Assumptions about me. 

How generous of you to share such personal information about yourself and your life. I appreciate it. During this pandemic I've been battling depression. I'm single & 55 and I am just having a terrible time with getting dressed. That's how I found your channel. My son said "Mom, you have to put on clothes. You can't live in pajama pants anymore." So, I turned on RU-vid & prayed I'd find inspiration. Boom! There you are! So fun and informative. I'm not better, but I now wear jeans or joggers every day versus pajamas or leggings. I now own 4 pairs of those lose Eileen Fisher athle/leisure wide leg pants that look good with sweaters & tops. And 4 prs of jeans that look cute with tunics & blouses. Your jeans episode & your white denim episode was so helpful to me. Staying home & being alone with the dogs really isn't a good reason to not care about my appearance. Thanks to several of your tips I'm putting on clothes after my morning shower instead of clean pajamas. Go me! And I'm back to putting on foundation and mascara instead of just my sunscreen. I know the kids are happier and the FedEx man is less scared of me. Thanks again for sharing and all the best to you.

I am learning much from you. This is much needed information. I am 74, but in my mind, I am 40. 😁

Growing up with a functional alcoholic parents can really shape ups. I hope that you are doing well. You are an inspiration to us older ladies. I love the care you put into yourself. You are very beautiful and kind for sharing your tips!

Hi Beth, I have been subscribed and watching your channel for a couple of months now. After watching this one today I was in the kitchen and after this video ended another one came on where you shared the loss of your husband. It brought me to tears because I just lost my husband of 57 years in August, 2020; and I know what you have gone through and are still going through. I started watching you because I knew that I was "letting myself go"...I was so depressed and in such grief that I just didn't care. I also knew that my actions were not healthy for me and were not honoring to my husbands memory. He would not want me to "give up" and quit living. Watching your videos have helped motivate me to at least begin to make an attempt to do better with my appearance … and just making myself do that has also helped with me beginning to feel better. Thank you for sharing your loss and your overcoming spirit with us. I am sure it has helped others as well.

A very interesting and intriguing video. There's a good lesson here, too: Self-confidence and self-love/acceptance are the most beautiful accessories of all. Thank you for your sincerity and honesty.

I loved this!! I literally laughed out loud at your WTF 🤬 😂 you’re such a breath of fresh air Beth, never change!

Beth, you are so full of grace, such an inspiration! I cannot get on top,of my health, which I beat myself up about all the time. I keep trying with inspiration from you. I love your style, your home projects and especially your advice.

You are just lovely Beth!!! The best thing is that you enjoy life and you show it. Blessings🥰💞

Enjoyed every minute of this fabulous video. Lovely that we get to meet the woman behind the camera. Assumed all the wonderful traits u possess - certainly wasn't disappointed. U're one very special lady Beth Thank u

This was so sweet, so personal, so honest. I’m 2 years younger and we’ve been married 34 years this summer. I can’t imagine losing my husband this young, I’m so sorry Beth. I appreciate your channel and enjoy your content. Thank you 😊

The video was informative. You certainly did not have to share all you did. You do bring class to you tube. We are missing class in today’s society . Thanks for all your content.

AGING IS NOT FOR SISSIES is my mantra too!! Love learning new things from you...God bless!! Here's to keeping it real! I also raised 3 sons!

What a wonderfully candid video, Beth. Thank you for your openness and honesty. I have watched your channel for a couple years now and always look forward to your videos. You are beautiful inside and out, with a wonderful sense of style and great sense of humour. I never assumed your life was perfect and idyllic, as we all have been through a lot by the time we reach our 60's.

Beth, I love you, I love your style, your sense of humor and your honest approach to life. I have enjoyed getting to know you over the years and you are my style icon. Thank you for sharing your life, your views and yourself with us. Keep it up kiddo! You're the best! Edie

I remember the pictures you posted and your mother was beautiful. This was a fun vid. I had a minor eye lift because it got to the point that I had to force my eyes to go wide to be able to read. No one knew and what a help that was.

Thank you for sharing so much of your personal life with us! Even though we've never met in person, it gives us a chance to know you even better! You are an inspiration to so many, keep up the good work!

This was so fun, Beth! Thank you for sharing! I just love your attitude, you inspire me to live life to the fullest. And I so agree with you - sometimes WTF is all that is needed!

