Asking For A Guy’s Bank Account On The First Date | Sofia Franklyn

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@srbelnap 7 месяцев назад

Lets start a toxic cycle: she asks for bank info, in response I ask for her weight, her sexual activity, and if there's history of mental illness in her family.

@calfencer 6 месяцев назад

Also, no tattoos no matter how small.

@jasonreviews 6 месяцев назад

the obvious answer is very high. -_-'

@TheCreditShifu 8 месяцев назад

Then she meets a guy who operates on the "next level" with shell companies, multiple s-corps, brokerage accounts, trusts etc... where he hides his money and he has like $100 in his checking account.

@BaxterB1641 8 месяцев назад

Dumb women ask for bank account. Smart women ask for cashflow, assets, etc… Dumb men take women caked with makeup to dinner. Smart men take them hiking, workout, or any activity where they can’t hide behind make up…

@nicholasmartinez6043 8 месяцев назад

I don’t have shell companies but I am a net worth millionaire who literally doesn’t keep more than 1500 dollars in my checking account. All my money is either invested or in a money market fund lol

@cheyenne7982 8 месяцев назад

Probably better and more respectful to ask about credit score, but if she's so worried about finances, she should just select for guys with a high income job.

@Ndasuunye 8 месяцев назад

What happens if you meet a Super Smart Finance guy that only has $1500 in the actual bank account because he keeps everything is always invested? Does she assume he's lying and broke?

@seanh8546 8 месяцев назад

@nicholasmartinez6043 good for you man, I'm happy for you! I keep less then 1500 in my checking account because my paychecks are 1500 and I live paycheck to paycheck lmao

@Hoffman2750 7 месяцев назад

She is definitely a walking red flag. With those expectations she’s gonna have a really hard time keeping a guy in her life.

@alastairhewitt380 7 месяцев назад

I vomited almost instantly. Yeah we want someone attractive just as they want to date someone who is attractive. They want to treat us like a bank, then act surprised if we view as a commodity. Yeah, I am looking someone attractive, but not someone who is looking to sell their beauty. If the relationship is completely commercialised then the only difference between her and a prostitute is that a prostitute is more honest & direct (yes she's direct in what she asks, but not necessarily what she gives in return for that, and when a prostitute pretends to love you, you know it is a show), so I actually respect prostitutes, but have no respect for women like this.

@Hoffman2750 5 месяцев назад

@@alastairhewitt380 yeah I’ve never really taken women like this seriously and never really will

@mishalchotai4721 4 месяца назад

She has a ticking clock. She said it already. Younger model. 😂

@brandonbolthouse1098 8 месяцев назад

At least she lays her red flags out on the first date.

@KQH8 7 месяцев назад

If a girl says she only dates rich guys, tell her you only date virgins, watch how quickly she gets up and leaves, facts, lol.

@marcrose23 8 месяцев назад

I love how Graham brings a level of class to the conversation

@ashleybriones2445 7 месяцев назад

Totally agree

@albertoavena 7 месяцев назад

Very classy guy

@irin949yes9 8 месяцев назад

Honestly I rather learn this on the first date so I know not to try for a second date. Saves a lot of time 😂

@stevenporter863 7 месяцев назад

Then ask for her body count and get that too out of the way. 😂

@Donkeyearsa 7 месяцев назад

Oh don't worry there won't be a second date as that says, "Gold digger, don't walk run away fast".

@vg7985 7 месяцев назад

@@stevenporter863when it comes to women, guys are looking for beauty firstly and mostly. And it’s in your face , you don’t need to ask - are you beautiful? You see it. Man’s banking account is a hidden feature, women are trying to figure it out based on secondary things, such as car, paying on dates or profession. Well, in this case, woman just asks.

@stevenporter863 7 месяцев назад

@@vg7985 Timing buddy. It was a first date, not an IRS audit.

@JahneshaH 7 месяцев назад

In my opinion if a woman asks this, it's just a question. A guy can choose to not answer. Men get so triggered by it. Everyone has preferences. Some men prefer to be with women with a low body count and some women want a rich man. To each their own. If a person isn't want another is looking for move on.

