The long answer would be something like: Your question is deeply unnecessary, being that the cited group of persons are, in the greatest majority of occasions, not in a condition that is definable by ourselves as "ok"
Because it's time to ask why a few among us can no longer find ANY sense of peace & well being. # people came into our very ordinary restaurant & gift shop and all but emptied the place trying desoerately to pick a fight over trans women plaing on sports teams, seemingly for no other reson than they were uncomfortable in a building full of relaxed happy people enjoying their vacation & not looking for threats or being afraid that strangers MIGHT be near that don't share their view of the world. They also complained that they were being silenced for their views because I asked them to please stop with the graphic language around very young children. This is definitely escalating & I honestly belive this needs medical intervention, being terrfied of imaginary harm & intoxicated is a dangerous combination. sorry I just can't find this funny anymore, the past to years have been breeding a serious epidemic of paranoid people looking for random targets.
@@SaraMacs I’m concerned after seeing your pfp. The first thing that came to mind was someone made the child of Killua and Hisoka and that makes me uncomfy
The trans bathroom thing is so stupid. I worked with a trans man at some point who would only use the women's room because management told him he couldn't use the men's, so my enby ass was like, "Nah, Danny. We're using the men's today. When you need to safely use the bathroom, come find me." And management wouldn't say shit to me because I was the most productive in my very busy department and they couldn't afford to reprimand me.
And the worst part is if we think about it, while women do have it worst than men now and a long time ago, LOOK AT OUR IMPROVEMENT. And we are still fighting for shit that actually matters. Not what "Real women" are.
Also I've only seen modern transphobes using those colors in the past year or so, and the genderqueer pride flag has been lavender/white/green since 2014. There are other women's suffrage symbols they could be using if they're going to insist on twisting history like that, so either they're too stupid to do basic research, or they're making a calculated attempt to appropriate a trans symbol.
I have a historically accurate suffragette costume. Now I don't feel comfortable wearing the sash because I don't want to be associated with those awful people or risk hurting someone who didn't know I was dressing historically. I guess I am stuck with the American yellow which doesn't look nearly as good.
Fun fact: my aunt who is a biological female can’t have kids because of a surgery, if she didn’t get the surgery she could of died. Just because a woman can’t have kids doesn’t make her any less of a women
Exactly! These biological "facts of womanhood" don't even describe all cis women, so to most transphobic logic, there's plenty of cis women who aren't women either
Your aunt is a cis woman*. There's no such thing as "biological female" or "biological male". Trans women have a "female brain" and trans men have a "male brain".
Yeah like my aunt can’t have kids because of the same reason, so now she’s not a women cuz she can’t have kids? She like already had my cousin but just because she can’t anymore makes her not a women what
@@autumnbreeze_official Wh…what? I do not understand in the slightest. People’s brains are just brains, they don’t have gender to them? The trans community isn’t just implemented with a brain of a different gender- that’s not how it works, if you could explain to me I would appreciate it but what you’re currently saying makes no sense.
Transphobes are legit sooo deep in their hatred, they ignore basic facts about genetics, psychology and science while ignoring basic English and decency. They are just sooo annoying and stupid but does make for some amazingly funny things
The combination of transphobes not understanding that “he” and “she” are pronouns, and not understanding that “trans” is an adjective when places in front of “man” or “woman”... really tells me they need to go back to primary school English class 🤔
Transphobes also like to use the "pronouns refer to chromosomal sex and always have" even though the pronouns "he" and "she" both predate the discovery of sex chromosomes
@@epicstare99 Also with female and male and stuff, sex doesn’t equal pronouns. Like we just made them up. If it did then everybody would have like fem/ale or ma/le pronouns.
@@epicstare99 also pronouns literally aren't unique to humans for example Ben Lomend is the tallest mountain in Scotland that also makes IT the tallest mountain in the UK
@Rose Anne Boushard So, are you saying that you're attracted to 100% of the gender that you're attracted to? For example, if you like men, do you like all men on earth, or if you like women, do you like all women on earth? Also, the "one without one (adjective)" that you mention. You do realise that they do have an adjective too, right? Cis. Also, that question makes little sense in the first place. Different adjectives denote differences. A tall man is different to a short man. A trans man is different to a cis man. It doesn't mean you don't treat them like men though.
As a woman with PCOS who struggles with infertility, I find that statement about infertile woman really triggering. Not because of internalized transphobia but because I have genuinely heard that in church (grew up fundamentalist. Never going back).
