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I swear as someone who is picky, the girl gagging at the fruit was just…🤮🤮 I don’t understand how she spit out the fruit, recorded herself, REWATCHED THE VIDEO and went “Yep. This is perfect” and in front of HER KIDS!!! I think that part made me the most mad. If you’re going to be a parent and set an example you need to fucking do it right!
Exactly, I have sensory aversion so I understand gagging at certain textures but that really did not need to be on the Internet??? No one wants to see you gagging and spitting out half-chewed fruit 😭
The smacking and chomping...argh, my misophenia. She's probably trying to cash in. There's a mom exploiting her kid claiming she has a rare disorder that makes her unable to tolerate food, actual gagging, etc, and making bank. Watch, her kid will suddenly have the same disorder.
As someone with sensory issues who just recently re-tried blackberries and blueberries, the gaging was over the top. I have never in my life gagged like that while trying a food that wasn’t a good texture
I'm a millennial with texture issues, and I have no idea why she thought it was a good idea to record it. I gag when I chew on protein fat & I have to actually stop myself to get through it. But I don't make a big deal, just duck my head & wait for the feeling to pass. I would never record it because it's gross
NON OF THESE PEOPLE INCLUDING THE CREATOR IS A MILLENIAL. Check the age group! If you were not born between 1985 and 1996 then you ARE NOT A MILLENIAL.
as a gen z born in 2000 I had a normal life. unfortunately I deal with others in my life who don't act normal now like they used to before so that's normal to me now
I use to think these people online are giving us such a bad rap, but really it’s just human nature, no generations safe. Most of this content is mainly just for views and clickbait coming from a small minority of people, but are ppl really this bored and desperate. God help us all.🤦♂️🥱
The girl complaining about her parents being active in her life and calling them narcissist is a huge clue that she has no idea what a real narcissistic parent is. A narcissist wouldn't come at all, or would make excuses as to why they didn't show or can't come... narcissist has become a buzz word and it pisses me off- because it's truly an epidemic. Her parents- are not it... I can only hope she was being sarcastic... but probably not.
my guess is that her parents were on the overbearing side - never letting her go to places (at appropriate distance of course) on her own, having some things like sports without her parents being there, things like that. and yeah you need to do some things on your own as you grow up to build skills and independence. how has that anything to do with narcissism though...
My guess is that her parents were emotionally absent/neglectful, and she still thinks that was a normal childhood. So to have good parents who are present for extracurriculars and drive you around is too controlling
not exactly true; narcissists and abusers come in all shapes and sizes and controlling every little aspect of your life (showing up to every single thing where otherwise you would've had autonomy, not allowing you to walk a quarter mile to a friends house but instead have to be driven there so they can tell you no and control your friendships, etc etc.) I don't feel like this person constituted their complaint very well (and could absolutely have been lying) but dismissing it outright because it doesn't fit *your* narcissist/abuser description is wrong.
Yes, thank you! My father (a single parent) is a huge narcissist and he never really cared or asked what I’ve done or how I’m doing, unless it showed a threat to him in any way, and instead of helping with that issue, he would just blame it on me and have me as a child handle it on my own. Though, funny thing, once I left to go on with my own life, he would constantly text me, asking me what I’m doing etc., which I just found weird and strange. It’s truly stressful to grow up with a narcissist, and for someone to incorrectly call their parents who actually showed they cared and were there for them a narcissist for being a parent, is just disgusting and annoying.
The fruit one made me cringe so hard, and that was largely because I myself don't eat most fruits because of their textures. I've tried a lot of different fruits over the years to try and see if I could get myself used to the textures and I've never been successful. However, I have never made such a fuss over even the ones I hated the most like she did in that video. I take a bite, i grimace, and I spit it out. There's no gagging or over the top of the top theatrics, and I'm 90% sure that woman was faking the texture revulsion, which is insulting to those of us who actually have an issue with that.
yeah, i immediately thought she was just faking the gagging because it doesnt look like a reflex, it looks like shes forcing herself or acting out how she thinks gagging looks for attention. its a bit sad honestly
@@HybrydaArt Unless you're autistic and have AFRID, and it looks like that's the case here (she says she has texture issues and is wearing infinity symbol necklace, it's autism symbol). I'm a grown ass autistic person with AFRID and i react the exact same to many foods.