@Sav1010 7 месяцев назад

“60k a year THATS stability” this is why I love graham

@ellina9816 7 месяцев назад

Graf ham says: “what sets her apart from millions other girls that offer exactly the same but don’t ask for the bank account?” That’s all we need to hear in the video. That’s the essence.🤷‍♀️

@IndependentPrettyGirlis 7 месяцев назад

😂 the fact that she's up front and doesn't like to waste her time. Do you think women generally go for broke males? Do you think once she finds out you broke that that's going to go well?? 💀

@malimal4972 7 месяцев назад

@@IndependentPrettyGirliswhat is your point ? just a word salad at this point you spewing

@IndependentPrettyGirlis 7 месяцев назад

@@malimal4972 you're better off with a woman like her because she's straight up and up front. ALL women want and look for Males that have appropriate resources in the form of finances. Whether or not they tell you, it is still a minimum requirement that the male HAS to have. So one way or another woman WILL find out, and once they do find out..do you think that's going to go well for you if you broke or don't make a good income? The person who posted this idiotic comment asked the very STUPID question of what sets her apart from the rest. Well what sets her apart from the rest is that she's not going to WASTE time. It's not that she's looking for anything that's particularly different from what women with high standards and values look for. If a woman is high-value, high standards, and High boundaries she WILL look at your finances FIRST. Whether or not she says is directly is INCONSEQUENTIAL. So the woman in the video is actually helping YOU out 💀😂. The fact that you males continue to be delusional thinking that women will continue to accept you when you're broke or don't even make a minimum of 100k a year (especially with inflation the way that it is), is completely IDIOTIC.

@Fanta.... 7 месяцев назад

@@IndependentPrettyGirlis a bank account does not tell the whole story. they could be a multi millionaire who doesn't like to keep a lot of money in theiir savings account. So she doesn't want poor people, and shes worried rich people are just going to sleep around because they have the [ick of whoever they want. This girl is never going to be happy.

@Sebastian-px3bl 5 месяцев назад

@@IndependentPrettyGirlisalways nice to know when someone sees you as an ATM machine right

@ybergik 8 месяцев назад

I'd want first dates to present recent testresults for STDs. At least that would be considerably more relevant and useful.

@RurouniTim 8 месяцев назад

I think finances are important with a potential partner, but asking about it directly on the first date seems tacky in my opinion. It's also unnecessary as there are more subtle ways to figure out how someone is doing financially that come out naturally as you get to know someone. Someone's job, their spending habits on dates, housing situation, car situation, etc are all decent indicators as to where someone's at financially. Trying to figure out someone's financial value too directly, too early on in a relationship shows that they view the relationship transactionally in terms of how they can benefit from you. It's better to focus on learning the other person's values over time (to determine consistency) and whether they're a good match for you, and finances will naturally be part of that.

@tykeno 7 месяцев назад

Spot on

@eddiemalvin 7 месяцев назад

Exactly. I don't fault someone for including finances in their criteria for a potential partner but you can likely determine this by simply talking about their values and life plans.

@e22ddie46 7 месяцев назад

Yeah. I tend to agree. A first date is too soon, but finances are a major cause of divorce. You should be in agreement on it.

@IndependentPrettyGirlis 7 месяцев назад

So you want women to waste all her time and energy, only to end up finding out that he's not financially what she's looking for. Yet males walk around here judging women spot on (instantly ) solely by how they look, even rating them on a number scale like objects. The idiocracy, these males have got to go, for real

@Arlene_witha_y 7 месяцев назад

Perfectly said! i agree!

@BabyOxTrot 8 месяцев назад

It's a no win for the guy. Either he doesn't have enough, or he does and he knows what she's all about.

@dearestdarling9467 8 месяцев назад

Exactly. There are way more tactful ways to go about this, even if it’s a non-starter for her. What is the harm in context clues over a few dates over stating it bluntly in one? There are other things that should be of importance as well to where if he does tick the financials box but not the personality or chemistry boxes then it’s a no-go. So what’s the harm in starting with the latter first? I’m a woman who is also very hypergamous and I don’t get this logic.

@stevenporter863 7 месяцев назад

Either 'None of your business. We just met' or 'When is your period and what is your body count? '

@IndependentPrettyGirlis 7 месяцев назад

@@dearestdarling9467we're not here to baby males and their fragile non-existent ego

@sparksmcgee6641 6 месяцев назад

It's a win to know right up front. Does she show her balance. She is the stupidest woman in the world if she thinks her "passing it off like a joke" works.

@Arlene_witha_y 7 месяцев назад

I cannot believe women are actually asking these questions in first or even 3rd dates! My mother would be appalled! She raised me right. You know if a man will value you based on how he treats you and if he really falls for you he will work to be the best man he can be for you. And that is worth more than anything a regular man who just tolerates you has in his bank account!