It's a very disgusting patriarchal attitude where women basically have no use but for breeding and housework. It's great to hear that you got out of that situation!
I am so sorry that you had that experience! You are valid and those people who believe you aren’t are garbage and not worth your time or energy. Know that there are people out here in the world who love you and will go to bat for you!
Margaret Atwood, the author of “Handmaid’s Tale”, has come out in support of trans rights, so why do the transphobes keep trying to appropriate her works?
The Handmaid's Tale has a focus on how disgusting it is to value someone based solely on what their body can provide for you. You would think that a story with a moral of "Don't treat people terribly based on their anatomy" would cause these people to SUPPORT trans people.
Terfs do kiss up to religious and far right groups who actually want to make something like Gilead reality. It's like trans people are the singular focused enemy and everything else is secondary. They would burn themselves to get at us.
"If trans men were men then men would be trans men and clearly they are not" "If you were a human then all humans would be you and clearly they are not" that reasoning doesn't work lmao
The fact that the flag their using is the genderqueer flag makes me really sad... I love my flag, and yes I know it's also a women's suffragette flag that was made separately it just hurts to see it like that.
I believe they’re actually using the suffragette flag, the colors are pretty much the same but i’ve seen it sometimes represented in the opposite order to the genderqueer flag for some reason? Im not sure what the right order is or if the different orders means something though
"If she can't get pregnant, she's a transwoman" Me: * stares at my multiple ultrasounds showing my polycystic ovaries * So, by this logic, hitting puberty caused me, who is AFAB, to transition into a transwoman? Yeah, okay.
@@helRAEzzzer healthy women are expected to be fertile in their youth. like all mammels and ignoring this has big side effects on collecting health statisics i think that is their rationality
It’s funny how transphobes think that pronouns are just some thing that queer people made up… like, no, “he” and “she” are pronouns that have existed for probably thousands of years, and we use them all the time. And they/them is completely valid as a singular pronoun as well. Language is flexible, and it should be allowed to change and evolve and adapt to our current society. People already use they/them pronouns as a singular pronoun all the time, so why not just make it a thing? It makes people feel comfortable and happy and loved, so what’s the issue?
**gasp** you said the pr*noun (i’m so sorry i can’t censor it cause it only has two letters) my (i’m sorry :( for saying it) i hope you learn to not use pr*nouns :D /j
"If she can't get pregnant she's a trans woman" implies that every woman is born as trans then transitions into cis around 12-15 and then re transitions to trans when menopause hits. Also pregnant woman can't get pregnant, heck normal healthy cis women are like wherewolves on safe days they're trans but at certain times of the month they become cis (can't remember if most days are safe or most are not, sorry, i'm a cis male, i usually don't track periods) It's so stupid, I can't stop laughing
It also suggests that any woman on birth control or with literally any other condition that means they can't get pregnant has magically become trans, which is almost impressively misguided.
Also cis women who no matter how they try can’t get pregnant, even though of child bearing age and not on any birth control. Which, I believe (though I haven’t checked), is not an irrelevant percentage of cis women. So, if you take out these, pre-pubescent, post menopause and cis women on birth control…. Wow, there are almost no cis women left! LOL
If I ever encounter someone IRL spouting that "no pronouns" garbage, I think I'll just aggressively de-pronoun them. "Ah, the entity "Mark" to which this one speaks feels discomfort with the usage of pronouns concerning either said entity or in presence of said entity? This one shall endeavor to accomodate the needs of Mark. Would Mark like this one's assistance in drafting a document to assist others in the office to accomadate the needs of Mark? This one would be happy to assist Mark feel more at ease." No you, no I... pronouns, after all, must all be done away with.
My grandma cannot have kids anymore because, well, 1) she's 68 years old 2) she had a hysterectomy years ago. By these people's logic... she stopped being a cis woman when she had that life-saving surgery and is now trans? Are all post-menopause women trans? What is this nonsense?
Transphobes: Be comfortable in your own body! Trans people: Okay, transitioning makes us comfortable in our bodies. Transphobes: NO YOU'RE JUST TRYING TO GET ATTENTION YOU'RE NOT TRANS YOU SHOULD BE COMFORTABLE AS WHO YOU ARE Trans people: ...This IS who I am. EDIT: This comment generated an argument in the replies. If that's triggering to you, I recommend not reading the replies.
