WHEN YOU FEEL WORTHLESS - Jordan Peterson (Best Motivational Speech) 

Can you please tell me where the first part is taken from? thanks

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the thumbnail is too funny.

You have no clue how powerful and amazing you are. I don’t know you and I probably will never know you but I know that god created us in his image and he was perfect. Find that one thing that is worth holding on to and living for and hold onto it with everything you got brother. One day you will wake up and look in that mirror and you will see that one thing worth living for and fighting for is you.

@@ShadzVibez you have no idea how much I needed to hear that today man. Thank you. God bless

@@michaelridenbark9946and you too my friend. I am dealing with so much and reading your message and giving you that advice helped me out. In that way we both helped each other. You never know the value you hold or the power of influence you have without even knowing it.

I hear you, maybe we need to have children so we can show our love again, give us responsibility and purpose, keep our minds forever stimulated with love and care, keep us in a happy place, i hope this is the answer, ive felt very uneasy anf worthless for far too long, i must feel this void, i hope we all do, my new quest is to find a women thag shares these same wants and create a family, i will carefully pick her as i dont want a divorce for my children like i had. I wish you all well.

Women will still act like they don't need you even if they do. Stay strong.

Hugs❤❤❤❤

@@erinvela1555 ❤🙏💪

Me too. It’s only been 31 years for me though.

I hear you

I understand ur feelings and i feel the same. But that's not the truth. U matter pal. If ppl can't realize that, it's their loss. Prioritize people who appreciate ur value.

I truly get it, I was in this rut too and I was able to navigate out. And I'm a woman, my dear, so God help the fellas going through this constant existential crisis. In this period I was suffering emotionally because I felt forgotten. I felt that all my life experience was no longer needed. I realised I was keeping myself hostage to a past identity that no longer served me. Those of us born pre-1998 would know what I'm talking about. Pre-social media and pre-Facebook, there was a process in becoming someone, be it in your career, your friendships, relationships, goals, aspirations, and especially making genuine human contact. In 2024 it's like the twilight zone, ha ha! Nothing is as it was. It's like waking up from a 25-year coma and realizing that just like Dorothy, 'You're not in Kanzas anymore.' We live in an era where we attain rewards and material wealth from the touch of a phone screen. It's incredible that this message is crossing continents! Holy Nut Balls Batman, that's incredible. If you're 40 in 2024 means you were born 1984, in which opportunities that had framed your life were far more 'predictable' and was at a given pace. In 2024, we have resources to attain stuff but we are in drought of emotional and spiritual love. Which means you have to appreciate and value your self-worth first. Make regular contact with someone who needs you, a pet, a relative, a neighbour. Create a means where your love and presence is needed. My point being, be kinder to yourself above all else. You are not a failure, you never were. You have to let go of who you thought you should be and start a new lease of life where you are now. Do not be complacent. The technological advancements and science have vamped up the speed and pace of life. Which means generations prior are in constant angst catching up. Things like 'Instagram', see that as as a tool box, not a life source. The laws of physics and pychology will still apply to the physical world. Mr, life has not cheated you, You have not missed the boat. You may simply feel lost at times, and that's okay. If you want to survive this life you must take the reins. You must intentially disrupt your thinking with a higher frequency. Therapy is fantastic. You can't dwell on your grief forever. You're too gorgeous for that. It's pointless. Instead, practice the art of small talk with people who seem approachable. Be friends with your barber. Practice good discernment, recognise social cues, body language, and take a gamble when opportunity strikes for convesation. Compliment a girl on her shoes. You need mentors, good ones, engage in free seminars in real life, not online. If you work online, go to a poular coffee store at an appropriate time where ppl mostly attend (ie. alignment). You got to be a familiar face to people. Be kind, sincere, practice gratitude. Wear clothes that are clean and welcoming. Hello Target! I've gone off tangent, I'm so sorry. My point is, it's hard work, but discipline, consistency, and alignment is key. You got this. You got to believe windows of hope exist and will open for you. Nothing of value comes to you for free. Get used to rejection, but never lose your integrity. It's never too late, son. Toodles on the noodles, señor.

49 here. I haven't gone a day without feeling worthless my entire life. Even after I got sober last year, the intrusive thoughts are still constant.