@AlbionTVLondon 8 месяцев назад

Once a gold digger, always a gold digger! :-)

@katarzynaperzylo218 7 месяцев назад

She makes a fortune. Nothing wrong with wanting to date someone on a similar level in my opinion

@Josh-py9rq 7 месяцев назад

@@katarzynaperzylo218she makes a fortune for now wait until she starts aging like spoiled milk has blown her cash in a year 😂 she isn’t going to have anyone by then I should honestly invest in some cat food companies I can make a fortune off these delusional females

@RCGuitar982 7 месяцев назад

a way more effective (and less harsh-sounding question) is "How much debt do you have?" Way more telling info than a checking account statement!

@xybersurfer 3 месяца назад

that also doesn't tell the full story, if these debts have a low interest rate

@robertsprague3981 8 месяцев назад

Bank accounts are only insured up to $250k…I don’t know why anyone in their right mind would have more than that in a bank account….Your bank account has nothing to do with net worth 🤦‍♂️

@lionheart93 7 месяцев назад

mulitple accounts

@robertsprague3981 7 месяцев назад

@@lionheart93 True, but most people don’t keep their whole entire net worth in bank accounts…Hard to determine net worth by bank account balances is the point I was making

@gliver2549 7 месяцев назад

rich people use different banks that have more than insurance for 250k

@robertsprague3981 7 месяцев назад

@@gliver2549 No they don’t. It’s invested.

@WeBeatMedicare6969 8 месяцев назад

Her Mom married “a few times”…pretty clear where her way of life was learned

@e22ddie46 7 месяцев назад

The funniest part of that was the premise the relationship could have worked if the dude was cheating but was a breadwinner. That was the other option. I was with her until that selection.

@spencerross8699 7 месяцев назад

Actually she was raised Mormon. If you listen to the podcast before she went bat sh** she talks about growing up in Utah and BYU and the mormon community. Not at all what you'd think.

@chrisrose2690 7 месяцев назад

FACTS 👌!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@rosemariemartin1795 7 месяцев назад

Money isn't the only thing that equals power in a relationship. For example, I am the breadwinner in my relationship and I work outside the home. My husband takes on a huge amount of the parenting and planning for our special needs child (including tracking therapy appointments, coordinating his care, and keeping his teachers in the loop regarding any changes). If we need a little extra one month, he'll do food delivery while kiddo is in school. We both are involved in budgeting and maintaining our finances and our family life. We pick up the slack for each other when one of us is feeling low. We take care of our personal and emotional needs. We've been married for over 20 years, so i guess we're doing something right. If you're just looking at relationships from a money standpoint, you may miss out in finding your person.

@danielclarkson470 7 месяцев назад

"She's exposed to a very small subset of people who tend to have a lot of options, and they explore those options." That's the nicest way of calling out scumbags I've ever seen

@jasondude7566 7 месяцев назад

How are they scumbags? I would say the people you date is a reflection of who you are

@IndependentPrettyGirlis 7 месяцев назад

Ooop you sound like a brokey 😂

@Fanta.... 7 месяцев назад

Perhaps they move on from certain people because they keep asking for their current bank balance and they can find a model that doesn't have nagscreens.

@IndependentPrettyGirlis 7 месяцев назад

@@Fanta.... A "Model" 😂 then they should keep moving on and go find this"model" who doesn't care about money LMFAO. keep it pushing brokey because women are not going to choose to suffer if they have high standards, and high values. Also, you judge women based on their looks and if they look like a "model" even before the first date and you want to tell me that women shouldn't be asking for the bank account on the first date? Are you dumb? Sir, goodbye. You've been stalking me on all my comments. You gotta go 😂

@danielclarkson470 7 месяцев назад

@jasondude7566 fair enough I guess. I kinda get ya. Just not my cup of tea

@skynate3882 8 месяцев назад

great idea for the ice coffee hour podcast make guest show their bank account to you guys

@TheGrahamStephanShow 8 месяцев назад

Hahah

@rakgi 8 месяцев назад

She has a standard and that is she wants to be a gold digger. That is it. It is sad that a lot of people watch these folks and they adopt these disgusting standards.

@bbb_888 7 месяцев назад

Someone else's standards doesn’t have to be yours tho.

@IndependentPrettyGirlis 7 месяцев назад

Oh ok, keep being broke then 😂💀

@Josh-py9rq 7 месяцев назад

@@IndependentPrettyGirlisthe hell what a stupid comment you have no idea how much he makes and that is your response? Do the world a favor don’t breed need to keep what sanity is left to the human race intact 🤨

@ryanj357 5 месяцев назад

@@IndependentPrettyGirlis Found the incel

@ryanj357 5 месяцев назад

@@IndependentPrettyGirlis It's funny how you're proud to be an incel.

