Aspiring Actress Pretends to be Soap Opera Star in Catfish Scheme | Lydia Abdelmalek Case Analysis 

Would be a great April fools joke

That would be Dr. Grande’s self analysis

You won't be hearing that here...😎

Can he analyze the state of New Jersey?

@@stringfellowbalk2654He certainly seems to have an aversion to NJ...

I thought so too. 🤭

Yes 😂😂😂😂 4-6 yrs She isnt very smart

She really deserved it.

The main reason she got caught was because the police and the lady actually thought it was a male hurting a female. If a female was doing it to a male, there would have been little concern.

Just as well it was increased, considering the usual length of time of Australian sentences.

The dry humor is awesome.

This guy's sarcasm is very dry indeed. His ancestry must be British

You the real yalove? 🤔

How does he keep a straight face

& Dr Grande is hot

Yes, one could easily tell it was fake!

This is beyond gullible, it's low IQ or mental disabilities. I can't imagine anyone being THIS gullible.

That’s the worst kind of person who did this

its 2023 though. Everyone should understand online safety unless they are young or desperate. Always be on the look out.

Yes the same thing happened to my husband’s cousin years ago. When he finally drove many hours to see her, she turned out to be a completely different person than in the pictures she used. She was a lot older and much less attractive than the cute young lady his age that he thought he was talking to... I’m surprised they didn’t video call before the actual meeting. But back then it wasn’t as common I guess.

​@@ALT-vz3jnsome Indian guy just jerking his meat to your friends dick pics & making your boy go broke sending him money. 😂🤦🏼‍♂️ All jokes aside that's messed up...I hate being super shy at first...if I know someone then it gets better over time but at first it's like I can't even think of conversation. Pretty fucking awkward honestly. I have such an adventurous spirit & have I done some wild shit, but no one would ever guess that if they're meeting me for the first time.

A lot of people live their lives believing there is an invisible man in the sky.

It’s happened to me a couple of times but luckily I broke it off be it got deep.

Romance scammers are not the same as catfish scammers. Look up romance scammers. Completely different thing.

@@feefingirl their end goal is often the same, I deal with these cases often, too often, sadly.

@@dazzlerwebmy husband’s cousin got catfished by a woman; he drove to her country to see her (he lives in Europe, so it was only 4-5 hours away) when he got to her place she wouldn’t open the front door for him. When she finally did open the door she was not at all the same woman in the pictures. She was older, and let’s say not the same level of attractiveness. So he just turned around and left her standing there without a word, got a room at a B&B and spent a couple of days sightseeing before going back home. He was very disappointed. I wish catfishers truly realized the great amount of harm they do.

When the person keeps making excuses why they can't meet in person, you should then insist on a video chat in real time. If they make up excuse why they can't do that, dump them because they are 100% fake.

Ikr... when the "fake characters have fake characters" 😅

I am with you

I feel like I need a piece of paper and to draw lines from character to character contact as he’s explaining it. Bc 😅🙈 👁️👄👁️

You might have a point except in this instance the psycho is of limited intelligence & probably just better off locked up in a mental facility

​@@empyreumaI have to disagree, she doesn't sound like the one with low intelligence in this story

@@dawsondetrana5496 Lol! Team numpty is always recruiting & seems like quite a few big egos & tiny IQs 😂 still have to feel a little bit sorry for someone who is duped & embarrassed by a heartless psychopath even if the setup & circumstances seem disconnected from reality

that doesn't really make sense. She IS a psycho and evil and so was NEVER and CAN NEVER put it to good use. And it's a naive thought on world hunger and cancer(s), which are too numerous to count. A lot of world hunger is caused by communism, fascism, dictators and warlords in third world countries stealing food (it was the cause of Blackhawk Down). Not sure one psycho with good intentions (which makes no sense) would change that.

There is already a solution to world hunger, it's the political will to implement it that's missing.

I can't even figure how she did it. I barely have enough time to check my personal emails.

Only getting 2 years for that mountain of stinking evil was the deal of the century. To appeal against it was pure insanity.

I always think that in these type of cases. It’s all consuming for sure.

@@dawsondetrana5496 If that is the case then you should get yourself to a doctor real quick. You really should.

Emma is not too smart, either.

Know the definition of sadist before you label a person as such...attachments come with serious consequences.

@Medic1647 I do know the definition. Someone who gets pleasure from hurting or humiliating other people. I absolutely used this common term correctly. It seems you might want to look up the definition of words before arrogantly trying to correct others. There doesn't need to be a sxl component for someone to be a sadist.

I agree this woman is a sadist .. who is dangerously jealous of other females, imo .

Or as Dr Grande said, was engaging in "relationships" with women, which were perhaps disapproved of for cultural and or religious reasons.

I'd be like....Uhhhh, yeah we have. Let's hit the skins. 🥰😜

The mind is very powerful and once it gets off kilter you will believe whatever reality you’ve created.

Me neither?

It happens unfortunately

no one is immune to manipulation

Ya I don’t understand that too.

Prison can be a training ground.