@@carmakuroki9769 no i know, i was just saying to them who cares if kids "grow out of" gender dysphoria. I was just trying to say that it doesnt matter cause transitioning is still gonna save peoples lives and shit so it doesnt matter if eight percent do indeed do that.
"According to all known medicine, transitioning will be the best way to prevent your daughter from feeling future dysphoria" "Yeah but.. that's child abuse" "It's ... the only known medical treatment" "CHILD ABUSE"
I think it's referring to people who label their children as trans when they like to do anything that goes beyond the gender stereotypes... And that is indeed child abuse
Kids have no secondary sex characteristics. They have no understanding of what sex is. They don't know what their genitals are there for. They don't even think of them. How can they be dysphoric?
@@willwestland8358 I had dysphoria as a child. I didn’t wanna wear girl clothes, I wanted short hair, I was one of the boys during play time and anything else. I skateboarded, played football and I asked my fellow classmates to call me jake instead of my dead name. I was born this way. It just happens to some people.
Ah yes, people may go by she/her, he/him, or gay/gem. Nothing else. This is the way it has always been. Do not question it, some random person on Twitter said it so it must be true.
He/him/his She/her/her Gay/gem/? Can someone come up with an idea what would be instead of question mark? I thought "geir", but it doesn't sound right for me. Any other ideas?
I would like to point out that that “votes for women” flag is the original suffragette flag and has other uses than the transphobic group shown here. It does not automatically mean the person wearing, flying, or using it is transphobic.
A thing about transphobia: i got like 8 reddit followers with names like "youarestillamanlol" or "youwillalwaysbeaguylmao". I find it funny that a person actively wasted their time making reddit accounts just to insult me
I like to imagine those kinds of usernames as r/accidentalallies and imagine their saying those things about trans men. Pisses them right off when you tell them
This is random but I'm a trans demiboy and I'm getting my first binder AND IM SO EXCITED update: i am no longer a demiboy and i use they/them pronouns and i no longer want to wear a binder some days
A huge thank you to Jamie for helping me better understand and embrace the LGBTQ+ community and myself, dunno where I'd be if I hadn't discovered this channel sooner. Thanks for explaining and making the helpful and hilarious content that you do, it really helped expand my view of the world and showed me that it's a positive and accepting community, despite the illogical hate it gets. Thanks a million dude!
The other thing with pronouns is that even before people started choosing their prefered pronouns, 'they' 'them' 'their' and such were already words in English. You can't just remove a function of a language because you disagree with somebody's gender identity. Also the hashtag 'do not normalise pronouns' implies that we should not be normalising the use of an entire category of words! That's like saying 'do not normalise verbs' or 'do not normalise adjectives'. What does that even mean?!? Lol can we just be respectful of LGBTQIA+ people. Please?
No one cares abs no one will call your deerkin. Get over yourselves and stop expecting people to adjust their speech for you and your nonsense when there are real problems in the world. How about lgbt respects the rest of the world and stops trying to make everyone bend to their agenda
@@nadie8093 *don't as in don't police people's identites when it does no harm to anyone to use it, and does, in fact, do harm to deny and reject people over these things
@@emmaw2152 grammar is grammar. If you want to be called something neutral, use "it" or learn an other language with a neutral pronoun (like German) and move there. Society is not responsible for making a small minority feel good even though it is a lie.
I had a transphobe tell me last week. “Idc if I tell a trans person to kys & they do it, I hope they do it. Seeing that suicide rate really puts a smile on my face” & in that second I didn’t know what to say about it, it made me wanna throw up, but cry at the same time. The dude then said “I’m still going to heaven” after that disturbingly disgusting comment & his only excuse was god. SO LONG STORY SHORT…. no they’re not ok
Can confidently say that he will NOT be going to heaven with that attitude. I'm sorry you had to encounter such a vile, hypocritical pile of steaming human filth.
Hi 👋🏼 =^•^= I am an autistic enbie who needs a name for my sexuality. I’ve been looking on google and asking around there is no word/label for my sexuality. I want a name and flag for my sexuality. Would you be willing to help me?