@schw0373 8 месяцев назад

If a gal asked me that on a first date, the date is over. Why would anyone want to be with this type of shallow, narcissistic personality??

@maketheconstitutiongreatag5038 7 месяцев назад

So you can put it in their backside and brag about it later because that's all she's good for

@xR00K 7 месяцев назад

Poor reply

@Matt_tw 8 месяцев назад

Like usual, she's a good looking girl who's probably not a bad person. But she's got to knock the delusional expectations.

@TheGrahamStephanShow 8 месяцев назад

@broadestsmiler 8 месяцев назад

@@TheGrahamStephanShow Hello!

@stevenporter863 7 месяцев назад

Doesn't matter how good looking she is. It is rude!

@xybersurfer 3 месяца назад

doesn't that make her bad

@malikbeluga7545 7 месяцев назад

It’s funny, my wife will ask me why we have too much money in our bank account, not the opposite. Our money is always invested in various markets, T bills, real estate etc

@user-bi8ko7kc6h 5 месяцев назад

😂maybe she was worrying rather you did something illegal or not.

@anurag9970 7 месяцев назад

Dating has become so superficial. Height, Money, Cars, mansions, Body... Loyalty, confidence, love, maturity, emotional stability aren't even talked about. Cheating is so normalised in media that we think that it "just happens"

@bronwankhan3323 24 дня назад

The people in this world normalise crazy behaviour as normal!

@lalaishappyyy 7 месяцев назад

pure nuance and a holistic take, honestly so refreshing to hear Graham speak on things!

@fretnot383 7 месяцев назад

Its the equivalent of asking a woman to stand on a scale on the first date. One will be defended as a preference, and the other vilified as being shallow

@cricket12ish 8 месяцев назад

imagine a man asking a women "how much beauty you have left"

@reganwolf4405 7 месяцев назад

Men do this everday buy asking how old you or body counts / divorce with kids enz enz

@xybersurfer 3 месяца назад

@@reganwolf4405 body counts, previous marriages and kids have nothing to do with beauty

@izy0321 7 месяцев назад

Maybe a better way of having the finances conversation is like what are your goals and how are you working toward them?

@AnnaMoore- 8 месяцев назад

I have a $170K savings plus a 401k depleted to $200K of money. Do you think it is better to buy a house or just rent. My retirement plans seem to be out the window. I'm thinking of getting professional help.

@RafetMert-qs3kw 8 месяцев назад

With everything going on, consider financial planning, … that is okay. You can get your money to work for you. but I would say delay retirement a little

@bradlucass 8 месяцев назад

And what if that is all you have, even with SS you may not have enough to retire with. If you opt to work with a financial adviser, Dyor, make sure they are certified from AARP or FINRA.

@RafetMert-qs3kw 8 месяцев назад

It’s a good idea to look for a fiduciary who has a legal obligation to work in your best interest and can’t recommend products or services just because they’ll receive a financial kickback for doing so. I and my spouse work with a retirement planner, Monica Mary Strigle we met in NY, learnt about Monica from Danielle Dimartino Booth in an interview.

@RafetMert-qs3kw 8 месяцев назад

We have been up by 74% precisely in the past year She rebalanced again when the year began, we still hold cash and are cautious with how much we let into the market at this point.

@clintscott3300 7 месяцев назад

This is financial advice and I never give financial advice: NEVER LEAVE DURING THE BEAR. If you don't want to invest....learn. If you don't want to learn...build. If you don't want to build observe. DO SOMETHING...

@antillie7 8 месяцев назад

Anyone who understands money and has a lot of it isn't going to keep much in their checking account. They will keep it in their brokerage account instead. Money not in the market is just being eaten away by inflation.

@stevenporter863 7 месяцев назад

Exactly. I think it is absolutely rude that very very early - but the question should be net worth otherwise she will get a lot of $0 to $500.

@philippezevenberg1332 7 месяцев назад

guys dont say how much you have because some people think of it as how much they can get

@Donkeyearsa 7 месяцев назад

I would get up and leave as the date is officially over. I dont need any gold diggers in my life.

@elegot 8 месяцев назад

Love how Graham, has come from very opiniated point of view, to a more relaxed. And he acknowleging that is awesome

@erick3755 7 месяцев назад

So she wants money in case she gets cheated on and can be taken care of if they divorce, but would sign a pre-nup...logic makes no sense.

@xybersurfer 3 месяца назад

exactly

@jacksonbilly9979 8 месяцев назад

Someone asks me this on a first date, I’m gonna purposely tell them I have maybe $100. That’s not something you ask till 3rd,4th date. That’s a red flag to ask on the very first date. We need to see if there’s even a connection between us before we see if we have the same goals and make it a relationship. I believe in asking all these questions but not on the very 1st date.

