Ladies remember God is not the author of confusion, so if the man you’re dating is leaving you confused, then he isn’t for you. If he’s for you, Both him and God will make it clear to you. Be blessed ❤️
awww I understand. I was there for many MANY years too. I have the tear stained prayer journal pages to prove it lol! Remember God's timing is PERFECT.
@@Jayden-dq1rt God found me!!! He opened my eyes to His Truth and by His grace I started reading His Word in high school and really desiring a relationship with Him!
Hmmm how do you deal with conflict and disagreements in a way to prepare for marriage; I tend to question my relationship and want to distance myself and think we don't belong together and I want to be able to approach this Biblically. I know part is surrendering my emotions to the Lord and praying about it 🙏🏼 so how do you guys approach this kind of thing?
I love videos like this! I’m 19 but never even been on a date before so there’s so much I’m confused about when it comes to dating and how to show interest in guys LOL
I actually have a question. It’s not a relationship question but how do you stop people pleasing? I’ve spent so much of my life feeling like I’m not enough and it’s manifested itself in going above and beyond for people that will never love me the way Jesus does. Idk if this makes sense but I love you both God bless your ministry on RU-vid. Your love for the Lord inspires me.
I have a book suggestion! It’s called The Search for Significance and I recently finished it. It goes through the lies we believe about ourselves and then compares that with what God says about you. I had social anxiety and used to be so fearful of other’s opinions. But in these past few months, though this book, God has transformed me and I’m not afraid anymore. The book is life-changing and helps you realize how much God loves you!
@@noel1277 Hi. Thank you for your book suggestion. I'll have to do more research and pray about it for sure. I tend to be a little wary about the books I read and sermons/pastors I listen to because not everything is doctrinally sound. I've been doing a little bit of research on the prosperity gospel and word of faith movement in Christian society today. It's dangerous because of how worldly wisdom is mixed in with biblical truth. We are not fighting against flesh and blood so I have to ask God for discernment in the things I expose myself to. My mind is so easily swayed at times without me noticing. I pray Lord please take all of my rebellious thoughts captive to the glory and obedience of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Sorry for the word vomit lol. Thank you for the suggestion. I will look into it.
I think you covered this off in your last comment but but on the topic of pursing and pursed, for the single ladies out there like don't just hint or send signals, be open and honest. And the guys first move might be a text or a catch up after church etc. From my experience I've missed signals or read to deeply into those same signals coming from someone else.
Thanks for another great video, so glad I found your channel Nastasia! Seeing you guys encourages me even more to be patient😍 GOD truly is the perfect match-maker so I’m just gonna focus on Him and trust His timing🤍 looking forward to that follow up video on pursuing🤗 God bless you two so soo much! You’re truly a blessing
Nastasia, your first video with Cai wasn’t annoying at all. It came off more open and honest and I know I’m not the only one who thinks so because that video still has nearly 50 likes for every dislike. 😀
Go Hot Husband! I've also never used a dating app. (I know there are some okayish ones now but the options used to be a little... em...ew... Basically no judge, okay? Also Hot Husband is how Nastasia describes Cai sometimes and I'm using it too because it's so cute how much she's into him. Every man needs to get him a wife who looks at him the way she looks at Cai. Legit.)
Nastasia, idk if you have answered this question or not. But how does the enemy attack your marriage and what are ways you and Kai handle it? Obviously with the Word of God. I remember you saying little occurrences happened leading up to your wedding. Thanks!
about the modesty thing- if your hubby think you look hot in your gym clothes there probably are other men who think so too... and some might not even want to look and sin against their own wives in that. So that’s one big part why I think modesty is important :)
haha yeah I agree, Cai is coming around to that idea too lol! no but forreal he totally respects me wanting to be modest too and he agrees Biblically as well.
hahaha yes absolutely!!! i was referring more to the people who fake being bubbly all the time just to get a guy to like them instead of showing their true personality!
Woah. This is scary that young girls watch this. Women can pursue just like God purses our hearts. It doesn’t all fall on the man. I have met multiple women who say they were the ones that pursed their partner. Please view both sides. One side is not always the correct way. If you have this much of a platform please be careful with what you share. Young girls and women are watching.
Yep you can't just say some one is pretty, guys and girl are ugly sometimes, and I will not comply to the idea of body positivity when people have actual problems that they need to fix, you stop denying Them and you fix them and that's a fact of life!!!!!! for women and men
Guys i have an urgent question : a guy at my church likes me, he is a godlyman and has a lot of things i'm looking in a husband, but the problem is i dont have any connection with him, like i dont have That things you know. I dont have the connection like Anastasia and her husband have since the first day. I dont even look forward to see this guy.. so i'm feeling a bit bad to push away a godlyman like that, should I try harder to know him, or just not forcing things, and let it go ?
If you're not attracted to him, it's okay to not move forward with anything! You don't need to feel guilty for anything, he just isn't the one for you!
@@NastasiaGrace Thank you for your answer ! I was feeling a bit guilty, but you are right, i dont thing guilt is from God, so i will peacefully let it go 😌 and sorry for my english, i'm french !