💯 and that will be scary. Unless someone offs her while in prison. This she-animal is a psychopath.

😂 I second this motion.

I think the motive can be an ego lift or validation. It can be exciting for a bored person. There are also financial reasons.

Her brain must have told her to do it even if we do not understand why. In Australia we have men running around kicking an egg shaped bag of air between two sticks and thousands of others pay money to watch them. Well something must motivate them to do it.

She was probably attracted to women but didn't accept that about herself so she would have never been happy in a real life relationship

​@@nyreekrikoriangut feeling on her name she's from Pakistan origins it's pretty frowned upon in Islam to be gay so that could be why she was being such a weirdo. I'm not diagnosing just guessing 😅

You're welcome.

@@tedcrilly46 You have zero to do with his uploads. Stop trying to scam people.

@@Flamsterette Ok. Im actually Dr Phil.

Deluded

@@user-mi4of6mt7j I know it is. It’s just how I feel. 15 years without the possibility of parole. That’ll teach these F’s.

I agree. These are today’s monsters.

@@corning1 let’s see if you feel the same when someone decides to shoot your whole family during a public outing 😊 im sure last thing on your mind will be how catfishes are just as bad

Especially cases like Michelle Carter and how she convinced her boyfriend Conrad Roy to kill himself.

Same here. I absolutely love his videos and analysis, but find his voice and tone very soothing.

me too! I play it at 0.75 speed.

Men send nudes often, but women should do better! I feel little sympathy for women who willingly send nudes online - personal photos should be safe guarded and never sent to anyone

But on this case she did know him They know each other on a fly That is why It was so easy to get to trick like she was

​@@laurafabianmarreroHaving been acquainted with someone who suddenly cyberly befriends you is also not a good reason to send intimate, or any, photos.

@@evelynwaugh4053 off course not That was stupid on her part

@@alpha1solace I don't have those types of accounts. And I would never send someone intimate photos. That's ruined too many lives.

Absolutely a silly thing to do. I guess people are lonely and when they make a connection they get a high from it, and are more vulnerable to this kind of coercive behaviour.

She shouldn't be allowed back online when released. The internet is her weapon.

Sucks that you work with her, bummer, if she''s crazy cover your arse and make sure you can defend any false allegations that could come your way.

Man at this point in my life, I still go for the crazy ones knowing it's never gonna last but just enjoying the ride as long as it lasts. Something about unhinged women is they quickly tend to fall in love and are crazy passionate.

Never ever date or have sex with someone you work with. You look old enough to know that.

Yep it's terrifying isn't it..I 2 teen boys and I'm so horrified at world they living in

​@@EmiFromMarslol well it could be worse, I have 2 teen Girls

Actually, we've learned a lot about people too thanks to the digital age

And all of Cape May County

Yep. I'll do that. - Dr Grande.

Wow. Do you think she was lonely, or was she a compulsive liar?

@@GrumpyMeow-Meow yeah, both. I don’t remember her having too many friends in high school.

Spot on As an Australian it's disgraceful that murderers are ever allowed back into society Lights permanently out for the victim but hey how about a 2nd chance for the criminal? Makes no sense & will not deter career criminals & perhaps is likely to encourage slaying rivals? Sentences are far too lenient & rarely fit the severity of crimes committed - good behaviour early release should be subject to life long clauses where any further offences mean no early release again & serving out any previous sentences in full Drink drivers that kill innocent people are given light sentences & sometimes zero time in jail! Instead such criminals receive a 2nd chance & most are able to keep driving after a period of suspension!!! How is this justice? Choosing to drink & drive & ending someone else's life even if not intentional shows very poor judgement & the minute people start driving while drunk beyond 0.05 they are committing a crime - add to this involuntary manslaughter & how can they not serve at least a minimum jail sentence for ending the life of an innocent person?!? In this case the sentence was probably about right, though LA should probably be subject to weekly mental health assessments & ongoing therapy or permanent detention in mental health facility The crime wasn't murder - the continuing destruction shows major personality problems & severe mental health issues that underpin criminal behaviour which requires punishment & therapy It's almost like Australia is prepared to give criminals another chance because it's too expensive to keep them in jail & there's always someone else on the way in for a brief stay after committing murder or rape or fraud or manslaughter....

I think it's more than theory. I think it's highly probable.

Makes a lot of sense.

Nah, she just likes messing with peoples heads, we all knew people at school who's daily goal was making others miserable, there are no shortage of people like this.

I think she's just a sadist who hated other women. Without any evidence that she grew up in an environment so repressive she was never even able to form the thought that she was a lesbian I think that's the only conclusion possible.

He even call her and confirm it wasnt him So sad

She finally called him to ask “ have we been dating?” Exchanging texts is considered dating now? 😅

@@jcoffeycup the fact that she knew him in person and still fell for it That is the weird part 😂

Thor and Wolverine would like a word with you 😂

Nicole Kidman and Cate Blanchett have entered the chat. So has Rachel Griffiths.

Yes and Toni Colette, Margo Robbie, Eric Bana....

@@cancelledopinion2158look ANYWHERE but online!