@stevenporter863 7 месяцев назад

Right. Definite red flag. If she doesn't know boundaries it is just an indication of what is to come and can't trust her to keep anything private. I would feel anything I say may be posted online.

@xybersurfer 3 месяца назад

agreed. what also makes it come across as disingenuous, is that she doesn't offer up information about her own finances first. not that this would make it right

@just_another_bot0110 7 месяцев назад

Im curios. Say im wealthy.. i show you my bank account and immediately follow it with: This is how much i have, but youre getting none of it. What does she do then?

@japanesecinema6736 8 месяцев назад

Why is someone spending $1000 on dinner? What are they eating?

@majesticsnowleopard 7 месяцев назад

The only thing that I know of that costs roughly 800 dollars is those really excellent 12 course recreations of Nobel Prize dinners (you can order a specific year of the prize's banquet) in... Sweden, iirc. That's really all I'd spend a thousand bucks on dinner for, and it sure as hell wouldn't be for any date.

@majesticsnowleopard 7 месяцев назад

Apologies for the misinformation, I was speaking to someone who had been invited to a nobel prize banquet, and they must have remembered the price and number of courses wrong-- upon looking it up, there's a restaurant in stockholm that does indeed serve every meal since 1922, but the courses have been traditionally in between three and five, and the cost is roughly 200 dollars, much more reasonable.

@abbyoneill4473 7 месяцев назад

The “provider” used to be someone physically strong able to defend and provide for their family. Now the provider is someone financially fit. You can’t survive in this world without money. That’s why some women who go after wealthy men are genuinely attracted and turned on by their wealth and status in their career. They’re not faking it - they are genuinely hot for the guy who can provide $$

@exnihilonihilfit6316 7 месяцев назад

That's what these ghetto dwellers don't get. Also, it's not the MONEY she wants. It's the MAN who can make money and be successful she wants.

@fatemad4012 7 месяцев назад

@@exnihilonihilfit6316it his money the more important thing is ,is he generous and kind enough to share that money with family and not spend it on stupid selfish need? You know cheap wealthy men will torture their wives all the time don't give her money

@AKSmith15 4 месяца назад

Provider always used to be someone able to acquire financial resources. We defended as tribes, or when modern civilizations developed we had laws and organized army.

@ShrandaM 6 месяцев назад

Graham your explanation is definitely on point! Also Jake’s face was priceless.

@een-n-out 8 месяцев назад

So basically she says cheat on my do whatever you want as long as I get money out of this I’m cool. Instead of trying to find a soulmate she’s trying to find an easy bag.

@nomanejane5766 8 месяцев назад

Don't make any sense, she's already rich

@Mark_Jacobson81 8 месяцев назад

She’s good looking so she’s going to find herself in a perpetual cycle of dating dudes who talk a lot, have a lot of cash and want to get it on. Then when that fizzles out they’ll move onto the new lady. Finally, after years and many failed relationships, her looks have faded and she settles with the accountant dude and then wonders where he’s been for all of her life.

@Winston0Boogie 8 месяцев назад

Graham is right where people just stay home and keep their money. I work maybe 84 hrs a week avg and I'm too tired to go out really. I save my money that way. I spend on a gym, Jiu Jitsu and that's it. The rest goes to stocks and savings.

@chgr4674 7 месяцев назад

I would not even show my brother or best friend my bank account details

@xlegacyzero8878 8 месяцев назад

As a man, I would love to be a stay at home dad with a wife that's the breadmaker. But there is no way she wouldn't start resenting me after some time.

@nomanejane5766 8 месяцев назад

Or u would start resenting her.. just gotta find the right person

@xlegacyzero8878 8 месяцев назад

@@nomanejane5766 I would resent her for paying all the bills n taking care of the expenses?

@PinkFZeppelin 8 месяцев назад

I believe that men and women are psychologically and physiologically different. There’s a reason men and women gravitate towards their traditional household roles. Therefore this can rarely work out.

@edgytypebeat781 7 месяцев назад

@@PinkFZeppelinI will say this is a bit bioessentialist. Men and women are that psychologically different especially at birth. It’s based on a case on case basis where some men think like how a woman would think and vice versa.

@thorpeax 7 месяцев назад

My friend is the stay at home dad and it seems to work well for them, you never know your sugar mama could be just round the corner lads 😂😂

@mikeanderson9266 7 месяцев назад

I rather see a women date a success guy than a loser to be fair. I mean it has to be a win/win not just about face shapes or eye colors it's a full relationship.