Yes!! Im picky when it comes to food but 9 times out of 10 its because of texture. I get it if you dont like fruit, personally i love it but thats just my opinion, but putting on an entire show? 😭😭
Yeah I’m 33 and I will straight up gag when trying to eat most fruits and veggies. It sucks and is embarrassing but I can’t help it. I am neurodivergent and have AFRID- the gagging has been a problem my whole life.
The one where they're complaining about their parents showing up to everything is wild to me. I'm a millennial myself... grown and all. And my parents STILL take me places whenever it's easier for both me and them. That's called being a parent.
Nahh their treating their kids like hamsters is crazy😭 EDIT: HOW DID I GET SO MANY LIKES😍 EDIT: y’all stop correcting my grammar I fixed it 😭 AND THANKS FOR 1K LIKES😣✌🏻
@@SW-zb6bf dog leashes and child leashes aren't the same, and there's a difference between having an easy way to keep track of your kid and just leaving a hamster bottle out for a child because you can't be bothered to take care of them.
We always show up for our son. He's our whole world. He likes hanging out with us and if he doesn't want to some days he stays home and it's fine. We have a good balance.
The one lady who was like "you wouldn't catch me dead with no makeup on and a tshirt with old shorts" imagine caring that much about what others think. How pathetic. My confidence level is too high to give a fuck what someone at the grocery store thinks of my bonnet and sweat pants.
My mother was overly supportive of every little school activity I did so I recognize it feels annoying especially to a teenager trying to form their own identity, *HOWEVER* in the long run I am so happy she did that cause it shows she actually cared!!! I would much rather have overly supportive parents than parents who don't even bother to at least show up.
I agree with you. I also think that this tik tok poster actually was talking about “helicopter parents” and was confused as to the terminology. (As in sometimes she felt suffocated by her overly concerned parents. ) It isn’t narcissism. She also obviously is speaking from a place of ignorance. Because had she had parents who NEVER supported her, she would have been complaining about that as well. There’s no winning with this one.
10:48 as someone with textural requirements for food shes fake gagging. Usually when your body is tryna stop you from swallowing like that it mimics a vomiting response so usually theres drool, facial redness & tearing of the eyes but theres none of that with her. It looks like when someone gags to be funny
9:07 as someone with actual sensory issues with some foods this is so... forced. Like, when I eat stuffing, its not a voluntary thing.......... its just something that happens???
Exactly. I get the same thing when I chew on chicken fat, it's not that forced at all. Most of the time I don't even have time to process I hit fat before I'm gagging.
I don’t really have any reactions like that to food (well, maybe something like frogs legs I would), however I sometimes start gagging when I have to clean up my cat’s vomit. Still love my kitties though.
feel the need to mention, the barefoot people were rage baiters, one of the biggest things that gave it away was the constant mention of being in ohio, which for some reason is a punchline on tiktok/reels, and as u mentioned the fact that they caught footage of wearing shoes in the winter
I swear tbh my thoughts are either they have a illness or try to show the baby that it could choke on such small things but thats more smart than the video in context seems to be 😅
I'm autistic and I only like grapes apples and bananas, but I do like tons of vegetables. If I could change one thing about me, honestly anything. It's a tie between reducing my levels of anxiety and making me like more fruit to broaden my diet.
@@JubbysDragons I love cut apples too. My issue is I need enough time to eat them. If I feel rushed I usually end up eating none of them. Working on it
1:41 Anyone who watches FunkyFrogBait KNOWS that not only is this god damn WEIRD, it’s also RAGE BAIT! (By the way, who here watches FunkyFrogBait AND Haylo Hayley?)