:( I'm non binary and I want to come out to my extended family but I'm too nervous. I know that most of them will be nice about it but I don't have the guts 😕
@@leethestar6421 maybe try a group chat. Since you said that you know most will be ok with it, have them in the chat with the more nonsupportive ones. Tell the supportive one beforehand what you identify as and then ask if they are willing to help you come out to the nonsupportive ones. Hope this helps. If it doesnt, I could help you find other ways for help :p
"People don't breastfeed, women do." Most cis men, as well as intersex people, can produce milk. Even without chemical aids. This was eighth grade biology. Sixteen years ago. In Catholic school. And then again in a few videos on the risks of jogging. And, no, I'm not confusing this with chafing.
By that logic, if I identify as enby will my potential fertility disappear? Please? Take the menstruation and PMDD too please? That would solve basically all my dysphoria.
Oh gods. PLEASE take my potential fertility and all the side-effects thereof. also, can whoever claimed that the gay community didn't need to fight for their rights *please* learn some things before the sainted Marsha P. Johnson manifests in your room and throws a spiritual shot-glass at you
@@sharlharmakhis280 My head wanted to explode when he read that. How old was the person who wrote that, to not know or appreciate the history enough to at least STFU if they don't as a group participate in the VERY ESSENTIAL AND NECESSARY public BATTLE for all of the forward progress that has put us where we are today compared to 1969. Talk about retconning, good grief.
Stop right here! Jami, i am 62 yo, my dtr is bi, i am hetero. I need to thank you so much for bringing so many things to the forefront. Thank you so much. Not only have you explained so much for me unfortunately, it has brought so many new questions. You guys are the future even my old ass can learn from you.
"Pronouns don't exist" I always find it fun to see posts like this and people post stuff like: "So, is Greg still coming to the party next week? And will Greg be bringing Greg's family?". And the person that posted it is just SUPER confused all "Why are you using my name like that? Just use correct grammar!" xD
@@jokutyyppi4226 Wait, "you" and "I" are pronouns too "Does Kattlarv know Rebecca" "ugh joku tyyppi hates Rebecca" "Kattlarv hates Rebecca too Rebecca is such an annoying name"
that is actually what i do with one of my friends tho. said friend is confused about the pronouns said friend prefers. i dont want to offend said friend or get said friends pronouns wrong. i could use they but i usually say said friends name.
@@ambitiousartist6307 It can def be a choice for some people. Especially non-binary. Point being though: It is CLEARLY not what those bigots want. They are just too dumb to understand what a "pronoun" is.
I was told by a friend once that I wasn’t a real woman because I had a C-section and that meant I wasn’t a real mother. People can be so ignorant sometimes.
Laura Elliot She’s not my friend anymore, I had trouble getting pregnant, and nearly died from a DVT while pregnant. I was sick of her judgment. She made me feel like there was something wrong with me. One day I cursed her out and haven’t talked since.
@@briannebarsi4815 Definitely for the best. Sounds like went through a lot of serious health challenges. You didn't need a friend that blamed you for it. Hope everything is going better for you now.
Join me in being ,,unwomanly” cause apparently according to those people , since they believe there are only two genders, we’re now men? but since were AFAB we’re transmen? 😂 i swear, logic, not even once
LGB Alliance: Don't insert yourselves into our battle for rights! Trans community: specifically stands up for *our* rights LGB Alliance: How dare you exclude us!
They literally called themselves the "LGB Alliance", throwing off trans people from "their" space... But trans folks standing up for themselves is HOMOPHOBIC? Like they are not the ones who exclude trans people in the name of transphobia...
The “Courage calls to courage everywhere” on their banner is a quote from Millicent Fawcett. But on their certificates or whatever they are it says “Deeds not words”. However, Millicent Fawcett fought for women’s right to vote famously peacefully and with words not deeds, so their kinda contradicting themselves there. XD
That last one is like spitting in the face of all the people jailed, killed, castrated, deemed insane, fired from a job etc. for being gay because that was literally the law (or the law did not stop discrimination). 😠
Someone in my fiance's department at his work got fired for spreading rumors that I (a person he's met exactly once for about 5 seconds) am Trans when I'm not. And generally trying to invalidate our relationship/make my fiance look bad. We're in a rural midwest town, so it's clear he was trying to stir the pot. Thankfully HR took it very seriously and it was handled almost immediately
Sounds like tucker Carlson saying you should call 911 if you see a kid with a mask bc its equivalent to a kid being beat up in walmart (yes he’s said this)
If they were being themselves then why do they need to take puberty blockers and physically alter themeselves surgeries? If one were just being themeselves they wouldn't need to chemically and surgerically alter themselves to look like the sex that they are not, and never will be. When one is lead down a irreversible path based on a desire that never can be truly fulfilled, that does lead to happiness. The solution is not in encouraging the delusion, but by treating it with love and care like any other psychological disorder.