@buyerclub2 8 месяцев назад

TY for alerting me of a YTBR/podcaster that I never need to watch. I wrote this comment on another channel focused on financial planning. It is important to remember I have advice for those who strive to consider themselves "wealthy", from someone who is wealthy Far more important than whether others would consider you wealthy, is whether YOU consider yourself content with your life. Of course you can have both, wealth and contentment. But wealth without contentment, is actually worthless. Make sure that you aren't putting how others may "judge" you, ahead of what you want to strive for in life. This person, may feel the most important attribute for someone is their bank account, but there are so many more important things in a relatiionship. Such as how they value family, what they enjoy doing. What they feel is important in their lives. I feel sorry for those, like her. So shallow.

@dariankelly5116 8 месяцев назад

I gotta see a Sofia on the iced coffee hour 🎉😂

@feliciasways 8 месяцев назад

Hi Graham, I love your show!

@Mavryck_Tha_Myghty 8 месяцев назад

This girl is looking for connection in all of the wrong places. Her soulmate is making $120,000 a year as an Engineer driving a Toyota and living in a modest apartment right now. She will miss out on that because she is too concerned with logistics.

@dearestdarling9467 8 месяцев назад

Women usually want men who can provide for our lifestyle, and that varies for every person. The same way men want a woman who is pretty, women want a guy who is doing better financially. Sure it limits the pool, but most women do not want to be the breadwinner!

@blazzz13 8 месяцев назад

@@dearestdarling9467 Do not speak for all men. I always wanted a woman with substance first and looks could follow. But even then, I would take a woman with average looks and a solid character/values over a vacuous pretty face any day. Father time is undefeated- those pretty looks will go downhill with age, add kids into the mix and its even worse. Meanwhile my earnings are growing. Hardly a fair deal methinks.

@leonslaw5722 8 месяцев назад

She's pretty but she doesn't respect you, worth?

@why6212 8 месяцев назад

Not pretty enough for that attitude

@opescorin 8 месяцев назад

I would give her d…k and leave her for someone younger eventually.

@brandoncammon7971 8 месяцев назад

Broad is a 3/10 at best, seen way better bi**ches

@chokoon21 7 месяцев назад

Even Logan seems normal in this interview 😂

@janelleg597 8 месяцев назад

This woman's behavior is rude, entitled, atrocious, and should be called out and shamed.

@deadhardy 8 месяцев назад

She isnt worth the time or effort. Clutching your pearls just gives her the attention she wants.

@rjthomasindyusa 8 месяцев назад

Here is the problem...... she is an 'influencer'. She is influencing other woman to be shallow gold diggers. Segments of the culture will eventually adopt this mentality.

@bbb_888 7 месяцев назад

How is she Influencer?? I never heard of her before seriously.

@gorgly123 8 месяцев назад

Then would it be fair to ask about her "body count" on a first date?

@genxtechguy 8 месяцев назад

Oh no! Women can’t be subjected to those questions, but it’s fine if she asks you about your net worth. They aren’t held to the same standards.

@zuozuo9192 8 месяцев назад

This lady is at least 69

@coolwhip7348 7 месяцев назад

Ima just leave it as this. Dated a dude with 30 mil and yet she’s still single. Gotta be a reason🤷‍♂️

@JgutierrezDI19 8 месяцев назад

What’s up Graham! I’m watching your videos before I ship out to Germany tomorrow and head to my first duty station. U.S. Army, HOOAH🤙🏽🙏🏽

@TheGrahamStephanShow 8 месяцев назад

Thank you for your service!! 🙏🏻

@JgutierrezDI19 7 месяцев назад

@@TheGrahamStephanShow I would’ve never expected a comment back! Thank you very much Graham and I’m currently in Grafenwhör, Germany at my first duty station. Have a great one!!!🙏🏽🖤💪🏽💪🏽

@Lycan3303 8 месяцев назад

To be fair if a girl asked how much i made in first date i would ask her body count

@katieakin1091 8 месяцев назад

Going off of that, what would your reaction be? Is there a number you'd consider "too high" or "too low" and it'd be a turn-off? Or would it not matter?

@MephistoRolling 8 месяцев назад

It matters when you are outside analysing. When you are in a true relationship. You want what's best for you as a couple or family. Not what's best for you as individuals together.

@iyeshaluker23 7 месяцев назад

By asking early she is also telling them what’s important to her, that could be helpful for him to know her true colors early too.

@strcd 8 месяцев назад

It sounds like she feels that the men she dates are going to objectify her so she’s doing it back

@edwinje 8 месяцев назад

It sounds like she needs to look for better men.

