I don't know about death threats, but you can understand how upset this guy must be to be engaged to a woman, and she goes behind your back and sleeps with a good friend of yours. That's just evil. Even if she was "unhappy."
I actually feel bad for Paul. His death threats were over the top, I agree, but I would be incredibly angry if my long term boyfriend left me for my best friend. But what goes around comes around; Brandon and Nicole will see their karma. Meanwhile, I hope Paul finds a better girl. He's a good looking, articulate guy who unfortunately got screwed over. I wish him well.
DusTy Dogg Yeah, I felt like the judge was a bit too hard on Paul. I don't blame her for lecturing him about the crazy threats but she didn't seem to really understand the pain and anger he was going through that caused him to respond irrationally. Odd because Judge Pirro is normally pretty compassionate.
Alicia Engel how about if your bf called u to tell u what he had done then recorded your angry reaction and used that to play the victim and portray you as a psycho ex to sue u when you hadnt even had time to process and deal with the info yet i have been there when some finds out they were cheated on by someone they truly love and from what i saw i wouldnt wish it on anyone it was as if someone had just died and in their rollercoaster of emotions many stupid stuff was said not one was followed through with to my knowledge the girl in this vid was very callous not for leaving him or not loving him but for how she left i would expect some bad reaction if i did what she did
Alicia Engel Well, there's no excuse for death threats. I was a little bit shocked by the case because it's nearly a copy pasta of what happened to me a few years ago, but still i didn't go and issues death threats to people.
Brandon Keath haven't spoke to one of my closest friends for 6 years. He came on to my girlfriend (now my wife) at a club. She told me instantly and left to come back with me. He then started messaging her and she was showing me the whole time. He tried to deny it then tried to blame others that were out with us, then tried to blame her. He never admitted wrong doing even though he was caught out in black and white thru messages. Some ppl are just born cunts
I dated a girl for six and a half years. Six months after we broke up i found out she had been cheating on me for the past four years. Now that i look back i can see it. She always accused me of cheating when i never did. She just assumed i was out doing what she was doing.
I mean, even though the dude threatened to kill her I like that Pirro didn't make him feel like human garbage and acknowledged his emotional strain and suffering and the pump up speech.. I think he learned something valuable from the person he least expected.
I'm glad, too, that she recognized the emotional distress he was under and that it was a bad moment in time for him. If he continued to make these threats later, then I'd be concerned.
6:30 I fucking hate when women do this. If someone forces you to have sex that is RAPE. PERIOD. If someone is "pressuring" you to have sex against your will, why submit if you don't want to? To accuse someone of rape when it was NOT rape is a really horrible thing to do.
Eric Taylor Because society and the courts have created a "no fault, no responsibility" situation for women. I agree I strongly believe women, if found guilty of falsely accusing someone of rape, should be hand a punishment equal to rape. These cunts that file false charges, need to start reaping what they sew.
pufabs Where do you draw the line at "falsely accused?" Would the woman automatically be charged if the guy is acquitted? I have heard of many cases where the woman accuses the wrong person of rape, if when the woman believes with every fiber of her being that the one accused was guilty. I heard of one case where a guy was arrested for rape. The woman gave a perfect description of him and even pointed him out in a line up. There was NO QUESTION she had been raped, but the guy who was accused literally had thousands of witnesses that he was not guilty. It the very moment the attack to place he was being interview on live TV. I think there should be consequences for women who change their mind after the fact, but we need to be careful not to discourage anyone from reporting a rape when they do happen.
Eric Taylor Thank you showing exactly why we have the problem with false charges, that we do today. You immediately took the stance that the system must protect women. You completely disregard the fact that hundreds of men have their lives ruined by low life women seeking revenge. Look up the story of "Brian Banks"......who was a top football recruit and who severed 10 years in jail. The only reason he got out was because the women came to the police and admitted she made up the rape charge. She received over 2 millions dollars via support from the state and Brian. He spent 10 years in jail and missed the chance to play pro football..........please stop with the sob stories of women being raped, as there are hundreds of men that have their lives ruined by women who are allowed to file false charges with NO repercussions.