@@AbsolutelyRatastic puberty blocker -> block puberty so child can figure themselves out before their body goes thorough unwanted changes Surgery -> make body look like how feel. When look like gender is not, brain sad, surgery make body look like gender *is* , brain happy, person comfortable, not your body, none of your fucking business.
@@justaperson4656 Don't worry, I always sound passive-aggressive when I correct typos. Idk why, it might just be from idiots starting arguments and saying: "Idiot, it's actually 'They're private property', not their." *NO*
5:37 That's so annoying, because Margaret Atwood, the woman who wrote The Handmaid's Tale (it is brilliant), said that she had no problem with trans women and that they are women
"Transitioning kids is child abuse" Yeah, but consider this: They come out to you and you refuse to transition them. You, instead, try to force them to be comfortable with what you define them as. This will most likely lead to depression, anxiety, and/or a rift between you two. Not transitioning your kids if they really want it can also be seen as abuse Edit: Damn, some people in the comments are on a whole new level of stupidity. Ig my little sister was a "slave" to dr-gs when she was on chemo and needed multiple meditations to stay alive.
@@fritos1445 No, obviously a child can't get surgery/medical stuff done until they are of legal age(if that's what you mean by appointment). But, maybe just letting her grow her hair out and getting some more fitting clothes while also using a different name/pronouns is the way I'd go.
@@fritos1445 Not everything at the same time but starting with buying mew clothes, let the hair grow, finding a new nickname and change pronounce cold be possible. As same as finding a trans known therepi (in my country needed to get any medicine and change papers). Under 14 ore 16 I don't know, many she would get puperty blockers so the puperty starts later, what gives time to figure out, what the kid wont. Everything only, when the Kids wonts it!
Gavin Grimm came to my California elementary school and he was sooo nice.. we love to see it when schools (not during pride month only!) are supportive! Shout out to my old teacher Mr. John! (Its been 5 yrs now)
every once in a while i genuinely forget jamie is trans and midway through this video i was like it’s so nice that a cis ally like jamie is so vocal about how shitty transphobia is and it’s so nice that his videos are always so educational
A little boy who wants to have long hair, wear dresses, paint his nails and play with dolls and thinks he's a girl in a boy body because he's a kid and he thinks that's what makes a girl a girl, is not a girl. By telling him he's indeed a girl and making him "socially transition, then putting him on drugs that halt his puberty as if there is anything wrong with his body or his puberty you are forcing him to live as someone he's not.
@@willwestland8358 yeah but letting the kid grow their hair and play with dolls and wear dresses is making that child happy, they don't have to fully understand the complexity of gender to know what makes them happy, noone is gonna force a kid to be trans, forcing kids to be cis however does happen.
@@willwestland8358 first of all, none of those things are like testosterone and estrogen are drugs, it's something that already exists in our body called ✨hormones✨, second, you Are not allowed or entitled to tell what someone is feeling, OK hun? :)
There are 2.5k comments currently so I don't think anyone will see this. But I'm a baby trans (pangender/genderfluid). I just want to thank Jamie and his review of trans subreddits for helping me realize and accept myself :D
Honestly: What is this weird conspiracy tale about "Amanda Rae invented bisexuality"? Its not even the usual twist from "coining"/"labelling" to "inventing". Google doesnt find any useful information when searching for "Amanda Rae bisexuality"... Wikipedia tells me: "The first English-language use of the word "bisexual" referring to sexual orientation was by the American neurologist Charles Gilbert Chaddock in his 1892 translation of the 7th edition of Krafft-Ebing's seminal work Psychopathia Sexualis. Prior to this, "bisexual" typically referred to reproductive hermaphrodites, especially in botany."
I think you got it when you said "weird conspiracy talk". They like anything that can make them feel like it's all made up and they can go back to the 1950s and all the straight white families on tv.
@@barrylangille3523 Pretty much, yeah. I tried a different search and found at least a 22k insta trans women model with that name who looks like mid20s and "started her activism in 2015". This conspiracy tale now got funnier... Like, yeah, we all remember pre2015, when the lgbtq+ community was still missing the B....
