baefy gave me a look 🥲
@harlxyz
@harlxyz Год назад
love ur vids :]
@queer_autistic_chaos
@queer_autistic_chaos Год назад
Hello Noah, my name is also noah. (Named myself before I saw your videos.) You are awesome. Byeeeee
@orianletruand
@orianletruand Год назад
great video, as always 🫶
@menhera.dxll.
@menhera.dxll. Год назад
Hey! Transmasc Enby here! Just wanna say you helped me come out to my mom (she supported) And I’ve recently started guitar! I love your vids man! Keep it up
@taisito
@taisito Год назад
My name is Tai, and is a unisex name so when I transitioned ftm I didn’t change it. I love my name but I guess some people prefer to change it idk
@kittylynne592
@kittylynne592 Год назад
How do you live with the fact that you're so fucking handsome?!?!?!
@beyo6265
@beyo6265 Год назад
Love the ✨accent✨
@zweetsouffle9567
@zweetsouffle9567 Год назад
This is very helpful, I've been saving money for transgender surgery and let's just say, it's not easy getting these questions answered.
@GK-we6gi
@GK-we6gi Год назад
I'm non-binary and I do actually consider myself trans, I experience dysphoria, I want to transition medically and I don't really identify with my agab but much more (though not fully) with being a guy. But just like Noah said, it really is different for everybody, I know lots of nb people who do and who don't consider themselves trans :)
@TheoRae8289
@TheoRae8289 Год назад
Pretty much my experience right now.
@Considerthisplease
@Considerthisplease Год назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dSh1EgozXBY.html
@luka7678
@luka7678 Год назад
You can consider yourself whatever u want but if u do have g3nder dysphoria ur trans and if u dont, ur not trans. Some nb people do it for trend and others have some different mental issues and they self diagnose themselves
@reia1137
@reia1137 Год назад
✨️Hello underachievers✨️ will always brighten my day 😁
@audiblescreetching5534
@audiblescreetching5534 Год назад
I feel like being trans doesn't always mean you have to like most of the opposite gender things, it's sometimes just wanting the opposite body or pronouns
@haileethurman5979
@haileethurman5979 Год назад
I literally loved the answer to the last question
@Aspensauce64
@Aspensauce64 Год назад
Personally I’m somewhere under the non binary umbrella and consider myself trans even though my presentation usually fits my agab. It’s all down to preference, and at the end of the day it’s not like there’s a rule book on terminology you can and can’t use
@luka7678
@luka7678 Год назад
Yeah there is a rule book to be a trans you have to have g3nder dysphoria and to be nb u just need to say youre nb. Thats the difference
@asherikamichaela8425
@asherikamichaela8425 Год назад
Newbie around here, so... hi! 😁👋 I can answer the nonbinary trans question, at least from my own experience. Maybe it'll help someone else. I'm afab and genderfluid/neutral, mostly the latter. I'm also neurodivergent and I think this has something to do with my gender and sexuality (I'm demi-pan as well). All this being the case, the term "girl" never really felt like it fit. Neither did "boy," though I often gravitated more toward things "traditionally" guy-related. These days, I'm more in the middle in terms of my interests and my feelings about my gender is kinda just "meh 🤷‍♀️." As such, I've never dealt with gender dysphoria. I am thinking of changing my name and will be going for a consultation soon about having the associated parts removed, but my reasons aren't really related aside from the fact that I don't care enough to keep them around. On the name thing, well, I share with a certain Greek tragedy character whose family Freud had _disturbing_ interest in. It's hard af for most people to pronounce to boot, so... nah. The surgery, on the other hand, would be for medical reasons. My hormones have been wild ever since I hit puberty and it's gotten to the point that it's actually debilitating. It's even put me in the hospital twice with the need for transfusions. So taking all that out would greatly improve my health. May or may not go for top surgery too since that is also an issue, just not as bad. (Let’s put it this way. I developed early and a _lot,_ to the to the point that I passed for 20 at 16. I could never do more than jog for a short distance before it became painful. I'd just rather not deal with them too if I can get away with it.) All this to say that, while I'm an enby, I don't consider myself trans, though I can see why others would in their own situations. It really does depend on the person.
@skittlesrambles1264
@skittlesrambles1264 Год назад
I'm very open about being trans, so I get a lot of questions too. Usually from eggs, actually, it's really cute watching them slowly discover themselves and it feels great knowing that I'm a resource
@martellefeiel2302
@martellefeiel2302 Год назад
Hiii Noah I love you so much can’t wait to see you on tour
@devilty1654
@devilty1654 Год назад
Hey, with the period issues, your symptoms sound a hell of a lot like my diagnosis (adenomyosis. Endometriosis in the uterus lining) though there's so much else that could cause it. Passing out due to periods is not normal. Don't allow anyone to tell you it's normal. If your dysphoria can handle it, please ask for an ultrasound then MRI. I'm also from England so I know how God awful GPs are here with taking this stuff seriously, but pls try!
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