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Audience Questions - Ask Kati Anything! podcast episode #21
1. I wonder if therapists ever get ''desensitized'' to sad stories and get less empathetic after listening to so many of them from clients? Also, does listening to so many sad stories affect your worldview and beliefs about human-being? (all the way from Hong Kong!)
2. I've heard you talk about how important it is to set a treatment plan in therapy. Can you give some examples of a treatment plan you set with clients, how you went about it, and...
3. Usually after a therapy session I feel great and much better than when I came in. But once in a while I feel shitty and frustrated after a session because I feel like it could have gone better than it did - maybe I could've been more focused or in a better mood, I could've shared a bit more, or used this important time more wisely ect. Do you have any advice?
4. How can we learn to trust ourselves when our mental condition leaves our ability to get things done unpredictable and we have often said that we would do things that turned out to be impossible for us? I feel like I can't trust myself because of how unreliable I am.
5. Is it normal to not feel any connection with my parents after realizing that I...
6. Any suggestions on tackling a therapy session when I’m not even sure what I’m feeling or what is bothering me? I’ve been in therapy for about 8 months. I started after getting laid off, and I had a clear idea of what was causing my...
7. Is it common to feel like becoming aware of, understanding and expressing your emotions made things even harder and to miss the times you were able to just...
8. How do we improve teletherapy when working on trauma and dissociation? What are some things the therapist can do to ground clients during telehealth sessions and what are some things we as clients can do to stay present? I struggle with dissociation even in office and telehealth has been a...
9. I noticed this weird pattern about myself which - to me - doesn't make sense. Since I was in 1st grade I always found myself looking for trustworthy adults outside of my family, mostly females. So I ended up feeling closer to certain teachers than to my parents. Now that I'm an adult I see that I'm...
10. Is it normal not to tell your therapist everything right away? I know the more you tell your therapist the better they can help you but once you open up will they be upset that you hid something...
11. Are nightmares after therapy normal? When I talk with my therapist about things that remind me of situations from my childhood (it happened to be abusive) for the next few days I have nightmares about these memories...
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@nisafinnegan 4 года назад

*Timestamps!* 1:52 I wonder if therapists ever get ''desensitized'' to sad stories and get less empathetic after listening to so many of them from clients? Also, does listening to so many sad stories affect your worldview and beliefs about human-being? (all the way from Hong Kong!) 7:24 I've heard you talk about how important it is to set a treatment plan in therapy. Can you give some examples of a treatment plan you set with clients, how you went about it, and how long it took? 17:51 Usually after a therapy session I feel great and much better than when I came in. But once in a while I feel shitty and frustrated after a session because I feel like it could have gone better than it did - maybe I could've been more focused or in a better mood, I could've shared a bit more, or used this important time more wisely ect. Do you have any advice? 24:18 How can we learn to trust ourselves when our mental condition leaves our ability to get things done unpredictable and we have often said that we would do things that turned out to be impossible for us? I feel like I can't trust myself because of how unreliable I am. 30:29 Is it normal to not feel any connection with my parents after realizing that I suffered from emotional neglect? 39:50 Any suggestions on tackling a therapy session when I’m not even sure what I’m feeling or what is bothering me? 45:53 Is it common to feel like becoming aware of, understanding and expressing your emotions made things even harder and to miss the times you were able to just repress your emotions and get on with life? I feel like I just never get a break and it's soo exhausting. 50:50 How do we improve teletherapy when working on trauma and dissociation? What are some things the therapist can do to ground clients during telehealth sessions and what are some things we as clients can do to stay present? I struggle with dissociation even in the office and telehealth has been a challenge because of this. 56:54 I noticed this weird pattern about myself which - to me - doesn't make sense. Since I was in 1st grade I always found myself looking for trustworthy adults outside of my family, mostly females. So I ended up feeling closer to certain teachers than to my parents. Now that I'm an adult I see that I'm still doing the same thing, only that it's not just teachers anymore. I wonder why this happens. 1:01:42 Is it normal not to tell your therapist everything right away? I know the more you tell your therapist the better they can help you but once you open up will they be upset that you hid something important from them for so long? 1:05:00 Are nightmares after therapy normal? When I talk with my therapist about things that remind me of situations from my childhood (it happened to be abusive) for the next few days I have nightmares about these memories. Is there something I can do about it?

@toni2309 4 года назад

Thank you.