Im so sick of the bathroom argument. A quick search will show you more stories of trans people being beaten by cis people regardless of which bathroom they use, than trans people attacking cis people in the Bathroom. Once I put this out there and someone replied like 'barbie kardashian, check mate!' So I replied with 5 attacks on trans people involving a bathroom and they just never replied 🤷🏼♀️
In language there are actually descriptors that exclude what their describing from that group... pre-teens aren't teens, mock-turtlesoup isn't turtlesoup, semi-trailers aren't trailers and pseudo-legendaries aren't legendaries... Also the KJV is a trans(lated)-bible, and even though we still treat it like the original, those that insist it truly is are relentlessly ridiculed...
@Shyanna M That was one argument, but I gave two... Also, trans is latin for "across", so jammie dogger is "a man across his sex" or something like that. If you think it's a man, fine...
@Shyanna M "an anecdotal biblical thing"... yes, as an example of calling something trans. So try to understand it before calling out bad examples Also, what do you mean by "our" language!? English isn't my language, and don't assume it is just because I'm a person on the internet...
@Shyanna M Also, no. It doesn't come from transition, it comes directly from the latin word. Why do you think it contrasts with "cis", is that short for "cisitioned"!?
@Tom Morrison Well, in my language there's a phrase that goes "he who dismisses, dismisses at his own flaws"... So sure, I was offended at being mistaken for a native speaker...
"If she cant get pregnant shes a transwoman spiritually" welp guess Im trans, thanks for letting me know. I never would have realized No but actually what the f*ck
My take on this is that English-speaking people need to study grammar. Pronouns are NOT an LGBTQ creation. And people should study logic. Look, just promote education and maybe we'll fix some transphobes, maybe...
“Transitioning is child abuse” But what if I’m the one wanting to do it. What if I’m happy with the result. Transphobia is more child abuse, by forcing people to stay trapped in their body! My body literally feels like I’m in a prison but never let out of my cell. So you want people to feel imprisoned in their own bodies, or do you want them to live a normal life?
Ugh they understand nothing of child abuse. It feels so much like they're being hateful to trans kids for no reason as well as invalidating and ignoring kids who actually suffer from child abuse
@@schnizzyfizz7832 I regret going through puberty because I don’t like my voice and pp and non existent chest. I’m a trans girl so like I don’t like my man puberty, if I could go through female puberty I would love to.
@Cassidy Callahan I can’t be the one to make legal decisions I know. But I can sure convince my supportive parents that I need to transition. I know I can’t legally do anything because I’m under 18, but no one says I can’t buy new clothes or have my parents get me help.
@Cassidy Callahan Children rely on their parents to give consent for needed medical procedures. Just because a child who has, for example, cancer can't consent to chemotherapy, does not make it right to delay chemo until they're an adult. Many court cases have been fought over parents wanting to deny children things like chemo and blood transfusions. You can see the parallels, I hope.
I don't understand women getting so offended about trans women being women. And the argument that it's not natural because they can't have babies.. lots of cis women can't have them either
Starbucks did that thing where the sold some cookie and donated part of the sales to Mermaids, so maybe that's why the first on was a knock-off Starbucks logo?
Was coming here to check if anyone had commented this. In response to trans kids using Starbucks to try out new names, they did a campaign in support of trans people & did work with Mermaids. I guess this was in protest of their support.
Guys, gals and other pals: New neopronouns just dropped: *gay/gem* _Examples for use:_ _Gay_ walks over the road. That’s _gays_ pen. Have you seen _gay_ ? Could you please tell _gem_ that I found _gays_ wallet?
I just wanted to tell you that you are all valid and that I'm extremely proud of how far you've come. You are all amazing humans and you all deserve love and respect. If you ever want advice or just need to vent I'm always here to listen, have a good day/night.