I strongly agree about educated women, because of that I got a PhD in Sociology. My three sons went to the university too. My husband had a PhD in Anthropology.

Beth, you are a truly AWESOME LADY!! Such a wonderful and inspirational personal video... thanks so much for sharing! I wanted to send you my deepest sympathies for the passing of your husband, Mr. Style. It really shows your inner strength that you simply keep going and forging ahead after such a significant loss in your life! All the best to you, Beth! 💖

Thank you for sharing. I am a 52 yr old mom and breast cancer survivor. I have just recently learned to separate from my mom identity to focus on me, which I’ve also learned provides my teenage sons an important example. Just found your channel and really appreciate your perspective.

God is good, indeed! Many blessings, dear Beth.💕🙏

I am 71 and enjoy your videos because I am stylistically lazy. Your videos are a source of inspiration. Thanks.

Thanks SO much for sharing your fun personality, and some great insights into your life! It only adds to your already great style!❤️

Every time I’m in need of inspiration, or a pick me up, or a giggle I watch this video. All your videos are informative and you are so engaging! Thanks Beth!!!

This was so honest ..... so strong .... you are so strong in your own skin , it’s inspiring 💙❤️💚💐💐💐💐💐💐

I am a widow too. I do understand you very well. It s hard , really hard. I lost my husband 8 years ago . He had a heart attack.

Thanks for your honesty, what makes us human are embracing all that life gives.

Oh Beth, this was so much fun! I am so sorry to hear you lost your hubby Mr. Stiles...I am so glad you had all those loving years together. It was moving to hear about how you watched your father struggle with drinking. And WTF? Gosh! I am right with you! You are beautiful! Love you! Susan

Loved this video Beth, I feel like I know you so much more now. Thankyou for sharing, you are a fabulous lady! Xx

I absolutely loved your honesty Beth. I've been watching your u-tubes and Facebook for over a year. I always look forward to a new day to see what your up to. I love your style. Simlpy beautiful inside and out. Keep smiling Beth. Love you 😍

Glad i found this older video. I was so curious about your life. I would have put $ on the model question. Love your channel. Thank you for all your hard work in trying to help us. Very grateful.

Beth, you seem like a sweet, sincere person. I really like your personality and fashion style. TY for sharing your life and your great fashion sense!

What a delight you are + although some of those questions where difficult to answer I think you answered with grace. What a joy you are + how wonderful that you share your life with me, all the way in Australia. Thank so very much

Nice inspirational video. You are kind, knowledgeable, and funny. Thank you for lifting us up and challenging us to be our best. So glad I found your channel. 😍

So sorry to hear about your loss Beth. I had no idea , you just kept on delivering your advice, with your good sense of humor and your smile. I have no doubt you will carry on, stronger than before!

Loved learning more about you in this video! My mother was a classic dresser! You are an inspiration!

Love your honesty and classiness. I agree that we must take care of ourselves regardless of age so that we can enjoy our lives and families. I too agree that women are always on a display to society that does not value the wisdoem that aging brings. We are all aging and so we must live our best lives. thank you Beth!

I just found your channel. I have needed some inspiration because I did let myself go. Lived in sweats and pjs which then lent itself to depression. You are beautiful and have a tremendous sense of style.

Thank you, Beth...I love hearing your personal stories. This was fun!

Beth, I loved this!!! You have the cutest personality and are very genuine. It's nice to get to know you better. Keep up the good work on this wonderful channel. God bless you.

Excellent loved hearing about you!💕 I had to edit 😊 I am guilty of being so quick to comment when I enjoy a video and as I continued to watch I was so inspired...it's not just hearing about you--but also connecting to what values and beliefs that you hold...SO so refreshing and exciting! Thanks for taking the time and the vulnerability to share💕

Great video Beth, thank you and so sorry about the loss if your husband!🙏🏽❤️

Very honest and informative. You’re a down to earth woman who knows who she is. Thank you for sharing about your father. Six years sober here. 🥰😘

Love your candor and your style and grace. I am very grateful to have found your channel as your wisdom had truly influenced me and encouraged me to be my best right now where I am at and the age I am. (59) Beauty is inside and we can surely enhance our outside to reflect it even more. From one Beth to another, I offer my Thanks!

I am watching some of your videos, Beth, from months or years ago. They help me get motivated to combine things on my closet. Your exercise and diet are encouraging since you look so pretty and healthy.