Eric Taylor The line is simply.....if charges are filed and it proven to be false, the women is charged with false charges. The burden of proof is on the victim in this country, as everyone is innocent until PROVEN guilty.
I have absolutely no sympathy for Nicole. Real women don't cheat on a man with his friend and they certainly don't go to his house after breaking up with him to take a shower and make these ridiculous allegations that he "pressured her" into having sex with him. He didn't pressure her into anything. She knew exactly what she was doing when she went to his house and she also knew what his reaction was going to be when she called him and told him she was having an affair with his friend. And the good judge is right...Paul deserves MUCH better than her. She has no integrity, no remorse and she is not worthy of being called a woman. Shame on her.
He shouldn't have threatened to kill them, if he wanted to kill himself that would be kinda understandable within reason. But I agree. She is a bitch and shouldn't have ever did what she did either.
+Tami Nichole no one gets highfives or drinks for haveing sex...thats just some made up feminazi bs... the only place you will ever see ppl give a crap about other`s sex life is in the early teen years and thats only because it`s new to them...
dkzbeier Feminazi? Well that doesn't apply to what I am saying because unlike you I am my own person with my own idea's I would appreciate to not have my own thoughts be grouped in a category because of the gender you think your seeing in my picture. Non than less I disagree, people like the idea of other sex life's very often and I'm aware those observations applys to all ages in quite are accurate in most cases. But, you can believe that. (:
Tami Nichole i never talked about your gender at all... in fact did i say "no one gets highfives or drinks for haveing sex" as in regardless of gender does no one care how much/little sex a person have. also i have never heard anyone getting rewarded for cheating on a other person as most ppl find that a pretty shitty thing to do and it would have a higher chance at ending in loseing friends rather than highfives and drinks .
I really don't see why people cheat on other people. it's really confusing to me. I would never cheat on someone, but that's because I know how it feels to be cheated on and I would never want someone to feel that pain.
Shes needs to quit bashing him for wanting to kill himself or them. Adrenaline gets to pumpin' and shit like that slips out the mouth. Its happened to me, I have bad cases of anxiety. This could be his case.
ind0ctr1n3 according to the laws it is not a crime - it's pissing as hell i agree with you - but according to the laws that holds something in court - he would have being sent to jail and she wouldn't
Asylum Seventh It's your responsibility as an adult to control your emotions. If you revert to behaving like an immature child every time your glands are pumping out adrenaline, then you should seek help. Death threats are not acceptable in a civilised society, and your emotions are no excuse for behaving in an uncivilised manner.
He's not insane, but acts of passion are things that happen on short notice with no premeditation a lot of grief has built up in this guy and he reached a snapping point (thank God he didn't carry out his plans) he was way out of line with and as pirro pointed out she was also out of line for toying around with another guy, have some class people and end something with honor before whoring around, ironically none of this would have happened if it did
I love how JP is very clear on what's a rape claim and what's not and to be very careful. I work with people who would take the one word "pressured" and run away with it and convict him of murder.
Really? Then how come she mixes the past and present? @9:45 she asks about the pregnancy test. The guy doesnt even gets a chance to answer, but when he does, she talks utter bullshit
@@ribendende She didn’t mix up anything. She, the judge, got the only info she needed to hear. When you talk to a judge they listen for certain things that you say and then they will ask follow up questions for the clarification of the statement.
I like the way Judge P handles things. She's got attitude, like Judge Judy but she isn't rude about it, unlike Judge J(R)udy. The girl in this case, she says "he pressured me to have sex" Judge P corrects her and advises the proper way to say it. I appreciate the way she did that. I know where the girl is coming from. He said he'd leave her alone if she just "screw me one last time" (my words not his... I've been there had a break up happen like that with those words) I'm not saying the girl is right but I know why she did it.
I've been there too, he just went on & on & on about one last time (he thought this would change my mind) so after awhile I threw my hands up said fine, I went back threw myself on the bed & threw my robe open & told him to fucking hurry up & get it done....lol... he left immediately calling me all kinds of names as I closed the door behind him & went on with my life which was so much happier.