“My parents picked me up and dropped me off everywhere I went when I was A MINOR.” Uh, yeah?? You didn’t get snatched off the side of the road somewhere. You’re welcome.
I grew up as the quasi middle child, with one parent who always worked full time and one parent who served in the military. Through a combination of my parents being away/busy and sort of being in the middle, my parents often missed my extracurriculars or events, which was very upsetting when I was young. They made the vested effort to go when they could, and I'm old enough now to understand that's just life sometimes, and to have such an appreciation for them showing up as much as they could. Hearing some one complain about their parents being there for them too much is.....strange lol?
I aged out of foster care with over 13 different families. That girl doesn’t want her parents coming to every single event? I spent my childhood wishing I could see my mom show up to just ONE, and my dad… well, he’s deceased. Be thankful for your privileged life. I am typing this on an iPad so at the end of the day, I am still blessed.
Imagine getting on social media and seeing your grown ass offspring calling YOU a narcissist for being there for them and going to all of their events.....
Wow that girl about her parents showing up for her and then calling them a narcissist. I wish my parents showed up, i quit many things bc they never did. I will be there for my sons stuff everytime, idc if its the same thing for 10 days in a row, I WILL BE THERE
Careful, the opposite extreme is called helicopter parenting and is equally destructive to a kid. Don't swing that pendulum too far to the opposite end. And unfortunately, what the woman in that reel describes can indeed be a narcissistic tactic to keep their kids dependent and isolated, so we shouldn't judge based only on this reel. There's always more to the story.
@@maggie6152 As someone who experienced that from one of my parents, I agree. The parent in my situation borderline tracked and followed me everywhere and for everything. I wasn't even allowed to be in a bathroom alone till I had to fight them for privacy at 13. Even in public, it was so terrifying to be constantly watched, knowing that every single word or action from you would give the parent more ammo to use against you later.
As someone with misophonia who also struggles with sensitivity to food textures, this is so faked. This is a full grown adult ACTING DRAMATIC about something people actually deal with. Why record this? Grow up. The fact that I hear her child in the background makes me so upset, is this person a PARENT??? (10:00)
Not everyone uses them that way, thankfully. I’m not on IG anymore but when I was, I either made reels of my doll collection or artwork I made, or something else harmless.
The person saying their mother showing up for every event they had growing was narcissistic made my blood boil! Like my mother showed up to ONE of my events when I was in choir where I had a SOLO and arrived AFTER I had finished my solo and was pissy with me the whole time like being there for me was an inconvenience to her time. I WISH I my mom showed that much interest in the things I was doing at school and this person had the audacity to complain?
I feel you. I begged to learn music at home but denied all the time while my sis was in band and we went to everything. Also, dad was Mr Punctuality as a matter of life, we were EARLY to EVERYTHING bc of his angry earlybird mentality. I finally did school band and as 2nd chair, diligent student impressed the teacher as ALWAYS prepared, was selected as one to actually conduct us in one song in the Christmas Show. Show came, school gym. From the band, I scanned and scanned for the fam during the first songs. Finally my turn, Good King Wenseslas. Conducted, huge audience clapping and cheering. I sat down, looked over, in they came LATE, dad with camera, happy look like "Ok neato!" Dad you missed me. "Oh ok!" Didnt care that he missed me.
Every time i see a sad beige room or a stark white minimalist aesthetic, i like to spend time in my 1950s technocolor horrorshow themed kitchen or my Bansky inspired office. It makes the millennial in me feel sane.
That's cool! I'm also a millenial parent and our house has a theme in each room for example our bathrooms are Avengers, our kitchen Harry Potter and our living room is in progress but it will be Five Nights at Freddy's teehee!
My dad left our family and would make promises to spend time with me and my sister. 9 times out of 10 he'd call, an hour after he was supposed to show up, to cancel. I discovered later that he tried to poison my mom when he found out she was pregnant with me. Why are some of these dads such jerks?