Thank you, Beth, for sharing yourself with us... you are kind & generous & help us so much... xoxo 💋

I so enjoy learning from you, and thank you for sharing such a personal and interesting message today. FYI - I am also from northwest Iowa and it was a wonderful place to grow up.

Loved the peek into your life! I laughed out loud when you talked about Who Wore What when your mom & friends talked about past events. So true!!! And I totally relate to how busy you were during those Rearing Children years. As a mom of four, I look back now and wonder how the heck I did it. In many ways, the Mom Thing prepare me in fabulous ways for the new goals and ambitions I would have after they left the nest.

“Knowledge is power” - Amen sister 👍🏻

The "F" bomb !! Love it....it just works, doesn't it ??? This was a wonderful video getting to know you better. I relate to so much of your background as I, too, am a mid-west girl (Peoria). Also, I was in the hotel business and your story brought back so many memories of hotel life as I no longer am in the business. Thank you for your honesty, genuineness and FUN !!

Oh Beth, how I loved this!!!! Love you even more!!! Thank you so much!🌹🌹🌹so fun learning about you!

Hi Beth! I love your channel! I will be 62 this August. I just love your style! Thank you for sharing your life and style with us! Blessings to you and I am so sorry for your loss.

Just love your videos. I am 68 years young, and I find you very inspiring, refreshing and resourceful. Thanks for sharing a bit of your life, your knowledge, and your wisdom.

Hello Beth, I became a widow suddenly 2 1/2 weeks ago at the age of 55! I appreciate your candor and your past videos about being a widow. I'm a faithful follower and fellow Georgian.

Good to get to know you more Beth. Your lifestyle certainly works for you and shows in your lovely skin & hair.👍🏻🤗.

Beth, you are gorgeous inside and out. Thanks for sharing with us your so many details about you and your family. Love your channel for that reason, your honesty and grace. Aging is a matter of wisdom only. Stay blessed, dear! 🌹👗👠👚👜👒🥻🌹

I enjoyed your story and watch your videos due to their positivity and my interest in fashion and aging gracefully. ‘Resilient’ would be another term to describe you.

You're such a genuine person!! I like your life style a lot. Congrats! Your Brazilian fan.

You are an amazing lady! Thank you for being so candid.

Haave been following you for a while. You are fabulous! Thank you, Beth for doing this assumption video.😭

I stumbled on to your page today. Now binge watching. You brought memories back of my Mom. She was a model and did some modeling work for Makoffs and I Magnins when she lived in San Francisco. Her friens always joked that Diamonds are a Girls Best friend was my lullaby. Thank you for this trip down memory lane.

It is so wonderful to hear your story…you really are a inspiration to me. I had a similar childhood experience with an alcoholic father who also died young at 59. I also find so many of your opinions and attitudes to be right in line with mind…thank you for sharing so much of yourself with us👍

Beth you are beautiful on the inside and outside. Thanks for being so honest !!!

Enjoyed hearing about your life! Thank you!

Love your channel, Beth. You're keeping all us women "of a certain age" on our toes because you are fab! Sounds like we lived a similar childhood, but we survived because that's who we are. ❤️

Beth, I applaud you for doing this video. I feel the same about aging. I am 75, and I do my very best to keep my skin looking good, keep my figure and stay up-to-date on fashion trends & styles. In my mind, I am still in my 30's, but I see my mother when I look into the mirror 😮

Loved this! Thanks for sharing about yourself. As your contemporary I appreciated this very much.

Loved this video. Thanks for letting us get to know you better. I love your hair!! Wish I could go to your hairstylist and get the same cut. 😁

Loved the video! Thanks for being authentic with us. My favorite line was, "I still think I'm 36 and then I look in the mirror..." :) That's so me!! :)

Definitely, you're a smart and very intruiging lady. You move with such grace no wonder most of your followers, including myself, think that you are a model.

You're so beautifully inspiring Beth! I want to age gracefully just like you.

Fantastic…love you and your honesty and Style

I say this sincerely - thanks for sharing! You're a charming person and that adds to your channel, of course.

You are a delight! Just started following you and enjoying all you have to share! Thank you.😍

Thank you for your authenticity and gracious honesty.

Thank you for sharing your personal life Beth.It was quite an interesting video.