"You shouldn't build your happiness on the misery of others." Betrayal is such a horror to deal with. She just saw green pastures elsewhere. And one thing her new boyfriend should take into consideration. If she does this to Paul does he think she'll be faithful to him? Weither he admits it or not that will always be in the back of his mind. That she might do it again. Or he might. He took his friend's girlfriend. And helping him buy a gun after he threatened to kill them? Just Wow.
There would have been a loud gasp. There would have been something. If someone threatens to kill someone else there is a reaction there. It doesn't matter if you're a girl, a man, a woman, a boy, or a pineapple pizza. A death threat is a death threat. That is extremely sexist and disgusting you would even say that. Either way, there would be a reaction.
William Seward well compare this case to the other case where the girl stabbed a guy with a pumpkin knife I heard a bunch of people laughing. Equality am I right??
Never understood how you could get with someone that's in a relationship. If theyd cheat on their boo like that, what makes you think they wont do the same to you
Why would anyone, man or woman cheat on someone that loves them? On the other hand, what makes a person think that if someone cheats on one person they won't cheat on you? He shouldn't have threatened to kill or commit suicide, but for crying out loud, why do people cheat and hurt others? I'd prefer to stay single than have someone that doesn't really love me in my life. No matter what your age is, you can always get hurt, especially by someone that cheats.
I've studied people and by no means am I defending the action, but initially, people do not (for the most part) think "Oh, I'm going to cheat on them!" Something must happen and or adds up to that point that makes them feel like cheating is an option. It is an act of cowardice to move on and fear to let go.
Glen Warner I definitely believe what you say is true. I have seen people cheat because that is just the way they roll, a power kind of thing. I agree with you cheating is a act of cowardice.
People wonder why I could care less about relationships.. its because there is nothing to look forward in it anymore. No one holds their end of the promises, you can never truly trust the person you're with.. Its frustrating.
The girlfriend seemed very manipulative and it’s as if she provoked Paul to have that anger episode. She totally played him and he had a breaking point. I feel bad for him and the judge was very cold towards him.
I'm so confused !! She known him 5yrs dated him for 3yr they were engaged & she cheats on him not witha stranger but his FRIEND the sues him because he said something out of hurt & anger ? I agree he shouldn't have said that but when you're hurt & upset you say all kinds of things . There are thousands of couples who go through a ruff patch or break up & say things like " i'll kill you / i'll fuck you up / i'll cut you / i'll kill the person you cheated with " it doesn't make it ok but when you actually care for someone & they knowingly deceive you , your going to be speaking from a hurt place
+marie-louise Belanger your situation is a little different considering you were stalked & his threats were over the phone . Doesn't make it acceptable in his case but he did not go to the extreme of stalking
Nobody deserves to have games played with their heart. its dirty to mess with a friend of the person you are supposed to be with. it doesn't excuse his threats to them or himself. Emotional sabotage isn't fair to do to anyone. if too have to threaten others or yourself it isn't love and you can't force someone to love you or be faithful.defendant was so wrong in his actions but I do feel bad that he was hurry by her games. he's better than this. Someone like her sure aren't worth losing your freedom not causing harm to yourself or others that can't be taken back. one that cheats to be together are already starting a relationship in the negative as there won't be any trust between them
Me, my sis and mother have seen so many threats from.......**** .the entire time growing up..that it had an impact on our personalities and lives..i admire that the laws outside are so strict.....wished that the same would have here in our country also
I feel bad for the defendant... I agree that making death threats wasn't the smartest thing to do, but i understand his pain... Don't you worry brother, karma wil bite that bitch in the ass one day...
I remember seeing that video, of him threatening her. It went viral. Now that I know the rest of the story, and sometimes there IS a rest of the story, I am disgusted with her. I hope like heck that man sought therapy for the emotional abuse he endured, at her hands. I also hope she took Judge Pirro's words to heart, and changed her ways.
@LegendaryKenchi It was the recording that she made of him threatening her. I don't know the title of the recording. I just remember seeing the video and recording. I was upset that he would make those kinds of threats, until I saw what she did to him.