@mmmay29 7 месяцев назад

Definitely an insecurity thing- a true man will want his woman to be successful if she wants to be successful. It motivates him to also level up and be the best person he can be!

@EniokiFPV 8 месяцев назад

Who the hell keeps large sums of money in a bank account? Do they not watch the @Graham Stephan channel?

@madhurkumar4874 8 месяцев назад

Love you Graham ❤. Been here since 2020 :)

@sommer447 7 месяцев назад

Great relationship insight, honestly really helps.

@michaelchiara1781 7 месяцев назад

She lays out her whole plan. Find a rich guy, get married, have kids, get divorced. She's not going to marry for money. She's going to divorce for it. She says she'll sign a pre-nup, but once kids are in the picture you can wipe your ass with it.

@spencerjohnson7185 8 месяцев назад

If you have more than 50 grand in the bank you are a dipstick , I would rather see their investment portfolio. Why would you have a bunch of money in the bank instead of having it work for you rather than 0.01% interest

@why6212 8 месяцев назад

She's an idiot looking for other idiots

@swestphal117 8 месяцев назад

Agreed, unless it is there for a specific reason, such as a down payment for a house, etc. Although that should be in a high yield savings account

@spencerjohnson7185 8 месяцев назад

@@swestphal117 yeah I had 250,000 in there after I sold my house (I made a killing ) so I paid off my new house and had 250k left over . It literally drove me nuts having it there . I had to put it somewhere to start making money . I keep about 40k in there for emergencies , and I’m worth a lot on paper . I’m not liquid but I have so much access to money Money market , hi yields , investing margin cards , etc I just don’t see a need for it , especially with multiple rental properties that I collect 30k in rent a month . I feel like if you have millions in account that is only insured for 250k you are terrible with money .

@derekhudson3462 8 месяцев назад

I’m all for people having standards they want a partner to meet in a relationship. There’s nothing wrong with that. In this particular video, it’s more about the contradiction of her saying she wants a man that has a lot of money in the bank, yet is perfectly fine with being asked to sign a pre-nup. So which is it, are you good with being financially independent or do you need a partner who has a lot of money? LOL. In the end, she makes herself appear to be very materialistic.

@cuttingback 7 месяцев назад

The prenup is not contradictory, it's designed to protect both.

@droid2D2C3P0 7 месяцев назад

... uh how is that a contradiction??

@twhe7103 7 месяцев назад

She wants a dude with money so that he’s not insecure tho. So the prenup isn’t really important

@SGast 7 месяцев назад

She also said she wants kids, which kind of negates most prenups as you will always be responsible for your kids. And honestly, prenups are thrown out all the time, more and more so the longer you stay married or if the terms are very restrictive.

@TheNinjapancake14 7 месяцев назад

The prenup protects her money too

@Rokka340 7 месяцев назад

Listen, she is young, naive and immature. Give her twenty more years as a single woman and re-ask these questions on finances.

@bethanyboothe4817 8 месяцев назад

And here I was dating my future husband for his character. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@rocknjock872 8 месяцев назад

What is crazy about this is Dave Ramsey, on one of his shows, told women and men they should ask a person about their finances early in dating. He says it will tell you if the man or woman is mature for a relationship. He did not say ask on the first date but he did not say when to ask. He only said to ask early and he never explained how to ask but he did say to pay attention to how the person uses their money. I wonder if Dave Ramsey is where she got that from and she put her entitled twist on it.

@VioletIsBulletproof 8 месяцев назад

I doubt it lol. Cuz if she saw daves vids she'd know that only an idiot has so much money in their main bank acct. Most should be in a separate high yield savings or invested. Otherwise ur wasting money. But its possible...i just think its more likely shes used to being around douches who might be using her for her money and has become so sensitive about it she demands other men to have a lot so she feels secure. Plenty other theories, but only her future therapist will know the truth 😂

@savagebeastking8703 8 месяцев назад

@@VioletIsBulletproof fun fact you can have so much money you don’t need to invest it all

@rocknjock872 8 месяцев назад

@@VioletIsBulletproof Very true and this has been seen in a lot of other people prior to Dave Ramsey saying that lol

@stevenporter863 7 месяцев назад

Early, as in when things are headed towards serious. Not the first date. 🤦

@rocknjock872 7 месяцев назад

@@stevenporter863 headed toward serious is not early. If that becomes a thought, you are already heavily invested emotionally.

@gauravmondal 7 месяцев назад

I didn't tell my wife how much I earned till I got married and she didn't ask me either. That's one of the reasons why I knew she was the one.

