Also, from one sister in Christ to another, one of the first steps to be free from any thing the enemy uses to attack you with is to not claim it as your own for example: say “the anxiety I fight with” etc instead of “my anxiety” it truly works!! I hope that can help you! Also, speaking the word of God over yourself during those times works!
Wooowwww this was so good!!!! I never thought of a guy not liking me anymore as God hardening his heart towards me because he’s not the one. Wow. Thank you for being SO real and relatable. Like I feel SEEN lol 🥰
Praise the Lord!!! Please make more of those videos, it is really hard as you said to find dating advice that is wholesome and addressed for Christians. "You are not meant to fight for men!!" So gooooodddd
Stas, thank you so much. My previous boyfriend left me for the exact same reason yours did: the feelings just left. He said I was still a great women of God, I was perfect, and it all made sense on paper; it’s just that the feelings weren’t there. I knew God let that happen for a reason. And I see it more clearly now. But it’s still hard. It still hurts. My heart still breaks sometimes. But knowing that it’s okay if things don’t work out and that God was protecting me are so comforting and encouraging. Knowing it’s true is one thing. Hearing it from another person and believing it, completely different. I appreciate your videos about this so much 💕💕
This video came at such an amazing time! !! I've gone through this and I really don't know how to deal with this and it has come at such a good time! ! I recently got into a long distance relationship and it's been so hard. Could you make a videos on how younger people can get closer to God amid all the things teens have to deal these days?
This is a WONDERFUL video. THANK YOU! I deal with every single one of these horrible thoughts and it’s terrifying. And genuinely it’s been “how do others do this?” Etc. Thank you so much!
I don’t know why I always thought I was alone on the anxiety ride. The anxiety I fight with is so bad if people only knew…. The things is I’ve become an expert at hiding it and avoiding situations that trigger it. I always thought that was baggage and that God couldn’t use this side of me but he’s shown me otherwise with you! So refreshing to see another sister in Christ going through the same! God bless you
Not all men are cheaters or choosing other women. A lot of times women think and react from their hurt and insecurities. So if you struggle thinking that all men are cheating and looking at other women or interested in another woman, and it’s a constant thought in every man you meet. It might be your hurt and you need healing ❤️
I saw this and clicked and I didn’t expect to hear everything u said 😭 glory to God ❤️ thank u for being very bold and transparent about these fears. I really really realllllyyyyy thought I was the only one 😭 pray for me please . Ugh, it’s disheartening but now I am reaffirmed that Jesus is always #1 and treat him as such. I’m not even done with the video but I just HAD to comment. I’ll be praying over these topicsssssssss omgggggg. I know I will hear from God and be freed from fear. “for God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.” 2 Timothy 1:7 ESV. Thank u thank uuuuu. U have NO IDEA how much this speaks to me. It’s hard not to think of these things but my prayer will be even more consistent about these things. Thank u ❤️ and God bless u and ur channel and ur fam bam:)!
Your hair looks so pretty!! (as always) Roberto is amazing and I think he should make more appearances in the future 😂😂 and most importantly I love everything you had to say!! It’s so important to view everything with a Biblically sound perspective 💗 love ya stas!
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. In my late 20s but still new to dating and don't like it cause im super emotional lol having boundaries is a must. Praise God for the learnings. His love for us is sufficient 💖
Hey nastasia! Great video 🤍 definitely took some key points and plan on applying them to shift my mindset 🙏 btw can you make a video about how to go about not knowing anyone in a church/small group? I don’t want to force any friendships and find it difficult to put myself out there when there are already friend groups/cliques established. I’m trusting God and know everything will happen organically 🤍 (also it’s been an interesting transition since I’ve been basically isolated with God and the Holy Spirit has been teaching/pruning me for the past 6 months, so social skills are a little rusty haha)
This is seriously my favorite video on RU-vid!! I’ve probably watched it like fifteen times ever since you posted it. Thank you for sharing what God had taught you!❤️
Awesome video!! Found your channel recently and I have never agreed with someone so much about everything! Thanks for all the advice 🥰 Another thing I have found is that in Christian relationships, you date with *intentionality* and the intent to get married. I think if you can't see a marriage with them then it's not worth it. The purpose of dating is to pursue someone in marriage right?That's why I don't think I'm ready to date because I'm don't feel like I'm in a position that can see my future and the things I want. All in Gods timing 🥰 Much love Nastasia!
John 16:33 These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.
Love Roberto, your tree! 😆 Also, when are the new releases to your shop coming? Looking forward to it! Thank you for all your encouragement on your channel! It helps me to have knowledge without having to go through the pain. You have so much wisdom to give and we are so grateful you are open to sharing! Keep fighting the good fight, sis! ❤️
Hi Nastasia, thank you for this video! It's been so helpful and you explained your views very well. I'm a Christian, who's a few years younger than you, and living in this day and age, it can be very hard to date in a Christian way. Please keep these videos coming! I always feel like I'm listening to an older sister or a really close friend! :)
I'm scared to date again because of my ex and I've been single for almost 2 years but I'm 27 and want o.find, someone, at the same time. My ex used me as a taxi cab, flirted with other girls, made me feel ugly, and was an alcoholic
Actually if you're dating a guy who used to cheat and says he doesn't anymore but he recently broke up with someone who he did cheat on, that does mean you need to see a therapist if that's the common guy you want to go for
If she cheats on you. You stay and forgive and teach her how to love by showing her love. You pray with them, mention their sins in your prayer. Don't underestimate God's power. You just don't leave them, ignoring their disease,sin. Stop this nonsense advice!