@irena1222 4 года назад

Thank you!

@OTDM 4 года назад

Timestamp Ninja Nissa!

@nisafinnegan 4 года назад

OpinionsThatDontMatter hahah!! 🙈 & you're all welcome guyss :)

@nikkimckay860 4 года назад

@@nisafinnegan thank you these are helpful

@Sillygoose24795 4 года назад

I’m so thankful for all of your videos and support, Kati! I always look forward to Thursday! ❤️

@Katimorton 4 года назад

Awe yay!! xoxox

@odalysromero1571 4 года назад

I'm so happy that you got my EN question and so excited to listen even tho I haven't bc I have to shower first! Hope everyone is doing greattt ✨ This video just made my day🤭

@ezratijssen 4 года назад

I hope everyone's having a good day! sending love ❤

@shay1525 4 года назад

Yayay Iris...have a super day, big loves💗

@ezratijssen 4 года назад

@@shay1525 my love!!! I hope you have the best day

@toni2309 4 года назад

Thank you.

@irena1222 4 года назад

Thank you! Hope you're having a good day, too!

@Katimorton 4 года назад

You too Iris :) xoxoxo

@twisted_tapestry 4 года назад

I never knew I needed Ask Kati Anything... thanks Kati!

@animal_cookie 4 года назад

Dang, I hadn’t had a nightmare in a long time and then had 2 last night (after a good therapy session). I love when you get just what you need

@jessiewrites4753 4 года назад

So helpful. Thank you Kati 💕 I dissociate during my therapy sessions too. I have been trying out your video therapy suggestions and they have been helping a lot. I asked my therapist to give me 5 minutes at the end to play a grounding game. We like to play the game “favorites.” It helps me think about the things I love. The game is played like this: Therapist: “what’s your favorite ice cream flavors?” Client: chocolate. “What is your favorite book?” And then the therapist responds. Also, I love weighted things and bring a weighted lap pad to therapy. They are smaller so they are more affordable. I hope this helps if anyone else is struggling with dissociation!

@danieljgore1 4 года назад

Speaking from experience to the person who feels like they’re supposed to feel better after getting a job: there’s also ‘decompression’ needed. Kati talks about a marble in a furrow, sometimes. Or it’s like the land under a glaciar is ‘squished’ and takes time to rebound even after the weight is gone. I worked in a stressful place (many years ago) and taking vacations didn’t automatically make me feel better- feelings lingered. But I also had underlying undiagnosed stuff that skewed my perception. Give yourself some time and space to process... and you got the job! Keep patting yourself on the back. I hope you feel less-awful even when ‘great’ is elusive

@anner9438 4 года назад

The fifth topic upset me, however when she sung "you don't owe them anything" that was just fun 😂 why can't every hard truth be wrapped up in a song? Thanks for reminding me in a very funny way that singing makes everything better 😁🎶

@Katimorton 4 года назад

I will try to keep that in mind and come up with silly songs when talking about difficult topics :) xoxo

@anner9438 4 года назад

@@Katimorton 😍👌 thanks! And thanks for all the wonderful videos of course! I've been watching them for like seven years and I'm a huge fan. I respond well to opera since I'm a classical singer...singing student... but I like musical a lot too, so if I'd ever ask a question (but you always answer ahead to questions I didn't know I had) I'd appeciate an opera answer if possible 😂😉 Thank you very much for everything! ❤️ Greetings from Salzburg, Austria

@amayawhitaker6281 4 года назад

It’s funny you say that b/c in therapy for me when i’m saying something hard I sing it so i’m more comfortable and so it doesn’t come off so harsh😭💀

@anner9438 4 года назад

@@amayawhitaker6281 My therapist wouldn't mind me singing if it makes me feel more comfortable...😂🤷 She just said that she wouldn't do that because she doesn't feel confident about hitting the right notes... Singing is great, so why not... doesn't your therapist like it when you sing? 🎶🙃

@hbass34238 4 года назад

This is so helpful! The attachment questions are really hitting home for me. I am definitely looking up your RU-vid on attachment and emotional neglect/abuse. Thank you so much! As a teen I was abused by proxy with therapists. My mom is very disordered, so she drug me from one councilor to another until she found one to blame me for her life. I'm now 45 and after a 15 yr marriage to an abusive man I'm now digging into my childhood so I can figure out why I don't trust my gut and pick these assholes. Thank you!!

