Please continue to teach Bexley Spanish as my parents stopped and it left me not having as close of a relationship that I would like with my grandparents because of the language barrier. Kids pick up a new language waaaay better than if you wait till adulthood.
I have this exact same issue. My dad speaks fluent spanish and as a kid he taught my brother and i stuff like numbers and colors but that was about it. And because he didnt presue teaching or speaking the language to my brother and i dont have the greatest relationship with our only living grandparents because of the lanuage barrier. I took Spanish in school but i struggled with learning it as i was older. I know my dad also now regrets not teaching us the language. So i totally agree they should continue to talk to her in Spanish.
I'm not Spanish but my first language is not English and I so regret not keeping my language with my kids my oldest was born in my home country so it was his first language now he dont talk it at all
Agreed. My little brother is completely bilingual. I learned Spanish at his age then never continued, no one ever spoke it to me after grandparents moved away. My sister middle child never learned. My brother speaks both Languages and is 4. Half the time he translates for me 18 year old kid😂
I think it is awesome that you aren't sticking the camera in the baby's face constantly. I give you props for keeping her life more private. You two are doing a terrific job and I thought I would let you know that. Lacey you are a breath of fresh air and I enjoy your videos
This x1000. Thank you. I feel like you have a lot of experience with having a camera around with your families so crazy respect for keeping your baby private! Try keeping it that way as much as possible until she can consent. Great job mom and dad ❤️❤️
My family had 6 people, 4 kids and we were considered a “big” family ! I’m from NY so it’s definitely different but so interesting to hear the difference 😇
Hi from Australia, congratulations, really on your decision to protect Bexley by limiting the time she is on videos. I see this as great parenting from the both of you, as she grows clearly shell be running around the house but she will also choose what she wants. So keep to your strategy for protecting Bexleys rights xoxox
Bexley seems like a very calm baby 🐥🍼🦁 I have a grown son that was like she is. I believe she got it from Eli. You totally need to learn Spanish. I'm staying in Mexico now and I've really had to know my stuff. LOL I worked in restaurants as a waitress all my life that's where I learned it. You can take a Spanish class from the same school as the one you were talking about. Learn together. Make it fun. Have so much fun 😊🌱😊
These people are one of my favorite RU-vidrs ever I love there videos and there amazing, and there such a cute little family and there daughter is so beautiful and y’all are just incredible people on RU-vid 💗😊☺️🥰
Great video. Probably the best video I have seen, because you were just so natural and talking like you would normally talk. It felt like it wasn't forced, as I have seen in previous videos. Well done, well done.
Many thanks for reacting to assumptions. I still feel that you only have to do this, when you are totally comfortable with it. Not because you have to justify yourselves. I am so pleased though to see Lizzy so much closer to you. Both geographicly as emotionally. It is lovely to hear and see her in your and the family vlogs at times, as she hasn't a channel. I do appreciate the respect you show for the-extended- Lopez's, Wallace's and Pettit's families. It is nice to see them in vlogs, but not a necessity. I must admit however, that I love to see the moved out siblings and to get to know updates! As for speaking Spanish to Bexley, please try to raise her bilingual. It is very useful for her intellectual and social-cultural development. Infants learn naturally and quicker different languages. And as a challenge, give her the opportunity to taste a large variety of food? You can learn with her! Take good care and enjoy. Much love to you all 🥰
So glad your caring for yourselves. It's very important for mental and emotional health. All your life you'll realize that our minds are a powerful thing. Grow together 🌿❤️❤️🌿 not apart. I found you have to nurture each other ...that's very important. Have a nice weekend and. Enjoy yourselves. I find some of these folks ask some crazy questions.
yes assumptions part 2. Also maybe fun facts that we might not know about you. ‘getting to know you’. I know we may ‘know’ things while watching your also from Crazy Middles but im sure there are things we don’t know. Also its nice getting know Eli too. Im so happy for you guys and your sweet little family. I’m excited to watch your channel and family grow. 💞
If im honest, I usually skip through sponser parts BUT i feel like this came at such a perfect moment for me. Especially because im a stay at home mom. Id love to check it out to learn new skills. I need this to keep SANE! lol
I think it would be hilarious if you eloped and got married where J-Lo and Ben got married in Las Vegas. You could avoid all the stress involved in planning a wedding and the costs. Instead plan a big party/reception and celebrate it with family and friends. Preferably in the winter or spring. NOT SUMMER. Too HOT outside in Arizona!! It's just a thought. Stay cool and hydrated.