Oh no, a latina that follows god..... We have so much to learn here!

Wish I could say the same

You say self-worth is about control in your life. I always dreamed of sharing my life with that special someone since I turned 22. After 17 years of struggling to even find one person interested in me, I find that I have no control therefore no self-worth to overcome that. I can't force someone to like me and just as so there's very little I can do to "learn" why someone doesn't like me since there's no logical reason why and each time I think I figured it out, I find that I fail for some other reason. Overall I have no control and therefore no self-worth. Assuming I am able to "figure out" what I did wrong, I'll be a middle age man and whoever I find I'll have to figure out things others did in their 20s and then I'll be in my 50s trying to resolve whatever it is. By then, if I fail, I'll be old, lonely and miserable and hopefully the end will come quick. Personally I plan to pig out at the age of 50. That way I eat well and know that whatever problems come with it will mean I'll get a heart attack and since no one will be around I know it'll be over quickly.

Dear Dan, This life is a miracle filled with infinite mysteries. The only way to cope with this situation is to reduce the suffering through believing everything is a miracle instead of nothing being a miracle. You can achieve your full potential and find your divine partner through imitating the qualities you like in someone and someone will come matching those qualities. I wish you healing and so much peace.

You got this keep fighting no one is alone

Keep trying, don't give up. I feel so bad about your pain, I wish I could take it from you.

@@djdhfdjnvlskm Thank you! You are very kind!♥️

I wish you all the best.

If I was you I would not trust Peterson bc I found out he actually shaves his butthole...which is highly immoral.

Wishing you all the best julie🎉

Are you saying we should never intervene in any conscious beings struggle? I love you too.

Dear God above, what an analogy makes sense in every way. Thank you for sharing.

@@donaldmack2307 it depends on the context.

@@raewynurwin4256 I wanna believe in a God but for some reason I haven't been able to grow up or even as an adult get through to God. I begged and begged and cried out to God as a child while getting beaten, mentally shattered, scared, sxually assaulted, had no one in my life and even today, I keep losing and losing and now I have an existential crisis. I grew up realizing that I would only be able to live and survive. I never got the opportunity to live my childhood in a way that allowed me to grow intona strong butterfly because I was shriveled up and couldn't spread my wings to fly like the butterfly in this story. I was robbed for 25 years of any possibility of success or even being able to live a good life enough to work towards helping those in need but even then with my heart in the right place, I keep failing. Jobs take from me like my last one that forced me to somehow spend 35k dollars to be able to work but because I was good at delivering mail, the bashed me and threatened me that if I didn't somehow get a vehicle to deliver mail, I would be terminated and I told them I couldn't afford it but the still forced my hands because I needed the job as it was the only one that hired me. Needless to say, I was only given one day to find a vehicle and report back the next day but I needed to register my vehicle and take it to a repair shop but because they were pretty racist towards me (because I'm white), I was threatened for calling in the next day for a repair and registration of the vehicle. In total I spent 35k dollars in the job and when I went to quit because I couldn't handle the awful and hostile work environment, they asked me how will I pay my bills and my work vehicle without a job? I knew then and there that they purposefully did everything they did to break me mentally like work me 2 months straight with no days off and lie on the paperwork so well that with my evidence, they would side with management. They manipulated my financial status to force me to work and work and they tired me out knowing I would have the energy to spend time dissecting their evil plan and what makes this worse is that I was with an abusive and manipulated girlfriend who used my exhaustion to her advantage. She called me few times just to cry about her financial situation and she guilt tripped me until I broke everytime and sent her money. She took about 20k dollars from me knowing I needed that money to fix my debt and she would spend more time with her guy friends and call me afterwards just to brag about how good they treat her and how awful I am for not being a good bf and how It didn't matter the good things i did for her and how i always whine about everything when i can't even get a single word in until she would cut me off and start a whole different topic when i wanted to vent to her about work and family. She, the postal service and my family did me so dirty despite not ever being awful, mean or hateful towards anyone and when I cried out to God it seemed like he turned a blind eye. So if God was real it would let me know that he or she only caters to the privileged and the people who didnt suffer mental trauma because of their past. I don't have hope or love anymore...

