Being taken for granted at work (HOW TO FEEL VALUED)

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Do you ever feel like you are being taken for granted or like being taken for granted at work is an issue for you or others? Being taken for granted at work is a big problem that many of my clients have, and being not valued at work is not something you need to suffer through. When you find yourself saying things like “my boss doesn’t value me” & “I’m not valued at work” This video will show you exactly how to deal when you don’t feel valued and how to feel valued immediately without anyone else validating you. I talk about How to feel valued at work and how it affects your quality of work and the way you show up, and when you feel “I am I being taken for granted” you are able to shift your mindset to start to give yourself the validation that you need. The video doesn’t just talk about being taken for granted but helps you see this in a whole new way so that you’re no longer relying on others to move forward or feel good.
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If you are like me you really crave that validation at work, you want someone to say thank you, you want someone at work to say we couldn't have made it without you, that was amazing.
We don't want to admit that we want this, but most of us do want to feel valued at work.
In this video, I'll tell you how to feel value without the need of having to tell thank you for your job. I'll tell you how to feel validated just by using your brain.
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@NatalieFisher 4 года назад

Do you feel undervalued at work?

@lusciousphilippa 2 года назад

Thank you, Natalie. How about those who disrespect you eventhough you keep a low profile, take my ideas for themselves and have an issue with me being in the "limelight?"

@astrayasagiri 2 года назад

It depends, however if you give extra efforts and they think it is nothing then that is a different thing. You chose to do another extra shift without overtime pay and it was nothing to the management . You cover things that others are not able to and it was nothing. You know you are good at things but management only sees others. I think that this is another scenario in which whatever you sacrifice for the company is not of any value. Im looking for another company because I know my value and I can start a fresh one and be a better worker but not within the same company. To br honest, within a short span of time half of our department resigned. Meaning it is not about my mindset anymore, it is about the management.

@kudzaimarange1563 2 года назад

Employers don’t even realize that by not recognizing their employees, it frustrates the employee and in turn results in the employee holding back on their full potential. Like why would I go the extra mile 🤷🏽‍♂️

@krackalgleason4746 Год назад

Looks like the start of an endless circle.

@sunnysmiles8211 Год назад

I’m so tired of being taken advantage of and taken for granted at a toxic, micromanaging workplace. I’m giving my notice today. I do not see things changing or a better future here so I’m removing myself from the equation.

@anotherone5415 Месяц назад

How did they take it?

@sunnysmiles8211 Месяц назад

@@anotherone5415 I’m already in my new position and I’m much happier and less stressed. No office is perfect but I’m so much more content.

@courtneylinn3465 3 года назад

Hate to say it, this is all well and good, but in today’s society, as far as your job is concerned, no one cares. I know my value, and yet, people still don’t treat me like I do anything. Some roles are not valued at all.

@iluvspox0036 2 года назад

Accurate.

@mariosementelli1273 2 года назад

Accomplish more? For what? To be taken advantage of more

@MikosMiko Год назад

Yes agree with validating yourself, but it can also be draining to work on a negative environment. Working with positive, good people who give you compliments or share your good work with others so you get exposure (and opportunities) goes a long way. Love how you ended the video (“I.e yes I am pretty good”) and pointing out your own accomplishments, and not waiting for validation from others empowers you to go where you will be valued. Yes, love this, you don’t need others to tell you you did a great job.

@thisislegitmenojoke 3 года назад

I am trying my best right now but, I think I need a new job ☹

@NatalieFisher 3 года назад

Have you checked out the Training on finding a new job that I have? www.nataliefisher.ca/getstarted This would be a good place to start.

@KaVi2023 3 года назад

@theninetofivecure on insta 🙌🏻

@nicolej2749 2 года назад

I just wanna be paid properly

@benjamindorge5936 День назад

For your continued employment, it DOES matter what the BOSSES think. I once worked under a VP who was ACTIVELY trying to replace me with cheap labour, but was concerned about the risks of cutting me loose too soon. After chewing me out for about a minute, she literally said "YOU DO NOT MATTER!" This stayed with me for years!

@dnbdiva2227 2 года назад

I have high self confidence I went above and beyond at work. I called them out and mentioned I was dissapointed. I dont want validation, I wanted feedback on my system rollout because its linked to my salary. I've stated this so we shall see.

@cindymarrero4472 3 года назад

i understand all of it, but how is it even allowed for people to be treated this way in jobs by a supervisor and yet shes not being fired instead they fire good employees .