I think that you are the woman that we all hope to become. This was most-informative and a lot of fun, too. Have a great day and thank you so much.

Great video! Thanks for all the great info. Love your commitment to being your best!😘

I loved you before, but when you dropped the F bomb my adoration went off the graph!!! You're great!

Loved this video.....you seem to be a very down to earth kinda person. I love your fashion choices and at 66 I dress the way I want, ripped jeans and all. From one Iowa City area girl to another, keep up the awesome videos!

Omg. I love your honesty. Thank you for keeping it real.

Beth, love all your answers and honesty. I will not do any surgery either. My plan is to age gracefully. I just feel like you, we all will show our age eventually. So what! It is all a part of living. I lost my first husband so I can relate to your loss. So hard to lose a spouse. Have a great rest of the week. I really enjoy your videos and Instagram. Hugs! Connie

Hi Beth, just found this video now. It's so nice of you to share some of your life story with us. Sorry to here you have lost your husband just when life gives you quality time. You are an inspiration to everyone, I am 69 this month and never go down stairs in a morning without basic makeup and hair done. You are correct in saying it makes you feel ready for the day. Love your video's and wishing you well. 🌹🌹

You are doing so much for women. I love your content. I too, lost my husband a year and a half ago, I am 63. I look for inspiration from women that value living well and with style. Life is so precious- thank you for your hard work and inspiration.

What a beautiful soul you are, so down to earth and beautiful inside and out.

How lovely intriguing, and humbling of you to share your life story and experiences with us all 🙏🏻

Thank you for your honesty! This video was fun!

Beth, thank you for sharing. I loved this! Oh, and every once in a while tossing a well placed F 💣 is a good thing! 🌺🌺🌺

Listening to your vlog I could relate to several things you said. I just turned 60 last month and I too feel like I’m 35. I just can’t seem to wrap my head around the fact that I’m 60. I’ve let my hair grow rather long, supposedly that’s a no no, but I don’t care. And I’m just letting my hair color do what ever happens naturally. Also, when you were talking about relating what people or you were wearing at this or that event, I so relate to that. There are things that happened 40 or 50 years ago and I will remember what I was wearing. I do know that my love of fashion definitely comes from my mother because she was the same way about remember what she was wearing at certain times in her life. Anyway, it’s been delightful listening to your story. I also drop the “F” bomb😂.

Great video - love your straight speaking and honesty

Love these looks. Hard to beat the classic navy blazer look always ticks the boxes. Regards and Happy St.Patricks Day to you and all your followers. from Galway Ireland 🇮🇪☘

You look stunning in this video. Not sure if its hair, makeup, fitness or a combination of living a good life lol.

Beth this was a courageous video, funny about some of the assumptions, keep inspiring us.

Hi Beth. I’m an Iowa girl too. I grew up in NE Iowa. Moved to Minneapolis after college, was a bond trader for 25 years, and have now retired back to NE Iowa where my family still lives. Really enjoyed this. 💜💜💜Paulette.

Lovely and honest video. Thank you so much for sharing these aspects of your life. Be well and safe.

Hey Beth, I enjoy your videos so much. I don't live too far from you. I live near Helen GA. I love style and clothes. I'm going through my closet and jewelry now and really love to watch your videos in between. I am retired now but before that I use to dress professionally every day as a NP. I accumulated alot of clothes. Now, I'm not wearing suits and Ann Taylor. LOL That was my favorite store. My inspiration was my grandmother. When I was preschool she would take me shopping and have to get the matching purse and shoes to a dress. She definitely had style and I inherited her love for clothes and jewelry. Take care!

I truly enjoyed watching this! Glad to hear your innermost thoughts ❤ oh yea, that's my go to swear word too!!

I appreciate your honesty regarding your father.

I like the way you carry yourself. Your way of speech is intelligent, warm and knowledgeable. And you are comfortable in your our skin. You don't need any cosmetic procedures. You look beautiful as you are.

Hi Beth, just watched your video on assumptions and loved it! Have always admired your style, but now I can relate more to you. I am 63 yrs old and have lost my husband 2 yrs.. ago and find it hard to adjust to being a single woman. I am currently focusing on self improvement, i.e., diet, exercise, and losing weight. Thank you for all the inspirational videos you do they are very helpful. Life has to go on, wishing us all happy days ahead.