@hbass34238 4 года назад

Also I'm very low contact with mom.

@haileyelizabeth9466 4 года назад

So helpful, Kati! I've been struggling with not feeling a connection to my parents for a while now. Thanks you for bringing light to that

@choosexolove 4 года назад

Yay! Thank you so much for including my question. It was so helpful to hear your suggestions :)

@toni2309 4 года назад

Hey Kati, did you ever have a patient where you were trying to do a treatment plan but the patient would always come up with new small issues and didn't know what they would like to work on and they were always overwhelmed with your suggestions and homework?

@TMTgirl 4 года назад

Neglect is abuse. Neglect is abuse. Neglect is abuse.

@SlugcatEmporium 4 года назад

#3 is so similar to me! I haven't been able to talk about trauma stuff since starting teletherapy in March. It's really affecting my functioning at this point.

@toni2309 4 года назад

Thank you for making these videos Kati :).

@Katimorton 4 года назад

Of course!! I hope it's helpful :) xoxo

@tablet6655 4 года назад

Hi, I just wanted to drop a random grammar lesson on the word whom. Who and whom work like I and me respectively. For example: John and I were talking about them. They were talking about John and me. Who was talking about them? Whom they were talking about? (They were talking about whom?) Who to who? × Who to whom? ✓ Just like it's not they to they, but they to them. P.D.: I made this comment as Kati wanted to know how to use "whom".

@beegee5305 3 года назад

You have explained emotional neglect better than anyone.

@SusieQ78 4 года назад

One question in: you are always empathetic, and offer a lot of hope ;-)

@Katimorton 4 года назад

Awe xoxoxo

@DrummerGrrrl 4 года назад

What a great episode! I started feeling like crying at points...hmmm, probably some memories or things coming up from the depths.

@WhatsTherapy 4 года назад

Great vid! Thanks for sharing. Great to hear your insight on treatment plans and goals, in addition to the main subject of the vid. You share tons of important points and are clearly helping a ton of people. 'We need emotional support just like we need food and a roof over our head.' Couldn't agree more. Recently made a channel to start talking about similar topics, and it's awesome to see what people like you have been saying and sharing here. Thanks again.

@perfectlyimperfect4260 4 года назад

I’m moving house right now and these podcasts have been a life saver for packing and unpacking boxes. Same with the opinions that don’t matter podcast! ❤️❤️❤️

@Katimorton 4 года назад

Awe yay!! xoxoxo

@perfectlyimperfect4260 4 года назад

Kati Morton ❤️😊 you just made my day

@Kpop0223 4 года назад

This is so useful. I found done answers useful when I wouldn't have thought so beforehand.

@sherrylaatz4105 4 года назад

Right on Kati! I have been going to therapy for years. Never have I not made a treatment plan with the therapist I was seeing. So poop on those therapists that said that to you. Much love!

@selfhelpchampion9664 4 года назад

We have to go above the mind to solve the problem created by mind. Thank you Kati for another useful program 🙏🙏🙏

@nelli452 4 года назад

Thanks Kati for answering my questions 2 & 3!! I'm happy other people were able to relate to them also. Thanks for sharing about your treatment plan that was very informative for how I can benefit more from therapy. And for Q#3- that was super validating! and wow thinking about those 'down' sessions as a way to learn and move forward from them is a new perspective I will definitely take away. positive self talk is actually something I'm currently working on!

@ConnyWeirdWorld 4 года назад

8:04 I think it depends on the type of therapy. In analytic therapy it wasn't so much goal orientated but still helpful in a different way. In behavioral and trauma therapy it's more towards specific goals and action.

@butterflystickerz581 4 года назад

i do therapy in my tent and call it the tent office visit

@Shanm7760 4 года назад

You took the words out of my head - thinking putty is great! My therapist has two big tins of the white/clear ‘liquid glass’ putty (there’s also a pink/clear) and it’s good for me because I also have ADHD so can fidget but also she plays with it too so I feel better connected to her when I struggle to make eye contact and/or speak.

@adorebeauty8752 4 года назад

Yesss, will be watching this later 👍🏻 been waiting for it! 🤗

@Katimorton 4 года назад

Yay!! xoxo

@BeeBeeMacGee 4 года назад

I never get notified of ‘ask your questions’ by RU-vid until 8 hours or so later, so I know any questions I ask will never be answered since there’s already over 100 comments. It’s weird, but I would feel dopey asking MY therapist.

