@@detro690 that's an another topic,you seem to be a confused person who doesn't know to differentiate between greed and money 😂. Grow up , honesty needed in life kiddo.
Idk what defines toxic personality but isn't avoiding people toxic itself ? i mean its not like I don't want to avoid them, but I just can't, my college, the staff
Develop a don't care variable. You will be happy forever. Try not to depend on anyone for anything. Learn to be alone and happy. Don't use social media.
Even your own sibling,parent are selfish and toxic.For my husband,his own brother is toxic and cheated us along with his mother.But he trusts his mother only
2 years of toxic relationship. Now I have no friends or girlfriend anymore. I feel good because no one can hurt me now. But i still want at least someone in my life.
I had a friend when I was 18yr old... She came in my life as if she was very kind and helpful person..she had a very cute non harmful personality but soon she turned into a narcissistic friend who used to sulk when I perform good than her ,she used to comment on my appearance and in a very subtle manner I didn't even realise what she wanted to say, sometimes she would just gaslight me whenever I questioned her intentions about the comment she made on me but she used to blame me for overthinking and overeacting. Before meeting her I was a healthy person, i had a glowing skin, I had normal weight and I was doing good in my life after meeting her I got high blood pressure, my face started looking dull and lost all my confidence , I got obesity and went into depression within a year, I didn't realise it for 3 years until I did...and then I distanced myself from her.. and Im happy and healthy again..it's true toxic people are energy vampires.
I had a same kind of friend ... he used to get jealous when i suceeded in exams ... now we are not in touch yet he comes in my dreams some times and freaks me out
My biggest regret is trusting these toxic people once upon a time and sharing my feelings with them. Its crazy how we trust certain people blindly at certain points of our lives right?
My family is toxic. Thanks to them, I have depression, high blood pressure and stress. I own a house in family yard and that's the problem now. They smile in your face and they are stabbing you in the back. My positive relationship is with my children. I show them love everyday and they give me love in return. I wish I could just get hypnotized to forget all that they have done to me and are doing to me at the moment.
This what I do. My daily routine is focusing on me. Everyone else in my life has to be super special to be accommodated. Anyone toxic doesn't have a chance to enter, let alone play a part in my life.😂😂😂😂❤
My parents are toxic ...they are like amitabh bachan in piku ...in that deepika deals with only one amithab bachan i got both my mom and dad .. they dont let me have my own social life ..even if i try getting or making a friend they wouldnt like my friend . 24 7 365 days i have to be at my parents service and disposal ... i get panic attacks and suicidal thoughts ... i tried to leave the house and stay away from them but they emotionally black mail me and dont let me leave them . Im stucck alone in my room with no friends no one to talk to and let my heart out ... i tried therapy but couldnt get a good therapist ..im lost
True..identifying and distinguishing toxic behaviour/people in itself takes a whole lot of time(even decades) and experience.once you start practising truthfulness,self love without reprimanding yourselves for your past mistakes you get a mental clarity to identify toxicity outside.Then you can set healthy boundaries so such people don't affect you.
I recently went through a tough breakup. My 7 year relationship ended a month ago, and it's been really hard for me. I still love my ex so much and can't stop thinking about him. I've tried everything to win him back, but nothing has worked. It's frustrating, and I can't imagine being with anyone else. I've been trying to move on, but I can't seem to get him out of my mind. I know it might sound strange to share this here, but I miss him a lot and just can't stop thinking about him.
I understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar situation when my 12 year relationship ended. I couldn't just let him go, so I did everything I could to win him back. I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, and their guidance ultimately helped me to bring him back into my life.
When you find yourself unhappy or dwelling on a conversation, constantly replaying the questions, answers, and behavior of the people involved, and it's affecting your peace of mind-just let it go. Don’t let their actions or words continue to impact you.
We attract the kind of people we are. If we're surrounded by toxic people, self reflection is necessary. Our world is a reflection of our thoughts and while we can't control others, we can control our thoughts and reactions that help keep away the ppl we don't want in our lives.
This is true. I experimented and found the difference, root cause of body pain. I stopped communication without being angry, body started healing on its own. Its dangerous when you realise your closest sibling was very calculative and manipulative. But maintaining distance helped.