I cried when he said that he still loved her I feel this young mans pain....but as a mother if that was my son and a girl did that to him SHE BETTER BE WORRIED ABOUT ME NOT MYS SON!!
By far my favorite judge on television and I'm so glad she posts these episodes online for me to watch since I no longer get cable. Judge Pirro - thank you for saying all the things that I think when I watch other shows, wondering "Why doesn't Judge Joe Brown ask THAT?!"
My daughter played 2 guys and I was upset that she would do this so since Robert showed up from Columbus and she had been with Brian, I told her to pack her things that this kind of game could get her killed. I told her to go back with Robert since she had him come to NC. She brought the cops in which was fine and I explained to the cops what game she was playing. They were courteous and just stood there until she got her things. After they left, she came back by herself and said, mom, can I have the lunchmeat and bread?' I said of course (kindly) and I did explain to her when I told her to pack her things, it was for her protection. Robert did love her but to involve 2 guys and play is not a good thing to do so girls be careful out there, this can back fire and some one will get hurt! Later, she and Robert split but she would bully him to tears. She did all her guys like that even her sheriff boyfriend and I told him 'why do you put up with her?' and he said 'she's your daughter' and I said 'and she's your girlfriend'. When I visited, I couldn't pack fast enough and get the hell out as I could hear her scream at him how much she hated him. Yes, he did go out on her; he didn't deny it in front of me but PLEASE.... go on with your life.
It's strange, I can empathize with both. He obviously got low, and definitely needs help. On the other hand, I can see how being in a relationship with him would be taxing for her. Now obviously she could've broken up first, but if I can feel pity for him just from this video, she possibly could've felt that tenfold.
jawilson2405 Infatuation could be close to obsession, but no, love is not, though they are easily confused. Obsession is unhealthy, becomes suffocating, and has a lot of destructive potential.
Scarlet wings water has a lot of destructive potential, that doesn't mean it isn't essential. The essential is often destructive at high quantities. Obsession isn't any different.
jawilson2405 Maybe i should have been a little clearer. Obsession *is* destructive. Obsession is the unhealthy high quantity if it is indeed real obsession.
Please God. Don't let someone allow him go buy a gun. He'll ruin it for every sane person wanting to have their own for protection from people like him
I just commented this above: he is a ticking time bomb. He will hurt someone. He is the type of person who would shoot up a place. He needs help. He is not stable. On that note, I fully agree with you! I can guarantee he had a plan and fantasized about it! And I'm worried, he sill has that plan! This guy is a maniac! Scary!
LMAO, so we can use Emotional Distress and Words to make sure no woman can own a Gun? You do realize for every ONE guy like this you make sure cant get a gun, using the SAME Criteria 10-15 Women cant own guns. Still want to do this? I can find 1,000s of videos of Crazy Woman making threats for Less Reason. Can you do the same for Guys? Of course not because guys are NOT ENABLED to Threaten Woman unless in extreme privacy, but Woman threaten Men all the time in PUBLIC. So, if you want to use this guy to disarm more woman, feel free. BUT you might want to think long and hard about the situation as it applies to ALL. Think about it, what if he instead of flying off the handle, was Subversive. Got her Crazy and recorded her. Now that she cannot get a Gun (thanks to you), and he Can, it makes it even easier to kill her if he wants. Or better yet, imagine a word, where all people do is try to piss you off so you act out, and then take away your rights.
I am so OVER people thinking they can threaten somebody into staying with with them. She was wrong for cheating yes, feel sad for 6mths then get over it, your only 19! How long did he think his marriage would've last at that age anyway.
+Jenn Terry I agree, he should've wished the newborn couple a lot of luck, and he should've been thankful. for goats sake, The guy just got cheated on, give him a break, the death threat was harmless as far as i can tell .. just a pissed of mind
Agreed, his death threats were unjustified and "over the top", however (in my opinion) Adultery is one the worsts ethical offense that you can do someone and is morally equivalent to murder.