@lincolnlane6763 2 года назад

Because of egos. Management always sticks together and they want to keep the power at all costs. When employees are good at what they do it makes them nervous and they don't want you to feel good about yourself because they have to feel/think that they're better than you

@kar3n35 3 года назад

I dont want validation i just want justice

@mercuriallimit Год назад

Recently I’ve been feeling like this due to there’s a new guy in the team that the boss seems to praise and this new dude is kind of very inconsiderated and know-it-all type where it impacts me that the boss is so busy that I’ve been denied of my ideas and concerns. I just found that I have not listened to “any” music for the past 4 days or even play a game to cool down. It the became very hard for me to let go of the negative thoughts which impacts many parts of my life

@slappy_chimp 3 года назад

:( like dude I've done the work of a sprint and a half... And they were like oops you missed a spot.. The spot was not supposed to be in the current sprint That’s sad

@Christisking1776 3 года назад

That will teach you to be proactive!

@icwhy4366 3 года назад

@@Christisking1776 bullshit, it wil teach you demotivation

@Christisking1776 3 года назад

@@icwhy4366 *Sarcasm*

@kawaii_princess_castle 2 месяца назад

Everybody needs it as it is a human need according to Maslow piramid of needs! Thank you so much! This is really helpful!

@RocketBiscuits 2 года назад

This is by far the best video that I have watched in a long long time. I needed this, so thank you for this.

@neutralmultiverse8589 Год назад

This was an amazing video. I started a part time job with a small textile business. I have been doing amazing work for them but the owner literally says nothing what so ever. She'll ask me to do something, i'll do it amazingly, then its off to the next project with absolutely no coments. At first it really messed me up because I thought I was doing everything right...working like a mad person, getting glowing remarks from her clients, and yet absolutely nothing from the boss. So instead of feeling sad and waiting around for her to tell me thank you, or anything like that, I started to validate myself, get better at what I do, and ultimately realize my worth! I'm realizing the pleasure is in getting the work done the best way I can with or without her validation. Now I'm getting better at what I do, feeling more confident and excited to eventually move on to a company where I can grow that will pay me more!!!

@NatalieFisher Год назад

Excellent! You are a very enlightened smart person! I'm glad you enjoyed the video. It's about finding the lesson in it so that it can benefit you! Most people would have complained and blamed the boss. Good for You! Celebrating you!

@neutralmultiverse8589 Год назад

@@NatalieFisher thank you so much!

@Joshow313 Год назад

After watching this video, I’ve realized that I’ve validated myself over the years and will have to leave the current firm.

@pankhudiseth Год назад

Natalie, I am pregnant and this has made me go on my mat leave satisfied. Thanks a tonne darling, you are doing good to the world

@NatalieFisher Год назад

Congrats on your baby! YESSS You deserve to go on your mat leave satisfied thanks for sharing! I just had a baby myself (well she's 9.5 months now) it will be so fun!

@Joshow313 Год назад

How do I tell my bosses that I want to feel validated without bawling my eyes out?

@randulltiller8997 Год назад

Wow, I have heard of people saying, “Intelligence is appealing .” But this is the first time I’ve actually thought, “She is so smart, it’s actually adding to her physical drawing power.” I am impressed at how smart she is.

@RohanPandhram 2 года назад

I came across this video bcz I had bad day at work, and had this same feeling of being undervalued. 😭 But now I want to thank u for making me change that 😊

@kudzaimarange1563 2 года назад

Me and you both

@cyberxshinobi5621 8 дней назад

Also found this video as well due to having a rough day at work. Funny how jobs are so fast to tell you what's wrong, but RARELY lets you know that you are doing a decent job.

@aidaedris9227 2 года назад

Thank you so much. I really needed this ⭐️

@MelindaLongoria 2 года назад

This is a great video. Thank you for sharing. I think this is a hot topic for remote work because a lot of it is unseen. Not feeling appreciated? That might never happen. Validate yourself and then reach out and validate others. That is actually more fulfilling. Help create a culture of grattitude.

@edmandell3064 4 месяца назад

Sometimes the employer will minimize your efforts while at the same time, advocate for slower moving average employees who spend more time talking than working. I handle it by leaving early and use my weekends for job search. Dont let them get to you.

@man.of.god. 2 года назад

I work really hard at Taco Casa but people still dont give me credit.

@mahmudkhan7873 6 месяцев назад

Good topic and well detailed. Thank you

@divinesoulsista5425 2 года назад

Thank you for this.

@skaterlover1999 2 года назад

What about being in an environment where most of the time the ONLY thing done is to point out your failures and NOT your successes? What about being somewhere where you are the ONLY person who did certain things that others couldn't do and there's a meeting, everyone is introduced except you?