You guys are so sweet. I love how you let the nonsense some people put out there just roll off your backs. That shows a lot of maturity, confidence and emotional intelligence in yourselves, your family (Lacey, Eli & Bexley) and the decisions you make. There are a lot of people that are much older than you who should be better able to verbalize and conduct themselves in a tactful way who just choose to not and remain emotionally, intellectually and socially stagnant. I know I'd be very proud if either of you were my son or daughter and of course your family is always beaming with pride Lacey (& I onlt say Lacey because we just haven't seen Eli's family very much, nor should we expect to) but knowing that you have their love & support is proof enough, in my humble opinion. Not that you need it, naturally 😆 This was a fun video to watch as I'm home, recovering from surgery so thanks for putting it out there for all of us to see. Much love there kiddos❣️
I understand feeling like a fish out of water in Eli‘s family. My boyfriends family is Hispanic. I don’t know a lot of Spanish. I am trying my best to learn it. Sometimes his mom will say something in Spanish without be noticing it. When I am around his whole family they speak Spanish to each other. Luckily most of his family knows some English.
Lacy i feel you on the Spanish part my Nana is full Mexican and hardly speak English i have to ask my brother what she's saying most of the time i could only understand certain words she said
i think people need to remember that it wasn’t just 20+ members to your family overnight, it grew gradually and with love and that’s how yours & eli’s family is growing; bexley is so young, i never understood the pressure to have multiple babies at once, no judgment just i think it’s also okay to accept wanting to be selfish with your first child’s time if that makes sense.
💕Pick one weekend a month a cook enough food to freeze for a month💕Freeze in freezer bags as it takes up less room in the freezer💕Cook enough for four meals divide & freeze then all you have to do is reheat💕Saves time effort & lots of money💕
One day at a time..see where life leads you. I thought I could figure it all out know where we would be at this point or that time..I was wrong lol It was more fun to just go with the times live each day no worries what I invisioned. Turned out okay. I really enjoyed seeing Lizzie again! Will she be starting her own blog? Im sure ppl would flock to her channel too! 🙂
Good morning everyone happy Saturday morning and I just wanted to say that your vlogs is amazing and you all amazing Supporter I'm proud to all of you guys
Ur right Lacey. Foster parents don't want teenagers because at that age they want to do their own thing like going to a dance, movies mostly thow party's.
Teaching her Spanish will b good. She would ace in high school. Being a parent is just common sense. U 2 r doing ok. It’s normal for the male to have a full time job to support his family. It takes 2 incomes nowadays to survive. U don’t want to feed Bexley fast food all the time when she gets older. Can make her become obese. Shopping & cooking regular meals r better. We barely eat out. Costs to much. U 2 r doing great 🥰♥️🤎❤️😘
hi! i just wanted to say that if Eli doesn’t feel confident enough to speak to Bexley full time in spanish, you’ve probably already thought of these things (but just in case), there are lots of other ways for her to get lots of spanish input to round out her knowledge. like putting on TV shows in spanish. or he could read her books in spanish, that way he doesn’t have to think of what words to say, it’s just all right in front of him. this could also be helpful for you, lacey and your sister since the things that bexley would consume would have easier language (because of her age). anyway like i said, you’ve probable already thought of or even done these things but just thought i’d suggest it in case. you guys seem to be a wonderful family ♥️
If you got a marriage license in your county in Arizona, we could look it up, because that is where you currently are. But anywhere else in the USA or world we would have no idea how to find out exactly were you married if you had done it secretly.
The two of you are so cute. I luv your blogs. Spanish would be great for all of you. I am surprised people would ask if Eli works. If we are not paying your bills I would think it would be or business to ask. Thanks for your vlogs
I also eat out so much but that’s because I work at a coffee shop and we have like wraps and sandwiches and stuff so it could be worse it’s not the worst thing I could be eating lol I do have a budget of $50 every two weeks for food at work Besides extra drinks if I want to buy a drink
Enjoy Bexley and don't worry about how "big" a family you want. There were many years between Kylie and the next child. And more years before the family began to grow with sibling groups. You don't have to decide your family future today. Your view of that may be totally different ten years from now (including a one child family, if that is what works for you). You are not your parents.
That was rude to make that remark about her parents. If they want to do what her parents did, which was give many children a better life, then they can do that. She can absolutely be like her parents. Leave the family planning between them.
I’m glad to hear your outlook on your channel regarding Bexley, so many channels take it way too far. Kids have so much personal info out on the internet before they even have a say in it or truly understand it!
You have a beautiful family About the eating out…. if you want to and can afford it , then do it. It’s no one’s business. It’s too hot to be cooking lol
I was wondering how you are doing? You’ve been in my prayers since the video about postpartum.. and on another note Are you going to pass on your bread pillow to Bexley? 😂
My son is 22 my son is 17 i wish they were closer age but i guess god helping me so my body had a c sect so they were 6 yrs apart and there close ..so ny older son is working..my younger son dont drive yet. I wish he would..well be safe.becar age 2..
Writing in from Australia. It would be really cute if you could take us on your Spanish learning journey. Then I could learn things in little chunks and maybe hear from Eli's mum (you say mom) too. Would love to know what you have needed to know the most, say or understand.
Please teach her Spanish , my dad's whole family knows Spanish and I can understand majority of it but can only speak the basics ! I wish I could speak it and want to learn .
You need to get together with Destiny and see if she wishes that she eloped. She has managed to stay in the background, but you would have a hard time doing that. And Alex and Savannah. They may wish they eloped before it is all over.