@thehoteldeveloper 8 месяцев назад

Oh wow! She seems so awesome and amazing! Set her up with Jack! Lol

@conniesmith3837 7 месяцев назад

I'm 64 years old. When I was very young, there was a saying, "it's just as easy to fall in love and marry a rich guy as it is a poor guy". This has been an on going issue since the beginning of time. How a person male or female handles their money is very important for their future together. Dave Ramsey says money is the number one reason people get a divorce. No one gets married wanting a divorce if they love one another. Love unfortunately can't be the only reason to get married. I'm gorgeous and have a boyfriend 15 years younger than me. We've been together for 17 years. He is poor. I'm rich. I won't ever marry him. He's not marriage material. He's messy. I'm neat and clean. He's lazy. I like things done yesterday. But he keeps me calmed down also. Give and take where we're both content.💜

@AnEpicFatalityArchives 6 месяцев назад

You might as well be married to him if you've been together for that long 🤡🤡🤡🤡

@johng4093 6 месяцев назад

Seems to be a mass of contradictions in there. Maybe you just wanted to say you're rich & gorgeous? 😂🤣😅

@thegamingcaffe 8 месяцев назад

ooo graham, what a smooth transition to the sponsor

@jeffrounsville4961 8 месяцев назад

Great video

@rudolfohisena5701 7 месяцев назад

My answer to anyone who asks how much money do I make, is none of your business. I am not into the gold diggers.

@zachhoog 8 месяцев назад

Awhile I don't think girls do this often, I do know many girls who will pay attention in the most minute details to what a man owns, what he's wearing, his job, etc, to get an idea. I know a girl in NYC who will exclusively only dates people from certain firms and "job titles" because she knows their salaries and bonuses. There's another girl I know in NYC who won't date someone who wears certain watch brands because it screams "fake rich".. In big cities, behavior like this is common

@Courtney-Alice-Gargani 8 месяцев назад

He can always say no. I don't think women should ask this question on a first date. It seems inappropriate.

@janelleg597 8 месяцев назад

That's because IT IS inappropriate 😅 It's rude, shallow, and dispecable

@kadaisjahrivera873 7 месяцев назад

Just being honest, but she sounds like a for real gold digger and like she's not looking for genuine love, but instead a business prospect/purposel as far as marriage goes. To each their own, but truly sad that you have people like this who care about what you can give as far as money and not what you can give for who you are. This is one of many reasons why it's hard to come across genuine good hearted people. To many fake and shallow people

@Rosie-rq2kx 7 месяцев назад

It’s not always gold diggers.I dated so many broke guys and I lost money . I just want a man with his own money .I have $50,000 of my own money saved and guy ask me to borrow money can never meet a guy with his own money

@richard77231 8 месяцев назад

I wouldn't "play it off". I would leave the date right away.

@DingleBerryMTB 7 месяцев назад

Someone hurt this poor girl. - Should be the thought before social media. This girl is just after attention and turn this into an income - Now days we live in social media.

@itstisguy1456 7 месяцев назад

Imagine this graham, you remember the feeling when you had your first big number in the bank, it's almost like getting a new tattoo or dyed your hair, you have that feeling you just want to look at it or show it off everywhere... so it's like that except you can't really go flash your account everywhere... So I think that would be so amazing for the right guy at the right time if she asked him that... I know I wish i could've been like look look just to brag a lil

@hanooi7450 7 месяцев назад

If she wants to ask for the bank account, I think it is fair the guy can also ask for her credit report in exchange.

@kharithoughts2679 7 месяцев назад

Guys who are flashy materialistic will show their bank account. Setting up for divorce.

@e.w.3989 7 месяцев назад

It's a turnoff that she thinks men only want her for her looks.

@iTzDritte 8 месяцев назад

Someone who’s actually wealthy won’t have that much money in a bank. It’ll be in productive assets.

@emilyc1988 7 месяцев назад

I agree with her with asking how much money they have. I think she's not looking to support somebody financially.

@lardyman2 8 месяцев назад

The thing is she probably DIDN'T ask the guys for their bank balance, instead she probably thourght oh this will get clicks and eyeballs and generate some outrage.

@marjex856 8 месяцев назад

That's what I'm thinking as well

@chrisbaker2669 7 месяцев назад

I think the point of looking at a bank account is so you know if they can manage their finances. If you have $30 million in your bank account while it would be better having the money in investments it would be much better than a person with under a $1,000 and a lot of debt.

@jonkuderer 7 месяцев назад

Personally, it's not an insecurity thing. It's more so having a partner who lives a different lifestyle when there is a large income differences. A $80 per person meal hits people differently.