No. A death threat is never harmless. You could say I want you two to burn in hell, but not that you’ll kill them. A death threat is always serious because you don’t know if the people who’s making it is dead serious or not.
judge pirro is apparently a robot that doesn't understand that human emotion can lead to people to say really scary things in the heat of the moment I mean, she flip flops after, but only briefly, and she acts like it was his usual state to threaten people.
TheCheezWizz Wow you are a really insensitive person. Why would you call me autistic, which some people legitimately suffer from just because I know for a fact that when people start threatening the lives of other people, it isn't because of a emotional state, it is a result of a mental disorder caused by something prior or a chemical imbalance in their brain. The problem is, he went into deep description on how he wanted to murder someone else, that is not a emotional state. A emotional state involves someone going: "FUCK YOU I AM GOING TO KILL YOU!" and that is it; he went into description of how he wanted to make her watch him kill her boyfriend which shows he thought about it. That is not a emotional state at all. Also: You are saying it to me like you expect me to be a pathetic scumbag like you and this guy here, a person who will let emotions control them and possibly put them in jail. No, I don't let my emotions rule over me and my life has reached lows and even highs. I hope one day, you stop acting like a immature pissant and grow up to actually act like a human being. Who the fuck uses Autism as a insult anyways you asshole. This guy clearly needs mental help or he could end up in jail for doing something horrible to other people and maybe you need some help too.
I feel for Paul. He was really emotionally distressed. She would have handled it properly. Cheating on your bf cos you're tired of him is never a way out. She would have done it maturely. I know her relationship won't last with this new guy.
The poor guy. As everyone else is saying, what he said was over the top- but his emotions behind it were warranted. I’m so glad to see an unbiased and rational judge who can see that she brought this drama on herself. Onto the next case!!!
look, I get that he was upset. My best friend ran off with my boyfriend when I was 19 and it hurt. But jesus christ! Those threats are scary as fuck. This guy is a time bomb. In case you're interested, here is what happened with my boyfriend and best friend: I disowned them. They lasted a month. That best friend is now a lesbian (ironically) and a cashier. The boyfriend gained 200 lbs. I have a masters in IT and make six figures. Let the shitty ones go, people.
why do people sue for "emotional distress" if judges just say "well, you'll get stressed a lot in life, get over it" I mean, does that concept even exist in the law, and if yes why, because any judge can just say "fuck off"
Okay, so a lot of people are defending the guy who got cheated on. This saddens me immensely! "Oh, but he was in love with her! Love should triumph in this case", love don't mean jack SHIT in the court of law...! Secondly, Boy does Judge Pirro really fuck up. 6:46 "When you say a guy pressures you, it's considered rape. This is not a case of rape" 10:33 "He was pressuring you to have sex" Okay Pirro... I respect you but I mean come on!!
I don't think Judge Pirro understands what can go through a mans mind when your first real 'love' does this to you, my ex of 3 years did something very similar, and I spent the next 6-10 months with a very broken mind, my sense of reality was warped to a point where I couldn't function like a normal human anymore. I myself threatened my ex's new partner with murder out of pure hate and rage, even though I wouldn't have gone through with it, I did a lot of things that I would have considered insane and horrible, things I would never ever do, things I would be disgusted with before it all went down. What this woman did to me was down right cruel and it really fucks with your head, I tried to kill myself as a result my mind was so twisted and my heart being broken. To this day I am still a broken man, my new partner has to suffer my damages too. Sometimes I get really bad as if I feel it's all going to happen again, I get very nasty to my partner and often call her names and say things that have to do with the way of female nature, and I know it upsets her. and when Pirro said 'Just get over it" I felt personally attacked. That's like telling a man with no legs to do a marathon. When a man falls in love he does just that, it's taken me over 2 years to get over her and I still get 'triggered' sometimes and still cry over her. It's not easy being heartbroken and it is something that will affect me for the rest of my life.
I was incredibly upset....wtf? Upset? That's someone ALL women need to stay the hell away from! No matter what he seems like when you meet him, if he can say that, he can do that. Wow, that's a twisted person!
She has had her fun, now see how she shames him, goes out with his best friend, almost sadistically breaks him down emotionally and then systematically destroys his reputation.