@@vaporwingfauxmcloud1190 this reminds me of Jobs story. God was really prideful of Job and even showed the devil what a great guy Job is. The devil said the only reason Job is happy and praising is because god gave him everything. So god said nuh-uh and killed his wives, workers, burned his business to the ground and even gave him diseases and rashes. The devil finally left and god have everything back to job for being so obedient. I wonder what Job felt like when he learned of the reason for his pain and suffering? What about his wives and workers who had nothing to do with anything? Would Job just be laughing and chilling in heaven with god knowing that he was just the butt end of a childish argument? I wonder how often in our lives were we the result of gods childish argument? Do we have a choice in the afterlife not to obey or even accept gods “gifts” for us? If god is this childish when we’re mortals imagine what sort of hell “heaven” awaits us ?

I hope you're okay man, God is with you, and the fact you watched this shows something inside you wants to change, please listen to it, God bless friend

@@soundjip6195 I guess the problem is regardless of what sort of rationale I use to explain my situation my situation still exists. Sometimes I make little progress and convince myself that all is okay and perhaps there is a grand plan as to why I am single but then somehow it all comes back 10x harder than before. I fear that one day it will hit too hard and I won't be able to come back. I don't want to try anymore in fear that I might get hurt too much again and that time it'll be the last time for me and I decide to end it.

Please get help Dan. And try to focus on other things in your life that you care about rather than the relationship you don’t have. God bless you 🙏

Not necessarily...not everyone is meant to be with a partner, sometimes God needs you on your own cause thats the pure value you are giving to the world without someone else blurring your beauty.

​@@Dan-di9jd look up boy, you are special and beautiful and unique and there is no one else like you. Know your beauty and worth because when you find that within yourself, others will find it in you too! I pray God shows you how much your beauty is worth to Him cause once you know that, there is no higher point you need to aim. ❤❤

U don’t have to reply, were u abused as a child? There is one commonality that is prevalent in hardcore drug addicts and alcoholics. Childhood abuse

He definitely was He probably won't admit it, but if course he was abused It's like, who cares if they're narcissistic Damon? These kids need to find their own gym Yeah someone abused the hell outta that kid

He is definitely toxic Thank you for pointing this out, I thought it was just me noticing it. But yeah it's odd. He's so toxic, and condescending

@@ltracy100 hi, thanks for your comment and thanks for sharing that about yourself. It's a very interesting point you make and I suppose that's wisdom. But I think JP defines what your struggle within yourself should be. That is: focus on objective reality problems and be of practical use, so you can be of service to others and don't have to become malevolent. Which I agree with, but if you focus too much on objective results and less on how you make others feel, you'll work harder, contribute more than others, but people still don't feel at ease with you. You might not feel loved as much as you feel depended upon.

Thats the kind of people he is exactly talking to. The ones who cant fit in anywhere, the ones that are ignored. The ones that are doubting whether their life is even worth living.

Maybe try church…

@@jaredkyle5987 how on earth is some guy flapping at the lip reading from a book and asking me for a dollar going to help. I honestly don’t care what God thinks about this. It’s an egregious waste of resources I don’t have.

​@@TechnicallyaddictedI understand how you feel. Jesus is the only thing keeping me going. I'm 42 .

Even Jesus said we’re worthless and unworthy of the afterlife with god so how much value would god put on those living life?

@@Dan-di9jd Where did he say that?

@@susanc4622 Matthew 22. God said the kingdom of heaven is not for everyone and those who are invited are not worthy of entering. That means god already choose who to enter heaven and unless you’re invited and deemed worthy of it your life will not be blessed by god and that is why you’re suffering and feel trapped as a way for god to tell you that you’re not invited.

Of course you can change Leave your family behind. Quit your job. Move north and take up pottery

@@backfru You had me until you got to the “take up pottery” bit.

You learned something in that failure, so you apply that to the next time and then the next etc until you achieve what is meant to be yours. You got this! And you’re allowed to fail. Quitting is true failure, not the lessons in falling down

@@blessed-are-the-broken7068 ❤️

Congratulations for your trying!!! I believe in you and on your greatness keep going !!!

Sasquatch

Can't he?

Because fxck yall