This is true i have been through a toxic relationship ,now i don't have any parner ,i m just working on myself Making myself better everyday n now i m glowing .....avoid people love yourself ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Whole heartedly agree, keep ur group small , keep your friend circle small , avoid toxic frnds toxic relationship. Trust on urself be alone loneliness helps to explore ourself more , this really helps in keepin toxicity to a mini extent. 😅
Hi Palki, My favorite Judge, Judith Sheindlin,had a tv show called Judge Judy. She states, if something doesn’t make sense, it’s probably not true. She’s absolutely true. Folks of Trinidad & Tobago always said: birds of a feather flock together. This is also true. For example, go on any college campus, or in high school, and you’ll notice all the straight A students hangout together; those who like to party are in one group, and those who use drugs and alcohol are in another group. Now, tell me, how could a non-toxic person get him or herself into a toxic relationship? This makes no sense to me. There are striking differences between toxic and non-toxic people. Individuals who are toxic, are users, opportunists, always trying to reap where they did not sow, and in doing so, cause a tremendous amount of discord and unhappiness to others. Non-toxic individuals are peaceful, caring, and always concern for others they don’t know, without pay or applause. So, how will these two types of personalities have anything in common? Here is a larger scale example, in US, prescription drug abuse is the Nation's fastest-growing drug problem and has been classified as an epidemic by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, according www.justice.gov/usao-edca/prescription-drug-abuse About 20% of American adults (about 28 million people) have an alcohol use disorder; only about 7% of those people ever get treatment, according www.addictioncenter.com/addiction/addiction-statistics/#:~:text=About%2020%25%20of%20American%20adults,those%20people%20ever%20get%20treatment. Among people aged 12 or older in 2021, 61.2 million people (or 21.9 percent of the population) used illicit drugs in the past year, according to www.hhs.gov/about/news/2023/01/04/samhsa-announces-national-survey-drug-use-health-results-detailing-mental-illness-substance-use-levels-2021.html#:~:text=Among%20people%20aged%2012%20or,drugs%20in%20the%20past%20year. And, 22.8% of U.S. adults experienced mental illness in 2021 (57.8 million people). This represents 1 in 5 adults, according to www.nami.org/about-mental-illness/mental-health-by-the-numbers/#:~:text=22.8%25%20of%20U.S.%20adults%20experienced,represents%201%20in%205%20adults. Moreover, US is behind in school rankings around the world, www.thebalancemoney.com/the-u-s-is-losing-its-competitive-advantage-3306225 Add the percentage and it’s over 60%, and this does not include the percentage for prescription drugs. Then they say, come on in; the water is fine. NO, the water is not fine, but changes of implementation must be made, period. I once had a student who told me he was in jail, so I asked if he plans to go back, and he said no miss. I told him let’s see what we can do so you graduate high school. I did not need to know why he went to jail, how long he spent, or what he did to get there, because I do not emphasize with foolishness, but I will do all I can to make sure he goes in a better direction than he did before. Lastly, the Bible tell us to stay away from toxic people. 2 Corinthians 6:14, KJV 14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? See, there you have it.
I believe it is the key to living a healthy life. Exercise regularly. Adherence to religious precepts. Living well and continuing to respect and love people. You will find toxic people everywhere. But I think it's better to walk away from toxic people.
It is not easy to avoid but Try to adopt Try to adjust Try to accept then automatically our mind is set for that situation How can we ignore 90% this society and live peacefully So better to accept Accept as it is That will pass away
Most of us are toxic to some person or the other. So are others to us. When we get in the mode of hurting each other, its best to maintain distance and let time take its course. And of course, financial independence. Without that, you are stuck.
She looks amazing for her age! Human beings are mostly eewww. Staying away works wonders overall for mind, body, and soul. Works wonders for your skin too. You glowwwww!
I have come across many toxic people at home, it's really tough to cop with them.I follow silence as per Buddha golden words silence avoids conflicts and bring mental piece don't forget I do mantra meditation and mindful meditation taking deep breath in and out at last keep your mind busy so you don't have time to think.
Yes agree, we are humans and we have emotions no matter how important someone is if they don't see your worth leave as early as possible be happy because you deserve it .
Toxic people are everywhere..Sometimes these people are inside your circle, they play a big part of your life, could be your siblings, close relatives, boss, team mate.. The best way is to pray for them and train yourself to handle toxic situations.. Imagine you have an invisible huge box where u can put all those toxicities. Examine if you have become toxic yourself. I noticed people are easily triggerred specially after the pandemic and because life is getting harder. Remember that its not the weight of the problem but its how you handle or carry the load that impacts your life. Or we can learn to be more tolerant, kind, considerate, maybe the change needs to begin within ourselves that will turn our lives around for the better.
1st of all who is toxic? A person doesn't match up with ur mind and that person stays close to u. Everyone is different, if a person toxic probably u are same to that toxic person. Tolerance, forgiveness is a treatment for a toxic individual. Stay along with society, trying giving ur best to others.
Well avoiding toxic people? I would prefer to evaluate myself to understand whether I am toxic or not instead of putting the blame on others. What is the definition of toxic anyway? Nowadays, anything someone does not like can be called toxic. If people tell you the truth even if you do not like it, you cannot simply call it toxic.
Respect to her. She is not world's eldest person. There are many people who crossed centenary. For example Swami shivananda from India is 127 years old who also received padma sri
Hey, Mental stress is a part of life, doesn't matter if it comes from studies, relationships or whatever, everyone has a moral obligation to suffer for the decisions they themselves made.
Everyone is toxic these days, neighbours, colleagues the most, relatives and acquaintances. As long as you have a good partner at home you really don’t need anyone.
When you stay healthy and successful with somebody know it's working, vice - versa implies keep them at bay. Or if you feel like one, change yourself and realise they are ones. Then take it till you can, or keep them at bay.
My friends and wife are toxic, but i would not live without them .... this is reality. Even my children mocked me I am a retired man. I am dependent on them. God bless me please 🙏🙏
मेरे दोस्त और पत्नी बहुत बुरे हैं, लेकिन मैं उनके बिना नहीं रह सकता... यह हकीकत है। यहां तक कि मेरे बच्चे भी मेरा मजाक उड़ाते हैं। मैं एक रिटायर्ड आदमी हूं। मैं उन पर निर्भर हूं। भगवान मेरा भला करें 🙏🙏
This is what is referred to Satsung and dushsung inkur culture. Satsung meaning relationship with good people and dushsung means relationship with bad people.