@irena1222 4 года назад

I don't know what time zone you're in, but she usually posts them the same day and around the same time, so maybe you can just try checking around that time.

@nikkimckay860 4 года назад

My_Butt hello I'm nikki good and important comment because I always get my ask kati anything questions for her podcast late I get my notification all different times so lately don't get to listen and watch it live due to late notification also because of time difference in country s I am from uk so I basically just watch it after it's been done sometimes I can also relate to not being able to get a question seen or chosen to be answered in the podcast seems i don't get any likes or people comment so it gets picked I just watch now and don't add a question nice to meet you

@BeeBeeMacGee 4 года назад

Nikki Mckay 💜💚

@snuffyscorner 4 года назад

So I'm in CPT+A and I had to write about the trauma that I feel affected me the most. This would be the death of my husband. It was so flipping hard I don't even know if its readable. I had to send pics of each page in. But I can think about my life with Peter now without a break down. How the heck does that work!!??? I can even recall events i couldn't before. Just boggling.

@piyusha1912 4 года назад

One of the most important episode for me thank you 🙂

@benttranberg2690 4 года назад

About Q 11, nightmares and therapy. I'm being diagnosed these days, which is already a kind of therapy. The corona crisis has given me a much needed break, and I'm taking the opportunity to get some help. I've got so many thoughts piling up and in the end it feels somewhat like many voices talking at the same time. This can happen in the evening and night before and after an appointment. It's exhausting, and easily gives me a headache and a night without much sleep. Even brings back migraine to some degree, which I thought I was rid of 20 years ago. I've only had similar experiences earlier when dealing with extremely complex technical challenges at work. Btw, I wanted to find out if I really was an Aspie, but now I have a strong feeling the conclusion will be that it's PTSD, and only that. I'm having a hard time realizing this, though I guess it has been so obvious to the psychiatric team. I was thinking I'd be quickly in and out for that Aspie diagnosis, but instead I'm looking at therapy for I don't know how long. It's not that I didn't know I had PTSD, but I didn't know how big a deal it was. I read today that people with PTSD frequently are not even aware they're having a serious problem. Well, that's me. Your videos are great.

@MrsW0f0rd 4 года назад

For anyone wanting to get or try a weighted blanket, check out zulily. They have them on sale every so often. My bestie and I have both picked up 20lb blankets for $40 each (which is a heck of a deal!) Totally not affiliated with zulily, just super love my weighted blanket and hate how expensive they are.

@nikkimckay860 4 года назад

Kati Morton thanks for this podcast as always best part of my Thursday was late watching due to late notification the question was very interesting and as always important advice you share with the people who asked them also to everyone who was here just to add when I had a psychologist last year I couldn't properly share things with her and I could never have a session without feeling very anxious and uncomfortable I was sad because I couldn't get the full help I needed out of therapy because even talking a lot was difficult for me just to add I'm going to try again with therapy once I'm able to thanks for doing these podcast s

@Katimorton 4 года назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience! So helpful! I am so glad you are enjoying the podcasts! I hope they are helpful :) xoxo

@Kyle_Mo 4 года назад

Question 1. Yes they do. If you want a perfect example cue the Veterans Affairs.

@nisafinnegan 4 года назад

haaappy thursday everyone!

@UA-hc6jz 4 года назад

Thank you Kati! I will definitely try some tools you mentioned :) have a great day! 🙂

@Katimorton 4 года назад

Of course!! I hope it helps :) xoxo

@ConnyWeirdWorld 4 года назад

38:38 I totally agree with you. We don't owe our parents anything! And the same for adoptees! You don't owe them anything. And you definitely don't have to be "grateful". It wasn't your choice to lose your mother and extended family (and culture in case of international adoptees), it was their decision to take you in and their responsibility. We don't owe them anything!

@shamaraclay2821 4 года назад

Love you intro Kati keep it up

@aurelart9520 4 года назад

Yo. Kati, you’re awesome!