@NatalieFisher 2 года назад

Why are you in this environment? I have a podcast about valuing yourself which may shed some light onto why you are there. nataliefisher.ca/how-much-you-value-yourself/ It talks about accepting a job but it also goes for staying in a job where you are treated a certain way and staying there. IT's like staying in a relationship where your needs are not aknowledged, you're always made to feel like crap, why would you stay?

@yui1564 2 года назад

Interesting. I give my self validation but my work does not acknowledge my contribution. They tend to downplay it and often attribute success to someone else. I created an awesome PowerPoint and invited colleague to deliver presentation since we are teammates. The managers praised her for creating it. Then it became awkward when they realized I was the one to be given credit. Another situation where I brainstormed and helped someone come up with a concept. The project ended up being funded and my contribution downplayed to identifying the title. I know my value and pat myself on the back. I am frustrated by being overlooked all the time.

@lusciousphilippa 2 года назад

Many people are credit stealers and not humble. When I hear what you say, I think to myself, rise higher in this or another organization. Get you credentials and then you can the boss.

@MikosMiko Год назад

Part of giving yourself validation is knowing your worth and finding either a new team or new job if your current environment is not healthy🤷🏾

@zlatar2120 2 года назад

Thank you so much 🙏🏻😊

@howardc7820 2 года назад

The thing is, the company doesn't deserve my hard work.

@Dr.Faustus94 6 месяцев назад

I dont crave it but itd be nice and its nicer then constant complaints when im already doing the work of 3 ppl

@iMaGiNaTiOnWpAsSiOn Год назад

What about when the owner and boss of your company acknowledge everyone else BUT you? I’m talking about giving raises, personal emails and phone calls saying we appreciate you, etc. Yet, no raise for me, no phone call or supportive email, no acknowledgment, etc.

@latabhagwat4382 Год назад

I am currently going through it...People in my team take my work but not at all recognizing..instead,politics and influence is working in company and others are getting recognized bcz of influence..this is really demotivating me and i am getting depressed..still I am doing my job just bcz i don't have anyother option to earn for my bread..

@Emilyghe 3 года назад

Yes that’s what one of the big four firms do

@nurdidipu 10 месяцев назад

What you say is totally related to me 😂😂😂 thank you so much, blessed found this channel ✨👍👍🥰

@hawaii9197 3 года назад

Thankyou for this :)

@NatalieFisher 3 года назад

You're welcome 😊

@purinlee521 3 года назад

This video is just what I needed. Thank you so much!!

@NatalieFisher 3 года назад

You're so welcome!

@user-kj7xm5bv9v 3 года назад

thank you. "I am awesome." :D

@NatalieFisher 3 года назад

Yes you are!

@KaVi2023 3 года назад

@theninetofivecure on insta 🙌🏻

@chanslittlestay4686 4 года назад

I wanna say, thankyou ☆

@NatalieFisher 4 года назад

You're so welcome :D

@KaVi2023 3 года назад

@theninetofivecure on insta 🙌🏻

@shubu_ki_masti1419 3 года назад

I thought, I am working good and my team is liking it too. But today my manager told me that he noticed my work below average. It broke me...🥺 Guess, I should switch 🙄. But I m a fresher.

@NatalieFisher 3 года назад

well first I'd just ask for more specific feedback, what specifically was below average? Then you can decide if you agree or not.

@horrorbiz72 Год назад

HR answer

@jaceymartin4739 3 года назад

It is obvious that I watch this video because I feel worthless. I have been teaching online for a school and I not received feedback. Zero. nothing, Goose-egg. In fact, all get a list of demands. It been half a year and I am 2000 miles away from them. I take the time for the students to Zoom with me so I I don't want the excuse that I am not nearby. I am expected to give detailed feedback when I mark my students' work and expected to write long reports about their progress. Also, when they schedule a Zoom staff meeting and then cancel it last minute, is uncalled for. (Unless something happened right before) But, hey, "There is not much to talk about" in an email five minutes before the meeting is uncalled for.

@sandhyasandhya8945 2 года назад

Don't worry ma'am/sir!! Whoever you are I believe that you are a great teacher and trust me one day everyone will notice your hardwork and you'll be appreciated for your efforts. Keep doing it.. don't give up.. ❤️😀

@jaceymartin4739 2 года назад

@@sandhyasandhya8945 Awh, thank you for kind words. You lifted my spirits.

@daleru14 11 дней назад

Teaching is brutal

@letishaboyde9793 3 года назад

U get used to the fact that ur expandable and theirl take all the thanks for ur good work while ur thrown back in the corner till ur needed again

@intuitivevibes1818 2 года назад

Your video didn't help me at all. I don't feel any relief. I did much more than the other person in work and she got praised + promoted / higher position and is getting advantages. When I did my best she always outshined me. I am exhausted and demotivated.