Therapy needs to be MANDATORY! 😂 Feels like our entire country is going insane; we could all use a checkup. Those who pass get released back out into society. Those who don't pass get a padded room and a complimentary beige straight jacket. 🤣
9:00 💀 People like that lady act like that on purpose, while also making fun of neurodivergent people and people with eating disorders with genuine texture/food aversion… I’m autistic and have something called ARFID. Ended up in the ER bc I couldn’t eat for weeks. But that lady’s dramatizing and filming that kind of reaction to food she’s fully capable of eating. 🤦🏻♂️ Bruh I’m done defending millennials as one.
Also, primitive people were wrapped around their feet. They did not walk around barefoot in the snow the minute they discovered that they could wrap their feet with skins and furs. They used the soft inside of a tree, the pulp, to insulate their wrapping, so their feet would stay warm. That couple is just crazy.
Being barefoot inside the house is very common practice in many households as we keep our surroundings clean and tidy but going outside barefoot is the most disgusting thing I’ve ever seen. Don’t these people know that there might be lot of germs and bacterias on the roads or are they just doing these things deliberately just for some fame, views and attention on social media platforms?
You should talk about the really inappropriate outfits some of gen z are wearing to SCHOOL, and then getting upset for being dress coded, some of the outfits look very nice just not for school, at all😭
I have four girls (two of which have already graduated) and I agree. They want to walk into classrooms with club wear on and think it’s acceptable. Just b/c your parent at home allows it, doesn’t mean not mean it’s acceptable in public. There are some really terrible parents out there.
I'm concerned for the kids then the parents, I'm 10 years old and if my mom ever treated me like a hamster and did whatever they were doing... i would disown myself respectfully. And, 😃 FUN FACT 😃.... people in the 1800s WISHED and BEGGED the royalty for something to wear on their feet because people were getting INJURED. Imagine how disappointed they are looking down at us rn. edit: thank you for the sweet & kind replies (:
I'm so disappointed with how some parents, mostly millennial parents are weird enough to make their kids realize that they aren't normal parents and they as kids, do deserve to be treated like normal human beings, not like pets who live in their homes. On top of that, you are smart for someone your age, I'm honestly amazed. Hopefully more people would take in to consideration that they should do better.
@@5ft2chelle thank you! i never knew how much i was lucky to have parents that are millennial and aren't "silky moms". tbh i think putting moms as an aesthetic is BS. excuse my language, but it's true. this generation is so fked up and gen beta is gonna be worse.
@@-OLIVIA-FAN-PAGE- I as someone who was born during the early Gen Z era, I've got a lot to learn from you and your generation because kids really do deserve the best and not neglected like how I've seen the stuff that are being posted here on the internet. And you are correct, Gen Beta may be doomed as well if their parents from my generation (maybe older), doesn't take notes from those who failed as parents. Cheers to you and your millennial parents! I have a feeling that you and many other kids will make our future more brighter. You should be appreciated more often. I'm really proud of you 😀
8:06 ATHE AUDACITY- that is so disgusting. just imagine if the sister saw that, if that were me I would’ve had a full fledge break down, especially if the comments agreed with this nonsense, which I personally don’t agree with. that’s so unfair :((((
I love being a childfree millennial. My mom was a wonderful person who did a genuinely great job raising my sibling and me. I also saw how much work it was, and knew it wasn’t for me. I believe I can do more good for the world working on my art, academics, etc. And that’s ok! I wish more people were able to evaluate parenthood, the work it takes, and just say: nah. Not for me.
When I was younger, part of me wanted children but the older I get (I’m 38), the les I want them. I’ll be a crazy cat lady and if I ever have a kid, it will be a baby goat. I also figure that if I’m ever in a better place overall then someday I could look into fostering or something.
As someone who can’t eat fruit or vegetables due to severe sensory issues but that girl over did it. Also yes I gag but I’m not like that. It’s really really hard to eat and it’s not that I don’t want to it’s that I CANT this girl over did it…
The couple who cuts the bottoms off of their shoes has been proven to be rage bait everything that couple posts is rage bait. Including them getting a Tesla for their 4 year old And also that couple is part of gen Z (they're 26)
At this point “parenting hacks” aren’t even hacks, remember when life hacks were supposed to be things that were quick and easy that could help you if you didn’t have certain things. Like Why are you putting that bottle like it’s a hamster water tube?! 😭😭😭 that’s not only tacky but just not not right.