@SusieQ78 4 года назад

26 min mark... "BOOM!!!" Kati...its "BOOM!!!" Haha, love it :)

@Katimorton 4 года назад

hahah! you knew it was coming! lol!! xoxo

@SusieQ78 4 года назад

indeed I did. You cracked me up with "that's not the right sound" and I'm over here going BOOM!!!💣💥

@danirich7247 4 года назад

Hi Kati, I have a question that hopefully you can answer in a future video or podcast. I think I am afraid to see a therapist, when I was in high school I had a hard time talking to therapists and felt like my mom was listening in from the hallway or asking lots of questions about what we talked about, now that I’m an adult I keep coming up with excuses to not go. I have found online groups of people who also distrust mental health professionals and I think it can be very difficult for a lot of people who’ve had previous bad experiences. What should someone do if they don’t like the idea of traditional therapy?

@sgstevenson23 4 года назад

Is there a place to post questions anonymously? thanks!

@kaylabarnes 4 года назад

I just realized I had an emotionally abusive "best friend" in Jr high and high school. Abusive in the way that I was the one reaching out and her never reaching back out. I've had a best friend for about 7 or 8 years and I'm still constantly scared she'll leave me.

@itsshai3447 4 года назад

Kati, thank you for everything you do. Your uploads and posts always bring me joy. 🥰

@Katimorton 4 года назад

Awe yay!! xoxo

@toni2309 4 года назад

I guess that helps me understand why therapy didn't work so well for me. My therapist, and also another one, wanted me to have a plan. And they worked on the plan instead of trying to understand which things I can change and which things I can't change first. I hope I can later have therapy with a therapist who tries to understand what I can actually change and do before making a plan.

@creative2716 4 года назад

Light bulb moment... The wisteria story made so much sense. I look at my mental health issues as a bulleted list, check, check, check. But viewing my mental health as a vine wrapping in and around itself, working down to find the root. Man, that was genius (to my understanding anyway). Thank you, Kati. 💕

@dylanpickle1316 4 года назад

Also can make a weighted pad for your lap with fabric and filling it with rice or stuff like that and could even put essential oil that calming or just one to make it smell nice

@abby_elizabeth8435 4 года назад

SUP MY DUDES HAPPY THURSDAY!!!!! I hope everyone has a beautiful day!!!❤️

@milenaciaramella3524 4 года назад

Kati I love you so so much 💜 and you aka is everything I want 💜

@Katimorton 4 года назад

Awe yay!! I am so glad :) xoxo

@ConnyWeirdWorld 4 года назад

1:07:14 I used to have the same nightmare over and over again. The same technique that you mentioned really helped me at the time. I rewrote the nightmare and it got less often. Now it's gone for quite a while :)

@lmh931000 4 года назад

Hi Kati, I am 32 and have always thought I was just weird and shy. As I am getting older, I am thinking it may be autism. I am constantly having communication issues with everyone at home/work/etc. I don't have all the classical signs of autism and it seems like no one really understands female autism in adults. Could it still be autism? Is nuerodivergent the same as autism, and if not, could it be that? I'm just struggling with a lot of new things and it seems like even my senses are going out of wack. I did ask my last therapist about it, but was dismissed and am too nervous to try again. I'm not sure what to do. Thanks!

@nikkihernandez5751 4 года назад

This is amazing! so I have dissociation and PTSD as well. and when we are in telehealth we are doing naming a few different things, also what I see behind her, we do Deep breathing, 4 elements. There a lot of things that helps. being in a safe place is very helpful.

@toni2309 4 года назад

I kind of feared that I used the wrong wording in the fourth question but I just didn't know what to use. I didn't mean just mood disorders, I wanted to leave the question open so that people with mood disorders could relate also though. For me, because of my autism and sensory processing disorder people talking unexpectantly to me or like e.g. there being building work can overwhelm me for hours, or I get criticism and my rejection sensitive dysphoria kicks in. Like, small things put me off a lot. Also, like, I get so excited about new projects and tell people about them and then there are barriers I didn't expect and I never get to finish. I kind of... idk, I tried include others but feel a bit left out now. The tips were good though, so thank you. I guess I'll have to reframe it a bit later to make it work for me.

@firelunamoon 4 года назад

I think her answers do still apply though, whether the source of the problem is mood, sensory processing issues or executive dysfunction.

@toni2309 4 года назад

@@firelunamoon Yes. It just gets disheartening after a life of feeling excluded.

@toni2309 4 года назад

I'm the person from question 7. Unfortunately I don't even currently have a therapist after my therapy ran out after two years.