As a Welsh LGB person, we do not claim LGB Alliance Cymru (btw, it's pronounced cum-ree! Just letting you know, in case the reason you replaced it with Wales is due to fear of mispronunciation!). It breaks my heart that there are people like that in my country, using my flag. I am so sorry. For the most part, Cymru is a loving and accepting place, just unfortunately the TERFs have poisoned our spaces a bit too. :( I hate TERFs so much. They've even infiltrated the indy movement here in Wales and it upsets me sm. All trans people did was dare to support YesCymru too and become involved with its activism, and now they are getting their lives destroyed by TERFs. People are also attacking newly-elected members of the central committee just for being LGBTQ+ or an ally. It honestly makes me want to cancel my membership with YesCymru because I'm seeing how so many members are just really horrible people now. I promise the majority of us still love you, I am sincerely sorry for the rising TERFery. We do not claim them. :(
If you can't get pregnant you're a trans woman. Every cis woman after menopause: Guess I'm trans now But this actually makes me wonder. The person who made this would probably not date a trans person. Does that mean they're going to break up/get a divorce once their partner turns out to be infertile? But on the other hand, bold of me to assume that anyone would want to date such a person in the first place
The ones screaming that you should go to your "bathroom assigned at birth" are the first ones to scream bloody murder if a trans guy walks into the women's toilet or the one's who would actually try to do the stuff they're suspecting trans women want to do to those trans women in the men's bathroom and hell no. I remember a thing in I think Australia where women in hijabs were attacked and it started the "I walk with you" trend. Some places need that but for the walk to the toilet..... and where do enbies go? Can they pick or do they have to show first? 😅
2003 WAS WHEN THE SUPREME COURT RULED THAT SODOMY LAWS AGAINST GAY SEX WAS UNCONSTITUTIONAL. 2003. SAME SEX MARRIAGE WAS LEGALIZED IN THE US 2015. THIS WAS WITHIN MY LIFETIME AND I'M ONLY 25
i thought that flag seemed familiar in that profile picture not just because of the handmaids tale cosplayers but becasue its literally the genderqueer flag colours even down to being in the same order
The question in the title: Short answer: no Longer answer: Defnitely not Much longer answer: nononononononononononono we are so far removed from "yes" that language is breaking down
This isn’t related to the video, but I love you. You have made feel so much happier with myself and the fact that I am genderfluid. It also makes me feel safe knowing that your channel and your videos is one of the few safe places I have. Thank you 🥰🥰
he made a great point about the transphobia within the community. there are so many gay people that are extremely transphobic (aka raul paul). pride has been taken over by white gay men and have excluded every one else. the only time that trans issues are talked about is (generally, there are some good allies) when we talk about them ourselves. trans people made pride. we started stonewall. and they just don’t see us ig.
Ikr?! That’s what I thought! I had no idea it was the same as the suffragette one like people are saying but either way they love stealing flags from groups who clearly wouldn’t agree with them don’t they. Interesting choice. 🤔😂
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I’m getting a hysterectomy in a week and I’m super excited! I feel like I haven’t been able to do much in terms of transitioning (I’m non-binary) in the past couple years, so I’m finally glad to get moving!!! Transphobes love saying if you have a uterus then you’re a women (and they’re wrong), but DAMN it’s gonna be nice to throw that line back in their face if they try to misgender me.
i came out as pansexual to my mom yesterday. i didnt tell her i wanted to use she/they pronouns, but she knows my trans friend and respects him. she didnt seem to care that i was pan, but idk how she'd feel about me using they/them pronouns but im gonna tell her soon, so wish me luck ig
I had an ad before this, saying "you can do something about climate change" and then when I skipped it, the video opened with "short answer no, long answer absolutely not" I was creasin like
@@lastlime3792 for the last time what does being straight have to do with transphobic people. As a straight guy I am so confused - I hate transphobes because some are basically telling trans people to k*ll themselves and other harmful things just for trying it feel comfortable. And because I’m straight means I have to like transphobes wtf is your logic. You are supporting people like this and making stupid assumptions you really need to get help. 😕
as an aroace agender who loved the handmaid's tale movie i am deeply offended by the colours of that flag. how dare. (the acting isn't 100% but this movie should have gotten more awards. one of the best horror movies i've ever seen.)
yea, isn't the flag using the genderqueer flag colours? (also, i haven't seen the movie but the book is amazing!! Atwood is such a great dystopian writer!)
@@wrenx8413 I think its supposed to be the colors of the suffragette movement flag. They’re pretty much the same but sometimes its in the opposite order to the genderqueer flag and im not sure whats the correct version.
There was a study done on people’s teeth in 2008. The gist of the study was that generally men have larger teeth than women, due to the sexual dimorphism that occurs in humans (teeth also don’t change with HRT, and are usually predetermined by genetics before puberty, so are a good measure to use). And trans men had statistically larger teeth on average than cis women, meaning that being trans is genetically determined.