Out of all of these I honestly feel bad for the girl trying to eat the fruit and (seemingly) trying to get over a dislike of the texture or taste of something she never liked. ...but dunno why the hell she had to film herself gagging or spitting it out, it seemed almost forced.
I also have my purse overloaded with stuff like a mini suitcase, but that's because I live out in the middle of "Rural Nowhere", so it's more like a Go-Bag that's packed for two people at a time. Solar powered phone charger with compatible cables, two snack bars, two granola bars, two water bottles, a small first aid kit with bandages, antiseptic, hand sanitizer packets for single use, wet wipes, tissues... Personal hygiene ((travel sized deodorant, feminine stuff, nail care tools that also double as other care items in a pinch...)), reflective discs for flagging down someone, small flashlight, a small blacklight ((useful for spotting cool rocks or see scorpions in the dark where we live)), identification, roughly $100 on cash for emergencies, a small bottle of hand sanitizer for when I pick up stranded turtles so I don't get salmonella after handling them to put them in the safe zones, hair ties, pens and small notepad... My purse is more like a carry-on tote bag, and sometimes my family laughs at it, but they don't laugh when one is suck in a storm shelter with me and I'm like: "Yo, you want a Larabar?" or "Your phone is dead? No worries, I got a powerbank right here. You can call emergency while it's charging."
That clip of the person talking about their "narcissistic parent" really struck a nerve in me as someone with a narcissistic father Except he would never show up for me (plus alot more that I dont feel like dumping on here) , people have ruined the term narcissistic to undermine actual abuse people go through, its so annoying
I had a narcissistic mother. And while I think I see what she’s getting at, it’s not the fact that they are just there. My mom would show up and somehow try and take all the attention away from anything I was doing. No matter what I did, she had to prove she was better. Like when I was a cheerleader, she’d show up with her own pom poms and stand up in front of me and try to flirt with my boyfriend. And then if I got too talented at an activity (skiing, dance, etc) she would make me quit because it was “taking up too much of her time” and she had better things to do. See the difference?
Check out "covert narcissism". It's a different presentation from what you're describing and more like what that lady could have experienced. They're much less flamboyant and needing the spotlight and more subtle about creating emotional and needs dependency. I had a covert narcissist as one of my parents.
The fruit lady made me so angry because that’s exactly how my dad acts when he tries to eat anything that isn’t Mac and cheese or chicken nuggets. It’s embarrassing and cringe and I wish he would grow up
4:23 That’s not narcissistic at all, that’s called parents caring that can be overbearing. Overbearing ISNT abuse or narcissism. I’m Gen z, i have Gen X mom and Boomer dad who are divorced. While my mom attended most of my events, she was verbally abusive, alcoholic-workaholic, painted herself as a victim constantly, and emotionally manipulative while my dad (+ stepmom, 2 half-brothers) didn’t attend my events BECAUSE of my mom and consider as my actual family while my mother is my mother. For 14 years my parents were in and out of court so they were semi unavailable for me, so I got attached to my school teachers and other adult figures in order to fill that emotional need. It took me a hospitalization at a mental hospital in order to “wake up” my parents at 16 to realize how BADLY I was struggling, then the courts slowed down and eventually stopped. That was 4 years ago, I still struggle with stuff from then (Ie my depression room which is getting better) I would rather have parents who are there for me than ones who aren’t.
The gagging woman. Holy hell. My son was a picky eater around the age of 2-4 but even he would calmly try food and put it down. No gagging sounds, no spitting. Also, even during the worst picky phase, he ate all sorts of fruit. How does a person become like that? Also, beige tie-dye causes literal cognitive dissonance.