@tanjameijer589 4 года назад

This helps me so much. Before the hour that it takes to do al my medical stuff is almost to big of a step. Do iv and tube feeding. Doing it and also listen to this helps me to dont go to my ed voice to do not (blank) cal but nu i listen to this. Long i thought something to listen too do unfocus me. But it only onfocus the thoughts that are unhealhy. So it gives me ideas plus i get my feed/iv/meds etc done thanks:)

@natalieb2 4 года назад

the moment kati said "physical touch" at 58:41, major anxiety (i have problems regarding people 😂)

@shay1525 4 года назад

Ahh Kati I was watching unsolved mysteries too......all the kids getting apparently abducted on one night🙈😪 cant cope Also yay happy Thursday 💗

@Katimorton 4 года назад

Right?!?! It's a lot.. Sean doesn't want to watch them anymore.. haha! So I guess I am on my own.

@shay1525 4 года назад

@@Katimorton haha oh no, back to watching The Office so 😂😂😝

@nurseanita1770 4 года назад

I have night terrors, when I have one if I change my clothes after one it helps me re-settle faster and I have specific scent on them too.

@SebzDevYT 4 года назад

That fifth question... about the parents.... FUCK! I NEEDED THAT. Recently I decided to cut off my male progenitor and one of my siblings (which now I decided to cut off too cuz they're only from his side and I live with my mother) made me feel so bad because they excuse and tolerate his neglectful and sometimes agressive behaviour (cuz he has money, and let me tell you I wouldn't mind to have his, but he is too emotionally taxing). I just felt SOOOOOO VALIDATED from that, since my mother "is sad" that I "no longer" will have a good (or any tbh) relationship with him (as if I ever had one in the first place).

@Dblue7753 4 года назад

in regards to question number 8 - what do you do if there is no warning when it comes to dissociation? for me, it's like a switch goes off in my brain and then I am 'back" in my body and it's an hour later like what happened to me today. mom said I was acting Normal and had no idea till I came "back".

@user-qo9xu6fe5x 4 года назад

I'm so invisible. Nobody sees me. And even if they would, they wouldn't care. Why should anyone ever, considering I'm me.

@Katimorton 4 года назад

I see you Marie :) I hope you enjoyed the podcast and know that in our community you are important and people care about you. xoxo

@creative2716 4 года назад

I sometimes feel unimportant, insignificant, invisible too. You are not alone. I see you too. Feel your pain. Hang in there. People really do care, it's our own perception. 💌 sending you hugs.

@ConnyWeirdWorld 4 года назад

33:09 My mother told me a few days after the breakup of my first three year relationship that by now I should get over it. Thanks for nothing!

@daisy7066 Год назад

In UK only a psychiatrist can diagnose someone

@copperrose4376 4 года назад

I watched a documentary series on Netflix called fear city it’s about the New York mafia it’s great and you should watch it person reading this comment

@Dani_bo_bani 4 года назад

Omg I need Kati to have one (1) session with me where I just quick catch her up with my abusive parents and let her yell at me for the next 40 minutes about not needing them or owing them shit 😂 because for some reason I keep going back to them regardless of the lack of acknowledgement or commitment to change. Or even just like a recording I can play on repeat of a compilation of her popping off about shitty parents to hype me up so I don't internalize that guilt. 😂

@ameliorated 4 года назад

I think it would be interesting if you did some interviews with therapists who dont use treatment plans and got their viewpoint

@Katimorton 4 года назад

Totally!! Most of my colleagues use them, but if I come across one I will definitely see if they would be open to a filmed interview :) xoxo

@cailiebetz8490 4 года назад

Wish you practiced in Pittsburgh or i lived in SoCal so you could be my therapist

@thefruitdude1306 4 года назад

It's strange. I have been to 7 different therapists and non of them made a treatment plan with me 🙈😅

@thefruitdude1306 4 года назад

But I found one that I really connect with good. He is a bit lazy but still the best match I could have had. :) And I really have to thank you kati for the video where you said one of the most important things is to be 100% honest in therapy... that helped a lot :)

@aidis138 4 года назад

31:53 right 32:22 wrong. it's not "taking away", it's "not giving". "and we need...and they didn't give that" - so, neglect? right? of course i'm right. -i know im wrong, as always- oh, dictionary says neglect is "to not give enough care". so, to not give at all is abuse then. okay. but as we usually think abuse is [what was mentioned before], why to fuse those words. why not to call it neglect type 2 or extreme neglect or something. life would be easier if such things would be intuitively understandable. ugh, people!