4:02 HHAHAHAHAHAH as someone whos parents are controlling let me explain to you what a REAL controlling parent is me: mom can I go out its my birthday my mom: no I dont like the friend your going out with me: why my mom: shes dangerous shes you know, from the ghetto AND SHE LITERALLY HIT ME MULTIPLE TIMES WHEN I WAS TRYING TO EXPLAIN IT TO HER ALSO ONE OTHER THING IS I ADDED ONE FRIEND FROM MY OLD SCHOOL TO MY DISCORD AND SHE SAID THIS "who is this, where does she live, is she your friend, are you sure you know her, why does she have that profile picture, why is her name hello then, why is she calling you cute nicknames are you dating, are you sure you got the right person" AND ALL SHE SAID WAS "HELLO DAN DAN THE MERMAID MAN" BC MY NAMES DANNI..
I don’t think the girl who said she was dressing up was saying she was doing it to meet her ex, but dressing up so well she wouldn’t mind meeting her ex. Love ur videos!
what irritates me the most was the colours of the playrooms being stripped away for the parent's aesthetic....as a person with autism, bright colours and things in toys, rooms and shows have always visually stimulated me. Bright, neon colours always brought a lot of excitement. Seeing parents take that away even from neurotypical kids is infuriating. Give your children back their colourful rooms! Don't make their space as depressing as you..
As someone with a narcissist parent and enabler parent, let me give you an example of something my narcissist parent did. One time when my grandpa was grilling chicken, he asked my sister if she wanted barbecue sauce on it. She said yes and he put the sauce all over the chicken. When my narcissist parent heard this, she was enraged, as she usually is when our grandpa takes care of us, and forced my sister to eat 5+ pounds of sauced chicken and wouldn’t let her leave until it was all gone. Yes she ate it, puked it all up and could barely eat anything for 3 days. Now what if I told you that parent was the same parent who showered us with presents on Christmas, took us out for dinner, dressed us up on Halloween, brought us to stores, to school, to friends houses, checked us out of school for the occasional fun trip, and leaped up to run whenever we needed to go somewhere like to buy supplies for a procrastinated school project. This is the same parent who explicitly told a child it was their fault for being SA’d, told their daughter in the hospital she just tried to kill herself for attention, forced a 10 year old to take care of a dying kitten that had its leg lopped off for a week instead of just putting the kitten down, blew a $150,000 settlement on SHEIN (mostly clothes and kitchen gadgets) when we were very poor rather than buying anything useful like a car or college funds or a PC, and let my uncle drag me away at 12 years old, screaming, to go with him to get an exorcism at his church. A lot of people think she is a sweet person. Covert, overt and narcissism in each person presents very differently. I am inclined to give people the benefit of the doubt when they claim a family member is a narcissist.
10:09 nah i love straberries how the hell can you gag at the starberries and afford to have like A BUNCH at the same time?! IF YOU DONT WANT THEM I WILL HAVE THEM DUDE, I CANT EVEN AFFORD ONE FOR FRICKS SAKE
9:35 Looking at the necklace, she doesn't have ASD? We, people with ASD, don't like many textures and flavors (Although I'm weird because I love sour and spicy ones, while usually autistic people prefer sweet ones, which is interesting)
This is why I hate tik tok, it feels like a ton of 14 year olds and adults who have the same maturity level as 14 year olds all just coming for each other for the stupidest things. It's people who have no originality and who need constant validation from people they don't even like yet simultaneously are jealous of. WTF????? take a BREAK!
The amount of times I’ve cried over my parents missing events when I was in elementary school or tennis matches, like??? Fym it’s controlling to SUPPORT YOUR CHILD.
I’m a Millennial and I love coloful, cute, and kawaii things. I’m also a kid at heart and collect dolls (mostly American Girl) and plushies. I love making art and crafts too. I need colors (and music) in my life.
They’re the same level at worse level possible. gen alpha parents are millennials the same adults who’s raising children who can’t spell or read just ipad.
Just kids with adult money. Some people just never want to grow up. That or a lot of their childhood they were told no, and now it’s their time to shine in adulthood.
